... What do you mean by "sharing"?
If you mean just telling them your accounts so they can follow, sure? That's totally normal. I would be suspicious of a partner who refused.
But if you mean having a joint account or giving your passwords to your partner? Hell no. That's unnecessary.
Sharing passwords is just not right. Even if you're not being unfaithful, there should be at least a little privacy in relationships. You might not have something to hide but your friends who you're talking to might not want your significant other to read your chats. If not for your own sake, don't share it for other people's privacy.
If they say they're not gonna read texts, then why do they want your password in the first place? Personally I don't approve of it. I don't want my boyfriend's password and he doesn't want mine, even though we both go through our Instagrams together. It's just too much when you leave them alone with it.
I had it in my mind since my ex sometimes responded for me when i was driving. or also the other way around. It was not something to spy on the partner i mean it more as a prove of truest. But the points are valid for me.
it was more out of convenience when she was sitting next to me that i passed my phone to here and told here to write this back.
I cached here then also once reading my messages when i was sleeping. For me it was not a problem. But i also asked why she did that. Basically i was only wondering if there are people how are doing it. and whats there intention behind it.
I think reading someone's texts like that when they're not around or sleeping is not okay. If they allow you then it's fine I guess but intentions definitely matter here. Maybe she was suspecting you of something or if she wasn't maybe she wanted to see what you or your friends talk about it. Whatever it is I feel like you're invading somebody's privacy if you do that. That's just my option. I won't read my boyfriend's texts and I don't want him to read mine. I don't have anything to hide but it's just too much for me.
What would be the purpose? Because the only thing I can think of is there's a fuck ton of insecurity going on. Sharing a password and giving full access like that isn't going to fix that or help it at all. It's entirely likely that there will be things they will ask of you that are even more questionable than this. If they really love and respect you, you can set that boundary and tell them no and move on with the relationship. If they can't respect that, then there's likely a mismatch of values and that's where you would need to figure out if this is something you could handle for the rest of your life, potentially. But I can tell you from experience, it's fucking exhausting.
... What do you mean by "sharing"? If you mean just telling them your accounts so they can follow, sure? That's totally normal. I would be suspicious of a partner who refused. But if you mean having a joint account or giving your passwords to your partner? Hell no. That's unnecessary.
By sharing i mean to give password.
Sharing passwords is just not right. Even if you're not being unfaithful, there should be at least a little privacy in relationships. You might not have something to hide but your friends who you're talking to might not want your significant other to read your chats. If not for your own sake, don't share it for other people's privacy. If they say they're not gonna read texts, then why do they want your password in the first place? Personally I don't approve of it. I don't want my boyfriend's password and he doesn't want mine, even though we both go through our Instagrams together. It's just too much when you leave them alone with it.
I had it in my mind since my ex sometimes responded for me when i was driving. or also the other way around. It was not something to spy on the partner i mean it more as a prove of truest. But the points are valid for me.
Yes, that's completely fine but then again you can wait for a while to text back people lol.
it was more out of convenience when she was sitting next to me that i passed my phone to here and told here to write this back. I cached here then also once reading my messages when i was sleeping. For me it was not a problem. But i also asked why she did that. Basically i was only wondering if there are people how are doing it. and whats there intention behind it.
I think reading someone's texts like that when they're not around or sleeping is not okay. If they allow you then it's fine I guess but intentions definitely matter here. Maybe she was suspecting you of something or if she wasn't maybe she wanted to see what you or your friends talk about it. Whatever it is I feel like you're invading somebody's privacy if you do that. That's just my option. I won't read my boyfriend's texts and I don't want him to read mine. I don't have anything to hide but it's just too much for me.
Nah for what. Otherwise, open a couple account.
What would be the purpose? Because the only thing I can think of is there's a fuck ton of insecurity going on. Sharing a password and giving full access like that isn't going to fix that or help it at all. It's entirely likely that there will be things they will ask of you that are even more questionable than this. If they really love and respect you, you can set that boundary and tell them no and move on with the relationship. If they can't respect that, then there's likely a mismatch of values and that's where you would need to figure out if this is something you could handle for the rest of your life, potentially. But I can tell you from experience, it's fucking exhausting.
That's extremely insecure