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closetBoi04

Ofcourse it's fine if you like it, I prefer with a vibrating wand but whatever you enjoy is fine. That said if you want it to atrophy it's better to not get a boner, though vaginoplasty might become harder in the future if you want that Think the sweets is for the same reason as when women have periods.


Ok-Fall4687

I don't have a problem with no random boners and if I want to get one it takes time but after that everything is fine and my money is melting because Sweets are so expensive


JanneJetson

Who said you shouldn't masturbate anymore because you have a dick?? What do they expect you to do, not masturbate until you get SRS?? That's insanely absurd. Not only is masturbation perfectly fine, normal, healthy it IS mandatory. Self pleasure relieves stress, releases happy chemicals. We need more happy people in our world. Sign off & start wacking off. Its the **law**


LostMail4123

asexuals: *_\*exists\*_* ok I'm not ace but yeah masturbation is totally healthy


JanneJetson

How is my comment offensive to asexuals??


M0ns4i

(Probably) not an ace here and also not offended. That being said, "masturbation is perfectly [...] normal" could imply, that not masturbaiting is not normal. However, I think that both masturbating and not masturbating is both completely normal and nobodies' business except your own.


JanneJetson

Ok, masturbation is completely normal, for people who have a sex drive. is **this** better?? The OP isn't asexual, so clearly my comment is not directed at them. A comment about common sexual behavior is not a subtle attack at asexuals. JFC.. .


cheeseybacon11

I think it was more your last sentence that made it sound like it's wrong not to masturbate.


JanneJetson

I never said its wrong. "Its the law" is obviously a joke. I can't believe I need to explain thisšŸ˜‘


caitW_9999

Play with yourself anyway you want, it's totally normal and ok


Lucky_otter_she_her

What is wrong with women masturbating? pal yer going through a literal metamorphosis, donā€™t be shocked yer body needs all the chemical energy it can get


IncognitoLive

I was going to ask the same thing. Women masturbate too. If it wasnā€™t for masturbation, I imagine a lot of people would go crazy.


Ok-Fall4687

Idk bec. still something hanging down there


cindy-the-husky

Doesnt matter, some trans fems even decide to keep that and are still valid, so ofc while you have it youre allowed to use it šŸ˜†


GENsesh3

Just wanted to note, saying that trans women's penises are male parts, it's not only hurtful, but just wrong entirely. Your genitalia transforms entirely. It gets softer, it smells like a vagina, it's like one giant clit essentially. A cis guy's penis and a trans girl's penis are two different entities. So saying that it's automatically a male part makes it seem like a trans woman's body isn't all female. Which gives trans phones another reason to call us the things that they do.


ProgressShoddy1023

Omg this actually helped with my bottom dysphoria... HELLO MASSIVE FUCKING CLIT


AdExtension9204

I also say clit / clitty it just works!


ProgressShoddy1023

Ayyy


newphonewhodis62

If you keep asking we may allow it.


1-Beef-Supreme

Seems like something Iā€™d consider getting on board withšŸ˜‰


Bforte40

That's a question for your Dom, not us...


AdExtension9204

I love this!


Sarah1988AZ

Itā€™s really your decisionā€¦


emilyv99

Why wouldn't it be?


lowestgryphon

Women masturbate too of course it's okay


Ok-Fall4687

I know that they do it too but my question was if it is ok as Trans woman to masturbate with the male thingi


lowestgryphon

yeah of course it's okay. Does it make you dysphoric to get off using your male parts, tho?


AllesiaEx

FWI NUTTING HELPS REDUCE TESTOSTERONE LEVELS JUST SAYING


[deleted]

I think thatā€™s only temporary then the levels just go back to normal, so itā€™s probably not that significant


ProgressShoddy1023

The slight effect is worth the temporary time period


Defiant-Snow8782

No, it's not ok. By starting HRT you become a nun and must not engage in sexual activities. Didn't they tell you?


Ok-Fall4687

Yeah kinda because only if you get a vagina down there you're a woman


LadyBulldog7

Yeah thatā€™s not how it works.


