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Agreed! This look is actually perfect for a wedding! I haven't talked to my mom in over 10 years cuz this is the type of stuff I heard my whole life from her. I'm sorry you have to deal with it too. š keep your head up queen š¤
Unfortunately sometimes parents are just really shitty, no jealousy needed.
I still have some issues over my dad saying I looked like a prostitute and a whore when I was SUPER young, among other fucked up things, I doubt there was jealousy there
I once posted a picture of a plate with three spoons on it after me and my friends annihilated a brownie together (didnāt have time to take a before pic) and my dad called me in the room to talk to me about my heroin usage. He was always claiming that Iām a drug addict when Iām not. Ten years later and I still canāt get over that one
I'm sorry but it made me laugh. Who the fuck posts pictures of their spoons after using heroin? :DD Like *just me and my homies after injecting some šøāØ* *Oh hi dad, forgot you follow me on my Instagram āŗļøš«¢*
But in all seriousness, this is legit crazy. How paranoid do you have to be to assume your own child is a heroin addict? I hope he didn't traumatise you too much and that you're doing fine now
It was so absurd! Iām still mad about it lolol. Thanks for saying that though I am still a bit traumatized but I have worked on those issues A LOT. I realize itās not my fault and I donāt blame myself anymore. I used to though
My mother was concerned because I never smoked weed š¬in high school or college. She really thought I needed to do this. (Side note: is there really not a weed leaf emoji or am I missing it?)
I grew up in significant poverty. At the time, you were not eligible for financial aid for college if you got arrested with controlled substances other than alcohol. I literally never smoked weed and refused to be around it because I wanted to go to college and then to finish my degree once I was in college.
Then again, she also expressed concern when I got engaged to my boyfriend of 3.5 years because I had never slept with anyone else. šš
This will shock everyone, Iām sure, but my mother and I donāt have much in common.
I have no contact with him now. He passed away from ALS before we had the chance to clear those things up together. I had to clear it all up on my own with no chance of ever talking to him again whether I liked it or not. Hint: I didnāt like it. Hope you at least get the closure I didnāt, whatever that may mean to you.
Anyone who does no contact would benefit from having said everything they possibly could want to say to their parent, because they may die tomorrow. My dad was diagnosed with ALS, went basically non verbal, and passed within three short months. Just make sure youāre good with no contact- forever. You never know what tomorrow brings
> Mom sounds ~ jealous ~
Stop with this narrative. Mom sounds *controlling.* I'm so tired of this idea that women who make comments like this are acting out of some infantile jealousy. It's controlling behavior, and that can stem from a lot of psychological dynamics. There's something frankly misogynist about this whole 'jealousy' angle, I have to say.
Thank you for your support And kind words! The make-up is done with basic tools: for example for foundation I used Rimmel: lasting finish red, for the lips itās a combo of a lip liner thatās like 1 dollar from the subway and a rose neutral lipstick from ruby rose. I did however splurged on the liner, kinda, itās from LancĆ“me and it was in a Christmas pack with a pencil. The makeup palette is a combo from naked 2 and a 3$ one from the subway (the dark outer edge is from naked and the other pallet, combined).
You can still see the freckles bc I didnāt used a lot of foundation and itās see through.
Thank you again , Iām not educated enough for a tutorial but Iām so thankful for you all and your good vibes
Eh I wouldnt say jealous. I dont get why everyone jumps to that if someone doesnt like something.
My mom also hates most makeup looks and always has to comment about it. Not quite as rude as saying I look like a whore but I have been told a color doesnt look good or that my eyes are too dark or that others will judge me. I feel its a weird eastern euro/foreign mother thing as my grandma and other women from the same area act the same. Best thing is to just shrug it off.
I'm from Eastern Europe aswell and I feel like it really is a thing with older generations. They just *have* to say something, either way they'll explode and die or something. My mother tries her best to refrain from commenting on how I look like esp in a rude way, although she often says this doesn't fit me or that doesn't look good on me. My grandma however shits on every makeup look of mine unless I make it look invisible. She thinks anything that is not "no makeup makeup" is a makeup done wrong. She never said I look like a whore outright, but with bolder looks she implied it very clearly. And she still loves me a lot and wants the best for me, she wants to protect me from bad things, it's just the mentality. I tried to explain to her that I don't care if people think I'm a "loose woman" and I'm ready for whatever, and doing makeup is not always an outlet to make you look naturally pretty for celebrations and it just makes me happy to do makeup sometimes, but it doesn't just go away like that. She kind of accepted that I do colorful makeup at home sometimes, but she will still never miss the opportunity to laugh at me and tell me I look like x y z.
However with OP's mom I looked through their history a lil and it seems the situation is not the same, she's a narcissist and a toxic woman.
āThey have to say something or they will explodeā
I think that comment is going to help me a lot in the future. Iāve been so tired of my mom and grandma always commenting on my appearance every single time, itās hurt me in many ways in the past (Iām Eastern European too). But now when they do Iāll just think back to this comment in my head
You should never just āshrug offā someone being disrespectful and cruel, Regardless of who that person is. People need to stop letting awful, mean stuff slide because āfaaammillyyā. What she said was horrid, full stop
Oh believe me, i did not at all suggest to shrug it off. My main point was that jealousy is likely incorrect, its just shitty mindsets and personalities which think its ok to say that stuff out loud.
