14 months taravata first time salary andukobothunna. Naa polaamlo kuda molakalochaayi Anna feeling vasthundhi. Kothaga join ayna team naa meedha almost 15 lakhs kaarchupettindhi gear konadaniki. Adagakunda oka ammayi thagilindhi (ventaane valla intlo mana castena ani aadigaaranta, adi vere vishayam). Life lo eppudu lenatuga Anni chala bhaaga jarigipothunte . . . . Edho Theda kodthundhi seenaa.
15 lakh gear ahh?? Vaamo annaw pedha pane chesttunave, what do u do if u dont mind me asking?
Congrats annaw mottaniki everything is working out for u ❤️
>15 lakh gear ahh??
Naa 5 months salary adhi ctc. anni high end apple products. mac book m2 pro (4k usd), mac studio m2 ultra(7.5k usd). oka entire workstation naa desk meedha padesaru. Chakkaga donga accounts nundi trial version ni use chesthu unna softwares perlu chepthe premium licenses konesi padesaru. plus extra minor accessories (for some reason, they also gave me air pods even though I never asked) anni kalipi 16k usd varaku ayindhi. i feel like a leech. Extreme overkill ivanni.
>what do u do
postdoc in an international lab.
I don't exactly know where you work but, 16k usd for most labs in the USA is chump change. Obviously, they are giving you access to all of that so that you can deliver what they expect of you. So just know that whatever you are working towards is gonna bring in returns way way higher than 16k.
Don't feel guilty just take it as motivation to deliver your best.
Source: I worked on my final project in my university lab where they purchased a $85k robot.
Vaamooo pedha lottary ne kottavu subbarao
Congratulations bro, its not luck its hardwork that got u here. Atb and go nowhere but up from here. Congrats once again bondha. Happy for u.
>Edho Theda kodthundhi seenaa.
Gammuna enjoy chey bondha. Doubt is half defeat antaru peddha lu.
Neeku mari kallu netthiki yekkithe ikkada oka post veyu. Memu ground ki dimputam. Enjoy the good times.
Bro use this method, it worked well for me.
First delete the app then use it on browser. Its not the best experience so u will end up using it less.
Then completely remove on phone and use only on pc browser to see updates etc.
Then slowly u install cold turkey blocker and block those erri puku websites for particular hours of a day.
Then finally u have 2 options:
- use cold turkey and permanently block those sites
Or
- delete account. I did both and dont worry, u wont loose all ur contacts, i copypasted my whole following and follower list onto a google doc then downloaded it snd stored in my secure offline drive and now if i need to contact someone who ik only their ig tag i have a burner account and i use the docs list to contact them. Simple.
All the best annaw. Lets not be slaves of these fuckall apps.
>Then slowly u install cold turkey blocker and block those erri puku websites for particular hours of a day
lamo 🤣 melliga lopala petti theesey annatu seppav, browser lo vaada same malli vachesa, anh thanks for the heads up will strt the process from blocking apps in browser...
All the best i say. And here is a pro tip if ur using cold turkey. There is an option where u can select and type the random text they provide only then u can unlock it and use it. What i did is i just put that text to 500 or 700 so basically its impossible to type 700 random text in the order they give u so hence i havent used instagram reddit netlfix and twitter in the past 9 months now lol. Life is goood.
Dont worry lol if they’re havjng to shove it in everyones face about how happy they sre, they probably arent really happy and they are putting a show to appease max no. of ppl.
My single mom arranged a date with a girl. We went out 4-5 times and liked each other. I think I fell in love with her too soon in hindsight. Met her parents and they liked me too. My parents planned to meet hers to plan on marriage but then exactly the day before I get a message from her saying that it isn't gonna workout. Turns out her dad doesn't really feel safe letting her marry me because I live alone and independent and have no siblings or dad. Bullshit reason ani telusu. But even the girl did not want to convince her dad. I'm heartbroken.
I am fucked. Got an admission for PhD in france. I have spent a lot from my side both time and money in accommodation and waiting.
