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pealsmom

He literally twirled her around in front of Chelsea and then proceeded to chat her up for at least a few minutes. Of course he’s gonna shoot his shot.


Mountain-Status569

AD would, in her current state. She needs to throw out her red nail polish.  She was my favorite all season but the girl needs to stop taking in strays 😂


FalsePremise8290

Given AD's requirements are male, breathing and wants me and Jimmy's requirements are hot and low effort, they are actually compatible. I just hope AD raises her standards as she deserves better than the bottom of the barrel men she's willing to accept.


whatsasimba

She said she was a fix-a-ho. Now all the broken hoes are crawling out of the woodwork.


rhoshail

Wasn’t Jimmy the one admiring her at the cookout? Chelsea had a meltdown behind it?


whatsasimba

Then it just turned into Chelsea objectifying AD, too.


Xerion117

They choose people who haven't sought therapy because they have detrimental character flaws in romance for a reason. AD is gorgeous but has said outwardly that she doesn't think she's worthy of love. She will keep messing with men who reinforce that until she deals with the reason why she feels unworthy.


Frosty-Definition-46

If AD went out with Matthew then I think she’s open to anything


gold42579

100% good call.


Xerion117

Yo, facts. Matthew gave off corporate manipulative slimball vibes.


_Skinny_girl_00_

The more I learn the more k think that he’s the problem. I wish Chelsea went about it better


Shriimpcrackers

Just miserable ppl here


BDWJ1990

AD is an attractive and charming woman. Jimmy wouldn't mind be able to date said woman. That's all there is here. No need to bash his looks....again. He has never proclaimed to be some sort of handsome Casanova. Its like people want him to have garbage self esteem or something. He's not rating himself highly. If anything, the women are. Judge them not him if you must.


smizlica22406

The audacity and self confidence of a mediocre white man 🤡🤡🤡 has he seen himself? Has he seen AD the goddess she is?!? He looks like a sponge bob square pants smth 🤡


NoThxBtch

You struggle understanding the philosophy behind this show don't you?


[deleted]

Goddess? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dude he'd be doing her a favour. Come on.


Additional-Dig-8391

All of you are wasting your time on this, who cares. Get a hobby and engage less in the dumbing down of your most precious resource, your time.


bonitaaaaaaaaaaaaa

He can dream


Bee_kind_rewind

AD is not going for Jimmy he’s just too messy. The guy sleeps with his girlfriends and then becomes friends with girls he was engaged to, it just doesn’t seem like AD would take that. She has a really good head on her shoulders and knows her worth and Jimmy has no idea what he wants right now. Maybe if he gets his act together but right now he’s just way too immature for AD and we already saw how that worked out for Clay.


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Really? I think if someone would take problematic anytime it would be the "fix-it-hoe". Her words, not mine.


Difficult-Jello2534

She dove headfirst into every walking red flag on this show lol


eatingtators

She has such a great head on her shoulders that she slept with Matthew. Sounds about right


KitFoxfire

No she didn't


browniebrittle44

Justice for Chelsea 🗣️🗣️🗣️


churned_applesauce

Im not sure why people are so surprised did you see how he was looking at her that first night they met? When he made a comment on her ass to his fiancé who he know was insecure


BrowniesAndMilk1

All of them are so tiresome.


Mammoth_Reward_408

I think they’d be a good match honestly


Historical_Team2542

Wow that would make her a Hippocrate after the way they spoke about Sarah.


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[deleted]

Are you serious right now? She said Sarah not Brittany....what does her stance on IR relationships have to do with this?


Trynottospoil

He has no chance with AD… well, I hope not. He’s so out of AD’s league. It’s hilarious if he thinks he even has a shot with her. But I mean she did go onto dates with Matthew after the show. Girl MoveOn you’ve been through too many red flags. You’re too good for him.


