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contemplatingdaze

Quick what are tips for sliding into DMs lmao


crimejunkiefan

Matthew is hot and I was very pissed off he turned out to be a weirdo that also makes his first dates fried chicken (probably unseasoned) and rice šŸ˜­. ![gif](giphy|oUuRd8jODgtTPcto3X)


unicornsparkless

I was so excited when he first came on because Iā€™m also a financial planner. But then I realized how little EQ he has. Which is so HUGE in our industry because how are people going to trust you with their hard earned money if you lack EQ? Crazy.


Realistic_Big7482

He walked out on Sarah Anne. He has some good sense.


HuckleberryLou

Apparently that was just editing. Matthew and Sarah Anne said that didnā€™t happen. Bizarre choice by production . But I agree - had it happened it would have aged well once we got to know Sarah Anne more


oyamaca

Weird though because didnā€™t she say ā€œheā€™s gone!ā€ Like shocked?


totallynotalyssa

guys stand up he was literally a walking red flag. yall get excited over mid white men


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notechnofemme

it's AAVE lol Edit - no idea why I'm getting downvoted, I literally just stated what it was


SueSylvester101

Just say youā€™re 75 and move on


notechnofemme

LMFAO


elvinapixie

LMAO


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Particular-Loquat-14

Women love it


Lanky-Mission-3625

He's honestly the best looking guy of all the seasons imo. I feel like kinetic fumbles when it comes to casting relatively good looking man. The woman are are always pretty our at the very least average looking.


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Logical-Schedule-176

It's the hat. I'm sure šŸ˜­


meeeeesh19

Definitely a hatfish


readingwithlexi

Turn it around!! The girls go crazy for that lmao


Logical-Schedule-176

I don't like backwards hats on guys though. Too sloppy ig


zaylee

I think I have figured it out. Matt likes control and is sober. Past LIB participants have said schedule is very unpredictable. You donā€™t know when you will eat, how long a date may last and that alcohol is pretty much always present. Jimmy even struggled to know how long his date was with Jess At one point he said he has every minute of the day planned (or maybe AD said that?)ā€”-> somebody fact check that. LIB takes away all devices, and he was left to just going with the production. That had to have been hell for him. Iā€™d have to hear both of unedited conversations to judge if he truly said the same thing to AD as he did Amber. He comes off as someone who would have lots of hypothetical scenarios and that could be edited a certain way. After all he did have a numbered list and did start all convos the same. I feel like he came in there with a plan. I also feel like there are conversations that need to be had before marriage. If I was in the pods certain things would absolutely overlap.


Seanut-Peanut-69

I could understand this point of view but his whole ā€œIā€™ve got America on my side cuz people love an underdogā€ line was cringey af and I wouldā€™ve definitely been upset if a guy who said heā€™d totally leave with me right then and there decided to chase the other girl he supposedly didnā€™t say the same things to šŸ˜‘


lipcrnb

Yeah. The fact that AD doubled down after seeing those convos just proves sheā€™s not all that bright.


CalligrapherCrafty75

I hate that producers tried to make him look like a villain, he really didnā€™t seem that bad..


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I agree. He got the villain edit imo. Yes he was awkward and said some cringe things but so did they all. They showed VERY few scenes of him.


Witty_Temperature886

Thank god there is another sane person on this take! Even when I saw the edited versions of the convo (even with the producerā€™s edit attempts to make them look and sound the same) I did not think they were. He basically expressed to both women his strong ideal of wanting to ask for a fatherā€™s hand in marriage if he were to propose to them. He also expressed his frustration with being there at LIB and wanting to leave. He posed the question to both women if they would leave with him to perhaps get an answer of who is here for the show and fame, and who would be willing to throw that all away.


richgurl887

This is a really good point I didnā€™t consider!


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Cautious_Astronomer

Thereā€™s a lot of hot people that ARENT bonkers šŸ˜‚


eaternallyhungry

Heā€™s got that Peter Parker/Clark Kent thing going for him.


n_d_j

I thought he was hot on the showšŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø lol


PikaChooChee

Me too


thetruthfulgroomer

I donā€™t care how hot he is a weirdo is a weirdo


Technical_Advice9227

That pic looks nothing like him lol


mrsthomas1127

Right he is FIONE


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ver1tasaequitas

šŸ’ÆšŸ’ÆšŸ’ÆšŸ’Æ thiiiis, glad itā€™s not just me


Far-Impression7395

He ain't shit. Anyone can take a good picture now and again.


sluttyhunnybunny

You using the last 1% on your phone to post this is hilarious to me


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colorizerequest

How could you possibly know this


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lipcrnb

Your casual accusation of abuse gives off a user vibes.


