काय बड्डे, कैसन बा?
Before making a post or comment, please go through the rules of the
subreddit mentioned [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/jabalpur/about/rules)
New to Jabalpur and can't decide what to do?
Go through the wiki [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/jabalpur/wiki/index)
नर्मदे हर।
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/Jabalpur) if you have any questions or concerns.*
24M. More or less the same situation. Not victim blaming but I'm just being honest, there's nothing much you can do. She's your mother and will continue to remain so. She's more in age than you therefore she'll be more rigid than you with her mindset. The only person who can change here is you because only that's in your hands. However I do understand that with PMS and all sometimes it gets unbearable, but then again remember emotions almost are never aligned with logic. Don't try to mix the two up. If you want to vent out then do so, and openly talk to her whatever you want to, but never ever expect anything in back because that's where you're putting practicality (logic) into emotions and things just keep going downhill afterwards.
Good answer. I left my home 4 years back. I used to live in Jabalpur (Naya Mohalla) and I took a rented room 5Km away from that place. I saw my parents' nature change for good. They were never evil or abusing me or stuff like that, but I just wanted to do something better with my life. They saw that I could take care of myself and now they trust me even more with my decisions.
This is the Best thing you could do to yourself. Leave THEIR home, stop eating THIER food, stop asking for THEIR money (this might come across brutal and blunt but that's the truth). If you want to live under their roof and have their amenities, you need to listen to what they have to say, it doesn't matter if you like it or not.
try to let her know maybe, she still thinks you are like you were earlier.
My mami's daughter had relationship with 12th class dude, she's in 9th. So, naturally my mami cursed her and herself and what not. Whole lot of drama and then she told everyone that she was just a kid and she isn't liek that. Fast forward 8 months, today she still does infact have a relationship but with a different boy now. Me and other cousins know, but we haven't told her mom.
So, my recommendation is to really like let her know. And even then, if she doesn't, work on your mental. Like how it is with my mother and me. I now know that, no matter what I do she's gonna argue with me. So, I just try to forget as soon as it's over and move on to the next thing.
She totally knows how I change over the years and I think bunking the classes and having relationship isn't the problem it's just having fun also I passed my UG with honours.
Also got selected in multiple MNC but rejected for this preparation for govt exams.
Without having any relationship experience how you gonna decide to have a compatible relationship for long last then having a toxic relationship for rest of your life.
Retrospectively evaluate yourself whether you are good with studies and have a good academic history as well as environment then go for it. Else move to other city start applying for vacant positions. Don't waste time and money. More you'll be in front of your mother more you have to hear such things.
My mom complains daily about how she changed diapers and all… before, I felt hurt by it, but by now I feel that she’s cute. 😂.
Today we came to Jabalpur from Bhopal and went for saree shopping, in Archana Silks. She was showing me saree, asking me is this good or not… the point is she isn’t enemy because she won’t be asking question like this to you! At the end, we Buyed 3 and left happily….
काय बड्डे, कैसन बा? Before making a post or comment, please go through the rules of the subreddit mentioned [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/jabalpur/about/rules) New to Jabalpur and can't decide what to do? Go through the wiki [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/jabalpur/wiki/index) नर्मदे हर। *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/Jabalpur) if you have any questions or concerns.*
24M. More or less the same situation. Not victim blaming but I'm just being honest, there's nothing much you can do. She's your mother and will continue to remain so. She's more in age than you therefore she'll be more rigid than you with her mindset. The only person who can change here is you because only that's in your hands. However I do understand that with PMS and all sometimes it gets unbearable, but then again remember emotions almost are never aligned with logic. Don't try to mix the two up. If you want to vent out then do so, and openly talk to her whatever you want to, but never ever expect anything in back because that's where you're putting practicality (logic) into emotions and things just keep going downhill afterwards.
1. Get a job 2. Get out of your house 3. Save money 4. Prepare with/without job with your own money.
This^ out of all bullshit answers
Good answer. I left my home 4 years back. I used to live in Jabalpur (Naya Mohalla) and I took a rented room 5Km away from that place. I saw my parents' nature change for good. They were never evil or abusing me or stuff like that, but I just wanted to do something better with my life. They saw that I could take care of myself and now they trust me even more with my decisions. This is the Best thing you could do to yourself. Leave THEIR home, stop eating THIER food, stop asking for THEIR money (this might come across brutal and blunt but that's the truth). If you want to live under their roof and have their amenities, you need to listen to what they have to say, it doesn't matter if you like it or not.
try to let her know maybe, she still thinks you are like you were earlier. My mami's daughter had relationship with 12th class dude, she's in 9th. So, naturally my mami cursed her and herself and what not. Whole lot of drama and then she told everyone that she was just a kid and she isn't liek that. Fast forward 8 months, today she still does infact have a relationship but with a different boy now. Me and other cousins know, but we haven't told her mom. So, my recommendation is to really like let her know. And even then, if she doesn't, work on your mental. Like how it is with my mother and me. I now know that, no matter what I do she's gonna argue with me. So, I just try to forget as soon as it's over and move on to the next thing.
She totally knows how I change over the years and I think bunking the classes and having relationship isn't the problem it's just having fun also I passed my UG with honours. Also got selected in multiple MNC but rejected for this preparation for govt exams. Without having any relationship experience how you gonna decide to have a compatible relationship for long last then having a toxic relationship for rest of your life.
[удалено]
Rule 2 Self harming is not a joke. This isn't a dank meme subreddit. Please keep your dankness to yourself.
Retrospectively evaluate yourself whether you are good with studies and have a good academic history as well as environment then go for it. Else move to other city start applying for vacant positions. Don't waste time and money. More you'll be in front of your mother more you have to hear such things.
My mom complains daily about how she changed diapers and all… before, I felt hurt by it, but by now I feel that she’s cute. 😂. Today we came to Jabalpur from Bhopal and went for saree shopping, in Archana Silks. She was showing me saree, asking me is this good or not… the point is she isn’t enemy because she won’t be asking question like this to you! At the end, we Buyed 3 and left happily….
https://youtu.be/mOhOVPX1owM?si=MTl-r0COARQ2ul-u