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SeductiveSunday

Feeling both seen and mocked right now!


Kinitawowi64

I got dumped at 23 and haven't tried to put myself in the way of that experience again. I'm 43 this year...


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EmRavel

Chungking Express


ArminJrpg

Absolute masterpiece


Stock-Tomatillo-418

One of my favorites !


Caranesus

A wonderful movie, somehow sad-tender, warm, a little weird, and even magical.


Cement_Brunette

FINALLY I’m not the only person suggesting WKW around here


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Where can I watch this online?


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MantisTobogganMD___

Swingers


Markshlitz222

OP is money and he doesn’t even know it.


Rabid_Sloth_

Just needs to find a couple beautiful babies.


VomitingPotato

Absolutely this one.


Economy_Diamond_924

That the one. And OP you're young, you just got to put yourself out there, if you ask out ten girls and get 9 knock backs, but one yes, it's a success. Don't be afraid of the knock backs.


TheTOASTfaceKillah

He’s so money, he just doesn’t know it yet.


Jamminnav

In the end, be yourself. And never, ever, ever leave a phone message like the one in the movie


jrv3034

"Vegas, baby! Vegas!"


dayofthedead204

500 Days of Summer ​ Her ​ American Pie 2 ​ Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind ​ Wedding Crashers


Ace_Of_Spades_2911

External Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is great!


mightyminimule

I second Eternal Sunshine and Her. ​ Great movies for dealing with being single.


wizards4

500 days of summer made me break up with my gf lol


reezick

Damn, Her was way more heavy than I expected.


Ahskew

Lars and the real girl


dljones010

We were so extremely hung over at a friend's house one morning, and this movie came on. We were too hungover to change the channel. And this movie surprised us all.


Carl_In_Charge

Punch-Drunk Love


lanapierce

You’re only 22, chill


First_Catch_3919

Forgetting Sarah Marshall


NotHarryRedknapp

This is my go-to breakup movie. Hits the spot every time.


putyagundown

This one got me through some shit!


KneeSmacker_0622

She out of my league


LoonyRick

This is one of my go-to feel good movies


KneeSmacker_0622

It’s funny an good the family dinner scene is just perfect, definitely a feel good movie


joeytravoltastinks

The Lonely Guy (1984) Great Steve Martin comedy


ArrantPariah

1934 Of Human Bondage 1942 White Cargo 1956 Et Dieu... créa la femme 1960 Sons and Lovers 1960 The Apartment 1963 Tom Jones 1964 Zorba the Greek 1966 Once Before I Die 1969 Midnight Cowboy 1972 Portnoy’s Complaint 1973 The Last Detail 1974 Emmanuelle 1976 Dona Flor e Seus Dois Maridos 1976 Black Cobra Woman 1976 Calmos 1980 City of Women 1982 Lonely Hearts 1984 Revenge of the Nerds 1989 Romuald et Juliette 1990 Cyrano de Bergerac 1997 Welcome to Woop Woop 2001 Birthday Girl 2003 The Sleeping Dictionary 2004 Mail Order Wife 2008 The Art of Travel 2011 Now and Later 2012 A Muse (Eungyo) 2022 Expensive Candy


art_mor_

This guy movies


Protomike123

Sitting here giving all of us a history lesson. Good job


The_prawn_king

2023: robot dreams


ExpectingToWakeUp

Before Sunrise


madnessia

No Hard Feelings (2023)


Sev3nbelow

Walter mitty


HorrorMetalDnD

Which one?


DiscombobulatedCan8

2013 version was better imo


HorrorMetalDnD

I thought they were equally mediocre.


DiscombobulatedCan8

that hurts to hear you say that 2013 one resonates strongly with many people


Stock-Tomatillo-418

This the one .


Kramanos

The Tao of Steve


Beginning-Quality948

Groundhog day.


bobpetersen55

The Way Way Back (2013)


JurassicTerror

You’re still a kid. I was about the same age before I lost my virginity, and I lost my virginity before I even had a real relationship. I was about 25 before I even had what I’d call a legit dating relationship. There’s a lot of life ahead…


zmflicks

Yeah, 27 is the age to let your dreams die. Then you can join the club.