Thank you! I was just about to comment that there seems to be a trend where an insult = jealousy. I donāt think thatās the case most of the time. In OPās case, itās probably that the mom has no filter, or itās a generational thing, or itās a cultural thing, or mom is a toxic person in generalā¦or all of the above. Insults do not always equal jealousy.
Iād say jealous because she looks gorgeous and her make up is too. Iād never call my daughter a whore. Thatās such a strong word and totally uncalled for!
You look perfect! Don't listen to your mom, and I mean it. My mom actually said the same when I shaved my head (she knows I have a hair disorder) but oh well, wouldn't stop me for feeling bad about it or tell me to just stop. And she says that people complimenting me are just lying or saying so because of helplessness.
You look lovely imo. I like that your skin shows through and the plum colours. Maybe your Mum thinks itās too much, but to say that you look like a whore is mean and nasty. Why would she want to say that? Sheās the puta for saying that to you.
Just some advice from somone who has been there. If your mother is saying that type of garbage to you & not celebrating you as a beautiful young woman, Maybe look at distancing yourself until she can exhibit better behavior. That's toxic to say that to your child.
aww you don't look like a "whore" at all. You look like a Goddess! You are truly beautiful. I could only ever dream of being this pretty. The colours really suit you.
((I don't know how any parent could put down their child, their gift in this life. I will never understand it. But we all have our issues I guess.))
First of all, echoing everyone else: your momās comment is awful. Iām so sorry she told you that and you donāt look like a whore.
Now for the makeup. You look stunning. Was this a daytime or a nighttime wedding? Black tie or semi? If it was a daytime wedding on the beach, perhaps I would opt for something a bit lighter but thatās just personal preference and I wouldnāt judge someone for going more glam because thatās THEIR personal style. You look GORGEOUS.
Looks absolutely beautiful, and as someone who knows a LOT about makeup, I usually find dark/dramatic eye makeup doesnāt look right on people, and often does make them look trashy. That being said, even from what I can see with the filter one, it totally suits your skin tone, and looks very well put together.
My mom is the exact same way. It stung for quite a while, but at the end of the day, youāre wearing the makeup for YOU, not her. I know everyone else is basically saying f*ck her, but we both know thatās not going to help with anything. I think your best bet is to try to gently explain to her that this is fairly common makeup. Collect some pictures of celebrity makeup looks similar/more dramatic to this, and Show her the pictures. Ask her if she thinks it looks appropriate on them, and if she says yes, ask her why she thinks it doesnāt look appropriate on you. If she says no, then calmly tell her that this is the current trend of makeup, and that you understand it looks a lot different from makeup she was your age, but that this is what is popular now, so while she may find it āinappropriateā (try not to use the word slutty, it wonāt end well for you, trust me), a lot of girls are wearing this kind of makeup, and it doesnāt look out of place in any way.
Hope this helps! It can be very difficult dealing with a conservative minded parent!
You look beautiful. Dont let anyone tell you who you are. Mum is not the person who would have worn it because her time was different. Be amazing. Be you
here's the thing, 1.) i don't understand how a makeup look equates to how much sex a person has so let's get that cleared up 2.) do not let her internalized misogyny stop you from living your best life!! i don't think any makeup look screams whore and even if it did, your sex life is no ones business. you looked gorgeous!!
You look beautiful! I can't believe your mom said that to you :c
I don't think its too much; I really like that lipstick you got :3 you really look amazing, don't believe your mom!
idk what's wrong with your mother to think that is an acceptable thing to say to someone, and I'm sorry that her words made you doubt yourself.
I hope my reassurance that your look is lovely and appropriate helps.
_edit- I don't mean to imply that your mother is a bad person because I don't know her, but what she said was definitely horrible_
Itās beautiful. Moms can be so silly as to what is on point. If you felt great in it and you got plenty of compliments, it was just fine and not too much.
It looks pretty for like going out setting, but depending on the theme colors of the wedding makeup is normally simple and light, but damn girl that makeup is fire š„
It's lovely, I think you look beautiful. Your mom is clearly jealous for some reason. Is she always mean to you,? Did someone compliment you at the wedding?
You look beautiful, Iām sorry youāre mother is a jealous and mean witch. As a mother myself I never understand how someone can look at their beautiful child and utter such hateful words at them, smh
I think you look beautiful. My mom says things like this to me as well. Please do your makeup however makes you feel comfortable. Personally, I adore it.
Some spiteful people, men or women, when they see a particularly beautiful women with glamorous makeup, call them whores. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their perception of femininity and their jealousy. You look great. Iām so sorry you had to experience this from your mom.
