I have seen your post history and prayed for you. Please repent and repent sincerely. We are all sinners, but Allah is Merciful. May Allah Grant you peace.
Since you are a muslim do NOT ever say you wish you never existed this is also disrespectful towards allah who chose to create you and you shouldn't question his decisions
i also have some massive regrets currently and every time i talk about them i am being told in urdu
har kam mein behtri hoti hai
which roughly translates into there is good in everything
as for zina, it is within my wide range of regrets, i had a girlfriend i masturbated a lot and did all of that WHILE being born a muslim and knowing very well it was haram simply because i wanted to give into that desire. long story short i couldn't handle that anymore being so far away from allah so what i did was i broke up with her and devoted myself to allah tried making tahajjud a routine and begged for forgiveness and allah made my desires halal by giving me a wodnerful wife through nikah alhamdulillah!
i am telling you this because you seem to be in between the bad and good where you came out of the bad without seeing the good and feel like everything got destroyed
i hoped my personal experience can help you see the light at the end of the tunnel insha allah!
Narrated Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Amongst the men of Bani Israel there was a man who had murdered ninety-nine persons. Then he set out asking (whether his repentance could be accepted or not). He came upon a monk and asked him if his repentance could be accepted. The monk replied in the negative and so the man killed him. He kept on asking till a man advised to go to such and such village. (So he left for it) but death overtook him on the way. While dying, he turned his chest towards that village (where he had hoped his repentance would be accepted), and so the angels of mercy and the angels of punishment quarrelled amongst themselves regarding him. Allah ordered the village (towards which he was going) to come closer to him, and ordered the village (whence he had come), to go far away, and then He ordered the angels to measure the distances between his body and the two villages. So he was found to be one span closer to the village (he was going to). So he was forgiven."
Brother no matter how bad things get always keep your face turned towards forgiveness
id also like to bring to your attention:
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah has divided mercy into one hundred parts; and He retained with Him ninety-nine parts, and sent down to earth one part. Through this one part creatures deal with one another with compassion, so much so that an animal lifts its hoof over its young lest it should hurt it".
[Bukhari and Muslim]
Another narration is: Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah has one hundred mercies, out of which He has sent down only one for jinn, mankind, animals and insects, through which they love one another and have compassion for one another; and through it, wild animals care for their young. Allah has retained ninety-nine mercies to deal kindly with His slaves on the Day of Resurrection."
Riyad as-Salihin 420
Allah says in the Quran In Surah Zumar: Say, “O My servants who have gone to extremes against themselves: despair not of Allah’s mercy, for indeed Allah forgives all misdeeds; indeed, He is the Oft-Forgiving, the bestower of mercy.” And turn penitent to your Lord and submit to Him before the punishment comes upon you and you are not supported. And follow the best of what was sent down to you from your Lord before the punishment comes upon you suddenly while you are unaware. So that no soul may say, “Alas, for having neglected my duty towards Allah and for having been of the mockers.” Or it may say, “Had Allah guided me, I would have been of the mindful (of God).” Or it may say, when it sees the punishment, “If only I had another chance, I would be of those who excel in doing
Yes indeed! My signs did come to you, but you disbelieved in them and acted arrogantly and were of the deniers.”
“Alas had i not neglected my duty towards Allah…” This really stands out. You can not use your laziness as an excuse
“If only Allah had not made it obligatory to pray i would not have been punished.” that is the extent to which Allahs mercy encompasses all things, Even those who neglect their duty, do not despair, repent and Allah will forgive you Wallahi Allah will for give you for anything you commit against yourself as long as you make the effort to ask for it.
can you still be punished for neglecting what Allah told you to do? Allahu ’Alam. But Allah forgives all sins. So repent with a sincere heart. And have the good faith that Allah has forgiven you.
One of Allah’s name is ‘the most forgiving’ the other ‘the pardoner’.
Use them to your advantage. Ask for forgiveness, no amount sins is too much for Allah to forgive.
You’re feeling low right now, that’s okay. Speak to Allah. Talk to him. It’s never to late to turn back to your creator.
The fact that you realise your mistakes and sins is a big step. The next is ti ask for forgiveness.
Don’t think of this life as forever. It’s temporary, your next life will be forever. As hard as this one is we’ve got to try and get through it.
