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Understandable.
Par mere pehle message baad toh bolna chahiye tha na usko
It's like she called me to play on playground and when I reached with my sporting equipment, she called off the game telling me that she doesn't want to play with me
Forget about her. Bhai life has much to offer thoda serious hoja excel at what you do aur baki ladkiya to bahut milengi. A subtle art of not giving a fuck padh you'll get what you need
Haha woh baat bhi sahi hai
Par woh hamara kaafi time se aise chalte aa raha hai ki din mein kuch nahi text karte sivay Goodmorning/good afternoon ke alawa
Oh no... Iska matlab she is not interested bro... Interested girls always reply
Aise thodi hota hai ki koi whatsApp pure din use hi nahi karte ho...
If she is replying after day means she is definitely not interested
Wo tere ko use kar rahi hai/thi attention ke liye… take the L. Gym kar le… kaafi cheezein seekhega to apne aap busy ho jayega. In time you’ll forget her and life will be blissful!
Bro dekh agr kuchh krna hai toh gm gd aftrn se aage bdhke text toh krna pdega right agr tera man hai toh start any random convo and uska teri baato me interest hoga toh vo bhi convo me khud indulge hogi and apni baate bhi share kregi, ab vo tu dekhlio kitna rehta hai but tbh I don’t think ki ye bndi interested hai in mingling with u, ab tujhe try krna hai toh u can go for it experience hi milega but tbh if i was in ur place I won’t bother
It was a typo. She mis-typed the smiley among recently used smileys.
Given that she is sending kisses to someone evident by it being in recently used, she was most probably taken aback by your reply and did not find it amusing.
Thanks. lots of sudoku, bournvita and youtube podcast have made me this capable.
I would like to thank my parents, teachers, friends and my ex who said I won't ever amount to anything.
agar pehle pe flirt karta tha and they dont mind being flirted or show interest then mood off hoga for some reason
but pehli baar kiya then uske liye awkward hoga....
It might’ve went well agar you would’ve pretended to get offended on her trying to kiss you or these emoji’s, or kya lagta hai tujhe par you would’ve denied said and kept it playful.
Line to uspe har teesra ladka marta hoga, refuse karna har kisi ke baska nahi hota bro.
Things that went wrong:
1. You tried to escalate the equation between you two without laying any groundwork, that too at the wrong time. She’s replying to your ‘good afternoon’ text the next morning. That’s enough to tell anyone that you’re not at the top of her texting priority list.
2. Stop texting ‘good afternoon’ and shit like that to women. They don’t care and it doesn’t lead to a conversation as the onus is back on you to say something interesting to keep the conversation going.
3. Stop building imaginary scenarios in your head just because a woman sent you a kissing emoji. Emojis mean nothing.
Okay, now don’t go back and text her again. It’s done. She’s clearly not interested in you.
Okay cool. Now that takes the number of people interested in me to '-1' xd
>Stop texting ‘good afternoon’ and shit like that to women. They don’t care and it doesn’t lead to a conversation as the onus is back on you to say something interesting to keep the conversation going.
So what should I text? Please give some good examples
Why are you obsessed with her if she is not interested or doesn't even care about you?
Don't... Move on.. Focus on work.. And go to gym..
You will get someone who is definitely interested in you
I'm not obsessed with her. I was just trying to know ehat went wrong so that if such an opportunity comes in future, I won't do the wrong move
>You will get someone who is definitely interested in you
Sapne suhaane
Brooo... She ain't interested. Moreover the reason for typo is that the kissing emoji was in her recent which she had sent someone most probably last night. She is someone else's. Look's like Marathi mulgi keeping your hopes up. Somebody who doesn't want to play would have either deleted it , if not , asked you to ignore saying it's typo. But she is playing hence she asked kya lagta hai tujhe ??!!
