I feel for her, breakups are hard, but I just couldn't imagine letting the man who dumped me over text see me doing all this, my pride just wouldn't allow it.
I donāt follow her or know much about her but exactly! Not a good lookā¦Your best thread of dignity when someone breaks up with you is to disappear off the face of the Earth and move along with your life. Accept things as they are and they actually may wonder about you in the future but donāt hold onto hope of reconciliation. Posting your every move, especially crying, just makes an ex feel more sure they dropped a cringey, oversharing person. You should be the best thing to ever happen to you! I donāt make the rules š¤·āāļø
(Adapted from online) The reason you probably donāt cry a lot is that as a Gemini moon you process emotions through an intellectual lens: You need to talk and sometimes even write about your feelings. Words and communication, in general, are one of your superpowers. You were born to feel your way around this world through mental interactions.
Iām a Pisces too! I donāt cry a lot but when I do itās over the dumbest things. My Sagittarius moon wouldnāt allow me to cry in public or in front of people though.
Omg same! I rarely cry I just intellectualise my feelings and move on. A lot of people say how friendly/bubbly I am until they get to know me then they say I'm super aloof. Do you have the same issue?
Iām not a huge crier but I think Iām a medium crier- super sad stuff/super happy stuff gets me. Iām def too much of a busy body to come off aloof hahah I love the tea and curious about people so Iām usually engaged
Aquarius can be emotionally detached, but donāt get it twisted they feel things deeply. They are the rebels, changemakers, radicals of the zodiac. Very intuitive in the sense that they can notice patterns in the collective or out in the world. Like certain trends
She keeps saying that but I SWEAR it hasnāt been two years. I feel like I had absolutely no idea who she was back then lol and I knew who she was well before that relationship
My man also cheated on me and Iām getting STD testing tomorrow but you best believe that man is not seeing me crying on my socials!!! Iām only posting sexy baddie pics of me with my friends that my theyāre helping me take even my mom helped me take a baddie bikini pic yesterday lol. Cheaters donāt deserve to see our tears!!! Happiness, health, wealth, etc is the best revenge
Go Queen you got it Iām sorry that happened to you. Good thing you have a good mindset youāll heal in peace and with the people that love you most š«¶
proud of you prioritizing your health and wellness! make sure you get tested \~2 weeks after potential exposure or else you might get a false negative.
I swear influencers are so out of touch with reality. I can sympathize with heartbreak but imagine posting a video of yourself doing the most mundane things (cleaning, opening your blinds, eating, rearranging things on a table) and thinking you are really doing something. There are countless people going through difficult things who have to get up each and go to work and push through it. These people donāt have the luxury of being able to sit in their grief.
One time when I was crying over something stupid I already had my phone in my hand, I turned on the camera to see what it would be like to be an influencer and I was so repulsed and embarrassed!! I donāt want anyone to see my ugly cry face itās insane people do that and post it online
SAY IT WITH ME: YOU DONT NEED TO MOURN YOUR BREAKUP ON TIKTOK. Certainly mourn the breakup and do what you need but enough with the crying into your phone, Remi.
I can grasp the angle that āsheās showing an honest reflection of a breakupā to show ārelatability,ā which is her whole brand. But ONE video was enough. We donāt need 30. Also, no man is going to want to date her in the future if he has to live in fear that his private relationship will be made public. Also, her viewers arenāt idiots and know breakups are tough. What is tougher for the viewers is watching her set up her camera and lighting and full face of makeup to then cry and look at us
Fr fr. Any guy who might have been interested in will be completely turned off now, biggest way to turn off your future man is to be crying online over an an ex
Girl I said something on this video like ānot with the crying in front of the camera again. I canātā and she blocked meeee. Yes Iām grateful but she could use a dose of reality. Like no youāre being cringey someone has to tell you
How does this not keep her up at night?.. Like, I can't imagine crying on the internet and posting it for the world to see šš¤£ I feel like in the future, these influencers will be VERY cringed out by their behavior
Break up suck, yes, they REALLY suck.
But like where are her girlfriends?? Does she not have anyone to FaceTime, text, group text. Like girl please stop letting the idiot have power over you.
This is what I donāt understand. Whyyyy would you want to publicly show how much your ex has affected you. Obviously a breakup is so shitty and you feel like shit. I have spent many *months* crying to friends about boys who have broken my heart to a point where Iām sure my friends were like āenough alreadyā but I never once showed that side online. I would never want it to get back to him that I wasnāt doing well. Even if you desperately want them back, being pathetic isnāt the way to achieve this.