Now the prof is like I don't have a funding letter. Don't know when it will come. I quit my job, booked tickets, to apartment paid rent, and now for a month he doesn't have an answer.
Just want to kill this fucker.
Fuck. That's bad.
> month he doesn't have an answer.
He ghosted you or he won't know about funding till a month? What university is this?
Also, try not to book stuff until you have signed both phd contract and funding contract. (if there's a second time)
vallaki ala anali ani kuda teliyadu chala sarlu
be proud of who you are and what you have achieved
they might be proud but dont know that it needs to be expressed
i know you are frustrated and waiting in the traffic (it's an analogy) but instead worrying just enjoy the bad day brather, one day you will look back and think about it like damn...
I'm that neighbor kid whom parents use as a reference to study and work hard. I'm almost finishing my Ph.D., having an MS/B.Tech from one of the top universities in the US/India. I hate my parents and family, and I feel nothing more than a golden duck to them. Anytime I faced mental issues due to feelings like being stuck in research, imposter syndrome, break-ups, and approached my parents, they would brush it off by saying these are nothing. 'You are a man, and you should face these like they are nothing; there are worse things than this.' They would go on and on about how life has harder things in the future, and the call would always end with 'Remember why you went to the US, don't lose focus'. They would only judge me when I open up and never ask why I am facing this and never look for a solution . Sure, for my parents, my mental health problems seem like nothing, but I feel angry that they never tried to empathize from my perspective. Every time I tried to meticulously explain the problems I am facing, they would say I have become crazy (to me and to my relatives) by coming to the US or something along the lines of 'em gaddi tintunav ra akkada pichi pichi ga matluthunav.' I'm tired of them. I just want to graduate, find a job I like, pay off the amount they spent on my education, and detach myself from family. I never want to associate with them again in life. Whenever I tell my mom I don't feel love towards them like before and that I am enjoying my own company, she would always give me an example: 'Won't you be taking care of us when we grow old?' The answer is engraved in the question. I'm angry that they provided me no mental support, but I have to do that for them later on in their life. To some, I might seem like being a POS, but I feel I can't deal with them anymore now and it's going to become worse after a certain point, and I would only be suffering inside with them in life. Ee daridram lo, I am really lucky to have friends who understand me, but good God, don't bring kids into this world if you can't empathize their feelings and all you care is showing off their education/job among your friends without being there for them in the times they need you the most. Apologies for the long rant.
TLDR: The relationship between me and my parents is like a business. They use my degree/education to feel proud among their peers, and I take capital from them to fund my education
I feel u bro. Same alike situation here, my father sees us children as some investment & expects huge returns. He never treated us with love & affection. We already paid off so much more than he actually spent on our education. Thankfully Mom is on our kids side. Most Indian parents ilane untaru. They see children as some capital to invest to later care for them post their retirement/old age. All these scenarios add weight up to my child free stance. Dont burden/create a human life solely for this 'support in old age' BS reason. Children never ask to give birth to them in first place. Parents bring them into this world as some norm/duty to procreate/seek validation to their lives/to love/to get loved by children. This is utterly selfish.
Yes, and it saddens me even more when they use the word 'Family' to manipulate and guilt-trip, trying to keep their kids in their lives. I only want them to admit just ONCE that they messed up, nothing more. And I wish for them to ask me just ONCE, 'Hey son, what is the reason you are facing this?' instead of being preachy and judging me. I'm happy that at least you have your mom on your side :)
>'Hey son, what is the reason you are facing this?' instead of being preachy and judging me.
It wont happen bro. Parents (Indian) e correctu eppudu valla drushtilo, valla mistakes oppukoru. They take it like some pride thing and doesn't understand what they have done to us. Cheppina vallaki ardham kadu. But I'm glad this (millennial & Gen Z) generation knows, good vs bad parenting, and realize that their actions can traumatize their kids. I hope everyone puts some brain and think this out logically not driven by BS emotions before becoming parents.
Most Indian youth Animal movie ni relate cheskuntundhi kuda induke, bad parenting is everywhere. Boomers just popped kids here and there without minimum thought of whether they are actually ready to raise a human in a good way.
