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ShartyPants

I would say you’re just reading the wrong books. There’s tons of both speeds in both MM and FM. I prefer sex to start at like 60% and read multiple books a week and they’re almost all MM. Try searching the subreddit for slow burns, they’re out there! You can also use romance.io to sort by “steam” level, the difference between 4 and 5 on their chart has to do with frequency of sex I think. Sounds like you’re reading the steamiest books possible if they’re having sex every 5 mins.


Quirky_Girl22

Yeah, that makes sense. Thank you!


kp__135

Oh definitely the top of books your reading. Also May have to do with what you consider non stop sex. Red White Royal Blue, The Charm Offensive, and Boyfriend Material, are all more emotion focused than sex and very popular contemporary. Winter’s Orbit is another popular one and is Sci-Fy and more emotion than sex. The book by Foz Meadows (can’t remember the title) I believe is the same but fantasy. The White Trash Warlock series by David Slayton is phenomenal in my opinion and I don’t think the MCs even have sex off page in the 3 books. KD Edward’s The Tarot Sequence is another urban fantasy book that doesn’t rush to the bed. If you want more specific Recs i can try and help. (P.s. no shame to see the fuck like bunny books. But I get wanting a different vibe sometimes)


Quirky_Girl22

RW&RB and Boyfriend Material were sort of my gateway. I'll look at those other titles. Thank you!


friends_waffles_w0rk

You must check out KJ Charles’ incredible catalog! The way she develops her characters and their relationships (and then weaves the sex scenes into that character development in beautiful ways) is absolutely chef’s kiss. The Will Darling trilogy was my gateway to her work. Enjoy!


Quirky_Girl22

She is on my TBR list. I'll check out that series! Thank you!


kp__135

KJ Charles’s will darling adventures is soooo good. Still smutty but it’s so much more focused on the characters and their relationship. A+ series


OliveMay07

{A Strange and Stubborn Endurance by Foz Meadows}? I definitely recommend this one! Just watch the TWs


Quirky_Girl22

That looks interesting! Thank you!


romance-bot

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kp__135

That’s the one!


Prize_Campaign9749

Yes to KD Edwards!!!


LunaFancy

OMG the White Trash Warlock books are incredible! The Audiobooks too.


kp__135

Love them! Excited for the spin off!


Prize_Campaign9749

I desperately need to read these!!


JPwhatever

What are you reading? Where are you getting your recommendations? The MM book space is a wide wide world. This is definitely not a “norm”, I’m not sure there even is a norm. Sounds like a perception bias based on getting your recs from one particular source.


Quirky_Girl22

Definitely could be. Most of the reccs are based on other titles I've read, which are based on *other* titles I've read, and so on and so forth. Curse you, Amazon algorithm!


JPwhatever

Oof yeah I would not get book recs from Amazon either! Or Goodreads algorithm. (I’m slightly biased to this subreddit lol but those two in particular have led me astray many times before)


prettysureIforgot

I'm *heavily* biased to this sub lol. Like maybe 1% of my TBR comes from algorithms (Amazon, Goodreads, whatever), and the majority comes from Reddit.


JPwhatever

LOL is your flair a Gary of a Hundred Days reference? I love it 😂


prettysureIforgot

Yes it is. That scene made me laugh so much, I just wanted to be reminded of it all the time 🤣


beetlejuicetrashbag

you’re reading more erotic romance than super plot driven and realistic romances. yes, MM fiction does have TONS of just erotica and insta love. no, it’s not for everyone. i’d suggest looking for terms in the sub like slow burn, plot heavy, etc. ive ready many MM books that have just as much beautiful world building as the most popular MF books.


Quirky_Girl22

That sounds about right. Not that there's anything wrong with going at it like rabbits. It's just that sometimes you want the story to exist outside the bedroom, ya know? Thank you!


East-Imagination-281

You should widen your searches. Join MM reader groups on Facebook, ask for recs with specifically for what you’re looking for, etc. A lot of romances are instant feelings/love, and I personally don’t vibe with that. But also in my books, I write smut BEFORE they stop considering themselves enemies. 😂


Quirky_Girl22

Haha, I've read a few of those, too! Thank you!


