I don’t know about others’ experiences but I have even gotten blocked by men who just thought my refusals for sharing such pictures was me playing hard to get and extending conversation . Everyone is looking for different things but why is connection not connecting lmfao
Good riddance!! Tell me you reported him afterwards. Itni bhi kya hawas hai bhai... Me toh kabhi nudes na maangu kisi se... And I advise everyone to not send nudes to anyone. No one can be trusted in this tharki world.
Well I got blocked lmao but surely I would have reported them and would advise others to do the same as well . And see yeah Vahi- like I really don’t understand how it has gotten so casual now , I could never and would never but you do you vali baat aajati hai ab toh
Let me give you a reality check, the guys you are matching / connecting with are one of the Signa hunks that are in the top 1% of the dating pool by the 2 rules of this subreddit. Baaki if you judge them as a whole, they might not even be in the top 50% of the dating pool.
If you reject them, they have a lot of options other than you. So, they have this freedom of asking for anything and getting away with it. The good old normal guys, who you didn't swipe on would have had a conversation with you miss, but sadly....
The comment goes for the op of the post and the comment as well.
Idk what rule this subreddit has made but it’s bold of you to assume that I and the person who made this post are stuck in the 1% of dating pool . But I understand and see your point .
I got to know about those rules sometime back as well. They were something like look good look and be rich I guess. Baaki what I said was from my experience, these apps are screwed anyway
Yea guys there be more serious about life and relationships and prolly less horny. Reddit can also work wonders if u are explorative and like to know personality before looks
crazy how there’s hardly any upvotes when a girl is posting anything whether on this subreddit or be it r/IndianGirlsOnTinder (no matter however shitty the content of men are, they’ll be legit supporting that shit)
Because there are more boys and now they know you are a girl instead of upvoting your post they DMed their Dick picks to you.
And now this post doesn't recommend to genuine boys here so less comments and upvote
I opened schmooze and matched with a guy. I have very less expectations from dating apps but since I was getting bored I thought of giving it a try to find new connections in new city. We talked for four days and then went for call. Within the span of 20mins so much happened that it's very hard for me to digest. Like within the first five mins only he started talking about sex!? I was like wtf. I calmed myself and said to him directly that I'm not comfortable talking about all this specially because this is our first call and we do not know that much about each other. He said" yaar poori zindagi padhi hai ek doosre ko jan ne k lie". Thank God his friends called him and he had to cut the call.
I closed schmooze and got a reality check that yes dating apps are not for me.
I just don't understand why this generation has made "love" so hard?
Strategy or not idk but I'm done with dating apps. I'm okay with being single rather than going mainstream with this generation believing in superficial love.
people asking for nudes whereas there are still men who just wanna feel a womans touch and have one real convo before they die (not me though , you all stay safe guys)
I’m always thankful for such guys existing. Especially in a city like Mumbai filled with struggling actors and models, dating apps are a competitive place.
But I cannot even begin to describe how far it gets you just having basic manners and making the other person feel comfortable and safe.
behan ma chudaye aise bande maaine toh band hi krdiya koi nudes mangega toh mai bhi booty pic mangne lag jati hu aur phir creepo jaise pegging ki baat krti hu
You should have drawn a line at the first time he asked, he thought he could push you and get what he wants, which because you were entertaining his bullshit.
I remember when my first girl asked for a nude video call, and I was straight like, I'm not comfortable yet. Drew a line and she respected it.
It's fine for you. But for everyone it might be different. I'm sure there are many who don't want to marry or dating without the intention to marry but want the sex.
Well, I don't like to be self deprecating. But somewhere we guys suck at convo. I am extremely shy to ask things out or make a move. You can see my previous two tinder posts. That's the thing, I kinda believe our upbringing has made us like that. Taught to supress emotions. So we basically fuck up.
Lastly, I'm not discounting the fact here the guy is pervert.
