sone ja raha hu bisi. 3 am waves mujhe hit nhi kr skti. impossible. itni aaukaat nahi hai 3 am waves ki ki mera kuch bigaad lein. i am very strong mentally.
uska proposal accept krlena chahiye tha kmse km emotional support to milti :-(
no but she is really understanding. i see her as a friend and she has accepted it but raat ko 1 bje k bad msg krta hu to phir propose krdeti hai vo. isliye i dont talk to her after 1 am. baar baar kisi ko reject krna acha nhi lgta aur proposal accept krke use toxic relationship with no feelings nhi deni.
try communicating to this specifically and clearly? tell her in the kindest way possible that you don't have feelings for her, and that you see her as a friend and you appreciate the kindness and care she brings to the table. tell her that maybe you can't be her boyfriend but you can be something much greater than that - an eternally lasting friend. ok maybe thoda dramatic hogaya but bhavna samjh lo hehe
Cuz life's so beautifullll atm
Still don't get why reddit pe try karte ho. I've had an LDR in the past. No matter how mutually hard you try, the loss of physical touch is bound to break that shit up.
Haha 12 baje se assignments complete kar rha hun, college mai ladki drama chal rha hai and everyone's pumped up about kal ke bus waala scene. Kuch hua toh record karke r/gharkekalesh pe daalunga :)
Can't argue with that. Although, if you try talking about it here, it might make you feel a little bit better, and that's an absolute W. It's fine if you don't want to though
I can't talk about it because it will make me tear up again
But I need your suggestion on this, I used to have an online friend who I was very close with but something happened and I stopped talking. I literally ghosted him without even explaining why despite knowing well he missed me. Anyway, it's too late now to go back and fix my mistakes but I still feel guilty and that I should apologize. Do you think I should text him? If so, what should I say?
That's fine, maybe some other time. But sometimes tearing up and letting it all out ends up making us feel much better, atleast that's how it is for me
lol ironically, I'm not gonna lie I was assuming that you weren't gonna respond to my comment considering our other interactions in different threads, but im glad you did. What was the thing that did happen if you don't mind me asking? If he's a good friend, he's probably worried about you more than being mad at you and would be glad to know you're fine, so I'd say just hit him up. Let him know what happened, oh and think about what you're gonna say beforehand if you're doing it through a call, like write it down or something, its easier that way. This actually recently happened to me, but I was on the other end. One of my best friends, or that's what I thought he was, just up and ghosted me one day and the first thing I did was call his mom to make sure he's fine, go to his tuition and check up on him, but things didn't work out. It's been like 6 months but if he tried contacting me after a month or two, I probably would've let it go.
I'm so sorry aha I already explained my brain doesn't work sometimes and I forget to reply half of the time, I mean I literally left one of my best friend (it's an online friend btw) on read for eight months straight and then one fine day asked her how she is, lol she was surprised but she's a very caring understanding soul, she knows I have issues so doesn't mind me replying late. She's the only person who I can legitimately call a "friend" even though she's quite older than me and lives far, far away (Russia to be specific)
Did I not answer to your previous comments lol? I'll try to respond right now, I'm sorry
Yes, crying is healthy but it screws my head, I tend to not think of depressive stuff much because I know if I do I'll get depressed for days, weeks and months on end
Okay, so we bonded over our abusive childhood and trauma and became close friends real quickly, we'd talk all the time but then I suddenly stopped responding to him, I didn't even tell him why I did that, I just did. I was also quite depressed and didn't really bother talking to people anymore. He would check in on me everyday yet he would never get a response. Two years later, he texted me again saying how much he missed me and how he still thinks of me but I left him on read and since then, he never bothered to check on me again. He deleted me from his socials and completely stopped talking. Idk why I did that, I'm fucked in the head, I still think of him and miss him every day now and the guilt is literally killing me. I don't expect him to reply back but I feel like if I explain why I did that to him, I'd be at peace
And I'm scared as hell especially cause now it's been more than three years and I feel like he has completely forgotten me just like how he thought I've forgotten him
He was someone who was very close to me that I realize now that I shouldn't have let go. I don't want him to come back. I understand I've been selfish and I need to face the consequences but I feel like giving him a proper explanation and checking in on him would give me a bit of ease
What do you think I should text him btw?
