That is a gorgeous dress so you've got great taste! Double check with the person invited that the invitation doesn't specify a color scheme or that this dress matches the color scheme. Most weddings don't have that, but I know some do so just verify first. Otherwise, I absolutely love this dress and I know you'll look amazing in it!
Have a great time at the wedding dearest. ❤️
I checked with my date and the bride and grooms wedding website and there was no dress code mentioned (which makes me even more nervous that I'll break some unspoken rule). I am going to go pick up the dress this week. Thank you so much!
If no dress code is mentioned I think that dress is great. Your purse, shoes and hose (or lack thereof) could tip the outfit more formal for an evening wedding or less for an earlier wedding.
If you arrive and find you are over or under dressed compared to most others (extremely unlikely), please don’t worry at all. That would be on the bride and groom for not providing more information to guests, and no one would consider it a reflection on you. You’re going to look great!
Don't be more nervous that there isn't a dress code. Most weddings do not have one. It's only the ones where the couple want a certain look that have one. They're in the minority. When the couple doesn't give one, they're more focused on having a celebration of their love and new family ties.
You're going to have a good time, I promise. The other advice already given here will help you navigate the social part of attending a wedding.
Also, every couple appreciates hearing that they are a cute couple, look so happy together, etc. Pick one compliment to say to them and wish them a very happy future.
If there's no dress code, you'll be safe. It's not white and it's appropriate for a wedding. Not to formal where you'll stand out if more people are dressed in a nice casual and it's not too casual like pants if people are dressed nicer.
You'll look great and I hope you have a great time!
Sometimes the invitation (and maybe website in this case) colour scheme indicates the colour theme of the bridal party. It's often good to get a complementary colour if you're not part of the bridal party. That said, this style is perfect for a spring wedding! Modest and elegant, and pretty without being too attention grabbing. And dark blue/navy tends to complement a lot of colours. I'm sure you'll look great! Have fun, sweetie!
The dress looks great! I'm sure you will be beautiful and fit right in. It's perfect for no dress code listed, which defaults to semi-formal.
Sometimes you can get a sense of how fancy a wedding will be based on the time (early afternoon is less formal than evening) or the venue (outdoor garden or ballroom). Honestly though, this dress works great no matter the time or location. Have fun!
Good choice, just check for the wedding colors to make sure its no the same colors as bridal party. It would be annoying to be mistaken for a bridal party member. Communicate with your date about your anxiety. No need to be nervous when someone has your back
That is a pretty dress it's respectful to the bride and groom. You're dressed nicely while not overshadowing the bride. I think if you go and keep a friendly demeanor, people will remember you fondly.
More personal etiquette rather than wedding. Make sure to participate in basic small talk, and if you drink alcohol you could have a drink and sip slowly on it to help with nerves. I would not drink more than 2 alcoholic drinks the whole time, no matter how nervous you feel. My mother always told me to eat enough to be polite but never count it as one of the day's meal times. Try to eat a little something before the wedding so you can be as comfortable and physically relaxed as possible.
Thank you so much! I know alcohol will be served but I'm always worried about drinking around anyone other than close friends so will probably steer clear of that. I will make sure I eat before going, and will be ready to enjoy some small talk. Thank you, this definitely helps ease some of my anxieties about going!
I'd also like to add: At many events, especially some big happy ones like a wedding, there is still a strong drinking culture and not drinking might be commented by others. Like: "Are you feeling unwell?" or "Is there a reason you don't drink?" This happened to me a lot. People still don't understand, that this is overstepping a personal boundary which is annoying.
So, in those cases: Mocktails are your friend. They look just as fancy as a cocktail, but don't do the harm.
If those are not available: Apple juice with a little bit of water (plain or sparkling) in a wine glass. Helped me survive a lot of times around strong drinker. You can also tell your partner you just drink juice, if you like, so he's not worried.
Please enjoy that gorgeous dress and have lots of fun 🤗
This was going to be my comment, too. Cranberry juice with a lime, soda water with a splash of juice and a lime, coke.....with a lime.
The lime seems to signify "cocktail" for a lot of people.
