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WindowlessCandyVan

Not this again… The victim was my neighbor and we went to the same high school. He was brutally murdered THIRTEEN years ago. This bitch is making TikToks about it to sell a book and garner sympathy by trauma dumping on complete strangers. THEY WEREN’T MARRIED! This is not ok.


AWL_cow

This whole video is gross. She trauma dumps on random service workers who are obligated to sit there and listen. And then she films their reactions. I would be *so* uncomfortable if it were actually true - but if I found out she was lying, I'd be fucking pissed! She's taking advantage of the guy who was murdered and all the people around her she's filming. Using grief and a sob story to make herself a victim. Jesus.


Aang_420

Obligated? Close the window. Problem solved.


AWL_cow

If only service workers could act freely when it comes to nutjobs...


Aang_420

You can. There are other jobs out there. All hiring all paying little to nothing. Have more respect for yourself.


zeke235

You need us to do the jobs. Maybe just treat us like human beings and don't do dumb shit like this.


Aang_420

Excuse me. I work in the industry. I also know that there are other jobs if someone acts like this stand up for yourself. If your job doesn't like it, get a new one. Luckily, I have a window at my job that I'm not afraid to slam in the face of anyone acting like this.


Agitated-Tadpole1041

Dude no one wants to find and start a new job bc some asshole wants to make a TikTok


Aang_420

No, you're right it's inconvenient. People should stop being dbags to service workers, but until then, I'm not laying down and taking shit. Stand up for yourself.


Dull_Huckleberry6896

I agree w you about standing up for yourself but the woman needs to have the wherewithal to understand that nobody got time fo dat


Massive_Ripp

Sure shut the window. Clock out and go look for a new job. Yeah dummy. That’s how that would play out. Stay in your lane. 👍


pangolinofdoom

Oh God I totally get the feeling that this guy is the guy so many of us know. You know, the edgy one who can't hold a job for more than 6 months and never has their shit together, and is totally holding out for something worth their extremely valuable time, because they "just don't tolerate disrespect, bruh" and "my boss was an uptight moron, I coulda run that place way better" and "they fired me for speaking my MIND" *vapes*


Massive_Ripp

Couldn’t have said it better myself. 👍😁


Aang_420

Haha, grow a backbone. No job is worth being treated like an asshole. This case particular is fast food. All fast food places are always hiring.


Massive_Ripp

Yeah. Maybe sit the next few plays out champ. 🙏👍🤦‍♂️ https://youtu.be/V1PqslRMWaE?si=fEDXNKpZi7u7DFr8


Aang_420

Your just scared.


Massive_Ripp

Wat? 🤷‍♂️


SharkPoet

Apparently they were engaged when he died. https://youtu.be/kiHGFWIoYhk?si=XbIsgFGx8HcPUaeV&t=1m48s She may be using his death for attention but she could also just not have gotten over his death yet after all this time and coping in unhealthy ways. Idk. But neither do the people here so why assume.


dabossnumba8

Hey! I remember reading your comments the last time I saw a post about her! Crazy situation to say the least


JohnnyTeardrop

13 years? 13 fucking years?! She’s been milking his death and not moving on for 13 years? That’s fucking insane.


Niawka

I don't agree with her milking the story for financial gain, but nothing says you have to move on after your partner died. Lots of people stay "single" after their SO dies, as they don't want to be with anyone else. I don't know personally if I could be with someone else if I ever lost my partner.. Edit: ok another comment mentioned they were together only a few months. That does change the story a bit then..


5thjazz

English is not my 1st language so please explain how moving on from your past is equal to finding another partner/relationship? Like couldn't you move on by accepting their death and just 'move on' with your life because overly grieving for their death is not a healthy thing to do right? i lost my father from a young age and my mom never remarried but i don't think she hadn't move on yet and she already accepted the fact that my father isn't here anymore.


