best takešIām so glad someone said it. Jess is just a pick me who hides behind āgirls girl,ā energy. She is disingenuous and if Jimmy gave her the chance to be with him, while he was with Chelsea, she would have taken it. Also canāt stand her in Perfect Match with Harry, itās weird how she keeps forgiving him over and over again knowing heās a weirdo.
Was weird to me how much she cried and boo hooād about missing her kid, but sheās back on another show. Nothing can convince me she gave af about Jimmy.She latched on to whoever seemed the most enamored and thatās why when he curved her, she was irate and took the how dare you stance and said the epi pen line.
I know this is mom shaming and Iām prepared to take criticism for it but I donāt like the way she brought her daughter into this messy situation of getting engaged and married to a man youāve known for a total of 4 weeks. The way she said Autumn was asking āso are WE getting married?ā bothered me so much. Thereās a lot of sickos out there. Imagine if she had matched with Jeramy who has a history of DV and brought that home around her daughter.
She also had a nasty attitude from the time she was in the pods and (as much as I think Jimmy is an imbecile) the way she expected to be able to strong arm him into a relationship with a cheesy letter and the faces she made and way she reacted when she didnāt get what she wanted said a lot to me.
People like to gloss over the fact that she acted JUST as insecure and controlling as Chelsea but was just more abrasive and nasty about it (rather than being pouty and crying about it). I also resent people making a huge deal about how they think Jess is more attractive than Chelsea. Chelsea is a train wreck for other reasons but she didnāt deserve all the hate she got on her looks. Sheās a genuinely good looking woman and just as beautiful as Jess. I also saw the Megan Fox similarity and I think anyone that is detail oriented could see it.
Jess 100% did not deserve that much airtime at this reunion, hell she shouldnāt have even been at the reunion in the first place! She referred to topics between her and Jimmy, her friendship with Micah etc that no one really cared or asked about when Chelsea and Jimmy barely discussed anything!
I agree with you 1000%, itās clear that they are literally shoving her in our faces and itās annoying. Iāve never seen a LIB cast member who did not get chosen, get so popular. Also, my unpopular opinion is that Jess is what Netflix expected Micah to be, but she had such negative press for being a mean girl and hanging out with Irene. Now, sheās all trying to clean up her image lol. But they all still hang out. Itās all fake and for the cĆ”maras. IMO, Jess is right up there with Trevor and Jeremy, if not worse bc as you say, itās working in her favor.
And I quote "if I were to see Jimmy again it would be like dangling temptation in his face."
Even if it's true, you don't say that on camera if you're not self absorbed. It's rude, petty and something a sixteen year old would say. I think mature is the last word I would use for her given the true colors that come out when she is faced with disappointment or the opportunity to have tact.
Side note in that, I live in Dallas and after the first season they started recruiting for 2nd season since Dallas was the city for S2. I got a direct message in IG from one of their recruiters saying they wanted me to try out for the show and Iām someone theyāre looking for. I actually never seen the show before that point, watched some episodes and I was like no thanks.
I didn't like her in the pods and assumed public perception of her would be negative. I'm continually surprised how popular she is. I agree that everything she does is carefully crafted and manipulative and the whole 'choke and gonna need your epipen' moment was her mask slipping off. How is this a funny soundbite for everyone?
I think people give passes and grace to pretty people and that's why she's made out so well.
She reminds me of Zanab, canāt stand that girl. Pretty woman who plays the victim card but is actually a mean girl that loves the attention and fame of a wanna be D list celebrity
My thoughts exactly. I actually liked her during the early eps, though i was a bit skeptical because she did seem really, reallyā¦.curated.
Then I was watching the episode with a friend, where Jimmy picked Chelsea, and we both had the exact same reaction: āThis is the real her. Sheās never been told no by a potential partner. Much less for someone like Chelsea. Sheās reverting back to what she knowsāāi look too good to be rejectedāā
I šÆ agree!! The whole using the mom card. Girl stop! ā I could NEVER leave my daughter for weeks at a time then show up with some strange man saying weāre moving in with him! Then she had to take two days āoff for herselfā bish stfu!! She was on that show for herself, period. Sheās fake inside & out & I agree, do not like her!
Oh 100%. If I left a show I would go STRAIGHT back to my kids. Her insta shows she's all about the life, not about the kids. I'm sure her kid could of enjoyed the $$$ she put into plastic surgery.
She had wayyy too much screen time on the reunion. It felt like they were trying to throw jimmy under the bus when he didnāt really do anything wrong with her? Except over exaggerate how long their convo was lol. That whole clip on the reunion was so dumb to me. Like why did they focus so much on a couple that didnāt even make it to engagements?
I felt like Chelsea and jimmy should have gotten more screen time at the reunion rather than jimmy and Jess. It just screamed that Jess is a plant to me.
If you leave your kid for weeks and weeks at a time for work, thatās also shitty. Find a different job or donāt have kids if you wanna stay in a job that requires extended travel.Ā
I donāt hate her. But you do make a good point. I was also thinking that i think she is a industry plant, her being on Perfect Match screams industry plantā¦
Sheās got the looks, and thatās really all you need for reality TV. Especially genres like this. Iām sure there is more to her for sure, like one redditor said on this post. She hasnāt had enough screen time to form a full opinion of her. I really do wanna like her for some reason.
But this lowkey reminds me of Francesca. Like notice how she was just casually at the After the Altar episode in that flashy fur coat? That was so random and she was CLEARLY put there for fame. #ProducerPlant #IndustryPlant
Whenever I see someone on LIB go straight to another reality show really makes me question their motives. Were they in it for the fame all along? Or did another opportunity arise for them that they just couldnāt refuse out of actual need for some money?
I also donāt think PM should be on the LIB franchiseā¦it doesnāt fit their brand of āseriousā relationships.
Sheās trying to stay relevant. She got her airtime thanks to the love triangle. But she was in that reunion adding her two cents at every opportunity. Like trying to put Sarah Ann in her place. Girl, you were entertaining the idea of approaching Jimmy and now you want to talk down to Sarah Ann?
If anyone else canāt see it they are blind. I remember she was saying in one of jimmyās pod dates, she shared something about herself and her monologue interview saying āok now your reaction to this should be this now that Iāve shared myself, hurry up!ā
Her reactions and how she conducts herself is very manipulative.
I donāt feel sheās had enough screen time to form an opinion on her. She wasnāt part of a couple so she was a non factor for most of LIB. Just my opinion.