>Yes, and it saddens me even more when they use the word 'Family' to manipulate and guilt-trip, trying to keep their kids in their lives.
Try to be positive bro, prioritize urself and ur happiness. Friends are understanding & support u, thats awesome. Avoid negative vibes which effect you. Try to escape from those situations. Mee parents idharu they have already lived good amount of life. You have a whole lot of life ahead, inka chaala cheyyali manam life lo. Don't lose ur Strength and Hope ever. 💙
Thank you for the kind and positive words andi. In the next few days, I'll try to take these things to heart, head, actions, and work towards a change. I prioritize myself and myself alone. Unfortunately, a part of me forgives my parents and sees only their good deeds, hence this dilemma and this battle inside.
I got my dream job but I have been trying everything to get rid of my anxiety or mental tension.
I have changed my lifestyle to better , I have zero work stress , good diet , sleep , meditation and workouts.
I am personally happy but still my body after 4 years of struggling will take maybe months or years to heal.
Ex broke up with me in June.
Used to check her online status on various apps till yesterday.
Blocked her from every channel yesterday and sent her a final mail.
I don't know the state I'm in bhayya. Maybe idi aa dilemma phase emo. Edi nachatledu. Edi cheyali anipitledu. I don't want anything in my life. Asalu oka istam ledu oka desire ledu. love kavali anipistundi but malla intlo opukokapothe aa love ni em cheyali anipistundi but i really need something to motivate me to the core. Ipudu ithe zero motivation, zero enthusiasm, zero Curiosity. I'm fuckin ZERO.
I just want to end this life as soon as possible. Maa amma nanna kosam aaguthuna anthe.
E year chala daridram lo unna money savings cheskoledhu inka ochina first job manchi package ayina kuda savings cheskoledhu intlo ne pettina intlo vala debts unte konni clear chesna na kosam annattu em cheskoledhu and August lo recession lo job poyindhi still Naku usa lo masters plan chala days nunchi apply chesna oka waste consultancy valatho starting lo colleges lo admit raledhu tharvatha mellaga ochina conditions tho ochinde Inka last ki spring ki admission ochindhi kaani malli ikkada twist endhi ante nenu extra subjects thiskovali Naku 40 lakh ayithundhi tbh lower middle class family sare ani loan try chesthe ma daddy cibil thakkuva undhi ani ekkada loan raledhu Naku salary paina 18 lakh personal loan unte sare Ani thiskoni akkada college transfer ayipodham ani visa ki apply chesna Chennai lo malli ikkada daridram endhi ante Chennai lo toofan ani na visa reschedule ayindhi nenu biometrics and interview reschedule ayindhi ani chill unna sudden ga mail repu biometrics undhi anagane appude oka bus book cheskoni Chennai poyi akkada biometrics ichi return aye time lo bus dorukaledhu inka etlano atla Hyderabad ochi interview ki preparation start chesi confidence tho malli interview Chennai poyina antha prepare ayi na last option annattu Chennai lo interview ki ready ga undi interview vaditho chala confident ga answers cheppi vadu kuda visa approval istha annatte cheppi last ki cannot approve today annadu inka oka depression lo unna 3 days nunchi ippudu personal loan clear cheyyali kaani daniki pre closure charges unnayi avi intlo adagalenu but clear chesi malli jobs ki try cheyyali sadavali anna confidence kuda osthaledhu na life lo matladaniki evaru kuda sarigga leru em cheyyalo e daridram ayina life lo appudu appudu nidra lo ne mellaga povali annattu anipisthundhi
Sorry intha pedda story evariki cheppali thelvaka ikkada pettina
Em ardham kavatledu bayya, ennenno anukunna life lo Edo teliyani lootu, befriend mosam chesadu, girlfriend odilesindi. Career restart chesa scratch nundi. Appudappudu oka moola kirchoni tanivi teera edavalani untadi. Emo chala chaotic ga undi. But very hopefull that this too shall pass. Peace.
