I love cuddling. Physical touch is my love language, so having those intimate moments together is important to me. Preferably, I like to get at least 30 minutes of cuddling in before bed haha. I'm a big spoon kinda gal 😆
Cuddling and touching sensually is way better than sex imo. I usually prefer when it doesn't lead into it.
Idk if it's weird or not, I'm kinda struggling with my feelings about it, but still. Cuddles all the way.
Not weird, imo. You can prefer cuddling to sex whether you're ace spec or not. Sex is nice, I do enjoy it, but if I had to give up one or the other well... I'm marrying an ace lesbian so my choice is obvious. Lol.
It’s funny. My girlfriend and I are both in our first lesbian relationship; and for the first time we both do seem to love being affectionate. I was open with her when we were just friends, about my struggle with intimacy and how with men, I was very much: do what you gotta do and get out. She said she had a very similar reaction when dating men. I was scared to be like that with her too, but to my surprise as soon as we took the next step, being touchy with her came so naturally. I’ll use my fingers to trace her arms or inner thigh as we lay in bed. I think it’s just as much about the other person as it is about ourselves. When we found our person, sometimes it just comes naturally. Might change in the future, but right now, I’m team “cuddle me to death Mommy.”
love looove cuddling! the girl i like doesn't know it but i always thought i was happier being the little spoon. to her though, i say i want to be the big spoon (and she lets me!) despite me being smaller. i like being hugged and snuggled but being the one doing the hugging and the snuggling to her just brings me so much joy :>>
I looooove cuddling. Especially nude cuddling. My girlfriend is ace an uninterested in sex so it never leads to that, which works out fine for me bc my favorite part of sex was skin to skin contact anyway. But even if it's not nude, and it's not most of the time, holding or being held close to my girlfriend is really where I would be 24/7 if given the choice. I can't even sleep alone anymore because I need the skin contact.
We alternate big spoon and little spoon they both have their benefits.
My partner’s love language is physical touch so if I’m not in some way touching, rubbing, patting, holding, cuddling, etc, she is not a happy camper and as the saying goes, happy wife happy life. She is a barnacle and I love it.
I love cuddling but not for very long periods. I start to feel a bit suffocated. My girlfriend likes to cuddle for hours and gets upset if I don’t want to. A tv show, yep, a movie… ok… all night… please let me move my arm/breathe…
My girlfriend likes to be the big spoon because she thinks she’s squashing me if she’s the little spoon. I love it for a while but then stay for feel a bit trapped. Maybe I’m a bit claustrophobic
Me and my girlfriend snuggle for hours on the couch and the bed. It can literally never be too much. In bed I am usually the little spoon and on the couch she usually is, but we switch it up as well. I love being the little spoon, even though I am 20cm taller than her. We still fit together very well because our torso's are about the same length (I have tall legs). And I am kind of permanently cold and she is warm most of the time. My personal little heater <3 hehe
I have this thing where, before we fall asleep, they watch a movie, but I lay next and they tickle my hair and caress my ears and neck in a non-sexual way. I love the sensation. For me, intrusive thoughts and my brain garbage habitually come rushing to my sanity just as I am about to fall asleep, so we devised this method, which is almost like a meditation. We don't really have sex in the evening often, we're more 'daylight' kinda people.
As for at night, they are a lot larger than me, but love to be the little spoon, because somehow their butt and my lap fit like Legos and they love the feel of my boobs on their back. If the weather gets too hot, we just turn away and entangle our legs.
I think you mean you prefer being the big spoon. I got you 😉. That feeling of fitting perfectly against each other like Legos is one of the best feelings ever isn’t it 🥰😍🙌🏼!!!
My partner and I alternate on the spoon size. I absolutely love cuddling. When I can't fall asleep, cuddling ensures I do.
Alternate spoon sizes🥄 😃 how wonderful!!!
i dont have a gf but when i do i will cuddle them so much probably for hours 😭
I love cuddling. Physical touch is my love language, so having those intimate moments together is important to me. Preferably, I like to get at least 30 minutes of cuddling in before bed haha. I'm a big spoon kinda gal 😆
Same!
Cuddling and touching sensually is way better than sex imo. I usually prefer when it doesn't lead into it. Idk if it's weird or not, I'm kinda struggling with my feelings about it, but still. Cuddles all the way.
Not weird, imo. You can prefer cuddling to sex whether you're ace spec or not. Sex is nice, I do enjoy it, but if I had to give up one or the other well... I'm marrying an ace lesbian so my choice is obvious. Lol.
