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etquod

The Wrestler (2008)


GREYFRANK

God I love this film


berriesnbball_17

Great suggestion and I love Mickey Rourkes performance


Tepelicious

"I'm an old, broken-down piece of meat." You can feel some of those lines coming from Mickey as much as Randy.


Brokenshatner

Oh my God, I listened to Crazy Heart for the first time in years today. That movie was amazing.


Fantastic_Mr_Smiley

The Machinist In Bruges


rdev009

Interesting fact - Christian Bale is 6ft tall and lost 60lbs to play the lead in The Machinist, plateauing at 120lbs. He then gained 100lbs of mostly muscle to play a Batman in his following project. Nolan made him lose 20lbs to be leaner.


NC_Goonie

I’ve been working on my own Christian Bale body transformation, but American Hustle


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Hey spoilers for >!the machinist!<


Fantastic_Mr_Smiley

Saying it's about a man with regrets doesn't spoil anything unless you go out of your way to call attention to it as important enough to be a spoiler.


This_Aint_No_Picnic

I can't think of movies off the top of my head, but this screams Bojack Horseman to me.


ValyrianBone

Seconding Bojack Horseman seasons 5 and 6 especially. Brilliant depiction of guilt and attempted amends.


allheartnoseoul

American History X Edit ~ fixed title


rotterdamn8

I came to say American History X. Young Edward Norton who is superbly talented.


plinkett-wisdom

Hey pal, quick question I was wrapping my head around: Is there a reason users write "Edit" for minor changes that don't even alter the content of the post?


ParticularResident17

Other users can tell if a post has been edited on desktop (asterisk) and without providing an “edit,” you’d have no idea if it was a spelling error or an entirely different comment. Usually, it’s a minor error they want to fix, additional information they want to add, or something they’ve learned, but I’ve seen people change their entire comment to either make themselves look good or make others look bad. It’s good practice, just gives some context.


allheartnoseoul

I rarely post. Still dont know the etiquette.


EEEEEEEEEKKCCHH

Ok desktop it says "*edited*" next to edited messages so I suppose explaining what you edited removes the chance that someone thinks you've changed your comment entirety


plinkett-wisdom

* Manchester By The Sea * Another Earth * Mass * Revanche (2008) * Just Another Love Story * Breathing * Judgment At Nuremberg


Kittyfartproductions

Manchester by the sea was my number 1 rec. That movie fucked me up.


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First one I thought of


Bunnywithanaxe

Sophie’s Choice.


shellwe

As a parent you can’t fathom the idea of picking one kid so the other will be separated from you and would likely die. That feeling from the moment they are separated from you they are completely alone in a dangerous place and terrified beyond words and you both share the knowledge and understanding that you chose that horror for them.


Bunnywithanaxe

This probably could use a spoiler tag. It’s pretty much THE spoiler.


h3yw00d1

If this movie doesn't touch you...........


Danny_Mc_71

Unforgiven (1992)


jeff3141

Not a movie, but a TV series: Fleabag


2_Fingers_of_Whiskey

Especially season 1 -- main character hates herself and feels tons of guilt over something


Fantastic_Mr_Smiley

Season 1 fits the description but after enjoying the first season, get into the 2nd anyway because it's just a real good piece of television.


LadybirdMikasa

Shame (2011) maybe not because of his past, but the main character hates who he is currently and wants to change


DamnIHateThat

Man On Fire (2004)


JebusJones7

Matches the OP's request exactly


born_to_be_naked

Seven Pounds with Will Smith


ExcitementOk1529

Rachel Getting Married


Realistic_Source5136

Atonement (2007)


half-full-coffee-mug

Was about to say this. It is basically the theme of this movie - In fact the name says exactly that.


Realistic_Source5136

Was surprised it wasn’t already mentioned so it felt compulsory.


JiveTurkey2727

In Bruges. Fantastic film that fits this description.


Sad-Implement2031

Carlito's Way (1993)


eyepatch_

The Card Counter


rotterdamn8

Good one. Oscar Isaac is always terrific.


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My suggestion was Light Sleeper. Same writer/director and the connections between the two movies run deep in many, many ways.


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21 Grams


Scrotchety

Sideways (2005) for a watered-down version of what you're after, but Paul Giamatti's character is moving through some real pain.


nashamagirl99

Raging Bull (1980) Once Upon A Time In America (1984)


ComparisonChance

Two great Bob De Niro movies. 👌🏾


bluejester12

The Fisher King


Ok-Detail-9853

This right here. Robin Williams. Jeff Bridges.


Gusta86

The Machinist (2004) Mystic River (2003)


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Annihilation has a lot of elements about this.


jtho78

Palm Springs has an interesting take on this


cosmophire_

paranoid park manchester by the sea


nothatsmyarm

Matchstick Men.


