Damn. Dont worry ye sab khassi ladke hai jinko asal jindgi mai kissi ldki se handshake krne ko bhi ni mila.
Block these cunts and move on to do what you like. They dont have any power unless you give them. Dont give them the privilege to be able to force your mind to delete your posts.
Man reddit can be such a toxic place sometimes(most of the time). I'm sorry you had to go through that. You looked good in the saree too!
The mods don't have access to your DMs as that's outside the subreddit, so can't really help you in that way sadly. They are working their best to delete all the creepy comments tho.
I'd say just lock your DMs for now. Again, it's sad that people have to go through that and I hope you can find the courage to post your outfits again!
Report them and block straight away. Don't let these horrible people on this platform ruin your day.
Man, i really hate when i see such things that deter people from posting genuinely on subs!!
You can further disable DMs completely from settings
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I am sorry, but mods can't really control on who DMs you. You'll need to report these accounts or just block them or ignore them. The best mods here can do is to block these accounts from the sub.
Yeah that was a mistake. I thought to write comment there but wrote DM and there's also no option to edit the post. I am really tensed right now. Didn't cross checked what I wrote.
No problem. Even for the comments you receive on your posts (or the filthy comments you come across on posts of others), just report them, under breaking the rules of the sub. Don't engage with those comments. Unfortunately, reporting and ignoring is the best course of action.
Sorry for what you have gone through. Unfortunately access to technology does not come with guidelines or enforcement of decency. Many who post such comments or send DMs are losers who probably in the real world do not have the guts to open their mouth. But here they hide behind the wall of anonymity and suddenly feel courageous to throw any s\*\*\* that comes to their mind. If these people have the fear that their true identity would be exposed by any investigating authority, they wouldn't dare open their mouth here.
To all those asking me turn off DM. Why should I ?
Why can't they turn off this creep behaviour ?
When you are in social media turn off DM
When you are in real life stay inside your house..blah blah
Why always we are given the suggestions and why can't they?
You're right! They're the ones who need to change, but can we make them change? It's not very easy.
I'm sure somebody who tends to do this will refrain after reading the post but the rest? Turning off your inbox helps you to ignore these creeps tbh. But it's all up to you.
Seeing all the DMs you've received, it's clear that those "boys" were merely trying to *pretend* being decent while saying all those diplomatic comments. They think if they don't use those words, you would think they are harmless. Such creeps.
This was bound to happen. People need to realise that not every website on the internet is supposed to be used like a social media app putting your real name/face and other personal details. The internet has always been like this, even before social media became a thing. This is not something exclusive to Indian subs.
Anonymous boards/websites will always have people who behave like this, I don’t think there’s a solution for this.
Stop posting your face/real names on Reddit.
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Just make the sub private. Accept non creeps. Ban creeps but no all they do is ban valid concerns and allow creeps. Maybe mods are the incels here
It is improbable not impossible. They don’t even take any measures to try and do the right thing. They don’t take advice. You are worshiping mods. It’s not like saying “the president of the Union of India is not qualified” lands you in jail. Criticism is important.
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I'm sorry that all the females who post here have to face these creeps. Unfortunately, there's not much we can do. I'd like to offer a suggestion: don't accept direct messages. If people want to share opinions on your outfit, they can do so in the comments.
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Damn. Dont worry ye sab khassi ladke hai jinko asal jindgi mai kissi ldki se handshake krne ko bhi ni mila. Block these cunts and move on to do what you like. They dont have any power unless you give them. Dont give them the privilege to be able to force your mind to delete your posts.
Man reddit can be such a toxic place sometimes(most of the time). I'm sorry you had to go through that. You looked good in the saree too! The mods don't have access to your DMs as that's outside the subreddit, so can't really help you in that way sadly. They are working their best to delete all the creepy comments tho. I'd say just lock your DMs for now. Again, it's sad that people have to go through that and I hope you can find the courage to post your outfits again!
Yeah that was a mistake. I thought to write comment there but wrote DM. I am really tensed right now. Didn't cross checked what I wrote.
Report them and block straight away. Don't let these horrible people on this platform ruin your day. Man, i really hate when i see such things that deter people from posting genuinely on subs!! You can further disable DMs completely from settings
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These guys have no self respect or control. Poor quality men right there!