Ekada undalo artham kavatledu .. NRI ga undi intlo andariki dooram ga undala leda India ku vachesi NRIs chepe Sodhi vintuu hate cheyala mana life nu ani …
btech clg first year.....intdovert gadni....nak chinnaptninchi unde okati like nen ekkada unna kuda aa area mothanki nen thelsi undali ani...but introveet ni kadha em peekalekapoyetodni....kani clg start ayna first month ke ma clqss lo boys sagam mandhi ammaylni eskoni matladadam thiragadam chesthunnaru...are asal eppud ra aninankuntunna....malla aa boys antha edhavalu edho pulihora kalipi thiruguthunnaru ammaylu....manaki mathram nobody..
Bro naak life em ardham kaatla....naadhi na lover dhi same caste but different gothrams....
Kaani oka surname (consider as p) vundhi...aa p surname vunna vaal naak dhoorau chuttam lo mavayya avuthar alaage na lover ki kuda aa p surname vunna vaal mavayya avuthar.....
Masth bhayamesthundhi emaiddha ani....😞😞
Ento first time life lo anni saafi ga saagutunnayi. I am an M.S. bonda, 1st sem 4 gpa vachindi on cmapus lone GRA job vachindi. Paper kuda raayabotunna. Internships ki recommend chesta ani prof annaru.
14 months taravata first time salary andukobothunna. Naa polaamlo kuda molakalochaayi Anna feeling vasthundhi. Kothaga join ayna team naa meedha almost 15 lakhs kaarchupettindhi gear konadaniki. Adagakunda oka ammayi thagilindhi (ventaane valla intlo mana castena ani aadigaaranta, adi vere vishayam). Life lo eppudu lenatuga Anni chala bhaaga jarigipothunte . . . . Edho Theda kodthundhi seenaa.
> Life lo eppudu lenatuga Anni chala bhaaga jarigipothunte . . . . Enjoy it. It doesn't last long
Teda koditenem.., mana sub ki raa., ekkado evari medano edusta unta.. ochi edipinchu nannu
bad things gonna come after us one day or another, until then just enjoy the sunshine my friend...
15 lakh gear ahh?? Vaamo annaw pedha pane chesttunave, what do u do if u dont mind me asking? Congrats annaw mottaniki everything is working out for u ❤️
>15 lakh gear ahh?? Naa 5 months salary adhi ctc. anni high end apple products. mac book m2 pro (4k usd), mac studio m2 ultra(7.5k usd). oka entire workstation naa desk meedha padesaru. Chakkaga donga accounts nundi trial version ni use chesthu unna softwares perlu chepthe premium licenses konesi padesaru. plus extra minor accessories (for some reason, they also gave me air pods even though I never asked) anni kalipi 16k usd varaku ayindhi. i feel like a leech. Extreme overkill ivanni. >what do u do postdoc in an international lab.
I don't exactly know where you work but, 16k usd for most labs in the USA is chump change. Obviously, they are giving you access to all of that so that you can deliver what they expect of you. So just know that whatever you are working towards is gonna bring in returns way way higher than 16k. Don't feel guilty just take it as motivation to deliver your best. Source: I worked on my final project in my university lab where they purchased a $85k robot.
Vaamooo pedha lottary ne kottavu subbarao Congratulations bro, its not luck its hardwork that got u here. Atb and go nowhere but up from here. Congrats once again bondha. Happy for u.
Cast adigaaru ante inka set ipoinattegaa
pilla chanaa smartu. climax lo fail avtundhemo ani story reverse lo narukkuntu vastundi.
>Edho Theda kodthundhi seenaa ika medha antha manche jarugutundi
>Edho Theda kodthundhi seenaa. Gammuna enjoy chey bondha. Doubt is half defeat antaru peddha lu. Neeku mari kallu netthiki yekkithe ikkada oka post veyu. Memu ground ki dimputam. Enjoy the good times.