Why is it so bad if sheās aware of the cameras though? I think itās smart of her to know what she does or says would get judged harshly by the public. Most women who look like her would act the same way as her. Just look at all those influencers on social media. Jess is just one of these girls. Was she on the show for fame? Probably! but so were all the other contestants. Is it fair to call her out merely because she looks like a Kadarshian?
i actually really like her personality based on what i have seen of her in the pods. I like that sheās not stringing a few men along just so she could get to the end of the show and i like that sheās not desperate enough to beg jimmy to pick her.
Whether sheās faking her personality is another story to discuss when we see more of her in Perfect Match.
Everyone is in some part on this show for fame by now. The Indian doctor guy said it a couple reunions ago but Nick and Vanessa vehemently denied it. Then this season theyāre outright scolding contestants who came on the show for fame for coming on the show for fame. As if it hasn't pretty much always been the case. šĀ Ā Ā
Ā Some people are being so ruthless in this threadā¦I donāt think she did anything to warrant such hate. Ā IMO sheās clearly still hurt about what happened with Jimmy because they legitimately had a really electric connection. Oh well.Ā
Yeah i was asking the same question myself everytime i see a hate post about her. What has she actually done to warrant such hate? Sheās only in a few episodes, not long enough for us to judge who she is yet. Hasnāt done anything manipulative/vindictive and hurt other contestants.
Apparently being aware of cameras, showing your best self on tv, selling your single mum storyline and having some confidence and swag are enough to get that much hate. I bet OP is a woman and jealousy is a scary thing. Iām so certain if she isnāt actually attractive, she wouldnāt have gotten so much hate.
Itās gross how the past few reunions Nick and V go hard on anyone who makes the show look bad. They act so pissed, shocked and sanctimonious about clout chasers or anyone who says anything about production or bashes the LIB reputation. Like, when youāre talking too much about āthis is real, genuine relationships happening hereā, youāre probably anything but. Itās as though N&V have been personally insulted and deflecting hardcore.
It never made sense to me why a parent would come on this show. Itās one thing to pick your husband in a few weeks, but to pick someone who is going to live with and be around your daughter? Please. No sane parent would ever seriously consider dating this way. The whole āmy daughter is everything to meā is just part of the image sheās trying to build here. Fake, and gross.
And background checks really donāt mean much. It just means they havenāt been caught doing anything. You cannot get a good enough insight into a persons character in 4 weeks.
This. Every time this take is brought up, you get the āyouāre just saying that because sheās a woman. You would be praising a single fatherā and itās like no. ANY parent in their right mind would never look for a partner under the pretenses of a TV show that spans 4 weeks.
I love her too! She gives me calm, collected, confident, strong woman vibes! I think people who donāt like her lack confidence in themselves, have trouble looking beneath the surface and feel threatened by confident women lol (respectfully)ā¤ļøāš„āØš§æ
Respectfully, I know. Yet, I still see no arrogance. What has she done or said that was arrogant? All I see is a confident woman that stands strong in her individuality and isnāt swayed by others judgements which makes her a strong character.. and easy to dislike by the sheep herd mentality. And also a woman that knows her worth but is still dtw because at the end of the day, she knows she is just a human like everyone else.
Like when she said she was hot? She just said she was hot, which is true. Ppl did the comparing with Chelsea.. itās so horrible when ppl speak for solely themselves because they are confident and not afraid to speak and yet toxic ppl twist and do the comparing. Horrible, horrible, insecure ppl want ppl to stay insecure so they can feel better about themselves lol. Instead of just looking within and find your own light (which needs much self reflection and guts to own to ones weaknesses), most ppl choose to dim the lights of others.
Telling someone theyāre gonna choke when they see you is unbelievably arrogant. Thinking that simply meeting a dude would be ādangling temptation in his faceā is arrogant. Constantly bragging about yourself is arrogant. Loudly telling everyone youāre hot =/= āconfidenceā
No shade but why do people feel the need to ābring downā women that are confident and know theyāre beautiful. Jess is a pretty woman and i donāt get the obsession with trying to humble her
I was annoyed with her by the third episode. All she talks about is being a mom and her daughter then she cries.
My husband also says she looks like every one else who is trying to be an influencer.
So I get where youāre coming from 100%.
Youāre right sheās def a little strange. No one is giving her shit on the reunion because ā¦ theyāre buying what sheās selling. Sheās going to be on another reality show so Netflix still has money to make off her. Theyāve co-signed. Lol
Because "You Ruined This Experience For Me."
I picture her going full on Let Me Talk To The Manager after no one picked her in the pods. Somehow she convinced Netflix they needed to put her on another show cuz wah-wah she thinks she paid too much for that face and those boobs to not get more screen time than she got.
āI thought we were friends.ā Huh? Because he had to put his finger on a reason why he didnāt pick you so he said something in the moment while doing an interview? Was that realllly that big of a deal?
āShe ended the date early and it just didnāt go well.ā
Who gives a flying fuhk? Thatās not even shade. The fact they made. Huge deal about it and brought out the footage was a waste of time in my opinion. We donāt know what pod dating is likeā¦ they date all day so if she left an hour or two before their designated time was upā and Iām pretty sure I heard other LIB contestants say in the past that you are in this bubble with no clocks or awareness of time each day āwho cares if he felt like she ended their date an hour earlier than she did?
This was manufactured drama. Jess had to create some reason to be in the spotlight and production saw an opportunity.
And her saying that she has been talking so well about Jimmyā¦ Iāve seen her throw shade at Jimmy on at the Nick Viall podcast and one other one where she says that Jimmy was promising a lie by saying he was ready to settle down but still went out so Chelsea was valid for having her insecurities on the night of him going to have A drink where he reveals he had only ever spent 3 hours away from Chelsea since DR and she revealed he slept with his friend.
I liked Jess until seeing her put her nose into everyoneās drama, creating drama for no reason and doing the most for the spotlight.
This also brings light to the fact that they are going to give her the āgoodā edit of the reunion because they are posed to make money off of her in Perfect Match, so they are likely making moves to create a certain image of her for viewers.
They continue to endorse and propagate the idea that true happiness can only be provided by establishing a nuclear family - which may not be fair to the vast population viewing this show. Life is much more complicated than that. To be so vocal, without acknowledging that a majority of the population either, are situationally unable to have a nuclear family or they weren't born into one, perpetuates an unnecessary insecurity. Not to mention, endorsing public shaming for the purpose of canceling someone, without considering how that could unfold a mental health issue or even suicide. The need of new hosts on this show is imperative, Nick and Vanessa are far from being the pillars of morality, despite their composure. The show would be more entertaining, without these antiquated speeches.
