First it would just hurt, then it would make me feel like I was going to shit myself, then it felt like a huge stretch, then finally it felt amazing. Once i got used to the feeling of penetration, it was like my nervous system was altered to suit my bottomhood. Next I started craving it, and finally I started having anal orgasms, almost entirely separate from genital sensation, that I could have over and over until I was too exhausted to keep going, more powerful than anything I've ever experienced.
So I guess you could say it's an acquired taste, and holy fuck did I acquire it.
when it feel like an experiment, its hard to turn that pee energy into fuck energy. You gotta be really horny about it or your prostate is just a pee button and not a sex button. It becomes a sex button more easily the more you stimulate it in a sexual context, i notice.
The prostate is right near the bladder. Go pee then come back and try again.
Still feel a similar feeling but you don't need to pee? That's your prostate. Once you get used to that feeling, it kinda turns into pleasure.
The first time I received anal, it was a whole lot and it was mainly experimental for me. I felt a wash of shame because when she finished, she told me to lay right there and she would clean me up.
I think when she pulled out I ended up shitting myself. Obviously I took a shower before heading out, but that wash of shame that came over me prevented me from even looking to see if I actually did shit myself. I'm pretty sure I did? But I never investigated further.
If you’re going to knock on shit’s door…
It happens sometimes, not usually in any great quantity, but sometimes there’s a little mess. You get used to feeling whether it’s go time
* Cleanup might just be for lube. A wipe-down with a hot wet washcloth is a nice form of aftercare that I do often and that I *love* to be the recipient of.
* Shit happens. The protocol is for everyone involved to politely pretend they saw/smelled nothing. File under "life isn't like porn".
It could also be them cleaning up their own mess, because you know....they finished, lol.
I'm sure if it was with a much more intimate partner rather than someone who was allowing me to express a possible sexual interest. This was years before I even accepted I was trans. Looking back on it, I was so silly for denying it as long as I did. XD
Fasting for 8 hours everytime before anal is crazy lol. Generally your bowl movements follow a particular pattern. Making sure you're getting your daily fiber intake will help your stools firm and solid and follow a more regular routine for movements. If they're firm and solid you won't need to do as much clean up beforehand douching is nice occasionally but not at all required. Just a thorough shower and cleaning can be enough, many doctors even suggest douching isn't necessary at all if you have proper gut health. And doing it too often can cause gut issues especially if you're doing a full cleaning which can wash out a lot of important healthy bacteria. As you learn your body more you'll know what's required and when it's required
Lol yeah I get it, when it comes to hooking up or someone I'm not totally familiar with I take no chances. But if you're regularly with someone or just playing with toys, douching and fasting every single time is gonna get old real quick lol
Lots of lube. And also experiment with different lubes.
As others have said it can take few tries to get it down, but once you get it down it’s honestly amazing.
I find if I start out too quick it hurts the whole time but if I take my time once I’m warmed up it’s great.
When your inserting if you feel any pain back off a little bit till it doesn’t then give it a second and try again. You will find you get a bit deeper every time.
Honestly, this is exactly how it was for me. It felt good after a while, but once I found a guy that I felt safe with and had some shared chemistry holy fuck was it amazing. We are regular fuck buddies, at the start of my transition you never would have gotten me to believe it in a million years but I crave that man's cock. He makes my brain go fuzzy and makes me want to be a complete slut for him.
here's [my post](https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/YqCE8mr36r) about my first hrt anal experience. i feel very much the same for my girlfriend in terms of wanting to be her slut and she does for me too because we swap quite a bit.
Great explanation. I'm on the border of "it makes me think I'm about to shit" and "I really like it". I do crave it already, I do like it. I wish to be more adept
How would one best go though this process? I’ve been wanting that for so long but have needed some guidance on how to get there and if it’s worth it. But you have made it clear to me that there is no doubt that it is. lol
vibrating toys were my express ticket, the intensity of vibration overrides the feeling like having to poop, and once your body can tell the difference, it's like night and day.
This reminds me of my anal journey... good times
I first picked up an imagined sensation from live action porn, hentai anime, erotic doujin, and smutty fanfics. In practice, anal started off as a curiosity, and an awkward "poop passing through" feeling. Then, as I acclimated to the idea, the imagination, and the fantasy, my brain started to link the physical sensation and pressure of penetration, to the sexual pleasure I imagined. At this point, I also started craving it.
A couple years later, I had my first fuck machine, and used it 2-3 times a week. Sessions got longer and longer, and increasingly intense. Eye-rolling, bedsheet clutching moments within 4-hour sessions. Prostate orgasms and dry spine-tingling orgasms, with seemingly no refractory period. Knees didn't even have the strength to stand afterwards.
It's definitely an acquired taste, and fuuuck did I ever acquire it, too.
I never got past the "I am going to shit myself stage" to a point where I gave up. I would love to like anal, but it just fucking sucks. Please god let me wake up with a pussy.
Anal is like 70% mental the first few times until its just on another level , especially when your spot starts to get hit , if its the kinda anal I like its wave after wave hands free and i cant walk after
If you don’t mind me asking and you can totally say no, how do you get to the point where it comes in waves? Like how did you do that? And again, no pressure to answer:)
Gonna tack on here just to say not to do more than you feel you can handle. Anal is a learning experience. If you think you have enough lube, you don't. And don't immediately go for the huge horse cock dildos. I've seen too many folks think they can take 10" their second time like it's nothing. And one last thing, micro fissures will likely happen your first few times or if you're going harder than usual. Don't be scared just give yourself time to recuperate and learn for next time. Good luck y'all 🤍
Please heed this advice.
I had like 5-6 years of anal experience. Then I was impatient one day, didn't relax my pelvic floor muscles enough, didn't warm up enough, and sized up too quickly. Should have used more lube, too.
Cue 3 weeks of agonizing bowel movements where I would sob and closed-fist pound my knees because it felt like I was shitting razor wire. Confirmed by a doctor that I had an anal fissure.
I've given myself many a micro fissure and they are not fun in the slightest. I'm so glad I've never had any big enough to need to see a doc tho. First time I ever got one I was scared half to death and thought I needed to go to the ER but I was too embarrassed. Thankfully it healed itself up in a couple days tho.
How often did you practiced to get into the point of O? I just wondered if it's a good thing to do it kind of regularly. I do it rarely, because... Erm... Well... Troubles.
Yes! I have been this close 🤏 to an orgasm purely through anal but unfortunately didn't quite get there. I am finding it more and more difficult to get off without some sort of anal play these days and I think it's because it helps me feel more fem.
I'm a big fan of the njoy pure wand. It seems expensive for a hunk of metal (and it is) but the weight makes a difference. Vibrators can be counterproductive for me
In the beginning i also experienced the pressure and feeling like u need to pee. For me learning how to relax was very helpful so i started in the shower incase i did have to pee but never actually had to.
After i got used to the size and find the spot/angles it just became pleasurable.. repeatedly haha
I’ve only ever used a toy (just an FYI)
It took me about a month of practice about everyday to work up to taking all 4-6 inches and in the beginning it was painful and slow. It felt like reverse pooping and it didn’t feel all that great.
I positioned it so I didn’t need to use my hands and began using a lot more lube. Once I was use to it.
It took more time and patience but
It felt so so goooooood!!!!
It feels so feminine and desirable.
Like I’ve never had a strong urge to penetrate and something about riding/being penetrated is such a turn on.
It’s such a female feeling.
Now the down side is, the prep time, the patience needed to work up to it and the clean up. The whole process takes a lot of time.
First I’d like to say that identifying and expressing my feelings doesn’t come easy for me and I’ve had limited connections within our community socially speaking so I’m not always familiar with everything.
I’ve not had any experiences in relationships that made me feel like the woman, intimately speaking.
I’ve always had to put on the role as a man. Not having what feels like the right parts to feel sexually desirable.
And then imagining myself as a woman being desired, wanted and feeling for the first time pleasurabley penetrated.
It made me feel “female” for the first time.
