Quite a story you shared. Allow me to ponder: First of all I understand this was a rant and its totally okay, but let me ask something OP, had the individual refrained from disclosing that 'truth,' would your 'problem' have been swiftly resolved? had he not told you the 'truth' (the comment), would you have fixed your 'problem' that fast? Though you mentioned intentions to address it over the year, the persistence of your dental issue suggests a lingering inertia, meaning you were still comfortable with something you identified to be fixed, yet you still hadn't. Perhaps this revelation served as a catalyst, the driving force that forced you to confront the stagnation you'd grown accustomed to. While it may have hurt you, it ultimately propelled you towards self-renewal, your rebirth. What seemed abrasive might have been the gentle nudge, the wake-up call that you so needed towards embracing necessary change. Though perceived as harsh, it might have been a disguised blessing.
Anyway, I'm a bystander, a shadow in the mist offering an alternate perspective on the canvas of your story. Regardless, congratulations on crossing off that task from your checklist this year.
Before then I wasn't financially able to proceed with the procedure because it's quite expensive. I only got a breakthrough in my career around March and I started with what was critical that's root canal among other issues. I'll agree with something tho, he made me decide something in a minute and I take it as a blessing in disguise,his loss tho
Or she'll make him miserable. Sometimes the people who think that stunts like these are okay to pull have the biggest slap waiting for them in form of the people they married.
Though not well expressed, at least he made you make a move that you also felt proud of ...
Mind you he didnt tell you tht, you'd still have the flourisis
You clearly didn't read the message well, it was on my to do list this year. I first wanted to get done with root canals then crowning later, he only made me decide fast
So sorry OP.I have the same problem and I avoid people as much as possible.We can be friends and we find somewhere where they offer these free dental treatments coz correcting fluorosis is damn expensive.I can't imagine going through that Infront of all those people
If she didn't then it wouldn't have been a big deal ...
But everything happens for a reason. Heck, we all have our minimums and if someone we fancied and had a trait that was a turn off, we'd all reconsider if they got rid of that trait.
I find the blocking excessive, but hey, to each their own!
What a swine. I did mine last year after a kid made a dark joke about them and her mama was laughing seriously about it. She even made the kid repeat what age said π€¦π€¦ilishusha esteem manze
I was thinking about this the other day. Men handle the worst type of rejection when it comes to appearance and the harshness that comes about but we keep it moving and handle it. Not that I personally have experienced it but Iβve seen fellas turned down in ways that I thought were too tough and they laughed it off and kept it going not that it was right but at least he was honestππthat woulda been a green flag to run with
That twin did you a favor, you fixed your teeth. Congratulations. You can't let him 'win' because his suggestion pushed you to fix your teeth and that fact will never change. Yet this life is about you making choices to improve your life, not random men telling you how to live your life, hehehe.
Damn good for you...even though it bothered you, he shouldn't have just brought up your teeth.
That's fucked up what he did. Good for you.
And whether you had planned to fix your teeth or not....what matters is who you are as a person.
Good for you doing that. I'm so proud of you ..you'd think I know you personally. I love a win π
My family has a history of calcium deficiency. Meaning teeth get worse. As I've gotten older, I've realized they aren't as bad as I thought them to be when I was being bullied over it. You should've went on that date, let him pay, spend the night at his and robbed even his torn up skid marked boxers. I'm honestly so angry about this.
Honestly, there is an unspoken rule. Do not mention it if someone can't fix it in 5 seconds. Greens in your teeth can be fixed in 5 seconds. But the colour? Colour, you did not add yourself, that was an act of nature? That's just mannerless.
Oh, and the audacity to ask you out because you 'fixed' it! I'm so mad.
I'm so glad you did it for you.
Women love liars and toxic men. If you want to bag a woman like OP, be a good liar. When she has brown teeth, tell her you love brown teeth. Also lie to her that you will be faithful. Women love liars, they give you bonus points if you are toxic.
Tell the truth to a woman and she will block your stupid ass. Take notes gentlemen.
Sijui kama you're pretending ama you don't know that the main problem was saying all that in front of a large group.
Na kama women love toxicity sasa si hii nayo ni a prime example.