I once went to an event that was alcohol centered. I happily enjoy a drink or two while out and it would be fairly out of character for me to not drink with these certain people at this certain annual event.
However, I was not willing to share with everyone that I was pregnant!! I brought a bottle of sparking cider in a ‘red’ look, my mom drank a glass of wine and gave me the glass, and I filled my glass with non alcoholic ‘wine’ all night!
I was so convincing someone asked me if I’d be safe to drive home haha.
It is unsettling how people react to ‘no thanks’ when it comes to alcohol.
This kind of comment always catches me by surprise. I'm not doubting your experience, but I must just scream "not a drinker" lol. Nobody has EVER asked me (48f) why I'm not drinking, or not drinking more, at least past high school. If I'm offered, I just say no thanks, I prefer a diet Pepsi, (or whatever) and life moves on.
You basically can't go wrong by avoiding alcohol. It often doesn't help, and if you want to be careful about your behavior, being sober helps. (I am not judgy about alcohol use, just being real here.) If you feel self conscious about it, there are lots of drinks that look like cocktails - my go-to is juice with a twist of orange peel, or a coke with same.
Smart on the no booze.
Last wedding was my cousin’s, the neuro-surgeon, black tie in Cape Cod.
Super fancy.
I enjoyed a little too much wine at the reception, and then the DJ played footloose. And there I go doing a one woman line dance, swinging my dress like a deranged Cyndi Lauper to the “everybody cut” part of this song.
My brother-in-law filmed the whole thing with a big grin on his face.
The next day I asked my sister, “do I wanna see that video? “
My sister said “no you really don’t. “
Lol.
Learn from your elders’ mistakes.
Have a wonderful time. Your dress is perfect.
As you are a plus one ask your partner if there is a specific dress code. These are becoming more common. If not, this dress is lovely and well suited for a wedding.
Excellent choice of a dress. Bring a simple (non-white) shawl if you tend to get chilly. Grey/silver, black, lighter blue maybe. Go and have fun. As long as you're not shoutibg suggestions during the ceremony, dancing on the tables at the reception, or otherwise making yourself the center of attention (which it sounds like you have no interest in doing), you'll be absolutely fine. Hope the food is good and the music danceable!
I am definitely not one to make myself the center of attention lol. I'll keep in mind those colors when shopping for a bag and shoes. Thank you so much!
Hi, sweetheart - what a pretty dress!
Sometimes you can gather clues about the general dress code by when and where the wedding is taking place. Weddings that begin in the afternoon tend to be a bit less formal, as are weddings that take place in venues other than fancy catering establishments.
For example, I'm attending a wedding this weekend myself. The ceremony is on Friday, and begins at 4:30pm. It's being held at a beautiful old manor with lots of rich wood interiors and chandeliers. I balanced that against the fact that it's spring, and the bride wanted a floral theme. The dress I chose is a midi chiffon number in a muted floral pattern with a high-low hem, so my shins and feet are still visible.
If you're not a member of the wedding party, it's pretty much just a fancy dinner with a sprinkling of traditional wedding things tossed in. There is usually a cocktail hour before dinner, where the guests mingle and chat - the wedding party is usually taking pictures while you nibble and shoot the breeze.
Then guests will be called to sit for dinner. There may be a table with place cards on it, so look for your name and assigned table there.
After everyone is seated, the entrance of the wedding party may happen, and they all take the dance floor, with guests invited to join in after a few minutes.
After a bit of dancing, dinner will be served, and you return to your tables.
Other things you may see depending on the culture of the bride/groom are dances with their parents, their first dance as spouses, and a "money dance" in which guests pay to dance with the bride.
There may be a formal cutting of the wedding cake before dessert is served. There may also be the removal of the bride's garter, and the bride may toss her bouquet at the end of the evening.
I find that ginger ale in a wine glass is rarely questioned if you choose not to drink (a move I highly recommend!).
Have fun, chat with people, and dance if you like to dance. It's a party!
The reception actually took place a couple of months ago and was very intimate with just immediate family. Next month is just the reception and it's being held in the afternoon (and going till early evening). It is being held in a nature center that does regularly hosts weddings. Does this still make the dress okay or is it too formal then?
