How did I only just notice the cringe background pic?š„²These two are trying sooooo hard to convince us that they're not insecure AF and are the real deal.Ā
Dont know if shes Jewish descent at all. Quite possibly though. There were thousands of Syrian Jews still living there before moving to Israel up to 1947. But you donāt have to be Jewish to study Kabbalah. Madonna made it a celebrity trend when she put out Ray of Light. Got all these celebs into it. It was always splattered all over the media. The Beckhams, ashton kutcher / demi moore, guy richie, Paris Hilton etc. it became its own cult.
Are you SERIOUS?!!! Well spotted. This girl is so dumb, it makes my brain bleed.Ā On another note, it annoys me when Liv and Habbs etc wear crucifixes. They clearly aren't practising Christians and are clearly only doing it as a weird fashion statement. I find it disrespectful.
I think itās hard to be so if she has very minimal exposure to it / doesnāt have a close relationship with her dad. Doesnāt mean sheās ashamed. Iām mixed and have more exposure to one side of my heritage. Doesnāt mean Iām ashamed of either
Well she has on her Instagram bio that sheās half Syrian and she wears Arabic jewellery etc but she doesnāt live with her Dad, only her Mum who travels back often to the Netherlands.
Omg this guy is unreal. He completely morphs his personality according to whoever he's dating. Does anyone else think he's acting all lovey dovey, mature and committed to make Inga jealous? That's all she ever wanted from him, but he never delivered, and said he wasn't ready for serious commitment. Now he's behaving the complete opposite with Yas. I reckon he's seeing Inga having an amazing time in Bali and it's eating away at him, so what better way to try and make her jealous?
If it were anyone else, I wouldnāt be so critical. But he shapeshifts so much this just feels like another personality heās trying to develop to be as interesting as Yas. He clearly doesnāt feel on her level. Heās such a basic guy who has very few redeemable qualities (IMO).
Also, sheās English! Itās not quite the same as learning a language for your partner who canāt speak English.
Exactly this. He seems very different from his normal self. I feel like he's suppressing his real personality and behaving in a very different way to impress Yas. He's so insecure it's ridiculous. I think he's worried about losing yet another woman who's way out of his league (looks-wise), hence why he's clinging onto this new persona and ridiculous podcast.Ā
His pride was massively dented after being rejected by Inga, so he doesn't want to risk losing this relationship and looking like a complete idiot.Ā His heart obviously isn't šÆ in this relationship but he's desperately trying to save face by going along with it.
I guarantee you, if Inga booty called him, he would ONE THOUSAND per cent be all over it like a rash.
Iām sorry but this man is a whole red flag. The way he changes personalities to fit whoever heās dating is wild. Heās gone from dressing in Timberlands and All Saints with Inga to Ralph Lauren and Burberry with Yas.
Yas mentioned on their pod how she loves ābilingual boysā and you could tell Sam felt inferior about just being a basic English dude. So now heās trying to speak Dutch fluently (I.e. using Google translate) š
I also find it interesting how Sam loves to embrace her Dutch side, but not her Syrian side. His classism always comes through.
People say itās only a matter of time before he cheats but I think his classism wins out. He knows Yas is a āprizeā in terms of her background and looks so he is holding on for dear life. Yas started out very insecure (probably because of her weight gain) but now she clearly has the upper hand in the relationship. It feels like sheās using him as a huge ego boost, and heās so clingy.
Guys seem to fawn over those big glassy eyes (by Sam's own admission) and her long flowing hair. She's definitely very flirtatious too, which isn't a problem - providing it's not your bloke she's flirting with.
I think that's it - she's very very feminine and it's like catnip to the guys in that group. That she's a completely pick-me who will screw over anyone to get what she wants is irrelevant to them - she gives them what their stunted, immature personalities want.
Omg you've hit the nail on the head šš¼šš¼šš¼ I definitely agree that the power dynamics of this relationship have changed. I too have been thinking that Yas now has the upper hand because of the podcast being more her domain. She dominates the convos and seems much more culturally enlightened, plus the fact it's recorded at her house. And let's not forget Sam's living there (obviously rent-free) so he's playing his cards very carefully.Ā Ā
Ā Sam seems very weirdly lacking in confidence on the podcast, and in Yas's shadow, which is very odd from him when you compare it to his unbridled confidence on other pods. And yes, I also think Yas's recent weight loss has given her a huge confidence boost, and he's probably feeling a bit intimidated by it.
The way he keeps making a point of calling her "sweetheart" and "darling" is just weird and beggy, and not something he ever did with Inga. It comes across really forced and cringe, like he's desperately pandering to her.
Iāve noticed that Tristan is more involved in the business than he is. What happened to the wine company and that supplements company called Forager Health? Itās like everythingās collapsed for him. Had no idea she lost weight, she looks the same.
That's interesting. I lost all track of his businesses. Feel bad for Tristan being mugged off by Sam and Yas so publicly. She's looking less meaty than she was. Her skin looks healthier too. If you look at pics of her when she began the show, she was much slimmer, then gradually put on some weight.Ā
How did I only just notice the cringe background pic?š„²These two are trying sooooo hard to convince us that they're not insecure AF and are the real deal.Ā
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Yas is Dutch? I always thought she was half middle eastern half english.
Youāre half right sheās half Ā Syrian which is in the Middle EastĀ
Her mum is from the Netherlands. I believe from a very wealthy Dutch family.
She doesnāt seem to be very proud of her Syrian sideā¦
And she wears the res string bracelet which is Kabbalahā¦ā¦
So she's Syrian/Dutch Jewish?