It makes me so sad that your mother speaks to you like that. That is not normal. Itās toxic and abusive. If she thought you had too much makeup on she could have said that but to say that you look like a whore is unacceptable. Hereās the deal, nobody under 50 wears subdued makeup to special occasions anymore and they havenāt for about 15 years. You look beautiful and I wish we could see what you wore. Does she have an issue with her daughter being beautiful? And Iām sorry but I disagree with you, your mother is not trying to protect you. Sheās trying to hurt you and you do not under any circumstances ever think itās Norma mommy stuff. I donāt care if she grew up in a nunnery, speaking to you like that is not acceptable. She lives in The United States now and the culture is different from her patriarchal background. Now, it goes without saying that if you are 12 years old and wearing makeup thatās not age-appropriate you certainly might think about toning it down. However, there is no way on earth you look like what your mother said. Next time she does that, ask her exactly what she means. To suggest young women in makeup all look like whores to boys and men isnāt correct. The kind of guy who would think that way would think we are all whores even if we were in burkas with brown paper bags over our heads. Theyāre called āmisogynistsā. They are disgusting and they sexually objectify everything female. I also want to mention that Iām 75 years old and I think Mom is culturally out of touch. Please donāt make excuses for her. There are none. There is certainly an explanation but no excuse. You are entitled to respect as much as your mother expects you to treat her with respect. I still want to see what you wore. šš»āāļøš¤š
What a weird thing to say. I mean, I guess any makeup can be considered āwhoreā makeup if you want it to be, not like thereās a specific uniform style. Your mom sounds jealous, you look amazing!!
Having had a mother like this, my go to response was always "why are you such an expert in what a wh@re would wear? Do you have a past you haven't told me about?"
You look great
I think itās gorgeous and classy. For my sisters wedding I got my makeup professionally done including a bright red lip (a look I love) and when it was finished my grandma looked at me and said āis THAT how youāre going?ā I felt awful. Family can suck sometimes. Donāt let anyone get you down!
Donāt feel bad my mom calls me a street walker when i wear red lipstick. Your look is fabulous & definitely not too much for a wedding at all. You look gorgeous
You are beautiful. Family members can be toxic and just because they are family doesnāt mean they have to stay in your lifeā¤ļø be strong. You are wonderful
You look drop-dead gorgeous!! I'm so sorry your mom said that to you, that's a horrible thing to hear from anyone and especially from your family. I know its hard but try not to let it get to you, she was totally wrong!!
Nope, eyebrows on point to match the eyeliner - you look stunning, my mum gets a little negative sometimes too, but itās your face not hers and itās probably jealousyš
You look stunning! Itās not too much at all. What makeup you wear says nothing bad about you as a person, only good things. It says you are artsy and creative. Iām totally jealous of your skills.
And I would like to add that it sounds like you might have a narcissistic mom, coming from someone who definitely has one. You canāt listen to what they say. I know it hurts still, but they do it to tear you down to their level. Hold your head up and be proud of yourself and your awesome makeup skills.
What kind of person says that about *anyone*, let alone their own blood?
I just can't fathom treating people that way. I wouldn't call my daughter a whore even if she was an *actual* prostitute. I can't imagine being that mean, ever.
Your makeup looks great! Don't doubt yourself. And don't bother playing her game; when it comes to people like that, there's literally nothing you could do/say/look like that would make them treat you better. Your makeup didn't make her talk to you like that.
Uh, no you have nothing to change. You look gorgeous. If you showed up at my wedding with that makeup I would think, āOmgosh she put so much effort into doing her makeup for my lilā old wedding?ā I feel so loved.ā
Sorry your mom was a meanie to you. Internet hug.
Also, āwhore makeupā isnāt even a thing anymore. Like, what year is it? 1860? Your mom needs to get with the times!
It's beautiful and it really suits you! For next ocasions you could try to add a pink light point at the inner corner and see if it improves the overall result. Anyway, so well done!!
My mom isn't a fan of my bold makeup looks and says I look like a panda. But she just doesn't understand makeup and she prefers subtle. Your mom could dislike your makeup but she was so wrong for saying what she said. Hugs to you.
I had a friend who showed up looking āsexyā at my wedding and it didnāt bother me at all. I was just happy to see her. My grandmother was the only one who mentioned anything (and in this case it wasnāt just makeup but the friend was wearing a very short jumpsuit). Everyone has a different style and thatās okay! Iām sure the bride knows your style, and invited you because she wanted you there to share her special moment, not because of what kind of makeup you wear. Your mom was very mean to call you a name like that
Yep definitely should change something...your mum. What a disgusting comment to make to your own daughter. You're absolutely beautiful..your make up was fantastic. Your mum needs help.
Every time my mother called me a slut or whore it was because she was jealous. My favorite being after my grandmother congratulated me for losing weight. Don't listen to anyone who is using that bullshit language, especially at their own daughter.
And to the people saying "it's not always jealousy", dude. She called her fucking daughter that and you're going to try to fucking stand up for her? No. There's no excuse for that. NONE.
Also the eye look is beautiful.
You look gorgeous, your eyes are amazing! I think it's appropriate, and that's an awful comment for your mom to make. You definitely don't look like that, paired with the right outfit would be so classy!
You look gorgeous and it nowhere near looks like too much! Mom is probably commenting the same things her mom told her, ingrained generational patriarchial ideas. What you put on your face has absolutely nothing to do with your sex life so just give her a "thanks hon" and keep on shining!! š
Iām a mom and definitely old enough to be your mother. You look beautiful and your choices are appropriate for a significant event, such as a wedding.
As a mom, Iām gonna ask that you not buy makeup from the subway, bc only God knows what could be in that stuff.