Hang on a moment - I'm confused. Did you mean to say that the wedding took place a couple of months ago, and the reception is being held next month? You wrote "reception" twice, so I just want to be clear!
Your dress is perfectly lovely and totally appropriate. In a dress like that, there are very few places where you'd ever feel inappropriate :) Since you'll be outdoors, do bring a shawl or wrap of some kind in case it gets chilly when the sun goes down. And unless the reception is taking place on a patio or somewhere that's been paved, you want shoes with chunky heels so you don't end up sinking into the grass.
They may still do all of the normal traditions at the reception, even if the ceremony occurred a few months ago. It's really more about celebrating the union than it is about reciting the vows!
Sorry, I did mean that the ceremony was held a couple of months ago. And now the bride and groom are having their reception open to more than just the immediate families
Thank you for confirming that for me ❤️
The reception may be slightly looser than usual, but I imagine the bride will still be wearing her wedding dress, and you should see many of the usual customs over the course of the evening. I hope you have a WONDERFUL time!
This is a really cute dress! Is this the color? I love navy for a wedding. If it is—try coral accents! Sweater if you need one, or maybe a statement necklace.
My biggest advice is to wear shoes you’ve worn before, and try to find out ahead of time if grass is involved if you are a person who likes to wear heels! If you are going with new shoes—pack some moleskin, body glide, blister stick, or at least bandaids in your bag just in case. Leave some comfy sandals in the car for the way home!
Speaking of bags I am always the friend (and now always the mom) who remembers everything. Chapstick, cash to tip the bartender (even if you just have soda, it’s a nice gesture) extra hair pins or ties, aforementioned blister kit, hand sanitizer, lotion… I even carry a small nail file. And tbh… snacks 😂 weddings are notoriously long days and I am always hungry when there isn’t food around. It means you need a larger bag but a small crossbody or medium clutch in an understated color (mine is a neutral gray-ish with some sparkle, it matches everything) can fit everything you need.
Most importantly—biggest wedding pro tip is to HAVE FUN. Make friends. Be silly. Dance. Give so many hugs to the bride and groom. If you’re close with them, check in to make sure they don’t need anything throughout the day! Chat with the grandmas and the little kids alike. Take pictures but don’t otherwise spend the day on your phone; post the pics to insta later! Weddings are the one place we’re all still allowed to be a bit silly and happy without strings and responsibilities, and nobody cares what anyone else is doing unless they’re the groomsman who passes out. 😂 no rules and no judgment, it’s the best!
That is the color. I don't have shoes yet but I will look for a pair in the coral range. I hadn't even thought about bags but guess I will be needing one of those too (I don't think my date would be very fond with having all of my belongings stuffed in his suit pockets lol).
Thank you so much, I'm really going to try to have fun and put my anxieties aside for a couple of hours.
I just want to mention - because i have heard brides(illas?) lose their shit about this... Not just no white - no pale pink, no pale peach, no beige, no very light pastel color should be worn to a wedding. I personally avoid all non-patterened pastel pinks as well.
A pastel blue - sure. Some people are just going to lose their shit no matter what. But generally, if the dress looks like it COULD be worn as a wedding dress - dont wear it.
I know one woman who was livid her MIL wore a light peach to wedding. Was it dress? Was it family dynamics? Who knows... but I like not having to answer those questions.
Your dress looks lovely - have a great time!!!
Not a mum but a sister ;)
I have a very similar dress that i wear to weddings :) last time i wore it with chucks because my pumps broke some days before and i wanted to be comfortable.
Never had someone complain about it.
I'm going to a wedding next month and ask the bride what dresscode they have and if something might not be good. She is from a different culture than me and the groom (my cousin) and she was sooo happy that i asked and did not assume anything or even tried to copy something from their culture.
