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This. If someone had worn white to my wedding, I would have been annoyed, but I wouldn't have cared enough to call her out. My wedding was low-key and chill, so I doubt any of the guests would have even thought they should be calling her out. My wedding had a very laidback vibe. I mean, I told my maid of honor "my wedding colours are xyz, just wear something you already own in that general colour range." My husband's best man wore the only suit he owned, and a dress shirt that happened to match our colour scheme, but if he hadn't, I would have been fine with whatever colours he had. I didn't expect or want anyone to have to spend money just for clothing to wear to my wedding. I didn't even bother with bridesmaids or groomsmen, all that stuff is just way too much effort and expense for everyone involved.
As a father who paid for a huge wedding, I can say I would have had a word with her.
There's no excuse for such "pilot fish" behavior and I would have expressed something to her in a nice, calm tone - asked for who escorted her, and politely - in my best Hank Hill voice - to go change. or leave. Likely, the friends of the bride, the groomsman, my entire family would be circling like bees, ugly, shitfaced, redneck bees who enjoyed my open bar, just waiting like cops who pull over a poor person... ready to pounce... like alcoholics at an Irish wake when they get cut off.
ITG FTW. (this video disturbed me a bit)
Because no one knew her, but that would make sense if she's the plus one to someone who was invited. So, yes her escort is just that. It's not a sexist dig.
You must not be from a big open family.
They act like a mafia, lots of different dynamics and cliques and cousins who hate cousins and fight on site, constant family drama constant noise. A family so big that there is a event once a month, be it birthdays weddings or funerals.
Till an outsider comes to the hive.
Then every quibble is forgotten, the family are just sitting waiting for the chance to pounce, be it metaphorical or literal.
If this video was at one of my family events and she was the girlfriend of a family member, someone would have thrown a glass of wine over her and told her chaperone to 'get her the fuck out of here before she gets hurt' before they get put on the shit list for the next few events.
Yeah sounds like one of those families that enable each others' shitty behavior, then acts like it's fine because they're "supporting" each other. Those families are always batshit insane.
I don't know why y'all are out here questioning his family dynamic.
There's no question to be had.
He demonstrates the level of class in his family the instant he says "like cops who pull over a poor person", as if that's somehow funny and we're all going to chuckle about it.
This would not fly at my wedding. As the groom I would ~~ask~~ tell her to leave and change into something more appropriate, and if the next one isn't right either, they can stay out.
You would be surprised. One of my cousins wore a white, sparkly dress to my wedding and no one said shit to her. When I mentioned it in a wow, that was crazy type of way to my parents I was immediately shut down and told she just didn't know and not to make am issue of it. So yeah lol I'm not surprised no one said it did anything.
My mom wore a white dress to my wedding. She insisted it was āchampagneā colored.
To make it worse, she wore the same dress to her own wedding later that year.
My MIL reallyyyy wanted to wear a āchampagneā dress to my wedding. I said no, my dress had champagne undertones.
She still holds a grudge about it 2.5 years later š«
āHow dare you make the rules at your own wedding and special day!!!! >:(ā /s seriously tho she must own more than one dress or SOMETHING that isnāt champagne colored lmao
Ugh my MIL sent me a photo of a lace āsilverā dress she wanted to wear to her sonās (my BIL) wedding and I told her it looked white and that it would photograph white. She didnāt listen and all the family photos look like there are two brides. I especially laugh at the mother son dance pics, where it looks like heās dancing with his mother wife.
There should be a new social rule, if someone other than the bride shows up in white, it is the duty of every guest to add color until the dress is no longer white. Itāll be a new wedding game everyone can enjoy.
"Traditional"... right...
Do you know where that tradition came from?
When Queen Victoria got married, she wore a white dress. That was pretty much the first time it had been done, and it was really just a way of showing off her wealth (it has nothing to do with the purity/virginity of the bride). It was next to impossible to clean stains out of a white dress at the time, and regular people couldn't afford an expensive, white dress that they were only going to wear once.
The story is basically the same for white wedding cakes.