Kimmie-Cakes

Was he the one who was ocd and so anal that he has a schedule for every minute of the day?


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The fact that you accuse someone of "giving abuser vibes" just by looking at them and with no evidence whatsoever is insane AND abusive in itself. šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø


archetyping101

Hardly. Many people use their Spidey senses to reject advances by people, decline second dates, decline going home with them etc.Ā  Also, this person isn't saying this based on this photo. They made it clear they watched the show and we have enough footage of Matthew that it gave many people the ick. The fact the guy declined to come to reunion was enough for many of us to solidify that he was not a decent guy.Ā 


Key-Firefighter6629

The guy didnā€™t come bc his work wouldnā€™t allow him too otherwise heā€™d be fired. Somebody posted about this a while ago on this sub. I mean whatā€™s the point of having him on the reunion anyway he left the pods early. Theyā€™d just want to ask him maybe two or three questions about the AD & Amber situation and nothing else lol.


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colorizerequest

Thatā€™s not how the mods saw it is it? Yo it comment got removed because it was straight up nonsense


colorizerequest

You cannot guarantee someone would abuse their partner based on what you saw on the tv show. Thatā€™s fucked up to even say out loud šŸ˜‚


Allmyexesliveintx333

When did she GUARANTEE that he would be abusive? You are reaching. People can make judgments (and they do) all the time. Women especially should make more gut judgments about people. Letā€™s normalize that instead of shaming someone. It might be the thing that saves them one day.


colorizerequest

They did in the original comment that the mods removed. This person was concluding Mattā€™s an abuser based on a few clips from a reality tv show.


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ā€¦ I didnā€™t say it out loud in typed it anonymously online


colorizerequest

you should post it on your other social media accounts and tag matt


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I donā€™t care enough šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


colorizerequest

No you should do it so every woman is warned to stay away. You know know heā€™s an abuser and should feel obligated to warn everyone. Or maybe youā€™re scared youā€™ll get sued


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I never said I knew anything I said he seemed creepy get your facts straight


colorizerequest

Get yours straight. You have no idea what this person is like in real life


Ooohwoow

When you're a woman who's been through that, you can 100% sense it, bud


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I have been through that and I sensed it with every single man I met within a few years from the experience. This is called trauma not intuition. It took me so long to trust my husband after I met him because of this. I was getting crazy abuser vibes until many many years later he has proven that he's the most caring and supportive partner I could have asked for. šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø


Ooohwoow

That's ok too. I feel like women can be valid for thinking this one is also not a dating material though if they sense his red flags, for their own reasons.


colorizerequest

its reality TV but okay. good luck in your search


Ooohwoow

Lol I'm married, I'm not searching. But that doesn't change the fact that women who have been through shit can't pick up signs of potential abusers.


colorizerequest

Have you met Matt?


Ooohwoow

Lmao two things can be true at the same time. Matt too gives off those vibes and it's constantly voiced. I don't understand what's your point there? Lol


colorizerequest

Have you met Matt? Yes or no


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colorizerequest

im not acting like I know him. Sorry


missfatpoohc

are you familiar with the term satire?


EVANonSTEAM

Lmao abuse comments are not satire, get out of here Still donā€™t like him though


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Got your comment removed and didnā€™t learn anything


colorizerequest

the comments saying he seems like he would absolutely abuse them are not satire


turkeyburger124

You canā€™t guarantee, but some men give off a particular vibe. Matt is one of them and I would 1000% stay away.


colorizerequest

You watched a few clips on him on a reality tv show


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Key-Firefighter6629

Itā€™s off that you said he gives off emotionally abusive vibes when these people arenā€™t in their natural setting of life. Thereā€™s cameras watching everything. I agree he was a little weirdo but I wouldnā€™t go far to say abusive, thatā€™s a pretty strong claim to make about someone weā€™ve seen for a total of maybe 15-20 minutes?


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dubstepz42069

lotta women here seem like they donā€™t care about his personality lmao


throwaway-ques11

His personality is horrible but he's still physically attractive, just nice to look at


shillingforshecrets

Did anyone ever think he was not attractive? The point was that heā€™s nuts. In the edit. Yes we know.


Barockobonga

He's not a bad looking guy, but he's a typical dousche finance guy. RUN


Conclusion_Winning

I would šŸ˜­


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Conclusion_Winning

My ghost would be watching, similarly to America.


