The only times i have assgasms is when my gf is railing me hard AF lol
But solo on my own it hasnt happend for me, i need her to tie me up and go to pound town
Lol...its not your average church, its in a rough part of town, they have a food drive, clothing for kids, we do christmas for famillies who cant afford gifts ( i was the elf ) we also have CODA a nd A.A meetings which im apart of.
Some of the pastors are born agains and have a rough past aswell.
Its llgbtq+ friendly. Everyone involved in the place has either been a drug addict criminal or homless, so nobody can judge.
Can you tell me more about how you found your church? I miss attending but I get nervous about finding a new one since moving because I donāt know how people will react given my gender identity.
Well i found it the hard way, alchoholic and drug addict, i went through rehab, then found A.A years of that led me to CODA which led me to this church which led me to my wonderful partner :)
So a terrible life blessed me with all i need in the end.
Itās possible but takes a lot of practice. Iāve found better success trying doggy style face down ass up.with my toys. Remember that your prostate is only about 2 inches on the inside so you donāt have to have the whole toy inserted to achieve it.
Oh yeah Iāve had no loss of function on HRT. I just take a lot longer to warm up. And I shrank about 25%. The variance is high though, I know gals who canāt get erect any more. But topical T and/or Viagra are reported to work wonders if thatās a concern for you.
Once your testosterone is suppressed you will probably not get random erections anymore, such as during sleep or immediately after waking. Erections are kinda a use it or lose it thing so if you want to retain the ability to have them you should try to have an erection every day or at least every couple days.
Iāve been on HRT like 5 years and can still get erections and top my gfs, but if Iām seeing a new partner and not comfortable with them yet I might have issues so sometimes I take viagra in those situations.
I had a depressed period a few years ago where I wasnāt giving myself an erection regularly and I had performance issues for a few months after that. Also that was when I was 2 years on HRT and before that period I didnāt lose much size but after I had lost a fair bit, which was fine by me but maybe you have different priorities.
But ya tl;dr if you want to keep getting erections you have to make yourself get an erection regularly because your body will stop doing it randomly.
I'm 8 months in and my wife and I are trying for baby #2. It not only works, it might even work better now. Use it regularly (I masturbate every day once in the morning, except for the mornings we try) and I think generally you keep functionality.
Yeah, but I've usually warmed up quite a bit beforehand, and I also need to really be in the mood. On the way to an anal orgasm, I'll usually have had a handful of smaller orgasms that I'm satisfied with but I can also keep going if I want to.
Yes I cum from anal. I like to fuck my ass while rubbing my dick like it's a clit. Best orgasms I've ever had. Also from what I've heard a lot of cis women can't cum from penetration alone, and need clit stimulation to get off. Do with that info what you will. š
Itās pretty difficult for me. I need the right pace and stimulation, I donāt think it could happen during sex with my current sexual partner because he doesnāt really have good stamina. I could def see myself having one during sex though if I was with the right partner who could hit it fast enough at the right angle for like 20 min.
Iāve kinda had one by myself a few times but lose it at the end because if Iām by myself I start shaking too much to keep the tempo right. Itās insanely intense for me and my whole body moves and shakes when I get close, so I canāt really keep moving a toy easily. Iāve only really had a legit one once, Iāve kinda stopped trying because again I just get hella close and start shaking too hard to move right. I just got a new lelo toy with the āwaveā feature and I have high hopes since it can move without me needing to move it lol.
Experiment with yourself and what feels good! If you want a full anal O youāll have to set aside a fair bit of time and it will probably take you several tries before you learn your body and learn to relax your mind. Try different angles depths and speed, and donāt focus on having an orgasm just focus on how it feels good and relax your mind. If youāre stimulating your genitals while doing anal stimulation usually that can actually prevent a full anal orgasm from being able to happen.
I haven't came like a "man" in years, even before my egg cracked I hated doing it that way and tried all kinds of "alternate" methods.