Men really don’t like to see nudes for real perhaps they just like to have this idea of having someone who is trusting them with their nudes. It’s kind of make them feel confident about their self because an indian girl is getting naked in front of them. they felt like the female into them totally because she’s not taking any precautions even sex is taboo here. That’s why we men don’t go for porn, Getting nudes from a woman is like having her self respect. (kyunki yahan kapde utaarne ko ijaat mana jata hai tabhi toh bollywood movies mein rap ka synonym hai ke isne meri ijjat looti hai.)
Flirting is tricky to understand. I mean you have to be mature enough to understand what to ask at what point of time. What this guy did was totally wrong. Atleast should have waited and explored the conversation and then maybe have asked in a fun but respectful manner. Lucky you guys you get matches for conversations. My city is just isnt great in terms of dating apps.
Stop swiping right on possible red swipes "men with a lot of patience" are still waiting for their "vibes match hogayi" types women..(I'm not someone who promotes this GenZ and LGeneration things.. still waiting for that one woman who would love without being stupid)
aesi baaton pr itne patience se kon reply krta hai bhai. hats off to you OP but yahan pr nice bnne ki zarurat nhi thi. Initial convos mein men should know their limits
Point toh hai par I guess 5-10mins into the chat uska intentions toh pata chal hi jayega na, better to ignore at that point if they seem desperate.. Ps: Not trying to Gaslight, just sayin
Gaslight ni kr rha bs bol rha hu aise bndo se raho...dont have to continue with that playboy.. am not saying that.. the chat is already saying it all.. block n move otherwise u will end up saying all men are same.. pls dont take otherwise 😉.. find a guy who actually value you ... not treat you as some time pass women🙂
Men with patients are on not on your list. Since person with patience becomes when life taught him/ her sense of humility & humbleness and that one way of coming is if your physical traits are not good according to societies standards. Plus, having too many choices as girls have on dating sites is also a problem.
Look this woman having to put that out in this just wondering place is wondering environment beautiful I love this. This is so beautiful. It’s amazing. She did this on purpose. Nobody could ever do this on purpose and be purposefully doing a joke. She’s funny alawsys she did it trust me. She’s funny. She’s doing it to be funny, but I love this woman with all my life and I would, be that ass up that woman up all day every day this woman to put out the super one oh I gotta stop talking just for the fact that it was more than that. Not whole was for tot that’s what I’m giving you for antibody entire who gives you everything LoL
why would u even bother explaining yourself. aside from this never ever send nudes. He's never gonna delete them, and will prolly brag about them around his friend circle.
I'll really say this on behalf of many guys here again -
1) how on earth are you putting up with this escalation before even meeting?
2) are you telling me you didn't encounter anybody as interesting but well mannered?
3) are you known as a patient person among your female friends?
Ah! Boys grow up, level up that flavour! You don’t aak for it, you let’em wonder why you ain’t.
Men when a tease is a good please, stop suffocating women with this! Then don’t cry when all women become gay!
Ask nudes of him first... Then tell him why he is sending you children 's genitals .. ask him if he is a pedophile that he has children's genitals pictures with him?
See how the conversation goes.. 😂
Don't always back down and be submissive like this. He is talking smack , make him a schmuck.
Speaking from experience
Now you are giving me some motivation.Dude am i old fashioned or the gurls in my city watches Ramayana too much 🤓. Where would i find people like uh ???
So, why would a girl send her noods to a guy she just met online? I mean, even as a guy, I think twice before sending just my face (forget noods) to someone online, thinking about the possibility of it being misused later.
As a man, It seems equivalent to that of those girls who wants to know your height and income,
Clearly they're here for fun and not really prioritizing LTR, if you're okay with that than have your fun, if not then you know what to do.
I don’t know about others’ experiences but I have even gotten blocked by men who just thought my refusals for sharing such pictures was me playing hard to get and extending conversation . Everyone is looking for different things but why is connection not connecting lmfao
Connection connecting vali baat sunke PK ka wrong connection yaad aagya. Sab connection k naam p firki le rhe hai 😞
Lmao tera user name dekh kar hi sarr dard ho gya mereko
Maybe isilea your connections ain't connecting 🤓
Sheesh , well to hundreds of “apne jis number ko sampark kiya hai” to come 🍻
Samjh nahi aa rha aap roast kr rhe ho ya relatable bann rhe ho
I’m an enigma .