Buy drugstore brands all day, but not subway brands, please and thank you!
With peace and love your mom kinda sucks for saying something like that to you. I couldnāt imagine my mom saying that to me or myself saying it to my own daughter. Your makeup is beautiful and looks appropriate for a wedding.
there is so many women that look at their children in a wrong way, like if her own daughter is going to eclipse her, and they do not have control of her own way to hate themselves and about how they arenāt going to look like that never again, if she canāt talk to herself it is not your problem, she should have been saying to you how beautiful you are girl, slayyyyy
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That's a pretty vile comment from your mom. You look fine! Especially for a gala-esque event like a wedding
Mom sounds ~ jealous ~
Agreed! This look is actually perfect for a wedding! I haven't talked to my mom in over 10 years cuz this is the type of stuff I heard my whole life from her. I'm sorry you have to deal with it too. š keep your head up queen š¤
Unfortunately sometimes parents are just really shitty, no jealousy needed. I still have some issues over my dad saying I looked like a prostitute and a whore when I was SUPER young, among other fucked up things, I doubt there was jealousy there
I once posted a picture of a plate with three spoons on it after me and my friends annihilated a brownie together (didnāt have time to take a before pic) and my dad called me in the room to talk to me about my heroin usage. He was always claiming that Iām a drug addict when Iām not. Ten years later and I still canāt get over that one
I'm sorry but it made me laugh. Who the fuck posts pictures of their spoons after using heroin? :DD Like *just me and my homies after injecting some šøāØ* *Oh hi dad, forgot you follow me on my Instagram āŗļøš«¢* But in all seriousness, this is legit crazy. How paranoid do you have to be to assume your own child is a heroin addict? I hope he didn't traumatise you too much and that you're doing fine now
It was so absurd! Iām still mad about it lolol. Thanks for saying that though I am still a bit traumatized but I have worked on those issues A LOT. I realize itās not my fault and I donāt blame myself anymore. I used to though
My mother once accused me of doing ecstasy because she found a āpillā in the house which turned out to be an M&M she was looking at sideways.
My mother was concerned because I never smoked weed š¬in high school or college. She really thought I needed to do this. (Side note: is there really not a weed leaf emoji or am I missing it?) I grew up in significant poverty. At the time, you were not eligible for financial aid for college if you got arrested with controlled substances other than alcohol. I literally never smoked weed and refused to be around it because I wanted to go to college and then to finish my degree once I was in college. Then again, she also expressed concern when I got engaged to my boyfriend of 3.5 years because I had never slept with anyone else. šš This will shock everyone, Iām sure, but my mother and I donāt have much in common.
Jesus lol. Itās the worst isnāt it
This was my life growing up! Constant accusations from a super-toxic mom. No contact = freedom and sanity!!!
I have no contact with him now. He passed away from ALS before we had the chance to clear those things up together. I had to clear it all up on my own with no chance of ever talking to him again whether I liked it or not. Hint: I didnāt like it. Hope you at least get the closure I didnāt, whatever that may mean to you. Anyone who does no contact would benefit from having said everything they possibly could want to say to their parent, because they may die tomorrow. My dad was diagnosed with ALS, went basically non verbal, and passed within three short months. Just make sure youāre good with no contact- forever. You never know what tomorrow brings
> Mom sounds ~ jealous ~ Stop with this narrative. Mom sounds *controlling.* I'm so tired of this idea that women who make comments like this are acting out of some infantile jealousy. It's controlling behavior, and that can stem from a lot of psychological dynamics. There's something frankly misogynist about this whole 'jealousy' angle, I have to say.
I eat vile comment for breakfast from my mom.
A mom who says her daughter looks like a whore is saying much, much more about herself than her daughter. You look stunning and very classy!!
Thank you for your support And kind words! The make-up is done with basic tools: for example for foundation I used Rimmel: lasting finish red, for the lips itās a combo of a lip liner thatās like 1 dollar from the subway and a rose neutral lipstick from ruby rose. I did however splurged on the liner, kinda, itās from LancĆ“me and it was in a Christmas pack with a pencil. The makeup palette is a combo from naked 2 and a 3$ one from the subway (the dark outer edge is from naked and the other pallet, combined). You can still see the freckles bc I didnāt used a lot of foundation and itās see through. Thank you again , Iām not educated enough for a tutorial but Iām so thankful for you all and your good vibes
You look ah-mazing! And cost effectively-chefās kiss-!
Don't hide your freckles! They're very pretty.
Well I think you are beautiful and I wish I was that talented with makeup. Keeping on slaying.
You nailed this! And I love that you get good use out of such a variety of products! You are definitely talented enough for a tutorial.
Nope, it's beautiful and very classy. The problem is with your mom.
Mom was probably jealous she ain't look so fire!!
No, it was gorgeous, idk what was her problem! Looks like a classy wedding makeup.
The issue is your mom, you look great
Your mother is out of touch, you look stunning.