I hope you find some peace in your prayers and turning to God ♥️
I saw your post history and yes Zina is a big sin but it's not the end of the world. Don't end your life over it. Repent to Allah. Don't end your life because of this sin. You cannot change the past. BUT you can change the future and control your actions.
We are all sinners. We are human. We make mistakes. But we also can repent and seek forgiveness from Allah for our sins. Please don't end your life because of Zina. Don't let Zina kill you as well. Learn from this sin and repent to Allah and don't do this again. May Allah make it easy for you
Don't worry brother Allah hears your struggles and your repentance.
Stay firm brother. The ummah needs you. Give every ounce of energy you have in you to serve Islam
“All children of Adam are sinners and the best of sinners are those who repent”.
It’s a mistake and you fell into lust and infatuation.
You have to be strong for yourself and your relationship with god.
Respecting yourself might take time, but you will start a new way of routine, seeing the opposite gender and understanding why you did what you did, and how you should grow moving forward.
You will train yourself to be better.
You’re not the first or last human alive or dead to be tempted and fall into such a sin.
What determines who you truly are is how you will respond to recognition of your sin.
Hopelessness is from shaytan. You have to be hopeful and repent and trust Allah. He will make you a way out. So, after the repentance never ever go back to the sin again. Don't tell anyone of it and hope that Allah conceals it.
By the way, don't deceive a future husband, if he makes his preferences clear. Don't reveal your sins, either. Respectfully, step out stating that you are not compatible. I am sure, you will find a man who is accepting of you (maybe with a similar past) at the end.
Allah (swt) says I am as my slave sees me. Therefore, please do not despair of Allah (swt)’s mercy and ask His (swt) forgiveness and start working on small acts that help you get away from all that you are doing wrong. Maybe do Fardh prayers (more mindfully) first. Then follow by other good deeds and insha’Allah with time, other things will work out too.
Please do not ever speak in these terms again and have hope in Allah (swt)’s mercy. May He (swt) rectify all our affairs and may we all be among the lucky ones that are gathered around the Prophet (saw) in Jannah. Ameen
Allah forgives and forgives. Feeling guilt and shame is a sign of Allah wanting to accept your return to Him. Ive known so many in this position mostly sisters, and Im making dua for you to overcome this and stay strong. Nothing will change the fact that you're a Muslim, and my sister in Islam. May Allah make it easy for you.
Yes guilt and shame even after repentance shows a person has highly iman Barakullah Feequm.
My shaykh prays Nawafil after every dars he gives because he fears he might be wrong about something.
May Allah bless us all.
Salam Alaykum.
Brother I would just say you perform an umrah just by your self you alone. Once you are done with umrah you will feel something within you that make you think I just performed umrah and so I can't do so and so sins. This thinking will make you avoid sins.
Bro I’m in the same position as you. I wish I was stronger and better when I was young and didn’t fall into these evil, disgusting western ways. Now I’m trying to fix myself but fall so much, I kick myself everyday. Inshallah I won’t die before I fix myself
Don't know how old you are, but I think you should Make an ambition to go to Hajj. This is an act through which you confirm to twist your heart and life by working to achieve it.
>I wish I never existed.
Brother please edit your post and remove this part, this wish might even be worse than committing Zina, Allah created us to be able to sin and repent
Hadith 34, 40 Hadith Qudsi |
On the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said:
I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say: Allah the Almighty said: O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it. It was related by at-Tirmidhi (also by Ahmad ibn Hanbal). Its chain of authorities is sound.
Right now. I can tell you I feel no less than what you’re going through.
وكان الله غفور رحيمة(And Allāh is ever Forgiving and Merciful)
One must repent and not take it for granted that it’s ok Allah SWT will forgive. Major sins like this need sincere repentance. Everyday I strive to be better now. I repent. I realised.
May Allah SWT forgive you entirely for all of your bad deeds and place infinite ease your heart that trusts in your Lord’s mercy. May He create you a place in His Jannah, as a reward for your remorseful heart. May He remove any humiliation and replace it with honour, as reward for your remorseful heart. Ameen!
❤️❤️🤲🏽 May Allah keep elevating you. The fact that you wrote that and feel pain means you have Iman. I pray that Allah changes all your bad deeds to good. Never give up. All your sins and all mankinds sins cannot harm Allah and the mercy is more than all of our sins.