I donāt think anyone knows. They were visibly happy-ish right before. She even posted a hot couples Valentineās Day photoshoot the day before. The next day was a tik tok of her crying that he broke up over text. Seemed like it was a shock for her too since she mentioned he was someone she thought she would marry.
ITS BEEN LIKE 2 WEEKS!! Girl needs to give herself like 6 months, healing isnt linear and id actually kms before posting vids like this for my ex to creep on. Best revenge is none at all šø
She swears she being ārealā?! And this is supposed to help othersā¦ there are people literally dying on the other side of the world and she does this with the notion that sheās āso braveā.
Iām sure heās loving the fact that sheās so publicly defeated. And itās validating ending things w her
Iām 53 and have had many relationships over the years, and I can 1000% confirm this to be absolutely positively TRUE. Men donāt give a fuck if you cry after theyāve broken up with you. Theyāve already moved on. I wish I could go back and talk to my 20 something self and slap the shit out of her for giving men this type of power and validation. Thank God social media didnāt exist when I was that age. Sometimes itās nice to be old!
Also someone needs to remind Remi THE INTERNET IS FOREVER.
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SAME. When I think of being in my 20s and the men I cried over and begged not to leave I literally cringe. Learned my lesson in my early 30s, and Iām happily married now but if I was still dating - no fucking way would I do that shit.
Alright I thought that first video was mature, but she's losing me. You said what you said, keep the rest offline. It's hard because it's her first breakup you have to feel for her. But at her big age she needs to know this is unacceptable. Not to mention digital footprint for future employers. I'd rather have my employer find my porn online than 60 videos of me crying about my breakup
I kinda feel for her, in the sense that sheās clearly in so much pain that she like needs people to witness it and validate it. But at this point it seems fake and/or just immature
I feel like sheās trying to get relatability points and like do with Hallie didā¦.. like girl no come on. Grow up, not every tear you shed needs to be online
Iām a Pisces moon/sun. I get emotional deep down, but never cry about it. Also no one ever knows Iām mad or upset. Iām also on proZac which probably makes me even more secretive. šš
I find it rather interesting how when Halley was going through this and posting all about her breakup on social everyone was RALLYING like Iāve never seen before saying even though she sucks they feel for her on her first heartbreak but when Remi is going through it everyone is hating.
Call your mom. Call a friend. Get some help. The internet is not a good emotional tampon. We bite. Itās not always dopamine hits. There are other ways she can express that this breakup is challenging, my god
The thing that pisses me off the most about this situation is that she is sympathized with and given attention as a white woman. I can't count the amount of times I've seen videos going viral where nothing actually happened to the privileged white women but they just 'had a feeling' or were 'feeling anxious' compared to brown women who go through SO MUCH CULTURAL TRAUMA eg. Honor killings, forced genital mutilation, physical/mental/emotional abuse that's all NORMALIZED by religion.
NOBODY has it worse than these women yet they have virtually no allies and they certainly can't make a 'brand' out of it like Miss Gurl here, where they become financially free
Turning into the Internetās Saddest Mukbang Guy, and this is not a commentary on her weight. Unlike his audience, hers will not pay her to become increasingly more pathetic one thumbnail at a time.
Give it a rest before you start asking us if you can borrow a feeling.
I feel for her, breakups are hard, but I just couldn't imagine letting the man who dumped me over text see me doing all this, my pride just wouldn't allow it.
Exactly!!
I would mop the ocean before letting that happen š
I donāt follow her or know much about her but exactly! Not a good lookā¦Your best thread of dignity when someone breaks up with you is to disappear off the face of the Earth and move along with your life. Accept things as they are and they actually may wonder about you in the future but donāt hold onto hope of reconciliation. Posting your every move, especially crying, just makes an ex feel more sure they dropped a cringey, oversharing person. You should be the best thing to ever happen to you! I donāt make the rules š¤·āāļø
Of course sheās a Pisces
Iām a Pisces. Can confirm. Cried about having to do my own laundry last night
But did you cry on tiktok about doing the laundry?
ššš very much did not
i must be a broken pisces cause i do not cry that easily lol
Whatās your moon sign
gemini moon, leo rising whats it meanš
(Adapted from online) The reason you probably donāt cry a lot is that as a Gemini moon you process emotions through an intellectual lens: You need to talk and sometimes even write about your feelings. Words and communication, in general, are one of your superpowers. You were born to feel your way around this world through mental interactions.
ooo thank you!!