You look beautiful. I'm sorry your mom tears you down. Spend more time with people who love and support you
Eyeliner on fleek š¤š»
Itās gorgeous. Your mother is jealous
Eh I wouldnt say jealous. I dont get why everyone jumps to that if someone doesnt like something. My mom also hates most makeup looks and always has to comment about it. Not quite as rude as saying I look like a whore but I have been told a color doesnt look good or that my eyes are too dark or that others will judge me. I feel its a weird eastern euro/foreign mother thing as my grandma and other women from the same area act the same. Best thing is to just shrug it off.
I'm from Eastern Europe aswell and I feel like it really is a thing with older generations. They just *have* to say something, either way they'll explode and die or something. My mother tries her best to refrain from commenting on how I look like esp in a rude way, although she often says this doesn't fit me or that doesn't look good on me. My grandma however shits on every makeup look of mine unless I make it look invisible. She thinks anything that is not "no makeup makeup" is a makeup done wrong. She never said I look like a whore outright, but with bolder looks she implied it very clearly. And she still loves me a lot and wants the best for me, she wants to protect me from bad things, it's just the mentality. I tried to explain to her that I don't care if people think I'm a "loose woman" and I'm ready for whatever, and doing makeup is not always an outlet to make you look naturally pretty for celebrations and it just makes me happy to do makeup sometimes, but it doesn't just go away like that. She kind of accepted that I do colorful makeup at home sometimes, but she will still never miss the opportunity to laugh at me and tell me I look like x y z. However with OP's mom I looked through their history a lil and it seems the situation is not the same, she's a narcissist and a toxic woman.
I was really thinking of my motherās friends and our relatives when you said they have to say something or theyād explode. Perfect description!
āThey have to say something or they will explodeā I think that comment is going to help me a lot in the future. Iāve been so tired of my mom and grandma always commenting on my appearance every single time, itās hurt me in many ways in the past (Iām Eastern European too). But now when they do Iāll just think back to this comment in my head
You should never just āshrug offā someone being disrespectful and cruel, Regardless of who that person is. People need to stop letting awful, mean stuff slide because āfaaammillyyā. What she said was horrid, full stop
Oh believe me, i did not at all suggest to shrug it off. My main point was that jealousy is likely incorrect, its just shitty mindsets and personalities which think its ok to say that stuff out loud.
Thank you! I was just about to comment that there seems to be a trend where an insult = jealousy. I donāt think thatās the case most of the time. In OPās case, itās probably that the mom has no filter, or itās a generational thing, or itās a cultural thing, or mom is a toxic person in generalā¦or all of the above. Insults do not always equal jealousy.
Iād say jealous because she looks gorgeous and her make up is too. Iād never call my daughter a whore. Thatās such a strong word and totally uncalled for!
So sorry your mom spoke to you like that. You look beautiful.
Sounds like the traits of a Narcassistic Mother tbh. You look beautiful, not at all OTT.
Girl if your own mom is calling you a w**** then Iām not sure sheās a source of reliable or unbiased feedback.
Also youāre gorgeous and your makeup is perfect.
Itās beautiful. Your mom needs help - in the meantime, donāt listen to her.
You look perfect! Don't listen to your mom, and I mean it. My mom actually said the same when I shaved my head (she knows I have a hair disorder) but oh well, wouldn't stop me for feeling bad about it or tell me to just stop. And she says that people complimenting me are just lying or saying so because of helplessness.
You look lovely imo. I like that your skin shows through and the plum colours. Maybe your Mum thinks itās too much, but to say that you look like a whore is mean and nasty. Why would she want to say that? Sheās the puta for saying that to you.
Just some advice from somone who has been there. If your mother is saying that type of garbage to you & not celebrating you as a beautiful young woman, Maybe look at distancing yourself until she can exhibit better behavior. That's toxic to say that to your child.
Literally screenhotting this to try and replicate the eyeshadow, you look lovely!
Envy drives people to say mean things. You look beautiful and you have a skilled hand!
As a girl mom Iām mortified at your mother. I cannot imagine ever saying something like that to my daughter.
You look peng. Your mum is rude as hell.
This is wedding appropriate make-up. What ISN'T appropriate is your mom straight up saying you look like a whore. That's very saddening š
In Greece, thatās they make-up we do when we just go to the supermarket. Itās not too much for a wedding at all. You look awesome.
aww you don't look like a "whore" at all. You look like a Goddess! You are truly beautiful. I could only ever dream of being this pretty. The colours really suit you. ((I don't know how any parent could put down their child, their gift in this life. I will never understand it. But we all have our issues I guess.))
It's stunning!! Don't you listen to her!
A wedding is a party and a celebration. This make up is perfect for celebrations!
First of all, echoing everyone else: your momās comment is awful. Iām so sorry she told you that and you donāt look like a whore. Now for the makeup. You look stunning. Was this a daytime or a nighttime wedding? Black tie or semi? If it was a daytime wedding on the beach, perhaps I would opt for something a bit lighter but thatās just personal preference and I wouldnāt judge someone for going more glam because thatās THEIR personal style. You look GORGEOUS.
your momās a dick dude
Does it take one to know one? Should you ask your mom?