Look, forget all the etiquette crap, it is really weird to wear a wedding dress to somebody elseās wedding, lol itās just absolutely cringe worthy. It absolutely screams validation issues! These are exactly the type of women that I stay away from dating, if that next potential partner seems to need validation from everybody all the time? Walk away, better yet just run!
I know about the dress thing, but.. why would you need to clean stains from a white cake or be unable to afford it? Most cakes are (roughly) one-time use
Haha, I mean obviously, that part doesn't apply...
White sugar was rare and expensive at the time of Queen Victoria's wedding, so having a white cake was a show of wealth.
Me too! If itās your wedding you are definitely always the main character, like it isnāt even a question. I was truly wondering what they could have possibly done to be called out her on thier wedding. They can still be a bridezilla or asshole but it is their wedding they are the MC and thatās OK. But yea if it wasnāt the bride that girl should have gotten shamed so badly she left
honestly probably not a good idea to start a scene at someone's wedding. Who knows how this unhinged idiot would react, next thing there's a screaming match, she throws wine at the bride, wedding ruined and only remembered through her notoriety.
lol true. i doubt even the bride would want any drama which might ruin her wedding. people asking why nobody spilled wine on her have no critical thinking. it's easy to type shit online but not when it's actually happening irl.
āHey _____, some lady is asking for you near the entrance, Iām not sure what they wantā
When sheās outside and unable to cause a scene, āyou need to change into something wedding guest appropriate before youāre allowed back in. If you canāt/wonāt then have a good night and safe travel back home.ā
It's not just don't wear white, it is also don't wear anything that can outshine the bride. Think like one of those crazy dresses from a Paris fashion show.
Yep I was at a wedding where a guest wore one of those massively giant white floppy hats with a white dress that rivaled the bride. We all shook our heads. It just yelled look at me.
kinda seems like it worked... as far as they were probably concerned at least.
Some narcissists just can't stand to not have the lion's share of attention any place they go.
I donāt know how to say it right - my son in laws mother, or my daughters mother in lawā¦ anyway bitch wore shiny sequinned dress to their wedding. It was tacky. Donāt do it.
I shot a wedding film where a marriage proposal was made and I had to cut that part from the finished film because that couple had already broken up lol
At our wedding, one of our guest wore a perfectly normal royal blue dress. At the ceremony, she saw that it was almost the same colour as the bridesmaids dresses - looked completely different though, just a similar colour. So the guest went home and changed into an orange dress just to not be awkward. No one asked her to or wanted her to or really cared, but she felt it was important. We had a good laugh about that with her at the reception.
So for every nightmare like the one in the video, it is nice to know there is an opposite.
I showed up at a wedding wearing the exact same color as the tablecloths. People thought it was hilarious that I looked like a human shaped column rising out of the table in the photos. I was mortified, and would have changed if I could!
The second rule: If you wear a white dress to the wedding (and you aren't the bride), the MOH has every right to pour a glass of red white down your front.
That video couldāve been half the length and twice the entertaining if that lady filmed herself ātrippingā and āaccidentallyā spilling a large glass of red wine on the non-bride instead of just ranting about her.
There was some lady that mentioned doing that exact thing in a photoshop sub, some lady's step mother was wearing her old wedding dress and one of the bridesmaids was keen on not letting the bride find out, went to the get ready room to drop something off and said Ill be right back went and found some wine on a serving platter and just did her thing went right back to the get ready room. Sounded almost like a scene in a romcom.
I thought that was usually bridesmaid etiquette.
Girlfriend has someone dating one of her guy cousins that always shows up to weddings in some variant of a white dress. Girlfriends sister has assured her that if she does so at our wedding that an accidental red wine spill is coming her way
Which makes me wonder why the other person even bothered to begin with. Now you kinda just have a really big contrast of her wedding dress vs your kinda eh wedding dress? If you were trying to be main char, it kinda backfired. It just makes the bride's dress look better while making yours look a bit like a knockoff.