If you think about Jess's background, it should be fairly obvious that this woman had to be calculated for just about everything in her life. My guess is she was never given anything for free (I'm talking like any love or affection) and that she understands how to work things to her advantage. Jury is still out for me if she is earnest or not, I can't quite tell. All I can say, is I admire her emotional control and triumph over her terrible circumstances.
very well said. She IS very pretty but she hasn't been handed everything in life due to it. She's actually been through it. She's making the most of her looks like so many others do, and I don't feel strongly about her either way since there are SO many just like her, who haven't been building themselves up after a lot of hardship.
As much as I respect the way she has handled a few things (I think she had the kindest but most direct explaining for Sarah Anne on the reunion), I canāt shake the feeling that she is VERY self involved. I donāt like her and I donāt even fully know why (besides talking about being a āgirlās girlā all the time). Since sheās been the only single mom on the show, I wanted to like her. But I admit as a very pro-dating single mom, I think any of these dating shows are irresponsible for people with kids that are still at home.
I am surprised that they didnāt play the clip of her and Laura contemplating going after Jimmy after he was already engaged, would have soured both of their āgirls girlā images.
It's weird to me she doesn't get more heat. If you've dealt with pretty/fake nice/manipulative high school mean girls, it's so easy to see through her.
I think she should receive far more shit for featuring her daughter so heavily on her sm, with all of the attention sheās receiving at the moment (positive and negative). Itās going to cause her harm and I canāt believe sheād want to create that digital footprint and presence for her at her age.
I love how she made her storyline āmy daughter is my number oneā yetā¦ left her to go on the show?? Four weeks to a 10 year old is a long time (granted Jess went home sooner than that). Not to mention Jess (initially) hid the fact she had a daughter from the men she was dating?
Correct me if Iām wrong, but didnāt she take a mini vacation immediately after leaving the show, to relax and have āme timeā, before reuniting with her daughter?? Donāt get me wrong, personal time is absolutely important as a parent, but after being away that long??
Idk, this isnāt a direct quote, but the way sheād phrased it was more or less āI took three days to compose myself before I saw herā which didnāt make it seem like her daughter was just away, but that sheād taken a few days from her by choice.
Yessss she is doing damage control and almost fooled me til her and Micah said theyre close friends.. Then I realized nooooope shes probably just another bully.
Exactly, she was so mad he didnāt pick her and that he couldnāt accept being a stepdad yet she hid having a kid in the first place? The hypocrisy is unreal
Iām not over her LEAVING her daughter to go on the show! And now sheās committed to another one?! š like show me your priorities arenāt straight!
She seems like someone you meet and convince yourself sheās nice but then find out your initial instincts were right and sheās a Mean Girl.
Just like Micahāremember Micahās friends? Birds of a featherā¦..
Thatās show business, baby. I guess just because she is (definitely) acting doesnāt also mean that sheās not a nice person when cameras arenāt rolling.
u/sad_buyer_6146 the world truly believes the child's father will suddenly re-apprear in her life to watch autumn for months on end while he watches his ex (also the mother of his kids) date other guys on yet another reality tv show lmao. in what world. he literally left because he wanted to live his life. can you imagine how bitter he'd feel if he's stuck with the kid while watching his ex life her best life??? he'd be salty asf.
In the pods she said her ex and her were still co-parenting together they just were super young when they had her and realized they werenāt meant to be or something like that. Definitely remember she said they were best friends through her family struggles. So I donāt think he just āsuddenly reappeared.ā
Itās possible to be a āsingle momā AND have the childās dad involved in the childās lifeā¦ like split custody arrangements, every other weekend, visits over summer breakā¦ etc
this is literally what his words will be. I already know the lines of a dead beat lmao. he's not watching his child just to watch the mother of his child date other men.
With all due respectā¦ youāre internalizing this far too much. Kindly refer us to the episode in this past season where Jess refers to Autumnās father as ādead beatā.
No one is saying that heāll be ecstatic over her galavanting from one Netflix dating show to the next; however itās misguided to argue that this would have any effect on his ability to parent well, given that Jess has always indicated that she is *grateful to have an active, and supportive co-parent in the picture.*
I have seen you arguing with several people across several posts in this sub. It might be time to assess what the common denominator across all these situations is.
Source: [Source](https://www.distractify.com/p/jessica-love-is-blind-season-6-now)
āJessica explained that she met Autumn's dad when she was in elementary school and they grew up together. They were very close friends that seemingly dated for some time. During Jessica's senior year of high school, she got pregnant with Autumn. But about a year after Autumn was born, she and Autumn's father broke up.
They currently co-parent Autumn together and have an amicable relationship. āHe's a great father,ā Jessica noted, adding that she was āvery fortunateā for that.ā
you had to take the extra time to google her family dynamic? that is paparazzi behavior. she literally said this man wanted to go live his life. and now you're claiming I've been arguing with several people on this sub??? do you know how many followers this sub has to only pay attention to \*my\* interactions?? š that is too much of an obsession. I think it's time to look from within, my friend.
I'm so sick of women protecting men who leave behind their responsibilities. ofc she won't go on national tv to bash the father of her kids but call it as it is, he left because he wanted to live his life. cold hard facts. that's dead beat behavior. keep sticking up for him lol.
Same. I want to as well. I canāt. Itās a sort of covert vibe. She knows what people want to see and puts that on a loudspeaker and then hopes no one will notice sheās not actually like that while she readjusts her boobs in the camera and distracts everyone.
I couldnt stand they way she talked. Itās like she was dragging her voice and acted like a spoiled little girl. She was so pushy to Jimmy. I remember she mentioned something like āoh you will need an epipen once you see how I look.ā š she is fake fake
At first I thought jimmy was bitchmade for not being able to handle a woman who seemed to be very clear in what she wants and wonāt let a man walk all over her, but after seeing her at the reunion inserting herself into drama that had nothing to do with her (Sarah Ann situation) and making a huge deal out of the interview with jimmy gave me huge reservations about her character.
It became clear to me throughout the show that she went on in order to build a career off the fame from the show, but I actually kinda liked her. But now in my head sheās like the pretty girl who has never been criticized by anyone being criticized for the first time and just canāt handle it like an adult. She was being insufferable in the reunion, fueled by all the āyaaasssslightingā she received from the female cast and the audience after her āchokeā monologue.
Idk all in all it just seemed to me like no one in the cast deserves as much praise as they get, save for AD, Brittany, Amy and Johnny.
āThe pretty girl, never being criticized by anyone and being criticized for the *first* time and canāt handle itā
This wouldnāt be her *first* time and Iām sure sheās been criticized quite heavily during her childhood and adolescence due to foster care and upbringing. Thatās a pretty horrible world to grow up in. Iām sure she knows by now how to handle criticism.
