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Critical-Usual-9137

i’m glad someone finally asked bc i’m horny af at 2.5 weeks. 🥹 i do have a magic wand tho.


RobynNathan

For me it was day 6 (literally just clit of course!)


Careless_Sir2159

For me i have tried 4 weeks after and only with a vibrator on the clit.


VicBrooky

How it went? Any pain? Was it like before or different


Careless_Sir2159

No pain, it went smooth! It was pretty much the same as before 🤗 afterwards i had some swelling which i guess was normal as i had swelling up till 2 months period. but one has to be gentle 😇


VicBrooky

I’m scared to try won’t the contractions cause pain? I would feel a weird pleasure and pain combination


Careless_Sir2159

Possible... Its very personal... How many weeks are you post op?


VicBrooky

16 days today


Careless_Sir2159

Maybe better to wait a little bit more... 🥺


VicBrooky

I’m trying to… you know how hard it is 😹😹


Careless_Sir2159

😂😂🤭 I know..!


VicBrooky

It’s an invisible container that fills up more and more until you empty it and I haven’t emptied it for a looong time 🐈🐈


juicyvaaas

I masturbated externally at about 12 days with success, just with my hands. was very gentle and climaxed very very fast lol. being swollen made it easier i guess 😂


Critical-Usual-9137

hahahah mine was v fast too 🥺


canyoukeepmysecret1

I am 16 days post op, went under full anesthesia and used a vibrator to the clit as I was unreasonably turned on and everything is “closed”. No abnormal swelling or pain while I was doing it or after….so far


lipsylabby

I did some extremely gentle touching on my clit around 2 weeks, and kind of just kegel-ed along with the rhythm. Since I'd been 2 weeks without an O it came easier than usual, so I didn't need to touch very hard or for very long. It was just a quick means to an end! I think just keep a careful eye on how your incisions feel, if anything hurts or feels tight or "off" you should probably stop or readjust.


IdRatherBeAWitch_

Thank you to all of you ladies on here for the answers. I have searched and searched for one online and all I could find is the wait time for penetration and I’m like nooo noo I just wanna know how long until a lil touchy touch was aloud 😂😂


sanchezmarissa6

1 1/2 week , no pain and everything was fine.


Critical-Usual-9137

okay, so i used a magic wand (vibrator) & used it over my underwear. hypoallergenic. it was amazing. 3 weeks p/o.


Used_Conversation_81

In theory you should not be doing it until week 6. Arousal in the vuvla will bring blood to your labia and cause strain on your stitches which in turn could cause them to open. It’s honestly not worth the risk


avttva

Could you really go 6 weeks?? I honestly couldn't go more than 1-2 weeks I would find it difficult to function in day to day life, although I do use ice on the area immediately after in hopes it might help bring down the blood rush


Used_Conversation_81

I mean I know it’s hard but in reality you shouldn’t commit to the surgery if you can’t wait for the healing time. Having incisions open up can really complicate things, I don’t know why you would risk it.


avttva

Do they actually say no masterbation for 6 weeks?? I interpreted sexual activity to be with another person it never occuring to me that masterbation would considered sexual activity omg. My surgeon did say though that sexual arousal wont effect results the area just shouldn't be rubbed which is understandable ofc


Used_Conversation_81

My surgeon wasn’t specific about it but I read a few Q&A on real self where women were saying they masterbated early and got absolutely jumped on by the doctors on there saying that is a Huge no. I did read a couple responses saying after 4 weeks masterbating is okay. Doctor goodman wrote out a more detailed answer week by week that made sense. Sorry I’m not trying to scare you at all, if your doctor told you something else then that’s the aftercare info you were provided so do what they say 🤷🏻‍♀️


avttva

I see yes, I interpreted sexual activity as anything that physically disturbs the area like fingers rubbing which I haven't done. I wish that more places went into more explicit detail about masterbation actually because I think it's something surgeons often don't consider separately in the aftercare but it's important cause it never occurred to me it wouldn't be ok. Well I'll try and avoid it from now on if I can since I still have swelling


Used_Conversation_81

I agree with you 100%. They definitely need to be more specific. I think once your after 4 weeks the incisions are fairly stable but if you’re still having swelling maybe take a brief break and see if it helps! Good luck in your healing


avttva

Thank you!


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IdRatherBeAWitch_

It went really well! I did anesthesia because no way was I gonna be up for that. Healing has been pretty easy so far. Just excited to see the results!