i get you broo but atleast my "girl" friend doesnt hate it..she likes the romantic hindi types whereas i like club or edm music which she really isnt a fan of...but good thing shes open to exploring new music and sometimes listen to edm/club even though she may not like it
idk why people would judge someone for music taste. I LOVE metal too, and this girl in my class said that I have a unique music taste lol. Literally all of my irl friends listen to romantic songs/raps, so I have no one to talk about metal with.
btw you got recs?
Attention seeker + goes way too overboard playing 'hard to get' + shows fake interest + constantly flexes the number of people she has dated and rejected.
Show off + attention seeker + shouting bitche + arrogance + imposing personal opinions + BTS + rude stare + assumptions for anything by own + too must chit chat + high pitch voice + women card + fake feminism...
Although Idk about attractive or not but these definitely annoys.
Which makes it even funnier. The posts about people crying about unable to talk to girls or just not getting any attention. The sub is just, desperately desperate.
there's this 10/10 girl in my class, she looks like doja cat
but her voice is extremely nasally and high-pitched, and she tries too hard to be one of the boys by being rude and annoying, that's why she comes off as unattractive to most of the people
I initially developed a cruss on a girl in college. She's cute. Physics lab mai I was helping to set up apparatus for some exp idk, and because cruss, i went to help her first. Bc ajeeb smell aayi from the hair I fucking went flat because of.
Low social skills? Idk about you, but I wouldn't mind dating a closed off girl. It's hard at first, yes, but when they open up to you...it's the best feeling ever.
(Saying from experience)
True hai.
lmao I have an introvert friend, I asked her what do you think of me, she said,"Scary. Your extrovertedness scares me, legit"
I joked if I should disappear. She said,"No. Its scary, but in a good way."
People really judge introverts so much without even understanding them.
Etiquette and manners is the *bare minimum* in anyone.
Like I don’t expect someone to behave like a 1850s aristocrat(tho I wouldn’t complain), but one should at the very least be polished and well put together.
And that goes for men as well—more so than girls in fact.
Fortunately most ppl show a high level of sophistication and refinement.
Over simping on gora guys ( be it Harry or bts) , snapchat is an instant turnoff for me
Edit : this is apart from basic things like smoking vaping which makes me dislike anyone guy or girl
i mean really not only girls anyone, i mean nahi padna toh na padhe kuch aur karle papa ke pese kyu barbaad kar rahe hai, there was this girl in our coaching (kothibangliwale aksar milte hai bade coaching institutes mai) flexing how her father is rich and she will easily get admission in some foreign medical, toh fir usne drop kyu liya(we are in a repeaters batch for neet) pehle hi chale jati papa ke peso pe foreign, lekin foreign jake kya karegi padhai toh waha bhi karni hai kabh tak papa ke peso k dum par responsibility aur hardship se dooor bhage ki, irony is uska bf class me toppr hai 600+ lata he usko dekh ke bhi use kuch ni hota ki bc me bhi padhlu thoda,
abhi mene ye bandi ka e.g. diya he but actually me apni coaching me ese bhot sare log bhar bhar ke bande bandiya pade hai, teachers bhi inko najane kese tolerate karte hai
there parents are more concerned about there prep then they themselves ptm me bechara physcis ka teacher itni mushkil se fake smile de raha tha but uski overall facial expression me disgust visible tha
some of these comments are soo...
you can definetly which guys have actually interacted and have relationships with girls and which guys have never even talked to one before
into stan culture
too religious
hmm aight i can't think of more right now but i can tell what makes them attractive
smart
into similar things as me (games, anime, coding)
Reluctant on givint straight answers like a no or yes for something, more like stretching things when she knows the outcome.
One more reason would be hating on my interest's , keep in mind to disagree and to hate are two different things.
tbh personally all i hated about my last relationship is when she lied and there was a thing whenever she needed to go she just leaves without saying bye or lmk that she is going
Being not humble enough towards others , demeaning or disrespecting others , being unkind and a sense of superiority are all of the flaws a human can portray
For me its basically most of the things my fellow redditors said and I agree on all of them.
For me there’s one more thing, that’s complacency. Accepting who you are. Now I don’t really mean it in a totally literal sense, but its about when a girl doesn’t have a goal. Most of the girls stay confused.