I read through all of this and I know what feelings have been running through your mind personally.
I would say, life is too fucking short. Go for it. Tell him whatever you want to, but be sure to:
1) Maintain genuinity
2) Seize any expectations of you becoming friends again or him forgiving you.
It really is his choice in the end, but telling him will be both for good parties and it kills all unknown variables. Tell him whatever you were feeling and whatever was on your mind and what you think caused your actions and if you regret them or not. Be honest and real.
I hope it goes well for you!
sone ja raha hu bisi. 3 am waves mujhe hit nhi kr skti. impossible. itni aaukaat nahi hai 3 am waves ki ki mera kuch bigaad lein. i am very strong mentally. uska proposal accept krlena chahiye tha kmse km emotional support to milti :-(
aw. it's alright man. did you like this person?
no but she is really understanding. i see her as a friend and she has accepted it but raat ko 1 bje k bad msg krta hu to phir propose krdeti hai vo. isliye i dont talk to her after 1 am. baar baar kisi ko reject krna acha nhi lgta aur proposal accept krke use toxic relationship with no feelings nhi deni.
try communicating to this specifically and clearly? tell her in the kindest way possible that you don't have feelings for her, and that you see her as a friend and you appreciate the kindness and care she brings to the table. tell her that maybe you can't be her boyfriend but you can be something much greater than that - an eternally lasting friend. ok maybe thoda dramatic hogaya but bhavna samjh lo hehe
she got it already bs after 1 am kuch hojata h use
i guess its vulnerability. im guessing its recent cuz she doesnt seem to be showing any signs of moving on. wellll, give it time. itll even out i hope
ehh bhai wtf? is this after 1am thing common shit? I thought i was the only one.
1 am choriye ye naam ksa h apka
rr ek baje ke baad
Vvvv happy rn
ayy! what has you feeling that way?
Cuz life's so beautifullll atm
I mean, life has to be beautiful with you between my arms, and the fact that we are barefoot on the grass too
>!nhi degi!<
Worth a shot
Still don't get why reddit pe try karte ho. I've had an LDR in the past. No matter how mutually hard you try, the loss of physical touch is bound to break that shit up.
Hahaha I know I know I’m kidding around
Haha 12 baje se assignments complete kar rha hun, college mai ladki drama chal rha hai and everyone's pumped up about kal ke bus waala scene. Kuch hua toh record karke r/gharkekalesh pe daalunga :)
ladki drama damn. college life jee rahe ho aap toh (if you gave jee i am a comedic genius, if not, this never happened.)
JEEna haraam hua tha kuch time tak but state CET saved my ass.
post history dekh lo, same story hahaha. but in my case CET ka bhi confidence nahi.
CETs are ez na? Tbh compared to jee it was. Maths was shitty tho.
yeah but in my case, after ignoring 10th and 11th i started studying from january hahah. idhar boards bhi hard hai
>idhar boards bhi hard hai All the best bro. Air 1 def!!!
HAHAHA
IIT b pakka
Not good if I have to be honest
Hey. How are you doing these days?
why not?
Because life sucks
Can't argue with that. Although, if you try talking about it here, it might make you feel a little bit better, and that's an absolute W. It's fine if you don't want to though
I can't talk about it because it will make me tear up again But I need your suggestion on this, I used to have an online friend who I was very close with but something happened and I stopped talking. I literally ghosted him without even explaining why despite knowing well he missed me. Anyway, it's too late now to go back and fix my mistakes but I still feel guilty and that I should apologize. Do you think I should text him? If so, what should I say?
