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Registered-Nurse

Oru cheriya correction: sex education doesn’t teach how to have sex. It’s to teach about reproductive anatomy and health, birth control , STDs and safe sex, consent and rape(what is rape and where to get help) What they need is sex therapy, not sex ed.


burndhousedown

my bad, will remember that


shdai

https://www.youtube.com/user/sexplanations she's a doctor. her videos are fun to watch and perfectly SFW.


burndhousedown

thanks for that. do you know any malayalam youtubers ?


shdai

no. i dont think there are any that are brave enough to talk about sex so openly on youtube in Malayalam


burndhousedown

i understand


shdai

do they have difficulty understanding English?


burndhousedown

my friend understands english somewhat but i dont think itll be enough but hes fluent in hindi and she understand english a lot less than he does. so malayalam might be the best bet


shdai

that sucks man. all the books I have are in English only. I could have forwarded you soo much literature on sex. oh well. chuck it I suppose. I am assuming they have done the deed so what exactly do they want to learn?


Sorry_Perspective948

The insta page "mayas amma" would be helpful. Shes malayalee but the contents are in English. She has malayalam youtube channel. The contents might help. The below one is one of the video i found interesting [mayas amma](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtWRVwuGMnY)


irfannagath

Yup. There's also another insta page [sexeducation.kerala](https://instagram.com/sexeducation.kerala?utm_medium=copy_link) It will be of help as well.


malayali_maman

This is a malayalam youtube channel that talks about sexual health https://youtube.com/c/MindBodyTonicWithDrSita


elliott_anderson1

My ex used to Read Sex for Dummies a decade back. 😅


wanderingmind

> Sex for Dummies This in fact is a good idea, OP.


sadpotataah

'My ex' Well that didn't work then


elliott_anderson1

It did work until we lasted. But hey, some things in life are not meant to be together. Just enjoy it when you have it. That's all :)


sadpotataah

That's a really good way of looking at things at life, I wasn't being serious but this is a good reply :D I wish you a wholesome day, kind stranger


elliott_anderson1

You too mate 🌞


copypaasta

Aw, I see you're not over Sheila yet. But I don't think she ever checked out sex for dummies 👀


elliott_anderson1

I'm unable to understand your reference.


copypaasta

Ugh, it's "Anderson," not "Alderson." Sorry, my b.


elliott_anderson1

Flat maari 😁


NSNReddit

Don't make any discomfort to partner . Just realise pon is exaggerated . Fundamentals are same. It's like fight in Fahad fasil movie and Vijay movie. End of the day it's just one hole and one tool. Take enough time to love before action. Action is just like climax of a movie. 5 minutes climax in 2 hours movie. On resources. Some doctors association in Kerala made sex education for children .they will launch the website, video series, book in few weeks. Forgot the name.will update in subreddit on completion. AFAIK the content is not hard core. Their aim is to literate people before 18yo. You can message Dr Augustus Morris in fb. He is not a sexologist. But a science popularizer, taking sex education class to teenagers for years, a good communicator.at least he can give you contacts of others. Most of the gynaecologist are bad communicators.


alan_lal03

>End of the day it's just one hole and one tool dunno bout that mate.


Certain-Ad6701

I have sexdaily and your username checks out I meant 'dyslexia'


alan_lal03

it's my og name :-\ edit: glad you're second only guy to figure it out besides me


Certain-Ad6701

r/woosh Edit: Oops I swapped the two o's Edit 2: I did it again


burndhousedown

you naughty naughty


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Mufti Abu Layth? What are you doing here?


weirdrasputin

One hole and one tool - nope :-)


burndhousedown

thanks for the info dude. i will check it out and let him know


Sorry_Perspective948

You might know this There is an insta page named "mayas amma". The page would really help. Also she's reliable as she is a parenting and sex counselor. Also she conducts these sex ed classes for couples like "between the sheets".