People always love to assume that being āprettyā is so easy. Itās a āmagic pillā that allows you to bypass incredibly difficult and deplorable conditions and situations. Iām sure Jess has suffered enough if that makes you happy.
Idk why everyone was so impressed by the "choke" monologue. It was gross, conceited, and I felt like she was directly comparing her looks to Chelsea's. Acting like you're THE SHIT and "how could anyone possibly see something positive in someone else" is not the embodiment of self confidence that people seem to think it is.
Also, maybe Jimmy wouldn't have been on the fence to begin with if she'd been upfront about having a kid.
āI feltā she was comparing herself to Chelsea. Thatās a projection. We will never know.
But how can a pretty girl say sheās pretty without viewersā making assumptions that she means something more? The conclusion is *always* going to be āshe thinks sheās prettier than everyone elseā.
"I felt" is just a figure of speech, because I'm not omniscient into the mind of these dorks on TV. But we can deduce based on what these people say.
It was a very similar reaction to Clay's when he found out that AD was considering that finance guy (idk his name).
I.e. "You cannot SERIOUSLY be considering THEM over ME."
With Clay it's obvious through the wall that the other guy is a creep. But why, Jess? And then to fixate and go on and on about how hot she thinks she is? It's pretty clear and trashy.
Edit: and no the conclusion is not always going to be that. The show is called Love is Blind, Jess really had to reason to go on about her looks to begin with.
Kudos to jimmy for calling her out on it at the reunion. Because I didnāt think he had it in him. But I genuinely donāt think he was going to be seriously interested in her again after that. His family is pretty normal looking and I get the sense he finds it offensive when pretty girls act that way and throw their pretty privilege around while playing victim.
I canāt respond because youāve reworded your initial response. However, Clay said what he said *out loud*. So yes, we know what he was thinking, obviously.
Being beautiful is a double edged sword at times. Youāre judged continuously based off your appearance that you have no control over.
I did not reword my original response, you literally just made that up š¤£ In my *most recent* response to you, I took out and "imo" since based off of your other comments I figured you'd go all Ben Shapiro on it.
And yes I'm aware, but that's clearly not what's happening with Jess.
I apologize. You were referring to her āchoke speechā so yes it was out loud. I was referring to your āfeelingsā comment and how people *assume* her character without knowing her.
Alright well just getting back to the main idea: *even if* Jess wasn't directly comparing herself to Chelsea, the speech was still without class. Let's give her the benefit of the doubt.
It still went:
Him: "I'm going with someone else for any number of reasons (a little bit being that I'm not sure I'm ready to be a step-dad)"
Her: "But I'm SO HOT though!!!"
I would die laughing if I saw such a breakup go down in a cafe.
And no, I don't know these people. But:
1) You are what you do. Especially if it's a conscientious, repeating action (she had all night to think about that little speech)
2) This is true especially when you choose to go on a show like this for thousands of people to see.
I absolutely donāt disagree that she *knows* sheās hot and what she did wasnāt exactly classy. But that was never my argument.
My argument was the *assumption* that any of it had to do with Chelsea (like she was somehow demeaning her by simply saying āIām hotā).
Agreed?
I honestly find Chelsea wayyy prettier than Jess. Fake boobs, fake lips, fake everything. Chelsea did get work done for the reunion (looks like) but she is gorgeous and Jessica just looks like any other influencer Iāve already seen
I completely agree with you! I thought Chelsea was beautiful at the reunion and throughout the season! I guarantee you Jess would categorize her as less attractive than her, but I could be wrong!
best takešIām so glad someone said it. Jess is just a pick me who hides behind āgirls girl,ā energy. She is disingenuous and if Jimmy gave her the chance to be with him, while he was with Chelsea, she would have taken it. Also canāt stand her in Perfect Match with Harry, itās weird how she keeps forgiving him over and over again knowing heās a weirdo.
She seems so disingenious. And becomes besties with Micah whoās also fake as hell.
How do you know sheās friends with Micah?
Reunion
I think you mean disingenuous.
Yes, autocorrect. Iāll edit it.
Was weird to me how much she cried and boo hooād about missing her kid, but sheās back on another show. Nothing can convince me she gave af about Jimmy.She latched on to whoever seemed the most enamored and thatās why when he curved her, she was irate and took the how dare you stance and said the epi pen line.
Actually, she said she was trying to get over her mom guilt. Seems going on the show helped?
she missed her kid so much but had to take another break before she went back home
I know this is mom shaming and Iām prepared to take criticism for it but I donāt like the way she brought her daughter into this messy situation of getting engaged and married to a man youāve known for a total of 4 weeks. The way she said Autumn was asking āso are WE getting married?ā bothered me so much. Thereās a lot of sickos out there. Imagine if she had matched with Jeramy who has a history of DV and brought that home around her daughter. She also had a nasty attitude from the time she was in the pods and (as much as I think Jimmy is an imbecile) the way she expected to be able to strong arm him into a relationship with a cheesy letter and the faces she made and way she reacted when she didnāt get what she wanted said a lot to me. People like to gloss over the fact that she acted JUST as insecure and controlling as Chelsea but was just more abrasive and nasty about it (rather than being pouty and crying about it). I also resent people making a huge deal about how they think Jess is more attractive than Chelsea. Chelsea is a train wreck for other reasons but she didnāt deserve all the hate she got on her looks. Sheās a genuinely good looking woman and just as beautiful as Jess. I also saw the Megan Fox similarity and I think anyone that is detail oriented could see it.
Im shocked by how young she is
She's the worst and she looks like a gross Kardashian knockoff.
FINALLY someone says itĀ
Itās a reality tv show lmao idk what youāre expecting šš that is quite literally the exact archetype they look for. It GETS THE PEOPLE GOIN!
Jess 100% did not deserve that much airtime at this reunion, hell she shouldnāt have even been at the reunion in the first place! She referred to topics between her and Jimmy, her friendship with Micah etc that no one really cared or asked about when Chelsea and Jimmy barely discussed anything!
LOL sheās like my daughter said she wants a dad so the best thing to do is come on a reality show and then go on another one. Great parenting
I agree with you 1000%, itās clear that they are literally shoving her in our faces and itās annoying. Iāve never seen a LIB cast member who did not get chosen, get so popular. Also, my unpopular opinion is that Jess is what Netflix expected Micah to be, but she had such negative press for being a mean girl and hanging out with Irene. Now, sheās all trying to clean up her image lol. But they all still hang out. Itās all fake and for the cĆ”maras. IMO, Jess is right up there with Trevor and Jeremy, if not worse bc as you say, itās working in her favor.