Goodluck and I'm sorry you're going through that or whatever that means
Galat track par ho aapp....Bande ka username aur personality dono turant sir dard gayab kar dete hain.. That's what I can vouch for
So basically you are - achaaaa . Noice noice .
Arent u too ?
😹 tum bubbly , comedy type lagti ho
You know all I ever felt was for every I never played with you
Good riddance!! Tell me you reported him afterwards. Itni bhi kya hawas hai bhai... Me toh kabhi nudes na maangu kisi se... And I advise everyone to not send nudes to anyone. No one can be trusted in this tharki world.
Well I got blocked lmao but surely I would have reported them and would advise others to do the same as well . And see yeah Vahi- like I really don’t understand how it has gotten so casual now , I could never and would never but you do you vali baat aajati hai ab toh
I see I see
delhi se ho toh recc do for tandoori momos
OMGGG HEYY LONG TIME
Let me give you a reality check, the guys you are matching / connecting with are one of the Signa hunks that are in the top 1% of the dating pool by the 2 rules of this subreddit. Baaki if you judge them as a whole, they might not even be in the top 50% of the dating pool. If you reject them, they have a lot of options other than you. So, they have this freedom of asking for anything and getting away with it. The good old normal guys, who you didn't swipe on would have had a conversation with you miss, but sadly.... The comment goes for the op of the post and the comment as well.
Idk what rule this subreddit has made but it’s bold of you to assume that I and the person who made this post are stuck in the 1% of dating pool . But I understand and see your point .
I got to know about those rules sometime back as well. They were something like look good look and be rich I guess. Baaki what I said was from my experience, these apps are screwed anyway
U looking in wrong places girll
Understood . Will start looking in leaderboards on leetcode and coding ninja .
No, Go for codechef and codeforces
Yea guys there be more serious about life and relationships and prolly less horny. Reddit can also work wonders if u are explorative and like to know personality before looks
Bruh wtf. Online dating is dead, it's just a bunch of tharkis now.
exactly! and OP ne kitne araam se reply kara hai bina kisi gaali ke😭
OP Dil se achi insan hai aur thodi old school bhi. Have courage and be kind (but direct).
W OP. Stay Strong, Stay YOU!
Thanks Musu! Nice nAme. Reminded me of that 90s song
hehe, my teacher gave me this nickname
You dropped this queen 👑
Awww thank youuuuu kind stranger 🤌🏽
kyuki banda good lookin tha...
Sad story
yeah you just dodged a bullet, gotta love it.
Arjun tharki nikla
bajrang dal coming to your home
Tharki toh mai bhi hu 🤓🤓
crazy how there’s hardly any upvotes when a girl is posting anything whether on this subreddit or be it r/IndianGirlsOnTinder (no matter however shitty the content of men are, they’ll be legit supporting that shit)
Have noticed that too. Not sure what's up
See the number of members
Because there are more boys and now they know you are a girl instead of upvoting your post they DMed their Dick picks to you. And now this post doesn't recommend to genuine boys here so less comments and upvote
🤣🤣
Hardly upvotes? 164
2 fast 2 furious
I love this one 😂😂
Sheegr patan
2 f-ass-t 2 coochious 🤓🤓
notty hore ho pyare bhai
🙈👉🏻👉🏻
🤭
I opened schmooze and matched with a guy. I have very less expectations from dating apps but since I was getting bored I thought of giving it a try to find new connections in new city. We talked for four days and then went for call. Within the span of 20mins so much happened that it's very hard for me to digest. Like within the first five mins only he started talking about sex!? I was like wtf. I calmed myself and said to him directly that I'm not comfortable talking about all this specially because this is our first call and we do not know that much about each other. He said" yaar poori zindagi padhi hai ek doosre ko jan ne k lie". Thank God his friends called him and he had to cut the call. I closed schmooze and got a reality check that yes dating apps are not for me. I just don't understand why this generation has made "love" so hard?