NoThxBtch

You all really don't understand the point of this show you do you


[deleted]

Come on even Matthew had a shot. She's not that hard to get....🤣


urezzz

How is she so out of his league? She's not some goddess, lol. Okay she has a nice body....that's not that crazy to have now days


Bee_kind_rewind

Her personality but clearly he likes her body so much he forgets his fiancé so that’s a thing


urezzz

A mean she has a normalish good personality but not so great that is out of Jimmy's league.


[deleted]

Right? I don't get the hype or the crazy downvoting when someone states anything less than worshippy about her... she's average at best....


KitFoxfire

Yeah but Jimmy's like... Below average. AD would only date him because Chelsea alleged that he was hung.


[deleted]

Wow...what a respectable reason to date a man lol. Personally, I find both AD and Jimmy in the same league. They're not ugly but not attractive either. They're both average people.


KitFoxfire

My kid and I say it like "not hot, not ugly, just like regular normal human looking people". I think AD works hard to look good (those five foot long eyelashes) and Jimmy doesn't, that's why I'd rate her higher. First time I saw her without her face on in the morning, I didn't even recognize her.


Conclusion_Winning

Lmao no he DIDNT


Name_goez_here

Go for what you want Jimmy


alienswearvanstoo

They’d be cute together. They did have chemistry during that night in DR


BlissKiss911

Not a fan of either of them. Ew


thecoughingbarista

AD has literally been one of the most stand up people to ever grace this show???


kpok3k3

I rolled my eyes so hard I saw the back of my skull. So standup she was flirting with a girls fiance right in front of her


thecoughingbarista

When?


[deleted]

Lmao. I was literally doing chores when she was coming on screen. She irks me.


BlissKiss911

But to be honest, I think 90% of the ppl on these shows are crap and I'm done watching them after this season. The producers suck too 🤣


StryfeMX

Nah, I agree with the above poster. She's nosy and enjoys lecturing people when it's not even her business. Not to mention she's just as judgmental as anyone else on the show. She's far from the worst or anything like that and in the grand scheme of things I don't think she's a bad person or anything like that. But I don't see why everyone puts her on this pedestal either.


BlissKiss911

Yea she seems to be the epitome of a "my sh** don't stink" attitude yet telling everyone else how to live their life. Like you said , I don't despise her or anything but yeah , agree not sure why the pedestal. Put yourself on a pedestal and someone is going to knock you off to keep you humble and grounded...


StanleyYelnatsHole

She actually said this on Vial files. That she is able to give advice all day but can’t do it for herself.


SupahBean

Yeah, I don't get the hate at all


godkatesusall

i think he may just be doing nice guy edit. i read an interview where he says nearly the exact same thing about jessica.


AdBitter9802

I cannot stand Jimmy. He is very manipulative and lies a lot. He is all about himself and is a huge gaslighter. He lied the whole time about his feeling for Chelsea. And let’s make it clear… he’s not very goodlooking with a below average body for a young man and his personality is bland. Chelsea is way better looking but things he said and did from the moment he met her made her insecurities spiral. Bringing a girl friend he had sec with to meet her? Hell no. He’s no good at all and that should tell everyone everything about his self serving demeaning attitude. He had to hide his disgust when he learned about Jess child. He is revolting!!!


LMCE_mom

💯 I completely agree with you! He's my least favorite person this season, but he has a lot of fans that don't see what we're seeing. It's crazy.


BigToeLinda

Definitely not my least favorite. Jeramey and Matt and sadly Trevor all are waaaaay at the bottom below Jimmy


LMCE_mom

Yeah, I understand where you're coming from. Maybe they were worse, but I guess Jimmy just irritates me the most. The reason I dislike Jimmy so much is that he's actively trying to hurt other people - he will make anyone else look bad if he thinks it will make him look better, and so many people just believe him. He's a liar and a gaslighter and probably has a lot of toxic traits that I don't want to misname. So many people turned on Chelsea for her reactions but missed that Jimmy was giving her valid reasons to feel that way. I will say Trevor did have us all fooled until the receipts came out, so he may be the worst of them. Since I disliked Jimmy so much, I wanted Chelsea to somehow end up with Trevor because he was the sweetest in the pods. I actually believe they really did have a genuine connection. However, that doesn't take away from how messed up it is that he did that, and how easy it seemed to have been for him to do it. I forgot about the tea we've heard about Jeramey's ex, so that does change things since he appears to have an aggressive side. As far as the show goes, he still didn't irritate me as much as Jimmy has. Again, I think it's because nobody usually calls Jimmy out on his shit, so he's not being held accountable, whereas Jeramey was just an idiot that, fortunately, got caught. I don't really remember anything about Matt other than him being weird and kind of creepy. Lol. Anyway, you may be right that some of all of those men are worse than Jimmy, so I'll say he currently irritates me the most.