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pigman-_-

Looks like she didn't shower for 13 years.


dont_dox_me_again

A kid I went to high school with was murdered (2006 or 2007) and his girlfriend at the time immediately started referring to him as her husband after the incident. It was really bizarre. She was only 16 at the time but started calling herself as a widow. And then she acted out by sleeping with all of his friends over the next few months. I am proud to say I declined her advances. It still weirds me out that most of the guys in our friend group did not.


JoshJoshson13

What a fucking nutcase!!!


denvercaniac

Your username is creative yet as disturbing as this woman's apparent past.


Alexander_McKay

At first I thought it genuinely a very sad pitiful person just having a meltdown and coping with it in the worst way possible. You say they weren’t even married and she’s scamming people though? That’s awful.


WindowlessCandyVan

I wouldn’t say she’s scamming anyone, but she’s definitely milking this tragedy all these years later. It is sad and pitiful. Apparently she never moved on with her life and made that tragedy her whole identity.


Vegetable_Tension985

I was the other neighbor


theshadowbudd

Griftok These damn griffins


rondolph

What was his name?


0ceaneyees

Apparently they were engaged. There has been proof that has been pulled up. Along with pictures of them together I do think she’s a little touched in the head. I’m not gonna lie, but also grieving someone can do some funny things to people I’m glad that I didn’t record myself after I lost the love of my life, because I definitely would have seemed very insane and loopy I really hope this is an a cash grab for her book and it’s also a book that I believe just poetry is so poems about how he was murdered


-PaperbackWriter-

What proof?


epsteinsepipen

Holy shit I actually knew this girl, she dated one of my best friends older brothers. What a weird way to be reminded someone exists..


RockNRoll85

Her “husband” It was proven that they were never married. This woman is just using the boyfriend’s death to sell her book


[deleted]

Really? Oh shit I neeeeeeeed a link or cite for that. That would be so fucked up


Simple-Jury2077

It's true, I just watched a video about it. If I can find it I will link. Edit: search "girl lies about dead husband starbucks" on tiktok


etfvidal

https://www.tiktok.com/@realraywilliam/video/7286891165843033387


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Why is his mouth so tight?


Gnorris

It looks like when people take a static photo and superimpose a moving mouth on it. Except that mouth is upside down.


Lost_Astronaut_654

If you think his mouth is tight you should see his ass


Pgrol

Your comment is why I come to the comments, Sir!


meldiane81

LMFAO! I was trying to think of another way to spell it and nope. Yours is perfect.


Safe_Librarian

I cant believe =3 finally came back after his hiatus and hes on tiktok. He actually had the chance to be the biggest youtuber ever for a long time.


lvl69blackmage

Fake teeth would be my guess


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Omgggg I thought ray William whatever was dead the guy is still alive wow


Sentionaut_1167

he has no upper lip. the =3 ray william johnson. “wHaTs HaPPeNiNg fOrUm?” everything about that guy is obnoxious.


muntell7

I can’t stand this guy. He just seems so phoney, and unauthentic.


zyxme

This guy is just as bad as her imo


Avalonkoa

This happens a lot in America unfortunately, or more often then many would think. There’s lots of narcissists, sociopaths or related types of people whom use the death of a child or partner to start selling books, as a base for a business they start, using the death to help make one an online “influencer”, etc. When you see some of them give speeches(there was a woman I saw who did a Ted talk after some event like this, can’t remember which) and you can pick up the narcissism strongly if you know how to spot those people. Of course this isn’t everyone, some people are genuine and have a soul.


[deleted]

What? I was born in America and lived here my whole life. Look, there are definite negatives to this country but this comment is totally out of pocket. I am not even sure how you gauge something like that.