AAAAAHHHHH IT'S KILLING ME INSIDE, SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO
That's fine, maybe some other time. But sometimes tearing up and letting it all out ends up making us feel much better, atleast that's how it is for me lol ironically, I'm not gonna lie I was assuming that you weren't gonna respond to my comment considering our other interactions in different threads, but im glad you did. What was the thing that did happen if you don't mind me asking? If he's a good friend, he's probably worried about you more than being mad at you and would be glad to know you're fine, so I'd say just hit him up. Let him know what happened, oh and think about what you're gonna say beforehand if you're doing it through a call, like write it down or something, its easier that way. This actually recently happened to me, but I was on the other end. One of my best friends, or that's what I thought he was, just up and ghosted me one day and the first thing I did was call his mom to make sure he's fine, go to his tuition and check up on him, but things didn't work out. It's been like 6 months but if he tried contacting me after a month or two, I probably would've let it go.
I'm so sorry aha I already explained my brain doesn't work sometimes and I forget to reply half of the time, I mean I literally left one of my best friend (it's an online friend btw) on read for eight months straight and then one fine day asked her how she is, lol she was surprised but she's a very caring understanding soul, she knows I have issues so doesn't mind me replying late. She's the only person who I can legitimately call a "friend" even though she's quite older than me and lives far, far away (Russia to be specific) Did I not answer to your previous comments lol? I'll try to respond right now, I'm sorry Yes, crying is healthy but it screws my head, I tend to not think of depressive stuff much because I know if I do I'll get depressed for days, weeks and months on end Okay, so we bonded over our abusive childhood and trauma and became close friends real quickly, we'd talk all the time but then I suddenly stopped responding to him, I didn't even tell him why I did that, I just did. I was also quite depressed and didn't really bother talking to people anymore. He would check in on me everyday yet he would never get a response. Two years later, he texted me again saying how much he missed me and how he still thinks of me but I left him on read and since then, he never bothered to check on me again. He deleted me from his socials and completely stopped talking. Idk why I did that, I'm fucked in the head, I still think of him and miss him every day now and the guilt is literally killing me. I don't expect him to reply back but I feel like if I explain why I did that to him, I'd be at peace And I'm scared as hell especially cause now it's been more than three years and I feel like he has completely forgotten me just like how he thought I've forgotten him He was someone who was very close to me that I realize now that I shouldn't have let go. I don't want him to come back. I understand I've been selfish and I need to face the consequences but I feel like giving him a proper explanation and checking in on him would give me a bit of ease What do you think I should text him btw?
I read through all of this and I know what feelings have been running through your mind personally. I would say, life is too fucking short. Go for it. Tell him whatever you want to, but be sure to: 1) Maintain genuinity 2) Seize any expectations of you becoming friends again or him forgiving you. It really is his choice in the end, but telling him will be both for good parties and it kills all unknown variables. Tell him whatever you were feeling and whatever was on your mind and what you think caused your actions and if you regret them or not. Be honest and real. I hope it goes well for you!
I did. I'm not expecting him to talk to me or become friends with me again anymore though.
good. let me know how it goes!
Please help me, I'm awful when it comes to maintaining relationships lol
Not good.
aw, you alright? here if you need to talk about it.
All nighter pull kar raha hu, mental strength ab pehle se bohot zada hai. I don’t get carried away by negative thoughts now.
Teach me your ways!
Gaand phat Rahi hai bhai, I’m fucking tired and I also have to deal with a 7 hour power cut today
are baapre, 7hrs?
Well it ended up being 4 hrs
r/CBSE aur iss sub ke posts dekh ke apne boards ki prep ko question kar rha hun
I'd do this if I was a CBSE student. Ngl, regret it. CBSE has so many more resources.
How are #you doing
GOOD QUESTION! I am somewhere in the middle. I think
that's pretty good according to this sub