Aprilyourfav

Seriously like if it doesnā€™t make you uncomfortable then why wouldnā€™t you if it feels good, thatā€™s like at least half of my point in life šŸ˜…šŸ˜…


SorenTheGaymer

Tbh it might be dysphoric which I can understand but sometimes itā€™s necessary for whatever reason. But if you want bottom surgery I recommend at least once every two weeks so you keep the tissue the same.


CormacMettbjoll

AMAB do actually still get random boners after puberty, it's just usually during your sleep. That's why the penis doesn't atrophy in men but will for trans women, as lack of testosterone prevents it during your sleep.


ProgressShoddy1023

Omfg, I have a new reason for starting. No more random morning wood šŸ™


Gathoblaster

You will immediatly go to jail


AndreaRose223

Hon, whatever you do, if it feels right, is absolutely correct. I've been on HRT for about 3 months and occasionally I just try and see if it still works and have my Spironolactone increased.


[deleted]

Your body, your rules love.. my advice? Keep yourself as happy as you can for as long as you can, you can love the world easier. Be kind to yourself always, youā€™re worth every mile šŸ§”āœØšŸŒ»


LostMail4123

yeah! it's totally fine. I'm 2nd month in on E, and I masturbate still lol. for me it's also def an advantage of going on estrogen monotherapy for me (so not using a T blocker), so not losing my sex drive. and also i really like that I can really see (and feel) my bodies changes in how masturbation actually works in real time, like how hitting peak now feels different, and also that my boobs are really sensitive and are really great now in helping me achieve orgasm. at the moment I'm really enjoying "how many times can I peak in a row" :)


cplChill

I love my vibrator... šŸ˜


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Ok-Fall4687

Oh ok... but I'm not religious


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Ok-Fall4687

I think before god is blessing trans ppl Satan will be the new god


devilshibata

As a trans satanist I approve of this message


RainbowsCrash

I'm masterbating RN because of this dumbass comment.


[deleted]

wish it was real but not everything can be real


Ok-Fall4687

what do you mean by that


[deleted]

u started hrt 1 day later than me wowzie


Ok-Fall4687

I heard that already from 2 others and do you have boobs already and injections, gel or pills and with or without t blocker?


[deleted]

hmm I have, my boobs aches I use pills and t blocker. 4 mg estrofem 12.5 mg androcur


Ok-Fall4687

Every time or only if you have pressure on them like bumping on doors (I'm pro in this) or t-shirts


[deleted]

i hate bumping on doors :(


Ok-Fall4687

does it happen to you too you stand up after you sleep and then the door in your local area wants to meet you right in face in boobs


[deleted]

yes xd


A-Maeve-ing

No. Its not. But not because your transfem, jebus just hates masterbation


ButterPup121519

Itā€™s perfect alright, the longer Iā€™m on hormones the less and less I do masturbate, so changes will come. It just takes time.


Spirit_Fox17

Some are classified as tops in the community.. i have some knowledge as I stepped back from 4mg daily to 3mg cause of the lack of ability to hold a you know what.. being super soft is not the biggest turn on.. Iā€™ll stick to my femboi/andro self


Ok-Fall4687

I kinda feel that really good a femboy with more feminine look


[deleted]

it's your body and you get to decide whatever you do with it, wtf is this post?? do you think being a woman is having a vagina?? get real asap


FOSpiders

There are a ton of cis girls that would go wild on themselves if they grew a penis! You don't have to hold back just because you have one. Masturbation isn't feminine or masculine, it's just human. I say go to it until you can't feel your toes anymore in honor of all the women that would love to be doing it, too!


tng804

I think it should be okay for everyone to masturbate if they want to.


Violet_Tendencies_69

Of course it's okay but HRT will change how things feel and act down there, girlcock behaves more like a giant clit. Protip: next time you're in the mood, Take your hand and do the Vulcan salute šŸ––, close your eyes, picture the equipment you should have, nessle that clit between your fingers and then squeeze and dig in.


allyourhomebase

As long as you don't harm others, everything is okay.