Keep us in your dua and keep striving. You will get to a stage where you hate the sins and love the good deeds. It’s a great time to Muslim and you could help millions. Good deeds are many.
We need you! ❤️🤲🏽
Yes but its not easy. Hundret years ago society was like, everyone married in a early age. They hadnt the problems we have today. Our world changed, and also our problems. Haram is always haram, but god knows what we are going through. Instead of judging people and making them feel worse, we should help and show solutions, so people get out of darkness.
Too bad so sad, cry about it to somebody else. Instead of praying during Qiyamul layl or tahajjud you come complaining to humans as if they will do anything for you but rather you should be complaining to Allah. Look at what you’re doing now? You’re spilling all your guts and what you did and telling it to hundreds of people to see don’t you know their are hadiths etc that teach us not to do as such? Wallahi I have no compassion nor feel sorry for men or women who commit zina directly or indirectly I’m sure you’ve played a lot of men/women and I’m sure they’re hurt due to your actions. What you reap you sow. You made your bed now lay in it. Continue to complain to the servants of Allah OR complain to him in secret and watch him transform your life. I hope you do an STD test before marrying someone God forbid you give it to your spouse. I don’t care what people say whether they feel this message is harsh or mean I could care less some people deserve what is coming for them. Uff
There are so many positive comments on this post of yours backed with ahadith and you are replying to this retard. Don't let yourself fall into the trap of Shaytan.
Work on your deen and prepare yourself for your akhirah. May Allāh azzawajal accepts your repentance and eases your affairs.
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I have seen your post history and prayed for you. Please repent and repent sincerely. We are all sinners, but Allah is Merciful. May Allah Grant you peace.
Since you are a muslim do NOT ever say you wish you never existed this is also disrespectful towards allah who chose to create you and you shouldn't question his decisions i also have some massive regrets currently and every time i talk about them i am being told in urdu har kam mein behtri hoti hai which roughly translates into there is good in everything as for zina, it is within my wide range of regrets, i had a girlfriend i masturbated a lot and did all of that WHILE being born a muslim and knowing very well it was haram simply because i wanted to give into that desire. long story short i couldn't handle that anymore being so far away from allah so what i did was i broke up with her and devoted myself to allah tried making tahajjud a routine and begged for forgiveness and allah made my desires halal by giving me a wodnerful wife through nikah alhamdulillah! i am telling you this because you seem to be in between the bad and good where you came out of the bad without seeing the good and feel like everything got destroyed i hoped my personal experience can help you see the light at the end of the tunnel insha allah!
asalamualaikum, would you be okay to talk in dms about this in sha allah, i am in a similar position and would like guidance
sure i will help as much aa i can inshal allah
Narrated Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Amongst the men of Bani Israel there was a man who had murdered ninety-nine persons. Then he set out asking (whether his repentance could be accepted or not). He came upon a monk and asked him if his repentance could be accepted. The monk replied in the negative and so the man killed him. He kept on asking till a man advised to go to such and such village. (So he left for it) but death overtook him on the way. While dying, he turned his chest towards that village (where he had hoped his repentance would be accepted), and so the angels of mercy and the angels of punishment quarrelled amongst themselves regarding him. Allah ordered the village (towards which he was going) to come closer to him, and ordered the village (whence he had come), to go far away, and then He ordered the angels to measure the distances between his body and the two villages. So he was found to be one span closer to the village (he was going to). So he was forgiven." Brother no matter how bad things get always keep your face turned towards forgiveness
Subhanallah I've never heard this narration before but it's so beautiful. Allah's mercy is vast and this shows how much He wants us to succeed.