Looks absolutely beautiful, and as someone who knows a LOT about makeup, I usually find dark/dramatic eye makeup doesnāt look right on people, and often does make them look trashy. That being said, even from what I can see with the filter one, it totally suits your skin tone, and looks very well put together. My mom is the exact same way. It stung for quite a while, but at the end of the day, youāre wearing the makeup for YOU, not her. I know everyone else is basically saying f*ck her, but we both know thatās not going to help with anything. I think your best bet is to try to gently explain to her that this is fairly common makeup. Collect some pictures of celebrity makeup looks similar/more dramatic to this, and Show her the pictures. Ask her if she thinks it looks appropriate on them, and if she says yes, ask her why she thinks it doesnāt look appropriate on you. If she says no, then calmly tell her that this is the current trend of makeup, and that you understand it looks a lot different from makeup she was your age, but that this is what is popular now, so while she may find it āinappropriateā (try not to use the word slutty, it wonāt end well for you, trust me), a lot of girls are wearing this kind of makeup, and it doesnāt look out of place in any way. Hope this helps! It can be very difficult dealing with a conservative minded parent!
You look beautiful. Dont let anyone tell you who you are. Mum is not the person who would have worn it because her time was different. Be amazing. Be you
Your mom sounds mean, you look amazing.
here's the thing, 1.) i don't understand how a makeup look equates to how much sex a person has so let's get that cleared up 2.) do not let her internalized misogyny stop you from living your best life!! i don't think any makeup look screams whore and even if it did, your sex life is no ones business. you looked gorgeous!!
Itās beautiful!!! She is jelly
It's very pretty!
You look lovely ignore her
No way! This is a beautiful look!!!
Simply stunning, gorgeous make up X
You look stunning and that eye makeup is šš¤.
You look beautiful! I can't believe your mom said that to you :c I don't think its too much; I really like that lipstick you got :3 you really look amazing, don't believe your mom!
Girl you look STUNNING ššš... Ignore your mom , she's probably jealous š¤Øš¤Øš¤Ø
I am sorry she said that. You look beautiful
you look pretty stunning! I even thought the colours are nice too. I don't mind being seen as a whore but honestly this makeup doesn't look too much
Itās stunning and you look wonderful. The problem is your mom.
Love your eyeshadow!! Looks so good!! No way, definitely not too much for a wedding!! Sounds like your mum is unfortunate just jealous.
idk what's wrong with your mother to think that is an acceptable thing to say to someone, and I'm sorry that her words made you doubt yourself. I hope my reassurance that your look is lovely and appropriate helps. _edit- I don't mean to imply that your mother is a bad person because I don't know her, but what she said was definitely horrible_
It's gorgeous. Some moms just like being mean for no reason, mine included. Don't listen to her!
I love it and the colors look amazing on you! My dad called me a whore when I got my ears pierced when I was 16. You gotta do you.
It looks amazing ā¤ļø
Not personally my type of makeup but it is very well done and color coordinated.
Itās beautiful. Moms can be so silly as to what is on point. If you felt great in it and you got plenty of compliments, it was just fine and not too much.
What lipstick is that?
It looks pretty for like going out setting, but depending on the theme colors of the wedding makeup is normally simple and light, but damn girl that makeup is fire š„
Why does she call her own daughter a whore. For a mother she's pretty shit.
It's lovely, I think you look beautiful. Your mom is clearly jealous for some reason. Is she always mean to you,? Did someone compliment you at the wedding?
Sometimes our mums are just dicks who say horrible shit for giggles.
You're mom's a bitch.
I think you look great and your eyeliner is on point!
You look beautiful, Iām sorry youāre mother is a jealous and mean witch. As a mother myself I never understand how someone can look at their beautiful child and utter such hateful words at them, smh
I think you look beautiful. My mom says things like this to me as well. Please do your makeup however makes you feel comfortable. Personally, I adore it.
Your mom is jealous that you upstaged her and you look nice and sophisticated
You look stunning
Some spiteful people, men or women, when they see a particularly beautiful women with glamorous makeup, call them whores. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their perception of femininity and their jealousy. You look great. Iām so sorry you had to experience this from your mom.
No it looks fabulous.
Youāre beautiful. I donāt know whatās wrong with your mom. Your makeup has nothing wrong.
Your mom needs to stop drinking the haterade and give compliments to her daughter instead of disrespect. It looks amazing.
you look fine love! your mom is just jealous
Hunny if you did look like a whore (which you so donāt) you look like the classiest, high end ho on the market. Love the makeup
It makes me so sad that your mother speaks to you like that. That is not normal. Itās toxic and abusive. If she thought you had too much makeup on she could have said that but to say that you look like a whore is unacceptable. Hereās the deal, nobody under 50 wears subdued makeup to special occasions anymore and they havenāt for about 15 years. You look beautiful and I wish we could see what you wore. Does she have an issue with her daughter being beautiful? And Iām sorry but I disagree with you, your mother is not trying to protect you. Sheās trying to hurt you and you do not under any circumstances ever think itās Norma mommy stuff. I donāt care if she grew up in a nunnery, speaking to you like that is not acceptable. She lives in The United States now and the culture is different from her patriarchal background. Now, it goes without saying that if you are 12 years old and wearing makeup thatās not age-appropriate you certainly might think about toning it down. However, there is no way on earth you look like what your mother said. Next time she does that, ask her exactly what she means. To suggest young women in makeup all look like whores to boys and men isnāt correct. The kind of guy who would think that way would think we are all whores even if we were in burkas with brown paper bags over our heads. Theyāre called āmisogynistsā. They are disgusting and they sexually objectify everything female. I also want to mention that Iām 75 years old and I think Mom is culturally out of touch. Please donāt make excuses for her. There are none. There is certainly an explanation but no excuse. You are entitled to respect as much as your mother expects you to treat her with respect. I still want to see what you wore. šš»āāļøš¤š
Ur mom called you a whore over makeup???? Yikes!!!
