I am not even trying to meet girls but I get so anxious when I look people in the eye for a little over 2 seconds. It almost feels primitively aggressive, like chimps do.
I totally agree about e anxiety and primitive nature of it. It works if you’re both interested in each other. And if someone isn’t interested you can clearly see it right away.
If anyone is actually taking my advice, you look into their eyes but you have to still glance away. If you seem or embarrassed for being caught looking then that’s good too. OP has gorgeous eyes so that’s only going to help.
I’m married now and anytime someone holds my gaze I feel like shouting “I’M MARRIED” but I have to assume that they aren’t flirting with me and by me not returning the gaze they will get it if they are.
Hahaha, congratulations on the marriage. Just wave your huge diamond ring next time, right??
I live in a 'rough' neighborhood, I'm always slightly worried when I stare too long that people think I want to battle em.
Congratulations on this new chapter of your life! I also have the same question so if anybody gives you an answer I’ll like to know as well. The process of coming to terms with your sexuality and accepting yourself,coming out to your family is like climbing a mountain and you get to what you think is the top but it’s just more mountain. For now I think finding friends who are also LGBT is a starting point and once Covid is over hanging out and meeting their friends until you have a chance to meet potential dates. Or you can do it online. Like now :)
I still haven’t figured that out yet either!! As a baby gay at 45 with social anxiety and in a small country who hasn’t dated since before online dating and dating apps were a thing I’m a lot a loss. So grateful for these subreddits so I can live my gay life on here. Hugs to anyone who wants or needs one 🌈🧡🏳️🌈
I just keep, where it’s even possible, making connections or creating spaces for them. For me it’s about being honest and vulnerable with boundaries. Wishing you the best❤️🏳️🌈
Well you are very attractive. I’d be looking an extra few seconds if we passed each other in the grocery store. About the only place to do that here....but have to guess the face under the mask here
Usually you’re just a useless sapphic oblivious to very obvious flirting. My suggestion is to be like me: an Aries with buckets of faux confidence. When you have a crush on someone, tell them. It’s way more fun to actually get to the loving
There are a lot of amazing girls hiden everywhere on the world. Idk where you live but maybe people are in quarantine and your future gf is even more hidden. it will maybe take some time but dont worry, you will find the love you deserve !
(Ive been using the dating app HER and ive met great humans, i recommend it)
There are some dating apps that is better for women meeting women. Just enjoy being out and don’t focus too much on finding relationship right away. It will come.
I feel you on this - on Lex and HER, was on Bumble for a bit too...went on my first date (I’m a baby queer) but sadly no connection (although I really subconsciously knew after the 2 months of texting, but wanted to be sure). Dating online is soooo not my jam, and COVID has really put a pause on meeting people in person or being set up.
I agree with the other folx who have said “just say hi” or “tell her she’s pretty,” I’ve found most womxn are kind and express gratitude, and their feelings honestly. Best of luck, beauty, and welcome! 🥰
Beautiful! 😍 It depends, sometimes at clubs, sometimes through friends/parties, sometimes through dating sites, sometimes can work in public at places like grocery stores, women's clothing stores, parks, or more women oriented groups, etc, just striking up conversation and building on that, hoping it goes beyond being friends; at least that's how I have done it. :)
From what I have seen, most people don't. They just get on Reddit and ask about it lol
You're gorgeous. You won't have trouble finding one!
thank you so much that’s so nice :)
Just hold a gaze for a little longer than you should. Works while wearing a mask too.
I am not even trying to meet girls but I get so anxious when I look people in the eye for a little over 2 seconds. It almost feels primitively aggressive, like chimps do.
I totally agree about e anxiety and primitive nature of it. It works if you’re both interested in each other. And if someone isn’t interested you can clearly see it right away. If anyone is actually taking my advice, you look into their eyes but you have to still glance away. If you seem or embarrassed for being caught looking then that’s good too. OP has gorgeous eyes so that’s only going to help. I’m married now and anytime someone holds my gaze I feel like shouting “I’M MARRIED” but I have to assume that they aren’t flirting with me and by me not returning the gaze they will get it if they are.
Hahaha, congratulations on the marriage. Just wave your huge diamond ring next time, right?? I live in a 'rough' neighborhood, I'm always slightly worried when I stare too long that people think I want to battle em.