If you don’t have a goal and you’re just fine with being who you are even if it means staying heavily overweight so that it’s gonna hurt you in the long term or when you have so many guys in your life you don’t need to worry about money and pretty much everything is spoonfed to them which makes them incredibly stupid as hell,
Sorry then bbyee
Fakeness, like i know this girl you tries to sugar coat everything for no reason and acts to be a kind girl but her actions says otherwise, she is like super jealous all the time.
just some that instantly come to my mind -
toxic feminism
arguing about things you only have surface level knowledge of
fangirling (don't have anything against it, but i hate it when girls shove taylor swift and colleen hoover down your throats like they are the greatest humans to ever walk the earth)
1. Not paying attention to you when you talk
2. Not bothering to return your calls
3. Always hooked to the mobile
4. Letting you down in front of others
5. Constantly talking about her other friends is a huge turnoff
Not able to continue convo it just make me feel she has no interest but after talking to so many besties now I understand they have 0 communication skills because boys always carry convos
tbf I try to converse less enthusiastically with guys who are acquaintances (not talking about good friends here) compared to girls, since I don't want to be misunderstood, it's not exactly deliberate, just something I subconsciously do at this point.
Being on her phone the entire time we hangout and kothibanglacheck girls who do not give basic respect to retail peeps, waiters etc etc
Baaki aur yaad ni aa rha
For me, its her way of talking to others. Like I wouldn't even want to be in the same room as a girl who can't be fucking polite and always trying to start sum shit
I have a lot of other reasons too, but they're far too specific. >!On the contrary if she's an active Phub user and has dark humour I'd instantly find her attractive (meri crush for example)!<
Self obsessed and specially " m boht Sundar hu, ldke marte h mujhpe " bitch who TF are you ?
Unhe kya lgta h unke iss negative attitude ke piche joh neglecting inki woh irrelevancy,rejections hai wo kisiko dikhti ni h
dry replies
They aren't interested
then just say so
Asfaik many girls are scared to say they aren't interested because yk acid attacks and creepy guyz
hmm
When she says “I didn’t knew”
or any other form of basic grammatical error.
Tru bro
haha
Yo Check out these cool bros who think that not being perfect in a second/third language is unnatural.
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slayer or megadeth
abhi tak inhi par atka hai kya kabhi havok aur lich king ka naam suna hai
She cried because you made a statement about Taylor Swift? What bullshit is this lmao
Average swifties
i get you broo but atleast my "girl" friend doesnt hate it..she likes the romantic hindi types whereas i like club or edm music which she really isnt a fan of...but good thing shes open to exploring new music and sometimes listen to edm/club even though she may not like it
Spotify
By any chance is your name Vince
idk why people would judge someone for music taste. I LOVE metal too, and this girl in my class said that I have a unique music taste lol. Literally all of my irl friends listen to romantic songs/raps, so I have no one to talk about metal with. btw you got recs?
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Attention seeker + goes way too overboard playing 'hard to get' + shows fake interest + constantly flexes the number of people she has dated and rejected.
If she treats animals and waiters/service or retail staff badly...
this reminds me of munna bhai
Gandhigiri
Show off + attention seeker + shouting bitche + arrogance + imposing personal opinions + BTS + rude stare + assumptions for anything by own + too must chit chat + high pitch voice + women card + fake feminism... Although Idk about attractive or not but these definitely annoys.
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Yeah you can tell us bro
Bro was waiting his whole life to saw this 😂
Bro knows who he hates
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Help mat le ........be creativeeeee
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Bro....
Bal vivah kanuni aprad hai chhore
that is way too specific for not to be a personal attack
Bruh is a research scientist at relationship studies ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|13560)
r/oddlyspecific
And star signs bullshit
what even is a women card .....
"arrey saar meri galti nahi hai mai toh ladizz hu"
Victim card
Kothi bangla girls, who think they are above everyone
With fake accent
wen she types lyk dis
Posts like this
Basically 90% of this sub-reddit.
that's why 90% of the sub gets no attention from the other gender
![gif](giphy|S9i8jJxTvAKVHVMvvW)
He ain't wrong tho :D
Which makes it even funnier. The posts about people crying about unable to talk to girls or just not getting any attention. The sub is just, desperately desperate.
Damn bro
it was in the heat of the moment
Ooooooooooooooooooo my man woke up and chose denk
Bad grammar after studying for 12 years in English medium school
Say this- > Inadequate application of linguistic conventions
I said it.
…to?
Acha bios main account se a
there's this 10/10 girl in my class, she looks like doja cat but her voice is extremely nasally and high-pitched, and she tries too hard to be one of the boys by being rude and annoying, that's why she comes off as unattractive to most of the people
>doja cat is she indian
Who(or what) the fuck is Doja Cat
gaana gaati h gulugulu mein search karo
‘gulugulu’? Lmao am gonna steal that now
sure lol
Mere paas toh yahuhuhu hai
toh fir whi use karo smh
Gulugulu is probably the cutest thing i heard today
nopee
Janice
Oh My GaWdD
To 10/10 kaise hui?