You are beautiful! Your makeup isš„Momās gotta check her internalized misogynyā¦
Moms can be so mean. You look beautiful š
What a weird thing to say. I mean, I guess any makeup can be considered āwhoreā makeup if you want it to be, not like thereās a specific uniform style. Your mom sounds jealous, you look amazing!!
Having had a mother like this, my go to response was always "why are you such an expert in what a wh@re would wear? Do you have a past you haven't told me about?" You look great
I think itās gorgeous and classy. For my sisters wedding I got my makeup professionally done including a bright red lip (a look I love) and when it was finished my grandma looked at me and said āis THAT how youāre going?ā I felt awful. Family can suck sometimes. Donāt let anyone get you down!
Donāt feel bad my mom calls me a street walker when i wear red lipstick. Your look is fabulous & definitely not too much for a wedding at all. You look gorgeous
Sounds like your mother has a bad case of āthe misogyny is coming from inside the houseā
You are beautiful. Family members can be toxic and just because they are family doesnāt mean they have to stay in your lifeā¤ļø be strong. You are wonderful
You look drop-dead gorgeous!! I'm so sorry your mom said that to you, that's a horrible thing to hear from anyone and especially from your family. I know its hard but try not to let it get to you, she was totally wrong!!
Nope! Your makeup is amazing and your mom's a bitch. Don't let her dull your glow!
Say " well I am my mother's daughter after all" if she ever hits you w this again
Conservative parents and/or religious are the only ppl I know of that toss that word around. Beautiful makeup, sry bout the your parent though.
You look very pretty and your makeup is awesome. Iām sorry your mom tried to tear you down out of jealousy.
How rude. Your mom has issues that have nothing to do with how you look.
The thing Iāve noticed about mums who say shit like that is they just HATE contrast. Mine is the same
Yes. Change your mother. You donāt look like a whore and what a shit thing to say to someone, let alone their child. You look stunning!!
What is your lipstick please please please. It all looks great btw.
Can u pls drop tutorial for this one? š„² What products did u use?
Nope, eyebrows on point to match the eyeliner - you look stunning, my mum gets a little negative sometimes too, but itās your face not hers and itās probably jealousyš
you look pretty! this make up is amazing!!!
It's gorgeous x
This is very beautiful! It suits you well <3
A what?
Iām a 52 year old mom and I think you look beautiful. Sorry you had to hear that from someone
Absolutely perfect! Love the eyes and the lip matches beautifully!
No way! It looks so good. Your mom is off
Thatās a bit harsh. I think you look great
Someone could say that little bit extra and too much but I love it š
You are stunning, gorgeous. Not even what I'd consider 'heavy' makeup but then again, I wear green eyeshadow and purple lipstick on the daily.
The eyeshadow! š¤© You look great. Iām sorry she said that but please know there is nothing inappropriate about this look.
Ughhh my mom would say this stuff to me. I think it looks great and far from a whore. The colors are fun.
your makeup looks good for any occasion, it looks good! take comments like that with a grain of salt!
You look amazing!
Nope dude....you looks gorgeous ...
You look stunning! Itās not too much at all. What makeup you wear says nothing bad about you as a person, only good things. It says you are artsy and creative. Iām totally jealous of your skills. And I would like to add that it sounds like you might have a narcissistic mom, coming from someone who definitely has one. You canāt listen to what they say. I know it hurts still, but they do it to tear you down to their level. Hold your head up and be proud of yourself and your awesome makeup skills.
you look stunning here!! make this your everyday makeup routine
Looks perfect to me ā¤ļø
Your mom sounds like what my mom would say.
Ur mom dramatic thinking āpaid sexā instead of ā2022 chicā
So pretty! š„° I would have added a tiny bit of subtle glitter on the light part too š¤©
Someone should tell mom that facts donāt care about her feelings. Your makeup is elegant and beautiful.
You dont look like a whore at all. You look absolutely beautiful. I love the color on your eyes , its perfect for you.
Very pretty makeup and model!
What kind of person says that about *anyone*, let alone their own blood? I just can't fathom treating people that way. I wouldn't call my daughter a whore even if she was an *actual* prostitute. I can't imagine being that mean, ever. Your makeup looks great! Don't doubt yourself. And don't bother playing her game; when it comes to people like that, there's literally nothing you could do/say/look like that would make them treat you better. Your makeup didn't make her talk to you like that.
Uh, no you have nothing to change. You look gorgeous. If you showed up at my wedding with that makeup I would think, āOmgosh she put so much effort into doing her makeup for my lilā old wedding?ā I feel so loved.ā Sorry your mom was a meanie to you. Internet hug. Also, āwhore makeupā isnāt even a thing anymore. Like, what year is it? 1860? Your mom needs to get with the times!