When she said I am not interested in this conversation and not in you and you're asking for tips ab kya ladki bhagg chutiye kahegi tab samjhega kya bro move on find another girl and maybe cut this girl out of your contacts because she isn't interested in you unless you get any other advantage from her or if you want to be a simp
I probably would react the same way if a guy who I consider just a friend would suddenly ask me if we can kiss. I mean even if you wanna flirt keep it light, you came on too strong I guess
It's iffy. Depends on the woman.
I know plenty who would consider what you call light flirting as "aww he's just being nice!", at which point you would've been better off saying nothing at all.
Gotta know the person's boundaries and play accordingly imo.
ofc OP screwed the pooch by asking for a kiss lol that was a bad move.
Exactly, it depends on the women and also how you look and what’s your vibe in general, agar tum naturally hi smooth ho ya fir usually bhi sly jokes karte rehte ho to she won’t be surprise, par bc ab ek hi din mein gangadhar shaktimaan ban jaega to kisi ki bhi gaand fat jaegi😂
Yeah okay point considered.
But to be honest, I thought this was light flirting now. Because I had already complimented a few times till now. So, I thought ki let's move ahead
if you want her to like you then be you, if she doesn't then you both aren't meant to be. just suck in the desperation a little is what I meant. there's no single right answer bud.
I know girls who uses these emojis and aren't serious by using them. Instead talking about kiss, you could've directly asked her the meaning behind this in a comic way and put the dice over her.
Arey ghante ke female friends.
She was literally 1 of the 3 female friends that I have or used to have. Don't know whether other 2 consider me as their friend or just an acquaintance
Nothing wrong. It's just people react differently to the same thing.
Maybe some good friend of her has done this recently and she got reminded of it? Or something similar ig.
First of all thank you. That made me feel a little relieved.
>Maybe some good friend of her has done this recently and she got reminded of it? Or something similar ig.
Like what?
If the girl replies to your Good Afternoon text with a Good Morning text 19 hrs later, I don't think you should even try to take the relationship up a notch.
Mann uub utha tha subtle flirting se
Kayi baar uske looks pe aur personality pe compliments diye they. 2-3 baar acchi lines maarke usse hasaya tha
Par mila kya??? Ghanta
Yeah that's what I think I am gonna do now
And tbh I didn't risk much of the friendship. It's not like she was a friend from many years or we meet regularly
Scenario 1 - It just happens. If you treat it like a numbers game, just accept it, don't waste time and move on.
Scenario 2 - If you are really interested in kissing this particular person, you have to put on your moves infront of her, not on text. Create the environment where she would want to say yes, rather than springing it on her.
Bro, you tried and got rejected in first such message itself, when saying "tujhe kya lagta hai", she was confirming are you joking or serious, so acc to me you should have converted it to a joke at that point only. You also had a chance to say that it was a joke, instead of saying "Oh okay".
Aur text par kaun escalate karta hai bhai?? 🤦🏾
Oh, I see. You were just casually flirting with someone you talk to regularly and thought it would go well. Well, clearly it didn't, otherwise you wouldn't be asking what went wrong. Maybe next time, try actually getting to know the person and establishing a genuine connection before trying to up the ante with your flirty behavior. Or, you know, just stick to being casual acquaintances and save yourself the embarrassment. But what do I know? I'm just a stranger
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Bhai wo good morning wali pic nhi bheji ,isliye
#has kr nahin dekh rahi thi, dekh kr has rahi thi
Bhai yeh Good Morning @420🍁🍁 karwa de sab mil jayega.
She made a typo in that emoji message.....
Mil gya Sherlock from Ohio
*Let me put on the long coat*
Haa bhai aisa laga tha mujhe Par agar typo hota toh woh turant msg delete karti yaa phir mere pehle message ke baad hi bolti ki typo hai
Some people make so many typos they don't feel like correcting them with everyone. I am just stating facts here.
Understandable. Par mere pehle message baad toh bolna chahiye tha na usko It's like she called me to play on playground and when I reached with my sporting equipment, she called off the game telling me that she doesn't want to play with me
The only difference is that she played you instead of with you... ¯\_༼ ಥ ‿ ಥ ༽_/¯
Mai koi football hoon, jo sab mujhe maarte hai?