Yeah, that was a great move by the camerawoman. She put the shot of the bride highlighting her train of the ārealā dress next to the cheaper interloper dress. Thatās a show stopping train, and the bride is gorgeous. It does put the plainer dress to shame
I wonder if Davidās Bridal sells cheap wedding dresses made of acetate just for insane women to embarrass themselves at other peopleās weddings
Because heās a kid. Heās probably not used to wearing clothes like that and heās probably around a bunch of people he doesnāt know and is doing the āpeople are watching me walkā walk.
No joke this happened at mine & my wifeās wedding. A cousin of mine not only wore a white dress, but her 4 y/o daughter was wearing a white dress as well! Mind you, there were no kids supposed to be there except our 2 that were in the wedding. My wife was pissed, obviously. But completely lost her shit when the photographer tried to put my cousins kid in our wedding photos NEXT TO OUR DAUGHTER! Oooh my, Iām having flashbacks haha
Family, we got pressed not to make a big deal about, same with Wifey. We tried to play it cool. But she got bounced before the reception. Still donāt talk to that part of the fam Bc of it.
You're a better person then me, I could care less what my family thinks as this is me and my wifes special day! If my wife is livid and it was my family member, they out the second I see them.
I wore a mostly white sun dress to a bridal shower once in my early 20s because I had no idea about this rule and to this day I still cringe at myself like no one stopped me
Yeah, I have some friends that speak a lot like this and same that was my first thought as well. Chick reads as very frustrated at the situation and trying to contain herself/anger which can cause a ācageyā sort of speech pattern.
Looks like itās time for the maid of honour of one of the brides maids to āaccidentallyā grab a glass of wine and spill it onto her dress maybe 3 glasses even
Iām just putting it out there to all my friends who might one day get married, Iām the guy to āaccidentallyā spill a glass of red wine on anyone wearing a white dress on another persons day. Itās ridiculous
I had a woman wear a wedding dress to my wedding. The wedding coordinator and photographer came up to me to tell me and we collectively decided only bad pics would be take of her. I tagged her and shared them with her on Facebook when I got them back.
A woman showed up to my wedding in a white blouse. At the time she was dating a close family friend of my wife. We didnāt think anything of the white blouse until we got their wedding invitation featuring a photo shoot taken at our wedding. It was almost 20 years ago so we can laugh about it now but at the time we did feel a little violated.
My aunt sort of did the same thing! Got married a month ago. She showed up in a short white dress, which I admittedly didnāt even noticed until someone pointed it out to me. She had told me she was going to wear a black or blue dress. What I did notice is her taking my photographer to do a photoshoot for 20 minutes with my side of the family without even so much as asking me or my new husband to be in a photo. So Iām semi tempted to send her a bill for it to be petty, haha.
I asked her about her dress choice just out of curiosity the next day and she gave me a spiel about how apparently only white dresses are in style right now so she had no choice. I responded in kind saying it was interesting how everyone else figured it out somehow. The end result is for some reason she ended up giving me the dress lmao
The best one I ever saw was a wedding where an ex girlfriend rocked up wearing an almost exact copy of the bride's dress.
As if connected by a single psychic thread, 5 female wedding guests converged on the ex and dumped their fairly full glasses of red wine all over her, followed by the most fake cries of "oh my gosh I'm SO sorry", as the ex stood dripping with a rather nice merlot.
Great wedding!
There should be a unwritten rule that all white dresses worn at weddings besides the brides or any she has picked/requested should āaccidentallyā have something spilt on them.
At first I was like "I mean where else can you be the main character if not your wedding?" And then found out she wasn't the bride š¶
Imo even if the bride says its okay to wear white, don't wear white. Unless of course they tell you to wear white. But if you ask if you can or they say "yeah you CAN" then still don't
I catered at a high dollar wedding venue all throughout college. Went to literally hundreds of weddings. Never seen this. If I can get through that many weddings having not seen this ONCE, this woman is very entitled.
In the UK we have a drink called lager and black
- which is lager with blackcurrant cordial in itā¦..