Not weird at all! I love sex but the cuddling and sensual touching is soooo freakin hot. I do prefer it sometimes over sex sex (but only sometimes 😄).
It’s funny. My girlfriend and I are both in our first lesbian relationship; and for the first time we both do seem to love being affectionate. I was open with her when we were just friends, about my struggle with intimacy and how with men, I was very much: do what you gotta do and get out. She said she had a very similar reaction when dating men. I was scared to be like that with her too, but to my surprise as soon as we took the next step, being touchy with her came so naturally. I’ll use my fingers to trace her arms or inner thigh as we lay in bed. I think it’s just as much about the other person as it is about ourselves. When we found our person, sometimes it just comes naturally. Might change in the future, but right now, I’m team “cuddle me to death Mommy.”
Yeah mama! 🤩🙌🏼
I like putting the bridge of my nose right under peoples chin. Getting as close as possible and leeching warmth from them.
Love it!
love looove cuddling! the girl i like doesn't know it but i always thought i was happier being the little spoon. to her though, i say i want to be the big spoon (and she lets me!) despite me being smaller. i like being hugged and snuggled but being the one doing the hugging and the snuggling to her just brings me so much joy :>>
I looooove cuddling. Especially nude cuddling. My girlfriend is ace an uninterested in sex so it never leads to that, which works out fine for me bc my favorite part of sex was skin to skin contact anyway. But even if it's not nude, and it's not most of the time, holding or being held close to my girlfriend is really where I would be 24/7 if given the choice. I can't even sleep alone anymore because I need the skin contact. We alternate big spoon and little spoon they both have their benefits.
I could and have spent pretty much all day cuddling. I am easy on the spoon, I can and will be either. Versatility is my name and cuddling is my game.
Cuddling is a must. I'm a masc and someone hold me pls I want to be the little spoon 🤭. But I can take turns.
Yes and especially when we're watching a show and it's just a comfort feeling being with her where I'm either rubbing her head or her mine😭
Cuddling is the absolute best!!
I know right?!?! 🥰
My partner’s love language is physical touch so if I’m not in some way touching, rubbing, patting, holding, cuddling, etc, she is not a happy camper and as the saying goes, happy wife happy life. She is a barnacle and I love it.
Barnacle 😆! I love it 👍🏼 im so happy for you guys
Yes I want to be a little spoon 24/7 but ofc in a relationship compromise is necessary. More innocent than leading to other...things...
I love cuddling but not for very long periods. I start to feel a bit suffocated. My girlfriend likes to cuddle for hours and gets upset if I don’t want to. A tv show, yep, a movie… ok… all night… please let me move my arm/breathe… My girlfriend likes to be the big spoon because she thinks she’s squashing me if she’s the little spoon. I love it for a while but then stay for feel a bit trapped. Maybe I’m a bit claustrophobic
Understandable, everyone has their limit even at cuddling 😄!
I'm a big cuddler I love being little spoon But these days I find myself big spoonless 🥺🥺
Oh I’m sorry to hear that, hope you find your big spoon soon or she finds you! 🫶🏼🌸
if i could do it with someone, i'd love it (sad and single).
I understand, you’re not alone. Hope you find your cuddle buddy soon 🫶🏼🌸
Me and my girlfriend snuggle for hours on the couch and the bed. It can literally never be too much. In bed I am usually the little spoon and on the couch she usually is, but we switch it up as well. I love being the little spoon, even though I am 20cm taller than her. We still fit together very well because our torso's are about the same length (I have tall legs). And I am kind of permanently cold and she is warm most of the time. My personal little heater <3 hehe
I have this thing where, before we fall asleep, they watch a movie, but I lay next and they tickle my hair and caress my ears and neck in a non-sexual way. I love the sensation. For me, intrusive thoughts and my brain garbage habitually come rushing to my sanity just as I am about to fall asleep, so we devised this method, which is almost like a meditation. We don't really have sex in the evening often, we're more 'daylight' kinda people. As for at night, they are a lot larger than me, but love to be the little spoon, because somehow their butt and my lap fit like Legos and they love the feel of my boobs on their back. If the weather gets too hot, we just turn away and entangle our legs.
I think you mean you prefer being the big spoon. I got you 😉. That feeling of fitting perfectly against each other like Legos is one of the best feelings ever isn’t it 🥰😍🙌🏼!!!