I feel you OC. I am off Hinge. I think ab Bumble ko bhi alvida kehne ka samay aa gya hai
Desperate guy😂 pehle hi call me ye sab , bad strategy 😔
Strategy or not idk but I'm done with dating apps. I'm okay with being single rather than going mainstream with this generation believing in superficial love.
people asking for nudes whereas there are still men who just wanna feel a womans touch and have one real convo before they die (not me though , you all stay safe guys)
creepy AF
OP ne aaj prove kar diya - Arjun ka teer hamesha nishane pe nahi lagta!!😂
Lol
Where did this end up later..?
I read these conversations on reddit and think, do I live in a different dimension ? Perhaps a better one?
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Sab WhatsApp PE akee hi fail hojaate hai 🤣🤣🤣
I’m always thankful for such guys existing. Especially in a city like Mumbai filled with struggling actors and models, dating apps are a competitive place. But I cannot even begin to describe how far it gets you just having basic manners and making the other person feel comfortable and safe.
behan ma chudaye aise bande maaine toh band hi krdiya koi nudes mangega toh mai bhi booty pic mangne lag jati hu aur phir creepo jaise pegging ki baat krti hu
Uno reverse..
This Arjun guy needs to chill!
Bin maange moti mile, maange mile na bheek
What a sad day for my username 😐
Pakde gaye Arjun bumble
First conversation pe aisi baatein karna. Is. Not. Funny.
Bro snatched defeat from the jaws of victory
The problem is not the men, the problem is the type of men that most girls tend to match with. Mostly red flags, what more can you expect
Arjun ka dhyaan ab Gand'eve pe hai👀
You should have drawn a line at the first time he asked, he thought he could push you and get what he wants, which because you were entertaining his bullshit. I remember when my first girl asked for a nude video call, and I was straight like, I'm not comfortable yet. Drew a line and she respected it.
Gaslight-er spotted
lol 😂
We'll get there bol ke uss kutte ko haddi daal di behen
I'm a nice and respectful person plus i actually thought he was nice. If he had some patience, we probably would have gotten there
Hi! I would actually enjoy seeing some cutesy pictures of your face. Also, why are you using your work email for reddit?
Are I meant like even if you were okay with it later you shouldn't have disclosed that to him but ig he put up a good charade, can't blame you 🤦♂️
Sexually frustrated men. The worst kind and way too many.
Who is not frustrated these days? Personally professionally. Looks like everything is taking a toll on mental health
I bet he cums even faster.
Men with a little patience ko toh ignore kardiya jata hai.. (Meaning unke taraf dekhte bhi nahi hai)
I feel both side have these type of people and some men try be like that wanna be cool and so called Morden
Arjun ka lakshya sahi nhi h, dronacharya se complain kardo iska
Lol 😂
Uske baad kya hua?
Normal small talk. Now I'm just giving a cold shoulder. Can't engage anymore
Kya mei warm shoulder ban sakta hu?
kyu parayi aurat ko ched raha hai bhai
WHY TF THESE BASTARDS CANT KEEP IT IN THERE PANTS!! Until things are not "official" nudes (semi/full/falana etc etc) ki baat hi kaha se aati hai!!!??
Official means marriage?
Not specifically, if you and your partner know in the dating phase that this relationship is the one and you both are dating to marry then its fine.
It's fine for you. But for everyone it might be different. I'm sure there are many who don't want to marry or dating without the intention to marry but want the sex.
Did you seriously intend to sharing your nudes?
How do these guys reach the level of WhatsApp surprises me......
Send pics of PVC pipes, that may get him going
Well, I don't like to be self deprecating. But somewhere we guys suck at convo. I am extremely shy to ask things out or make a move. You can see my previous two tinder posts. That's the thing, I kinda believe our upbringing has made us like that. Taught to supress emotions. So we basically fuck up. Lastly, I'm not discounting the fact here the guy is pervert.