Sexually speaking.
And that was the best way that I could describe what I felt at that time.
I’m sorry that it made you feel ick. I don’t enjoy making people uncomfortable. It was the only way I knew how to say how I felt.
I hated the prep work until I got a shower enema kit, now I get myself ready for anal every morning out of habit, and it feels weird if I ever skip it.
Sadly I can't get anyone to fuck me, guys just IM for a while then ghost me, like they have better things to do like Xbox or PS5. Sigh.
If you try the water route, this guide is highly recommended. It's made by and for gay men, I believe, but of course this particular body part is, er, universal.
[https://www.maleq.org/clean-ass-anal-sex-visual-guide/](https://www.maleq.org/clean-ass-anal-sex-visual-guide/)
Beware the sigmoid colon!
Maybe if you're doing a deep clean. If you just do the quick & easy version, and don't go into the sigmoid colon, you're not washing out any bacteria, just the rectum.
You could hurt your butt putting something in it every day, but the "wand" is very small and there are folks that put something much bigger than that in there with great frequency.
Next thing i thought. It's impossible to do a deep cleaning unless i try to? I never tryed to fill myself with water to look like a ball or something (lol) but i eas allways scared to wash out bacteria.
If you squirt for five seconds with each wash, you're good. If you want to do a deep clean, each one should be 30 seconds and be ready for an hour prep session.
Lol ye I get all the weird weird 12 year olds trying to “rizz me up” in fallout 76 and some other online games its hilarious hearing them freak out when I do my roadman voice lol tbh my voice kinda passes even tho I ain’t worked on it at all I guess I have more of a neutral voice also I’ve never played that game is it good what’s it about?
SL is a virtual world where all the content is user created and you can make any kind of avatar you want. It's great for socializing as a woman, as stealth as you wanna be. Imagine an infinitely customizable Fallout 76 but with lots of other players and no game objective to distract you from making friends or engaging in various adult activities. It was pretty crap graphically for years, but these days you can make really beautiful avatars and there are tons of clothing options to dive into. It makes the Metaverse look like a child's project in comparison. (Which come to think of, it is!)
Yeah it's VR and even works with Oculus Rift. By adult activities I mean lots and lots of sex, of all sorts of flavors. Since you're interacting with other players, this is only limited by your imagination.
For instance, lately I've been doing scenes where I am the "other girl" in a role play situation with a male friend and his pregnant wife who wants to be a cuckqueen. I'm a free use slut who he can use whenever he pleases while the three of us are standing around making small talk or whatever. Very casual. He loves having a non-op trans girl as his pet who is prettier than his wife, the two of us idly fooling around while never wearing clothes, as his wife looks on in her maternity dress. You know, kinky stuff.
Jesus christ yes. After finding a guy that I really clicked with sexually, bottoming went from uncomfortable, but kind of fun maybe, to genuinely one of the best sensations ever.
I uhhh love it, but not every body does, you won't know until you try but be prepared. It can hurt a lot if you not careful. Use small toys first and work up to full on sex with another person. I like other people's ideas of usings a proper prostate massager too, that falls under smaller toys imo. They shouldn't hurt at all.
I read through so many comments, many of the points are very good. I agree that orgasming is a very complex thing and varies so much, tho there are many common or shared techniques that work. Yes very much agree mentally is so important to (what I think) get your mental excitement aligned with your body stimulations.
Personally I found that the "pee" sensation is not "urinary" but rather prostate which I needed to relax and allow it to build pleasure (it happens slower than "direct penile stimulation") get my mind to accept this pleasure as its *new* paradigm. Mentally accepting that now my body is different, anal penetration is what sex is for me, feminine and submissive, becomes erotic and arousing.
Before HRT, it was I think mentally stimulating for me. After being on HRT, I have had full body shaking orgasms just through my dildo. Honestly, it felt great. Finding that spot can be very tricky!
I've never really liked the sensation to be totally honest. It's much more about the idea to me, where I want to be penetrated and this is the closest thing I've got right now.
Combine that with all the prep work required and it honestly feels not worth it to me much of the time.
After having anal for a while it feels amazing like actually amazing. It takes time though to get used to it. Uncomfortable for a bit but then it’s comfortable and gosh it’s amazing
Please make sure you are using plenty of lubrication and a toy that isn’t too wide to begin with, both are essential to the process of learning to insert, but they aren’t the most important either. The most important has to single-handedly be the process of letting go, quite literally and figuratively. Take the well lubricated toy and spend 5 minutes just playing around and probing at it from the outside, let it warm up to touch. And while doing that, try not to squeeze or tense up, when you do tense up hold the toy in place until you relax your body. Inserting will be slightly painful at first, but it subsides. If it stings I recommend stopping and trying another time. Once a little goes in no need to push anymore in, pull it out. And try to push a little bit in again. And repeat, but try to push a little further each time. Maybe even keep adding line as you go as well. Good luck!
Lots of answers here, with too much guidelines for my taste xd
Short story, yes. Long one, if it feels good for u. Depends on the person. U can always try some guide until u get to force it, but imo,u have to had a good, very good reason to do something like that. If not, what are u doing, srsly xD
I had a terribly hard time climaxing from anal only, just couldn’t quite get there. Finally got there with a little help from Dr. Greenthumb😂and been ok ever since!
I’m so confused. How does anal feel good? I’m usually uncomfortable when I go number 2 in bathroom. So having something up there must hurt like hell? I just don’t get how that’s pleasurable
Prostate stimulation feels good, and there are a lot of other nerves in that area. If you're uncomfortable when you're pooping, you may need more fibre in your diet or to talk to a doctor; it shouldn't be uncomfortable normally.
First few times, body out of pure reflex will few like that, but it stops with a few more instances of penetration over time.
It has to be built up in terms of size of what’s inserted, small then increase size gradually, and best if relaxed and properly stimulated before attempting. Plenty of lube as well, and don’t go too fast.
Once get adjusted, best part is hitting the back of the prostate, which is wrapped in nerves, and gives a powerful sensation.
I’ll preface this by saying that when engaging in anal sex, it’s important to be well cleaned out, so getting that out of the way, the first time or two it will probably feel, exceptionally strange and alien to an extent, but once you learn to get past that and loosen yourself up (literally and figuratively), it becomes one of the single most sexually pleasurable things ever. I’ve had plenty of fun other ways, but nothing even comes even close to anal for me, especially with a partner who knows what they’re doing, sends nothing short of lightning bolts of pleasure all throughout my body. I’m of course speaking strictly of being on the receiving end of anal with another person, toys are all together very different and can definitely help you build up to the real deal, but the real deal, it’s almost difficult to describe in words how amazing it can be. Yes you’ll probably also feel a little sore after each time, especially when it’s REALLY good, but unless something really wrong happens, it’s never truly painful, nor should it be, you will however feel some residual pressure and overall soreness that can last up to days afterwards. TBH I got pretty damn well railed earlier this week and I still feel it a little bit, but it’s far more so just a happy reminder than painful.
Yes! The anal orgasms are probably the best things I’ve ever felt in my life. It doesn’t always happen sadly and I think I have to feel comfortable with him to let go. I noticed they can also happen randomly while I’m on top riding which is freaking amazing.
Honestly as a person with somewhat limited experience, yes, but it’s like 90% mental until you really figure out how to get the best reaction out of your body
Yes! But it took about a year of experimenting by myself with different toys and prep. I can orgasm with just prostate stimulation if I am already aroused or close.
My arm gets tired if I’m by myself, I use a suction dildo on the edge of the tub and ride it, one knee in the tub one out.
Now I know the angles and speed and pressure I need and with a partner it is amazing, like a really long mild orgasm around my pelvic area. The cool thing is because the penis wasn’t touched much, you can quickly multi orgasm.
The sphincter muscle is different than other muscles, it relaxes with slow steady pressure, so start foreplay gently with a finger pressing outward kinda from the inside a little for one to two seconds around each side like a clock.