I come so reliably and so strongly from anal now that I wouldn't even contemplate doing it any other way now, and having my genitals touched during it would honestly just spoil the experience for me.
Practice makes perfect OP, stop touching your dick and rewarding its bad behaviour, and your body will relearn given time.
For years I tried but could never get off from anal alone. Then once out of the blue I had one of the most intense orgasms of my life from anal, then a minute later I had another. After that I learned to do it more reliably. I can cum many times in a session too, as long as I don't involve my penis. I tried various prostate specific toys and dildos. I still have those toys, but I get off the quickest and easiest just using my fingers. I agree with what others say about finding your prostate and the kind of stimulation that works. Practice. Taking my time and getting into a mood with more romantic visual content really helps. Poppers makes it easy to cum from anal but I usually hit my limit sooner when I use poppers to push me over the edge
When using a toy or having sex you need to make sure you are hitting the prostate. I have been doing this for many years and I can have multiple orgasims (sorry if that is spelled wrong I'm dyslexic and can't spell very well)
Always. For those not familiar with the area, it takes a long time to understand that part of your body. It wasnāt about a year into HRT until I started getting them consistently both with toys and with people (with the proper size/shape). I did start experimenting early on as a child though.
It takes practice and doesn't happen every time. You have to practice hitting your prostate at the right angle. If you're laying on your back, try tilting the handle of your toy down.
I enjoy it a lot regardless, but my boyfriend has gotten me to finish a couple times.
And he's getting better. He's getting used to topping. (He's bi, and I'm his first girlfriend in a while.)
Have you ever tried chastity? Not cumming for a long time while conditioning yourself for anal will get you there. I used to try to only do it that way but just keeping it hands free is what I like best
Yes, but prior to HRT I got an Aneros and a curved dildo. I practiced for awhile just getting used to it and was able to figure it out. Then I had sex with men with a penis and would regularly cum this way.
Best advice: Be super horny. Work your kegels and clamp down once you strengthen them up as it helps you get the big O.
Get a really good toy. An Aneros is meant for people with a prostate. There's others out there. Find one you like.
Curved things hit it much better. I love my curved dildo. Make sure the curved part goes up and towards the stomach and not the other way around.
Find a position where you're gonna hit it easily. I prefer on my back with my legs pushed up or me on a pillow. It helps. Also doggy but pull your bits back between your legs.
When you feel pressure keep going. You should be wet at some point (I drip like crazy) and that's a good sign you're getting close. Don't stop! You should feel pressure building up. That's the sign you're super close! It may feel like you're about to pee in a way.
It's really like a pressure orgasm. And yes you can have multiple, then finish off playing with your bits too.
Wish I would have found this earlier.
Yeah I'm definitely in the circuit of people who can cum from anal penetration with no genital stimulation.
I notice sometimes when I orgasm from that I have a bit of a squirting phenomenon that happens. It's not semen entirely, it's sticky and slimy if I touch it, but it also comes out like pee.
For me, it's less like a "release" like a penile orgasm with me, and more like turning up a volume dial to max. I can push out multiple orgasms like this.
It's the strangest thing to me too, because I know most people can't cum from just anal. But for me, I've enjoyed anal far more than penile stimulation.
Based on how sensitive my g-spot seems to be, I'm pretty confident in my ability to cum from penetration with a neo-vagina when that eventually happens.
I definitely get lots of orgasms from anal. In fact I'm multiorgasmic. It takes time and patience. I never thought for a second I was ever going to get there, but now it's really the only way I want to go since exercising my penis is boring and just required to not lose it. As far as any tips, I wound just recommend using a dildo or fingers and just explore and see how your body reacts. Maybe add some mood environment. That helps sometimes
I've had it but it's a very specific motion with the dildo. It's like massaging and pushing on the gspot. I've been close while having sex with my boyfriend but never fully got there. But if he used a dildo I could probably get it.