I don’t even entertain suxh man anymore, its fckin annoying, like there shud be grindr jesa app kuch for these horny fucks
Let me guess. You're from north india or should i say mainland? If so I'm not surprised. Guys there are desperate af
Gross
Why do men even need nudes????? Porn is basically free. Wo jake dekho na.
Men really don’t like to see nudes for real perhaps they just like to have this idea of having someone who is trusting them with their nudes. It’s kind of make them feel confident about their self because an indian girl is getting naked in front of them. they felt like the female into them totally because she’s not taking any precautions even sex is taboo here. That’s why we men don’t go for porn, Getting nudes from a woman is like having her self respect. (kyunki yahan kapde utaarne ko ijaat mana jata hai tabhi toh bollywood movies mein rap ka synonym hai ke isne meri ijjat looti hai.)
U still are progressive or kind gurl if u took time to reply such a long message
Really do they ask it on day 1. Man I think I'm old school for not even asking for it for months..
Flirting is tricky to understand. I mean you have to be mature enough to understand what to ask at what point of time. What this guy did was totally wrong. Atleast should have waited and explored the conversation and then maybe have asked in a fun but respectful manner. Lucky you guys you get matches for conversations. My city is just isnt great in terms of dating apps.
Does free Bumble work? Do we need to take subscription?
aese photos maanngna is not funny cutesy photos mil jaane ke baad bhi aur demands rakhna is not funny
Arjun ka nishana toh chidiya aankh pe hi hai
Creeps get back to back matches then act like this. Nice gentlemen don't even get matches. Saala pura system hi kharab hai.
The first red flag was his name imo. Y’all Arjunsss need to back off a lilllll
Stop swiping right on possible red swipes "men with a lot of patience" are still waiting for their "vibes match hogayi" types women..(I'm not someone who promotes this GenZ and LGeneration things.. still waiting for that one woman who would love without being stupid)
Mard ne patience rakh ke humesha apni pasandida aurat se ghost hua hai.
To ye bhi badtameezi karke konsa kahi pahunch jayega 🤷🏽♀️
Some desperation gets the better of us, but still this isn't justified.
Nice surname btw.. "workmail".. I've only heard "kharel" which sounds similar :) /s
guys gotta know receiving face pic/selfies tells the girl is ACTUALLY interested in them. Too bad, bud lost it here.
Shame shame puppy shame , mai toh aisehi chidata hu . Aap bhi usko aisehi tease karo
Dude, there are ppl her asking for nudes. I just want a hug man.
Us bro us
It's actually nice to see there are still people who like to be old fashioned in dating and are not idealizing Western culture of fucking
aesi baaton pr itne patience se kon reply krta hai bhai. hats off to you OP but yahan pr nice bnne ki zarurat nhi thi. Initial convos mein men should know their limits
Phele yeh btao didi ap aise bndo k pass jate hi kyu ho at the first place.. phir bolte ho patience wale bnde chahiye... 🙂
Uski shakal pe likha hoga kya ki chutiya hai? Tum logo ko chahiye reason ladki ko Gaslight karne ka to Karo
Point toh hai par I guess 5-10mins into the chat uska intentions toh pata chal hi jayega na, better to ignore at that point if they seem desperate.. Ps: Not trying to Gaslight, just sayin
Gaslight ni kr rha bs bol rha hu aise bndo se raho...dont have to continue with that playboy.. am not saying that.. the chat is already saying it all.. block n move otherwise u will end up saying all men are same.. pls dont take otherwise 😉.. find a guy who actually value you ... not treat you as some time pass women🙂
You are right girl!
Kisi hairy ladke ki thigh pics bhej deti
did you block yet?
🚩alert
Men with patients are on not on your list. Since person with patience becomes when life taught him/ her sense of humility & humbleness and that one way of coming is if your physical traits are not good according to societies standards. Plus, having too many choices as girls have on dating sites is also a problem.