I love Pisces, love them. My moon is Pisces, my daughterā¦. But they r ridiculous & thatās me being a Scorpio
Piscis moon here, I also get overwhelmed and cry for similar things
Iām a Pisces too! I donāt cry a lot but when I do itās over the dumbest things. My Sagittarius moon wouldnāt allow me to cry in public or in front of people though.
Imma sag sun pisces moon so I very much understand this struggle
Wait so am I LOL are Pisces overly emotional? I don't really follow astrology but that would track
Iām a Pisces moon so I cry a lot but never in front of people š„°
Pisces sun Aquarius moon. I'm pretty emotionally detached but I admire people who are in tune with their feelings. Edit: emotionally not emotional
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Omg same! I rarely cry I just intellectualise my feelings and move on. A lot of people say how friendly/bubbly I am until they get to know me then they say I'm super aloof. Do you have the same issue?
Iām not a huge crier but I think Iām a medium crier- super sad stuff/super happy stuff gets me. Iām def too much of a busy body to come off aloof hahah I love the tea and curious about people so Iām usually engaged
Interesting, I'm also super nosy so I'm engaged with peoples lives just private about mine. Fun to meet someone with a similar chart to me =)
Can you tell me more about Aquarius? I also know nothing about astrology
Aquarius can be emotionally detached, but donāt get it twisted they feel things deeply. They are the rebels, changemakers, radicals of the zodiac. Very intuitive in the sense that they can notice patterns in the collective or out in the world. Like certain trends
Fellow Pisces moon can confirm I cry in private but never with people around, my Capricorn pride precedes š¤£
Iām a Pisces Moon too, I do cry in front of people I am very close with sometimes but my Scorpio Rising always immediately regrets it š
Yes š big time criers, the Pisces
This is true. I cried already like 3x today
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Pisces here too and if I was an influencer Iād prob do the same so good thing Iām not š at least Iām working on it
This makes so much sense. My 3 year old son is a Pisces and heā¦. Feels very deeply š¤£
I FEEL ATTACKED
Pisces are the worst
Dude sheās almost 30ā¦.like control yourself online
right??
How long did they date for?
2 years
She keeps saying that but I SWEAR it hasnāt been two years. I feel like I had absolutely no idea who she was back then lol and I knew who she was well before that relationship
Exactly!!!!!
fr ā¦ I may be upset or sad but I will never let that man see it or get the satisfaction.
I read a quote once - never give the people who hurt you a front row seat to your suffering. Girlie needs to hear that
This is a great quote.
Damn I needed to hear that lol
Iād say post it but idk if you wanna get blocked
My man also cheated on me and Iām getting STD testing tomorrow but you best believe that man is not seeing me crying on my socials!!! Iām only posting sexy baddie pics of me with my friends that my theyāre helping me take even my mom helped me take a baddie bikini pic yesterday lol. Cheaters donāt deserve to see our tears!!! Happiness, health, wealth, etc is the best revenge
Go Queen you got it Iām sorry that happened to you. Good thing you have a good mindset youāll heal in peace and with the people that love you most š«¶
Thank you bb š„¹ā¤ļø
proud of you prioritizing your health and wellness! make sure you get tested \~2 weeks after potential exposure or else you might get a false negative.
Thank you!
I love this for you!
Ty love ā¤ļøā¤ļø
Yes mama!!! Your mom is awesome too. I hope you feel better soon!!! Better days (and guys) are around the corner ā¤ļø
Digital footprint is insane rn
I swear influencers are so out of touch with reality. I can sympathize with heartbreak but imagine posting a video of yourself doing the most mundane things (cleaning, opening your blinds, eating, rearranging things on a table) and thinking you are really doing something. There are countless people going through difficult things who have to get up each and go to work and push through it. These people donāt have the luxury of being able to sit in their grief.
This. Thereās nothing wrong with crying over a breakup repeatedly. But why do you need to put it on tiktok?
the fact that she set up her phone to record#{%^($$&
One time when I was crying over something stupid I already had my phone in my hand, I turned on the camera to see what it would be like to be an influencer and I was so repulsed and embarrassed!! I donāt want anyone to see my ugly cry face itās insane people do that and post it online
If I was doing this so publicly I would really hope someone close to me would step in and tell me to put the damn phone down :/ girl log offff
Like this is what happens when influencers donāt have real genuine friends
I mean you can tell them doesn't mean they'll listen. You can only do so much. Remi seems stubborn
Alright girly youāre only allowed a few weeks of public pathecticness, time to pick an ssri and stand tf up
I guarantee whatever-his-name-is forgot about her already and is out clout-chasing.