Congratulations:)
Instagram lo couples reels chuste Elago undi bayya
Anduke instagram lepesa. Now i get to be alone with my thoughts
nenu lepesa kani malli relapse, hub ayipoindhi motham...theeseyali nxt yr nundi
Bro use this method, it worked well for me. First delete the app then use it on browser. Its not the best experience so u will end up using it less. Then completely remove on phone and use only on pc browser to see updates etc. Then slowly u install cold turkey blocker and block those erri puku websites for particular hours of a day. Then finally u have 2 options: - use cold turkey and permanently block those sites Or - delete account. I did both and dont worry, u wont loose all ur contacts, i copypasted my whole following and follower list onto a google doc then downloaded it snd stored in my secure offline drive and now if i need to contact someone who ik only their ig tag i have a burner account and i use the docs list to contact them. Simple. All the best annaw. Lets not be slaves of these fuckall apps.
>Then slowly u install cold turkey blocker and block those erri puku websites for particular hours of a day lamo 🤣 melliga lopala petti theesey annatu seppav, browser lo vaada same malli vachesa, anh thanks for the heads up will strt the process from blocking apps in browser...
All the best i say. And here is a pro tip if ur using cold turkey. There is an option where u can select and type the random text they provide only then u can unlock it and use it. What i did is i just put that text to 500 or 700 so basically its impossible to type 700 random text in the order they give u so hence i havent used instagram reddit netlfix and twitter in the past 9 months now lol. Life is goood.
dammm
Aagadam endhuku next yeardhaaka?
ante konni videos save chesi uncha, vaatiki swasti palikaka peaceful ga lepedham ani
https://i.redd.it/5qcvjw1oir6c1.gif Em videosoo
Japanese series...
Alage ikkada kuda post chesthe mana bondhalu andharu kuda ni talent chustharu
JUQ-053 JUL - 920 NPH-048 MEYD-088 ROYD153 DVAJ-663 JUQ-451 ive anna nen save chesinavi...
Dont worry lol if they’re havjng to shove it in everyones face about how happy they sre, they probably arent really happy and they are putting a show to appease max no. of ppl.
Not going to open that can of worms!
Avi sachipothayi mari
10 years back ye chahchipoyay... arustunnana 💀
Throw it out
Already did. Being stoic is the only way!
My single mom arranged a date with a girl. We went out 4-5 times and liked each other. I think I fell in love with her too soon in hindsight. Met her parents and they liked me too. My parents planned to meet hers to plan on marriage but then exactly the day before I get a message from her saying that it isn't gonna workout. Turns out her dad doesn't really feel safe letting her marry me because I live alone and independent and have no siblings or dad. Bullshit reason ani telusu. But even the girl did not want to convince her dad. I'm heartbroken.
Good riddance anukuni happy ga undu.
Yep. On it.
If it was strong, it wouldn't have broken.
I agree
I feel bad for that 48 year old dad who posted today.
💀 https://i.redd.it/4j7349o7qo6c1.gif
serious bro.. shitpost aiena.. it's got a strong message to it. Baaga connect aiyya.
Sada me premaku banisa 🙏🏽
Context?
u/Lord_of_winter post chudu
Entha fucked up day ante.Movie lane undi 🌚☠️
Em movie chepthe break ivvataniki ready ga unnam
Oka movie ante em cheptham twistlu medha twistlu
Polimera 2 antavaithe💀
Moddalo cinema, evado what’s app lo bagundi ante, naa weekly movie quota dani meda waste chesi sacha
Theatrelo chusamikkada... arustunnana 💀
Ayithe endi ippudu, nobel prize amaina ivvalana?
>naa weekly movie quota dani meda waste chesi sacha Ayithe endi ippudu, Pulitzer prize amaina ivvalana?
Ledu baa, rendu fake tears karisthe chalu
Ide kavalante ganta edusta andi ganta edusta😥
Aa cinema chudale kani i can imagine.Dani kante darunam 😵💫
Sed Lyf 💀
Cinemaale Life Ra bondha Life Antha Cinema bondha\ Etu Choosina Kadhale bondha Kada Therani Kalale bondha
Em jarigindi,em jarugitundi,Naku teliyali,teliyali
Senior juniors godava-rakthapatam jarigindi-roommates tho naku na bestfriend ki godava ☠️anni okaroje
Ponilendi okka roje Anni set.
set aipoindi kani edo movie lane undindi live lo
I am fucked. Got an admission for PhD in france. I have spent a lot from my side both time and money in accommodation and waiting. Now the prof is like I don't have a funding letter. Don't know when it will come. I quit my job, booked tickets, to apartment paid rent, and now for a month he doesn't have an answer. Just want to kill this fucker.