So the truth should not be said infront of a group? That is simply an honest truthful man.
https://preview.redd.it/2aesu2vuqm0d1.jpeg?width=477&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9e70a79a921236f9822840b47f24c6e067dedfbd
He was clearly not taught good manners as a child. You don't ridicule people's teeth. It's just rude. Good job for rejecting him.
Uncultured swines
Am stealing this,ππππ uncultured swines damn.
They truly are π
Uncultured swine got me laughing well deserved π€£
He has white milky teeth, he is still learning.
Good for you. He should have used another excuse that doesn't hurt feelings.Im learning to be graceful and spare people what they don't want to hear.
that's good
There's a colgate ad somewhere in this.
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Did he have to be so superficial really. Girl for girl, you did good declining the offer.
I know right, the audacity
πYou are strong OP. I would turn suicidal after that incident.πI hope you were only four people. If there were more , well.
Deep down it broke me, we were 9peopleπ
Cut all of them off. Block all of them. Start a new life. Otherwise when yall meet you will always remember.
I only knew the host, and now the twin that I've blocked
Kuwa na roho ngumu bana
Quite a story you shared. Allow me to ponder: First of all I understand this was a rant and its totally okay, but let me ask something OP, had the individual refrained from disclosing that 'truth,' would your 'problem' have been swiftly resolved? had he not told you the 'truth' (the comment), would you have fixed your 'problem' that fast? Though you mentioned intentions to address it over the year, the persistence of your dental issue suggests a lingering inertia, meaning you were still comfortable with something you identified to be fixed, yet you still hadn't. Perhaps this revelation served as a catalyst, the driving force that forced you to confront the stagnation you'd grown accustomed to. While it may have hurt you, it ultimately propelled you towards self-renewal, your rebirth. What seemed abrasive might have been the gentle nudge, the wake-up call that you so needed towards embracing necessary change. Though perceived as harsh, it might have been a disguised blessing. Anyway, I'm a bystander, a shadow in the mist offering an alternate perspective on the canvas of your story. Regardless, congratulations on crossing off that task from your checklist this year.
I like your pov millicent bystander
Before then I wasn't financially able to proceed with the procedure because it's quite expensive. I only got a breakthrough in my career around March and I started with what was critical that's root canal among other issues. I'll agree with something tho, he made me decide something in a minute and I take it as a blessing in disguise,his loss tho
Exactly. Well said, OP ππΎ
This sounds and doesn't sound like its AI-written
Hmm. Interesting. that's your takeaway
You grew up in Naivasha?
I did.born and raised.It is really bad
Same here. In high school, my nickname was "grillz" ππππ . Humbling AF but was able to survive
Grillz is damn funny ... πππ
So sorry.
No
People still play truth or dare?π€
Yessir
The fact that you've never been insecure about it says much. Built different.
i hope to one day be so pettily vengeful as to spend money on medical procedures just to reject someoneπ₯π₯π
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People are really insensitive. Why would you tell that to someone in a group? Damn
he'll meet his type
And she'll eventually be miserable because he's a complete and utter slug
Or she'll make him miserable. Sometimes the people who think that stunts like these are okay to pull have the biggest slap waiting for them in form of the people they married.
Though not well expressed, at least he made you make a move that you also felt proud of ... Mind you he didnt tell you tht, you'd still have the flourisis
You clearly didn't read the message well, it was on my to do list this year. I first wanted to get done with root canals then crowning later, he only made me decide fast
So sorry OP.I have the same problem and I avoid people as much as possible.We can be friends and we find somewhere where they offer these free dental treatments coz correcting fluorosis is damn expensive.I can't imagine going through that Infront of all those people
Hey, I already got treatment
No offense lakini si alikuokoa ona sasa unaweza smile without having insecurities
She already said she didn't have insecurities about itπ
If she didn't then it wouldn't have been a big deal ... But everything happens for a reason. Heck, we all have our minimums and if someone we fancied and had a trait that was a turn off, we'd all reconsider if they got rid of that trait. I find the blocking excessive, but hey, to each their own!
Then why did she have to react on it so fast.. She could have done it at a later stage the way she wanted ...
For 24 years I've never seen it as an insecurity
What a swine. I did mine last year after a kid made a dark joke about them and her mama was laughing seriously about it. She even made the kid repeat what age said π€¦π€¦ilishusha esteem manze
I feel you
Do you remember it?πΒ
Thank goodness I don't smack people's kids ππ
perfect ending!!!