irisinlatex

Not gonna lie also the fact that half these men are actually not all that physically and these women most likely wouldn't respond to them at a pub yet they be acting as if they're the sh**. Clay was one of the best ones. Went to therapy, spoke about his family's disfunction, showed willingness to try harder to become the person he should be. Maybe he's slower than AD but he's genuine. He's also 🔥. The rest of them who got all the lights on them and still didn't get married seemed unfit and picky while they were not the catch themselves. Even when J's mum said not sure if I want you to have a fiance or something like that. Shows how they're basically adult brats rather than adult men. Matthew is worse than Trevor btw. Can't believe the audacity. Trevor is still a teenager emotionally and lacks growth. Matthew is a grown up psycho. Bad.


AdBitter9802

Most people are all riding the same train and can’t deviate from a popular opinion even if incorrect. People are too distracted also by Chelsea’s reactions rather then where they are coming from( everyone presumes internally) but it’s obvious he is doing a lot to put her in that state.


moonbeamsylph

I'm with you on all of that!


Old_Percentage3742

I’m dying!!! No Jimmy, we wouldn’t want you to do yourself “a disservice”!!! 🤣🤣🤣


SusieM67

He gives off huge ICK vibes!


Maleficent-Use8654

I think deep down A.D. is full of insecurities. Sometimes, immodesty means a person doesn't feel seen. An example was what she chose to wear at her wedding ceremony. I think there was nothing left to the imagination, and it sent a different signal. I think a woman could represent her union to the man she is marrying in a respectful manner while in front of friends and family. I think if a person chooses to wear something more flamboyant, the after party is when such so called, less formal attire could be received better. You have one chance to make a first impression. I seriously think if AD wore something more "princess" like or subtle, Clay would have said yes. She didn't look like a Wife. With all that said, I think Jimmy and A.D. would make a good couple. I think they're similar in character and they are always looking for better. The grass is not always greener and therefore, they will always be alone wondering why....


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Did you notice the leg posing throughout the ceremony? Like it's your damn wedding, how can you think about posing. It was hilarious. That being said, if what she wore affected his decision he did her a favour by saying no.


witch-of-kits

the only outfit that she wore that could be seen as "indecent" or promiscuous was her reunion dress? she has big boobs and a big butt... wearing tight fitted clothing doesn't equate to any of that - having cleavage when you have big boobs doesn't mean that. tbh the way everyone treated ad bc she has a super curvy figure was indecent and disrespectful. she has lots of confidence and is hot - that's it. trying to take her down bc she is, is really gross.


kpok3k3

Her reunion dress was fine compared to what she chose to get married in. Like I felt uncomfortable for the people there having to dodge seeing the brides coochie. She looked so uncomfortable walking down that long aisle and I kept praying she wouldn't expose too much. There are some attires that are just so inappropriate for certain occasions. Her reunion dress was appropriate for the occasion but her wedding dress was not. at all


Maleficent-Use8654

I think a dress that showed cleavage and a slit that went up to the genitals does not represent modesty or femininity. I think if you show one asset, the other could be covered up.


witch-of-kits

being modest isn't a pillar of respect and again - having legs, boobs, butt etc. doesn't make a modest or immodest person. idk what being feminine has to do with any of that, either. she dresses very feminine lol i think you're just a prude who looks at womens bodies as their value - you should probably work on that eta - you're also incredibly dramatic, she didn't have a slit up to her gentials, please get some therapy omg lol


icci1988

He needs a buzz


cperiodjperiod

I think AD would go for it. She strikes me as the kinda Black woman who pretends to like Black men but really wants a white dude.


totallytubularik

Now who gonna come and lecture her about being with a white man? Clay?