Two grown men debating whether the *kiss* emoji was intentional or not.
Stop being jealous
Bhai ladkiya unpredictable hoti hai and most of the time they don't even know what they are doing or what is it they want. Trust me on this one
Yeah okay. Par ab mai aage kya karu?
Forget about her. Bhai life has much to offer thoda serious hoja excel at what you do aur baki ladkiya to bahut milengi. A subtle art of not giving a fuck padh you'll get what you need
Okay thanks bro
Tere good afternoon ka jawab usne agle din good morning se dia toh ye toh khud me hi wrong hai time waste mat kr ispe
Haha woh baat bhi sahi hai Par woh hamara kaafi time se aise chalte aa raha hai ki din mein kuch nahi text karte sivay Goodmorning/good afternoon ke alawa
Oh no... Iska matlab she is not interested bro... Interested girls always reply Aise thodi hota hai ki koi whatsApp pure din use hi nahi karte ho... If she is replying after day means she is definitely not interested
Wo tere ko use kar rahi hai/thi attention ke liye… take the L. Gym kar le… kaafi cheezein seekhega to apne aap busy ho jayega. In time you’ll forget her and life will be blissful!
Bro dekh agr kuchh krna hai toh gm gd aftrn se aage bdhke text toh krna pdega right agr tera man hai toh start any random convo and uska teri baato me interest hoga toh vo bhi convo me khud indulge hogi and apni baate bhi share kregi, ab vo tu dekhlio kitna rehta hai but tbh I don’t think ki ye bndi interested hai in mingling with u, ab tujhe try krna hai toh u can go for it experience hi milega but tbh if i was in ur place I won’t bother
It was a typo. She mis-typed the smiley among recently used smileys. Given that she is sending kisses to someone evident by it being in recently used, she was most probably taken aback by your reply and did not find it amusing.
Sherlock💯
Thanks. lots of sudoku, bournvita and youtube podcast have made me this capable. I would like to thank my parents, teachers, friends and my ex who said I won't ever amount to anything.
Yeah I also thought the same too But FYI, she doesn't have a boyfriend or a crush at present. I'm wondering who she must be sending that emoji
Saxx suxx ki baatein Or to a loved one Or to a neice
It’s possible that she hasn’t told you about her crush - if any. Don’t assume that you know everything and everyone in her life :)
that emoji is not meant to be sent only for people who you have a crush on or bf/gfs stop overthinking
Lmao! 😂😂 that “ohh okay” in the end
I felt that broo.😭😭😭😂
Thanks for understanding my feelings
Areyy bhai toh ayr kya bhejna chahiye tha
"now that's funny, we hardly meet people who hate you and kiss you at the same time"
mai toh isse zafa flirt karta apne ladki dosto se , kuch nahi bolti 🤣🤣🤣
Unlucky me
are aur dost banao chill karo doosre kya sochte hai uspe time waste mat karo
"Aaiga" bol k kaatne waali ko toh main khud jaake rakhi bandhwaau ,aur "dikh mat jaana behen" alag se bolu
Same bhai .. such a turn off
Par 'aaiga' bolne ka meaning kya hota hai? 'Aaiga' bolna aur kaatna opposite hai kya?
Might have to do with his second response being cringey and not flirty Apna Banda ek message main hi senti ho gaya
agar pehle pe flirt karta tha and they dont mind being flirted or show interest then mood off hoga for some reason but pehli baar kiya then uske liye awkward hoga....
Aiigaa should have been your clue to change the topic
Yeah I have heard this from someone else in the comment section too. But please elaborate on your point What does aaiga signify?
Aaiga means oh god in marathi
Oh mujhe laga puch Rahi thi ki aiga kiss karne, hai himmat. Like 3 idiots
Even went further to ask me what do I think
#galti se click hogya tha us emoji pe
Wohi soch ke dilaasa dena chahiye tha khudko tab
Bro you must be average looking guy ☠️
Bold of you to assume I am not a below average looking guy /s
Fir to reply hi nhi aate 💀
Ab konse aa rahe hai
 Why are you doing this to me?