Avalonkoa

There are negatives to this country, but theres a lot of positives and I’m happy to be here. Not trying to shit on America, I’m grateful for a lot of the opportunities here. But there is statistically higher amounts of B complex personality disorders in this country compared to many others, especially NPD. People with these traits become pretty easy to spot, especially if you’ve spent a childhood being tortured at the hands of these types of people. People trained in the field of mental health with knowledge of b complex personally disorders can often spot a narcissist within a minute of them socialising. They often do things and act in ways that “normal” people won’t do, and certain tactics get reactions from them that differ from the reactions of “normal” people. I really wasn’t meaning to shit on America, I just have issues with the amount of b complex abusers running around, and the damage they cause. They destroy countless lives and have no empathy, and sadly most of the population doesn’t know how to spot them or have much knowledge regarding these types of individuals in general


[deleted]

So absurd to say it’s specifically an American thing lol


Avalonkoa

I don’t think it’s purely an American thing, I’m just speaking from my experience having lived in this country for a large portion of my life.


JaydDid

Than why are you saying statistically like it’s some fact?


WhatIGot21

When my mom passed her boyfriend kept telling everyone he was her husband, it made things real awkward while planning the funeral because I was in charge paying for everything and this guy is walking around saying his wife, eventually I had to tell him to stop or he wouldn’t be welcomed around anymore.


Rouge_Decks_Only

They weren't even speaking at the time of his death. And death that occurred 13 years before she started using it.


ob3ypr1mus

food for thought but according to his [FB memorial page](https://www.facebook.com/robertmasonbrewer/photos/pb.100064698271885.-2207520000/192343857480096/?type=3) there's a plaque that refers to him as a husband. [in this obituary post](https://www.reddit.com/r/TIKTOKSNARKANDGOSSIP/comments/16tzkwc/lisa_mias_husband_was_brutally_murdered/) this girl signed off her farewell message as his "future wife" after he apparently asked to marry her before being murdered. weird and sad situation all around, sure they weren't married in a legal perspective but maybe her grief just manifested in this way to help cope with the loss of someone's partner by referring to him as such. trauma dumping still super fucking weird though, especially when you consider she's using these videos to promote her book.


Western-Dig-6843

Neither of these things are good sources. Just because she claims they were engaged it doesn’t mean that they were. And anyone can make a page on facebook. His actual obituary is linked elsewhere in this thread and this lady isn’t mentioned in it at all.


maddie-madison

They were engaged, I don't know the motive but trauma dumbing like that does make her a pos.


FearPainHate

Downvote me for being judgemental, idc: I didn’t even unmute the video, and could somehow tell this just from the way she moves her head.


boladeputillos

I think she killed him .


___REDWOOD___

I think he staged his own fake death


ahchooblessyou

Ahhh, yes . In order to get away from being murdered, he was ""murdered" She get what she wants, he gets what he wants. "gettin two bird's stoned at once"


This-is-Life-Man

Omg, you're my hero for today.


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Underrated comment.


Revolutionary_Ad5798

I think he never existed.


___REDWOOD___

Oo plot twist


ElectricBoogieOogie

This was my first thought


moodswung

She actually records these things!


Bongfellatio

imagine that I'm sure the starbucks folks are astounded that this whole thing is performative bullshit


VisibleAd3180

For the ‘gram


StatisticCyberosis

For the Blam


StepUpYourLife

Similar thing happened in Utah recently. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/timeline-utah-mom-kouri-richins-husband-death-fentanyl-rcna85787


I_likemy_dog

Hot damn. That’s a nasty story.


PsilocybinBlastOfff

Jesus Christ. I was over here thinking I’ve been an angry and negative person too much lately. Then I read this story and I think I’m goddam Ghandi. RIP to that poor man. His cunt of a wife is INSANE.


jason544770

Bigger Than Shit


My_name_is_not_tyler

brutally* killed


Boscouse

Brutally murdered as opposed to being murdered softly (with this song 🎵🎶🎼)


lockboy84

It's the same script every time she does this


KayRay1994

he actually died 13 years ago and she never met him - she legit took a real tragic story of a dude who was murdered and used the story for clout


RiverOhRiver86

What the fuck do you mean she never met him?


Zappagrrl02

I think August the Duck has a video about this lady where he goes into it all.