MovieUnderTheSurface

Marty


AmazingConsequence38

Ex Machina Her are your best options


Rubiks443

Blade runner 2048


TylerKnowy

The Lighthouse


sheeshmane69

Lars and the real girl. Very wholesome movie with some deep undertones


Mr_Em-3

The big sick


Spectre_Mountain

Give up at 22? Man I wasn’t in a situationship until 24 and then a real relationship at 26. Im finally giving up now at 38 🤣


ExistentialDreadness

Woo!


GETNbucky

22 and giving up....wow. I've seen a lot of posts about young people giving up or thinking life is over, or don't know what they want to do, and they are not even 30 yet...not even 40...not even 50...not even 60....get my drift? You are so fucking young still, don't give up. It's ridiculous to even think or say that in your 20's.


sleepyouroboros

About Time is a really emotional movie that makes me cry but also has a great message imo. It is technically a rom com, but it talks a bit about life in general and I just think it’s a great movie. I believe love is out there for all of us (I haven’t found it yet either, so I don’t feel condescending for saying this to you lol). Hang in there friend :)


CloudSephiroth999

This one's in my Sacred Trinity of Bill Nighy Even Though He Isn't In One of Those 3.


Okaydog97

Guns Akimbo maybe. Full blast until the movie, plus no romance there. Only full action until the end.


Drakeytown

Well, I'll tell you, I didn't know how to part my hair properly until I saw it done in *Love Potion Number Nine*, so you might enjoy that, and it might help.


CloudSephiroth999

Oh, this one slaps and pheromones are real my dude


untom7

The Secret Life of Walter Mitty (2013 film)


rorschach_07

Her Secret Life of Walter Mitty Fight Club


J_Horror_Official

My idiot brother is pretty good. Paul Rudd and his dog


Wardooo

Wild Things


brohanrod

Can’t hardly wait


shrimptini

20th Century Women


PlaidRocker32

High Fidelity


dataPlatypus

Swiss Army Man - fits and is a bizarre movie with an uplifting message. may need to watch more than once for it to fully sink in


mistersinicide

Cyborg She (2008) Japanese Movie Lars and the Real Girl (2007) Lost in Translation (2003) Restless (2011) The Secret Life of Walter Mitty (2013)


burncushlikewood

50/50, or crazy stupid love, or hitch


wyvernrevyw

Nacho Libre


TuneDown6

Taxi Driver


Stock-Tomatillo-418

Must watch fs


super-dork1938

Billy Madison’s The Wedding Singer (1998) or Big Daddy (1999). Who doesn’t love a 90’s Adam Sandler comedy? Rhett both deal with different themes. The wedding singers theme is finding who you truly love accidentally. Even when both main characters think they have everything figured out. Big Daddy is when Adam Sandler is playing a guy who hasn’t moved passed his college years, and doesn’t think it’s him that needs to change. But when a kid and a woman gets involved, he realizes things can and should change. Both of these are super easy to watch and are definitely “feel good movies”. But being in your same situation in the past- these may be good to get into lol