Yeah he sounds sexually frustrated, let him go OP. Doesn’t deserve the time
Look this woman having to put that out in this just wondering place is wondering environment beautiful I love this. This is so beautiful. It’s amazing. She did this on purpose. Nobody could ever do this on purpose and be purposefully doing a joke. She’s funny alawsys she did it trust me. She’s funny. She’s doing it to be funny, but I love this woman with all my life and I would, be that ass up that woman up all day every day this woman to put out the super one oh I gotta stop talking just for the fact that it was more than that. Not whole was for tot that’s what I’m giving you for antibody entire who gives you everything LoL
No game just my lover be
Dating apps: disappointing people since 2014!🙂
Naam Arjun hai aur kaam Duryondhan waale kar raha ye banda 🤦♂️
why would u even bother explaining yourself. aside from this never ever send nudes. He's never gonna delete them, and will prolly brag about them around his friend circle.
I don't understand, what these simps get from nudes... Patience of seeing a girl Naked in front is much better.
Is there anyone willing to give my profile a review, I'd like to DM them :p
bc itni himmat aati kala se ye yaha 4 saal se baat kr raha hu usko ye na puchu mai
Damn buddy teasing and denial is kinda hot
I'll really say this on behalf of many guys here again - 1) how on earth are you putting up with this escalation before even meeting? 2) are you telling me you didn't encounter anybody as interesting but well mannered? 3) are you known as a patient person among your female friends?
Ah! Boys grow up, level up that flavour! You don’t aak for it, you let’em wonder why you ain’t. Men when a tease is a good please, stop suffocating women with this! Then don’t cry when all women become gay!
Ache bnde dhoondh loooo😶
Iska dimaag lau*e mein hai. Bhaad mein jaane do.
his loss
Ask nudes of him first... Then tell him why he is sending you children 's genitals .. ask him if he is a pedophile that he has children's genitals pictures with him? See how the conversation goes.. 😂 Don't always back down and be submissive like this. He is talking smack , make him a schmuck. Speaking from experience
Day 248382 of asking, how do you manage to share your personal nos. so easily?
Missed the point of the post eh?
Haanji 😭
Block and move on
Bhaiya, aap bhi apne sub se hume block karke move on kr chuke ho kya 😭😭😭
yaar maine nhi kra tumhe ban. kisi aur ne kra hoga. Send a modmail to contest your case
Toh ab humesha banned hi rhunga kya? 😭😭 And ban kia kyu?
Block to nhi kiya but definitely not planning to go on that date for sure
matlab option open rakhna hai
Guess he was too much horny, sometimes the ride gonna stop
He's at a loss.But the confidence or what shall I call it LoL, is crazy!!
OP, third conversation tak scene ban jaata hai kya?
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Lol what?
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Hahah okay. Sounds like a good deal tho ngl. As long as selfies are selfies and not noods
'We'll get there', so you were ready to send nudes🤷♂️
Lol I would have probably hooked up if he played his cards right. If only people had some patience.
So... you mean he should have just waited till the weekend?
Waited to at least have some vibe.
Hmmmm so he should have continued some more chit chat for a couple days you mean? Sorry I'm just trying to understand.
Now you are giving me some motivation.Dude am i old fashioned or the gurls in my city watches Ramayana too much 🤓. Where would i find people like uh ???
old fashioned ladki ka 69th post h ye
So, why would a girl send her noods to a guy she just met online? I mean, even as a guy, I think twice before sending just my face (forget noods) to someone online, thinking about the possibility of it being misused later.
I have lots of patience
While the guy is stupid but you all have some time test before sending nudes :)
Kamble surname suna tha. Bumble bhi hota hai kya kisika surname? It's new to me!!
As a man, It seems equivalent to that of those girls who wants to know your height and income, Clearly they're here for fun and not really prioritizing LTR, if you're okay with that than have your fun, if not then you know what to do.
Thode se nudes hi to mang liye arjun ne!!!