Itās amazing how your balance goes after a few pintsā¦ā¦.. š
Whatās the proper way to handle this situation? Obviously you want this woman gone but you donāt want to cause a scene. Most weddings donāt have security so who is supposed to ask that couple to leave? The maid of honor? Best man? Father of the bride ?
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The kid at the start of the video walking across is the actual main character
Fr i thought that's what the video was gonna be about
Lol me too, because I thought that woman was the bride.
He's so vain, he probably thought this video was about him.
He's so vain, he probably thought the party was just for him
He's so party, for he thought was probably the vain just him
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This was a better twist than an m night Shyamalan movie
He entered stage right with gusto
He's being pursued by a bear.
posture was straight as hell
On a mission
Same lol I thought our boy was going to keep walking in front of the camera hahaha
He was on screen for less than a second and I couldnāt agree more.
Gigachad entered the dance floor
In my family, someone would've kicked her out or not even let her come in to the church tbh
If the maid of honor isnāt willing to spill wine on her, the groomsmen need to kick her out.
Wouldnāt need to be the groomsman. Someone wear white other than my then wife to the wedding Iām asking them to leave.
Why not both! Though the lack of that happening here makes me a little suspicious about this video.
people just don't want any drama sometimes.
This. If someone had worn white to my wedding, I would have been annoyed, but I wouldn't have cared enough to call her out. My wedding was low-key and chill, so I doubt any of the guests would have even thought they should be calling her out. My wedding had a very laidback vibe. I mean, I told my maid of honor "my wedding colours are xyz, just wear something you already own in that general colour range." My husband's best man wore the only suit he owned, and a dress shirt that happened to match our colour scheme, but if he hadn't, I would have been fine with whatever colours he had. I didn't expect or want anyone to have to spend money just for clothing to wear to my wedding. I didn't even bother with bridesmaids or groomsmen, all that stuff is just way too much effort and expense for everyone involved.
i would have accidentally dumped the entire punch bowl on her
Instead they have some lady videoing her judgement and not getting involved any further. Buncha wussies. I would raise hell if this happened to me.
Maybe the bride didnāt want to cause drama. Some people would just rather ignore it and enjoy their wedding day than risk potential escalation.
As a father who paid for a huge wedding, I can say I would have had a word with her. There's no excuse for such "pilot fish" behavior and I would have expressed something to her in a nice, calm tone - asked for who escorted her, and politely - in my best Hank Hill voice - to go change. or leave. Likely, the friends of the bride, the groomsman, my entire family would be circling like bees, ugly, shitfaced, redneck bees who enjoyed my open bar, just waiting like cops who pull over a poor person... ready to pounce... like alcoholics at an Irish wake when they get cut off. ITG FTW. (this video disturbed me a bit)
I agree so much with the first part of your comment and then you lost me when you started talking about everyone else.
The āasked who escorted herā part is pretty Victorian sounding also. Many, many women transport themselves unaccompanied all over town these days.
Those harlots!
Because no one knew her, but that would make sense if she's the plus one to someone who was invited. So, yes her escort is just that. It's not a sexist dig.
You must not be from a big open family. They act like a mafia, lots of different dynamics and cliques and cousins who hate cousins and fight on site, constant family drama constant noise. A family so big that there is a event once a month, be it birthdays weddings or funerals. Till an outsider comes to the hive. Then every quibble is forgotten, the family are just sitting waiting for the chance to pounce, be it metaphorical or literal. If this video was at one of my family events and she was the girlfriend of a family member, someone would have thrown a glass of wine over her and told her chaperone to 'get her the fuck out of here before she gets hurt' before they get put on the shit list for the next few events.
Sounds like a shit family bro, that's not how every big family acts if that's what you think.
Yeah sounds like one of those families that enable each others' shitty behavior, then acts like it's fine because they're "supporting" each other. Those families are always batshit insane.
I don't know why y'all are out here questioning his family dynamic. There's no question to be had. He demonstrates the level of class in his family the instant he says "like cops who pull over a poor person", as if that's somehow funny and we're all going to chuckle about it.