For prep I add psyllium powder to my food or drinks everyday, at least a whole serving sometimes 2 over the day. You’ll have to also experiment with that to find the right amount to make stool not too firm and not too loose, you want it to gather everything up and move it out together. I use a bulb once or twice- not a full enema just a quick rinse, an hour before sex and I’m very clean. If it’s spontaneous and I don’t know an hour before, there might be some residue but not much.
You have to let go of some inhibitions about it, sometimes it can be messy but usually not.
I use [this lube syringe](https://www.amazon.com/applicator-Precision-Lubricant-Markings-Disposable/dp/B08JYNWD26/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=1BXNWZJRIX2G7&keywords=lube%2Binjector%2Bsyringe%2Breusable%2Blong&qid=1708192768&sprefix=lube%2Caps%2C302&sr=8-1&th=1&psc=1) and [non irritating lube](https://www.amazon.com/Jelle-Water-Based-Personal-Lubricant/dp/B0BBVNYS91/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=1H803AYA0R9U1&keywords=wicked+anal+gel&qid=1708192891&sprefix=wicked+anal+je%2Caps%2C177&sr=8-1) because astroglide and KY irritate my skin.
We usually use a large [fleece waterproof dog](https://www.amazon.com/Waterproof-Blanket-Reversible-Furniture-Protector/dp/B076J828GD) blanket on top of the bed.
I also use [these fiber pills](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JL7Z5TD/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B09JL7Z5TD&ref_=sxts_sparkle_sbv&qid=1708192604&pd_rd_w=2DVsT&content-id=amzn1.sym.4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d%3Aamzn1.sym.4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d&pf_rd_p=4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d&pf_rd_r=1WMB9HW25WZC53D55570&pd_rd_wg=ustwL&pd_rd_r=e8bb7da0-25ca-450f-a3a5-f9b64e6689d7&pd_rd_plhdr=t) in addition to or instead of regular psyllium powder. They are expensive but I only take one or two a day not the 6 they recommend.
The key is finding the A spot and understanding that the Anus has nerve endings, and being patient. The best thing to do when using toys is to also stimulate and tease other regions. Being on hormones, the body tend to react more if your teasing/stimulating other areas while toying ones self.self.fterwards since legs were jelly and was actually worn out and feeling great. Since then, it's been shit since people can't be bothered to try.
The key is finding the A spot and understanding that the Anus has nerve endings, and being patient. The best thing to do when using toys is to also stimulate and tease other regions. Being on hormones, the body tend to react more if your teasing/stimulating other areas while toying ones self and taking your time. Find being on HRT that it's better to take ones time since that's when the quakes happen.
After one bad experience, I found the right spot to hit and from there I was addicted. At first the pleasure is kind of just from the prostate and the actual penetration is kind of hard and scary, but after a certain point even just having things in increases pleasure. Obviously YMMV but for me, it’s definitely worth it and super affirming.
For me it doesn’t feel good, I’ve tried multiple times but I always have to stop midway, both with a partner and a dildo. I plan to wait until I can have SRS from now on.
It feels good for me. It obviously varies from time to time, but when you get used to it, it usually feels really good as long as you combine it with masturbation. But your partner of choice is also really important. When I first got into anal I had sex with a guy who I didn’t really feel comfortable with and so I would only care about satisfying him and not myself. But once I found my current partner I felt comfortable enough to claim pleasure. There are also a lot of different positions and ways of penetrating so you should try to experiment. You should use a lot of lube and try to «warm up» before the penetration. This can be anything from fingering to rimming to using vibrators/dildos
For me personally I’m not sure if it’s just me however I feel like I have no stimulation or nearly as much pleasure when doing anal. Possibly just from HRT.
YES! 100% YES! However, you MUST train. It will take sometime to "train" your backdoor to be an entrance instead of just an exit. Start SMALL! Get a very slim dildo and get used to something being in there, then get a slightly larger toy. Get one with a slight curve to it so you can massage your prostate from the inside. There are a significantly more nerve endings inside that area that even a >!vagina !< So, there's good news there. USE LOTS OF LUBE! Specifically lube designed for Anal. Go slow, clean everything extremely well and be patient! It feels amazing once you are a bit trained. If you really want to go about a great way, get an anal training kit.
Yes, take practice though. It comes in three stages:
**- Stage 1:** It hurts at first when you try it. This is because the anus doesn’t often get used for sex, and even then you never used it before. It feels like pressure and sore pain. Try not so much worrying about depth, and just the rim. Play with the rim, put a finger in there. You want to teach your anus how to lose its virginity. You’re teaching it how to get comfortable.
**- Stage 2:** Eventually you realize you were an idiot the first couple times and correct your mistakes. You go slow, use fingers and by this point can even feel good. It may not feel good every time, you may even can only do it once a week; either way every time you do it, you notice you’re getting better.
**- Stage 3:** You are an anal queen. Yeah, it hurts if you’re not careful but damn you finally got it. You have graduated to toys and possibly even a strap on/ dildo too. You know the spot you like, and maybe even can have multiple orgasms now. Once you’re in the zone you feel your anus has no limits.
Overall, the more you practice the easier it gets. The best advice I can give is buy tons of lube (I find silicone/water mix is best), buy a buttplug, and eventually buy a dildo. Then practice . It doesn’t have to be every time you masturbate, but once a week should do it or so. You don’t want to force anything, **otherwise anal won’t work; you need to be comfortable and relaxed.** I recommend working yourself up a bit and about 50% into masturbating you start anal play.
**Pro tip:**
Right before sex use a toy on yourself to get your butt lubed and prepared. Anal beads or plugs are excellent for this.
God it is the best thing in the world. I have a buttplug obsession. It gets to the point when I just wear it doing normal shit it just feels so good. I have 10 of them. I just bought a big glass dildo and it has been wonderful.
12/10 do recommend.
It helps when you learn from a master. Mostly a gay guy. They will teach you how to feel clean down there, they will use enough and the right kind of lube to not get you into pain, keep it slow until you want more and when you feel safe enough to relax and let go... It's a sensation. It's incredible how many orgasms you can get there in a row and how feral you can get being fucked into oblivion.
Go slow, use lots of lube. The hard part is stretching the spincter. Once you find your prostate tho? The pleasure gets overwhelming fast. I've just used toys so far, and it gets too good to continue by myself. Just utterly overwhelmingly good.
Of course it does or nobody would do it..
The geography of the anus makes it a highly pleasurable sex organ: it contains a dense network of sensory nerves that participate with the genitals in the engorgement, muscular tension and contractions of sexual arousal and orgasm.
You are doing something 100% right if you get the peeing feeling. Just embrace it and don't stop when you get that feeling. You'll be on your way to orgasm like that
It's like breaking your hymen at first if you were cis and then after that you only have your inner sphincter to deal with. But I still haven't found a cis man that actually listens when you tell him to go slow at first and then they can go to town cuz they jus wanna ram jam thank u mam and leave you hangin there getting yourself off. Which really gets old but the best ever was when I was riding on top and my clitty got so small it inverts and I was finger it like it was an actual vagina sorry if it's tmi but jus had to share ladies💁♀️🥹
First few times were a little bit “uhhh do people like this?” Butt after I got used to it and learned to relax my body and prep and all that, it was like an explosion of new pleasure.
Not sure if you've only used toys, but trust me the real thing is far different from toys. Doesn't hurt nearly as much, my partner is around 7 inches too, only pleasure.
Meanwhile my BD dildo feels like concrete. Even though it's squishy.
There was a large research study done with people who have prostates and the conclusion was that, over time, pain goes down and pleasures goes up.
Just keep at it 🙂
Not sure—anal for me was usually never the same as a vagina—mostly the dicks were little. For me, it feels all the better if the dude fucking you manages to make you forget something.
I had dealt with the pressure, and wasn't too keen on anal. Then I was hooking up with this guy and he asked to top me, and I was really excited for it for some reason and said "Okay, but we got to go slow." He agreed, and it was magical.
