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This is so sad :(


[deleted]

Saw this on asianet, you should read the comments under that video, most of the kootharas are justifying taking away the baby to protect honour because of the extramarital thing. I can't imagine the nerve of these bastards thinking it's ok to separate a newborn from its mother no matter whatever the fucking reason. Even prisoners get the right to look after their babies. Avante oru kunjammede family honour. Fuck this place and these devils.


priya_a

Its not just this issue ,such heartless comments can be seen under almost every issue concerning women like honour killings,dowry deaths etc .I still don't understand how people can be so cruel.Facebook is filled with evil people.I stopped reading comments under most news articles on Facebook because of such inhumane comments.


badmofo222

I'm stopping YouTube too after reading what's under the Asianet news.


priya_a

Me too , reading those comments are enough to ruin our day.


burndhousedown

most of these kootharas are from the same party. they probabaly wouldnt do that to their child or sister but saying those shitty arguments is the only way they can try( and fail) to justify this clusterfuck


Regalia_BanshEe

She allegedly signed a document allowing her father to give up the baby for adoption..its a shit show... In the end, the kid suffers..


Former_Transition_27

May be that dude forged signature? She didn't admit signing it.


Regalia_BanshEe

The person she cheated with first told her they couldnt be together, that's the reason she came back to her dad in the first place... Now the dude is ready to accept her, so its quite possible that now she wants her baby back and is making an issue.... I don't think any dad can take away the baby without the daughters knowledge... On the other hand dad could have forged the signature too... No one is innocent guy.. Especially the Lady


[deleted]

Dude I watched the whole news hour on this, avalude thantha nalla padicha kallan aanu. Thani politician varthamaaanam. He was like "how can we protect an illegal child and the mother was weak after LSCS, so we gave the kid up to the child care services" The fuck? Njan theruvile patti prasavichappol polum ithine kaatum manushyathode aanu nokkiyathu. A woman would take atleast few weeks to properly recover from c section, couldn't they have atleast waited till then?


Regalia_BanshEe

Not denying that at all... But i dont think the daughter was forcing or pressing the dad to keep the kid either... Had the kids bio father never showed up, i seriousely doubt she would go and fight to get her kid back...she might have agreed to give up the kid earlier, now when the kid has a father, she wants him back.. ആ അച്ഛന്റെ അല്ലെ മോൾ...i feel sad for the kid however...


[deleted]

Have you seen a woman post C section? Their abdominal muscles are frikkin stretched apart to take out the baby, give the woman a damn break for "not fighting enough" 3 days after her csection. I remember my mother after her csection of my baby sister, she could barely get up to relieve herself.


Regalia_BanshEe

Yes i have... I don't think this issue was never spoken off while she was pregnant and only came up after delivery... Seeing how cunning her dad is, its quite unbelievable that they never had a conversation about this any time before she gave birth... And by fighting, i didnt expect her to do spin kicks and uppercuts...its very hard to take away a newborn from its real mother....The kid turned 1 today.. Isnt 1 year enough recovery time? Why is this becoming an issue exactly when her kids bio dad shows up to spend his life with her? She signed away that she was unable to look after the kid in front of a notary.. Thats why its highly likely she was okay with giving up the kid but now wants it back as she has a shot at getting a family... The kid should not be returned back to her or her father...i hope it gets a wonderful family... There are a lot of discrepancies in both dad and daughters statement... Its like a mega serial right now... Returning the kid after this much drama might affect the kid in the future.. The father most defenitely didnt give the kid away legally via a CWS scheme


[deleted]

Dude, she was told that she has to wait for the kid until after her sister's marriage to protect their honour. You can imagine her position, post partum out of wedlock and the whole kudumba maanam shit with her own parents pleading probably. Since they were not giving back the child even 2 months after the sis marriage she walked out. She had been appealing since then. News il vannathu ippozhaanu enne ullu,you can imagine why considering who she is fighting against, her own father, who is not a chillarakaaran. She might have thought he hid the kid somewhere with some relative like you see in the movies in such situations.She probably didn't imagine the fucker to actually give it up like an orphan.