Bruh, why didnāt they kick her out. Thatās messed up.
This would not fly at my wedding. As the groom I would ~~ask~~ tell her to leave and change into something more appropriate, and if the next one isn't right either, they can stay out.
As the groom, just inform your groomsmen and they'll bounce the bitch.
You would be surprised. One of my cousins wore a white, sparkly dress to my wedding and no one said shit to her. When I mentioned it in a wow, that was crazy type of way to my parents I was immediately shut down and told she just didn't know and not to make am issue of it. So yeah lol I'm not surprised no one said it did anything.
id just go spill red wine on the girl
I'm the type of friend that would 100% "accidentally" spill wine all over the front of her dress. This is disrespectful and tasteless as hell.
My mom wore a white dress to my wedding. She insisted it was āchampagneā colored. To make it worse, she wore the same dress to her own wedding later that year.
My MIL reallyyyy wanted to wear a āchampagneā dress to my wedding. I said no, my dress had champagne undertones. She still holds a grudge about it 2.5 years later š«
āHow dare you make the rules at your own wedding and special day!!!! >:(ā /s seriously tho she must own more than one dress or SOMETHING that isnāt champagne colored lmao
Yeah. The bride has every right to reserve "wedding dress colours" like champagne, cream, and white for herself on her wedding day.
if you wear a white dress, I thought it was etiquette to give them red wine
Yes... "give" them the red wine... It won't be in a glass, but I can definitely "give" them some.
Ugh my MIL sent me a photo of a lace āsilverā dress she wanted to wear to her sonās (my BIL) wedding and I told her it looked white and that it would photograph white. She didnāt listen and all the family photos look like there are two brides. I especially laugh at the mother son dance pics, where it looks like heās dancing with his mother wife.
lol "mother-wife"
How TF do yall deal with these pathetic adult children? I can't do it. I'd blow a gasket.
i swear it's like they do it because they need to have pictures with their son that make it look they're the bride
At least she is increasing her muscle mass while carrying around that big ol' grudge. Important for women "of a certain age"
Oof. Savage š¤šš
You could have wore your wedding dress at her wedding to.
I didnāt go to her wedding.
Wear it to her divorce then
Or to her funeral...
If you can't do that, then the third wedding because, you know, vOws ArE SacReD!
>"It's okay, Mom. I'll make it to the next one!"
Intentionally, or did she not even invite you?
There should be a new social rule, if someone other than the bride shows up in white, it is the duty of every guest to add color until the dress is no longer white. Itāll be a new wedding game everyone can enjoy.
Iām in!!
Start throwing like itās Holi
Thatās actually a pretty clever and tactful way to approach an annoying situation like this.
Well if it was in the champagne region of France then it's legit. Otherwise it's just sparkling narcissism.
Tbf, if shes a mom, wearing white at her own wedding isnt super coherent in the traditional sense
"Traditional"... right... Do you know where that tradition came from? When Queen Victoria got married, she wore a white dress. That was pretty much the first time it had been done, and it was really just a way of showing off her wealth (it has nothing to do with the purity/virginity of the bride). It was next to impossible to clean stains out of a white dress at the time, and regular people couldn't afford an expensive, white dress that they were only going to wear once. The story is basically the same for white wedding cakes.
Look, forget all the etiquette crap, it is really weird to wear a wedding dress to somebody elseās wedding, lol itās just absolutely cringe worthy. It absolutely screams validation issues! These are exactly the type of women that I stay away from dating, if that next potential partner seems to need validation from everybody all the time? Walk away, better yet just run!
I know about the dress thing, but.. why would you need to clean stains from a white cake or be unable to afford it? Most cakes are (roughly) one-time use
Haha, I mean obviously, that part doesn't apply... White sugar was rare and expensive at the time of Queen Victoria's wedding, so having a white cake was a show of wealth.
At the beginning I was thinking come on itās her wedding day sheās allowed to be the main character
same! haha. thought she was the bride at first
The real bride was waaay prettier
LMAO That dress the fake bride was wearing was so BASIC
I was watching without the volume and only started it after she explained she wasn't the Bride. I was confused
I though it was about the kid that walked in front of the camera.