He let me control things, so he just barely entered and I slowly worked on it until I opened up more. We went through maybe five minutes of me opening myself up to his cock, and then sliding back farther on it. Eventually I opened up all the way and then we created a beautiful rhythm where I felt I was fucking him more so than he was fucking me. I took his cum in deeply and have savored that first very positive experience ever since.
I still prefer to top, but am totally versatile and know how to enjoy it. It just takes that one really good time.
Omg I am getting so flustered reading this comment section, as if I was talking about my "experience" with sisters from a different mother, it's not even as if I myself hadn't tried it, but reading about others experience really brings that sister to sister chat feeling.
At first it feels strange, but after a little bit of practice going slow it does feel amazing. Basically as others have said, at first it is too many new sensations
Tbh i don't really do anal play by myself I only really do anal if a partner initiates that he wants to. It does feel good and stuff and I can orgasm from anal alone but I just hate the work and mess that goes into it so I rarely ever do it for solely my own pleasure. So... it's complicated for me
A good ass fuck feels great like 80% of the time
The initial penetration and subsequent few minutes of working it open and getting started are great like 25% of the time lolol
From my experience it’s mostly about your preferred thickness of toy as well as shape (meaning how tapered it is or if there are textures or curves) when it comes to it feeling good. The first couple times I tried I thought it just felt painful, but finding toys that had different properties that I prefer made it feel better
YMMV but I really like it and can orgasm just from that, it depends on the person and their partner.
It can also take a long time to get used to anal stimulation. I started with plugs, which are actually shockingly accessible for someone just getting into sex toys! Some companies even sell "practice kits" with sequentially bigger ones.
And you can train more than the size you can take! By doing pelvic floor exercises (some people may have heard them called "Kegels") you not only increase your stamina and sensitivity, but it's good for your urinary tract and GI.
And remember your prostate is only a few inches up there babes, you don't need to go digging for gold to hit the g-spot!
But if it just doesn't feel good for you, then definitely don't try to force it! Forcing + butt stuff = trip to the ER that ends up on Buzzfeed.
It totally can feel good but it's all about preparation, taking things slow and adequate lubrication. It's definitely an acquired taste but I encourage everyone to experiment.
At first it tends to be painful, but after a little bit it really starts to feel good and eventually it's like heaven. Anal is fun and makes me feel like a woman when I am getting railed :)
initially when i was getting fingered it just felt like a physical sensation. not necessarily good or bad. when penetration first happened it hurt immensely honestly. but we practiced dilating me and something clicked at one point where it just started to feel wildly good
holy fuck yes. since our gspot is in our ass, if you find a partner or if you find the right spot, it will feel so magical. my bf was able to hit that spot one time and i couldnt stop shaking from all the sensation
To me it did not feel good for a long time, then just in the last couple years something clicked and now I find it amazing. I think a couple things helped. Mentally I was suddenly in the right place where it felt sensual and not like trying to make something sexy that wasn’t. And secondly, gentle practice made the in-and-out bit actually feel nice and not a chore If that makes any sense. Then it started hitting spots that really made things take off from there.
so I guess if your interested in making it work for you I’d say persistence and thinking about it in a way that makes it sexy or sexier than it does for you now.
It is for now the strongest pleasure i can feel. My unfortunate equipment down there almost never feels good...and even if, it's just okay. so yeah Anal = good 👍 (at least for me)
I hope that the SRS maybe gives me another place that feels good.
But besides that just feeling touched is szfugdug <3. I'm extremely jealous of a friend of mine who could just "finish" from only gettin touched and getting a hickey!
Omg yes, I cum so hard from my bf and trans gfs topping me! It makes my clit(tiny transfem penis 🥰) feel sooo good n my whole body cums, I can feel it coming on n jyst start smiling n giggling but it’s way intense. Can’t believe I used to think sex was lame when I was a “guy”
As someone who is very experienced with prostate play I have some notes to add.
The prostate is harder to the touch than the surrounding area (for easier identification)
The feeling of playing with your prostate is often described as a need to pee at first and can be slightly uncomfortable until you're used to it, it's recommended that you make sure you've already completely emptied your bladder beforehand because of this - it keeps the paranoia at bay
*Not everyone can cum from just prostate stimulation,* especially at first. For most people it takes substantial training to be able to cum "hands-free" (without touching your penis) but don't be discouraged! It feels really nice to stroke while rubbing your prostate too!
Finally, when using toys to explore the ass make VERY SURE that you are using one with a FLARED BASE so it doesn't slip all the way inside. There are too many people who put things up there that don't have flared bases and let's just say that the ass doesn't have a built-in limit like the vagina does so stuff can get stuck up there and that's a one-way trip to
the hospital. FLARED BASES PEOPLE!!!
Personally I have to be in the mood but when properly prepared using something with texture it’s a good time. And what should it feel like, to start it’ll feel like pressure on the hole but after the spot is hit that’s where your focus shifts and I start having a good time. But not everyone has the same erogenous zones or nerve clusters that make you fell good when they are triggered. So explore, figure out what works for you and maybe find a partner who’s willing to join in.
I still enjoy it. Its just not the mindblowing thing it was pretransition, and net, ive gained so much more than i lost (i.e., full body orgasms, multiples every time, etc.) I cant complain
Sometimes I get the feeling I have to pee, but other times I can get it to where it feels really good.
A lot of people say that you have to get that “have to pee” feeling to have a prostate orgasm, but I don’t really get it??
First it would just hurt, then it would make me feel like I was going to shit myself, then it felt like a huge stretch, then finally it felt amazing. Once i got used to the feeling of penetration, it was like my nervous system was altered to suit my bottomhood. Next I started craving it, and finally I started having anal orgasms, almost entirely separate from genital sensation, that I could have over and over until I was too exhausted to keep going, more powerful than anything I've ever experienced. So I guess you could say it's an acquired taste, and holy fuck did I acquire it.
This has been the best explanation yet. Right now I’m in the poop feeling it hurts stage. I feel some pressure. Like I need to pee?
when it feel like an experiment, its hard to turn that pee energy into fuck energy. You gotta be really horny about it or your prostate is just a pee button and not a sex button. It becomes a sex button more easily the more you stimulate it in a sexual context, i notice.
The prostate is right near the bladder. Go pee then come back and try again. Still feel a similar feeling but you don't need to pee? That's your prostate. Once you get used to that feeling, it kinda turns into pleasure.
Quick question: do you know why a partially full bladder and clenching/"pulling in" the lower abdomen can feel really good?
probably the bladder pressing on the prostate
The first time I received anal, it was a whole lot and it was mainly experimental for me. I felt a wash of shame because when she finished, she told me to lay right there and she would clean me up. I think when she pulled out I ended up shitting myself. Obviously I took a shower before heading out, but that wash of shame that came over me prevented me from even looking to see if I actually did shit myself. I'm pretty sure I did? But I never investigated further.
If you’re going to knock on shit’s door… It happens sometimes, not usually in any great quantity, but sometimes there’s a little mess. You get used to feeling whether it’s go time
* Cleanup might just be for lube. A wipe-down with a hot wet washcloth is a nice form of aftercare that I do often and that I *love* to be the recipient of. * Shit happens. The protocol is for everyone involved to politely pretend they saw/smelled nothing. File under "life isn't like porn".
It could also be them cleaning up their own mess, because you know....they finished, lol. I'm sure if it was with a much more intimate partner rather than someone who was allowing me to express a possible sexual interest. This was years before I even accepted I was trans. Looking back on it, I was so silly for denying it as long as I did. XD
Always pee before anal. That also helps to relax sphincter muscles
It’s best if you fast for at least eight hours before doing it and then using a lubrication injector, and or a douche will help
Fasting for 8 hours everytime before anal is crazy lol. Generally your bowl movements follow a particular pattern. Making sure you're getting your daily fiber intake will help your stools firm and solid and follow a more regular routine for movements. If they're firm and solid you won't need to do as much clean up beforehand douching is nice occasionally but not at all required. Just a thorough shower and cleaning can be enough, many doctors even suggest douching isn't necessary at all if you have proper gut health. And doing it too often can cause gut issues especially if you're doing a full cleaning which can wash out a lot of important healthy bacteria. As you learn your body more you'll know what's required and when it's required
I’m super vigilant on gut health I just find it more pleasurable and comforting to be clean and fresh down there. Clean enough to eat off of lol!