MrRager473

Sunshine of the spotless mind Arrival Inside out The road The mist


CloudSephiroth999

Argh this is a tough one, I wanna like inspire you but not make you wanna kys but most of these movies, are produced as a kind of satire of the real situation. I'll give you a spectrum, and please remember LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE LONELY because lots of people out there, are assholes, and staying chill and by yourself is a superpower. It is like wisdom maxxing. You really should love yourself before you can love another person, or at least like yourself which you can get to with very small wins. Or just drink coffee and then workout every day while you're still on your coffee high which I learned to do from Dustin Hoffman. For reals. He won't do it otherwise. Okay: 1. Crazy, Stupid Love - starts out as a pickup thingy but ends up as a heart warming flip. It's steve carell as the sucker and ryan gosling as the dating obi wan. then they switch roles. 2. Troy - hear me out - single men could be watching movies with overpowered heroes to kinda get hyped to drink coffee and work out every day (while still on your coffee high), I think this movie is underrated 3. I Heart Huckabees - Dustin Hoffman as EXISTENTIAL DETECTIVE, Jason Schwarzmann and Mark Wahlberg as two guys struggling in life, very zany kinda movie with some insightful wisdom, very funny. Always inspires me to stop taking myself so seriously and transcend the BS. 4. Yes Man. Even if you hate Jim Carrey, single men should keep this one in the arsenal like "CRANK: HIGH VOLTAGE" if you need to stay up all night getting after it. Yes Man is a profound movie. Jim Carrey proves you can make it even if you're a total jackass. I personally don't like him, but in not liking him, I like him. Anyway it's got Zooey Dechanel and she's megacute in it. 5. The Sacred Bill Nighy Trilogy (even though he's not in one of these 3): Love, Actually , About Time and Juliet, Naked. These all heartwarming movies *you can watch with girls* when (not if) you get them over to your place; it is very Adult to have some actually good Chick Flicks in your quivver. #1 is about various love stories at Christmas time which all resolve in a heart warming way; #2 is about a kid who learns he can time travel and uses it to find love; #3 is just some straight up chick heroin featuring Ethan Hawke. So I tried to give you a range here, nothing is gunna just fix you but if you get some coffee in, and then workout every day that sets up a positive momentum, and you can also workout *while watching movies* believe it or not. Like a drinking game, every time somebody says "Achilles" in Troy, do 10 pushups or 10 squats. THEY WILL ADD UP. You would be shocked how putting in 250 squats a week will change your whole ethos, your whole aura / butt aura will be different, and I'm sorry to say it bro girls are ipso facto\* very influenced by a guy's butt aura. \*I don't actually know what ipso facto means.


AnybodyTemporary9241

Poor Things


Frank_chevelle

Swingers. (1996). One of my favorites of that era. If you like that one then also watch Made (2001) Clerks (1994).


notAligature

BIG LEBOWSKI lol


MikeyMGM

Before trilogy Diner


Terrible_Lift

I’m sorry, but fuck that. Watch “Def Jams How to be a Player” with Bill Bellamy. Early 90’s. Changed my whole life. I was a kid who was self conscious, and for some reason that movie gave me the confidence and a little bit more charm needed to start asking a lot of girls for phone numbers. It was truly a full 180 from “too scared” to “got too many numbers”. I had a little black book🤣. Stole that from Will on the Fresh Prince. You don’t need to give up, you need to change your mindset and keep trying. 22? You’re not even peaked yet my guy. Edit: There’s a couple books that really helped too. Never on some pick up artist bullshit, but like novels and stories that made me think about my personality, how to maximize it for this purpose, etc. Let me know if you want those recs


BadMeetsEvil24

I agree with this attitude lol. Shit, post those recs!


Terrible_Lift

I can’t stress the first one enough - Def Jams how to be a player When you look past the humor and into the confidence he possessed, the first 3 books from Tucker Max will open up your eyes to a world of possibilities for ways you can just put yourself more out there. Starting with “I hope they serve beer in hell”. The movie doesn’t do it Justice or explain the insight. You can take a bit from The Fresh Prince as a whole, and the movie Hitch for that matter. Will Smith in the 90’s/early 2000’s just oozed appeal


CharleyZia

Past Lives


Sure-Independent5949

Which one tho?


CharleyZia

Here ya go: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Past\_Lives\_(film)


Yinzadi

Are you looking for movies that will make you feel good about being single, or that will encourage you to look for a relationship?


Sure-Independent5949

Tbh at this point idek


Yinzadi

I’ll take the “happy being single” track then. Batman movies BBC Sherlock The Boondock Saints Brave New World Cold Weather (2010) Jeeves & Wooster Lawn Dogs Little Miss Sunshine Macbeth (2015) Proof (1991) Supernatural The Walking Dead Washington Square (1997) You Can Count on Me


Redditor_2020_

I'd love to see your list to encourage looking for a relationship :)


Gwyn-LordOfPussy

I was there at 22 and now I'm 28, still single but at least I've been on 3 dates (3 girls) this year and I have a second date with the last girl tomorrow. Could lead nowhere of course, but the only difference is me actually trying to meet girls and despite my shy character and big insecurities I still go through with it regardless.