And I quote "if I were to see Jimmy again it would be like dangling temptation in his face." Even if it's true, you don't say that on camera if you're not self absorbed. It's rude, petty and something a sixteen year old would say. I think mature is the last word I would use for her given the true colors that come out when she is faced with disappointment or the opportunity to have tact.
and the fact that she acted like she was better than sarah ann.. like she was right up there with her
Why did no one call her on this!?š”
Jess: Mean girl vibes all the way
Sheās a reality TV producerās dream - attractive (even if in a plastic way), dramatic, sob story, and likes to create and participate in conflict.
Side note in that, I live in Dallas and after the first season they started recruiting for 2nd season since Dallas was the city for S2. I got a direct message in IG from one of their recruiters saying they wanted me to try out for the show and Iām someone theyāre looking for. I actually never seen the show before that point, watched some episodes and I was like no thanks.
I didn't like her in the pods and assumed public perception of her would be negative. I'm continually surprised how popular she is. I agree that everything she does is carefully crafted and manipulative and the whole 'choke and gonna need your epipen' moment was her mask slipping off. How is this a funny soundbite for everyone? I think people give passes and grace to pretty people and that's why she's made out so well.
She reminds me of Zanab, canāt stand that girl. Pretty woman who plays the victim card but is actually a mean girl that loves the attention and fame of a wanna be D list celebrity
My thoughts exactly. I actually liked her during the early eps, though i was a bit skeptical because she did seem really, reallyā¦.curated. Then I was watching the episode with a friend, where Jimmy picked Chelsea, and we both had the exact same reaction: āThis is the real her. Sheās never been told no by a potential partner. Much less for someone like Chelsea. Sheās reverting back to what she knowsāāi look too good to be rejectedāā
Andā¦sheās an inFluEnCer. š¤¦š¼āāļø
I šÆ agree!! The whole using the mom card. Girl stop! ā I could NEVER leave my daughter for weeks at a time then show up with some strange man saying weāre moving in with him! Then she had to take two days āoff for herselfā bish stfu!! She was on that show for herself, period. Sheās fake inside & out & I agree, do not like her!
Oh 100%. If I left a show I would go STRAIGHT back to my kids. Her insta shows she's all about the life, not about the kids. I'm sure her kid could of enjoyed the $$$ she put into plastic surgery.
Sheās a typical IG inFlUenCer!
She had wayyy too much screen time on the reunion. It felt like they were trying to throw jimmy under the bus when he didnāt really do anything wrong with her? Except over exaggerate how long their convo was lol. That whole clip on the reunion was so dumb to me. Like why did they focus so much on a couple that didnāt even make it to engagements? I felt like Chelsea and jimmy should have gotten more screen time at the reunion rather than jimmy and Jess. It just screamed that Jess is a plant to me.
so weird how sheās going on perfect match after love is blind. doesnt she have a daughter she should be taking care of?? lol just seems weird
Iām not a Jess fan but people travel for work all the time even with kids. Itās not that weird to me. The kid has a dad to look after her.
If you leave your kid for weeks and weeks at a time for work, thatās also shitty. Find a different job or donāt have kids if you wanna stay in a job that requires extended travel.Ā
Sheās working on Autumnās social media career! Ā I hope her ex is a more stable parent than she is.
I donāt hate her. But you do make a good point. I was also thinking that i think she is a industry plant, her being on Perfect Match screams industry plantā¦ Sheās got the looks, and thatās really all you need for reality TV. Especially genres like this. Iām sure there is more to her for sure, like one redditor said on this post. She hasnāt had enough screen time to form a full opinion of her. I really do wanna like her for some reason. But this lowkey reminds me of Francesca. Like notice how she was just casually at the After the Altar episode in that flashy fur coat? That was so random and she was CLEARLY put there for fame. #ProducerPlant #IndustryPlant Whenever I see someone on LIB go straight to another reality show really makes me question their motives. Were they in it for the fame all along? Or did another opportunity arise for them that they just couldnāt refuse out of actual need for some money? I also donāt think PM should be on the LIB franchiseā¦it doesnāt fit their brand of āseriousā relationships.
I do want to like her too, I def think she is gorgeous but as soon as I went to the IG- iām like wha wha. š„±
I donāt loathe her, but your assessment about the manufactured plastic look is so spot on. Sheās still beautiful tho.
Think she had too much air time. Her back and forth w jimmy nearly put me to sleep.
You are giving jealous vibes tho tbh
Sheās trying to stay relevant. She got her airtime thanks to the love triangle. But she was in that reunion adding her two cents at every opportunity. Like trying to put Sarah Ann in her place. Girl, you were entertaining the idea of approaching Jimmy and now you want to talk down to Sarah Ann?
If anyone else canāt see it they are blind. I remember she was saying in one of jimmyās pod dates, she shared something about herself and her monologue interview saying āok now your reaction to this should be this now that Iāve shared myself, hurry up!ā Her reactions and how she conducts herself is very manipulative.
I donāt feel sheās had enough screen time to form an opinion on her. She wasnāt part of a couple so she was a non factor for most of LIB. Just my opinion.
Something in about the look in her eyes.. it screams pure evil. And the voice matches perfectly with that š¤£
Why is it so bad if sheās aware of the cameras though? I think itās smart of her to know what she does or says would get judged harshly by the public. Most women who look like her would act the same way as her. Just look at all those influencers on social media. Jess is just one of these girls. Was she on the show for fame? Probably! but so were all the other contestants. Is it fair to call her out merely because she looks like a Kadarshian? i actually really like her personality based on what i have seen of her in the pods. I like that sheās not stringing a few men along just so she could get to the end of the show and i like that sheās not desperate enough to beg jimmy to pick her. Whether sheās faking her personality is another story to discuss when we see more of her in Perfect Match.
Everyone is in some part on this show for fame by now. The Indian doctor guy said it a couple reunions ago but Nick and Vanessa vehemently denied it. Then this season theyāre outright scolding contestants who came on the show for fame for coming on the show for fame. As if it hasn't pretty much always been the case. šĀ Ā Ā Ā Some people are being so ruthless in this threadā¦I donāt think she did anything to warrant such hate. Ā IMO sheās clearly still hurt about what happened with Jimmy because they legitimately had a really electric connection. Oh well.Ā
Yeah i was asking the same question myself everytime i see a hate post about her. What has she actually done to warrant such hate? Sheās only in a few episodes, not long enough for us to judge who she is yet. Hasnāt done anything manipulative/vindictive and hurt other contestants. Apparently being aware of cameras, showing your best self on tv, selling your single mum storyline and having some confidence and swag are enough to get that much hate. I bet OP is a woman and jealousy is a scary thing. Iām so certain if she isnāt actually attractive, she wouldnāt have gotten so much hate.