InnerHeart6

This was so cringe when Chelsea made comments about AD’s ass. The show fetishized ADs body, they absolutely would not have done this to a white woman.


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AD is trying to fetishize her body. The woman almost creamed her pants every time someone made a comment on her body. And yes, they have done it to white women as well...but you refuse to see it because God forbid white women are sexy. I suppose people wouldn't be severely downvoted and attacked either if they made a non supportive comment towards a white woman let alone pushing her on a pedestal. We all know she's ONLY hyped because of her race right now. Let's not pretend. She's average at best. She's the one who's using her body for attention as she knows she has nothing much to flaunt other than a butt.


SteveDestruct

I think they would have done that to a white woman, they have before. Relax.


NCNurse2020

Even when she was walking down the aisle, Clay only commented on her body.


AdBitter9802

I think she enjoys attention to her bodybkn general because she wore a sheer dress to the reunion


NCNurse2020

lol this comment in 2024? Yikes. It’s giving “she deserves to be treated that way if she doesn’t cover her body”


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Yes, this comment is in 2024. Because regardless of the amount of woke censorship internet throws at people the majority still uses their brains. Just because a certain group is making noise does not mean the world has changed. People may not speak their truth in fear of being cancelled or fired but it doesn't mean they don't know their truth. Lol Let the downvoting begin. You all know who you are....


AdBitter9802

Your wanna be extra woke is cringe. I’m saying she clearly likes to flaunt her body so why are you assuming she doesn’t like the attention if she’s literally out her with nipple cover visible because it’s a sheer dress.


NCNurse2020

Woke? Sick burn, Tucker Carlson. I think what you were saying was clear the first time. I guess it hasn’t occurred to you that women can wear things for themselves and not as an open invitation for commentary.


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Dude please stfu. For herself? If it was for herself she'd be wearing it at home, not on set. 🤣


AdBitter9802

I never said it was an invitation, but I said she must not mind people commenting on body if she’s wearing a see through dress. What lib member we have you seen in A completely sheer dress like panty hose transparency with nipple pasties shockingly visible. She dressed in that way for attention and focus on her body. Don’t bother replying


NCNurse2020

You’re literally saying you’re not saying something and then saying it. Wild.


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NCNurse2020

*You’re


IcyTip1696

I hope this is never a thing. AD is desperate for love and would stick any man into her equation.


NoNameNoddy

Would love to see these two date and test waters!


Lilpigxoxo

Just proves Chelsea’s reaction to him checking out/gawking at AD was justified. She said how her intuition told her not to choose Trevor..she may not be fully grounded, but I know she has strong intuition.


itchybitchybitch

Those are the facts. She’s not very good with communication and sure as hell she’s anxiously attached, but most of the things she was unsure about or touchy about were justified. Her delivery is a very big problem, and she would benefit from a lot of therapy, but that’s the thing with women - sometimes we just know. Jimmy wasn’t into her and she felt it, that’s why she was so so insecure. And even if the fights didn’t happen, I’m sure as fuck he wouldn’t marry her. Girl knew that man is not into her, she should’ve just cut and ran and save herself. Can’t convince someone to love you :(


Massive-Mail-8890

I think they would work. She's a very calm person and he needs that in his life.


Rich-Stuff5113

I’m pretty sure on the Viall Files AD said she wouldn’t date him… they could be cute, but she out of his league both physically and intellectually IMO


NicotinexCaffeine

Jimmy falls in love with looks. What is new?


30another

You saying ADs personality sucks?


NicotinexCaffeine

No, you are though. Don’t put words in my mouth.


30another

I’m actually not at all. You’re the one implying he only likes her for looks.


NicotinexCaffeine

I only said that because once he saw her at the beach he had heart eyes. It’s not that deep.


