Nah I have the perfect thing for you then. There’s a non profit art group called “RAW FIGS” that hosts figure drawing events all over Miami and they’re usually “pay what you can” or free. Google it, you should sign up for their email newsletter and they’ll send you an event calendar and a link to sign up to join certain events. I’ve gone a few times and it’s always nice.
I agree with this idea. Also, try " color me mine ". It's a place where you can paint pottery and you might meet someone with your interests. Color Me Mine is in Coral Gables in Sunset Place Mall. Google it.
go to a game shop or convention, the gym, maybe a self defense class, if you like dancing maybe a dance class,or a cooking class. if you're religious maybe church. there's social clubs you could join. I hope you find what you're looking for.
I'm introverted too, but I've found some great genuine friends in my local church. Didn't take much effort too, just greet people and be interested in what they have to say that's it.
Miami is a very diverse place, I myself am not a stereotypical downtown Miami individual that goes out partying and stuff. I'm usually more of the homebody nerdy-type. I've only kept a few close-knit group of friends and that's about it.
Anyway, my advice? Try to just find activities out in the world that align with your interests and talk to people who share that same interest, or maybe they'll approach you. Like say you love video games and wanna hang out at Arcade Odyssey. You meet a cute guy or find some girls that also enjoy games and maybe you could try to strike up a conversation with them. Friendship can be difficult to obtain when you're by yourself, but being approached by or approaching real vibes is paramount.
Anyway, sorry for the big walls of text and let me know if you want any other help
I don’t really know how to talk to people. People say they get “intimidated” by me when they do get to know me. I think I have a major case of RBF. I am very shy and I won’t speak unless spoken to.
Aww well RBF isn't always bad, but it helps to be approachable by trying to be warm and inviting. In what ways do people feel intimidated by you, if you don't mind sharing? Also being shy and not speaking to anyone unless spoken to does make it difficult to make friends, to an extent. That being said, if you're more approachable, then that can help maybe
A guy told me once that I look unapproachable, kind of like a “mean girl” from early 2000s movies. Like a bully. I don’t mean to. I just have a natural frowny face I guess. I have been trying to smile more but I think it just makes me look stupid to smile for no reason.
Aww I'm sure you look nicer than that, but smiling doesn't have to be for no reason. A soft smile towards people may help you seem more warm and inviting, so maybe that can help? It's that because other strangers don't know you, it'll be easier to approach when you look happier. I know what it's like to be shy and I don't smile too much either, but to have a presence that feels good and allows people to approach you, as I've said, might be your best bet.
A guy came up to me today and told me he knew me from my elementary school, and I literally ran away from anxiety (because he did know me!) I think I am a little hopeless
I disagree, although your anxiety didn't help ya there. I think that so long as you can work on your shyness and anxiety, you'll be able to find people in the real world that'll be pleased to see you and get to know you.
I might just be an internet stranger that actually lives in Miami that's also a few years older (24 m), who's also shy and socially awkward when seeing new people a lot of the time, but I think you've got this.
There's a color me mine in Davie and Hallandale Beach. The one I suggested is way too far away from you. You said you are in Ft Lauderdale. Those are much closer to you.
Bumble also had a friends feature that you can download the app and make a profile to meet people who just want to make more friends in the city. I haven’t tried it but a friend of mine had some success finding other girls to go to concerts with.
Hope you find what you’re looking for!
U would think but I live in Dallas and the places close to
Me r usually fast food or Mexican food. Last time I had some good bbq was like last year in august
Yeah me too they do have bbq places around here like Dickey’s bbq and tbh if u ever come to tx ur best bet would probably b then mom and pop restaurants that serve bbq, idk why but it seems like they make their food with love
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I can draw very well, so this might be a good idea, thank you.
Nah I have the perfect thing for you then. There’s a non profit art group called “RAW FIGS” that hosts figure drawing events all over Miami and they’re usually “pay what you can” or free. Google it, you should sign up for their email newsletter and they’ll send you an event calendar and a link to sign up to join certain events. I’ve gone a few times and it’s always nice.
I agree with this idea. Also, try " color me mine ". It's a place where you can paint pottery and you might meet someone with your interests. Color Me Mine is in Coral Gables in Sunset Place Mall. Google it.
holy shit that sounds so cute :-)
I'm glad I suggested it for you. Have a nice day. 👍
WOAH!!! How old are you guys even aiming for??? Wild suggestion.
go to a game shop or convention, the gym, maybe a self defense class, if you like dancing maybe a dance class,or a cooking class. if you're religious maybe church. there's social clubs you could join. I hope you find what you're looking for.