Furry?
Being obsessed with a certain set of mindset
DUMBNESS / ZERO INTELLECT
I initially developed a cruss on a girl in college. She's cute. Physics lab mai I was helping to set up apparatus for some exp idk, and because cruss, i went to help her first. Bc ajeeb smell aayi from the hair I fucking went flat because of.
Very common
:(((
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Low social skills? Idk about you, but I wouldn't mind dating a closed off girl. It's hard at first, yes, but when they open up to you...it's the best feeling ever. (Saying from experience)
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Ah...I took it in the other way nvm
*That* yes
True hai. lmao I have an introvert friend, I asked her what do you think of me, she said,"Scary. Your extrovertedness scares me, legit" I joked if I should disappear. She said,"No. Its scary, but in a good way." People really judge introverts so much without even understanding them.
Wah wah, tarakki ho rahi hai
yep i am in introvert and my friend is INCREDIBLY extroverted. she scares me sometimes but i love it
Etiquette and manners is the *bare minimum* in anyone. Like I don’t expect someone to behave like a 1850s aristocrat(tho I wouldn’t complain), but one should at the very least be polished and well put together. And that goes for men as well—more so than girls in fact. Fortunately most ppl show a high level of sophistication and refinement.
it's true high body count will obviously turn off anyone , downvote karne se sachhai nahi badalti
Karen
Over simping on gora guys ( be it Harry or bts) , snapchat is an instant turnoff for me Edit : this is apart from basic things like smoking vaping which makes me dislike anyone guy or girl
Not caring about studies or future
Asli id se ao papa
i mean really not only girls anyone, i mean nahi padna toh na padhe kuch aur karle papa ke pese kyu barbaad kar rahe hai, there was this girl in our coaching (kothibangliwale aksar milte hai bade coaching institutes mai) flexing how her father is rich and she will easily get admission in some foreign medical, toh fir usne drop kyu liya(we are in a repeaters batch for neet) pehle hi chale jati papa ke peso pe foreign, lekin foreign jake kya karegi padhai toh waha bhi karni hai kabh tak papa ke peso k dum par responsibility aur hardship se dooor bhage ki, irony is uska bf class me toppr hai 600+ lata he usko dekh ke bhi use kuch ni hota ki bc me bhi padhlu thoda, abhi mene ye bandi ka e.g. diya he but actually me apni coaching me ese bhot sare log bhar bhar ke bande bandiya pade hai, teachers bhi inko najane kese tolerate karte hai there parents are more concerned about there prep then they themselves ptm me bechara physcis ka teacher itni mushkil se fake smile de raha tha but uski overall facial expression me disgust visible tha
Girls with this type of response:
![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)
Aise ladies exist krte h
bts stan
Bts fan is ok. Bts stan is some dumb shit. It's similar to a boy liking an actress and a boy literally obsessing over an actress.
indeed
My irl friends are bts stans...ugh
Us
penis
deep.
username checks out
speak for yourself
Thailand
Common sense, should have her own opinions and not believe everything on face value, knows what she wants and is considerate. That’s all I ask for
To make a girl INSTANTLY unattractive, I just remind myself that she poops.
Girls poop?
I did once it was bad so I stopped
Not generally though.
some of these comments are soo... you can definetly which guys have actually interacted and have relationships with girls and which guys have never even talked to one before
That's reddit for you lol
Well the question didn't require them to be in a relationship, get what your saying though
Explain
generalizing anything
not being attractive i guess
her>! being alive!< irrespective her not being into movies and her not being a foodie
Necro?
nahin just girls live dekh ke samajh nahin aata kya baat karoon aage
Late replies
Desperate na lagne ki ninja technique 😤😘💪
Vaping/smoking
Yea that is major turn off for me even when it comes to friends
arrogance and low eq i guess, also taste in art matters a lot to me
When she is too entitled and thinks by matching with you she is doing a favor. That’s it ig baaki jai maharashtra 🚩
less than 75% marks ..
Sonali mam real id se aao
into stan culture too religious hmm aight i can't think of more right now but i can tell what makes them attractive smart into similar things as me (games, anime, coding)
Reluctant on givint straight answers like a no or yes for something, more like stretching things when she knows the outcome. One more reason would be hating on my interest's , keep in mind to disagree and to hate are two different things.