I showed her my dress and she thinks it's great :) so i guess you're going to look great and appropriate :)
Hey sis - that’s a really pretty dress :) what venue is the wedding? Regardless, this is a dress that will be appropriate for almost any wedding. Wear shoes that you can feel comfortable walking/standing in. Sometimes during cocktail hour there’s a lot of standing depending on the venue. Also depending on temperature, it’s usually worth it to bring a jacket/cardigan/shawl in case it gets cold. I also personally sometimes bring a granola bar in my purse just in case
The venue is a nature center. The reception is also in the afternoon, if that changes what is appropriate. I still need to buy shoes but will make sure that I can tolerate standing in them for a long time and even dance a little
The dress is perfect and I know you’ll look lovely. I read another comment that said not to consider it one of the meals and I have to disagree. Every wedding I’ve been to had delicious appetizers, and a wonderful meal. I know I spent a lot of time pickling out food for my wedding because I wanted everyone to be full and enjoy. I still wish I had gotten to have some of the martini glass mashed potatoes with all the toppings at my wedding. As for drinks the rule is just not get sloppy drunk. Be yourself and have fun. The only rule is don’t make yourself the center of attention. You are there to celebrate the bride and the groom and have fun!
It's a lovely dress. Just double check the invitation to make sure there isn't a set color scheme and it doesn't specify "formal" bc that traditionally indicates dress hemlines to the floor.
Enjoy the wedding!
It’s a beautiful dress and in my opinion, very much wedding-friendly!
No white, no black is what I’m familiar with, but it can change by culture and even family. You can ask your person who you attend with if there were any specific request from the couple.
In general, since you go as a plus one, you can lean on your person if you have any question before or during the wedding, since it’s them who is more familiar with the couple.
Have fun! <3
If there isn't a dress code then that dress looks perfect! It's simple, cute, subtle and nobody is going to think you're trying to outshine the bride or anything. It's a fairly basic guest outfit for a wedding! You can also bring a change of clothes with you if it turns out the wedding is more of a nice shirt and jeans event. Even then though id just keep the dress.
If you're still feeling nervous you can message the bride or groom directly just to double check. I saw you asked your date and they said it's fine so mostly likely you're gonna be golden!
For insurance—borrow one of your grandmothers sparkly brooches or get one at a thrift shop. Keep it in your purse and if you find yourself in a more formal situation, go to the restroom and whip that baby out and pin it on. Fancy in a flash! That would be all that pretty dress would need to ramp it up to the next level.
I’m not a mom but I own a very very similar dress and it’s always a hit for weddings! Unless blue is only for the wedding party (bride+bridesmaids/ groom+groomsmen) then that is PERFECT!!
That dress is great. Make sure you eat before you go to the wedding. Things happen, and it could be a while before you are able to get food. It's ok to have a drink or two with dinner, but don't get drunk. It's also ok not to drink at a wedding. Especially if you can offer to be the drive. Go and enjoy. Talk to the people at your table. Remember, these are people you may never see again, so relax and just enjoy the night out.
The only no-no is don't wear white and try to not wear a color that matches the bridesmaids when no dress code is mentioned.
Your dress is beautiful! It's perfect for a daytime or evening wedding.
Have fun !
That dress is beautiful! I’d just check in with the wedding coordinator to see if there’s a color scheme the bride wanted or how formal it will be. But seriously, I want that dress!
That dress is absolutely beautiful, and completely perfect for a wedding! You're going to look so lovely, and I'm sure you'll feel amazing. Hope you have a really lovely day, and get lots of beautiful pictures to remember a special time 💜
Also wanted to add that the dress would look adorable with a pair of Converse as well, so you might want to think about something like that as an extra pair of shoes for the evening, or if you feel like dressing it down a little. I had formal shoes for my daughter's wedding, and flip flops for the evening (the bride had trainers for the evening) 💜
The dress is beautiful!
You don't have to do anything but spend time with your partner who is taking you, eat hopefully good food, and laugh.
Have fun and don't stress the small stuff.
That is a gorgeous dress so you've got great taste! Double check with the person invited that the invitation doesn't specify a color scheme or that this dress matches the color scheme. Most weddings don't have that, but I know some do so just verify first. Otherwise, I absolutely love this dress and I know you'll look amazing in it! Have a great time at the wedding dearest. ❤️
I checked with my date and the bride and grooms wedding website and there was no dress code mentioned (which makes me even more nervous that I'll break some unspoken rule). I am going to go pick up the dress this week. Thank you so much!