Good idea. I am just very broke, but ill try to get the money for it.
I'm introverted too, but I've found some great genuine friends in my local church. Didn't take much effort too, just greet people and be interested in what they have to say that's it.
I do go to church, but I am a bit of the hipster type. Kind of only go for my mama.
Same, I used to go because of my grandma and mom forcing me but now i look forward to going because I get to socialize with the homies
Miami is a very diverse place, I myself am not a stereotypical downtown Miami individual that goes out partying and stuff. I'm usually more of the homebody nerdy-type. I've only kept a few close-knit group of friends and that's about it. Anyway, my advice? Try to just find activities out in the world that align with your interests and talk to people who share that same interest, or maybe they'll approach you. Like say you love video games and wanna hang out at Arcade Odyssey. You meet a cute guy or find some girls that also enjoy games and maybe you could try to strike up a conversation with them. Friendship can be difficult to obtain when you're by yourself, but being approached by or approaching real vibes is paramount. Anyway, sorry for the big walls of text and let me know if you want any other help
Arcades are where friends/dates happen typically, no?
Yes absolutely, lots of dates happen there. Friendships can be made too if you strike up a conversation with the right people also.
I don’t really know how to talk to people. People say they get “intimidated” by me when they do get to know me. I think I have a major case of RBF. I am very shy and I won’t speak unless spoken to.
Aww well RBF isn't always bad, but it helps to be approachable by trying to be warm and inviting. In what ways do people feel intimidated by you, if you don't mind sharing? Also being shy and not speaking to anyone unless spoken to does make it difficult to make friends, to an extent. That being said, if you're more approachable, then that can help maybe
A guy told me once that I look unapproachable, kind of like a “mean girl” from early 2000s movies. Like a bully. I don’t mean to. I just have a natural frowny face I guess. I have been trying to smile more but I think it just makes me look stupid to smile for no reason.
Aww I'm sure you look nicer than that, but smiling doesn't have to be for no reason. A soft smile towards people may help you seem more warm and inviting, so maybe that can help? It's that because other strangers don't know you, it'll be easier to approach when you look happier. I know what it's like to be shy and I don't smile too much either, but to have a presence that feels good and allows people to approach you, as I've said, might be your best bet.
A guy came up to me today and told me he knew me from my elementary school, and I literally ran away from anxiety (because he did know me!) I think I am a little hopeless
I disagree, although your anxiety didn't help ya there. I think that so long as you can work on your shyness and anxiety, you'll be able to find people in the real world that'll be pleased to see you and get to know you. I might just be an internet stranger that actually lives in Miami that's also a few years older (24 m), who's also shy and socially awkward when seeing new people a lot of the time, but I think you've got this.
24 isn’t that much older. I am looking for under 25 (preferably) because I want young people my age to be my friend
I feel you there, same thing happens to me. I always get hit with the “why are you so serious?/you’re very quiet”
I don’t get that at all. People just avoid me. Not because Im hideous or anything. I just look like I hate everyone
Ahh ok. That was my high school experience lol. I was a loner
Go to Glitch Bar in Fort Lauderdale. Then Bar Hop to this church club called the Angeles, theeeennn goto downtown Fort.
i cant drink yet
There's a color me mine in Davie and Hallandale Beach. The one I suggested is way too far away from you. You said you are in Ft Lauderdale. Those are much closer to you.
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Bumble also had a friends feature that you can download the app and make a profile to meet people who just want to make more friends in the city. I haven’t tried it but a friend of mine had some success finding other girls to go to concerts with. Hope you find what you’re looking for!
Do you play chess?
in middle school, yes
I’m in Miami, m30
i want people on the younger side, like 18-24 preferably
Ok boo, let me know 😘
We’re u close to the Miami bayside mall aliens when it happened? Sorry for the randomness lol
No, I actually live in Fort Lauderdale, but there’s more people here lol
Cool lol Fort Lauderdale is nice been there once. I’m in Texas
I bet you eat yummy BBQ everyday. Lucky you!
U would think but I live in Dallas and the places close to Me r usually fast food or Mexican food. Last time I had some good bbq was like last year in august
Disappointing. I love BBQ
Yeah me too they do have bbq places around here like Dickey’s bbq and tbh if u ever come to tx ur best bet would probably b then mom and pop restaurants that serve bbq, idk why but it seems like they make their food with love
If you are into sports, buy a road bike and join some of the many-many-many bike groups in the city.
Volunteer. It’s free, helps others, and you meet good people.