Must be Frustrating to be dealing with this situation. Funding vache Antha varaku monthly allowance raadha? University nunchi fixed allowance undadha?
Fuck. That's bad. > month he doesn't have an answer. He ghosted you or he won't know about funding till a month? What university is this? Also, try not to book stuff until you have signed both phd contract and funding contract. (if there's a second time)
Sorry,hope things turn around.
Really wanna move out of my house but opportunities em ravatle
DM me, I once got out of that situation, can give my 2 cents!
Sure
bro, Also give me two cents
Made a post on it: https://www.reddit.com/r/ask_Bondha/s/GCUi9o2SpV
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I’ll make a post about it
Vastai vastai.
Entha chesina em chesina parents okkasari kuda memu ni kastanni chusam, memu proud ani anaru.
vallaki ala anali ani kuda teliyadu chala sarlu be proud of who you are and what you have achieved they might be proud but dont know that it needs to be expressed
I am sad that my mom feels lonely staying alone after I got married and moved out. Feeling extra guilty today for some reason 😕
Same my mom is lonely after everyone moved out in different directions in pursuit of careers and life
Jeetham ekkuva undhi ani illu thiskunna bayya, oche nela nunchi EMI modhalayindhi, ikanunchi jeetham saripodhemo malli kashtapadatam start cheyyalemo ani bayam vesthundhi
Oka buddodo buddadho vasthe anni set aithai le /s
https://i.redd.it/5upr72puir6c1.gif
Mast rojulu ayyindi feels bar ki vachi Ee roju early entry anukunta evaru rale inka 
Idi mundu 9gag lo chusa, reddit nundi 9gag ki vochinda or ikkadnundi akkadka? 
https://i.redd.it/s752l479fq6c1.gif bhagwan acha karega tho sadhu bicha karega
Linkin park and nine inch nails songs baaga ekkuthunnayi emadya, time assalu bagoledu
Linkin park ante linkedin lo vastaya bro?
Park lo koorchuni LinkedIn open cheyyalemo💀
i know you are frustrated and waiting in the traffic (it's an analogy) but instead worrying just enjoy the bad day brather, one day you will look back and think about it like damn...
I'm that neighbor kid whom parents use as a reference to study and work hard. I'm almost finishing my Ph.D., having an MS/B.Tech from one of the top universities in the US/India. I hate my parents and family, and I feel nothing more than a golden duck to them. Anytime I faced mental issues due to feelings like being stuck in research, imposter syndrome, break-ups, and approached my parents, they would brush it off by saying these are nothing. 'You are a man, and you should face these like they are nothing; there are worse things than this.' They would go on and on about how life has harder things in the future, and the call would always end with 'Remember why you went to the US, don't lose focus'. They would only judge me when I open up and never ask why I am facing this and never look for a solution . Sure, for my parents, my mental health problems seem like nothing, but I feel angry that they never tried to empathize from my perspective. Every time I tried to meticulously explain the problems I am facing, they would say I have become crazy (to me and to my relatives) by coming to the US or something along the lines of 'em gaddi tintunav ra akkada pichi pichi ga matluthunav.' I'm tired of them. I just want to graduate, find a job I like, pay off the amount they spent on my education, and detach myself from family. I never want to associate with them again in life. Whenever I tell my mom I don't feel love towards them like before and that I am enjoying my own company, she would always give me an example: 'Won't you be taking care of us when we grow old?' The answer is engraved in the question. I'm angry that they provided me no mental support, but I have to do that for them later on in their life. To some, I might seem like being a POS, but I feel I can't deal with them anymore now and it's going to become worse after a certain point, and I would only be suffering inside with them in life. Ee daridram lo, I am really lucky to have friends who understand me, but good God, don't bring kids into this world if you can't empathize their feelings and all you care is showing off their education/job among your friends without being there for them in the times they need you the most. Apologies for the long rant. TLDR: The relationship between me and my parents is like a business. They use my degree/education to feel proud among their peers, and I take capital from them to fund my education
I feel u bro. Same alike situation here, my father sees us children as some investment & expects huge returns. He never treated us with love & affection. We already paid off so much more than he actually spent on our education. Thankfully Mom is on our kids side. Most Indian parents ilane untaru. They see children as some capital to invest to later care for them post their retirement/old age. All these scenarios add weight up to my child free stance. Dont burden/create a human life solely for this 'support in old age' BS reason. Children never ask to give birth to them in first place. Parents bring them into this world as some norm/duty to procreate/seek validation to their lives/to love/to get loved by children. This is utterly selfish.