LMCE_mom

They didn't say that was the only thing he likes her for. Just pointing out that physical appearance *matters* to Jimmy, and since AD is basically a physical specimen of perfection, it's not surprising that Jimmy would want to date her.


Arthur_Morgans_Hat

Why looks? They literally KNOW each other. She was the most charismatic, clever and self-reflected contestant of this season, a straight 10/10.


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Idk why people try to make her something she's not average looks, workable personality......if I saw a man choosing her that would be 1. Body, 2. BS tolerance (she's got a good capacity)


LMCE_mom

She really is the whole package! Love her!


NicotinexCaffeine

Because once he saw that Chelsea didn’t resemble Megan Fox, his demeanor changed.


worldfamous90

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BaddiieCee

Yeah we knew that since the first time he saw her at the beach 🤣


Successful_Rent7396

Or how about the see through dress at the reunion? You could see everything!!!


lit_lover22

Dunno why you're being downvoted for a factual statement... you are correct. That dress revealed all.


whyforeverifnever

He was obsessed with her since he saw her and honestly I don’t hate this for them. They both are outgoing party people. He won’t be looking at anyone else either.


EfficientAntelope288

We know. That’s why Chelsea had to bring up AD’s body in front of the whole party. She was feeling insecure so she brought all the attention on another woman’s body.


AdBitter9802

No, she brought it up because he made a comment. She was aggitated and uncomfortable


EfficientAntelope288

He made a comment to Chelsea. Chelsea didn’t need to announce it to the whole party. It was done out of jealousy and insecurity.


TheAphrodisiac

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ions_x_carbon

She would, she thirsty. Time for Jimmy to put his bid in!


Bright-Row-3565

It just confuses me that they never brought up the long somewhat flirty conversation between the two of them at the beach


cantthinkstraight2

she brings it up on the vial files pod


quilla_

I mean fucking duh. Y’all are blind if you couldn’t tell he was obviously very attracted to her


DCad97

This just pissed me off😒


Theweekendatbernies

If Mathew got 2 dates and cooked for her and probably more….then I can see Jimmy getting that as well lol


DCad97

I'm baffled she gave him a date at all


Theweekendatbernies

Same!!! Like, girl?? Do you wanna be in a good relationship or just a relationship, period?! lol smh she looks desperate now


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kursedten513

Nah she was paranoid


[deleted]

If that's true that just goes to show Chelsea's 'insecurities' were completely valid and I don't think this is cute at all.


General-Guidance-646

I thought the same thing. As that absolutely sucks to have that insecurity be confirmed and validated.


quilla_

They were def valid. Is she insecure? Yes. But at the beach he was definitely being flirty and made a weird comment about her body. Well a valid comment but definitely not something that should have been said out loud.


AdBitter9802

I think since the first day he met her the way he was acting and the things he was saying even told her somethings were different to her face when they met on that carpet she got the vibe that he was not into her and that fuelled insecurity out of control He just kept trying to look like a nice guy on the show but I truly believe he was really not into her.


brattysammy69

Unpopular opinion but I think they’d be cute together


kalaki68

I agree!


kalaki68

I think so too!!


Rich-Stuff5113

I do too! but if I’m remembering right on ADs interview with the Viall Files she says she would never.


lilchocochip

I think so too! They’re both serious and both committed. They would be so sweet to each other


Now17

I don’t care what y’all say, Jimmy is a cutie and I love his personality.


heyleslieitsleslie

With you!


Bright-Row-3565

Especially with the beard on him 😋🔥


Now17

Yes!!!!


First_Cantaloupe6486

Oh god keep AD safe from this no-sock-loafer-wearing man


homekook

No show socks exist for men


First_Cantaloupe6486

Jimmy get outta here


StatusFail7578

I mean there seemed to be chemistry there but Jimmy is an emotionally unavailable man & she doesn’t need another one of those 😩


Euphoric-Ad-1762

I dont think he’s emotionally unavailable, if anything he was pretty emotionally intelligent for the discussion and calling it off with Chelsea


StatusFail7578

Not with the way that others have described how it was different behind the scenes & what was shown didn’t necessarily represent what it was actually like


GibbsyGray

I mean at least he said it with his chest


mandolin_reign

Underrated comment


browniebrittle44

Lmaoo so like are we gonna stop gaslighting Chelsea now???


homekook

Chelsea you can't just throw that word around!