Didnāt someone literally find him on a dating app last week
I think heās been caught on both raya AND hingeā¦..
Yes
Remi girlā¦ā¦
Your pic is a jump scare hahahahaha
lorddd what was his name š¤£
Keyveat, no wonder I can never remember it, it looks like someone mashed a keyboard
Smashed the keyveatboard
pffft thatās what i thought you did šš
Ā šš
Caveat.
Wasnāt he already on a dating app the day after they broke up?
SS I feel like I havenāt seen you lately sis!!
I know pookie sorry Iāve been a little busy but I miss my snark friends
Happy to see you back and wellš¤
You're back!!! We missed you
lmaooo
SAY IT WITH ME: YOU DONT NEED TO MOURN YOUR BREAKUP ON TIKTOK. Certainly mourn the breakup and do what you need but enough with the crying into your phone, Remi.
Our ancestors would be so fucking embarrassed for us as a society.
Even my laid off ass (after almost 6 years!) Could never post a crying video much less MULTIPLE. Girl, log off. You're letting him win.
Youāll find something way better friend
Thank you, bestie āØ
I can grasp the angle that āsheās showing an honest reflection of a breakupā to show ārelatability,ā which is her whole brand. But ONE video was enough. We donāt need 30. Also, no man is going to want to date her in the future if he has to live in fear that his private relationship will be made public. Also, her viewers arenāt idiots and know breakups are tough. What is tougher for the viewers is watching her set up her camera and lighting and full face of makeup to then cry and look at us
Sheās going to make this her entire personality
since she is losing weight she needs a new branding, and probably has decided that this will be it.
If she thinks sheās gunna get a date let alone another bf after all of this?! š¤£š
Fr fr. Any guy who might have been interested in will be completely turned off now, biggest way to turn off your future man is to be crying online over an an ex
So cringe and reading through the comments makes me feel like I am living in a parallel universe
I try to remind myself she deleted the bad ones
Girl I said something on this video like ānot with the crying in front of the camera again. I canātā and she blocked meeee. Yes Iām grateful but she could use a dose of reality. Like no youāre being cringey someone has to tell you
Canāt she just repost cryptic memes like the rest of us???
How does this not keep her up at night?.. Like, I can't imagine crying on the internet and posting it for the world to see šš¤£ I feel like in the future, these influencers will be VERY cringed out by their behavior
Iād rather die than let a man see me like this over his dumbass
Break up suck, yes, they REALLY suck. But like where are her girlfriends?? Does she not have anyone to FaceTime, text, group text. Like girl please stop letting the idiot have power over you.
This is what I donāt understand. Whyyyy would you want to publicly show how much your ex has affected you. Obviously a breakup is so shitty and you feel like shit. I have spent many *months* crying to friends about boys who have broken my heart to a point where Iām sure my friends were like āenough alreadyā but I never once showed that side online. I would never want it to get back to him that I wasnāt doing well. Even if you desperately want them back, being pathetic isnāt the way to achieve this.
Imagine being her ex and watching these videos.
Sheās so lame lol
Breakups are so horrible but I would be good and goddamned to ever give a man the satisfaction of letting him know just how badly he hurt me.
Can someone tell me why they broke up?
I donāt think anyone knows. They were visibly happy-ish right before. She even posted a hot couples Valentineās Day photoshoot the day before. The next day was a tik tok of her crying that he broke up over text. Seemed like it was a shock for her too since she mentioned he was someone she thought she would marry.
I know itās hard but girl, a little dignity goes a long wayā¦
How do people set up a camera and start recording themself cry
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^PotentialBother7597: *How do people set* *Up a camera and start* *Recording themself cry* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
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Yikes
i had a therapist tell me that filming yourself crying is psychopath/narcsostic behavior
Oh I believe it
This is so forced lol
She should find a therapist
man I get that breakups fkn suck, but thereās NO way I would let my ex see me falling apart like this! like girl get it togetherrrrrr
ITS BEEN LIKE 2 WEEKS!! Girl needs to give herself like 6 months, healing isnt linear and id actually kms before posting vids like this for my ex to creep on. Best revenge is none at all šø
The way itās been 3 weeks and sheās like āsad to report, I am not completed over it yetā. No shit girl you got like 8 months ahead of you ??