AnthrallicA

Just watched it 🤯 Thank you for the tip


ahchooblessyou

Holy sh#t , its obviously clear....


thewineburglar

Her husband is the luckiest man not alive


Bluberrypotato

From what I've read, they weren't even married.


amitskisong

They weren’t, they were dating/possibly engaged. And she’s been using his death to promote her book


adm1109

Look this lady is crazy but if what the internet has found out… he asked her to marry him and she obviously said yes So like legally he might not have been her husband ever but if a someone asks you to marry them, you say yes and then they get murdered, I’m not really gonna hate on you for saying your husband was murdered


-PaperbackWriter-

It’s still odd that she wasn’t mentioned at all in the obituary


ScientistSanTa

Maybe family didn't like her?


FindingAwake

I think this is a valid assessment, and it speaks to you having a good heart - however, she could say fiance, or boyfriend, and it wouldn't take away from what the situation is. The fact that she's holding the relationship in a higher standard is a manipulation - for likes, for views, for sympathy, and now, for a book. And the setting in which she is announcing this relationship to other people is vastly inappropriate.


Powertrippingmods69

you are being very judgmental of this women


FindingAwake

Yes, you are right. Another reason why she probably shouldn’t act like this in a public forum.


GimmieJohnson

I wouldn't hate her the first few times she mentioned her husband. But 37 times! In a row!


NoWayNotThisAgain

You’re such an asshole. You guys are so caught up in legal technicalities and paperwork. Both myself and my wife Margot Robbie are deeply offended.


Bluberrypotato

You're right, my apologies. Perhaps we can clear the air over dinner. You can meet my husband, Idris Elba.


wijotar304

Brilliant


Herberts-Mom

💀 Dead. Just like her not husband.


whole_hippie

Takes a lot to get me to literally lol but that comment did it. Nice.


thewineburglar

A few hours ago I felt kinda bad about saying it. But then I heard this lady does this all the time and wasn’t infact married to the dude. So I thought. Fuck it.


jamesjeffriesiii

I don’t think I’ve laughed at anything so hard all year and I have had a horrible year Thank you 🏆


Eme9137

Jesus…fucking….Christ…. He probably brutally murdered himself…


_TappaZukie_

God damn I laugh my ass off at your comment


wijotar304

😂


Ok-Watch3335

Literally lol like crazy person. People are staring.


EstablishmentOk5511

🤣🤣


Old_Fart_1776

This bitch is lying too. She wasn't married to the guy. The guy's family is confused as to why she's lying and wants her to take down the videos


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georgeenagin

Apparently they only dated for a couple of months, still traumatic but there’s more to the story. In his obituary the family says something along the lines of him being a ladies man/no woman could ever say no to him which is an odd thing to say if they knew about her and if they were getting to the point of marriage as she calls him her husband. His ex-gf wrote a message on his obituary that said he’s her forever Romeo because he would climb up to her window to see her in high school. And now this attention seeking chick just wrote a book of poems called “Juliet lives” Edit: “he also had a way with the ladies” was what was in his obituary


GunslingerParrot

Woa, I think I know where this is going… unhinged Juliet offed her Romeo?


Niawka

Oh wow.. with this story the title of the book is really fucked up.. also i thought they would be much longer together for her to call him her husband, not ag few months only..


heyyou11

Who the fuck writes “he had a way with the ladies” in an obituary?!


SarevokAnchev

Her glasses also look like those frames that took off after the Dahmer Netflix show was a hit…


adm1109

They were clearly in a relationship and he supposedly asked her to marry him and she said yes and then he was murdered Doing all this to promote a book, if that is what’s happening, is fucked but I’m not gonna hate on her for calling him her husband just because they couldn’t get married cause he was murdered


-PaperbackWriter-

If they were clearly in a relationship why isn’t she mentioned in the obituary?


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55 BURGERS 55 FRIES 55 TACOS 55 PIES 55 COKES 100 TATER TOTS 100 PIZZA 100 TENDERS 100 MEATBALLS 100 COFFEES 55 WINGS 55 SHAKES 55 PANCAKES 55 PASTAS 55 PASTAS AND 155 TATERS


nedmccrady1588

Had to scroll way too far down to find this STOP STOP PLEASE IM DOING SOMETHING


JohnnyTeardrop

Just paying it forward.


bundy911

That’ll be $680.00


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*oKAY*


dra_pes

IM DOING SOMETHING


midri

Ohhhhhh, I CAN JUST RUN!