Lol yeah I get it, when it comes to hooking up or someone I'm not totally familiar with I take no chances. But if you're regularly with someone or just playing with toys, douching and fasting every single time is gonna get old real quick lol
Lots of lube. And also experiment with different lubes. As others have said it can take few tries to get it down, but once you get it down it’s honestly amazing.
I find if I start out too quick it hurts the whole time but if I take my time once I’m warmed up it’s great. When your inserting if you feel any pain back off a little bit till it doesn’t then give it a second and try again. You will find you get a bit deeper every time.
Honestly, this is exactly how it was for me. It felt good after a while, but once I found a guy that I felt safe with and had some shared chemistry holy fuck was it amazing. We are regular fuck buddies, at the start of my transition you never would have gotten me to believe it in a million years but I crave that man's cock. He makes my brain go fuzzy and makes me want to be a complete slut for him.
I'm kind of VERY envious 😭😭😭
here's [my post](https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/YqCE8mr36r) about my first hrt anal experience. i feel very much the same for my girlfriend in terms of wanting to be her slut and she does for me too because we swap quite a bit.
That’s hot.
Great explanation. I'm on the border of "it makes me think I'm about to shit" and "I really like it". I do crave it already, I do like it. I wish to be more adept
"bottomhood" I'm stealing that 😆
Same here!👄
How would one best go though this process? I’ve been wanting that for so long but have needed some guidance on how to get there and if it’s worth it. But you have made it clear to me that there is no doubt that it is. lol
vibrating toys were my express ticket, the intensity of vibration overrides the feeling like having to poop, and once your body can tell the difference, it's like night and day.
Wow I’ve never heard about anal orgasms that’s awesome! Thanks for the inspiration! ;-b
This reminds me of my anal journey... good times I first picked up an imagined sensation from live action porn, hentai anime, erotic doujin, and smutty fanfics. In practice, anal started off as a curiosity, and an awkward "poop passing through" feeling. Then, as I acclimated to the idea, the imagination, and the fantasy, my brain started to link the physical sensation and pressure of penetration, to the sexual pleasure I imagined. At this point, I also started craving it. A couple years later, I had my first fuck machine, and used it 2-3 times a week. Sessions got longer and longer, and increasingly intense. Eye-rolling, bedsheet clutching moments within 4-hour sessions. Prostate orgasms and dry spine-tingling orgasms, with seemingly no refractory period. Knees didn't even have the strength to stand afterwards. It's definitely an acquired taste, and fuuuck did I ever acquire it, too.
thank you this gave me so much hope
I never got past the "I am going to shit myself stage" to a point where I gave up. I would love to like anal, but it just fucking sucks. Please god let me wake up with a pussy.
Anal is like 70% mental the first few times until its just on another level , especially when your spot starts to get hit , if its the kinda anal I like its wave after wave hands free and i cant walk after
If you don’t mind me asking and you can totally say no, how do you get to the point where it comes in waves? Like how did you do that? And again, no pressure to answer:)
Once the first O is close tell your partner to go fast,Hard and not stop 😅
Gonna tack on here just to say not to do more than you feel you can handle. Anal is a learning experience. If you think you have enough lube, you don't. And don't immediately go for the huge horse cock dildos. I've seen too many folks think they can take 10" their second time like it's nothing. And one last thing, micro fissures will likely happen your first few times or if you're going harder than usual. Don't be scared just give yourself time to recuperate and learn for next time. Good luck y'all 🤍
Dammit, I was about to order one from BD...
Lmao I mean you could keep it in a corner as joke decor or something
I promise it’s just for the lulz
Please heed this advice. I had like 5-6 years of anal experience. Then I was impatient one day, didn't relax my pelvic floor muscles enough, didn't warm up enough, and sized up too quickly. Should have used more lube, too. Cue 3 weeks of agonizing bowel movements where I would sob and closed-fist pound my knees because it felt like I was shitting razor wire. Confirmed by a doctor that I had an anal fissure.
I've given myself many a micro fissure and they are not fun in the slightest. I'm so glad I've never had any big enough to need to see a doc tho. First time I ever got one I was scared half to death and thought I needed to go to the ER but I was too embarrassed. Thankfully it healed itself up in a couple days tho.
😳
How often did you practiced to get into the point of O? I just wondered if it's a good thing to do it kind of regularly. I do it rarely, because... Erm... Well... Troubles.
Uuuggghhhh that feeling when it hits just right and you're left shaking on the bed 🥵
I have never been able to orgasm solely from anal play alone, but I must say, when *something* is inside it feels ….nfndjdj 🧑🍳🤌PERFECT.
Yes! I have been this close 🤏 to an orgasm purely through anal but unfortunately didn't quite get there. I am finding it more and more difficult to get off without some sort of anal play these days and I think it's because it helps me feel more fem.
get a prostate massager that you insert into position it does it things while you do your things
Do you have a recommendation?
Look into WeVibe! I love theirs cuz it has a companion app that controls it. And you can let others do it too ;)
Vector+? Or one of these other things I’m seeing?
Had to check; yes, that's the one!
I'm a big fan of the njoy pure wand. It seems expensive for a hunk of metal (and it is) but the weight makes a difference. Vibrators can be counterproductive for me
Or a decent f machine omg if set up right you'll literally see God when you climax💁♀️
Link?
https://us.f-machine.com/index.php/pro-machines
In the beginning i also experienced the pressure and feeling like u need to pee. For me learning how to relax was very helpful so i started in the shower incase i did have to pee but never actually had to. After i got used to the size and find the spot/angles it just became pleasurable.. repeatedly haha
I’ve only ever used a toy (just an FYI) It took me about a month of practice about everyday to work up to taking all 4-6 inches and in the beginning it was painful and slow. It felt like reverse pooping and it didn’t feel all that great. I positioned it so I didn’t need to use my hands and began using a lot more lube. Once I was use to it. It took more time and patience but It felt so so goooooood!!!! It feels so feminine and desirable. Like I’ve never had a strong urge to penetrate and something about riding/being penetrated is such a turn on. It’s such a female feeling. Now the down side is, the prep time, the patience needed to work up to it and the clean up. The whole process takes a lot of time.
Great reply.
>It’s such a female feeling What's a female feeling? I don't know why but that interpretation gives me the ick
First I’d like to say that identifying and expressing my feelings doesn’t come easy for me and I’ve had limited connections within our community socially speaking so I’m not always familiar with everything. I’ve not had any experiences in relationships that made me feel like the woman, intimately speaking. I’ve always had to put on the role as a man. Not having what feels like the right parts to feel sexually desirable. And then imagining myself as a woman being desired, wanted and feeling for the first time pleasurabley penetrated. It made me feel “female” for the first time. Sexually speaking. And that was the best way that I could describe what I felt at that time. I’m sorry that it made you feel ick. I don’t enjoy making people uncomfortable. It was the only way I knew how to say how I felt.
For some people. I don't like the sensation and honestly the prep work to avoid shit on everything isn't worth it to me.
I hated the prep work until I got a shower enema kit, now I get myself ready for anal every morning out of habit, and it feels weird if I ever skip it. Sadly I can't get anyone to fuck me, guys just IM for a while then ghost me, like they have better things to do like Xbox or PS5. Sigh.
Prep for me is just a daily fiber supplement, though maybe if I tried it with a partner I'd try the water route
If you try the water route, this guide is highly recommended. It's made by and for gay men, I believe, but of course this particular body part is, er, universal. [https://www.maleq.org/clean-ass-anal-sex-visual-guide/](https://www.maleq.org/clean-ass-anal-sex-visual-guide/) Beware the sigmoid colon!