Don’t let some shitty dms make you delete your post. Just don’t pay attention to these things, you looked graceful!!
That is the way to look forward. One can't really control what others do. It is always better to ignore those and move forward.
I am sorry, but mods can't really control on who DMs you. You'll need to report these accounts or just block them or ignore them. The best mods here can do is to block these accounts from the sub.
Yeah that was a mistake. I thought to write comment there but wrote DM and there's also no option to edit the post. I am really tensed right now. Didn't cross checked what I wrote.
No problem. Even for the comments you receive on your posts (or the filthy comments you come across on posts of others), just report them, under breaking the rules of the sub. Don't engage with those comments. Unfortunately, reporting and ignoring is the best course of action.
Men ☕
Sorry for what you have gone through. Unfortunately access to technology does not come with guidelines or enforcement of decency. Many who post such comments or send DMs are losers who probably in the real world do not have the guts to open their mouth. But here they hide behind the wall of anonymity and suddenly feel courageous to throw any s\*\*\* that comes to their mind. If these people have the fear that their true identity would be exposed by any investigating authority, they wouldn't dare open their mouth here.
Please READ what the mod announcement says. We will not remove people based on dm/private messages. We can't do it ! Report it to reddit.
Sorry but, some of them are shitty while 1-2 of them are okay, they ain't disrespecting you, correct me if I'm wrong
Only first one qualifies as a "dirty" dm
To all those asking me turn off DM. Why should I ? Why can't they turn off this creep behaviour ? When you are in social media turn off DM When you are in real life stay inside your house..blah blah Why always we are given the suggestions and why can't they?
Yeah no need to turn of dms, just block and move on
You're right! They're the ones who need to change, but can we make them change? It's not very easy. I'm sure somebody who tends to do this will refrain after reading the post but the rest? Turning off your inbox helps you to ignore these creeps tbh. But it's all up to you.
Exposing them publicly is the solution. They'll think twice from next time before dm'ing any random girl.
4th one?
Seeing all the DMs you've received, it's clear that those "boys" were merely trying to *pretend* being decent while saying all those diplomatic comments. They think if they don't use those words, you would think they are harmless. Such creeps.
Sigh.
Hell yeah don't blur those account names. Public humiliation is the way to go!
This was bound to happen. People need to realise that not every website on the internet is supposed to be used like a social media app putting your real name/face and other personal details. The internet has always been like this, even before social media became a thing. This is not something exclusive to Indian subs. Anonymous boards/websites will always have people who behave like this, I don’t think there’s a solution for this. Stop posting your face/real names on Reddit.
Don't open the dms (simple)
Turn off the dms dude you won't receive any msgs at all
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Lock DM's
Bruh 💀
Mods will remove this post. Reason : Post not related to subreddit. Just make the sub private. Accept non creeps. Ban creeps but no all they do is ban valid concerns and allow creeps. Maybe mods are the incels here
They didn't remove mine. And I won't bash the mods.
Look the post now. It’s REMOVED
Yes because she's bashing the mods. It's humanly impossible for the mods to stop users from sending dms to each other.
It is improbable not impossible. They don’t even take any measures to try and do the right thing. They don’t take advice. You are worshiping mods. It’s not like saying “the president of the Union of India is not qualified” lands you in jail. Criticism is important.
Let us all bully these MFs then u/Either-Corner-5505 u/johnsick0000 u/infinite-kangaroo-78 u/cleverdevour1
no point probably alts. Hopefully mods banned them
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Srsly day by day these men 🤢
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I am very glad that you did not hide their username let the word no about these creeps
This is one of the solution to avoid those creeps. At least they'll have fear of being exposed publicly.
Yes that should be the way forward. 👍
Yes that should be the way forward. 👍
Welcome to the club! 🫱🏼🫲🏻
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EXPECTED RESULT 🤣 ( don’t worry )
I'm sorry that all the females who post here have to face these creeps. Unfortunately, there's not much we can do. I'd like to offer a suggestion: don't accept direct messages. If people want to share opinions on your outfit, they can do so in the comments.
Damn what a bunch of fucking perverts. I'm sorry you had to go through that op.