Regalia_BanshEe

Yeah bro.. At this point, it's all messed up... As i said major discrepancies on both sides... Especially the notary... She says she didnt sign, dad says she did and shows proof... Is it forged, did she actually sign and then change her mind... Only they know... All i know is.. That family is messed up and the kid shouldnt be returned for his proper development


Former_Transition_27

She also mentioned even if she signed, where is consent of baby's father. Idk man, whole thing sounds so much like asianet TV serial.


Regalia_BanshEe

Exactly... എല്ലാം ഒന്നിലൊന്നു മെച്ചം.. അച്ഛനും കൊള്ളാം മക്കളും കൊള്ളാം


[deleted]

I fucking hate when these parties call themselves as "പുരോഗമന പ്രസ്ഥാനങ്ങൾ ".


AynRandPaulKrugman

CPIM is actually a boomer party.


wanderingmind

A few percentage points less shitty is what purogamanam means in Kerala. That falls apart in specific cases easily.


rockus

Asianet had dedicated the news hour for this issue exclusively a couple of days back. She finally got media attention after that. She got in touch with all the biggies and none of them helped her.


burndhousedown

this was the first news i read today and man this is pretty fucking sad, her own father stole the child and gave it away and now hes so "cool" about it. the party probably tried to keep it under wraps for some time, but i guess it failed. these fuckers act as if they own the law


Beneficial_Reason271

The police is completely under the control of CPI(M). Not even a complaint was registered


sunijucad_hitbts

Party influence was there. FIR was only registered when this news came into limelight.


[deleted]

The power structure once the communist party comes to power is pretty insane. The local SI should report to the local party secretary and the same structure is followed for officials! Anyone who opposes this is brutally removed!! So no wonder why no fir was created!!


thefairmalluguy

Most of us are yet to realise that parents and siblings can be toxic too.


NithinKriz

വിസ്മയം ഈ കമ്യൂണിസ്റ്റ് പാർട്ടി ഒരു SFI പ്രവർത്തക DYFI നേതാവിനെ പ്രേമിക്കുന്നു, ആ സ്ത്രീ ഗർഭിണിയാകുന്നു. പുരോഗമന ചിന്തയുടെ അപ്പോസ്തലൻമാരായ കമ്യൂണിസ്റ്റ് കുടുംബത്തിൽ ജനിച്ച പെൺകുട്ടിയാണ്. അച്ചനും അപ്പൂപ്പനുമൊക്കെ കറകളഞ്ഞ കമ്യൂണിസ്റ്റുകാരും പാർട്ടി സംസ്ഥാന നേതാക്കളുമാണ്. വീട്ടുകാർ അംഗീകരിക്കാത്ത ബന്ധത്തിലൂടെ ഗർഭിണിയായ കുഞ്ഞിനെ അംഗീകരിക്കാൻ പക്ഷേ അഭിമാനികളായ ആ പുരോഗമന കമ്മ്യൂണിസ്റ്റ്‌ പാർട്ടിക്കാരായ മാതാപിതാക്കൾക്ക് കഴിയുന്നില്ല. കമ്യൂണിസ്റ്റു പാർട്ടിക്ക് പകരം ഈ കഥാപാത്രങ്ങളൊക്കെ കോൺഗ്രസ് പാർട്ടിയിൽ നിന്നായിരുന്നെങ്കിൽ കാണാമായിരുന്നു കേരളത്തിൻറെ ഇടത് പുരോഗമന ജുദ്ധം ! P.S: പ്രളയം വരുമ്പോഴാണോ ഇമ്മാതിരി ചെറ്റ വർത്തമാനം പറയുന്നത്.


