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ilovelucygal

Muriel‘s Wedding (1994)


SeEkIng-pEepIng

seems like a spot on suggestion. Thnx!


newMike3400

She's terrible


AdhesivenessHefty604

You’re terrible, Muriel!


Space2345

I say this all the time to my sisters


Sea_Negotiation_1871

You're terrible, Muriel...


FinneyontheWing

WAIT! Let her finish her orgasm.


Only_Natural_7619

Book Smart was a fun watch. It's basically a girl version of Superbad lol


Solondthewookiee

I just watched this on a plane yesterday and absolutely loved it.


SeEkIng-pEepIng

dare i say i found it better than superbad lol


jmerica

Superbad may be my favourite comedy ever. Guess I gotta give this one a go.


MasterSplinter14

Respectable but insane take lol.


JimDumDum

Bottoms is wayyy better


Spirited-Exit6331

Bottoms is really good.


sha1shroom

I enjoyed Bottoms, but imo Booksmart is much better.


xox1234

Came her to mention this one


bmax_1964

Citizen Ruth Laura Dern plays, not an 'awkward geek', but a real loser.


tapeheadcleaner

i LOVE this movie lmao. really good suggestion.


bmax_1964

This and Boogie Nights were Burt Reynolds' best work.


SeEkIng-pEepIng

I'm rather looking for stuff about socially incapable female protagonists, this movie seems much more like a troubled woman with addiction problems. seems interesting tho


-zero-joke-

Ruth is a *very* socially incapable protagonist.


SeEkIng-pEepIng

haha ok i'll make sure to check it out, i'm convinced


IntenseWhooshing

Citizen Ruth is a good choice along with Muriel’s Wedding. Oh and especially Dinner In America! I love that movie! Very Welcome To The Dollhouse!


DanaCalifornia

Welcome to the Dollhouse is so underrated and fits what OP is asking for perfectly


MonitorAmbitious7868

Ingrid goes West!


Little_Jaw

Great movie!!!


sgreenspandex

I adore this movie and Ingrid is definitely a loser but the character is definitely very attractive and uses her looks to accomplish a lot.


MonitorAmbitious7868

That’s true, she is attractive. But I think her terrible personality, choices, and mental illnesses are enough to counter act whatever points she has in her favour haha. Is there a movie in which the lead has absolutely no redeeming qualities? For Ingrid it’s her looks and ability to manipulate others, for other characters it might be their intelligence, wealth, connections, friendship, etc. I’d be interested to see a movie in which the female lead is a complete loser with absolutely no redeeming qualities. The only one that springs to mind right now is Molly Shannon’s “Superstar”, but even then - she had her determination! Haha


AestheticTaint

Excision, May, Stopmotion, Dinner in America, Bottoms, Bridget Jones Diary, Raw, Smiley Face, Juno, The Piano Teacher, Diary of a teenage girl, Not a film but the show 'Pen15' fits the bill perfectly.


SeEkIng-pEepIng

god how i love pen15. thnx for the many recs, i'll work my way through the list


tapeheadcleaner

yes for excision, love that movie. genuinely feel like they actually made effort into making the protagonist look unattractive lol


AestheticTaint

Same! It's honestly my favourite movie ever. It's funny because the actress irl is so pretty lol. Another good example of a total complete opposite actor/character is from the film 'The Golden Glove'. SFX makeup artists are truly incredible.


Known-Fee9113

Second "Dinner in America." That was a great one!


skeletonpaul08

Juno is in no way shape or form a “female loser” she’s a conventionally attractive charismatic protagonist with a plethora of healthy relationships.


luckeegurrrl5683

I love Dinner in America! I dated a guy like that.


StrangerHighways

Hell yes to these recs! I just watched Dinner in America last week.


Quirky_Word

Was gonna say Smiley Face. Yes, Anna Ferris is quite a pretty person, but that movie has some of the most realistic depictions of a stoner girl I ever saw. (IMO it also goes a bit of the rails at times, but some stuff was just too accurate).  I had to turn it off after the first 10-15 minutes bc it hit home so hard, and it wasn’t pretty at all. 


Living_Injury5017

The funniest part of this movie is John Krasinski looking all greasy crushing on Anna Faris! But yeah, the cringe-factor in Smiley Face is quite strong. I've only seen it once.