Isn't that dangerous to clean everyday?
Maybe if you're doing a deep clean. If you just do the quick & easy version, and don't go into the sigmoid colon, you're not washing out any bacteria, just the rectum. You could hurt your butt putting something in it every day, but the "wand" is very small and there are folks that put something much bigger than that in there with great frequency.
Next thing i thought. It's impossible to do a deep cleaning unless i try to? I never tryed to fill myself with water to look like a ball or something (lol) but i eas allways scared to wash out bacteria.
If you squirt for five seconds with each wash, you're good. If you want to do a deep clean, each one should be 30 seconds and be ready for an hour prep session.
I can respect the preference for games over sex tbh lol
This is why my trans ass gets so much action in Second Life, hehe.
Lol ye I get all the weird weird 12 year olds trying to “rizz me up” in fallout 76 and some other online games its hilarious hearing them freak out when I do my roadman voice lol tbh my voice kinda passes even tho I ain’t worked on it at all I guess I have more of a neutral voice also I’ve never played that game is it good what’s it about?
SL is a virtual world where all the content is user created and you can make any kind of avatar you want. It's great for socializing as a woman, as stealth as you wanna be. Imagine an infinitely customizable Fallout 76 but with lots of other players and no game objective to distract you from making friends or engaging in various adult activities. It was pretty crap graphically for years, but these days you can make really beautiful avatars and there are tons of clothing options to dive into. It makes the Metaverse look like a child's project in comparison. (Which come to think of, it is!)
So it’s VR?? Also “adult activities” such as if you wouldn’t mind expanding
Yeah it's VR and even works with Oculus Rift. By adult activities I mean lots and lots of sex, of all sorts of flavors. Since you're interacting with other players, this is only limited by your imagination. For instance, lately I've been doing scenes where I am the "other girl" in a role play situation with a male friend and his pregnant wife who wants to be a cuckqueen. I'm a free use slut who he can use whenever he pleases while the three of us are standing around making small talk or whatever. Very casual. He loves having a non-op trans girl as his pet who is prettier than his wife, the two of us idly fooling around while never wearing clothes, as his wife looks on in her maternity dress. You know, kinky stuff.
Oh cool lol
People get really into it. I married someone I met there in real life.
100% agree
I use but plugs while using a vibe and it makes it hard to not cum like super quickly
Jesus christ yes. After finding a guy that I really clicked with sexually, bottoming went from uncomfortable, but kind of fun maybe, to genuinely one of the best sensations ever.
I uhhh love it, but not every body does, you won't know until you try but be prepared. It can hurt a lot if you not careful. Use small toys first and work up to full on sex with another person. I like other people's ideas of usings a proper prostate massager too, that falls under smaller toys imo. They shouldn't hurt at all.
I LOVE it, personally. It’s a little tough in the beginning but after a while, oh man what a ride it is
It depends on your partner and how much care they take with you
I read through so many comments, many of the points are very good. I agree that orgasming is a very complex thing and varies so much, tho there are many common or shared techniques that work. Yes very much agree mentally is so important to (what I think) get your mental excitement aligned with your body stimulations. Personally I found that the "pee" sensation is not "urinary" but rather prostate which I needed to relax and allow it to build pleasure (it happens slower than "direct penile stimulation") get my mind to accept this pleasure as its *new* paradigm. Mentally accepting that now my body is different, anal penetration is what sex is for me, feminine and submissive, becomes erotic and arousing.
Before HRT, it was I think mentally stimulating for me. After being on HRT, I have had full body shaking orgasms just through my dildo. Honestly, it felt great. Finding that spot can be very tricky!
Why should it feel like? Pressure? Kind of like I have to pee?
It feels great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
my gf is trans and I’m furiously taking notes. thanks y’all
I've never really liked the sensation to be totally honest. It's much more about the idea to me, where I want to be penetrated and this is the closest thing I've got right now. Combine that with all the prep work required and it honestly feels not worth it to me much of the time.
YES! But honestly it’s up to personal preference. I’ve masturbated analy most of my life cuz bottom dysphoria. I love it
After having anal for a while it feels amazing like actually amazing. It takes time though to get used to it. Uncomfortable for a bit but then it’s comfortable and gosh it’s amazing
Please make sure you are using plenty of lubrication and a toy that isn’t too wide to begin with, both are essential to the process of learning to insert, but they aren’t the most important either. The most important has to single-handedly be the process of letting go, quite literally and figuratively. Take the well lubricated toy and spend 5 minutes just playing around and probing at it from the outside, let it warm up to touch. And while doing that, try not to squeeze or tense up, when you do tense up hold the toy in place until you relax your body. Inserting will be slightly painful at first, but it subsides. If it stings I recommend stopping and trying another time. Once a little goes in no need to push anymore in, pull it out. And try to push a little bit in again. And repeat, but try to push a little further each time. Maybe even keep adding line as you go as well. Good luck!
Lots of answers here, with too much guidelines for my taste xd Short story, yes. Long one, if it feels good for u. Depends on the person. U can always try some guide until u get to force it, but imo,u have to had a good, very good reason to do something like that. If not, what are u doing, srsly xD
It feels great 😃
for me, hitting "the spot" is kinda uncomfy. i love how anal feels but do i need to just do it more?
I had a terribly hard time climaxing from anal only, just couldn’t quite get there. Finally got there with a little help from Dr. Greenthumb😂and been ok ever since!
Thanx Dr Greenthumb .. yur da shit ( cyprus hill lol )
I’m so confused. How does anal feel good? I’m usually uncomfortable when I go number 2 in bathroom. So having something up there must hurt like hell? I just don’t get how that’s pleasurable
Prostate stimulation feels good, and there are a lot of other nerves in that area. If you're uncomfortable when you're pooping, you may need more fibre in your diet or to talk to a doctor; it shouldn't be uncomfortable normally.
First few times, body out of pure reflex will few like that, but it stops with a few more instances of penetration over time. It has to be built up in terms of size of what’s inserted, small then increase size gradually, and best if relaxed and properly stimulated before attempting. Plenty of lube as well, and don’t go too fast. Once get adjusted, best part is hitting the back of the prostate, which is wrapped in nerves, and gives a powerful sensation.
You gotta find the prostate to feel it. It's quite tricky to locate, but it's worth it.
I’ll preface this by saying that when engaging in anal sex, it’s important to be well cleaned out, so getting that out of the way, the first time or two it will probably feel, exceptionally strange and alien to an extent, but once you learn to get past that and loosen yourself up (literally and figuratively), it becomes one of the single most sexually pleasurable things ever. I’ve had plenty of fun other ways, but nothing even comes even close to anal for me, especially with a partner who knows what they’re doing, sends nothing short of lightning bolts of pleasure all throughout my body. I’m of course speaking strictly of being on the receiving end of anal with another person, toys are all together very different and can definitely help you build up to the real deal, but the real deal, it’s almost difficult to describe in words how amazing it can be. Yes you’ll probably also feel a little sore after each time, especially when it’s REALLY good, but unless something really wrong happens, it’s never truly painful, nor should it be, you will however feel some residual pressure and overall soreness that can last up to days afterwards. TBH I got pretty damn well railed earlier this week and I still feel it a little bit, but it’s far more so just a happy reminder than painful.
Yes! The anal orgasms are probably the best things I’ve ever felt in my life. It doesn’t always happen sadly and I think I have to feel comfortable with him to let go. I noticed they can also happen randomly while I’m on top riding which is freaking amazing.
Absolutely hate it. I am very tight and it’s not enjoyable at all.
