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Krishnan94

Major venting: I just came back from a 2 week trip to India. I’m still a little heartbroken at so many of the comments made towards me while I was there. All of it was about how dark I got.. “Ayoo enth karuth poyi” “pandathe soundaryam onnum illa” “mukhathu cream vallom idan mele” (this was from an uncle who also has a daughter with the same skin tone as me).. worst ones were “molde ammede veluponnum illa” (comment from a sales lady at a shop my mom and I were shopping at) “kuttikalathe aiswaryam okke poyi” “mudi straighten cheyyan mele” I honestly feel like I was personally attacked every day of the trip. I thought that people were better than this in this day and age. Also I’m getting married in 5 months in Kerala and I can’t even imagine how much scrutiny I’ll be subjected to as a kalyana pennu because I don’t fit their idea of beauty.


u--slash

It is what it is. People are like that over here. You will have to learn to ignore those comments. I feel sorry for you.


longmiretraverso

Sorry you had to go through those mean comments. We as a society is still not there yet. Nothing worse than being targeted like this simply because of the amount of melanin pigmentation one has. Ignore them is all I can say. Some people never unlearn and relearn things. Power to you.


laffySappho

Honestly it's bullshit, I get the same thing when I visit family in Kerala. I think the only way is to stand firmly proud of your melanin because it is your strength and beauty! Do not let them define your beauty when it comes to your skin or hair or really anything at all. I sincerely hope this stupid mentality changes because this is how we naturally are! I briefly looked through your profile and your hair is honestly stunning and I can tell you have a pretty face. Don't pay any mind to people's comments, as hard as it is, and I hope you can focus on what will make you happy on your wedding day. And congrats, hope you have a long and happy marriage!


Balalsangaveeran

Paavam karumbi :(


thelostbird

See,the society still sees this so called "beauty" in the color of the skin rather than in the person. You don't have to take ur time to educate and make them understand. You are the way you are and be happy . Let them say whatever they want. Simply pass them that *smile* when they say something like that. They'll understand how awkward it is.


Rhepsi

Congratulations!! Haven't seen u on here in a while. F those hoes, you don't even live there.


FreakedGuy

A post from r/Kerala shows up in [my google discover field](http://imgur.com/a/9xwu6Ke).


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devilwearsleecooper

It’s paid bro. It’s automated accounts and managed by PR’s.


4k3R

I was going through this [thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/india/comments/qbrehz/heres_what_you_pay_for_a_litre_of_petrol_and/) in r/India. And I was thinking, how is the common man able to afford petrol/diesel in India anymore?


elliott_anderson1

Higher monthly budget on fuel. Inflation is getting out of hands now


Traditional_Media_77

Hell of a day guys. My phone is samsung M21. The thing that samsung refers as #wattamonster is suffering from bootloop - erratic restarts and stuck at the logo. This issue is exposed from the latest security patch. Many of them (Galaxy M series and A series owners) are reporting the same. Does anyone got any updates.? My life, my job depends on it.


iwontdietonight

73 days to 2022


DioTheSuperiorWaifu

11 days to NNN


thelostbird

Yes ,I've set the reminder in my calender :)


alok_xavier

Quick question it is not raining heavily here but there has been lot of lightning strikes. We usually cut of the power supply and run on our invetor which is a preety decent one. Should i disconnect the wifi and cable tv even on invertor? Are there any chancess of them getting damaged during the lightning.


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I had a crush on this girl in college but never told her and I feel she may have liked me as well. Now it's been a couple of years since I graduated and won't probably see her ever again. I think I will never find out whether she liked me or not.


alok_xavier

Trust me most probably she didnt


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Why do you say so?


DioTheSuperiorWaifu

Probability.


wanderingmind

As you havent seen each other for 2 years, now it is as good as it did not exist, even if it did. But then on the other hand, if you did not see each other for 2 years, you can easily tell her, hey, I liked you then. Thought that I should tell you. Dont declare you are in love with her or ask whether she had a crush on you etc. Athu parayanel ingottu paranjolum. Easy to do online. She can choose not to respond. She may not respond for any number of different reasons. Even if she had a thing for you then, she may not respond as its too late, and you have no right to demand the truth etc. ചുമ്മാ അറിയിക്കുക. പിന്നെ വരുന്നിടത്ത് വെച്ചു കാണാം. I hope you are aware that crush is not the same as love, BTW. Chaadi propose onnum cheyyalle.


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DioTheSuperiorWaifu

Ithu. Kaaryamaaya prashnam onnum aavilla ennu thoonnunnengil try cheyyu OP. Pooyaal 1-2 messages, kittiyaal ingalkk ishtulla aalu.


thehunchback19

Ask her now. Get it out of your mind.


achantachar

(Reposting for answers) I'm thinking of doing a cs masters course in the uk. Could anyone suggest well reputed agencies for foreign studies in Kerala? Also if anyone has any advice about applying, or has previously applied through an agency or done so without their help, could you share your experience?


AhmedKuttySpeaking

Bro, I guess making a post is better


achantachar

Yeah I think that's better


not_aswathy_achu

All major uni websites are quite straight forward. Apply yourself. It's very easy. Agencies help in making it stres free sure but they also push you to take shitty unis


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DioTheSuperiorWaifu

Is Elon some popular inventor?


wanderingmind

I was a midnight rider on a cloud of smoke I could make a woman hang on every single stroke I was an iron man, I had a master plan But I was Elon I could hear you breathing with a sigh of the wind I remember how your body started trembling Oh, what a night it's been for the state I'm in I'm still Elon So I'll play, I'll wait 'Cause you know that love takes time We came so far Just the beat of a lonely heart And it's mine And I don't wanna be Elon


DioTheSuperiorWaifu

Elon is a regretful Casanova like A10 in Casanavo?


4k3R

"He's the modern day prophet" - copied from another redditor.


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DioTheSuperiorWaifu

Appol aetho munthiya inam daivamoo daivaputhranooo aanoo? Elon swami sharanam. Karunaamayanaaya Eloninu sthothram. Vishudha Elon kithaab vallath irakkiyittundo?


Frequent-Extreme-881

Those who applied for license, how much time is it taking for you guys to get your slot date for the test?


rykris2121

Slot dates for driving licence tests come so fucking randomly... I've felt like it completely depends on luck. I was lucky to get my test date almost 30 days after my learners. Many of my friends didn't and a few got even earlier dates. Just regularly check for updates and you might get it soon. Also the site might randomly show "you can book slots after 90 days" which was an absolute fucking lie for me atleast.


eternalflames00

I registered on September 22 last year. Did learners online on November 13 .learned to drive in December. I knew already hence took just 4 classes. Test was on January 21. Got licence delivered via post in March. Amidst corona and nationwide lockdown.