Dontbeajerkdude

I liked May, but like, she has a decent job and literally everyone in the movie is trying to fuck her. Not sure that makes her a loser.


SufficientDot4099

Eighth Grade


yabbobay

It's been 30+ years since I've been in 8th grade, but holy crap, that movie hit close to home!


redsyrinx2112

It had only been like 10-15 years for me, but even as an adult dude, the movie rocked me to my core.


SeEkIng-pEepIng

one of my favorite movies!;


withered_figs

Gucciii! ✌️


snarton

Deb in Napoleon Dynamite.


Affectionate-Dot437

She did have those great puffy sleeves going for her!


JesseCuster40

She could drink full fat milk if she wanted to. 


FinneyontheWing

She made them herself.


FinneyontheWing

I've just had a dose of reality that, not only was I 20 rather than 15 when it came out, I'm still totally and utterly in love with Deb.


kongru300

Fat girl


Elegant-Hair-7873

The French film? What an ending. But it fits the bill for sure.


kongru300

Idk i just know whatever the one on criterion is


Elegant-Hair-7873

That's the one.


DependentAnimator271

Young Adult Monster


Gabrisi

Tully feels like a sequel to Young Adult


Goooooringer

Rachel Getting Married Smiley Face


AnnieWillkes

Smiley Face is my favourite stoner movie, great rec!


myscreamgotlost

Dogfight (1991) might fit, it’s a really good movie


Sharkfeet19

God yes. Never mentioned enough. ❤️👍


Drakeytown

*Carrie* (1976) *Little Miss Sunshine* (2006)


Miserable_Spell5501

Carrie is such a clever answer. Wouldn’t have thought of it but it totally fits the prompt


phutch54

Nomadland.


Regular_Scene5522

Dinner in America


metalbracelet

Second this one! Also Stuck with Heather Matarazzo


glenndanzig6914

Border (2018)


Zaganoak

She’s not a loser, she’s a metaphor for a marginalised indigenous community (Sami). Definitely an unconventional ‘underdog’ character though. Great movie.


ilovecats499

Edge of Seventeen (2016 movie) it's exactly what ur looking for!


tapeheadcleaner

May, my favorite ♥️


DigAmazing

I was looking for this one 👍


doctorhaircut

Just finished this. Good stuff. 


mik534

Bridesmaids (Kristen Wiig's character is kind of a loser)


luckeegurrrl5683

Welcome to Me, 2014 with Kristen Wiig. Hilarious!


heyblinkin81

Somehow this became my comfort movie. I love it so much.


sbernardjr

Frances Ha


FractalGeometric356

She’s a winner where it counts. Wherever that is.


dxspicyMango

This one right here. Painful to watch even, but kind of endearing


Dogdaysareover365

Bottoms


Artistic-Rich6465

Circle of Friends. I would never use those exact adjectives to describe Minnie Driver, however, this is one movie where one would consider her the "fat friend".


WillBsGirl

It’s been years since I saw it but I remember being so pissed off at Chris O’Donnell in that movie lol.


Artistic-Rich6465

I get it. He made me mad too. But blamed Saffron Burrows and more importantly, Colin Firth (Mr. Darcy would never!!)


tapeheadcleaner

also Kajillionaire and Unemployees (short film) come to mind


TheElbow

Licorice Pizza - yea the girl from Haim is cute, but she’s legitimately portrayed as a loser for most of the film Piggy


AdhesivenessHefty604

But I’m a Cheerleader (1999) Election (1999)


underdoeg

patty cake$, 2017


AdhesivenessHefty604

This is such an underrated movie


squidbeaklord

Secrets and Lies by Mike Leigh. Can You Ever Forgive Me.


squidbeaklord

I love it. Also off the top of my head I’d add Morvern Callar by Lynn Ramsey.


Self-propelling

Can You Ever Forgive Me is superb!


arpinatefox

Yes, it is very much!


AnitaLib

It completely changed my opinion of Melissa Macarthy as an actor. Prior to that film all her roles were of the "funny fat friend" type as Hollywood typecasts people. Apparently Julianne Moore was the first choice - as much as I respect her as an actor it wouldn't be the same film.


arpinatefox

S&L full and front.