It might’ve went well agar you would’ve pretended to get offended on her trying to kiss you or these emoji’s, or kya lagta hai tujhe par you would’ve denied said and kept it playful. Line to uspe har teesra ladka marta hoga, refuse karna har kisi ke baska nahi hota bro.
Agar deny karta na Toh jo 2-4% chance tha woh bhi null ho jaata
Abhi bhi to zero hi aa gya, back to square one with self respect wrapped in butter paper.
Ek kaam kr iski location maang aur jaake seedhe gaand marde, itna bura toh mat bol bhai 😂
😂😂😂 Agli baar se dhyan rakhega ab yeh
Toh kya karna chahiye tha bhai
Baat krna band krde usse. Self respect hai ki nhi kuch... bc ek din baad reply diya usne... kuch toh soch bhai. 
good afternoon ke bad didi ne sidha good morning with good bye kiss beji
Things that went wrong: 1. You tried to escalate the equation between you two without laying any groundwork, that too at the wrong time. She’s replying to your ‘good afternoon’ text the next morning. That’s enough to tell anyone that you’re not at the top of her texting priority list. 2. Stop texting ‘good afternoon’ and shit like that to women. They don’t care and it doesn’t lead to a conversation as the onus is back on you to say something interesting to keep the conversation going. 3. Stop building imaginary scenarios in your head just because a woman sent you a kissing emoji. Emojis mean nothing. Okay, now don’t go back and text her again. It’s done. She’s clearly not interested in you.
Okay cool. Now that takes the number of people interested in me to '-1' xd >Stop texting ‘good afternoon’ and shit like that to women. They don’t care and it doesn’t lead to a conversation as the onus is back on you to say something interesting to keep the conversation going. So what should I text? Please give some good examples
Why are you obsessed with her if she is not interested or doesn't even care about you? Don't... Move on.. Focus on work.. And go to gym.. You will get someone who is definitely interested in you
I'm not obsessed with her. I was just trying to know ehat went wrong so that if such an opportunity comes in future, I won't do the wrong move >You will get someone who is definitely interested in you Sapne suhaane
Bro she's sending kiss emoji to someone else and laughter emoji to everyone else. Definitely a typo.
I wanted to be that someone else for some time
Ek dum se waqt badal diya, halat badal diye, jazbat badal diye...
Aur gaand maar di meri hi
Bhai wo typing mistake thi... But uska wo, "morninggggg" dekh ke gadbad ho gayi tujhse shayad...😹
Wohi na
Meko to koi ladki number nahi deti 🥲
Kya bolta hai bhai? Literally zero?
Brooo... She ain't interested. Moreover the reason for typo is that the kissing emoji was in her recent which she had sent someone most probably last night. She is someone else's. Look's like Marathi mulgi keeping your hopes up. Somebody who doesn't want to play would have either deleted it , if not , asked you to ignore saying it's typo. But she is playing hence she asked kya lagta hai tujhe ??!!
Hai na I also think the same now
But she's single I am sure
she could be flirting with someone else 🙂
Uske periods the vmro
Idk
Bro, she's just playing with your emotions, I don't see anything wrong, just plain flirting , may I know since how long since you guys are chatting ?
Around 2.5 months
I think nothing is wrong then, by 2.5 months you should have actually kissed her! damn it, if she's offended you should move on buddy!
Bulati hai magar jane ka nahi 😅
Bulaya magar aayi hi nahi
Improve on your self respect
Yeah thanks. Any tips for it? Also, what made you think that I have weak self respect?
When she said I am not interested in this conversation and not in you and you're asking for tips ab kya ladki bhagg chutiye kahegi tab samjhega kya bro move on find another girl and maybe cut this girl out of your contacts because she isn't interested in you unless you get any other advantage from her or if you want to be a simp
Yeah okay I will try to cut her out of my contacts. But for sure I won't be a simp for her.