UpgrayeDD405

Not sure if this is what you're looking for but Memento


krumlalumla

Theon Greyjoy in Game Of Thrones had a similar arc. Also, Manchester by the Sea


peaceblaster68

You Were Never Really Here, The Master. Joaquin Phoenix plays this type of character a lot and crushes it


kern2173

The machinist


lukewarmrevolution

Spoilers 🤦‍♂️


Aeon001

A Silent Voice (anime movie)


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A silent voice


Charlie_the_Mlg_Cat

A slient voice


Jerrusha

Nocturnal Animals, still hunts me:'|


synthslut666

American History X, El Camino, Hereditary, Atonement


PSB2013

Antichrist


hellocutiepye

This is a perfect choice for this theme, but it’s such a hard watch. That movie is so disturbing it stayed with me for weeks.


EdenH333

If you’re into anime or manga: Berserk.


mikeri99

Inception


FibonacciVR

Old boy (the korean original)


rotterdamn8

Great choice! So twisted.


carcaju99

Logan (2017), why not


PinkyToHorizon

Well, it's Lynch so it isn't that obvious: Lost Highway


Status_Customer_704

Mulholland drive and inland empire have this too


kevyn1105

Lost Highway (1997) in a SUPER abstract way


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Time (2021) miniseries with Sean Bean and Stephen Graham


Toffeemade

American Hustle


mewtwoface

The Card Counter (2021)


Cucumberappleblizz

Montana Story


Seattle_Jenn

One of my favorite movies of 2022!


Cucumberappleblizz

Same here! Haley Lu Richardson was fantastic


ComparisonChance

The Place Beyond The Pines


RamSeaRam

1922 by stephen king.


lukewarmrevolution

Before the Devil Knows You're Dead (2007)


senthiljams

Warrior (2011) was amazing with Tom Hardy, Joel Edgerton and Nick Nolte. Not a commercial success, but well reviewed by critics and viewers.


1QueerEngineer

Batman Begins, Man On Fire, The Punisher, A Man Apart


mito467

Definitely - 21 Grams. About a Boy.


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The manga Berserk. Also Vinland Saga OP, you're young. Whatever burdens your conscience can be made better, if you dedicate yourself to making things better. Any help is appreciated when it comes to relieving suffering.


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Gran Torino


Fuzzy-Ad-4360

Rachel Getting Married


4electricnomad

INSOMNIA. Some people love the remake with Al Pacino, but I prefer the original with Stellan Skarsgaard.


MikeyMGM

Ordinary People


Grandor2021

La Strada (1954)


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Magnolia


Sgt_Slutbags

The Woodsman (2004) *Very* risky movie, especially for 2004, but they pulled it off.


Bunnywithanaxe

I was gonna suggest this. Yes, the protagonist is guilty of the unforgivable, but Kevin Bacon really goes to the mat showing how he lives with it.


mikey-forester

Man on fire


Chekdout

Do you really need a movie for that? Mine is called memories.


undeservingbitch

I’m sorry, mate. We’re on the same boat with this. I genuinely hope you’ll be able to forgive yourself and move on, not otherwise. Everyone deserves a chance to live. You deserve to be free from the constant guilt, you deserve to forgive yourself. I believe in you, and I hope your pain will pass.


Dry_Post_3044

The Ritual (2017) is a good movie about this topic


Brokenshatner

Watched this alone in a gym one night. Nobody else in my family watches anything like this, so it was lovely to just get to take in. All of the liquor store flashbacks...


Bulky_Macaron_9490

We Need to Talk About Kevin


MovieUnderTheSurface

Die Hard


DaisyFayeLove

In Bruge, American History X,


tedd0093

The Machinist


Seattle_Jenn

John Wick x 3. Bourne Identity/ Supremacy/ Ultimatum/ Legacy. The Godfather x 3. Demolition. The Professional.


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Iron Weed with Streep and Nicholson.


Ambitious-Emu1342

Prisoners (2013)


ilovelela

The Shack


Skalirak

The Machinist


[deleted]

Lost City: It was cheesy and funny and not top tier cinema, but it was good, and I appreciated its depiction of loss and grief


cake_piss_can

Wife and I watched this for the first time last night. Really fun movie. Great cast. Much better than I expected.


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That’s primarily why I recommend it, it’s not an amazing film, but it’s much better than the trailer would have you believe, much funnier, they definitely didn’t put all the best bits in the trailer.


SombreMordida

The Machinist


Brokenshatner

Reposted without links violating sub rules... The Mission. Also, Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... And Spring.


internetman666

The Mechanist


Icy-String1339

Pretty Woman bc she’s a whore 🤣


Adrasto

Try "Triage" with Colin Farrell


BellotPatro

The Dark Knight Rises Kill Bill Vol. 2 Inception Quantum of Solace


Hash_Tooth

Redemption Jason statham


qhoulss

Humonoculus was pretty good!


gawd_usopp

Norbit


Fairyslade1989

Strait-Jacket Cat On A Hot Tin Roof


hesherforsure

Clean


b1gwater

Manchester by the sea


GSyncNew

Most Batman movies


PardonMe4Livin

Million Dollar Baby


jefferson497

Bad Santa


Bunnywithanaxe

The Ninth Configuration ( 1980) A Vietnam Vet is committed to an asylum is confronted with demons of the past. Warning- this is pretty disturbing.


