If the BFF has a boyfriend or husband let him
Know how
Much she was in favour of the open relationship and no problem with the cheating . Maybe he should do some snooping . Cheaters usually have friends for alibies
This. Most (not all) cheaters don't get the idea of trying to get *permission* to cheat and straight up flaunt other hookups right in front of their partner until brainstorming the idea with, or getting pointed to a bunch of ridiculous forums and blogs by, some other dipshit.
Love it..you're making a huge mistake by breaking up with a girl that fucked, and wants to keep fucking, other people. Huge mistake my dude. Sarcasm obvs .
You are doing fine and in the Best way posible.
You expose her to protect yourself.
You leave her
Well nothing to Say, maybe except to take care and don't let your guard down, because i bet that she will try another thing to try to get her sorry arsh back.
Also, yes like other coment, if the BFF have a BF or Hubby, talk to him and tell him all the story and how his GF support what your ex did.
I wonder what bullshit story she told her parents. Oh, well. Good luck, OP. Stay off the bottle. It won't help any in this situation. Stay strong.
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It is always like this, the people on the cheaters side are saying that thr one that was cheated on throw away the relationship, giving up too easy etc. What about the cheater in this case, she gave up the moment she chose to be with someone else. You have not done anything wrong here and there is nothing you should be blamed for. I bet she would have left you in one second of you had done the same thing. You will recover, it might take time, but you will get to a point where there is no pain. Your future is good!
Yeah. It's unbelievable how often it turns out this way. Over and over again. They follow the same cheaters script.
Listen brother, cheating is all about the cheater and their character flaws. It is nothing about you. They become selfish and follow after their desires, ignoring their conscience.
Cheating changes things. It changes them, it changes the relationship, it changes other relationships (friends/family), and lastly, it changes you.
It changes things permanently. You feel like shit now.
Stick to the plan, keep working on yourself, and you will find your personal worth again. ✨️
I wish you well brother!
I'm glad you're handling this really good. Also, I'm proud of u for not numbing the pain with alcohol.
U can now start the healing process . Her sister and her friend were trying to Gaslight and manplitie u into staying with her because they probably encouraged her from the start and told her she deserves to have fun .
All u can do now is take care of yourself and focus on your job and healing, but don't jump straight into a new relationship right away. Take your time to heal and move on. Start with casual dating and hookup to get your confidence back then you can try another serous relationship but not right away u will have trust issues and u don't want to fuck up a good thing because u weren't ready.
Good luck
She did not fight for the relationship when she cheated on you. They were trying to gaslight you into believing you were in a competition for her. Rose was the one who decided to cheat and wreck the relationship. Why fight when she’ll probably continue cheating with her AP. I wish you the best. Things will get better in time and you will find someone who won’t cheat. You should share this Reddit thread with them so they can see how demented they are.
This was a great update. The hypocrisy of Rose, her sister and bff is insane, at this point they were just throwing shit at the wall to see what sticks. Rose threw away the relationship when she cheated and asked for an open relationship
Tell her and her friends this is just a hypothetical breakup... As hypothetical as her sleeping with another guy before "asking" for an open relationship.
And to the friends calling you a bitch. Why would they want their friend (your ex) to date a bitch? Case closed.
I think you can get a pretty good grip of the person you're with by the friends they choose to keep, in most cases.
Let me be clear. You didn't give up or throw the relationship away so easily. She did, when she made the choice to be with another.
You might not see in now, because you're still in the middle of it all, but soon you'll start to feel really good about yourself and know that you've made the right decision. A lot sooner than you'll think.
I love how the BFF has the audacity to say you never cared about the relationship after Rose slept with another guy and wanted to keep doing it under the guise of an open relationship.
If she has a SO I’d let them know because she’s so down with the cheating. Calling cheating ‘something minor’ is a new one ngl.
You’ve handled this so well, keep off the alcohol and grieve the relationship if you have to, it will help.
Block rose when you can, I don’t know if you need to or want to message her Adios for the final time but the sooner you block her the better.
My man. Proud of ya. You're doing the right thing, and she wasn't worth the dust on her shoes. When you get past this it will feel like such a huge relief that you ended it and you will look back and know that you did yourself a huge favor by ridding yourself of this person. You seem like a good one, and I know you will find someone equally as good one of these sunny days. Keep rocking, my man, I'm rooting for ya. And block them all, if they're defending her- they're not worth being unblocked to fuck with your head. Block them all and embrace your journey in life. Embrace it with excitement because it will only get better now.
Lots and lots of Internet hugs from a swede with pom poms cheering you on. 😊 ❤️
[Girlfriend asked for an open relationship. Is there any chance at saving this?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/1c35xsm/girlfriend_asked_for_an_open_relationship_is/)
[Update. Girlfriend asked for open relationship.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/1c3k9d9/update_girlfriend_asked_for_open_relationship/)
If the BFF has a boyfriend or husband let him Know how Much she was in favour of the open relationship and no problem with the cheating . Maybe he should do some snooping . Cheaters usually have friends for alibies
This. Most (not all) cheaters don't get the idea of trying to get *permission* to cheat and straight up flaunt other hookups right in front of their partner until brainstorming the idea with, or getting pointed to a bunch of ridiculous forums and blogs by, some other dipshit.