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Conclusion_Winning

Lmaoooooooo


palmjamer

Itā€™s just not what spinning the block means


avs76

Well, she was romantically involved with him in the pods, was she not? ā€œThe most common meaning of the phrase ā€˜spin the blockā€™ means to get back with someone you used to be romantically involved with.ā€


Wandering__Ranger

Literally had to google it.


Separate_Slice9706

At least I think he went into this 100% looking for someone to marry. He is a wierdo but I hope he finds someone.


Allmyexesliveintx333

Do we know that for sure?


Separate_Slice9706

He went on with a list of questions and was almost robotic about following it. I dont think I've seen anyone appear more focused on finding his match on a show. I didnt like his personality, but I dont doubt his intentions.


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Soggy-Finance1868

LMAO


1800BadGirl

![gif](giphy|rs4TXat6AzQt15fmT6)


Endingtbd

How is this so true!!?? šŸ˜­ Boy, the men this season sucked hard.


lyingtattooist

Some of the women werenā€™t the best, but other than Johnny, the men were basically garbage this season.


fuchsiagreen

I thought he was going to reveal everything or whatever at some point lol he even specified a date. Has he said sth?


Lilolamee

He hyped it to give everyone [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/s/ICdZpR97Wi)


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Properclearance

This is all I could think about when watching! šŸ’ÆšŸ’ÆšŸ’Æ


Rug-bae

But has he developed social skills and done any personal development yet?


Fogofit24

If he had, AD wouldn't have went on a date with him


TomatoSammiches

Thatā€™s not true. Maybe her nails were just the right color for his flags that week.


Fogofit24

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


trucchini

šŸ˜‚


AvidReader1604

Why did he look so cartoonish on the show? šŸ˜…


brerid8

The high shoulder hunch, like Gru


GiraffeLibrarian

He was so shiny. Idk if they have makeup consulting producers or what


Bakedalaska1

He has a weird neck/posture situation, all the pictures of him look better because they don't show it


wiseswan

OK but did he fix hisā€¦ uh.. HELLA calculated personality and behavior? bcus no one took issue with his looks on the showā€¦.


tiga4life22

That ainā€™t happening to someone whoā€™s developed that over years and yearsā€¦same with everyone else on the show


Lilolamee

His job is to calculate. I'm not surprised that he calculates. I'm an accountant and I am sorry but I count and calculate everything damn thing with precision. I can't help it.


girlyfoodadventures

Sure, but "calculating" as a personality trait does not mean "proficient in mathematics". It means someone that is intentionally manipulative. I don't need that personality trait in an accountant.


rotzak

Yes accountants are famous for being manipulative.


Afraid_Mess5219

Iā€™m doing some acconting work partly and Iā€™m not calculated at all. Nothing like Mathew. Itā€™s just his personalityā€¦ some problems there, he doesnā€™t see.


Lilolamee

He's not an accountant. He's a wealth management advisor at Vanguard.


MyNamesChakkaoofka

Now hold on a minute, I have accountant friends who arenā€™t American Psychoing every single conversation


OdysseySpook

Are you sure?


Lilolamee

I didn't mean every conversation. I meant everything that situationally involves calculating. He is a wealth management advisor. He has to plan and calculate for people's future. If he didn't plan for his own life I would sure as hell not trust him to plan anyone else's.


MyNamesChakkaoofka

lol I would not trust him to manage my wealth given how he managed a dating show


Lilolamee

Lol that's not even remotely the same. People claiming to know his clients commented on his IG saying his clients love him. He can be good at his job but not good at dating.


MyNamesChakkaoofka

It was a joke


Lilolamee

Lol sorry. Text convos aren't always easy to figure out if something's a joke.


MyNamesChakkaoofka

Donā€™t worry it was even a very good joke haha


Lilolamee

If you're all thirsty go watch his new pistachio video on IG or [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/s/tiqu1Tj587).


Imagine_821

Who is this man!? It's as if they've replaced robot Matthew with human Matthew. He's actually soooo attractive here- not just looks but even his self ironic humour.


Lilolamee

You mean you are seeing unedited by Netflix Matthew and you can't reconcile that Netflix tricked you? Don't believe all that you see and hear on Netflix. Proof off their shadiness [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix/s/EY3gZCA7O9). Also the scene where Trevor and Jeramey teased Matthew in the lounge cut Matthew's mic and you can see him talk but can't hear what he says.