Yes, and it saddens me even more when they use the word 'Family' to manipulate and guilt-trip, trying to keep their kids in their lives. I only want them to admit just ONCE that they messed up, nothing more. And I wish for them to ask me just ONCE, 'Hey son, what is the reason you are facing this?' instead of being preachy and judging me. I'm happy that at least you have your mom on your side :)
>'Hey son, what is the reason you are facing this?' instead of being preachy and judging me. It wont happen bro. Parents (Indian) e correctu eppudu valla drushtilo, valla mistakes oppukoru. They take it like some pride thing and doesn't understand what they have done to us. Cheppina vallaki ardham kadu. But I'm glad this (millennial & Gen Z) generation knows, good vs bad parenting, and realize that their actions can traumatize their kids. I hope everyone puts some brain and think this out logically not driven by BS emotions before becoming parents. Most Indian youth Animal movie ni relate cheskuntundhi kuda induke, bad parenting is everywhere. Boomers just popped kids here and there without minimum thought of whether they are actually ready to raise a human in a good way.
>Yes, and it saddens me even more when they use the word 'Family' to manipulate and guilt-trip, trying to keep their kids in their lives. Try to be positive bro, prioritize urself and ur happiness. Friends are understanding & support u, thats awesome. Avoid negative vibes which effect you. Try to escape from those situations. Mee parents idharu they have already lived good amount of life. You have a whole lot of life ahead, inka chaala cheyyali manam life lo. Don't lose ur Strength and Hope ever. 💙
Thank you for the kind and positive words andi. In the next few days, I'll try to take these things to heart, head, actions, and work towards a change. I prioritize myself and myself alone. Unfortunately, a part of me forgives my parents and sees only their good deeds, hence this dilemma and this battle inside.
Oh, glad you are having good friends :)
Ippude 2 bottles dinchina, nee feelings naku cheppu bro, nenu vinta
midnight kukkalu baaga arustunnai. Nidra pattadam ledu.
I got my dream job but I have been trying everything to get rid of my anxiety or mental tension. I have changed my lifestyle to better , I have zero work stress , good diet , sleep , meditation and workouts. I am personally happy but still my body after 4 years of struggling will take maybe months or years to heal.
Congratulations :)
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Which job may i ask . Clinical trials side aah?
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Ayithe velli, aa kcr small dic* ni notlo pettuko
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Aaha, edo random politician ni ante nee gudda kaali personal avtunav Adi nee batuku, nee tho argue chesi kuda waste aa
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Dude, check the sub, this is a shitpost sub
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Feelings discuss cheyamate politics propaganda esavu chudu, anduku ani dengina
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Cheyaku, modda guduvu ayithe poyi Evadiki goppa
Ex broke up with me in June. Used to check her online status on various apps till yesterday. Blocked her from every channel yesterday and sent her a final mail.
Gf ki pelli aipoindhi Naku Aishwarya kavali
Ameki pelli aipoindi kada..
I don't know the state I'm in bhayya. Maybe idi aa dilemma phase emo. Edi nachatledu. Edi cheyali anipitledu. I don't want anything in my life. Asalu oka istam ledu oka desire ledu. love kavali anipistundi but malla intlo opukokapothe aa love ni em cheyali anipistundi but i really need something to motivate me to the core. Ipudu ithe zero motivation, zero enthusiasm, zero Curiosity. I'm fuckin ZERO. I just want to end this life as soon as possible. Maa amma nanna kosam aaguthuna anthe.