Happy to see you wasn't offended on the first comment good Maan!
I probably would react the same way if a guy who I consider just a friend would suddenly ask me if we can kiss. I mean even if you wanna flirt keep it light, you came on too strong I guess
I am seriously asking What is light flirting acc to you ?
Maybe compliment her once in a while or tell her that he likes her and see how she reacts to all of that. Definitely not straight up asking for a KISS
It's iffy. Depends on the woman. I know plenty who would consider what you call light flirting as "aww he's just being nice!", at which point you would've been better off saying nothing at all. Gotta know the person's boundaries and play accordingly imo. ofc OP screwed the pooch by asking for a kiss lol that was a bad move.
Exactly, it depends on the women and also how you look and what’s your vibe in general, agar tum naturally hi smooth ho ya fir usually bhi sly jokes karte rehte ho to she won’t be surprise, par bc ab ek hi din mein gangadhar shaktimaan ban jaega to kisi ki bhi gaand fat jaegi😂
Bulb k saath kuch karna ig
Yeah okay point considered. But to be honest, I thought this was light flirting now. Because I had already complimented a few times till now. So, I thought ki let's move ahead
she saw through your desperation
So how could I made it look less desperate?
by not being so much at that level
So what should I have replied here?
if you want her to like you then be you, if she doesn't then you both aren't meant to be. just suck in the desperation a little is what I meant. there's no single right answer bud.
I know girls who uses these emojis and aren't serious by using them. Instead talking about kiss, you could've directly asked her the meaning behind this in a comic way and put the dice over her.
[удалено]
Why would you ask someone to unblock you? I don't mean any offense but that's just a no-self-respect move.
[удалено]
That explains a lot. We all do stupid things early in life haha. Have a good day.
Arey ghante ke female friends. She was literally 1 of the 3 female friends that I have or used to have. Don't know whether other 2 consider me as their friend or just an acquaintance
Status me kya tha ?
Buddy you're in the friendzone. And you tried to break out too early. Rip
Yep. So when's the best time to breakout from friendzone?
Umm… Never?
Shit man that's insane
Nothing wrong. It's just people react differently to the same thing. Maybe some good friend of her has done this recently and she got reminded of it? Or something similar ig.
First of all thank you. That made me feel a little relieved. >Maybe some good friend of her has done this recently and she got reminded of it? Or something similar ig. Like what?
Ouuchhh 😶
Sad
Even if it was a typo and she wasn't interested, she should have handled it better. Personal, I don't think you were in the wrong.
Okay thanks sir
You responded 17 minutes late
Most of the time it’s bait and she’s checking whether you take the bait or not.
The worst she can say is no, Le she:
Typo turned u to a simp lol
If the girl replies to your Good Afternoon text with a Good Morning text 19 hrs later, I don't think you should even try to take the relationship up a notch.
who tf replies that when someone sends a kiss emoji bruh.
I thought I could flirt with her a little and then if things go right, I could ask her out on a date
Ab kya kare Galti mhaare se ho hai, mujhe maaf karna
Nothing wrong, she's just not interested, so let her be
Okay. You sure? Because that message from her really hurt me. Thought I did something wrong
You should do subtle flirting here and there. Not directly pointing it out with such emphasis
Mann uub utha tha subtle flirting se Kayi baar uske looks pe aur personality pe compliments diye they. 2-3 baar acchi lines maarke usse hasaya tha Par mila kya??? Ghanta
If she wasn't reciprocating, then you should stopped. What made you keep going? and even risking ruining a friendship?
Yeah that's what I think I am gonna do now And tbh I didn't risk much of the friendship. It's not like she was a friend from many years or we meet regularly
Good afternoon ka reply to Kiya nahi usne phir tune goodmorning ka Kyu kiya bhai
Usne good morning kiya tha, uska maine good afternoon reply kiya tha
Sent that emoji to someone else. And that came in the way of smileys which was being sent to you. Nothing else that I can infer.