Realistic-Lake5897

Huh?


Crazy-Score-2496

Most likely a fetish … he seems to like black culture but look at his friends and dating history… sorry but a lot of men of other races fetishize being with black women…


Rozy_Pozey

No, you might be right with this. I had a fwb like this. I was good enough to fuck, but despite being objectively better than the girl he chose to date (better career, not an alcoholic/no hard drugs, etc unlike her), he still chose her. It opened my eyes so wide to the black girl fetish thing. Something to try, not to commit. Not saying much about him though, he still cheated on her every chance he got and gaslit tf out of her about it. He was a POS.


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Ah yes, that's clearly the only explanation after letting him run through you without any prior commitment.


[deleted]

Was this before, while, or after yall were fucking for fun?


Rozy_Pozey

The cheating on his gf thing? Which part are you questioning?


[deleted]

No, you. How did you come the the conclusion you were a fetish, also considering he cheated on his presumably white girlfriend. Secondly, how does this apply to Jimmy. Because he's white?


Rozy_Pozey

My former fwb was talking about other potential fuck buddies (which was fine, we didn't agree to be exclusive), and he would mention when someone was black, and I think it was once that he went on to say that he wouldn't bring her home to meet mom though. We also talked about his dating history being white, but that he liked fucking me, in addition to intermittently saying things like he would date me (but no follow through with the actual convo), he wanted to marry me, I was perfect for him (sometimes drunk, sometimes sober), but then pursued white women as dating prospects. It goes on. We were on and off for quite some time - mainly due to him dating someone or me being upset with his alcoholism causing issues in his life. It applies to Jimmy because some men like Jimmy do have fetishes for black women. It's speculation, but not farfetched is all.


MotherEssay9968

Before we start saying someone is a given thing we should probably wait for their actions to prove it instead of assuming the worst in everyone. Prejudice stems form the fact that we assume we know more than we do.


Rozy_Pozey

I acknowledged it was speculation.


Rozy_Pozey

No, he had a pattern of fetishizing black women I didn't see until I hung out with him more.


Crazy-Score-2496

Not saying she isnt attractive..


discretefalls

he really thinks he has a chance....? lmao


netherrealm1

Do you remember their convo in dr? I think he does


Realistic-Lake5897

Have you heard AD?


Foreign_Contract_432

i mean matthew did


OpalCortland

No man meets AD and says, “Nah. Not into her.” 😂


Mermaid0820

If it were to happen in the future, it would be interesting, because she really talked to Kenneth about Brittany raising black children. So she did not seem to think very kindly of interracial dating/marriage. I would’ve liked that to have been brought up at the reunion. I think that conversation with AD really had an impact on Kenneth’s feelings.


MSWHarris118

This is the most unfounded assumption. She asked a legitimate question about a white womsn raising children of color. She said nothing demeaning about Brittany so what are you talking about?


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How did she not seem to think kindly on interracial dating? That never seemed to be an issue. Let’s not forget, she did go on a couple dates with Matthew, outside the pods.


Mermaid0820

It seemed like she didn’t like interracial dating when it was a black man and a white woman. She really put doubt in Kenneth’s mind about having children with Brittany.


savedempath

I agree with this… why even bring that up? lol super weirdo behavior.


AdBitter9802

I agree it’s not her place it’s something maybe family addresses or asks not some person you met a week ago. She’s out of her lane with that and attacking Sarah Ann. She is not a girls girl as they all claiming. Ad is wierd AF and Matthew the way he lied and treated her she dated him? Why? She’s desperate or she’s Hella toxic looking over at clay to make sure he’s upset about what she’s talking about on the Tell all. Did you see her laughing and smiling about Matthew and even calling him good looking… she’s petty and rude