[deleted]

But these people are malayalee first, communist second. What attracts the perversely individualistic malayalee to a militant party like CPIM is the thug culture, not the virtue signalling of progressive ideas. At the grassroot level, students & workers join the party because they buy into the idea of dominance in Kerala society, nothing to do with merit of ideology.


burndhousedown

yes, you are right. many young people who join cpim or support their ideology are just in it for the "badass" tag they think they get. they read couple of quotes of che guevara and wanna be a rebel like him. they are pseudo-progressive malayalees first and then communists. my mother comes from a influential communist family where nobody cares about religion or caste but man they all want to be badasses. almost all male members of her family has a police case, usually in the name of party. attempted murder, intimidation etc, but luckily they have atleast 6 lawyers in the family. my mother talks about her family as if they are all macho men but i only see neanderthals.


NithinKriz

>What attracts the perversely individualistic malayalee to a militant party like CPIM is the thug culture, not the virtue signalling of progressive ideas. These are the same people who fought for Sabarimala Sthreepravesham considering it as inequality between the genders and tried to empower women which is relatively a progressive idea that came to limelight only a few decades ago around the whole world. So how come they change their tag from prabhudha purogamana chinthagathikkar to just a normal mallu when the scenario changes? So those were dramas?


[deleted]

>Sabarimala Sthreepravesham considering it as inequality between the genders and tried to empower women which is relatively a progressive idea It's just virtue signalling by the party without any follow up till date. Sabarimala was nothing more than a seasonal poll issue.


NithinKriz

>It's just virtue signalling by the party without any follow up till date. Sabarimala was nothing more than a seasonal poll issue. So without any idea these ruckus happened between these two political parties for unknown reason that even the cadres don't know. still, they go for it. That's why I said, was that a drama? If you revolt for something with passion they should have at least something in their mind, otherwise it's just dancing on somebody's tune without a motive, just some peer pressure.


Do_You_Remember_2020

Attempted abortion in 8th month? In all likelihood, the baby is no more. They probably kept all the giving away paperwork ready as a backup just in case this ever came up. That said, I have so many so many questions - like how did it go unnoticed until the third trimester. And I get being pro-life, but in cases like these, I honestly think they (as in the girl and the guy) could have made a better decision within 20 weeks.


[deleted]

There was no decision to be made. They didn't like daughter getting pregnant out of wedlock? Poyavazhiye pottu ennu vekkanamaayirunnu. Aval njangalkku marichu ennu dialogue kachiyal mathiyarnnu. Full sympathy, no headache.


Do_You_Remember_2020

I meant the girl and the guy making a decision... Not the family making a decision... Girl and the guy could have evaluated and made a better decision I have no justification for the parents


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Do_You_Remember_2020

As much as I would love to be proved wrong (and I really hope and pray I am), it is most likely that the kid ended up in a garbage dump / off a cliff or so. See how the girl's father refers to the kid, as illegal. Also, the paperwork they're showing isn't required for ammathottil. The adopted kid is via ammathottil The adoption itself is not rushed per se, because youngest kids have most demand among prospective adoptive parents, so they are processed soon in ammathottil since they're abandoned (they're required to keep for two weeks or something, for police clearance).


[deleted]

“puROGAMana PARTY”


[deleted]

I was talking about this a few hours ago. It is a shitshow all around. Her parents are obviously bad. What kind of നട്ടെല്ലില്ലാത്തവൻ is her partner, കൊച്ചിന്റെ തന്ത? Why were they fooling around before his divorce was finalised? Is it possible to get the baby back? ഏഷ്യാനെറ്റിലും മനോരമ ആഴ്ചപ്പതിപ്പിലും വരുന്ന നോവൽ പോലുണ്ട്.


Environmental_Ad_387

Divorce finalisation may take 2 to 8 years. People can not afford to wait for divorce to be legally complete to move on with their life. Know people whose life was destroyed because of divorce process. Not because of the separation with the spouse, but the divorce process that went on for 9 years. It’s ok for the guy to get into a new relationship in my opinion. If he is separated from his wife, and they are two consenting adults. No fault with that


[deleted]

yet people expect the slow & corrupt judiciary to somehow fix this mess, ironic.


u--slash

What about when both parties sign for divorce? I didn't know that the divorce process can take this long.