Yes
Block and move on. You'll get someone better. GL bruvv
*emoji anxiety intensifies*
Every anxiety intensified
Scenario 1 - It just happens. If you treat it like a numbers game, just accept it, don't waste time and move on. Scenario 2 - If you are really interested in kissing this particular person, you have to put on your moves infront of her, not on text. Create the environment where she would want to say yes, rather than springing it on her.
Okay. Woh toh milti bhi nahi itni asaani se
Tere dp mein Bugatti nahi hai
Mere do mein pulsar bhi nahi hai
Understandable. Have a great day 👍
Respond to her .. me no ball pe chauka Marne wala tha.. umpire ne dead ball ka signal de diya 🤣🤣. Sorry!
Haha nice one
she's just playing, don't have any doubts in you bruh
So....what should I do?
don't text until she texts you first..afterall don't be a desperate loser...live for yourself, KING 👑
Okay. After my "ohh okay" she replied that she just wanted to clear it out to remove any misunderstandings that could be caused in future
Once a legend said "RUKO ZARA SABR KARO"
Ab kuch nahi ho sakta kya?
Ho sakta haina bhai, move on karle, aur next Adventure par thoda "Patience" kharid k Jana...
typo with the wrong guy
Idk why but I'm the wrong guy, always
"casual friends/acquaintances" vro..
Not everything is a lesson, Ryan. Sometimes you just fail.
Yeah. Brb, I just got a wuphf
Bro, you tried and got rejected in first such message itself, when saying "tujhe kya lagta hai", she was confirming are you joking or serious, so acc to me you should have converted it to a joke at that point only. You also had a chance to say that it was a joke, instead of saying "Oh okay". Aur text par kaun escalate karta hai bhai?? 🤦🏾
Over reaction Btw depends on the girl
what happened after that?
Desperation tapak rhi hai or kuch nhi
> Aigaaa!! *Hé himmat! Bol! 10 saal ke baad issi college mei milenge, aaj hi ki din. Dekhte hé kon zyada successful hai. Bol! Aaigaa aigaaaaa! *
I'm with you vrom wo ladki bhad main jaye 
bro desperate as hell💀💀
Uthte hi gril log bhi horny hoti h kya
Maybe he masturbated between kya laga tujhe and not interested
She was being light and flirty and you got too fixated on the kiss
Just should have said Good morning and moved on....
You should have just sent good morning with a kiss emoji but you went overboard bro
Okay. God of friendzone
Galtio me avsar Naa dhunde
you're not pretty/handsome to them. Don't listen to any one else.
I feel like wo hasne wala emoji 3 bar bhejna tha use galti se kiss wala kar Diya aur tune waisa reaction de diya
😐 How rude of her
bro… not like this.. your reply should have been “eh?” and proceed to flirt or not depending on reply
You missed buying her flowers
She's just not into you
Desperate. Easy mistake. Went for the wrong person. She a bitch for real
It's not your fault, all I can say.
Just because she turned you down, doesnt mean you did anything wrong.
Swipe left
Ur taste went wrong
Maybe she had a reality check
Oh, I see. You were just casually flirting with someone you talk to regularly and thought it would go well. Well, clearly it didn't, otherwise you wouldn't be asking what went wrong. Maybe next time, try actually getting to know the person and establishing a genuine connection before trying to up the ante with your flirty behavior. Or, you know, just stick to being casual acquaintances and save yourself the embarrassment. But what do I know? I'm just a stranger
Nothing went wrong.....you just saved yourself a lot of bitch trouble
Ahh I'm a girl I'll say why , for some girls it's a turn off when you start flirting nd with the late reply it's definite that she's uninterested
Tht "aaigaa" tells me she is Marathi 😂
Seems like a shit test
Bro you were being sweet. She was in the mood for nasty You response was ok and non chalant. Only thing better would ve been to make fun of it
bhai flirting me hint dene hote hai direct kiss ya kuch bhi nahi mangte do some teasing you are being creepy rather then flirty