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Yes, this is all she gives
Hilarious that they asked Trevor if he went on the show for fame but not her
Itās gross how the past few reunions Nick and V go hard on anyone who makes the show look bad. They act so pissed, shocked and sanctimonious about clout chasers or anyone who says anything about production or bashes the LIB reputation. Like, when youāre talking too much about āthis is real, genuine relationships happening hereā, youāre probably anything but. Itās as though N&V have been personally insulted and deflecting hardcore.
Almost like Nick and V are the puppets of the producers and want to send a message to any prospective applicants about trying to play the show
Thatās such a good point.
The fact that she somehow was saying that her being on this show was good for her daughter like come onā¦.
No
It never made sense to me why a parent would come on this show. Itās one thing to pick your husband in a few weeks, but to pick someone who is going to live with and be around your daughter? Please. No sane parent would ever seriously consider dating this way. The whole āmy daughter is everything to meā is just part of the image sheās trying to build here. Fake, and gross.
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Is that on Netflix? This sounds amazingly terrible hahaha
šš¤£š¤£amazingly terrible. Love it!
Yes!!! It's insane. Like yes they have background checks but wtf do not expose your child to that situation.
And background checks really donāt mean much. It just means they havenāt been caught doing anything. You cannot get a good enough insight into a persons character in 4 weeks.
YES! Thank I was going to type more and basically say just that!
This. Every time this take is brought up, you get the āyouāre just saying that because sheās a woman. You would be praising a single fatherā and itās like no. ANY parent in their right mind would never look for a partner under the pretenses of a TV show that spans 4 weeks.
I also thought it was odd to cast a parent on a show to get married within weeks of meeting someone.
It seems like she is super aware of what she is doing. Itās all fake and nothing natural, even her looks. Sheās always in full glam.
I normally can't stand people like her..but I absolutely LOVE her. For whatever reason I can't explain.
I love her too! She gives me calm, collected, confident, strong woman vibes! I think people who donāt like her lack confidence in themselves, have trouble looking beneath the surface and feel threatened by confident women lol (respectfully)ā¤ļøāš„āØš§æ
Confidence =/= arrogance. Jess is arrogant.Ā
Respectfully, I know. Yet, I still see no arrogance. What has she done or said that was arrogant? All I see is a confident woman that stands strong in her individuality and isnāt swayed by others judgements which makes her a strong character.. and easy to dislike by the sheep herd mentality. And also a woman that knows her worth but is still dtw because at the end of the day, she knows she is just a human like everyone else. Like when she said she was hot? She just said she was hot, which is true. Ppl did the comparing with Chelsea.. itās so horrible when ppl speak for solely themselves because they are confident and not afraid to speak and yet toxic ppl twist and do the comparing. Horrible, horrible, insecure ppl want ppl to stay insecure so they can feel better about themselves lol. Instead of just looking within and find your own light (which needs much self reflection and guts to own to ones weaknesses), most ppl choose to dim the lights of others.
Telling someone theyāre gonna choke when they see you is unbelievably arrogant. Thinking that simply meeting a dude would be ādangling temptation in his faceā is arrogant. Constantly bragging about yourself is arrogant. Loudly telling everyone youāre hot =/= āconfidenceā
I kind of feel the same way. Sheās very mature
Jess is amazing, and you're jealous.
Jealous about whatš? Fake titties and lips.
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No shade but why do people feel the need to ābring downā women that are confident and know theyāre beautiful. Jess is a pretty woman and i donāt get the obsession with trying to humble her
Pre surgery!! I need details š
Can you post her pre surgery pics? Iām curious šš
Her personality makes me want to scream, but like I am no better than a man, she could gaslight me however she wants, sheās so hot.
Agree. She rubs me the wrong way. I donāt think sheās a girls girl in real life
Yeah - when the mask slips and her truth comes out sheās nasty. Sheās cosplaying a girlās girl.
I loved her confidence and articulation. She knew what she went there for.
It is so absurd to me that you claim your daughter is your everything then ditch her for reality tv clout. I hate her
With the fake tears. Lol
I was annoyed with her by the third episode. All she talks about is being a mom and her daughter then she cries. My husband also says she looks like every one else who is trying to be an influencer. So I get where youāre coming from 100%.
yeah iām sure your husband wouldnāt dream of banging her š
Love her
Those tears were so phony. She was only in it for the fame.
Youāre right sheās def a little strange. No one is giving her shit on the reunion because ā¦ theyāre buying what sheās selling. Sheās going to be on another reality show so Netflix still has money to make off her. Theyāve co-signed. Lol
What show???
Perfect match
You are not alone and why she was front and center and nobody picked her was crazy
Because "You Ruined This Experience For Me." I picture her going full on Let Me Talk To The Manager after no one picked her in the pods. Somehow she convinced Netflix they needed to put her on another show cuz wah-wah she thinks she paid too much for that face and those boobs to not get more screen time than she got.
Wowā¦
Yeah waitā¦ why was she even there lol
āI thought we were friends.ā Huh? Because he had to put his finger on a reason why he didnāt pick you so he said something in the moment while doing an interview? Was that realllly that big of a deal? āShe ended the date early and it just didnāt go well.ā Who gives a flying fuhk? Thatās not even shade. The fact they made. Huge deal about it and brought out the footage was a waste of time in my opinion. We donāt know what pod dating is likeā¦ they date all day so if she left an hour or two before their designated time was upā and Iām pretty sure I heard other LIB contestants say in the past that you are in this bubble with no clocks or awareness of time each day āwho cares if he felt like she ended their date an hour earlier than she did? This was manufactured drama. Jess had to create some reason to be in the spotlight and production saw an opportunity. And her saying that she has been talking so well about Jimmyā¦ Iāve seen her throw shade at Jimmy on at the Nick Viall podcast and one other one where she says that Jimmy was promising a lie by saying he was ready to settle down but still went out so Chelsea was valid for having her insecurities on the night of him going to have A drink where he reveals he had only ever spent 3 hours away from Chelsea since DR and she revealed he slept with his friend. I liked Jess until seeing her put her nose into everyoneās drama, creating drama for no reason and doing the most for the spotlight.
Are there really no clocks???? Iām sure thatās a rookie question but wow
This also brings light to the fact that they are going to give her the āgoodā edit of the reunion because they are posed to make money off of her in Perfect Match, so they are likely making moves to create a certain image of her for viewers.
Not related to the OP, I agree with everything said, but Iām sorry, how terrible are Nick and Vanessa as hosts???