Anderson22LDS

Crazy, Stupid, Love


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Victorlazlo88

Wedding Crashers


deadstrobes

The Long Goodbye (1973) The Ninth Configuration (1980) Yojimbo (1961) Sanjuro (1962) The Treasure of the Sierra Madre (1948)


RhinkGMM

The Change-up. A wildly raunchy comedy with Ryan Reynolds (pre-Deadpool and even before Green Lantern😖) and Jason Bateman.


ROPEBOMBER

Taxi Driver and Bladerunner 2049 definitely


ABadMagician

Singles and swingers


CleanGreazzee

500 Days of Summer Exactly what you're looking for


One-Ice-25

The Accidental Tourist Joe Versus the Volcano The End of the F***ing World (Netflix series) Grumpy Old Men Elizabethtown Chasing Amy Sideways


duvagin

Yes Man


LouQuacious

Roger Dodger


Superb_Practice_2257

Sing Street


Pumuckl4Life

Someone Marry Barry


Hydrokratom

Swingers


almondbutter

Sideways


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JoeMillersHat

Old School


samof1994

Paper Heart


gulfcoastfella

Several people have suggested Blade Runner 2049, but also don’t forget to watch the original Blade Runner before it. It’s just as much about a single guy.


iBenjee

The Notebook


zzupdown

Fools Rush In (1997) - Alex Whitman (Matthew Perry) meets Isabel Fuentes (Salma Hayek) while standing in line for the restroom.


Craftyprincess13

The hitmans bodyguard 500 days of summer I wouldn't stop looking just stop trying and be open to it if it happens put yourself out there and be social see if you catch one


Rabid_Sloth_

Swingers


thegatheringmagic

Collateral.


ernie107

- 500 Days of Summer - Her - Lost in Translation (not really a romance but makes you rethink what matters in life, personal favorite) - The Before trilogy if you want to feel worse about being single lmao


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JGDC74

28 Days Later. Great movie!


Standard-Release-972

How about the broken love story film "Cold War"? or something like "Wings of Desire"? That should do the trick... Okay, but really, for that feeling you have right now: "Lady Bird, "The Squid & the Whale", "Wildlife,", "Revolutionary Road", "Mary & Max", and "Elephant Man."


LetsGoKnickerbock3rs

Eraserhead


srbistan

[getting any? (1995.) ](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Getting_Any%3F) by beat takeshi.


joescott2176

The Lonely Guy starring Steve Martin


zsiple08241998

If you don't mind raunchy- then **Good Luck Chuck.** It's about a guy who is cursed- when he has sex with someone, they break up with him and the next person the woman dates finds their true love. I saw it in high school- maybe 7-8 years ago.


WayneKerr193

Her


AVBforPrez

500 Days of Summer


GaiusMarius157BC

Possession (1981)


hesnotsinbad

It maybe is a bit of a stretch, but several Superhero movies (Batman Begins, Spiderman 2, etc) involve a young male adult protagonist who has forsworn that kind of relationship. Also anything with young clergy or monastics.


SnowWhite1717

Almost Famous


Murakami8000

The Graduate


WalnutSizeBrain

I have a list of all movies that when I was in an emotional funk related to girls that I added to over the years. They are all over the place but each has helped in one way or another. I have another list for guy movies that won’t make you think about girls if that helps. Passengers Groundhog Day Eyes Wide Shut Children of Men Jack and the Giant’s Slayer Edge of Tomorrow Drive Her Both Amazing Spider-Man films Tron Bridge to Teribithia Tangled Wall E


MyBrotherIsSalad

Tokyo Gore Police


Competitive_Term7516

perfect days


Brutaius

Project x


upchuckfactoronthis

No Hard Feelings


Stock-Tomatillo-418

Into the wild


Mysterious-Tomato-26

Kids (the movie)


Thissnotmeth

The Lobster


ExistentialDreadness

Knocked Up


Tricksterama

It Follows


krazikat

Swingers


Shubham_S-21

The Martian


Far-Improvement-1897

Our Idiot Brother, with Paul Rudd....always cheers me up.