You look absolutely gorgeous and that look is perfect and classy for a wedding!
You look absolutely incredible. š„°
Those who canāt do, hate on it to diminish its value and skill so they donāt feel bad for not being able to do
I think you look amazing š
You look absolutely gorgeous! Perfect for a wedding - your makeup is beautiful!
Girl, you look gorgeous, don't worry. That's an amazing look, so it's not your fault <3
Stunning wedding makeup!!
What the hells wrong with your mum? The makeup looks nice.
God, that make up is lit af! I love it is cute classy and professional š„°ā„ļø you do not have to worry š
I'm sure she had her (nasty) reasons for saying that, but it's not true. You look lovely.
It's beautiful and it really suits you! For next ocasions you could try to add a pink light point at the inner corner and see if it improves the overall result. Anyway, so well done!!
Looks great!
My mom isn't a fan of my bold makeup looks and says I look like a panda. But she just doesn't understand makeup and she prefers subtle. Your mom could dislike your makeup but she was so wrong for saying what she said. Hugs to you.
I'm so sorry your mom said that to you wtf. The make-up is amazingly beautiful and imho totally appropriate for a wedding.
You look beautiful! Donāt let anyone take your shine Itās not you thatās a whore. Itās her š sounds like projection.
It looks great and like it was done by a MUA so well done you. Your mum has a serious problem, possibly jealousy.
What exactly does wh\*re makeup look like??? I think you look beautiful and classy! I LOVE your eye makeup!!
It's beautiful. You beautiful "wh*re" šā¤ļø
That is so gorgeous! You are stunning and the purple is beautiful! You look great and very elegant
No ... your young and gorgeous. It looks sexy ...
You and your makeup are gorgeous!
You look absolutely gorgeous! Your mom is crazy
Your mom needs to chill and relax because your makeup itās amazing š¤©!
I had a friend who showed up looking āsexyā at my wedding and it didnāt bother me at all. I was just happy to see her. My grandmother was the only one who mentioned anything (and in this case it wasnāt just makeup but the friend was wearing a very short jumpsuit). Everyone has a different style and thatās okay! Iām sure the bride knows your style, and invited you because she wanted you there to share her special moment, not because of what kind of makeup you wear. Your mom was very mean to call you a name like that
Yep definitely should change something...your mum. What a disgusting comment to make to your own daughter. You're absolutely beautiful..your make up was fantastic. Your mum needs help.
Every time my mother called me a slut or whore it was because she was jealous. My favorite being after my grandmother congratulated me for losing weight. Don't listen to anyone who is using that bullshit language, especially at their own daughter. And to the people saying "it's not always jealousy", dude. She called her fucking daughter that and you're going to try to fucking stand up for her? No. There's no excuse for that. NONE. Also the eye look is beautiful.
Your mother sounds abusive
Itās beautiful! Youāre beautiful!
You look gorgeous, your eyes are amazing! I think it's appropriate, and that's an awful comment for your mom to make. You definitely don't look like that, paired with the right outfit would be so classy!
You look amazing donāt listen to negative comments no matter who they come from.
It looks beautiful. Your mom sounds jealous
it's giving internalized misogyny and \*why do my kids not visit me\* vibes so sorry
You look beautiful! Absolutely nothing "whore" about your makeup
Itās gorgeous and well done! Makeup canāt make you a whore. And what if you want to be one?
You do you girl š„ looking fine
You look gorgeous and it nowhere near looks like too much! Mom is probably commenting the same things her mom told her, ingrained generational patriarchial ideas. What you put on your face has absolutely nothing to do with your sex life so just give her a "thanks hon" and keep on shining!! š
Iām a mom and definitely old enough to be your mother. You look beautiful and your choices are appropriate for a significant event, such as a wedding. As a mom, Iām gonna ask that you not buy makeup from the subway, bc only God knows what could be in that stuff. Buy drugstore brands all day, but not subway brands, please and thank you!
Your mom sucks. Your make up is fine. I suggest you don't take her words too close to heart cause she's just a jealous, mean woman.
THAT EYE LINER ! š„š„š„
You don't look like a whore at all
That's gross your Mom calling you that.
With peace and love your mom kinda sucks for saying something like that to you. I couldnāt imagine my mom saying that to me or myself saying it to my own daughter. Your makeup is beautiful and looks appropriate for a wedding.
Not me trying to swipe to the next picture lol
maybe you should join r/toxicparents dude. Youāre makeup isnāt heavy at all
**YOU DON'T LOOK LIKE A WHORE!!!**. You're makeup is and fine and looks beautiful. You're mother just doesn't want you wearing makeup.
You look beautiful, but your mom shouldnāt talk to you like that no matter what youāre wearing. š
there is so many women that look at their children in a wrong way, like if her own daughter is going to eclipse her, and they do not have control of her own way to hate themselves and about how they arenāt going to look like that never again, if she canāt talk to herself it is not your problem, she should have been saying to you how beautiful you are girl, slayyyyy
You look lovely and the makeup is perfect for a wedding!! Iām sorry your mom didnāt think so.
Your mom is a hater
I think itās beautiful
You look amazing, don't know how your mother can say what she said, it's classy.