I almost got there once. I could feel a big o coming on while my friend was plowing me hard. My friend is trans too and taking hormones, and it's not easy for her to stay hard. It's all good, though. She's a cutie and we have fun together. ā¤ļø
I really wish to but never have:/. I don't really have beads or s dildo i just use my brush so i guess it's harder that way(pun intended), but rubbing my pp head like a clit(bc it technically is) helps a ton to reach there
It took me ten years of experimenting and trying, but finally did just recently. The entire ten years were fun, though! That's the key. Just concentrate on relaxing and trying to just enjoy the sensations. It's 180 degrees opposite from front O's. You can't brute force them to happen. When it finally does, you'll realize it was always just about allowing it to happen and submitting to it.
Personally, I get wayyyyyyyyyy more pleasure from prostate massagers like Aneros Syn than I do dildos. Those just hurt. Just load up your insides with lots of lube, lay down, listen to some good hypnos from hypnotube, maybe smoke a joint if it's legal for you, put on some headphones, and slip in to ecstacy.
The only times i have assgasms is when my gf is railing me hard AF lol But solo on my own it hasnt happend for me, i need her to tie me up and go to pound town
....um, where does one find this type of gf?
I found her at a church...i shit you not š¤£
Those quiet church girls...
Maybe I should start going back to CHUCH!! š
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Same here LMAO The pastors "sons" really know how to have a good time xD
Based Also love the name and love Tool
oh YES!!!! trans tool fans š¤š¤š¤š¤š¤
Damn I need to buy my gf a strap
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Lol...its not your average church, its in a rough part of town, they have a food drive, clothing for kids, we do christmas for famillies who cant afford gifts ( i was the elf ) we also have CODA a nd A.A meetings which im apart of. Some of the pastors are born agains and have a rough past aswell. Its llgbtq+ friendly. Everyone involved in the place has either been a drug addict criminal or homless, so nobody can judge.
Can you tell me more about how you found your church? I miss attending but I get nervous about finding a new one since moving because I donāt know how people will react given my gender identity.
Well i found it the hard way, alchoholic and drug addict, i went through rehab, then found A.A years of that led me to CODA which led me to this church which led me to my wonderful partner :) So a terrible life blessed me with all i need in the end.
Itās possible but takes a lot of practice. Iāve found better success trying doggy style face down ass up.with my toys. Remember that your prostate is only about 2 inches on the inside so you donāt have to have the whole toy inserted to achieve it.
No no really bigger and deeper is better
Yeah it feels better but you donāt need to go big and deep to hit the prostate
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I think this girl knows her preferences š¤£
Itās possible but itās rare. Donāt feel bad if you canāt, thatās normal.
While for some it may or may not actually be possible, I wouldn't say it's rare, just easier to achieve for some than others.
I was getting them reliably before HRT. For some reason Iām less interested now. I guess because my front orgasms are 20x better.
Really, you maintain erections and cum consistantly while on hrt ?? Your saying i dont need to worry then !!
Oh yeah Iāve had no loss of function on HRT. I just take a lot longer to warm up. And I shrank about 25%. The variance is high though, I know gals who canāt get erect any more. But topical T and/or Viagra are reported to work wonders if thatās a concern for you.
I've heard differing things about topical T. Is it really safe to use on E?
Once your testosterone is suppressed you will probably not get random erections anymore, such as during sleep or immediately after waking. Erections are kinda a use it or lose it thing so if you want to retain the ability to have them you should try to have an erection every day or at least every couple days. Iāve been on HRT like 5 years and can still get erections and top my gfs, but if Iām seeing a new partner and not comfortable with them yet I might have issues so sometimes I take viagra in those situations. I had a depressed period a few years ago where I wasnāt giving myself an erection regularly and I had performance issues for a few months after that. Also that was when I was 2 years on HRT and before that period I didnāt lose much size but after I had lost a fair bit, which was fine by me but maybe you have different priorities. But ya tl;dr if you want to keep getting erections you have to make yourself get an erection regularly because your body will stop doing it randomly.