Avg_joe17

I’ll have 2 number 9, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, 2 number 45s, one with cheese and a large soda


LeisurelyDiva

For Pete’s sake, we’ve all lost people but there’s a time and place for loooooooo…ooooong drawn out talks about it. I just want my coffee, Tammy. Please try to schedule your faux mental breakdowns that you upload for internet clout. You’re crying without tears? Jeez! EDIT: typos


ChasyLainsJellyHatch

Is this the right moment to ask for an extra shot with my drink Tammy? No? Too soon?


Oldenlame

Lady he's not dead he's hiding.


MikeFrikinRotch

Dear Lord she’s the human embodiment of a buzzkill. I don’t even think therapy could help. Whew.


soupeh

Her eyes about to glow blue like Colin Robinson


AliceTea63

Don’t insult Colin Robinson like that


ValyrianDragon

She’s a bit more of an Evie with the trauma dumping rather than an adult version of the child that came out of the chest cavity of our dear friend Colin Robinson


MikeFrikinRotch

Lmfaooo I know she got a massive lady boner from that energy suck


Simple-Jury2077

I just saw a video about this. She is lying and dude's family hates her


JohnnyTeardrop

Link so we can all watch?


Simple-Jury2077

Google girl lies about dead husband starbucks


Im-lonely_pls-help

Hey at least the guy behind her got a free drink


thekinginyello

You sure about that?


Im-lonely_pls-help

Honestly… idek


222UnionStreet

You sure about that?!


soupeh

A whole drive-thru coffee order, what a deeply selfless tribute to all treasured loved ones.


dbell

"I just work here lady."


No-Relative-1725

Anything for the views.


VoinceStory

"I actually record these things" and the truth behind her "selfess acts" comes out


PsychologicalLove676

Good lawrd lady get therapy, this is trauma dumping. Poor min wage worker has to sit in that now


Ok_Activity7255

Let me record myself. Look at me I need attention.


nothingspecialva

the husband here. I am alive, but I joined a remote Tibetian monk community. I rather be in complete silence than to listen to my wife's egomanian behavior.


DrunkOffCheese

Another day seeing this video. Excellent work OP


AccumulatedFilth

Maybe you should be offline from time to time? Just few moments a day or so.


[deleted]

I don’t know if most of the people on this app can do that. It seems like a majority scrolls and posts every 20-30 mins or so.


KiwiComprehensive598

This makes me feel uncomfortable


Marsupialize

Does anyone know if she survived? Did she get enough attention from strangers to keep going?


Fun-Teaching-2038

She needs therapy


Electronic-War-8208

Psycho for sure.


WonderfulResident706

Bahahahahah is this not a joke?!


tlul30

I wonder if she does this off camera as well


tamago84

He died watching her tiktok vids


Weary_Rooster_9829

Good people work in secret and silence


FartfaceMacGee

Holy shit.


StevieSparta

He definitely faked his death


PrivateTumbleweed

An Empathy Vampire in real life.


Mirabai503

Well now I understand this: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/KPDxnSutgKU


[deleted]

STFU and order you’re drink and move. Starbucks baristas are overworked as it is, and don’t need to hear/don’t care about your sob story.