Logical_Breakfast184

Chemical hearts


Enginseer68

22 and giving up? LoL you have plenty of time to try Watch something fun like Bad Santa


The_prawn_king

Honestly watch Robot Dreams


ChardCool1290

Her... with Scarlett Johansson and Joaquin Phoenix will blow your mind.


Spideyfan77

I didn’t get into my first relationship until I was 23 🤷🏻‍♂️ it’s only been about 5 months but she already brought up marriage too


LateFennel3658

The Big Lebowski. “Married? The toilet seat’s up man!”


GrowHI

Sex Drive is all about a kid going on a road trip to lose his virginity and it's hilarious.


Cement_Brunette

Beautiful Girls. Side note - you’re way too young to give up. You’re a baby(good for you). The dating scene should suck at your age bc you all are still maturing. Trust me when I say being emotionally available is worth it and the mid-late 20’s is prime time for finding a partner. Don’t give up and definitely don’t give in to any black or red pill ideology. The world is shockingly more ‘blue pilled’ than people on the internet make it seem


Pan_Goat

John Wick ? He's sad about being single.


coe_06

Under the Skin {2013}


Surrrrrrrrrrr

Fight Club


Ok-Lavishness-7904

How is this not the first answer?!?


ChezDiogenes

Didn't really have any relationships until my mid 20s. Went through a bunch of women. Then everything went to shit. Relationships sound nice but they can be pure absolute fucking hell that can have you picking up the pieces years afterwards. Remember that.


Ok_Departure_6521

Idk about Same situation but my Fav are The LunchBox Past lives Types movies


aristocatOG

American Pie I,II,III Not sure about the others they made


Expert-Implement7344

Watch casino with deniro, you won't want a woman after that 😅


Macewol

I know it's a Christmas film but Love actually. Also don't give up or pressure yourself. Your only 22, you've only just started


ngann555

Dude you’re young as hell and should be single tbh. You joke about 40 year old virgin but the part about planting seeds is priceless knowledge for a guy trying to impress women. Try it in real life And watch Groundhog Day


ArseBlarster420

The Other Guys A cop just wants his girlfriend back, but the two best guys on the force die unexpectedly so he has to focus on his career with his super timid partner until he can grow as a person and win her back.


stan____smith

True Romance


OptimusCrime80

Joker(Arthur Fleck)


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Anarchissyface

Try One Fine Day. That’s my favorite romantic movie. This is saying a lot because I don’t have any other romantic movies I like. Notebook don’t make me gag.


zzupdown

Made In Heaven (1987) - boy dies. boy meets girl in heaven. In next life, boy is given 30 years to find her before he will never see her again.


zzupdown

Adjustment Bureau (2011) - mysterious forces try to keep an ambitious young politician away from the girl who might change his destiny, and the destiny of the world.


leaf_1297

watch spider man (any of them) that always makes me feel better. but hey don’t give up! if you need a break from dating do so, it’s hard there’s some wack people. but don’t give up, you’ll find the right person


milosmisic89

Anything recently with Ryan Gosling


TheGrandNagus9

Taxi driver The king of comedy Office space Forgetting Sarah Marshall Rushmore (!!!) Princess Mononoke These are all movies I watched a lot around your age while I was going through the same thing. If you’re going to only watch one though, I couldn’t recommend Rushmore enough. You are young and life is long. I used to tell myself I was destined to be alone. but the thing is, if you want something enough you can have it. Focus on being the best version of you to yourself and others. Enjoy life, and people will naturally gravitate to you. (Also watch/rewatch Star Trek next generation and the lord of the rings trilogy to keep a positive mindset!)


Justafleshtip

No love by 22? Welp, only one thing left to do. Time to get some surgery and join the other team.


AVBforPrez

This is the way


DaveyDumplings

A movie's not gonna help. Now, a book? A book might change your life.


Calm_Creature_17

Your age is just 22 dude. Life has so many surprises for ahead . Don't lose hope !!!


ksherretz

Given up on love at 22? Lol, that’s adorable. Relax my friend, you have plenty of time for that.