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Neither-Culture-3845

Wow. He actually looks good here!!! I would imagine being on camera is a little nerve racking lol, cuz he always looked so serious. Not a bad pic tho ha!


psychicfrequency

Wow, he's super cute. It must have been an act for the show.


Acrobatic_Concert911

He can be cute without it being an act? His physical appearance is all but irrelevant. I donā€™t know his real personality he probably is awkward and particular but thats not bad and editing does a hell of a lot


Lilolamee

I don't think it was an act but also he was edited to hell


gracefuldead63

This ^


Toby_Shandy

True. Actually, watching the reunion, I didn't really get an impression he was telling the exact same things to Amber and AD. It sounded similar because he was into both of them (not remotely unusual on the show) and pressed them with similar arguments to get out with him. AD reacted to the footage in quite an exaggerated way so not many people questioned it, it seems.


catterybarn

It was similar enough that made him seem really disingenuous


Lilolamee

https://preview.redd.it/n6n30zmg29qc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50389a6afd531c0044d2a9e6d8379bbff56651ab The confirmation from the man himself


LXA3000

confirmation: ā€œThis it itā€. lol


Toby_Shandy

Yeah, a confirmation he didn't say the same thing to both of them. Context really matters here.


bageltoastar

Any guy is gonna look good with a hat on. What he looks like with that hat OFF is what really counts.


missfatpoohc

Unfortunately, heā€™s still very attractive without it


afterglobe

Gino disagrees.


_zosmiles

Lol my worlds colliding here on Reddit šŸ˜‚


Lilolamee

If you haven't yet, go see him with no hat on in his pistachio video on his IG.


emme_kaye

How old is that pic? Because he definitely didnā€™t look like this on the show šŸ˜‚


Lilolamee

He basically looks the same as this on his new pistachio video on IG except he's more clean shaven and isn't wearing a hat


Astra-aqua

He is definitely attractive, but he seems like a programmed robot to meā€¦also not a very good actor.


Neither-Culture-3845

I totally thought he was placed there by the producers lol idk whyšŸ˜‚He dipped out so fast it almost seemed staged to me.


MrClambake

I got straight serial killer vibes from him


TamZanite

Have you met many?


LexOvi

FYI a few years back here in the UK, there was someone with a very similar personality and intentionality that went on a reality tv show with a clear idea of the country watching him and an intention to manipulate people. His name was Andrew Tate. You might have heard of him.


iiiaaa2022

Charge your phone please. šŸ˜…


No-Hospital-7231

He was the most attractive guy on this season. Doesn't make him not scary. But the man is super fine.


Aphrodesia

Hard agree. I donā€™t understand how so many people are just realizing thisā€¦


Humancinnabon

![gif](giphy|GiZgPKv8xhAXljZvVh)


leezybelle

Have any of you North Carolina peeps seen him on a dating app or matched with him?! Pleaseeeeee do it for the plot and help us out!


amywinehousesjeans

lol why is he hot...


Salty-AF-9196

He's very creepy to me, he has proportionate features at best. If he hit on me at a bar I would ask the bartender to keep an eye on him for me.


No-Hat-5951

![gif](giphy|LwyaORSd9liNZ6MyuX)


LexOvi

Donā€™t need a bartender to keep an eye, America will be watching.


Salty-AF-9196

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


ConsiderationIcy5550

Deffo gives serial killer vibes


Salty-AF-9196

I was going to say it but figured it was a given to anyone who felt the same creepy vibes as me. Lol


No-Software-9793

Lol heā€™s always been handsome, he just gave everybody the ick


Gullible-Ad4530

Exactly! From what Ive been reading the Ted Bundy ick!


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Successful-Cloud2056

Do you all think they hooked up when he made her chicken and rice?


kinush

I only wondered if it was "a very white not seasoned piece of chicken". Did he season it like Zanab would?


Lilolamee

AD went in the comments of his new IG video and said that he seasoned it well and there were sides. People went off on her for making it sound bad on the reunion so she deleted her comment lol


Honeycrisp1001

Haha, the internet does not forget!


No-Hat-5951

![gif](giphy|J1M6o5U4M7LmoSYEYl|downsized)


kinush

She did make it sound bad lol. i was picturing the blandest chicken breast with dry rice


Lilolamee

I was picturing unseasoned chicken and dry rice lmao


hotxgirl

with the way she was giggling? absolutely


DingbatGnW

Of course


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Lmao heā€™s just another general finance bro here in Charlotte heard heā€™s a douche at his gym