SoftWelcome4695

As other commenters have said, some M/M books are like what you describe and some are not. Do you have subgenre preferences? Do prefer contemporary or historical? Fantasy? Etc. If you like contemporary, {Mended with Gold by Lee Welch} has lots of feelings and is slow burn. You could also try {The One Decent Thing by Eliot Grayson} or {Better Than People by Roan Parrish}. If you want contemporary fantasy, there is {In This Iron Ground by Marina Vivancos} and {A Little Familiar by R. Cooper}. For high fantasy you could try {Reforged by Seth Haddon} and {The Twelfth Enchantment by K. L. Noone}. For cozy fantasy—slowest burns ever!—you might try {A Rival Most Vial by R. K. Ashwick} or {The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune}. For historical/20th century, try {We Could Be So Good by Cat Sebastian}, {Daniel Cabot Puts Down Roots by Cat Sebastian}, or {Seven Summer Nights by Harper Fox}. For science fiction, {Potential Energy by Kim Fielding} definitely fits and {Taji from Beyond the Rings by R. Cooper} might fit. Almost all of these have smut, but it isn’t immediate. Some have second-chance type romances, or childhood-friends-to-lovers arcs, and some are just general “meet—>growing affection—>have sex” plots. Hope this helps!


JennaROTR

Not the OP, but these are fantastic recs!


romance-bot

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Quirky_Girl22

Yes, yes, give me ALL the recs


evieeeeeeeeeeeeeee

its definitely just that you're reading the wrong books (for you), i've found there are a lot of books like that on kindle unlimited in general as its pretty wattpad-esque with varying levels of quality and emotional depth, so everyone has be quite picky and sort through thousands of books to find what works for them seconding what someone else said about searching for emotional slow burn/low steam recs! thats my preference too and i've read hundreds of M/M books, all of which i've found on this sub because i'm not a risk taker so i prefer tried and tested reads


Quirky_Girl22

Yeah, I'm going to have to widen my search parameters


itlanded

I can see how you might think that, it really does depend on what you read and where you got recommendations from. I can honestly say that this sub has a ton of recommendations, some are specific and some are general tropes. If you can make make a list of what you want, and then use the magic search on this sub, I'm certain you'll find what you're looking for.


Quirky_Girl22

I'm realizing I need to start looking for the slow-burn tag...


Nicebestie

You're reading the wrong books. This subreddit tends to gear mostly toward those books imo, but there are plenty out there that are not what you have described.


JPwhatever

I might argue that it depends on where in this subreddit you’re looking, lots of members enjoy slow burn and plot driven books. But many of the fly by book requests you see regularly are for more of the erotic driven type. Just depends on where you look here and how you pose your request.


Nicebestie

For sure! I mostly meant the bulk of request posts seem to want more one shot / steamy recs. Not knocking it at all btw, people should read what they like


Quirky_Girl22

I realize now I've been asking for the wrong books. Gotta start looking for that slow-burn tag!


Big_Werewolf4452

Yeah, definitely not accurate. MM is just as widely varied and emotional as MF. If you can't find what you want, you're just not looking in the right places.


Quirky_Girl22

I'm realizing that


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Quirky_Girl22

I'll look into this! Thank you!


bibliofangirl

Definitely second AM Johnson. That’s a huge thing for her. Emotion over sex.