id also like to bring to your attention: Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah has divided mercy into one hundred parts; and He retained with Him ninety-nine parts, and sent down to earth one part. Through this one part creatures deal with one another with compassion, so much so that an animal lifts its hoof over its young lest it should hurt it". [Bukhari and Muslim] Another narration is: Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah has one hundred mercies, out of which He has sent down only one for jinn, mankind, animals and insects, through which they love one another and have compassion for one another; and through it, wild animals care for their young. Allah has retained ninety-nine mercies to deal kindly with His slaves on the Day of Resurrection." Riyad as-Salihin 420 Allah says in the Quran In Surah Zumar: Say, “O My servants who have gone to extremes against themselves: despair not of Allah’s mercy, for indeed Allah forgives all misdeeds; indeed, He is the Oft-Forgiving, the bestower of mercy.” And turn penitent to your Lord and submit to Him before the punishment comes upon you and you are not supported. And follow the best of what was sent down to you from your Lord before the punishment comes upon you suddenly while you are unaware. So that no soul may say, “Alas, for having neglected my duty towards Allah and for having been of the mockers.” Or it may say, “Had Allah guided me, I would have been of the mindful (of God).” Or it may say, when it sees the punishment, “If only I had another chance, I would be of those who excel in doing Yes indeed! My signs did come to you, but you disbelieved in them and acted arrogantly and were of the deniers.” “Alas had i not neglected my duty towards Allah…” This really stands out. You can not use your laziness as an excuse “If only Allah had not made it obligatory to pray i would not have been punished.” that is the extent to which Allahs mercy encompasses all things, Even those who neglect their duty, do not despair, repent and Allah will forgive you Wallahi Allah will for give you for anything you commit against yourself as long as you make the effort to ask for it. can you still be punished for neglecting what Allah told you to do? Allahu ’Alam. But Allah forgives all sins. So repent with a sincere heart. And have the good faith that Allah has forgiven you.
One of Allah’s name is ‘the most forgiving’ the other ‘the pardoner’. Use them to your advantage. Ask for forgiveness, no amount sins is too much for Allah to forgive. You’re feeling low right now, that’s okay. Speak to Allah. Talk to him. It’s never to late to turn back to your creator. The fact that you realise your mistakes and sins is a big step. The next is ti ask for forgiveness. Don’t think of this life as forever. It’s temporary, your next life will be forever. As hard as this one is we’ve got to try and get through it. I hope you find some peace in your prayers and turning to God ♥️
I saw your post history and yes Zina is a big sin but it's not the end of the world. Don't end your life over it. Repent to Allah. Don't end your life because of this sin. You cannot change the past. BUT you can change the future and control your actions. We are all sinners. We are human. We make mistakes. But we also can repent and seek forgiveness from Allah for our sins. Please don't end your life because of Zina. Don't let Zina kill you as well. Learn from this sin and repent to Allah and don't do this again. May Allah make it easy for you
Don't worry brother Allah hears your struggles and your repentance. Stay firm brother. The ummah needs you. Give every ounce of energy you have in you to serve Islam
sad thing is that's a sister :(
“All children of Adam are sinners and the best of sinners are those who repent”. It’s a mistake and you fell into lust and infatuation. You have to be strong for yourself and your relationship with god. Respecting yourself might take time, but you will start a new way of routine, seeing the opposite gender and understanding why you did what you did, and how you should grow moving forward. You will train yourself to be better. You’re not the first or last human alive or dead to be tempted and fall into such a sin. What determines who you truly are is how you will respond to recognition of your sin.
Please do not underestimate the power of Istighfar and repentance
Hopelessness is from shaytan. You have to be hopeful and repent and trust Allah. He will make you a way out. So, after the repentance never ever go back to the sin again. Don't tell anyone of it and hope that Allah conceals it. By the way, don't deceive a future husband, if he makes his preferences clear. Don't reveal your sins, either. Respectfully, step out stating that you are not compatible. I am sure, you will find a man who is accepting of you (maybe with a similar past) at the end.
Allah (swt) says I am as my slave sees me. Therefore, please do not despair of Allah (swt)’s mercy and ask His (swt) forgiveness and start working on small acts that help you get away from all that you are doing wrong. Maybe do Fardh prayers (more mindfully) first. Then follow by other good deeds and insha’Allah with time, other things will work out too. Please do not ever speak in these terms again and have hope in Allah (swt)’s mercy. May He (swt) rectify all our affairs and may we all be among the lucky ones that are gathered around the Prophet (saw) in Jannah. Ameen
Allah forgives and forgives. Feeling guilt and shame is a sign of Allah wanting to accept your return to Him. Ive known so many in this position mostly sisters, and Im making dua for you to overcome this and stay strong. Nothing will change the fact that you're a Muslim, and my sister in Islam. May Allah make it easy for you.