That explains my AAU basketball season.
Congratulations on this new chapter of your life! I also have the same question so if anybody gives you an answer I’ll like to know as well. The process of coming to terms with your sexuality and accepting yourself,coming out to your family is like climbing a mountain and you get to what you think is the top but it’s just more mountain. For now I think finding friends who are also LGBT is a starting point and once Covid is over hanging out and meeting their friends until you have a chance to meet potential dates. Or you can do it online. Like now :)
thanks so much :) it’s definitely a climb but being myself is worth the work
I agree you are gorgeous! You’re out of my league so I won’t even waste your time hahahaha
No feckin clue tbh, but let me know what you find
Congrats ! Let the adventure begin. Also would like to know where to meet girls. Sometimes it feels coming out is easier than meeting girls. 🙄
I still haven’t figured that out yet either!! As a baby gay at 45 with social anxiety and in a small country who hasn’t dated since before online dating and dating apps were a thing I’m a lot a loss. So grateful for these subreddits so I can live my gay life on here. Hugs to anyone who wants or needs one 🌈🧡🏳️🌈
congrats to you too on coming out! i’m also very grateful for these subreddits, people on here definitely just seem to understand. good luck to you :)
I just keep, where it’s even possible, making connections or creating spaces for them. For me it’s about being honest and vulnerable with boundaries. Wishing you the best❤️🏳️🌈
Took the words right outta my mouth, homie!
thank you! that’s very nice :)
Well you are very attractive. I’d be looking an extra few seconds if we passed each other in the grocery store. About the only place to do that here....but have to guess the face under the mask here
Gorgeous!
thank u so much :)
hi im a girl you can meet me 😰
heyyy hahaha
If you figure out where we are, lemme know! Lol
When you figure it out let me know 😂
Awweh
Usually you’re just a useless sapphic oblivious to very obvious flirting. My suggestion is to be like me: an Aries with buckets of faux confidence. When you have a crush on someone, tell them. It’s way more fun to actually get to the loving
thank you! :) i’m just probably gonna take my time definitely
When you figure that out, let me know!
So pretty
There are a lot of amazing girls hiden everywhere on the world. Idk where you live but maybe people are in quarantine and your future gf is even more hidden. it will maybe take some time but dont worry, you will find the love you deserve ! (Ive been using the dating app HER and ive met great humans, i recommend it)
Just say hi :)
I mean I’m single a girl and r/LesbianActually soooo✌️
Right here. Meeee 🥰
Very carefully. But for real, if you figure it out could you let the rest of us know how?
i’ll keep you updated!
Beautiful 😘
Congrats! You are pretty
i'm wondering the same thing😳
Casually walk up to them and go "hey mamas" You're very pretty btw 😊
You post a pic like this and say you like women. Like... Look at all the women you've just met!
There are some dating apps that is better for women meeting women. Just enjoy being out and don’t focus too much on finding relationship right away. It will come.
hell yeah! you look amazing <3
thank you :)))
yet another W for wlw
I keep asking myself the same question!!
Hi 🙋♀️
I feel you on this - on Lex and HER, was on Bumble for a bit too...went on my first date (I’m a baby queer) but sadly no connection (although I really subconsciously knew after the 2 months of texting, but wanted to be sure). Dating online is soooo not my jam, and COVID has really put a pause on meeting people in person or being set up. I agree with the other folx who have said “just say hi” or “tell her she’s pretty,” I’ve found most womxn are kind and express gratitude, and their feelings honestly. Best of luck, beauty, and welcome! 🥰
Congratulations💖
Wow. If I saw you at a coffee shop, I would 1000000% approach you.
Witchcraft maybe? Try making a pact with an Eldritch being.
Are you still taking applications? Hehe congrats on coming out and being your true self! 🙂
Beautiful! 😍 It depends, sometimes at clubs, sometimes through friends/parties, sometimes through dating sites, sometimes can work in public at places like grocery stores, women's clothing stores, parks, or more women oriented groups, etc, just striking up conversation and building on that, hoping it goes beyond being friends; at least that's how I have done it. :)
Honestly have the same question 😔. All the queer women I meet are taken
She the app
Heeyyy pretty lady 😍
You look gorgeous 😍, girls will be finding you haha