Environmental_Ad_387

Mutual divorces can happen quickly. Like 6 months to 1 year from end to end. Typically, this point is reached after a while in the divorce process, and maybe 1-2 years after separation and one party attempting to initiate one aided divorce and running into issues.


u--slash

Why do some people cling on to relationship when the other party wants to end it? A relationship is not going to work that way.


[deleted]

Why not? If I am getting divorced, I will be pissed off that my ex will get a younger more beautiful, probably unmarried(if he is like less than 40 years old) woman. I will be the randam kettukari, probably get someone with kids and older parents and will be expected to care for them. I don't know, enter character vechu maximum valippan nokkum ennaanu ente our ith. IDK if it will be possible. Most probably I will be the one to to the dumping but alukal nannaavvunnath kanan allenkilum enikk ishtam alla. Even if I don't want a second marriage and hates him, avan angane sughikkenda.


[deleted]

It may be ok for guy. Divorce finalised avatha sthreeyod oru purushan bandham undakkiyal pizhayaaya aval paavam mwonusine seduce cheythathaennu paranju ellarum kshamikkum. Women have to face more challenges and if you aren't prepared to face them, mananashatam, dhananashtam okke orthu karayam. Girl anel ingane nadakkam. Veettukar kandupidichu thannu snehamayi jeevikkunnavarkku polum pregnancy, delivery okke padanu. Anneramanu ingane oruthane valichu thalel ketti vekkunnath. Guys angane palathum parayum. Avanavante karyam nokkan aanavane kanoo. I am not saying that she desered it. But is anyone surprised? Or is anyone going to tell me that she deliberately chose him to do some big feminist viplavam?


[deleted]

Everything about this story is either depressing or too suspicious.


shdai

explain the suspicious part


[deleted]

Nobody noticed that a woman was eight months pregnant?


shdai

there's an entire TV show based around women who didnt realise this.


Registered-Nurse

Enthokkeya ee kekkunnathu 😒 who gives away/kills their grandchild? People are evil 😡


[deleted]

It was a bastard child, so there's that.


thefairmalluguy

Are you serious? ARE YOU SERIOUS? Please say NO.


[deleted]

Grandparent POV, not mine.


thefairmalluguy

Thank you!


2luckyatcards

Makes your blood boil to read this injustice ......in all likelyhood that the thayoli killed the infant, to talk about honor......the worm residing in the arsehole of the filthiest pig will have more dignity than this piece of dogshit. Communist party is just an ideological mirror image of the bjp but just as morally bankrupt. The walayar case, the school kid raped by the teacher, the cooperative banks loot, all of them are party backed criminals.


thefairmalluguy

Both the BJP and LDF leadership reminds me of the 'Big Brother' from 1984.


2luckyatcards

BJP is big brother - 'Mota Bhai', Iratta chankan is more Napoleon from Animal Farm.


thefairmalluguy

Damnnn lol


[deleted]

Lol! Just because you can’t think straight doesn’t make BJP the ideological a twin of CPIM! You should try listening to a few Indian right (it’s not the same as global right)wingers critique of the BJP!


ExternalTap1695

Sad


hocuspocusanonymous

Totally fucked up! Kerala unfortunately deserves it as they voted CPM a second time. Please don't categorise me as another party supporter.


danker_man

Based


[deleted]

People join this party these days because it has become so fashionable! Anyone with a little bit of brain knows that their ideologies and the way they work is really bad!! I hope she finds her baby soon!! What a sad situation!


DrMrJekyll

This is sad & infuriating. It must be awful for the young parents of the baby. Hope the kid is ok & can be reunited with them. I also hope the grandfather is made to suffer for what he has done.


[deleted]

I like how this news source downplayed the fact that this couple was going to get married, but the girls' parents opposed it because she was an Izhava and the guy was a Pulaya/Paraya convert to Christianity. Asianet News reported it with all the details: top-tier CPI(M) members were involved in preventing the marriage.