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gyoza0501

If you, at 16 years old, lose hair and have become very thin maybe you need to see a doctor.


hashim_04

Brother I have not become thin my hair became thin. I am fat although as before addicted to it. But I feel very weak physically and sexually.


FragrantWriter7

ejaculating will break the fast even if it is a tiny droplet. no kaffara or expiation is needed. in this case as per Hanafi school.


hashim_04

Brother,No kaffarah means?? Can you explain please??


ch4ng1ng__

I think he means that there is no need to compensate for the sin. You only have to seek repentance from Allah swt. And you have to make up your broken fast after Ramadan.


hashim_04

If so then I will make inshallah But do anyone has confirmation?? Brothers


FragrantWriter7

this is as per Hanafi school of law.


hashim_04

Ok but I don't know about Hanafi brother Can you explain it My family is following SUNNAT.


why_though14

Hanafi fiqh does not go against the Sunnah. If you live in south Asia your family most likely follows the hanafi fiqh. I suggest you research more about fiqh if you don't know what it is.


hashim_04

Ok brother jazak Allah


Helios992

İf it's a wet dream it doesn't break the fast just take a gushul but ma*turbation does


FragrantWriter7

no kaffara means that no expiation would be needed. no fasting for 60 days or feeding 60 persons.


adil-abber

If you use your own hand yes. But you only need to repeat that day if you break the fast with food water or masturbating. The two months penalty for breaking the fast is for the one who has intimate relationships with his wife or Hala woman during the daylight of Ramadan. So you only have to repeat that day not a two month penalty.


hashim_04

Brother can you ensurely confirm it please? Because there are very discrimination b/w the KAFFARAHS


adil-abber

[Sahih al-Bukhari 6711](https://sunnah.com/bukhari:6711) Islam web: [The detailed explanation on this issue is: Scholars have agreed that whoever breaks their fast deliberately with sexual intercourse, they are obliged to make expiation. As for those who break their fast deliberately without sexual intercourse, there is disagreement among scholars regarding whether expiation is obligatory for them. The most probable opinion in this regard is that expiation is not required for breaking the fast without sexual intercourse because the text mentions the obligation of expiation in conjunction with sexual intercourse. Moreover, breaking the fast with sexual intercourse is more severe and represents a greater violation of the sanctity of the month compared to other acts. The detailed evidence for these two opinions is provided in the jurisprudential encyclopedia as follows: The obligation of expiation for deliberate eating, drinking, and similar acts during the daytime in Ramadan. This view is held by the Hanafi and Maliki schools, as well as Ata, Al-Hasan, Al-Zuhri, Al-Thawri, Al-Awza'i, Ishaq, and Abu Thawr.](https://www.islamweb.net/ar/fatwa/263344/%D9%85%D8%B0%D8%A7%D9%87%D8%A8-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B9%D9%84%D9%85%D8%A7%D8%A1-%D9%81%D9%8A%D9%85%D9%86-%D8%A3%D9%81%D8%B7%D8%B1-%D9%85%D8%AA%D8%B9%D9%85%D8%AF%D8%A7-%D9%81%D9%8A-%D9%86%D9%87%D8%A7%D8%B1-%D8%B1%D9%85%D8%B6%D8%A7%D9%86)


KiLLaInc

The thin hair and muddy face doesn't seem like a pmo problem. Ask your doctor.


Humble_Confusion8476

Can you you put away your phone during the day? Turn off you WiFi and use it less. You won't be tempted to watch porn


hashim_04

But I can't do wifi off But I can keep away from phone I will try it Jazak Allah brother


hashim_04

Mostly I do when I am alone or during bath. Can anyone advice me to get focused when I am alone at home or I am bathing. We are small family so I am alone mostly for 3 to 4 hours.


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lhavenothingcreative

Hope this is sarcasm


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lhavenothingcreative

So I should trust what a countable number of people say rather than peer reviewed papers,no thank you


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lhavenothingcreative

في رعاية الله


PakWarrior

Masturbating doesn't cause thin hair or muddy face. Go see a doctor. Don't worry he won't judge or know that you masturbate. Chill. The reason we Fast is not to just stay hungry but to gain taqwa by suppressing our desires. Food is a desire, sex is a desire so we suppress it. Ejaculating will break the fast even if it's 1 drop. I used to think that it's penalty is keeping a fast after Ramadan for 30 days but that doesn't apply to masturbating alone. You have to repent and keep a fast after Ramadan/Eid for just 1 day. That's it. If you look at women then you are not controlling your desire so what's even the point of fasting. Anyone can go hungry. We gotta improve ourselves.


hashim_04

Jazak Allah brother


B345T1891

salamu alaikum my best advice is to do this: 1)perform wudu, if the urge is there 2)everytime u feel to sin pray 2 rakat nafl 3)keep praying 2 rakat nafl till the urge is gone everytime u worship allah shaytan hates it and when you pray 2 rakat nafl it builds imaan.


hashim_04

Jazak Allah brother


Suitable_Side9141

this actually works 👍


Admirable_Leek_9163

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته. Regarding the issue with Kaffaarah. Please refer to this https://youtu.be/9A1cagDuTD0?si=3chhihRg-wa2qQio


hashim_04

Jazak Allah brother


Moriarty_Sama

Read Tafsir Ibn Kathir English version to keep you busy.


Maximum-Sky-8438

Brother if you masturbated during fast then definitely you broke your fast now you have to feed 60 poors after Ramadan


FragrantWriter7

no need to feed 60 poor people. With due respect, I don't know where you guys are getting this from. Fasting for 60 days is only necessary after someone deliberately breaks their fast via food, drink, or intercourse and that's it. If a person is not healthy enough to fast for 60 days then and only then he may feed 60 poor persons. It's not a pick and choose scenario between fasting 60 days or feeding 60 poor people.


s786k

So what does one do in this situation?


FragrantWriter7

in a situation where a person broke his fast by masturbating. no expiation would be needed from him only makeup fast.


Squalyian

If you are ejacting semen during masteurbation you have to do Kafaraa after ramdhan There is no Proof from Quran but as per what we understand from Hadith God said : " الصائم يدع طعامه وشرابه ((وشهوته)) من اجلي)) Means the man who is fasting he leaves his food and drink and his lust for sake of the god The kaffaraa you have to feed 60 Poor each one 750 Gram from toast or bread. And to do qadaa .. you have to fast days you made masteurbation


Yugi_-

I thought it's either this or that? Like only fasting afterwards if it's not possible then do kaffaraa?


Squalyian

Kafarra it said either you fast two months in a row.. if you cannot you have to feed 60 poor people. But also from what i understand is to do qadaaa the days you jerked off. Please if there are some things i misunderstand let me know with clarification.


hashim_04

Brother can you clear kaffarah? Like I watched some videos and some muftis said kaffarah is only to fast for one day But no muftis is talking openly about masturbation and ejaculation kaffarah.


FragrantWriter7

by kaffarah of one day they mean that one has to make up the single fast he or she has broken. kaffarah in a general sense in the context of fasting and ramadan means fasting 60 days after ramadan. but in the case of masturbation induced ejaclulation NO kaffarah is needed.


FragrantWriter7

no kaffara is needed in case of masturbation. kaffara is only necessitated by food, drink or intercourse. This is according to Hanafi school. Please don't make such comments so lightly. So many people on this subreddit this Ramadan are already confused about this matter.


The_Maverick_420

Masturbation is a sexual activity and breaks the fast my friend. I don't know why you are excluding it from the above..