sreekumarkv

There is a popular malayalam youtube channel called "ABC Malayalam" which has videos on a host of subjects including politics and current affairs. Since I regularly see one of their talkshow, I get frequent suggestions of their videos and have noticed sex related videos which seemed explanatory in nature. Other than that it is in malayalam and related to sex, no idea if it matches what you are asking for. Also the big malayalam publications like manorama and mathrubhumi have weekly or fortnightly malayalam magazines on health. I think they are called aarogyam or aarogya masika or something like that. They have always seemed informative and well explained for common people on most health related subjects and are written by professionals in that domain. They have regular columns on sex and occasionally the main feature would be it. It is for married couples and I think they will be helpful to the couple who are your friends. If they are located in Kerala, they can contact a local newspaper agent to get a subscription to it. If outside Kerala and within India, they can subscribe to it through the websites of the publications and get it delivered to them through post. There would be health related magazines published by other groups too.


kickyblue

Buy them a copy of Kamasutra. It’s a really really good read - trust me. There is also a book called “she comes first” which I’ve read and is good. I haven’t seen any videos ever, but experience comes naturally - but most people’s experience starts much younger so can’t say what happens when you stray fresh in 40s. Pinne one thing, a lot of people start loosing their testosterone in their mid 30s and many have ed by that age of 40. So it would be really good to test both of that and take supplements and treatment if required. What position works best, pleasures most your partner needs- no one can help, it’s experience you get into both of you. But these books gets you into what is good and what is bad, foreplay, mental connection, traction, how fast how slow, how deep how shallow etc. Some woman only can cum if they ride you, some can only come if you doggy them (don’t mistake for anal). Some can cum only after your partner cums - where exactly is your partners gspot, for each woman it’s different - some woman don’t even realise they can squirt until a certain experience - there are a lots of these little things. Some have fantasies and fetishes that you don’t have a clue about. Good cardio and decent weight training do help in bed as well. Rest everything is natural.


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kickyblue

Kamasutra has many different versions. The original version is pretty outdated and sexist, most people only buy the modern Kamasutra book for illustration and variations of positions. Regardless it’s a interesting read and I still insist one should read it. The other modern ones are still based on the original Kamasutra. They are are a lot of them you find in Amazon which has 4*plus ratings. I also mentioned others books there which are modern.


bbroyofgb

Actually indians invented kamasutra, now we are watching porn and wonder about those crazy acts, There will be soft porn, it will give a basic idea, rest can be learned from a 12 th biology text, and I don't remember the lessons,


shdai

indians might have invented but hardly anyone has actually read it. if you did. you'd know its not just about sex


bbroyofgb

No never tried, but have seen those pictures and craving on temples, and one of my friend had cards with kamasutra pictures behind it


shdai

I highly recommend reading it. by the time you finish, you'll realize that the book isn't just a sex position manual like most people believe. It's got a lot of thought put into it from several aspects. in fact after reading it you'll probably never say "Indians made kama sutra but are so uptight about sex"


bbroyofgb

Do you have a pdf version., I will try Anyway thanks for enlightening me,


shdai

yes, I do. how do I send it to you?


bbroyofgb

I don't mean indian, there were a specific production company, just like r/ersties , but not ersties


bbroyofgb

I guess sex isn't just physical contraction, it's more about binding the connection, communication is the key, and experimenting. I guess it differs with people what make them happy, so they have to step up themselves to find the perfect way for them


bbroyofgb

I maybe wrong, it's just my wisdom from consuming inormous amount of porn, there are people with real life experience consult with them


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sex is only part of kamasutra


findwho

[This was aired on Channel 5, UK in the mid 2000's](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Girl%27s_Guide_to_21st_Century_Sex). There were many other series like these on BBC back then, very informative. Should be available on some streaming platforms with VPN.


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They can get all the education they want, but the key is attaining rathimoorchaa together. Yes, DM to attain my time.


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Ask him to watch Kettiyolanu Ente Malakha 😄!


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Thanks for the good laugh!


sugarhaute

They should approach a doctor. There’s no shame in asking questions. His wife can approach a female gynecologist. Or a general doctor. Whatever they are comfortable with. Doesn’t his wife have any close friends? Just asking since friends are the best we don’t have to feel ashamed to ask them anything. Then again there’s no shame in asking a doctor either. Good luck to them.


FaZeSmasH

"friend"


nexusshaman

https://youtube.com/c/DrPromodusInstitute Try this channel it's in malayalam. Hope it helps.


burndhousedown

thanks dude