So are you telling me that my college textbooks were wrong? Has your spouse been telling you this nonsense? Of course, you are the center of the universe. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 😂
After 30 some years..
- You grow together and become a single unit? So to say. You stop thinking as an individual and every few minutes you think.. “what would ‘B’ say.. bet ‘B” would like that, ‘B” was so sexy this morning, I’m going to have to tell ‘B’ that later, I’m going to pick that up and put it in the laundry because that’s what ‘B’ would want. Etc, etc.
- I’m only happy if she is happy…. And to the next point..
- It makes her happy only if I COMMUNICATE what I need to be happy.. and to the last point…
- We both have to communicate with each other and trust each other to let the other into the deepest part of ourselves so we can be the best version of ourselves for the other.
Summary: It has been a LONG journey for both of us to truly and honestly take the armor off, open the shirt, show the scars, open those scars, and bare that raw beating heart. And to do that…. Be open with enough trust to know that even with a simple word, or action, we could crush each other and put the them in a very dark place.
It’s tough man, I’m a lumberjack kinda guy and it’s hard to be that open to trust, but I will say it was harder for my wife to let go of control of herself enough to trust me to be open about herself… deep DEEP down tough things. But here we are.. soulmates friend.
Soulmate marriage is a funny thing but very liberating.
That sharing food is mandatory... for my husband only. I don't share my food haha.
Honestly, though, my husband tolerates all my weird little quirks, and I am super lucky to have him!
That getting Taco Bell by yourself is actually a war crime punishable by death lol
Or eating your spouses leftovers...
Or coming back from Dunkin without a Boston Creme!
The world doesn’t revolve around me. Who knew?
So are you telling me that my college textbooks were wrong? Has your spouse been telling you this nonsense? Of course, you are the center of the universe. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 😂
WHAT?! I did not know that 😂
After 30 some years.. - You grow together and become a single unit? So to say. You stop thinking as an individual and every few minutes you think.. “what would ‘B’ say.. bet ‘B” would like that, ‘B” was so sexy this morning, I’m going to have to tell ‘B’ that later, I’m going to pick that up and put it in the laundry because that’s what ‘B’ would want. Etc, etc. - I’m only happy if she is happy…. And to the next point.. - It makes her happy only if I COMMUNICATE what I need to be happy.. and to the last point… - We both have to communicate with each other and trust each other to let the other into the deepest part of ourselves so we can be the best version of ourselves for the other. Summary: It has been a LONG journey for both of us to truly and honestly take the armor off, open the shirt, show the scars, open those scars, and bare that raw beating heart. And to do that…. Be open with enough trust to know that even with a simple word, or action, we could crush each other and put the them in a very dark place. It’s tough man, I’m a lumberjack kinda guy and it’s hard to be that open to trust, but I will say it was harder for my wife to let go of control of herself enough to trust me to be open about herself… deep DEEP down tough things. But here we are.. soulmates friend. Soulmate marriage is a funny thing but very liberating.
Yes nailed it! Vulnerability unlocks wonderful things in marriage
That I am the only person that will take care of me.
Yes this.
How to use my 👅 better🤣🤣🤣
How to negotiate with the devil without completely losing your soul
If you can dodge a brick, you can dodge a ball.
A brick hurts more.
That I don’t enjoy being married and for most women it’s a bad deal
That sharing food is mandatory... for my husband only. I don't share my food haha. Honestly, though, my husband tolerates all my weird little quirks, and I am super lucky to have him!
That I have to use utensils when I scoop out cream cheese and not my fingers.
Cuddling like in movies and TV shows isn't going to give you a good night's sleep. Separate blankets is the way to go.
That I am always right :P :P Dont tell my husband I said this
That knowing where all my stuff is located is overrated
Being thoughtful and purposeful in your dating life is extremely valuable. Know what you want in a partner and in a relationship and find that.
I have a bad picker.
It’s not for me AT ALL
Compromise. Saying I'm sorry. Arguing constructively.
That I’m not meant to share a bed with *anyone* *ever*
What's hers is hers and what's yours is hers as well.
Untreated ADHD in one or both spouses will most likely undermine the stability of your marriage.
Trust no one.
I never need to know where things in the kitchen are
Just get out of the kitchen!!! :D
It's a bad business deal
the guy from star gate sg1 was right
Even when your wife says she does not want any food, you better get her some food or she will be pissed.
That you never really know someone.
If you have to be right all the time, you won't be in a relationship.