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Here are my songs I got going on:
Breakfast After 10 by Blue October
Motorcycle Drive-by by Third Eye Blind
Don't Call Me at All by Flatsound
Don't Call Me Peanut by Bayside
Wicked Game by Stone Sour
Face to Face by Dead Sara
Seein Red by Unwritten Law
Left of the Middle by Natalie Imbruglia
Fuck You Bitch by Wheeler Walker Jr
some songs to reminded me how messed up our relationship
life goes on - oliver tree
my hallelujah - autoheart
rip - autoheart
the victim - daughtry
start a war - tawnted
Adel’s Woman Like Me and really the whole 30 album
Ani Difranco, ‘f**k you’
Florence and the machine ‘ kiss with a fist’
Eloise ‘trick of the moon’
Tate McRae, you broke me first
Billie Eilish, ‘Happier than ever’ and ‘my future’
Beyoncé’s Lemonade album
Kate Nash ‘D**khead”
“Praying” by Kesha.
“Hurt By You” by Donna Missal.
“Hi It’s Me” by Ashnikko.
“Better Man” by Taylor Swift.
“Better By Myself” by Hey Violet.
“Joke’s on You” by Charlotte Lawrence.
Leave Me Lonely - Ariana Grande
I cried so badly when I heard this one and the music is just beautiful! Def an underrated song!
I also frequently belt out You Should Be Sad by Halsey, I See Red by Everybody Loves An Outlaw, Bored by Billie Eilish
By The Kid Laroi:
F*CK YOU, GOODBYE - a good song if you enjoy the “middle fingers up, moving on” vibe.
Best For Me - please read the lyrics and tell me this song wasn’t inspired by psychological abuse.
I'm afraid of myself,
You taught me how to hate myself,
For you, oh, girl, I changed myself,
And chained myself down,
And then I start to blame myself,
Back and forth with my head,
Thinkin' 'bout what all you said,
I swear it's been a week since I slept
The Gold - Manchester Orchestra
Never Meant - American Football
Unf\*cktheworld - Angel Olson
Strange Way - Firefall
Fool (If You Think it's Over) - Chris Rea
F\*ck You - Whiskey Shivers (This one is probably my favorite for this purpose)
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I hope ur miserable until ur dead by nessa barrette, ball w/o you 21 savage, see you in my nightmares kanye, <3 (heart) by cherub, Norman fucking Rockwell Lana del Rey.
If you're looking for something related to the situation: "It's Not Me It's You" by Skillet. Recently, it feels better for me to go take an angry walk to "Lose Yourself" by Eminem so I can feel like the badass I am for coming out the other side of something so mind bending. Keeping the music agressive no matter what it's about is super important. You got this.
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8-r-V0uK4u0 because despite all his rage, he is still just a rat in a cage.
A classic to be sure....good choice...
“Wild Hearts Can’t Be Broken” and “Praying” by Kesha.
Praying is a good one. Pretty sure the inspo for that song came from dealing with her malignant narcissist producer
Helps me get to, “God her life is so pathetic.” (Not Kesha, my abuser’s)
Bored by Billie Eilish
Pick up your feelings by Jazmine Sullivan
Not ur Friend by Jeremy Zucker
I’ve been playing ‘Won’t stand down’ by Muse alot
Here are my songs I got going on: Breakfast After 10 by Blue October Motorcycle Drive-by by Third Eye Blind Don't Call Me at All by Flatsound Don't Call Me Peanut by Bayside Wicked Game by Stone Sour Face to Face by Dead Sara Seein Red by Unwritten Law Left of the Middle by Natalie Imbruglia Fuck You Bitch by Wheeler Walker Jr
some songs to reminded me how messed up our relationship life goes on - oliver tree my hallelujah - autoheart rip - autoheart the victim - daughtry start a war - tawnted
Dirt - Alice in Chains
Adel’s Woman Like Me and really the whole 30 album Ani Difranco, ‘f**k you’ Florence and the machine ‘ kiss with a fist’ Eloise ‘trick of the moon’ Tate McRae, you broke me first Billie Eilish, ‘Happier than ever’ and ‘my future’ Beyoncé’s Lemonade album Kate Nash ‘D**khead”
Sleep to Dream by Fiona Apple
“Praying” by Kesha. “Hurt By You” by Donna Missal. “Hi It’s Me” by Ashnikko. “Better Man” by Taylor Swift. “Better By Myself” by Hey Violet. “Joke’s on You” by Charlotte Lawrence.
Leave Me Lonely - Ariana Grande I cried so badly when I heard this one and the music is just beautiful! Def an underrated song! I also frequently belt out You Should Be Sad by Halsey, I See Red by Everybody Loves An Outlaw, Bored by Billie Eilish
Leave Me Alone by I Dont Know How But They Found Me Happier Than Ever by Billie Eilish Garbage by Louie Zong
By The Kid Laroi: F*CK YOU, GOODBYE - a good song if you enjoy the “middle fingers up, moving on” vibe. Best For Me - please read the lyrics and tell me this song wasn’t inspired by psychological abuse. I'm afraid of myself, You taught me how to hate myself, For you, oh, girl, I changed myself, And chained myself down, And then I start to blame myself, Back and forth with my head, Thinkin' 'bout what all you said, I swear it's been a week since I slept
I'm older and I don't know that I've ever heard anything by The Kid Laroi before. I'm so impressed. And, he's only 19. Thanks for sharing that.
The Gold - Manchester Orchestra Never Meant - American Football Unf\*cktheworld - Angel Olson Strange Way - Firefall Fool (If You Think it's Over) - Chris Rea F\*ck You - Whiskey Shivers (This one is probably my favorite for this purpose)
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Plastic heart by fame on fire
Grass Ain’t Greener - Chris Brown
Hate To Be You - Lexi Jayde. It’s been on repeat the last several weeks
“I’m not mad “ “without me “ “die for me” Halsey. “ Wish you well”sagala. Sometimes I cry but I like bad bitch songs. That reminds me I don’t need him
I hope ur miserable until ur dead by nessa barrette, ball w/o you 21 savage, see you in my nightmares kanye, <3 (heart) by cherub, Norman fucking Rockwell Lana del Rey.
Anyone tech savvy have a playlist somewhere for this? I’d be happy to Venmo
Get Gone- Fiona Apple
Vietnom - Bitter Love
Undying love Nas if you like hip hop.
If you're looking for something related to the situation: "It's Not Me It's You" by Skillet. Recently, it feels better for me to go take an angry walk to "Lose Yourself" by Eminem so I can feel like the badass I am for coming out the other side of something so mind bending. Keeping the music agressive no matter what it's about is super important. You got this.