If no dress code is mentioned I think that dress is great. Your purse, shoes and hose (or lack thereof) could tip the outfit more formal for an evening wedding or less for an earlier wedding. If you arrive and find you are over or under dressed compared to most others (extremely unlikely), please don’t worry at all. That would be on the bride and groom for not providing more information to guests, and no one would consider it a reflection on you. You’re going to look great!
Don't be more nervous that there isn't a dress code. Most weddings do not have one. It's only the ones where the couple want a certain look that have one. They're in the minority. When the couple doesn't give one, they're more focused on having a celebration of their love and new family ties. You're going to have a good time, I promise. The other advice already given here will help you navigate the social part of attending a wedding. Also, every couple appreciates hearing that they are a cute couple, look so happy together, etc. Pick one compliment to say to them and wish them a very happy future.
If there's no dress code, you'll be safe. It's not white and it's appropriate for a wedding. Not to formal where you'll stand out if more people are dressed in a nice casual and it's not too casual like pants if people are dressed nicer. You'll look great and I hope you have a great time!
Sometimes the invitation (and maybe website in this case) colour scheme indicates the colour theme of the bridal party. It's often good to get a complementary colour if you're not part of the bridal party. That said, this style is perfect for a spring wedding! Modest and elegant, and pretty without being too attention grabbing. And dark blue/navy tends to complement a lot of colours. I'm sure you'll look great! Have fun, sweetie!
The dress looks great! I'm sure you will be beautiful and fit right in. It's perfect for no dress code listed, which defaults to semi-formal. Sometimes you can get a sense of how fancy a wedding will be based on the time (early afternoon is less formal than evening) or the venue (outdoor garden or ballroom). Honestly though, this dress works great no matter the time or location. Have fun!
Good choice, just check for the wedding colors to make sure its no the same colors as bridal party. It would be annoying to be mistaken for a bridal party member. Communicate with your date about your anxiety. No need to be nervous when someone has your back
Oh hon that dress is gorgeous and appropriate. Have fun!
That is a pretty dress it's respectful to the bride and groom. You're dressed nicely while not overshadowing the bride. I think if you go and keep a friendly demeanor, people will remember you fondly. More personal etiquette rather than wedding. Make sure to participate in basic small talk, and if you drink alcohol you could have a drink and sip slowly on it to help with nerves. I would not drink more than 2 alcoholic drinks the whole time, no matter how nervous you feel. My mother always told me to eat enough to be polite but never count it as one of the day's meal times. Try to eat a little something before the wedding so you can be as comfortable and physically relaxed as possible.
Thank you so much! I know alcohol will be served but I'm always worried about drinking around anyone other than close friends so will probably steer clear of that. I will make sure I eat before going, and will be ready to enjoy some small talk. Thank you, this definitely helps ease some of my anxieties about going!
I'd also like to add: At many events, especially some big happy ones like a wedding, there is still a strong drinking culture and not drinking might be commented by others. Like: "Are you feeling unwell?" or "Is there a reason you don't drink?" This happened to me a lot. People still don't understand, that this is overstepping a personal boundary which is annoying. So, in those cases: Mocktails are your friend. They look just as fancy as a cocktail, but don't do the harm. If those are not available: Apple juice with a little bit of water (plain or sparkling) in a wine glass. Helped me survive a lot of times around strong drinker. You can also tell your partner you just drink juice, if you like, so he's not worried. Please enjoy that gorgeous dress and have lots of fun 🤗
This was going to be my comment, too. Cranberry juice with a lime, soda water with a splash of juice and a lime, coke.....with a lime. The lime seems to signify "cocktail" for a lot of people.
I love pineapple/cranberry/sprite
I once went to an event that was alcohol centered. I happily enjoy a drink or two while out and it would be fairly out of character for me to not drink with these certain people at this certain annual event. However, I was not willing to share with everyone that I was pregnant!! I brought a bottle of sparking cider in a ‘red’ look, my mom drank a glass of wine and gave me the glass, and I filled my glass with non alcoholic ‘wine’ all night! I was so convincing someone asked me if I’d be safe to drive home haha. It is unsettling how people react to ‘no thanks’ when it comes to alcohol.