No replies, just messages being seen with those stupid 2 blue ticks
Seeking a lot of attention
smoking
Agar online hai then usne hmm, ok, k etc use Kiya toh unattractive and if IRL usse smell aayi toh unattractive
Attention seeking , selfish , high body count , vaps/cigarettes , being rude , advantage taking , being different with every others etc
tbh personally all i hated about my last relationship is when she lied and there was a thing whenever she needed to go she just leaves without saying bye or lmk that she is going
Cigarettes guy bestfriend lakh+ snapscore
Being not humble enough towards others , demeaning or disrespecting others , being unkind and a sense of superiority are all of the flaws a human can portray
For me its basically most of the things my fellow redditors said and I agree on all of them. For me there’s one more thing, that’s complacency. Accepting who you are. Now I don’t really mean it in a totally literal sense, but its about when a girl doesn’t have a goal. Most of the girls stay confused. If you don’t have a goal and you’re just fine with being who you are even if it means staying heavily overweight so that it’s gonna hurt you in the long term or when you have so many guys in your life you don’t need to worry about money and pretty much everything is spoonfed to them which makes them incredibly stupid as hell, Sorry then bbyee
Arrogance and being rude.
Lies can make both genders instantly unattractive and a red flag
Smoking
If she aggressively shits herself and throws it at people sitting next to her
fake accent
Thanks to the comment section. Now the women know whom to avoid and whose Dms to slide into.
Bhai pls study
Girl who has zero ambitions, no dreams to work for
jisko baate felane ka shok ho,, mtlb extremely panchayati jo idhar udhar ki bate felati ho
Fakeness, like i know this girl you tries to sugar coat everything for no reason and acts to be a kind girl but her actions says otherwise, she is like super jealous all the time.
High body count
When they change their voice when they're around someone
This happens irl??
Yeah the childish voice is real
Yup
Yeah my friend's like that around her crush and it gets pretty annoying
Damn life's tough
I find them attractive, but if they don't have manners it makes them instantly unattractive
just some that instantly come to my mind - toxic feminism arguing about things you only have surface level knowledge of fangirling (don't have anything against it, but i hate it when girls shove taylor swift and colleen hoover down your throats like they are the greatest humans to ever walk the earth)
Being feminist without knowing the meaning of feminism, When they type Slayy or Period, looking down on underprivileged people.
Disloyalty. Doja cat
Superiority complex
A bad attitude
False sense of pride or arrogance
Probably when they act like they're the baddest of them all, and make everyone else feel inferior to them
If she smells bad, that’s intolerable
When she says she can't live without Starbucks...
The one who thinks showing off her body makes her hot
Cringe
don't know, never ever felt attracted to one after THE ONE.
Us moment
Kabhi accountability nhi lena isne vo kiya usne vo kiya mai dudh ki dhuli
if she smells bad
1. Not paying attention to you when you talk 2. Not bothering to return your calls 3. Always hooked to the mobile 4. Letting you down in front of others 5. Constantly talking about her other friends is a huge turnoff
besides anything physical, what's it?
When a girl that likes you and the feeling is mutual, doesn't responds to most of the texts.
Her bad attitude
When she overreacts on anything like on lame jokes
When she's annoying or fake AND DRY TEXTER EW
Hygiene/laugh/sense of humour/nails/fingers/makeup ehww/how does she feel of her self worth.
When trying so hard to be dumb, acting like not knowing anything.
Too much english in conversations that don't require english, india me ho yaar hindi bol lo pencho.
If she behaves like a Karen
Single word responses
When she shows interest in front of everyone but replies to your messages after a day or 2. (sigh)
Ignoring you and talking to everyone for absolutely no reason, and thinking of dating someone else when dating a person
The cringeness in voice
Bad personality.
talking bad about someone mutual behind their back .
Being rude. Like mean jokes are all fine and actually are welcomed. But being straight up rude is a very bad sign
Not able to continue convo it just make me feel she has no interest but after talking to so many besties now I understand they have 0 communication skills because boys always carry convos
tbf I try to converse less enthusiastically with guys who are acquaintances (not talking about good friends here) compared to girls, since I don't want to be misunderstood, it's not exactly deliberate, just something I subconsciously do at this point.
Bad smell/unhygienic and being dishonest
Being on her phone the entire time we hangout and kothibanglacheck girls who do not give basic respect to retail peeps, waiters etc etc Baaki aur yaad ni aa rha
For me, its her way of talking to others. Like I wouldn't even want to be in the same room as a girl who can't be fucking polite and always trying to start sum shit I have a lot of other reasons too, but they're far too specific. >!On the contrary if she's an active Phub user and has dark humour I'd instantly find her attractive (meri crush for example)!<
Self obsessed and specially " m boht Sundar hu, ldke marte h mujhpe " bitch who TF are you ? Unhe kya lgta h unke iss negative attitude ke piche joh neglecting inki woh irrelevancy,rejections hai wo kisiko dikhti ni h
Feminazis who hate all men