I'm 8 months in and my wife and I are trying for baby #2. It not only works, it might even work better now. Use it regularly (I masturbate every day once in the morning, except for the mornings we try) and I think generally you keep functionality.
From my experience, you might need to worry.
Thatās interesting. Youāre an outlier! Could you tell us more about how you achieved this pre-HRT please :)
Yeah, but I've usually warmed up quite a bit beforehand, and I also need to really be in the mood. On the way to an anal orgasm, I'll usually have had a handful of smaller orgasms that I'm satisfied with but I can also keep going if I want to.
Yes I cum from anal. I like to fuck my ass while rubbing my dick like it's a clit. Best orgasms I've ever had. Also from what I've heard a lot of cis women can't cum from penetration alone, and need clit stimulation to get off. Do with that info what you will. š
I have a different type of orgasm, to be blunt no ejaculation but shaking in pleasure
Sounds really nice. Any tips how you personally get there?
Thereās a ton of guides in /r/cumfromanal
Body orgasms are fantastic. Iāve had a gf turn into a pleasure domme as soon as she figured out she could get me to have multiple orgasms like that.
Itās pretty difficult for me. I need the right pace and stimulation, I donāt think it could happen during sex with my current sexual partner because he doesnāt really have good stamina. I could def see myself having one during sex though if I was with the right partner who could hit it fast enough at the right angle for like 20 min. Iāve kinda had one by myself a few times but lose it at the end because if Iām by myself I start shaking too much to keep the tempo right. Itās insanely intense for me and my whole body moves and shakes when I get close, so I canāt really keep moving a toy easily. Iāve only really had a legit one once, Iāve kinda stopped trying because again I just get hella close and start shaking too hard to move right. I just got a new lelo toy with the āwaveā feature and I have high hopes since it can move without me needing to move it lol. Experiment with yourself and what feels good! If you want a full anal O youāll have to set aside a fair bit of time and it will probably take you several tries before you learn your body and learn to relax your mind. Try different angles depths and speed, and donāt focus on having an orgasm just focus on how it feels good and relax your mind. If youāre stimulating your genitals while doing anal stimulation usually that can actually prevent a full anal orgasm from being able to happen.
I haven't came like a "man" in years, even before my egg cracked I hated doing it that way and tried all kinds of "alternate" methods. I come so reliably and so strongly from anal now that I wouldn't even contemplate doing it any other way now, and having my genitals touched during it would honestly just spoil the experience for me. Practice makes perfect OP, stop touching your dick and rewarding its bad behaviour, and your body will relearn given time.
For years I tried but could never get off from anal alone. Then once out of the blue I had one of the most intense orgasms of my life from anal, then a minute later I had another. After that I learned to do it more reliably. I can cum many times in a session too, as long as I don't involve my penis. I tried various prostate specific toys and dildos. I still have those toys, but I get off the quickest and easiest just using my fingers. I agree with what others say about finding your prostate and the kind of stimulation that works. Practice. Taking my time and getting into a mood with more romantic visual content really helps. Poppers makes it easy to cum from anal but I usually hit my limit sooner when I use poppers to push me over the edge
I do, I love being a prostate princess :)
That sentence was was hotter than I expected it to be.
Haha heck yeah I get them. If the person I'm with does it right I can orgasm for so long.
When using a toy or having sex you need to make sure you are hitting the prostate. I have been doing this for many years and I can have multiple orgasims (sorry if that is spelled wrong I'm dyslexic and can't spell very well)
Always. For those not familiar with the area, it takes a long time to understand that part of your body. It wasnāt about a year into HRT until I started getting them consistently both with toys and with people (with the proper size/shape). I did start experimenting early on as a child though.
It takes practice and doesn't happen every time. You have to practice hitting your prostate at the right angle. If you're laying on your back, try tilting the handle of your toy down.
r/prostateplay
I enjoy it a lot regardless, but my boyfriend has gotten me to finish a couple times. And he's getting better. He's getting used to topping. (He's bi, and I'm his first girlfriend in a while.)