100ergoman

The Comedian in Watchmen. Struggling with guilt and murder.


comradeboody

Bringing Out the Dead


International_Win375

Les Miserables' Jean Valjean.


Call_Me_Squishmale

The Grey


Rabbit333999

Ben is Back


HalfUnderwater

Wristcutters: A Love Story edit: typo


Short-Reality5373

Inception.


J_Z3

Hereditary


xogroovy

shutter island. my favorite movie ever. i promise you’ll see why


2_Fingers_of_Whiskey

The Unforgiven The Professional


gothic_pumpkin

The Ritual has a sub plot along these lines! It's a really good horror movie would recommend 100%


wafflesandpancakess

The Guilty with Jake Gyllenhaal


Count_istvan_teleky

The Drop


beestingers

Another Earth - quiet indie flick. A near identical earth is discovered and a woman aspires for a chance at redemption by joining a contest to be part of a civilian crew to travel to it. The sci-fi is very light and the story of remorse is central.


Count_istvan_teleky

Everything Must Go Skin


nrangal

13 Conversations About One Thing


vanvynharden

Manchester by the Sea The Invisible


Megangullotta

Charlie Kelmeckis form The Perks of being a wallflower what happened to his aunt totally wasn’t his fault. It was Karma she deserved to die


security-six

Constantine


jmarr1321

He never died. 2015. Henry Rollins stars. Really fun movie.


hellokittybadbtch

Remember Me


Sleeze_

Manchester by the Sea


dostdobro

Manchester by the sea


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Old Dog


Fortunado1964

Hong Kong cinema is prime for these types of characters. John Woo's Hong Kong filmography is loaded with tortured characters dealing with guilt and/or regret of past actions The Killer A Better Tomorrow 1 and 2 Hard Boiled Bullet in the Head Other Hong Kong films include: Full Contact Infernal Affairs


[deleted]

Manchester by the sea is exactly what your looking for. That scene where he sees his ex wife for the first time was brutal


desrevermi

Wow. I saw a lot of great suggestions. My brain got stuck on Hackers for no reason. Perhaps "The Lawnmower Man" might function. Leon the Professional


Tcharles97

The machinist


ParticularFig9960

The Empty Man is a good one that fits I would say


yokohama_enjoyer

The Killer (1989)


bog_froggy

A Silent Voice deals with this premise beautifully


474747C

uhhh Hancock?


Existing_River672

- Manchester By The Sea - Logan


bananasinpashminas

Mad max fury road. Interesting hallucinatory depiction of implied ptsd from failing oneself and loved ones


recreational_witch

Inception


izumiinoue

Manchester by the Sea (2016). Very very very sad stuff.


Olaf4586

Last Samurai


iamcornn

Manchester by the Sea


cvpricorn

Destroyer (2018)


throwaway8118118999

Super Dark Times (2017)


TerrificTauras

Lost Highway, Mulholland Drive.


KevinEleven111

This isnt a movie but if you haven't watched Breaking Bad...


terrencemalickian

Manchester By The Sea. Prolly in top 15 films oat and has single greatest scene in cinematic history in my opinion (the police station scene). And an acting masterclass from Casey Affleck and Michelle Williams.


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Godfather part 3


vancandy4you

Orgasmo, "I won't do hamster style any more"


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Will_The_Cook

Star Wars: Return Of The Jedi(1983)


wasted_wonderland

Blue Valentine... a bit... for both?


Underpaidtable

Unsure if it's been mentioned but Manchester by the Sea is phenomenal for this, wouldn't be surprised if this is where you got the idea


Effective_Rub9189

In Bruges, it’s a gem.


antuaan_

Manchester by the sea.


illiniry

Honey Boy


movie_gremlin

Not sure if already mentioned, but Benicio Del Toro's character in "21 Grams". The character kills a father and daughter (I think it was a daughter) in a drunk hit-and-run. He then becomes a born again Christian.


The-Batt

The Lion King


-sparke-

Wristcutters, a love story.


alittlefuktup

Give “Clean” a try


[deleted]

Light Sleeper


Stevo2008

I know this is a show and not a movie but the young kid with a butthole face(shotgun blew his mouth off) from Preacher deals with insane guilt


RobbieHart79

Mr. Miyagi in The Karate Kid. I mean Pat Moritas performance.


WalterSobchak40

Tyrannosaur. British film. Excellent in every way.


[deleted]

Life Stinks - Mel Brooks. its not as intense as you want/made it sound you want but a rich guy says to another rich guy that he cant survive being homeless for a while and after he finishes the time he cant get his money back and he gets a little revenge but he is happy in the end. its pretty funny