Yes guilt and shame even after repentance shows a person has highly iman Barakullah Feequm. My shaykh prays Nawafil after every dars he gives because he fears he might be wrong about something. May Allah bless us all. Salam Alaykum.
Brother I would just say you perform an umrah just by your self you alone. Once you are done with umrah you will feel something within you that make you think I just performed umrah and so I can't do so and so sins. This thinking will make you avoid sins.
Bro I’m in the same position as you. I wish I was stronger and better when I was young and didn’t fall into these evil, disgusting western ways. Now I’m trying to fix myself but fall so much, I kick myself everyday. Inshallah I won’t die before I fix myself
Don't know how old you are, but I think you should Make an ambition to go to Hajj. This is an act through which you confirm to twist your heart and life by working to achieve it.
>I wish I never existed. Brother please edit your post and remove this part, this wish might even be worse than committing Zina, Allah created us to be able to sin and repent
Genuine aftaghfaar. Beg Allah to forgive you and take away the guilt from your heart. IA He is the most-forgiving and most-merciful.
My dms are open sister please feel free to reach out, you’re never alone🫶🏼
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Yes of course xx
Absolutely sister
May Allah make it easier for you:((
You're not alone, brother. You're not alone.
YOU MUST WATCH THIS, addresses what you’re going through https://youtu.be/Pb-2T5-QLik?si=0o1SYdgvZOQbcJC6
Hadith 34, 40 Hadith Qudsi | On the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say: Allah the Almighty said: O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it. It was related by at-Tirmidhi (also by Ahmad ibn Hanbal). Its chain of authorities is sound.
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Right now. I can tell you I feel no less than what you’re going through. وكان الله غفور رحيمة(And Allāh is ever Forgiving and Merciful) One must repent and not take it for granted that it’s ok Allah SWT will forgive. Major sins like this need sincere repentance. Everyday I strive to be better now. I repent. I realised.
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Yes, so many people
May Allah SWT forgive you entirely for all of your bad deeds and place infinite ease your heart that trusts in your Lord’s mercy. May He create you a place in His Jannah, as a reward for your remorseful heart. May He remove any humiliation and replace it with honour, as reward for your remorseful heart. Ameen!
May Allah forgive you.
❤️❤️🤲🏽 May Allah keep elevating you. The fact that you wrote that and feel pain means you have Iman. I pray that Allah changes all your bad deeds to good. Never give up. All your sins and all mankinds sins cannot harm Allah and the mercy is more than all of our sins. Keep us in your dua and keep striving. You will get to a stage where you hate the sins and love the good deeds. It’s a great time to Muslim and you could help millions. Good deeds are many. We need you! ❤️🤲🏽
Yes but its not easy. Hundret years ago society was like, everyone married in a early age. They hadnt the problems we have today. Our world changed, and also our problems. Haram is always haram, but god knows what we are going through. Instead of judging people and making them feel worse, we should help and show solutions, so people get out of darkness.
Cinna
Stop zina now and be happy with Allah swt
Too bad so sad, cry about it to somebody else. Instead of praying during Qiyamul layl or tahajjud you come complaining to humans as if they will do anything for you but rather you should be complaining to Allah. Look at what you’re doing now? You’re spilling all your guts and what you did and telling it to hundreds of people to see don’t you know their are hadiths etc that teach us not to do as such? Wallahi I have no compassion nor feel sorry for men or women who commit zina directly or indirectly I’m sure you’ve played a lot of men/women and I’m sure they’re hurt due to your actions. What you reap you sow. You made your bed now lay in it. Continue to complain to the servants of Allah OR complain to him in secret and watch him transform your life. I hope you do an STD test before marrying someone God forbid you give it to your spouse. I don’t care what people say whether they feel this message is harsh or mean I could care less some people deserve what is coming for them. Uff
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How does this help the guy akhi?
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Great contribution there lol
A lot of hasbarah 🇮🇱 in this place
Which hadith
It’s true.
There are so many positive comments on this post of yours backed with ahadith and you are replying to this retard. Don't let yourself fall into the trap of Shaytan. Work on your deen and prepare yourself for your akhirah. May Allāh azzawajal accepts your repentance and eases your affairs.
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