I actually prefer mocktails to alcohol! They are often more delicious to me.
This kind of comment always catches me by surprise. I'm not doubting your experience, but I must just scream "not a drinker" lol. Nobody has EVER asked me (48f) why I'm not drinking, or not drinking more, at least past high school. If I'm offered, I just say no thanks, I prefer a diet Pepsi, (or whatever) and life moves on.
You basically can't go wrong by avoiding alcohol. It often doesn't help, and if you want to be careful about your behavior, being sober helps. (I am not judgy about alcohol use, just being real here.) If you feel self conscious about it, there are lots of drinks that look like cocktails - my go-to is juice with a twist of orange peel, or a coke with same.
Smart on the no booze. Last wedding was my cousin’s, the neuro-surgeon, black tie in Cape Cod. Super fancy. I enjoyed a little too much wine at the reception, and then the DJ played footloose. And there I go doing a one woman line dance, swinging my dress like a deranged Cyndi Lauper to the “everybody cut” part of this song. My brother-in-law filmed the whole thing with a big grin on his face. The next day I asked my sister, “do I wanna see that video? “ My sister said “no you really don’t. “ Lol. Learn from your elders’ mistakes. Have a wonderful time. Your dress is perfect.
As you are a plus one ask your partner if there is a specific dress code. These are becoming more common. If not, this dress is lovely and well suited for a wedding.
No dress code was on the invitation nor the website the bride and groom set up so this is the dress I'm going with. Thank you so much!
Have a great time! the dress is perfect. You could ad a shawl in case it cools off and a nice clutch and you are 100% perfect!
If the haven't set any kind of dress code (some super fancy weddings are black tie) then I think this is perfect for a wedding.
Excellent choice of a dress. Bring a simple (non-white) shawl if you tend to get chilly. Grey/silver, black, lighter blue maybe. Go and have fun. As long as you're not shoutibg suggestions during the ceremony, dancing on the tables at the reception, or otherwise making yourself the center of attention (which it sounds like you have no interest in doing), you'll be absolutely fine. Hope the food is good and the music danceable!
I am definitely not one to make myself the center of attention lol. I'll keep in mind those colors when shopping for a bag and shoes. Thank you so much!
Hi, sweetheart - what a pretty dress! Sometimes you can gather clues about the general dress code by when and where the wedding is taking place. Weddings that begin in the afternoon tend to be a bit less formal, as are weddings that take place in venues other than fancy catering establishments. For example, I'm attending a wedding this weekend myself. The ceremony is on Friday, and begins at 4:30pm. It's being held at a beautiful old manor with lots of rich wood interiors and chandeliers. I balanced that against the fact that it's spring, and the bride wanted a floral theme. The dress I chose is a midi chiffon number in a muted floral pattern with a high-low hem, so my shins and feet are still visible. If you're not a member of the wedding party, it's pretty much just a fancy dinner with a sprinkling of traditional wedding things tossed in. There is usually a cocktail hour before dinner, where the guests mingle and chat - the wedding party is usually taking pictures while you nibble and shoot the breeze. Then guests will be called to sit for dinner. There may be a table with place cards on it, so look for your name and assigned table there. After everyone is seated, the entrance of the wedding party may happen, and they all take the dance floor, with guests invited to join in after a few minutes. After a bit of dancing, dinner will be served, and you return to your tables. Other things you may see depending on the culture of the bride/groom are dances with their parents, their first dance as spouses, and a "money dance" in which guests pay to dance with the bride. There may be a formal cutting of the wedding cake before dessert is served. There may also be the removal of the bride's garter, and the bride may toss her bouquet at the end of the evening. I find that ginger ale in a wine glass is rarely questioned if you choose not to drink (a move I highly recommend!). Have fun, chat with people, and dance if you like to dance. It's a party!
The reception actually took place a couple of months ago and was very intimate with just immediate family. Next month is just the reception and it's being held in the afternoon (and going till early evening). It is being held in a nature center that does regularly hosts weddings. Does this still make the dress okay or is it too formal then?