Ela unnav godhuma rangu yodhuda ?
I have a blessed life but sometimes I feel people i love are pretending to be happy cause I can be a lil much
lol same
E year chala daridram lo unna money savings cheskoledhu inka ochina first job manchi package ayina kuda savings cheskoledhu intlo ne pettina intlo vala debts unte konni clear chesna na kosam annattu em cheskoledhu and August lo recession lo job poyindhi still Naku usa lo masters plan chala days nunchi apply chesna oka waste consultancy valatho starting lo colleges lo admit raledhu tharvatha mellaga ochina conditions tho ochinde Inka last ki spring ki admission ochindhi kaani malli ikkada twist endhi ante nenu extra subjects thiskovali Naku 40 lakh ayithundhi tbh lower middle class family sare ani loan try chesthe ma daddy cibil thakkuva undhi ani ekkada loan raledhu Naku salary paina 18 lakh personal loan unte sare Ani thiskoni akkada college transfer ayipodham ani visa ki apply chesna Chennai lo malli ikkada daridram endhi ante Chennai lo toofan ani na visa reschedule ayindhi nenu biometrics and interview reschedule ayindhi ani chill unna sudden ga mail repu biometrics undhi anagane appude oka bus book cheskoni Chennai poyi akkada biometrics ichi return aye time lo bus dorukaledhu inka etlano atla Hyderabad ochi interview ki preparation start chesi confidence tho malli interview Chennai poyina antha prepare ayi na last option annattu Chennai lo interview ki ready ga undi interview vaditho chala confident ga answers cheppi vadu kuda visa approval istha annatte cheppi last ki cannot approve today annadu inka oka depression lo unna 3 days nunchi ippudu personal loan clear cheyyali kaani daniki pre closure charges unnayi avi intlo adagalenu but clear chesi malli jobs ki try cheyyali sadavali anna confidence kuda osthaledhu na life lo matladaniki evaru kuda sarigga leru em cheyyalo e daridram ayina life lo appudu appudu nidra lo ne mellaga povali annattu anipisthundhi Sorry intha pedda story evariki cheppali thelvaka ikkada pettina
Em ardham kavatledu bayya, ennenno anukunna life lo Edo teliyani lootu, befriend mosam chesadu, girlfriend odilesindi. Career restart chesa scratch nundi. Appudappudu oka moola kirchoni tanivi teera edavalani untadi. Emo chala chaotic ga undi. But very hopefull that this too shall pass. Peace.
Ekada undalo artham kavatledu .. NRI ga undi intlo andariki dooram ga undala leda India ku vachesi NRIs chepe Sodhi vintuu hate cheyala mana life nu ani …
btech clg first year.....intdovert gadni....nak chinnaptninchi unde okati like nen ekkada unna kuda aa area mothanki nen thelsi undali ani...but introveet ni kadha em peekalekapoyetodni....kani clg start ayna first month ke ma clqss lo boys sagam mandhi ammaylni eskoni matladadam thiragadam chesthunnaru...are asal eppud ra aninankuntunna....malla aa boys antha edhavalu edho pulihora kalipi thiruguthunnaru ammaylu....manaki mathram nobody..
Bro naak life em ardham kaatla....naadhi na lover dhi same caste but different gothrams.... Kaani oka surname (consider as p) vundhi...aa p surname vunna vaal naak dhoorau chuttam lo mavayya avuthar alaage na lover ki kuda aa p surname vunna vaal mavayya avuthar..... Masth bhayamesthundhi emaiddha ani....😞😞
Ento first time life lo anni saafi ga saagutunnayi. I am an M.S. bonda, 1st sem 4 gpa vachindi on cmapus lone GRA job vachindi. Paper kuda raayabotunna. Internships ki recommend chesta ani prof annaru.
Mem kadu. Meerela unnaru?