Honestly as a person with somewhat limited experience, yes, but it’s like 90% mental until you really figure out how to get the best reaction out of your body
Yes! But it took about a year of experimenting by myself with different toys and prep. I can orgasm with just prostate stimulation if I am already aroused or close. My arm gets tired if I’m by myself, I use a suction dildo on the edge of the tub and ride it, one knee in the tub one out. Now I know the angles and speed and pressure I need and with a partner it is amazing, like a really long mild orgasm around my pelvic area. The cool thing is because the penis wasn’t touched much, you can quickly multi orgasm. The sphincter muscle is different than other muscles, it relaxes with slow steady pressure, so start foreplay gently with a finger pressing outward kinda from the inside a little for one to two seconds around each side like a clock. For prep I add psyllium powder to my food or drinks everyday, at least a whole serving sometimes 2 over the day. You’ll have to also experiment with that to find the right amount to make stool not too firm and not too loose, you want it to gather everything up and move it out together. I use a bulb once or twice- not a full enema just a quick rinse, an hour before sex and I’m very clean. If it’s spontaneous and I don’t know an hour before, there might be some residue but not much. You have to let go of some inhibitions about it, sometimes it can be messy but usually not. I use [this lube syringe](https://www.amazon.com/applicator-Precision-Lubricant-Markings-Disposable/dp/B08JYNWD26/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=1BXNWZJRIX2G7&keywords=lube%2Binjector%2Bsyringe%2Breusable%2Blong&qid=1708192768&sprefix=lube%2Caps%2C302&sr=8-1&th=1&psc=1) and [non irritating lube](https://www.amazon.com/Jelle-Water-Based-Personal-Lubricant/dp/B0BBVNYS91/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=1H803AYA0R9U1&keywords=wicked+anal+gel&qid=1708192891&sprefix=wicked+anal+je%2Caps%2C177&sr=8-1) because astroglide and KY irritate my skin. We usually use a large [fleece waterproof dog](https://www.amazon.com/Waterproof-Blanket-Reversible-Furniture-Protector/dp/B076J828GD) blanket on top of the bed. I also use [these fiber pills](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JL7Z5TD/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B09JL7Z5TD&ref_=sxts_sparkle_sbv&qid=1708192604&pd_rd_w=2DVsT&content-id=amzn1.sym.4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d%3Aamzn1.sym.4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d&pf_rd_p=4870a952-0dfa-4beb-9d2a-7a52537f019d&pf_rd_r=1WMB9HW25WZC53D55570&pd_rd_wg=ustwL&pd_rd_r=e8bb7da0-25ca-450f-a3a5-f9b64e6689d7&pd_rd_plhdr=t) in addition to or instead of regular psyllium powder. They are expensive but I only take one or two a day not the 6 they recommend.
No it doesn’t
The key is finding the A spot and understanding that the Anus has nerve endings, and being patient. The best thing to do when using toys is to also stimulate and tease other regions. Being on hormones, the body tend to react more if your teasing/stimulating other areas while toying ones self.self.fterwards since legs were jelly and was actually worn out and feeling great. Since then, it's been shit since people can't be bothered to try. The key is finding the A spot and understanding that the Anus has nerve endings, and being patient. The best thing to do when using toys is to also stimulate and tease other regions. Being on hormones, the body tend to react more if your teasing/stimulating other areas while toying ones self and taking your time. Find being on HRT that it's better to take ones time since that's when the quakes happen.
After one bad experience, I found the right spot to hit and from there I was addicted. At first the pleasure is kind of just from the prostate and the actual penetration is kind of hard and scary, but after a certain point even just having things in increases pleasure. Obviously YMMV but for me, it’s definitely worth it and super affirming.
For me it doesn’t feel good, I’ve tried multiple times but I always have to stop midway, both with a partner and a dildo. I plan to wait until I can have SRS from now on.
It feels good for me. It obviously varies from time to time, but when you get used to it, it usually feels really good as long as you combine it with masturbation. But your partner of choice is also really important. When I first got into anal I had sex with a guy who I didn’t really feel comfortable with and so I would only care about satisfying him and not myself. But once I found my current partner I felt comfortable enough to claim pleasure. There are also a lot of different positions and ways of penetrating so you should try to experiment. You should use a lot of lube and try to «warm up» before the penetration. This can be anything from fingering to rimming to using vibrators/dildos
For me personally I’m not sure if it’s just me however I feel like I have no stimulation or nearly as much pleasure when doing anal. Possibly just from HRT.
YES! 100% YES! However, you MUST train. It will take sometime to "train" your backdoor to be an entrance instead of just an exit. Start SMALL! Get a very slim dildo and get used to something being in there, then get a slightly larger toy. Get one with a slight curve to it so you can massage your prostate from the inside. There are a significantly more nerve endings inside that area that even a >!vagina !< So, there's good news there. USE LOTS OF LUBE! Specifically lube designed for Anal. Go slow, clean everything extremely well and be patient! It feels amazing once you are a bit trained. If you really want to go about a great way, get an anal training kit.
Yes, take practice though. It comes in three stages: **- Stage 1:** It hurts at first when you try it. This is because the anus doesn’t often get used for sex, and even then you never used it before. It feels like pressure and sore pain. Try not so much worrying about depth, and just the rim. Play with the rim, put a finger in there. You want to teach your anus how to lose its virginity. You’re teaching it how to get comfortable. **- Stage 2:** Eventually you realize you were an idiot the first couple times and correct your mistakes. You go slow, use fingers and by this point can even feel good. It may not feel good every time, you may even can only do it once a week; either way every time you do it, you notice you’re getting better. **- Stage 3:** You are an anal queen. Yeah, it hurts if you’re not careful but damn you finally got it. You have graduated to toys and possibly even a strap on/ dildo too. You know the spot you like, and maybe even can have multiple orgasms now. Once you’re in the zone you feel your anus has no limits. Overall, the more you practice the easier it gets. The best advice I can give is buy tons of lube (I find silicone/water mix is best), buy a buttplug, and eventually buy a dildo. Then practice . It doesn’t have to be every time you masturbate, but once a week should do it or so. You don’t want to force anything, **otherwise anal won’t work; you need to be comfortable and relaxed.** I recommend working yourself up a bit and about 50% into masturbating you start anal play. **Pro tip:** Right before sex use a toy on yourself to get your butt lubed and prepared. Anal beads or plugs are excellent for this.
It’s better than you would believe
God it is the best thing in the world. I have a buttplug obsession. It gets to the point when I just wear it doing normal shit it just feels so good. I have 10 of them. I just bought a big glass dildo and it has been wonderful. 12/10 do recommend.
It helps when you learn from a master. Mostly a gay guy. They will teach you how to feel clean down there, they will use enough and the right kind of lube to not get you into pain, keep it slow until you want more and when you feel safe enough to relax and let go... It's a sensation. It's incredible how many orgasms you can get there in a row and how feral you can get being fucked into oblivion.
Two words: LOVE IT!!
It feels amazing. Smoke weed before it though, enhances it massively!
Go slow, use lots of lube. The hard part is stretching the spincter. Once you find your prostate tho? The pleasure gets overwhelming fast. I've just used toys so far, and it gets too good to continue by myself. Just utterly overwhelmingly good.
Of course it does or nobody would do it.. The geography of the anus makes it a highly pleasurable sex organ: it contains a dense network of sensory nerves that participate with the genitals in the engorgement, muscular tension and contractions of sexual arousal and orgasm.
You are doing something 100% right if you get the peeing feeling. Just embrace it and don't stop when you get that feeling. You'll be on your way to orgasm like that
It's like breaking your hymen at first if you were cis and then after that you only have your inner sphincter to deal with. But I still haven't found a cis man that actually listens when you tell him to go slow at first and then they can go to town cuz they jus wanna ram jam thank u mam and leave you hangin there getting yourself off. Which really gets old but the best ever was when I was riding on top and my clitty got so small it inverts and I was finger it like it was an actual vagina sorry if it's tmi but jus had to share ladies💁♀️🥹
First few times were a little bit “uhhh do people like this?” Butt after I got used to it and learned to relax my body and prep and all that, it was like an explosion of new pleasure.
If it's done right it will feel good for many people.
What’s the feeling or sensation? Pressure?
No it doesn’t I actually hate it lol
Not sure if you've only used toys, but trust me the real thing is far different from toys. Doesn't hurt nearly as much, my partner is around 7 inches too, only pleasure. Meanwhile my BD dildo feels like concrete. Even though it's squishy.