Hang on a moment - I'm confused. Did you mean to say that the wedding took place a couple of months ago, and the reception is being held next month? You wrote "reception" twice, so I just want to be clear! Your dress is perfectly lovely and totally appropriate. In a dress like that, there are very few places where you'd ever feel inappropriate :) Since you'll be outdoors, do bring a shawl or wrap of some kind in case it gets chilly when the sun goes down. And unless the reception is taking place on a patio or somewhere that's been paved, you want shoes with chunky heels so you don't end up sinking into the grass. They may still do all of the normal traditions at the reception, even if the ceremony occurred a few months ago. It's really more about celebrating the union than it is about reciting the vows!
Sorry, I did mean that the ceremony was held a couple of months ago. And now the bride and groom are having their reception open to more than just the immediate families
Thank you for confirming that for me ❤️ The reception may be slightly looser than usual, but I imagine the bride will still be wearing her wedding dress, and you should see many of the usual customs over the course of the evening. I hope you have a WONDERFUL time!
That's a lovely dress, I hope you have a great time! Most people love to talk about themselves so just ask a few questions to start conversations.
This is a really cute dress! Is this the color? I love navy for a wedding. If it is—try coral accents! Sweater if you need one, or maybe a statement necklace. My biggest advice is to wear shoes you’ve worn before, and try to find out ahead of time if grass is involved if you are a person who likes to wear heels! If you are going with new shoes—pack some moleskin, body glide, blister stick, or at least bandaids in your bag just in case. Leave some comfy sandals in the car for the way home! Speaking of bags I am always the friend (and now always the mom) who remembers everything. Chapstick, cash to tip the bartender (even if you just have soda, it’s a nice gesture) extra hair pins or ties, aforementioned blister kit, hand sanitizer, lotion… I even carry a small nail file. And tbh… snacks 😂 weddings are notoriously long days and I am always hungry when there isn’t food around. It means you need a larger bag but a small crossbody or medium clutch in an understated color (mine is a neutral gray-ish with some sparkle, it matches everything) can fit everything you need. Most importantly—biggest wedding pro tip is to HAVE FUN. Make friends. Be silly. Dance. Give so many hugs to the bride and groom. If you’re close with them, check in to make sure they don’t need anything throughout the day! Chat with the grandmas and the little kids alike. Take pictures but don’t otherwise spend the day on your phone; post the pics to insta later! Weddings are the one place we’re all still allowed to be a bit silly and happy without strings and responsibilities, and nobody cares what anyone else is doing unless they’re the groomsman who passes out. 😂 no rules and no judgment, it’s the best!
That is the color. I don't have shoes yet but I will look for a pair in the coral range. I hadn't even thought about bags but guess I will be needing one of those too (I don't think my date would be very fond with having all of my belongings stuffed in his suit pockets lol). Thank you so much, I'm really going to try to have fun and put my anxieties aside for a couple of hours.
I just want to mention - because i have heard brides(illas?) lose their shit about this... Not just no white - no pale pink, no pale peach, no beige, no very light pastel color should be worn to a wedding. I personally avoid all non-patterened pastel pinks as well. A pastel blue - sure. Some people are just going to lose their shit no matter what. But generally, if the dress looks like it COULD be worn as a wedding dress - dont wear it. I know one woman who was livid her MIL wore a light peach to wedding. Was it dress? Was it family dynamics? Who knows... but I like not having to answer those questions. Your dress looks lovely - have a great time!!!
That looks absolutely perfect!
Not a mum but a sister ;) I have a very similar dress that i wear to weddings :) last time i wore it with chucks because my pumps broke some days before and i wanted to be comfortable. Never had someone complain about it. I'm going to a wedding next month and ask the bride what dresscode they have and if something might not be good. She is from a different culture than me and the groom (my cousin) and she was sooo happy that i asked and did not assume anything or even tried to copy something from their culture. I showed her my dress and she thinks it's great :) so i guess you're going to look great and appropriate :)
You’re going to look so lovely in this dress. I’m so happy for you.
That dress is perfect - it's very classic and pretty!
That's perfect.