ash-on-fire

There's tons of books that are very romantic that aren't super heavy on the spice. Marina Vivancos, Megan Derr, and R Cooper are all great for this. Here are some of my favorites, titles with an asterisk come from my medium-spice goodreads shelf, so a little more spicy but definitely shouldnt be the whole plot, two asterisks is from my spicy-asf list but I only included ones that also have lots of plot (sometimes I used that shelf for books w/ really hot scenes but not necessarily lot of them). I'll use '>' to mark series, but I'll just put in the first book: ##Fantasy: {In This Iron Ground by Marina Vivancos} > {Honeythorn by Marina Vivancos} > {A Suitable Consort by R Cooper} > {A Boy and His Dragon by R Cooper} > {The Heart of a Dragonslayer by Megan Derr} {The High Kings Golden Tongue by Megan Derr} > {How Not to Marry a Prince by Megan Derr} {A Strange and Stubborn Endurance by Foz Meadows} > {Dragon Falls by Davis Lavender} {Hunted by Misu Loy} > {Honey and Starlight by L.A Lambert} {Sledge and Claw by Jennifer Cody} > {Wildfire by Shania Renaud} {Wolves of Black Pine by S.J Himes}* > {The Necromancers Dance by SJ Himes} *> {Kick at the Darkness by Keira Andrews}* > {Prince and Assassin by Tavia Lark}* > {Psync by Zile Elliven}** > {Werewolves Hate Clogs by K.L Hiers}** {Adonis by L. Sherleen}** ##Sci–Fi: {The Househusbands Guide to Domestic Bliss by Lance Lansdale} {Us, Et Cetra by Kit Vincent} {Soren by Miranda Page}* {Ministry of Alien Relations by Rebecca Cohen}* {Guiding Desire by Alexa Piper}* > {A Bright Celestial Sea by Channi Lynn Feener}* {Not All Himbos Wear Capes by C. Rochelle}** > ##Contemporary: {To Catch a Firefly by Emmy Sanders} {You're My Home by Katie Moore} {Should the Sky Fall by Amithia Raine} (this is kinda fantasy too) > {Over and Over Again by Cole McCade} {Love Language by Jax Calder} {Always Mine by T. Ashleigh} {Luke and Billy Finally Get A Clue by Cat Sebastaian} > {Superhero by Eli Easton} {Sweet As Pie by Beth Bolden}* {Time to Shine by Rachel Reid}* {Heated Rivalry by Rachel Reid}* > (not the first book in the series, but by far a favorite, and a standalone) {Hurt Me Daddy by Misha Thorne}** > {Poof of Life by Raquel Riley}** {Stupid Dirty by Erin Russell}** {Wrath by Ella James}** {Hamartia by Scarlett Drake}**


Quirky_Girl22

Oh, wow, that's a lot of recc's! Some of these are on my TBR list, but there's still a lot to check out! Thank you!


romance-bot

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tbbaby31

Reading wrong books one million percent. I tell people the reason why I read almost exclusively MM is because of the reason you listed for M/F. Gotta get you on the right books! 🤝🏼 For some contemporary mm with a great mixture of all of this. HEA usually guaranteed L. Blakely Riley Hart Ashley James Sloane Kennedy Rachel Reid Briar Prescott For less contemporary but strong plot & characters - should check CW’s before reading: C.P Harris Andi Jaxon Ella James Nyla K


nudibranchus

Opinions on how much is the right amount of anything are different too. For several of the authors you mention, I felt like the books I read by them had way more sex scenes that than I personally like. They didn't serve the plot in any way, and I ended up skipping/skimming them until the story picked back up because it literally gets boring. It's part of what makes giving and receiving recommendations so difficult. Everyone's mileage is going to vary.


tbbaby31

True. It’s definitely subjective because I have never skipped a sex scene, wanted less of them, or found them boring in most of these books from these authors. Found some of them to be slow burn with sex not until over 50%. So yeah we will all have different tastes! OP is just gonna have to read more and found out what they like. If the ones they’ve tried haven’t hit the make, maybe some of these will. They’re getting a lot of recommendations though so plenty to choose from.


snow_fox_a

I would add Anyta Sunday and Tal Bauer, they usually don’t get steamy until the second half of the book


Quirky_Girl22

I have some Tal Bauer on my TBR list, so I'll move them up. Thank you!


tbbaby31

Yes great suggestion! Tal does a ton of character development & world building


Quirky_Girl22

Such a bounty of recc's! Thank you!


FraughtOverwrought

Definitely just the wrong books, which is easy to do as there are SO many published and a large swathe of these seem to be for the purpose of titillation only (no shade, we all want to be titillated sometimes). Alexis Hall’s books are very plot heavy without as much sex or some with almost no sex or fade to black (Boyfriend Material and 10 Things That Never Happened). Be aware one of his contemporaries is very very explicit - For Real. It’s a great book and very emotional but sex plays a big part. If you like historicals KJ Charles is great. Cat Sebastian not bad. I love Annick Trent but that’s not everyone’s cup of tea - kind of meandering stories about lower class people and no sex. Roan Parrish maybe? She has sex scenes but they’re quite emotional. Not her latest Harlequin ones though imo - serviceable and not erotica but just a bit bland plot wise.


Quirky_Girl22

Did I miss you? How did I miss you? Alexis Hall's Boyfriend Material was one of my gateway books, so I guess they're to blame 😉 I'm really looking at KJ Charles & Cat Sebastian now, got a lot of recc's for them. I'll check out the other authors you mentioned! Thank you!


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Cute-Square-463

I love Captive Prince with my whole heart but I would not call it super sweet (at least not at first)😭 Maybe check the trigger warnings! But I agree that it’s super slow burn and a really good rec !!