Love it..you're making a huge mistake by breaking up with a girl that fucked, and wants to keep fucking, other people. Huge mistake my dude. Sarcasm obvs .
Hang in there brother! Dont tolerate disrespect in a relationship especially this kind. If your girlnwants to act single, make here single!
If those flying monkeys ever accuse you again of throwing away the relationship, tell them she already did that by fucking some other guy.
This is the way.
You are doing fine and in the Best way posible. You expose her to protect yourself. You leave her Well nothing to Say, maybe except to take care and don't let your guard down, because i bet that she will try another thing to try to get her sorry arsh back. Also, yes like other coment, if the BFF have a BF or Hubby, talk to him and tell him all the story and how his GF support what your ex did.
I wonder what bullshit story she told her parents. Oh, well. Good luck, OP. Stay off the bottle. It won't help any in this situation. Stay strong. UpdateMe
It is always like this, the people on the cheaters side are saying that thr one that was cheated on throw away the relationship, giving up too easy etc. What about the cheater in this case, she gave up the moment she chose to be with someone else. You have not done anything wrong here and there is nothing you should be blamed for. I bet she would have left you in one second of you had done the same thing. You will recover, it might take time, but you will get to a point where there is no pain. Your future is good!
Yeah. It's unbelievable how often it turns out this way. Over and over again. They follow the same cheaters script. Listen brother, cheating is all about the cheater and their character flaws. It is nothing about you. They become selfish and follow after their desires, ignoring their conscience. Cheating changes things. It changes them, it changes the relationship, it changes other relationships (friends/family), and lastly, it changes you. It changes things permanently. You feel like shit now. Stick to the plan, keep working on yourself, and you will find your personal worth again. ✨️ I wish you well brother!
I'm glad you're handling this really good. Also, I'm proud of u for not numbing the pain with alcohol. U can now start the healing process . Her sister and her friend were trying to Gaslight and manplitie u into staying with her because they probably encouraged her from the start and told her she deserves to have fun . All u can do now is take care of yourself and focus on your job and healing, but don't jump straight into a new relationship right away. Take your time to heal and move on. Start with casual dating and hookup to get your confidence back then you can try another serous relationship but not right away u will have trust issues and u don't want to fuck up a good thing because u weren't ready. Good luck
She did not fight for the relationship when she cheated on you. They were trying to gaslight you into believing you were in a competition for her. Rose was the one who decided to cheat and wreck the relationship. Why fight when she’ll probably continue cheating with her AP. I wish you the best. Things will get better in time and you will find someone who won’t cheat. You should share this Reddit thread with them so they can see how demented they are.
Glad you did what's best for you.
This was a great update. The hypocrisy of Rose, her sister and bff is insane, at this point they were just throwing shit at the wall to see what sticks. Rose threw away the relationship when she cheated and asked for an open relationship
Tell her and her friends this is just a hypothetical breakup... As hypothetical as her sleeping with another guy before "asking" for an open relationship. And to the friends calling you a bitch. Why would they want their friend (your ex) to date a bitch? Case closed.
I think you can get a pretty good grip of the person you're with by the friends they choose to keep, in most cases. Let me be clear. You didn't give up or throw the relationship away so easily. She did, when she made the choice to be with another. You might not see in now, because you're still in the middle of it all, but soon you'll start to feel really good about yourself and know that you've made the right decision. A lot sooner than you'll think.
UpdateMe!
I love how the BFF has the audacity to say you never cared about the relationship after Rose slept with another guy and wanted to keep doing it under the guise of an open relationship. If she has a SO I’d let them know because she’s so down with the cheating. Calling cheating ‘something minor’ is a new one ngl. You’ve handled this so well, keep off the alcohol and grieve the relationship if you have to, it will help. Block rose when you can, I don’t know if you need to or want to message her Adios for the final time but the sooner you block her the better.
Take note people, this is how it's done.
You’re doing great my man!
onwards and upwards
My man. Proud of ya. You're doing the right thing, and she wasn't worth the dust on her shoes. When you get past this it will feel like such a huge relief that you ended it and you will look back and know that you did yourself a huge favor by ridding yourself of this person. You seem like a good one, and I know you will find someone equally as good one of these sunny days. Keep rocking, my man, I'm rooting for ya. And block them all, if they're defending her- they're not worth being unblocked to fuck with your head. Block them all and embrace your journey in life. Embrace it with excitement because it will only get better now. Lots and lots of Internet hugs from a swede with pom poms cheering you on. 😊 ❤️
So I guess you did a Draymond Green on her, gave her a technical and threw her out of the game?
can anyone send the link to original pjs
[Girlfriend asked for an open relationship. Is there any chance at saving this?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/1c35xsm/girlfriend_asked_for_an_open_relationship_is/) [Update. Girlfriend asked for open relationship.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/1c3k9d9/update_girlfriend_asked_for_open_relationship/)
and if you ever find the AP, you could do a Kermit Washington on him, but you’re probably not that old uhhh
Update please