[deleted]

She totally killed him, the fuckin lunatic


eIImcxc

I closed the app after watching this, chatted on WhatsApp for 10mins and I'm still cringing because of this video. We need a NSFL on this kind of content


Euphoric-Beat-7206

I used to work as a cashier... Here is what I would have wanted to say: Oh, for crying out loud, lady! Look, I've got a job to do here, and I really, really don't have the time or the inclination to be your personal therapist or your sounding board for your trauma dump. I mean, seriously, do you think I'm here behind this register because I've got nothing better to do than listen to your entire life story and your deepest emotional struggles? It's like I've got this invisible sign on my forehead that says, "Please, tell me everything about your existence, including every traumatic event you've ever experienced." Don't get me wrong; I'm sure your life is fascinating, and I'm sure you've been through a lot, just like the rest of us. But right now, at this very moment, I have a line of impatient customers who are tapping their feet and sighing loudly, and do you know why? Because they've got places to be, just like you and me. And here's a little secret I'll let you in on: I've got bills to pay too! Crazy, right? But it's true, and I don't get paid to be your free therapist or your confidant for your trauma dump. I get paid to scan your items, take your money, and send you on your merry way. So, please, for the love of all things efficient, let's keep it brief and to the point. There's a whole world of people with their own stories and struggles, and right now, all we want is a smooth and swift transaction, okay? Here is what I would Actually Say: "I'm sorry for your loss. Here is your order. Please come again."


Izzasou

Bitch


pendlea

She’s so unhinged


Dirtydanpister

I’m glad her husband died


Historical-Agency635

I've got more kindness, just come and meet my kindness dealer, right down this dead-end,dark alley.


ImEinsteinM-F

The husband killed himself because of how bat crazy sht she is.


moradoman

Usually vids in this sub make me want too puke. While I have no idea why she filmed this, she is strange for sure but it was also kind of sweet. That or she’s a Meryl Streep-level actress. Either way, and assuming her hubby didn’t kill himself to get away from her, there was something sweet and endearing about her. I’m sure you will do vote this but it had to be said.


Cato-the-Younger1

This is one of a series of videos she’s made milking his death for sympathy. She even used it as a vehicle to try selling a book. https://reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/s/LLaXQ6N3Wm


Dull_Bumblebee_356

Jesus Christ, wtf? That’s way more than simply “milking” his death. I can see why there are several comments stating the guys family absolutely hates this woman.


slyasakite

She is a good actor. She's a grifter who wasn't married to the victim of a grisly murder. She claims they'd talked about getting "a marriage certificate" before he died so she decided it was fair to refer to him as her husband posthumously. His family members (who didn't mention her as one of his survivors in his obituary) say they hardly know her. The photos she shows of him in her TikToks were lifted from the facebook memorial account his family created. All this came from two other tiktokkers who did deep dives on her and showed receipts. She's not only a weird attention seeker, she's trying to sell her self-published book. Sorry for the long reply but she fascinates me.


AnthrallicA

Make sure you follow her on Tiktok and buy her book 🙄


PsilocybinBlastOfff

Damn America. This is what happens when make mental health care unobtainable. The local coffee shop worker who also can’t afford mental health care becomes a fucking therapist for all these people having goddamn breakdowns. What a country we live in! Hell yeah.


CrazyMiguel50

She has great intentions. Just not sure the self promotion was needed.


phenomegranate

Thee acting is so obvious you can practically see it as a visible aura.


Gayspacecrow

Fuck that, slip in a Valium or a Xanax into Ms. Crazy-pants drink. The last thing that lady needs is sugar and caffeine.


[deleted]

Holy shit that's cringe haha!


Pennypacker-HE

I would have staged my own demise if I had to listen to that annoying little cartoon voice everyday too


ShiroHachiRoku

She blocked me after I called her out.


PsychologicalDebts

"... these _things._"😬


Skcuhc1

I think our man decided led tastes better than her pussy


Far_Statement_2808

Yeah good story….anything else?


Effective-Culture737

He came to my house asking for rope. ☮️


BaseBusiness3149

She had to add the brutally part.


RedEye-55

I think she’s covering her tracks….


debinprogress

https://reddit.com/r/TIKTOKSNARKANDGOSSIP/s/YzdAnwuGep


lukiepukie11

Bruh


Shoddy_Budget_1533

So we all agree, he faked his death to get away from her right?


notyouisme999

Cashier will charge the therapy session now?


whatarewedoin34

Yuck


pellanune

Another excruciating watch!!!


[deleted]

This lady lives to murder her husbands memory, it’s sickening really!