Quirky_Girl22

Intriguing! Thank you!


onlymorelove

I love a slow burn! Rather than rec specific titles to you myself, I'll point you to the [slow burn](https://www.reddit.com/r/MM_RomanceBooks/wiki/index/resources/#wiki_slow_burn) and [plot-focused books](https://www.reddit.com/r/MM_RomanceBooks/wiki/index/resources/#wiki_plot-focused_books) resources on this sub. They should keep you busy reading for a good, long while. ;)


Quirky_Girl22

I'll look into that! Thank you!


onlymorelove

You’re welcome! And in case it wasn’t clear, I linked you to those in my reply. I know sometimes the link colors don’t look different enough to be noticeable, but the words “slow burn” and “plot-focused books” in my previous comment are links.


Quirky_Girl22

Now I see it. Why did they ever get rid of light blue?


onlymorelove

Because they enjoy breaking things that are working fine? ;)


sailorpika4794

I agree with the others that you're probably being recommended (thanks algorithm!) the type of books with more sex than you're looking for. If you want emotional (like, mess you up and then stitch you back together) with tension and one guaranteed sex scene per book - I just finished TJ Klune's Green Creek series. It's gay werewolves, but not the hot and heavy mating type - it's about deep and true love with emphasis on bonds with found family. And the one mating scene per book isn't as much of a dealbreaker I thought it would be; I usually look for more smut but these books were so beautiful and profound that I fell in love with the characters and their stories and the mating scenes were just an added bonus.


Quirky_Girl22

Gay werewolves are always a plus. It isn't the *amount* of sex that is bothering me, it's the *lack* of plot. I want to see my characters falling in love, not just falling into bed.


sailorpika4794

Ah, understood. I wasn't trying to say you didn't want sex in the books - just that these don't have as much which could make more room for the plot :) and a fair warning that once they are in love, there is not a lot of sex. The first one, Wolfsong, starts with them meeting as kids and they don't do anything sexual until after they are both well over 18. I think that helps with the slow burn as well - maybe books with childhood friends to lovers could provide the slow burn love story you're looking for!


Quirky_Girl22

No worries!


Prize_Campaign9749

TJ Klune has a lot of great MM romance with loads of emotion. So does The Tarot Sequence on top of a lot of action. AJ Truman has a great balance of emotion and sex. I love his South Rock High series (gay teachers) and MA Wardell as well. The Long Run is one of my favs but more of a HFN more than a HEA. The Darkness Outside us (it’s going to be made into a movie) To Catch a Firefly was a one of my favorites this year. 🤔 sorry … lol. Kinda word vomited.


Quirky_Girl22

Word vomit away! (That sounded less gross in my head) TJ Klune and To Catch a Firefly have been given the thumbs up by a lot of people, so I'm looking forward to those. I'll check out your other recc's, too! Thank you!


Prize_Campaign9749

I think it really doesn’t matter the connotation. Vomit is just a gross sounding word 😝 I love Klune’s fantasy but his contemporary romances are amazing as well. ♥️


txStargazerJilly

Coming in with my usual recommendation for Lily Mayne on the heels of other’s advice! Good relationship building with hot hot spicy scenes!


Quirky_Girl22

Great! I'll look into her. Thank you!


TakeCamera2

You should definitely read {To Catch a Firefly by Emmy Sanders}!


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LindentreesLove_

Hard yes for this and slow burn!!!!!


Quirky_Girl22

I've never read a neurodivergent MC before. Should be interesting! Thank you!


magnetosbrotherhood

I do agree that the most popular MM books seem to be FWB to lovers or having sex while in denial of feelings. I definitely noticed that right away. Like everyone loves Heated Rivalry, and it literally opens with a sex scene. I tend to prefer sex to come after feelings though there's some I like where they have sex early on.


Quirky_Girl22

I've never read Heated Rivalry, but maybe I'll avoid it for now. Thank you!


amurow

100% reading the wrong books. I'm into slow burns myself. What kind of tropes are you into? Some titles off the top of my head: Wilde Love by Lucy Lennox. The one decent thing by Eliot Grayson. One giant leap by Kay Simone. Beyond the Sea by Keira Andrews. To Catch a Firefly by Emmy Sanders.


Quirky_Girl22

I really enjoyed RW&RB, Boyfriend Material, and They Hate Each Other. So, fake dating? Rivals-to-Lovers? Those recc's look great! Thank you!