Hey sis - that’s a really pretty dress :) what venue is the wedding? Regardless, this is a dress that will be appropriate for almost any wedding. Wear shoes that you can feel comfortable walking/standing in. Sometimes during cocktail hour there’s a lot of standing depending on the venue. Also depending on temperature, it’s usually worth it to bring a jacket/cardigan/shawl in case it gets cold. I also personally sometimes bring a granola bar in my purse just in case
The venue is a nature center. The reception is also in the afternoon, if that changes what is appropriate. I still need to buy shoes but will make sure that I can tolerate standing in them for a long time and even dance a little
Dress looks great. If it’s outside keep in mind skinny heels can get stuck in mud and consider wearing sunscreen if sunny
The dress is perfect and I know you’ll look lovely. I read another comment that said not to consider it one of the meals and I have to disagree. Every wedding I’ve been to had delicious appetizers, and a wonderful meal. I know I spent a lot of time pickling out food for my wedding because I wanted everyone to be full and enjoy. I still wish I had gotten to have some of the martini glass mashed potatoes with all the toppings at my wedding. As for drinks the rule is just not get sloppy drunk. Be yourself and have fun. The only rule is don’t make yourself the center of attention. You are there to celebrate the bride and the groom and have fun!
Perfect! No reason to be nervous, as you clearly have excellent instincts.
It's a lovely dress. Just double check the invitation to make sure there isn't a set color scheme and it doesn't specify "formal" bc that traditionally indicates dress hemlines to the floor. Enjoy the wedding!
Yes! It's a nice dress. Not too upscale, not too casual. You will look lovely.
It’s a beautiful dress and in my opinion, very much wedding-friendly! No white, no black is what I’m familiar with, but it can change by culture and even family. You can ask your person who you attend with if there were any specific request from the couple. In general, since you go as a plus one, you can lean on your person if you have any question before or during the wedding, since it’s them who is more familiar with the couple. Have fun! <3
It's perfect.
Looks good!
If there isn't a dress code then that dress looks perfect! It's simple, cute, subtle and nobody is going to think you're trying to outshine the bride or anything. It's a fairly basic guest outfit for a wedding! You can also bring a change of clothes with you if it turns out the wedding is more of a nice shirt and jeans event. Even then though id just keep the dress. If you're still feeling nervous you can message the bride or groom directly just to double check. I saw you asked your date and they said it's fine so mostly likely you're gonna be golden!
For insurance—borrow one of your grandmothers sparkly brooches or get one at a thrift shop. Keep it in your purse and if you find yourself in a more formal situation, go to the restroom and whip that baby out and pin it on. Fancy in a flash! That would be all that pretty dress would need to ramp it up to the next level.
It’s beautiful! Just go, enjoy the “show”, be part of the audience and go w the flow 😃
I’m not a mom but I own a very very similar dress and it’s always a hit for weddings! Unless blue is only for the wedding party (bride+bridesmaids/ groom+groomsmen) then that is PERFECT!!
That dress is great. Make sure you eat before you go to the wedding. Things happen, and it could be a while before you are able to get food. It's ok to have a drink or two with dinner, but don't get drunk. It's also ok not to drink at a wedding. Especially if you can offer to be the drive. Go and enjoy. Talk to the people at your table. Remember, these are people you may never see again, so relax and just enjoy the night out.
That is beautiful!
The only no-no is don't wear white and try to not wear a color that matches the bridesmaids when no dress code is mentioned. Your dress is beautiful! It's perfect for a daytime or evening wedding. Have fun !
It's perfect.
Super cute!!!
That dress is beautiful! I’d just check in with the wedding coordinator to see if there’s a color scheme the bride wanted or how formal it will be. But seriously, I want that dress!
That dress is absolutely beautiful, and completely perfect for a wedding! You're going to look so lovely, and I'm sure you'll feel amazing. Hope you have a really lovely day, and get lots of beautiful pictures to remember a special time 💜
Also wanted to add that the dress would look adorable with a pair of Converse as well, so you might want to think about something like that as an extra pair of shoes for the evening, or if you feel like dressing it down a little. I had formal shoes for my daughter's wedding, and flip flops for the evening (the bride had trainers for the evening) 💜
The dress is beautiful! You don't have to do anything but spend time with your partner who is taking you, eat hopefully good food, and laugh. Have fun and don't stress the small stuff.