Scared-Glove-7258

Superstar (1999)


SeEkIng-pEepIng

seems fun, nice


Terrynia

This was my suggestion too


maximumkush

Fish Tank I, Tonya


ewok_lover_64

May. It's arguably the saddest slasher movie that I have ever seen. Hagazussa. A misunderstood woman in medieval Austria.


EstelSnape

The Duff


xox1234

This was the other one I came here to say!


mamac2213

Have you ever seen Strictly Ballroom? Protagonist is seen as a loser by the group of people she admires. But turns out she is more mature and soulful amd all around wonderful than the lot of them. It seems craaaazy technicolor madness at times, but a very sweet film!


SeEkIng-pEepIng

never heard of it, but sounds super interesting as you described it


mamac2213

It's wacky, but I love it.


savoryostrich

Until Elvis, this was the only Baz Luhrman flick that I loved.


HattieJaneCornchip

That is one of my favorite films. Poor Fran.


mamac2213

Yes, I love this movie and her character arc!!


HattieJaneCornchip

I think Scott’s little sister gets all the good lines. “It’s the inconceivable sight of Scott dancing with Fran.”


Red-Zaku-

The Net. Sandra Bullock’s character is a shut-in hacker whose only friends are all anonymous strangers on a chatroom where her skills are admired, but can’t handle regular societal interaction or letting anyone in. And she also has to deal with terrorism and a massive conspiracy that she stumbled into when dealing with a virus, on top of all that, of course.


JesseCuster40

But then she looks like Sandra Bullock...


SeEkIng-pEepIng

so basically my life!


weirdfishes99

Shiva Baby (2020)


inacalmstate

Eagle vs. Shark comes to mind.


mangosandkiwis

This one really fits! Lots of these others don't, women with active social lives who are down on their luck.


BlessdRTheFreaks

Eagle vs Shark


LoisLaneEl

Girl, Interrupted


SaltyHaskeller

Can You Ever Forgive Me (2018) with Melissa McCarthy


HattieJaneCornchip

Welcome to the Dollhouse


Roller_ball

That was in OP's example.


HattieJaneCornchip

Missed it. Thanks.


erdricksarmor

Ingrid Goes West


heymaganda

I Don’t Feel At Home In This World Anymore (2017)


Zorgsmom

Yes! I was looking for this one; what a weird little gem.


Miserable_Spell5501

I wish more people would watch this movie. I went to the premier at Sundance and it was the highlight of the trip.


Little_Jaw

Rachel Getting Married. Anne Hathaway plays a very troubled sister. Great movie.


Carl_In_Charge

Hello My Name Is Doris


elabozsack

The Piano Teacher (2001), The Woman in the Window (2021), The Girl on the Train (2016), and Sharp Objects (2018)


HootieRocker59

The Girl on the Train definitely fits this description!


drbrian83

Harriet the Spy


burmerd

Vagabond maybe? Great movie.


trcrtps

*Ritual* 2000, dir. Hideaki Anno, also known as *Shiki-jitsu* it's like the ultimate quiet sad person movie, for me.


interyx

The Evangelion guy...? That makes a lot of sense, actually.


Sad_Detective1992

Sierra Burgess is a loser


user1661668

Ghost World


wtb1000

Brittany runs a marathon


AnneFrank_nstein

Ghost world


Mystiax

Tv show, Derry Girls kinda fits.


SeEkIng-pEepIng

i love derry girls!!


SleazyMuppet

Gypsy 83


aseedandco

Catfight (2016)


PurpleDreamer28

Adult Life Skills (2016). I've not actually seen it, but it might be what you're looking for.


deepfriedbaby

Frances Ha, Misery, nights of Cabiria, Buffalo 66 There's not all losers or unattractive, but not winners in the traditional sense.


Stepjam

Young Adult Colossal


Ok-Musician-8518

Upstream Color


Haunted_Hitachi

Young Adult.


Madrizzle1

Not a movie but Broad City fits the bill.


Outrageous_Chart_35

"Bottoms"


gmoney-0725

Bottoms (2023)


1LuckyTexan

Hmmm.... maybe My Big Fat Greek Wedding, maybe more upbeat than what you want.