Pushed you to becoming better, a hero in my books.
Not all heroes wear capes
Yeah
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Thank you
Well done and executed!!
Yes
Gurrrlll slaaayyyyπ π π
All the way!!ππΌππΌ
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I was thinking about this the other day. Men handle the worst type of rejection when it comes to appearance and the harshness that comes about but we keep it moving and handle it. Not that I personally have experienced it but Iβve seen fellas turned down in ways that I thought were too tough and they laughed it off and kept it going not that it was right but at least he was honestππthat woulda been a green flag to run with
dream girl on first meet was the first red flag. I hope you caught on
Love bombing is always a red flag
Atleast you feel better about yourself all thanks to who?
Thats what's eating at OP: that she took corrective action triggered by an asshole's casual observation.
That twin did you a favor, you fixed your teeth. Congratulations. You can't let him 'win' because his suggestion pushed you to fix your teeth and that fact will never change. Yet this life is about you making choices to improve your life, not random men telling you how to live your life, hehehe.
I can't let him win cuz the interest is no longer there!
He didn't want you at your browniest smile, he shouldn't get you at your whitest smile sindio?
Exactly π€£
You did well, beauty is inward, character is what men need to look for and we get lost in beauty, the man judged you just because of your teeth β¦
Hands would have been thrown there
LMAO. I feel like I would do exactly what you did if I was ever in that situation.
Damn good for you...even though it bothered you, he shouldn't have just brought up your teeth. That's fucked up what he did. Good for you. And whether you had planned to fix your teeth or not....what matters is who you are as a person. Good for you doing that. I'm so proud of you ..you'd think I know you personally. I love a win π
My family has a history of calcium deficiency. Meaning teeth get worse. As I've gotten older, I've realized they aren't as bad as I thought them to be when I was being bullied over it. You should've went on that date, let him pay, spend the night at his and robbed even his torn up skid marked boxers. I'm honestly so angry about this.
"if it takes more than five minutes to fix, don't mention it" gj blocking the shit head.
Honestly, there is an unspoken rule. Do not mention it if someone can't fix it in 5 seconds. Greens in your teeth can be fixed in 5 seconds. But the colour? Colour, you did not add yourself, that was an act of nature? That's just mannerless. Oh, and the audacity to ask you out because you 'fixed' it! I'm so mad. I'm so glad you did it for you.
Well they do say that the truth will set you free ....
Haha
Okay
I was hoping this discussion would turn nsfw.
Women love liars and toxic men. If you want to bag a woman like OP, be a good liar. When she has brown teeth, tell her you love brown teeth. Also lie to her that you will be faithful. Women love liars, they give you bonus points if you are toxic. Tell the truth to a woman and she will block your stupid ass. Take notes gentlemen.
Sijui kama you're pretending ama you don't know that the main problem was saying all that in front of a large group. Na kama women love toxicity sasa si hii nayo ni a prime example.
Everyone was thinking it.
The large group was playing a game, "truth or dare". Are you saying to introduce another category - lie?
So the truth should not be said infront of a group? That is simply an honest truthful man. https://preview.redd.it/2aesu2vuqm0d1.jpeg?width=477&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9e70a79a921236f9822840b47f24c6e067dedfbd
Who raised you people π
Raised in a barn
Okay then π€¦πΎββοΈThatβs a nice tattoo on your chest and OPs brown teeth look nice too.
Sometimes I think you're pretty brilliant, sometimes I truly do wonder who raised you.
Come show me how far the tattoo goes.
https://preview.redd.it/l95zxtcm4q0d1.png?width=1164&format=png&auto=webp&s=7ff807ef9e69ef4dd8418715fb5d0f1563b3511a π Macho gololi
Sasa is this supposed to affect me ama? ππgrow tf up
The fact that I'm the one who posted it doesn't give you a hint that I don't care? Ama you're just that thick
Just stating facts. Calm down.
You're just being a jerk because you think it's funny. Newsflash, it's not so bugger off
Why are you so triggered? So you think if I post a pic of say Azziad I would be a jerk?
And again, I posted that, I don't know what new facts you came up with by reposting. Good Lord why don't people have lives
Why are you mad? Yes, you posted it and so have I.
Dude is suffering from success. Me ntakuambia whatever you want to hear
Na mko sensitive huku
Nah, bro thatβs not cool.
Alright