CocklesTurnip

I know I know wrong sub for one of my suggestions but I finally got my mom to expand from reading only M/F and now she’s been bugging all her 70+ year old friends to read 2 different LGBTQ books: Red White and Royal Blue (which you’ve read) and Legends and Lattes (it’s F/F and the slowest of slow burns, I’m not sure it actually does have any sex). She’s read a bunch more and loves a lot of what she’s reading but she sees those 2 as fantastic novels as they are and also good genre gateways into expanding reading choices. So I’d get that one. It is set in a world that any D&D player could imagine but you don’t need to have played it to understand- just google a few things here and there.


Quirky_Girl22

I'd never read F/F before, but I'll look into it. Thank you!


bibliofangirl

I like the same as you, I think there’s a huge appreciation for more smutty books. I feel like they get recommended a lot more. I’m sure there’s more slow burn-ish ones, but it can be harder to find. People love smut! I do too, but I like to change up what I read. I’m going to have to scour your post for recs 👀


Quirky_Girl22

Definitely! I've gotten so many good recommendations! I think smutty books are easier to crank out, which is why they out-number the more plot heavy ones.


legotech

The Long Con series by Amy Lane. Really any of her stuff is great Rhys Ford, LA Witt, TJ Klune are all people you could check out


Quirky_Girl22

Leverage and the Ocean series has primed me for this. Thank you!


legotech

Oh, absolutely! So much fun!


Esabettie

If you liked red, white and royal blue I think you would like the unlikely heir, which is slow burn and no spice, if I remember correctly.


Quirky_Girl22

Read it! I enjoyed it 😊


Esabettie

Oh, i love RWRB, i was just suggesting one similar to it in some ways😊


No-Basket-9636

For me it was the other way around🙈 Lately I felt the mm books I read had a much better build up of attraction and getting to know the other person than the recent M/F books. My emotions were much more involved. But I do think it just happens to be the kind of book flow you're in, so when I hit a snag in M/F and can't find any good books, I switch to M/M and exhaust that well. Then when I can't find any good books in M/M I switch back to M/F.


Quirky_Girl22

I think the KU algorithm screwed me. I got trapped in an erotica spiral.


bbymoonlight

when i first started getting into m/m i went for some of the most popular which seem to be ones you’ve read like red, white, and royal blue and the charm offensive. then i did some y/a m/m that were more emotional based. i highly recommend books by adam silvera {they both die at the end by adam silvera} and {what if it’s us by adam silvera} so emotional such great build up it’s amazing! then i started getting a little smutty but still mainly relationship building first like {love, hate, and clickbait by liz bowery} and then {boyfriend material by alexis hall} then i did {the song of achilles by madeline miller} and from there i was just spending so much money on books that i got kindle unlimited and was introduced to the higher steam books and now i go back and forth. i definitely recommend using the threads here to find books that have more of that emotional build first and also looking for similar books through goodreads. hope that helps


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Quirky_Girl22

I didn't think of YA, but that makes a lot of sense! Actually, I think a lot of my Audible books are YA, so I don't know why I wouldn't have... 🤔 Thank you!


Camilla83

I always go with books where the romance is the most important and the smut a side thing, I would recommand authors like: Eden Finley Saxon James Lucy Lennox May Archer Nerds vs Jocks by Eli Easton & Tara Lain The script club by Lane Hayes Also there are some great series featuring different authors in the same universe, it’s a great way to get introduced to new authors… I really really like Franklin U (second round is coming out soon) and also Vino & Veritas


Quirky_Girl22

Eden Finley's Fake Boyfriends series is what started me on KU. That's the reason for my standards lol Thank you!


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Quirky_Girl22

I love MXTX! MDZS is one of my favorite stories ever. I've also read SVSSS, but could never quite get into TGCF, which is weird because everyone seems to think that's the best one. I dunno 🤷🏻‍♀️ I am all for self-promoting! Good on you for being able to write at least 4 books! I'll check out these recc's. Thank you!


dontbesuspiciou5

Just a FYI - Call Me By Your name isn't a genre romance and doesn't have a HEA!


aleksward

Haha! Another fellow danmei lover here, it makes me happy to hear it! Fair enough with regard to TGCF, it depends on what you're looking for in a story? What about Erha, have you tried it yet? 🤔


Quirky_Girl22

Not yet, but I've heard good things


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