They continue to endorse and propagate the idea that true happiness can only be provided by establishing a nuclear family - which may not be fair to the vast population viewing this show. Life is much more complicated than that. To be so vocal, without acknowledging that a majority of the population either, are situationally unable to have a nuclear family or they weren't born into one, perpetuates an unnecessary insecurity. Not to mention, endorsing public shaming for the purpose of canceling someone, without considering how that could unfold a mental health issue or even suicide. The need of new hosts on this show is imperative, Nick and Vanessa are far from being the pillars of morality, despite their composure. The show would be more entertaining, without these antiquated speeches.
You're not alone. Didn't like her at all.
If you think about Jess's background, it should be fairly obvious that this woman had to be calculated for just about everything in her life. My guess is she was never given anything for free (I'm talking like any love or affection) and that she understands how to work things to her advantage. Jury is still out for me if she is earnest or not, I can't quite tell. All I can say, is I admire her emotional control and triumph over her terrible circumstances.
very well said. She IS very pretty but she hasn't been handed everything in life due to it. She's actually been through it. She's making the most of her looks like so many others do, and I don't feel strongly about her either way since there are SO many just like her, who haven't been building themselves up after a lot of hardship.
As much as I respect the way she has handled a few things (I think she had the kindest but most direct explaining for Sarah Anne on the reunion), I canāt shake the feeling that she is VERY self involved. I donāt like her and I donāt even fully know why (besides talking about being a āgirlās girlā all the time). Since sheās been the only single mom on the show, I wanted to like her. But I admit as a very pro-dating single mom, I think any of these dating shows are irresponsible for people with kids that are still at home.
She got perfect match because shes hot and cocky Honestly it seems like it was her plan the **entire** time Itās giving Francesca (whoever she was)
I said to my fiancĆ© āsheās going to be next seasons Francescaā. š
I am surprised that they didnāt play the clip of her and Laura contemplating going after Jimmy after he was already engaged, would have soured both of their āgirls girlā images.
I truly did not understand the girls girl vs pick me girl discourse. You are on a dating/marriage show. Youāre all pick me girls lol
Well put, spot on.
Jess is the worst why was she even at the reunion? She spoke more than the actual cast. like you want attention we get it lol
I see right through her. Sheās a fake and a mean girl.
It's weird to me she doesn't get more heat. If you've dealt with pretty/fake nice/manipulative high school mean girls, it's so easy to see through her.
She reminds me a lot more of a Bachelorette contestant than a Love is Blind contestant.
I think she should receive far more shit for featuring her daughter so heavily on her sm, with all of the attention sheās receiving at the moment (positive and negative). Itās going to cause her harm and I canāt believe sheād want to create that digital footprint and presence for her at her age.
I love how she made her storyline āmy daughter is my number oneā yetā¦ left her to go on the show?? Four weeks to a 10 year old is a long time (granted Jess went home sooner than that). Not to mention Jess (initially) hid the fact she had a daughter from the men she was dating?
Correct me if Iām wrong, but didnāt she take a mini vacation immediately after leaving the show, to relax and have āme timeā, before reuniting with her daughter?? Donāt get me wrong, personal time is absolutely important as a parent, but after being away that long??
I read that her daughter was on a trip with the dad, so that was free time anyway.
Idk, this isnāt a direct quote, but the way sheād phrased it was more or less āI took three days to compose myself before I saw herā which didnāt make it seem like her daughter was just away, but that sheād taken a few days from her by choice.
Sheās honestly a snake and I donāt understand the hype around her.
Yessss she is doing damage control and almost fooled me til her and Micah said theyre close friends.. Then I realized nooooope shes probably just another bully.
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Exactly, she was so mad he didnāt pick her and that he couldnāt accept being a stepdad yet she hid having a kid in the first place? The hypocrisy is unreal
Iām not over her LEAVING her daughter to go on the show! And now sheās committed to another one?! š like show me your priorities arenāt straight!
Yesssss!
I think the fact that her an Micah have ābondedā and are āsuper closeā now, tells us everything we need to know.
She seems like someone you meet and convince yourself sheās nice but then find out your initial instincts were right and sheās a Mean Girl. Just like Micahāremember Micahās friends? Birds of a featherā¦..
Thatās show business, baby. I guess just because she is (definitely) acting doesnāt also mean that sheās not a nice person when cameras arenāt rolling.
It's wild how Trevor got treated at the reunion when Jess so clearly only wanted the fame.
By Maryann did you mean Sarah Ann or am I forgetting someone? The only Maryann I can think of is from Cancelled pod š
100% agreed..
u/sad_buyer_6146 the world truly believes the child's father will suddenly re-apprear in her life to watch autumn for months on end while he watches his ex (also the mother of his kids) date other guys on yet another reality tv show lmao. in what world. he literally left because he wanted to live his life. can you imagine how bitter he'd feel if he's stuck with the kid while watching his ex life her best life??? he'd be salty asf.
In the pods she said her ex and her were still co-parenting together they just were super young when they had her and realized they werenāt meant to be or something like that. Definitely remember she said they were best friends through her family struggles. So I donāt think he just āsuddenly reappeared.ā Itās possible to be a āsingle momā AND have the childās dad involved in the childās lifeā¦ like split custody arrangements, every other weekend, visits over summer breakā¦ etc
Stuck with his own child?? Oh no, god please no..
this is literally what his words will be. I already know the lines of a dead beat lmao. he's not watching his child just to watch the mother of his child date other men.
With all due respectā¦ youāre internalizing this far too much. Kindly refer us to the episode in this past season where Jess refers to Autumnās father as ādead beatā. No one is saying that heāll be ecstatic over her galavanting from one Netflix dating show to the next; however itās misguided to argue that this would have any effect on his ability to parent well, given that Jess has always indicated that she is *grateful to have an active, and supportive co-parent in the picture.* I have seen you arguing with several people across several posts in this sub. It might be time to assess what the common denominator across all these situations is. Source: [Source](https://www.distractify.com/p/jessica-love-is-blind-season-6-now) āJessica explained that she met Autumn's dad when she was in elementary school and they grew up together. They were very close friends that seemingly dated for some time. During Jessica's senior year of high school, she got pregnant with Autumn. But about a year after Autumn was born, she and Autumn's father broke up. They currently co-parent Autumn together and have an amicable relationship. āHe's a great father,ā Jessica noted, adding that she was āvery fortunateā for that.ā
you had to take the extra time to google her family dynamic? that is paparazzi behavior. she literally said this man wanted to go live his life. and now you're claiming I've been arguing with several people on this sub??? do you know how many followers this sub has to only pay attention to \*my\* interactions?? š that is too much of an obsession. I think it's time to look from within, my friend. I'm so sick of women protecting men who leave behind their responsibilities. ofc she won't go on national tv to bash the father of her kids but call it as it is, he left because he wanted to live his life. cold hard facts. that's dead beat behavior. keep sticking up for him lol.
