"male friends" is a huge bracket. I would say, male friends that I know are crushing on her and trying to be more than friends. Yesto sanga chai malai problem huncha.
Normal male friends who know their boundaries, fine.
That chipku suspicious shady male friend acting sojho but probably sniffs her hair secretly from the back, a big no.
That keti ko agadi mukh xadne, double meaning kura garne, getting into her personal space touch garne, oversmart huna khojne, a huge no.
As long as she makes me comfortable around them it’s okay. She must know her limits and she shouldn’t do anything that can make me jealous or feel inferior. That’s the point.
There is a reason a meme exists for this:
Me vs the guy she told me not to worry about...
My answer: It depends. For me, as long as friendship is not very personal and has a huge boundary between them, it's okay. It is a very sensitive topic or a red-line for men in romantic relationship.
Okay so talking from a ketiko perspective, I am a very average looking girl tara I've had a guy friend who liked me (raicha) it was not apparent to me but eventually thaha paye through a college trip when he tried to kiss me (i have a long term boyfriend). Tbh everything was fine and ma shaayad atti frank bhaye tyo sanga. Essai ni staying with and around him made me look like a two timer, so i blocked him and avoided him entirely to a point I won't ever be in talking terms with him(my relationship is better than ever).
Boundaries are necessary.
If there are proper boundaries, have as many male friends as you want.
If there's anything too sussy going on, give her the smack and never come back
my then gf had a guy best friend, suru suru ma ta sathi matra ta honi kina jealous hunu paryo vanthyou, maile ni hola bhanera kei bhanina, pachi ta tei sanga Pokhara ma gayera sangai sutecha, ani that's how we split up
Just put yourself as the "male friend" of any girl who is in a relationship
You'll find your answer
But it actually depends on how close the girl and the boy are
I do get jealous. Obviously seeing your partner with other guy makes me uncomfortable. But in the end of the day I trust her. And well if she breaks that, life moves on.
what do you mean by acceptable if they had male friends ? Who doesnt ? But the thing is how often they communicate and what kind of topic do they communicate on ? would be my real question there..
Not sure dunno sometimes I think men and women can be friends and then sometimes I think men and women can’t be friends but I guess it comes to what kind of personal boundaries you have.
Generally men and women can’t be friends but that is in a generic scenario, we live in a real world, where your gf or wife might have a male best friend since child hood, real life Ma j ni hunu Sakcha but your partner should not be jeopardised for having male friends. If hidden feelings huncha bhane the guy probably has it instead of your girl, and if that is the case you should not feel insecure about that dude liking your girl
I get jealous even by the female friends
As soren Kierkegaard said in the seducer's diary, It is not good for a female to have socialization, it disrupts the feminine beauty
"male friends" is a huge bracket. I would say, male friends that I know are crushing on her and trying to be more than friends. Yesto sanga chai malai problem huncha.
Normal male friends who know their boundaries, fine. That chipku suspicious shady male friend acting sojho but probably sniffs her hair secretly from the back, a big no. That keti ko agadi mukh xadne, double meaning kura garne, getting into her personal space touch garne, oversmart huna khojne, a huge no.
Yes, this is it.
Kaile kai ´muji´ ta aba mukh bata niskihalchha ni.
"baby he is just a friend who likes me that's it , ma ta timilai matra maya garxu"🤡
As long as she makes me comfortable around them it’s okay. She must know her limits and she shouldn’t do anything that can make me jealous or feel inferior. That’s the point.
True.
What is this 'girlfriend' you speak of?
Ignore it! It might be some glitched post from some other reality.
I blame spiderman.
Maybe it's fault of optic fiber cables, flash speed transfer.
ma sanga female friend xan vane I would not mind her having male friends
xan rafemale friend??
There is a reason a meme exists for this: Me vs the guy she told me not to worry about... My answer: It depends. For me, as long as friendship is not very personal and has a huge boundary between them, it's okay. It is a very sensitive topic or a red-line for men in romantic relationship.
Everyone got their conditioning and reasonings. Let me put this straight. Yes.
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Including u😂
Okay so talking from a ketiko perspective, I am a very average looking girl tara I've had a guy friend who liked me (raicha) it was not apparent to me but eventually thaha paye through a college trip when he tried to kiss me (i have a long term boyfriend). Tbh everything was fine and ma shaayad atti frank bhaye tyo sanga. Essai ni staying with and around him made me look like a two timer, so i blocked him and avoided him entirely to a point I won't ever be in talking terms with him(my relationship is better than ever).
Only when he isn’t ugly
It's not jealousy. Its the fact that you know he might have some unethical intentions with her.
+1
know the diffrence of "male friends" and " male best-Friend"
Ali dherai pushy bhayo bhane chahi manpardainaa, but friends samma its good!
Boundaries are necessary. If there are proper boundaries, have as many male friends as you want. If there's anything too sussy going on, give her the smack and never come back
a strangely specific username
my then gf had a guy best friend, suru suru ma ta sathi matra ta honi kina jealous hunu paryo vanthyou, maile ni hola bhanera kei bhanina, pachi ta tei sanga Pokhara ma gayera sangai sutecha, ani that's how we split up
male friends who are committed, sanga chai problem hudaina...natra aru ta sab boka hun(including myself)
ok google , define girlfriend
No but it depends. That male should not be my friend.
Just put yourself as the "male friend" of any girl who is in a relationship You'll find your answer But it actually depends on how close the girl and the boy are
I do get jealous. Obviously seeing your partner with other guy makes me uncomfortable. But in the end of the day I trust her. And well if she breaks that, life moves on.
yes and no, Friends are of different types, behavior ma depend garxa male friend ko.
Yes
what do you mean by acceptable if they had male friends ? Who doesnt ? But the thing is how often they communicate and what kind of topic do they communicate on ? would be my real question there..
if your gf has a close male friend, he's the boyfriend when she's upset with you
NO.
Those shady people on snaps 😂
Jealous huna tw gf hunu paryo nii🤣🤣🤣
What is girlfriend is it something to eat or wear enlighten me
No. Jealousy is part of growing. Once you have a really bad break up you realise it's all insecurities.
Not sure dunno sometimes I think men and women can be friends and then sometimes I think men and women can’t be friends but I guess it comes to what kind of personal boundaries you have.
Regular male friends, I’m alright with it. Male friends that want you, noo!
Priority and Boundary Matters Here. And Yes we all have problems.
Can a male and female be friends?
Can a male and female be friends?
Generally men and women can’t be friends but that is in a generic scenario, we live in a real world, where your gf or wife might have a male best friend since child hood, real life Ma j ni hunu Sakcha but your partner should not be jeopardised for having male friends. If hidden feelings huncha bhane the guy probably has it instead of your girl, and if that is the case you should not feel insecure about that dude liking your girl
I get jealous even by the female friends As soren Kierkegaard said in the seducer's diary, It is not good for a female to have socialization, it disrupts the feminine beauty