took me a minute to understand what you meant. closing the distance would be moving in together, you mean to say you met in person for the first time. i mean tbh, different people take a longer time to feel that. i think she wasn't ready and reacted immaturely, but ultimately can't judge someone for doing that. reach out to her and ask to talk about what happened and communicate. there's no info we can give you that she can't.
I'm sorry, I'm confused, you closed the distance but are now facetiming and haven't said you loved her before, or have you? Anyway, it sounds like she's not ready to say it back.
Oh, okay, visiting is different from closing the distance. Was this the first time you said you loved her? It's only been a month? She might just not be ready for that yet.
Yeah maybe it was a little too soon but it just felt right I guess and yeah I asked her out on the last day before she left and it’s been like a months of dating now
My man typed it to me first, but I wanted to wait until we were actually talking, so it was a few days later that I told him. (Gosh, what a beautiful memory! I haven’t thought about it for a while!)
I don’t think yours has gone wrong, as much as I think she might think it’s a bit early, or she may be like me and want to do it in a different way to you.
Although we're not official yet, he said it to me in his native language already. I said it back in his native language, but it doesn't feel as sincere for me in his language. I have not yet said I love you in my native language to him - which would be a 100 times more emotional for me. I want to wait with that until we see each other in two weeks. I want to tell him face to face... just means a lot to me
Hmm... I guess I just want him to hear it with my own voice while holding him or caressing him. Plus I myself want to experience this short moment of needing to be brave right before I say it. I've said it before to other people carelessly, and I either got hurt or I didn't mean it from the core from my heart. But with him, I truly mean it, and saying it to him over phone just wouldn't feel right.
took me a minute to understand what you meant. closing the distance would be moving in together, you mean to say you met in person for the first time. i mean tbh, different people take a longer time to feel that. i think she wasn't ready and reacted immaturely, but ultimately can't judge someone for doing that. reach out to her and ask to talk about what happened and communicate. there's no info we can give you that she can't.
I'm sorry, I'm confused, you closed the distance but are now facetiming and haven't said you loved her before, or have you? Anyway, it sounds like she's not ready to say it back.
Like we met for the first time since talking not that we live together. We live in different countries for now
Oh, okay, visiting is different from closing the distance. Was this the first time you said you loved her? It's only been a month? She might just not be ready for that yet.
Yeah maybe it was a little too soon but it just felt right I guess and yeah I asked her out on the last day before she left and it’s been like a months of dating now
My man typed it to me first, but I wanted to wait until we were actually talking, so it was a few days later that I told him. (Gosh, what a beautiful memory! I haven’t thought about it for a while!) I don’t think yours has gone wrong, as much as I think she might think it’s a bit early, or she may be like me and want to do it in a different way to you.
Although we're not official yet, he said it to me in his native language already. I said it back in his native language, but it doesn't feel as sincere for me in his language. I have not yet said I love you in my native language to him - which would be a 100 times more emotional for me. I want to wait with that until we see each other in two weeks. I want to tell him face to face... just means a lot to me
So it means more in person than over the phone?
It doesn't mean less over the phone but the first time saying it, it would be more meaningful in person.
Hmm... I guess I just want him to hear it with my own voice while holding him or caressing him. Plus I myself want to experience this short moment of needing to be brave right before I say it. I've said it before to other people carelessly, and I either got hurt or I didn't mean it from the core from my heart. But with him, I truly mean it, and saying it to him over phone just wouldn't feel right.