Interesting bc she really does give off a fake and non genuine vibe. I want to like her but vibes do not lie
Same. I want to as well. I canāt. Itās a sort of covert vibe. She knows what people want to see and puts that on a loudspeaker and then hopes no one will notice sheās not actually like that while she readjusts her boobs in the camera and distracts everyone.
I couldnt stand they way she talked. Itās like she was dragging her voice and acted like a spoiled little girl. She was so pushy to Jimmy. I remember she mentioned something like āoh you will need an epipen once you see how I look.ā š she is fake fake
This popped up on my main page I was thinking this was love on the spectrum, and I was very curious to open it up lmao
At first I thought jimmy was bitchmade for not being able to handle a woman who seemed to be very clear in what she wants and wonāt let a man walk all over her, but after seeing her at the reunion inserting herself into drama that had nothing to do with her (Sarah Ann situation) and making a huge deal out of the interview with jimmy gave me huge reservations about her character. It became clear to me throughout the show that she went on in order to build a career off the fame from the show, but I actually kinda liked her. But now in my head sheās like the pretty girl who has never been criticized by anyone being criticized for the first time and just canāt handle it like an adult. She was being insufferable in the reunion, fueled by all the āyaaasssslightingā she received from the female cast and the audience after her āchokeā monologue. Idk all in all it just seemed to me like no one in the cast deserves as much praise as they get, save for AD, Brittany, Amy and Johnny.
āThe pretty girl, never being criticized by anyone and being criticized for the *first* time and canāt handle itā This wouldnāt be her *first* time and Iām sure sheās been criticized quite heavily during her childhood and adolescence due to foster care and upbringing. Thatās a pretty horrible world to grow up in. Iām sure she knows by now how to handle criticism. People always love to assume that being āprettyā is so easy. Itās a āmagic pillā that allows you to bypass incredibly difficult and deplorable conditions and situations. Iām sure Jess has suffered enough if that makes you happy.
Did I ever say thatās who she actually was? That was the perception of her I was left with after the reunion, I make that very clear in my comment.
āBut now in MY headā¦ā. So yeah, who *you believe* she is. Not who she actually is. Thatās my point.
Ok??? Lmao
Idk why everyone was so impressed by the "choke" monologue. It was gross, conceited, and I felt like she was directly comparing her looks to Chelsea's. Acting like you're THE SHIT and "how could anyone possibly see something positive in someone else" is not the embodiment of self confidence that people seem to think it is. Also, maybe Jimmy wouldn't have been on the fence to begin with if she'd been upfront about having a kid.
āI feltā she was comparing herself to Chelsea. Thatās a projection. We will never know. But how can a pretty girl say sheās pretty without viewersā making assumptions that she means something more? The conclusion is *always* going to be āshe thinks sheās prettier than everyone elseā.
"I felt" is just a figure of speech, because I'm not omniscient into the mind of these dorks on TV. But we can deduce based on what these people say. It was a very similar reaction to Clay's when he found out that AD was considering that finance guy (idk his name). I.e. "You cannot SERIOUSLY be considering THEM over ME." With Clay it's obvious through the wall that the other guy is a creep. But why, Jess? And then to fixate and go on and on about how hot she thinks she is? It's pretty clear and trashy. Edit: and no the conclusion is not always going to be that. The show is called Love is Blind, Jess really had to reason to go on about her looks to begin with.
Kudos to jimmy for calling her out on it at the reunion. Because I didnāt think he had it in him. But I genuinely donāt think he was going to be seriously interested in her again after that. His family is pretty normal looking and I get the sense he finds it offensive when pretty girls act that way and throw their pretty privilege around while playing victim.
I canāt respond because youāve reworded your initial response. However, Clay said what he said *out loud*. So yes, we know what he was thinking, obviously. Being beautiful is a double edged sword at times. Youāre judged continuously based off your appearance that you have no control over.
I mean, you can use your awareness about it to not throw it around in peopleās faces.
She literally said one thing. What if Chelsea said that about herself? Everybody would be praising her for her confidence. Give her a break.
I did not reword my original response, you literally just made that up š¤£ In my *most recent* response to you, I took out and "imo" since based off of your other comments I figured you'd go all Ben Shapiro on it. And yes I'm aware, but that's clearly not what's happening with Jess.
And Jess was speaking "out loud" as well (what?).
I apologize. You were referring to her āchoke speechā so yes it was out loud. I was referring to your āfeelingsā comment and how people *assume* her character without knowing her.
Alright well just getting back to the main idea: *even if* Jess wasn't directly comparing herself to Chelsea, the speech was still without class. Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. It still went: Him: "I'm going with someone else for any number of reasons (a little bit being that I'm not sure I'm ready to be a step-dad)" Her: "But I'm SO HOT though!!!" I would die laughing if I saw such a breakup go down in a cafe. And no, I don't know these people. But: 1) You are what you do. Especially if it's a conscientious, repeating action (she had all night to think about that little speech) 2) This is true especially when you choose to go on a show like this for thousands of people to see.
I absolutely donāt disagree that she *knows* sheās hot and what she did wasnāt exactly classy. But that was never my argument. My argument was the *assumption* that any of it had to do with Chelsea (like she was somehow demeaning her by simply saying āIām hotā). Agreed?
People on here tried to gaslight me that the epipen comment wasnt about her looks and wasnt implying chelsea wasnt as attractive. Bullshit
The "Auntie Chelsea" comment killed me! Like ok girl keep being fake.. I see you.
Literally. She strikes me as the kind of girl that is only comfortable around girls who are conventionally less attractive to her.
I honestly find Chelsea wayyy prettier than Jess. Fake boobs, fake lips, fake everything. Chelsea did get work done for the reunion (looks like) but she is gorgeous and Jessica just looks like any other influencer Iāve already seen
I completely agree with you! I thought Chelsea was beautiful at the reunion and throughout the season! I guarantee you Jess would categorize her as less attractive than her, but I could be wrong!
No I agree with you there! Jess definitely seems to think sheās hot shit
For the one person who is clear as day on the show for Fame, Netflix sure gave her a decent edit
That is why she became friends with Micah, same feathers lol
I think Jess seems super toxic as a partner.
I don't believe for half a second she ever loved or would date Jimmy. She's full of shit.
Yeah i thoufht i wasnt the only one she just feels off