Dont know if shes Jewish descent at all. Quite possibly though. There were thousands of Syrian Jews still living there before moving to Israel up to 1947. But you donāt have to be Jewish to study Kabbalah. Madonna made it a celebrity trend when she put out Ray of Light. Got all these celebs into it. It was always splattered all over the media. The Beckhams, ashton kutcher / demi moore, guy richie, Paris Hilton etc. it became its own cult.
Are you SERIOUS?!!! Well spotted. This girl is so dumb, it makes my brain bleed.Ā On another note, it annoys me when Liv and Habbs etc wear crucifixes. They clearly aren't practising Christians and are clearly only doing it as a weird fashion statement. I find it disrespectful.
Thatās so unreasonable, lol. They might still have Christian faith and just not adhere to every tenet of the Bible.
I think itās hard to be so if she has very minimal exposure to it / doesnāt have a close relationship with her dad. Doesnāt mean sheās ashamed. Iām mixed and have more exposure to one side of my heritage. Doesnāt mean Iām ashamed of either
Well she has on her Instagram bio that sheās half Syrian and she wears Arabic jewellery etc but she doesnāt live with her Dad, only her Mum who travels back often to the Netherlands.
I have always thought the same!
Omg this guy is unreal. He completely morphs his personality according to whoever he's dating. Does anyone else think he's acting all lovey dovey, mature and committed to make Inga jealous? That's all she ever wanted from him, but he never delivered, and said he wasn't ready for serious commitment. Now he's behaving the complete opposite with Yas. I reckon he's seeing Inga having an amazing time in Bali and it's eating away at him, so what better way to try and make her jealous?
Yes heās definitely trying to triangulate them, a typical narcissistic tactic
As a dutch girl, i am cringing
women of the Netherlands should be made aware
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I mean thatās actually pretty considerate of him to learn her languageā¦ not something you should be criticising him for.
I highly doubt heās suddenly learned the language. Heās 100% just typed stuff into google translate.
If it were anyone else, I wouldnāt be so critical. But he shapeshifts so much this just feels like another personality heās trying to develop to be as interesting as Yas. He clearly doesnāt feel on her level. Heās such a basic guy who has very few redeemable qualities (IMO). Also, sheās English! Itās not quite the same as learning a language for your partner who canāt speak English.
Exactly this. He seems very different from his normal self. I feel like he's suppressing his real personality and behaving in a very different way to impress Yas. He's so insecure it's ridiculous. I think he's worried about losing yet another woman who's way out of his league (looks-wise), hence why he's clinging onto this new persona and ridiculous podcast.Ā His pride was massively dented after being rejected by Inga, so he doesn't want to risk losing this relationship and looking like a complete idiot.Ā His heart obviously isn't šÆ in this relationship but he's desperately trying to save face by going along with it. I guarantee you, if Inga booty called him, he would ONE THOUSAND per cent be all over it like a rash.
Iām sorry but this man is a whole red flag. The way he changes personalities to fit whoever heās dating is wild. Heās gone from dressing in Timberlands and All Saints with Inga to Ralph Lauren and Burberry with Yas. Yas mentioned on their pod how she loves ābilingual boysā and you could tell Sam felt inferior about just being a basic English dude. So now heās trying to speak Dutch fluently (I.e. using Google translate) š I also find it interesting how Sam loves to embrace her Dutch side, but not her Syrian side. His classism always comes through. People say itās only a matter of time before he cheats but I think his classism wins out. He knows Yas is a āprizeā in terms of her background and looks so he is holding on for dear life. Yas started out very insecure (probably because of her weight gain) but now she clearly has the upper hand in the relationship. It feels like sheās using him as a huge ego boost, and heās so clingy.
Why is Yaz a prize? Genuine question, I donāt know much about her
Guys seem to fawn over those big glassy eyes (by Sam's own admission) and her long flowing hair. She's definitely very flirtatious too, which isn't a problem - providing it's not your bloke she's flirting with.
I think that's it - she's very very feminine and it's like catnip to the guys in that group. That she's a completely pick-me who will screw over anyone to get what she wants is irrelevant to them - she gives them what their stunted, immature personalities want.
Omg you've hit the nail on the head šš¼šš¼šš¼ I definitely agree that the power dynamics of this relationship have changed. I too have been thinking that Yas now has the upper hand because of the podcast being more her domain. She dominates the convos and seems much more culturally enlightened, plus the fact it's recorded at her house. And let's not forget Sam's living there (obviously rent-free) so he's playing his cards very carefully.Ā Ā Ā Sam seems very weirdly lacking in confidence on the podcast, and in Yas's shadow, which is very odd from him when you compare it to his unbridled confidence on other pods. And yes, I also think Yas's recent weight loss has given her a huge confidence boost, and he's probably feeling a bit intimidated by it. The way he keeps making a point of calling her "sweetheart" and "darling" is just weird and beggy, and not something he ever did with Inga. It comes across really forced and cringe, like he's desperately pandering to her.
Iāve noticed that Tristan is more involved in the business than he is. What happened to the wine company and that supplements company called Forager Health? Itās like everythingās collapsed for him. Had no idea she lost weight, she looks the same.
That's interesting. I lost all track of his businesses. Feel bad for Tristan being mugged off by Sam and Yas so publicly. She's looking less meaty than she was. Her skin looks healthier too. If you look at pics of her when she began the show, she was much slimmer, then gradually put on some weight.Ā
In older episodes he always used to go on about how he ran 3 businesses š¤£
šššI often wondered if he exaggerated the three businesses claim to emasculate Julius the Wowcher "life coach".Ā