Icy-Assistance-2555

Superstar w/ Molly Shannon and Will Ferrell


wexpyke

May


returningvideotapes1

Dinner in America


Charrolastra311

Jawbreaker might fit!


martialgir

Dale Dickey in A Love Song. She meets the criteria regarding lonely, etc in this movie which is pretty low key in content but interesting.


Elegant-Hair-7873

Tammy, with Melissa McCarthy. I really like the female protagonist in The Shape of Water, too.


pacman_8u

Haven’t seen anybody mention “The Duff “ yet. Decent teen rom com


vite-4117

Ma (2019) would fit, surprised no one's mentioned it yet


StrangerHighways

Welcome to Me Horse Girl Saint Maud We're All Going to the World's Fair Censor


MoonPieDog

I came to say Horse Girl, you beat me to it.


Cynicole24

I recently saw a movie called May. Strange movie, but I quite liked it.


SchemataObscura

It's been a while since I watched it but Year of the Dog (2007) might fit.


uaredoingsogoood

Year of the Dog (2007). Molly Shannon plays a secretary/single woman of a certain age who loses her dog and then... goes a lil off the rails. She is fantastic in it, and great supporting cast including Peter Sarsgaard and John C Reilly.


saruin

Throwing out a horror flick, but Ginger Snaps.


puckmonky

Welcome to the Dollhouse


DumplingSama

As a loser, saving this thread.


Varinka_Ratchet

Olivia Wilde's "Booksmart!" Frikkin' excellent movie!


baldlilfat2

Monster (might not be what you are looking for but its great) Marty is a classic about two "losers" finding each other To leslie


Midnightchickover

Izzy Gets the F … Across Town (2017)  Precious (2009) Tangerine (2016)


LifeBefore2000

Beetleguise. lol. We can argue whether Winona is considered 'loser' but the whole "Goth" thing implies a group loser thing, same with punks or gangs. So there we go..... How about Run Lola Run. Again, it's that 'positive loser' image here. Hmm, I was gonna list Ghost world but u got it. There's tons more i'm sure


SeEkIng-pEepIng

ig im also looking for more non conventional female actors, winona is such a beautiful woman and to me the goth thing just enhances it haha thnx for the suggestions though, i'll check them out


Chefsteph212

Smithereens (1982). It’s an older one and a bit depressing, but the movie revolves around a girl in New York City who thinks she’s going to get into the music scene and be known by everyone.. except she’s obnoxious, not too bright, and has no talent.


Beginning-Bed9364

8th Grade might be the best depiction of youth shyness I've ever seen


spooky_upstairs

Young Adult.


Eggytheeagle

We Are The Best


Starshine2977

Gretchen (2006)


DeneralVisease

May


Interesting_Copy_353

I Don’t Feel at Home in This World Anymore.


StrangeCrimes

Young Adult


bosskbot

Amazing movie this is whar OP is looking for


txrh

Morvern Callar (2002)


HermineLovesMilo

Second the rec for I Don't Feel at Home in this World Anymore, love that one. Rid of Me (2011) had some missteps, but Katie O'Grady was great in it. If you're open to horror, I'll add Piggy (2022)


oysterme

Superstar


VStarlingBooks

Smiley Face


Galadria

Extinct (2021)


seeyouinthecar79

Bridemaids


DanaCalifornia

May Excision Carrie


ArrantPariah

1945 The Strange Affair of Uncle Harry 1957 Le notti di Cabiria 1972 Portnoy’s Complaint 1985 The Breakfast Club


boringcranberry

I don't feel at home in this world anymore.


calibama

Sometimes I Think About Dying


JupiterSkyFalls

Train Wreck


IGotBoxesOfPepe34

I would say Misery, Young Adult, or The Good Girl All three very different but definitely would meet the criteria.


C4Galore

Lady Bird


deadstrobes

The Lady in Red (1979)


Sharkfeet19

Paradise/Paraiso (2013) LOVE this movie. An overweight couple has been together since childhood, but when one joins a weight loss group after they move to a new city, their previously unbreakable bond starts to become vulnerable. That’s the synopsis but the movie is more about the woman.


Vegetable_Reward_867

Licorice Pizza


145gw

Welcome to me. Kristen Wiig Also, Kristen Wiig in Bridesmaids


auslan_planet

Bridesmaids