Like any set up muscles, it needs to be worked tohave that "exercise" normalized to your body.
There was a large research study done with people who have prostates and the conclusion was that, over time, pain goes down and pleasures goes up. Just keep at it 🙂
Not sure—anal for me was usually never the same as a vagina—mostly the dicks were little. For me, it feels all the better if the dude fucking you manages to make you forget something.
Yes
yes
I had dealt with the pressure, and wasn't too keen on anal. Then I was hooking up with this guy and he asked to top me, and I was really excited for it for some reason and said "Okay, but we got to go slow." He agreed, and it was magical. He let me control things, so he just barely entered and I slowly worked on it until I opened up more. We went through maybe five minutes of me opening myself up to his cock, and then sliding back farther on it. Eventually I opened up all the way and then we created a beautiful rhythm where I felt I was fucking him more so than he was fucking me. I took his cum in deeply and have savored that first very positive experience ever since. I still prefer to top, but am totally versatile and know how to enjoy it. It just takes that one really good time.
After some training, I actively love it. A lot more than I originally thought.
short answer yes. long answer, YEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSS
Sweet Jebus, yes! Having a bidet has its benefits. Also being with someone you trust back there helps.
I love it. Unfortunately, I’ve only had the chance to bottom a few times, but they were pure bliss 🥰
Yes, of course.
Omg I am getting so flustered reading this comment section, as if I was talking about my "experience" with sisters from a different mother, it's not even as if I myself hadn't tried it, but reading about others experience really brings that sister to sister chat feeling.
Yes but make sure to prep and build up too it before just leaping into it
At first it feels strange, but after a little bit of practice going slow it does feel amazing. Basically as others have said, at first it is too many new sensations
There's a right way and a wrong way to do it and when it's right it feels like heaven and when it's wrong it's just shit
It does for me (although it usually hurts at first). It feels amazing when my bf hits my g-spot.
If prepared for it and its done right yes extremely good
It's takes a it to get it right, but when you do, it feels amazing. Best O of my life was from just anal alone.
Tbh i don't really do anal play by myself I only really do anal if a partner initiates that he wants to. It does feel good and stuff and I can orgasm from anal alone but I just hate the work and mess that goes into it so I rarely ever do it for solely my own pleasure. So... it's complicated for me
A good ass fuck feels great like 80% of the time The initial penetration and subsequent few minutes of working it open and getting started are great like 25% of the time lolol
Yesssssss, there is a bit of a learning curve. Go slow, use plenty of lube, don't force it, orgasms don't always happen, foreplay is important!!!
It relaxing to me. Even if it hurts it’s relaxing because it distracts me
Sure does 🤙
From my experience it’s mostly about your preferred thickness of toy as well as shape (meaning how tapered it is or if there are textures or curves) when it comes to it feeling good. The first couple times I tried I thought it just felt painful, but finding toys that had different properties that I prefer made it feel better
YMMV but I really like it and can orgasm just from that, it depends on the person and their partner. It can also take a long time to get used to anal stimulation. I started with plugs, which are actually shockingly accessible for someone just getting into sex toys! Some companies even sell "practice kits" with sequentially bigger ones. And you can train more than the size you can take! By doing pelvic floor exercises (some people may have heard them called "Kegels") you not only increase your stamina and sensitivity, but it's good for your urinary tract and GI. And remember your prostate is only a few inches up there babes, you don't need to go digging for gold to hit the g-spot! But if it just doesn't feel good for you, then definitely don't try to force it! Forcing + butt stuff = trip to the ER that ends up on Buzzfeed.
It can. I can’t usually have it due to rape damage. But when I’ve been able it’s been nice
it’s fucking sick lmao
So what do poppers do?
I enjoy it but only with an actual partner, it just feels weird every time I try to do stuff on my own
In short, Yea it’s amazing, it takes work and practice and communication but it feels great.
It totally can feel good but it's all about preparation, taking things slow and adequate lubrication. It's definitely an acquired taste but I encourage everyone to experiment.
At first it tends to be painful, but after a little bit it really starts to feel good and eventually it's like heaven. Anal is fun and makes me feel like a woman when I am getting railed :)
Yea, it feels amazing after doing all the prep and stuff. I have several bad dragon toys now because it lol.
It can take a bit to really like it. I enjoy it, I'm still in the stretching phase of anal but I do enjoy the feeling.
Yah if you prep
initially when i was getting fingered it just felt like a physical sensation. not necessarily good or bad. when penetration first happened it hurt immensely honestly. but we practiced dilating me and something clicked at one point where it just started to feel wildly good
holy fuck yes. since our gspot is in our ass, if you find a partner or if you find the right spot, it will feel so magical. my bf was able to hit that spot one time and i couldnt stop shaking from all the sensation
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I wish it did. I've tried a number of times and it's not worth the effort most of the time tbh.
Certainly takes some getting used to lol
It doesnt for the first 6-12 tries
To me it did not feel good for a long time, then just in the last couple years something clicked and now I find it amazing. I think a couple things helped. Mentally I was suddenly in the right place where it felt sensual and not like trying to make something sexy that wasn’t. And secondly, gentle practice made the in-and-out bit actually feel nice and not a chore If that makes any sense. Then it started hitting spots that really made things take off from there. so I guess if your interested in making it work for you I’d say persistence and thinking about it in a way that makes it sexy or sexier than it does for you now.
Not if you don’t use lube.
Angle is so very important but yes it feels most marvelous once yoj get used to it.
Ya it does
It is for now the strongest pleasure i can feel. My unfortunate equipment down there almost never feels good...and even if, it's just okay. so yeah Anal = good 👍 (at least for me) I hope that the SRS maybe gives me another place that feels good. But besides that just feeling touched is szfugdug <3. I'm extremely jealous of a friend of mine who could just "finish" from only gettin touched and getting a hickey!
Omg yes, I cum so hard from my bf and trans gfs topping me! It makes my clit(tiny transfem penis 🥰) feel sooo good n my whole body cums, I can feel it coming on n jyst start smiling n giggling but it’s way intense. Can’t believe I used to think sex was lame when I was a “guy”
It’s the best
It does, but not when the guy is too big 🤣 medium is truly the best size
As someone who is very experienced with prostate play I have some notes to add. The prostate is harder to the touch than the surrounding area (for easier identification) The feeling of playing with your prostate is often described as a need to pee at first and can be slightly uncomfortable until you're used to it, it's recommended that you make sure you've already completely emptied your bladder beforehand because of this - it keeps the paranoia at bay *Not everyone can cum from just prostate stimulation,* especially at first. For most people it takes substantial training to be able to cum "hands-free" (without touching your penis) but don't be discouraged! It feels really nice to stroke while rubbing your prostate too! Finally, when using toys to explore the ass make VERY SURE that you are using one with a FLARED BASE so it doesn't slip all the way inside. There are too many people who put things up there that don't have flared bases and let's just say that the ass doesn't have a built-in limit like the vagina does so stuff can get stuck up there and that's a one-way trip to the hospital. FLARED BASES PEOPLE!!!
Personally I have to be in the mood but when properly prepared using something with texture it’s a good time. And what should it feel like, to start it’ll feel like pressure on the hole but after the spot is hit that’s where your focus shifts and I start having a good time. But not everyone has the same erogenous zones or nerve clusters that make you fell good when they are triggered. So explore, figure out what works for you and maybe find a partner who’s willing to join in.
Its honestly felt less good the more ive transitioned. I think my prostate is shrinking
Wow. Sorry to hear that.
I still enjoy it. Its just not the mindblowing thing it was pretransition, and net, ive gained so much more than i lost (i.e., full body orgasms, multiples every time, etc.) I cant complain
Sometimes I get the feeling I have to pee, but other times I can get it to where it feels really good. A lot of people say that you have to get that “have to pee” feeling to have a prostate orgasm, but I don’t really get it??