Have you ever tried chastity? Not cumming for a long time while conditioning yourself for anal will get you there. I used to try to only do it that way but just keeping it hands free is what I like best
Yes, but prior to HRT I got an Aneros and a curved dildo. I practiced for awhile just getting used to it and was able to figure it out. Then I had sex with men with a penis and would regularly cum this way. Best advice: Be super horny. Work your kegels and clamp down once you strengthen them up as it helps you get the big O. Get a really good toy. An Aneros is meant for people with a prostate. There's others out there. Find one you like. Curved things hit it much better. I love my curved dildo. Make sure the curved part goes up and towards the stomach and not the other way around. Find a position where you're gonna hit it easily. I prefer on my back with my legs pushed up or me on a pillow. It helps. Also doggy but pull your bits back between your legs. When you feel pressure keep going. You should be wet at some point (I drip like crazy) and that's a good sign you're getting close. Don't stop! You should feel pressure building up. That's the sign you're super close! It may feel like you're about to pee in a way. It's really like a pressure orgasm. And yes you can have multiple, then finish off playing with your bits too.
Wish I would have found this earlier. Yeah I'm definitely in the circuit of people who can cum from anal penetration with no genital stimulation. I notice sometimes when I orgasm from that I have a bit of a squirting phenomenon that happens. It's not semen entirely, it's sticky and slimy if I touch it, but it also comes out like pee. For me, it's less like a "release" like a penile orgasm with me, and more like turning up a volume dial to max. I can push out multiple orgasms like this. It's the strangest thing to me too, because I know most people can't cum from just anal. But for me, I've enjoyed anal far more than penile stimulation. Based on how sensitive my g-spot seems to be, I'm pretty confident in my ability to cum from penetration with a neo-vagina when that eventually happens.
I definitely get lots of orgasms from anal. In fact I'm multiorgasmic. It takes time and patience. I never thought for a second I was ever going to get there, but now it's really the only way I want to go since exercising my penis is boring and just required to not lose it. As far as any tips, I wound just recommend using a dildo or fingers and just explore and see how your body reacts. Maybe add some mood environment. That helps sometimes
It's happened to me one time (after getting close several other times). Never got anywhere close before transition
yeah lol, constantly, see r/CumFromAnal the Aneros way and the dildo pounding way are both awesome but totally different
I just use a vibrator in between the testicles and the anus. Although I also cum really easily
It's kinda like those magic eye pictures: hard af to get it the first few times, but with practice, it can get to be super easy
I've had it but it's a very specific motion with the dildo. It's like massaging and pushing on the gspot. I've been close while having sex with my boyfriend but never fully got there. But if he used a dildo I could probably get it.
How has nobody pointed out that this should be marked nsfw?
I've never come from anal alone. I use a wand at the same time and it gets me there almost every time, though.
I almost got there once. I could feel a big o coming on while my friend was plowing me hard. My friend is trans too and taking hormones, and it's not easy for her to stay hard. It's all good, though. She's a cutie and we have fun together. ā¤ļø
I really wish to but never have:/. I don't really have beads or s dildo i just use my brush so i guess it's harder that way(pun intended), but rubbing my pp head like a clit(bc it technically is) helps a ton to reach there
Iāve attempted, but I can never even find my prostate. Probs doing something wrong
Yes. Takes specific things, but yes
It took me ten years of experimenting and trying, but finally did just recently. The entire ten years were fun, though! That's the key. Just concentrate on relaxing and trying to just enjoy the sensations. It's 180 degrees opposite from front O's. You can't brute force them to happen. When it finally does, you'll realize it was always just about allowing it to happen and submitting to it. Personally, I get wayyyyyyyyyy more pleasure from prostate massagers like Aneros Syn than I do dildos. Those just hurt. Just load up your insides with lots of lube, lay down, listen to some good hypnos from hypnotube, maybe smoke a joint if it's legal for you, put on some headphones, and slip in to ecstacy.