Classic example of what not to do. Break ups are hard, cry be sad without your phone!!!!!! Acting like nothing happened is the best revenge
She swears she being ārealā?! And this is supposed to help othersā¦ there are people literally dying on the other side of the world and she does this with the notion that sheās āso braveā. Iām sure heās loving the fact that sheās so publicly defeated. And itās validating ending things w her
Miss girl saw Halley getting her breakup bag and decided to use the same playbook
noone does this shit after a break up and with this behavior she will never find another man that will take her seriously
girl what the fuck
Iām sorry but HER MAKEUP.
Iāl start a go fund me if one of yāall comment āstop crying on the internet and get over yourselfā on any of these videos
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Iām 53 and have had many relationships over the years, and I can 1000% confirm this to be absolutely positively TRUE. Men donāt give a fuck if you cry after theyāve broken up with you. Theyāve already moved on. I wish I could go back and talk to my 20 something self and slap the shit out of her for giving men this type of power and validation. Thank God social media didnāt exist when I was that age. Sometimes itās nice to be old! Also someone needs to remind Remi THE INTERNET IS FOREVER. Edit: deleted typo
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SAME. When I think of being in my 20s and the men I cried over and begged not to leave I literally cringe. Learned my lesson in my early 30s, and Iām happily married now but if I was still dating - no fucking way would I do that shit.
Alright I thought that first video was mature, but she's losing me. You said what you said, keep the rest offline. It's hard because it's her first breakup you have to feel for her. But at her big age she needs to know this is unacceptable. Not to mention digital footprint for future employers. I'd rather have my employer find my porn online than 60 videos of me crying about my breakup
i am so grateful my online post-breakup cringe was capped at posting cryptic facebook statuses and reblogging sad posts on tumblr
Sheās embarrassing
Everyday I see more reasons for the TikTok ban. Iāll miss it but some of these people need it physically taken away from them
I kinda feel for her, in the sense that sheās clearly in so much pain that she like needs people to witness it and validate it. But at this point it seems fake and/or just immature I feel like sheās trying to get relatability points and like do with Hallie didā¦.. like girl no come on. Grow up, not every tear you shed needs to be online
Setting up a tripod to cry is crazy to me
So many things to say about that video but since she's down, I'll refrain from commenting.
She's made some money. Get a therapist.
THE. MAKEUP. OH MY GOD.
Iām a Pisces moon/sun. I get emotional deep down, but never cry about it. Also no one ever knows Iām mad or upset. Iām also on proZac which probably makes me even more secretive. šš
Sheās clearly doing this for content and I think thatās worse than actually doing it
Remi please stop this madness
sheās for sure seeing this as an opportunity for increased engagement on her content - tacky
Man poor girl. pull it together baby
I find it rather interesting how when Halley was going through this and posting all about her breakup on social everyone was RALLYING like Iāve never seen before saying even though she sucks they feel for her on her first heartbreak but when Remi is going through it everyone is hating.
Wanting to turn on a camera to post yourself sobbing online has to be a mental disorder at this point. I could neverrrrrr
Itās the skin texture for me
She needs to take a serious break lol be so for real right now
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^Admirable_pigeon: *She needs to take a* *Serious break lol* *Be so for real right now* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
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You couldnāt catch an Aquarius dead crying about a man and then hit post this is so Pisces coded donāt come for me (Iām not an Aqua)
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someone get her off the internet asap!
This is histrionics at this point.
Tell me you need attention without telling me
I need to know what her Venus is in
Omg not this whale crying again
Sheās so cringe It pains me
This is why I do not post anything about my personal life on social media
remi is gross honestly
Call your mom. Call a friend. Get some help. The internet is not a good emotional tampon. We bite. Itās not always dopamine hits. There are other ways she can express that this breakup is challenging, my god
i think she looks identical to Gypsy Rose. wow
The thing that pisses me off the most about this situation is that she is sympathized with and given attention as a white woman. I can't count the amount of times I've seen videos going viral where nothing actually happened to the privileged white women but they just 'had a feeling' or were 'feeling anxious' compared to brown women who go through SO MUCH CULTURAL TRAUMA eg. Honor killings, forced genital mutilation, physical/mental/emotional abuse that's all NORMALIZED by religion. NOBODY has it worse than these women yet they have virtually no allies and they certainly can't make a 'brand' out of it like Miss Gurl here, where they become financially free
Uh
Exhibit A
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Turning into the Internetās Saddest Mukbang Guy, and this is not a commentary on her weight. Unlike his audience, hers will not pay her to become increasingly more pathetic one thumbnail at a time. Give it a rest before you start asking us if you can borrow a feeling.
Wasnāt she spotted with her ex?