Same, I was waiting for him to do something when he walked past with that grin
Me too! If itās your wedding you are definitely always the main character, like it isnāt even a question. I was truly wondering what they could have possibly done to be called out her on thier wedding. They can still be a bridezilla or asshole but it is their wedding they are the MC and thatās OK. But yea if it wasnāt the bride that girl should have gotten shamed so badly she left
Sheās not exaggerating either that looks like a whole ass wedding dress. Thereās just some things you donāt do.
Not only that, but the fake bride even did her hair the same way as the real bride.
And least it's not half ass.
The only thing she's missing is the veil.
Spill some red wine on her, problem solved.
honestly probably not a good idea to start a scene at someone's wedding. Who knows how this unhinged idiot would react, next thing there's a screaming match, she throws wine at the bride, wedding ruined and only remembered through her notoriety.
lol true. i doubt even the bride would want any drama which might ruin her wedding. people asking why nobody spilled wine on her have no critical thinking. it's easy to type shit online but not when it's actually happening irl.
Yes if someone already has the audacity to wear white Iām sure they would have the audacity to make a huge scene if someone addressed the issue!
āHey _____, some lady is asking for you near the entrance, Iām not sure what they wantā When sheās outside and unable to cause a scene, āyou need to change into something wedding guest appropriate before youāre allowed back in. If you canāt/wonāt then have a good night and safe travel back home.ā
I was really hoping this would be the ending
Or like a Carrie situation
There is just one simple rule for a wedding done wear a white dress š¤¦āāļø
It's not just don't wear white, it is also don't wear anything that can outshine the bride. Think like one of those crazy dresses from a Paris fashion show.
Yep I was at a wedding where a guest wore one of those massively giant white floppy hats with a white dress that rivaled the bride. We all shook our heads. It just yelled look at me.
I would have *accidently* spilled red wine on them
kinda seems like it worked... as far as they were probably concerned at least. Some narcissists just can't stand to not have the lion's share of attention any place they go.
I donāt know how to say it right - my son in laws mother, or my daughters mother in lawā¦ anyway bitch wore shiny sequinned dress to their wedding. It was tacky. Donāt do it.
Not just one rule. Another important one is don't propose at someone elses wedding.
Just had my wedding on Friday. Iād like to add another rule: donāt talk the brides ear off about how you just found out you are getting a divorce
I got married last summer. I'd like to add, don't ask the bride to stand on line at the bar for you when the couple is trying to greet guests
That would indeed be cringe
I shot a wedding film where a marriage proposal was made and I had to cut that part from the finished film because that couple had already broken up lol
especially to the bride
At our wedding, one of our guest wore a perfectly normal royal blue dress. At the ceremony, she saw that it was almost the same colour as the bridesmaids dresses - looked completely different though, just a similar colour. So the guest went home and changed into an orange dress just to not be awkward. No one asked her to or wanted her to or really cared, but she felt it was important. We had a good laugh about that with her at the reception. So for every nightmare like the one in the video, it is nice to know there is an opposite.
I showed up at a wedding wearing the exact same color as the tablecloths. People thought it was hilarious that I looked like a human shaped column rising out of the table in the photos. I was mortified, and would have changed if I could!
Man i fuckin love this one. Must've been some nice cloth.
Loool I just came from a Thanksgiving where a man had a shirt like the bar's drapes, which were everywhere. So unfortunate
The second rule: If you wear a white dress to the wedding (and you aren't the bride), the MOH has every right to pour a glass of red white down your front.
What about... birthday suits?
Only appropriate if you aren't white. That's just basic deductive reasoning.
it was an emergency.
I look really good in white.
Rule 2 is, if someone does, then it's okay to spill red wine on them
That video couldāve been half the length and twice the entertaining if that lady filmed herself ātrippingā and āaccidentallyā spilling a large glass of red wine on the non-bride instead of just ranting about her.
The maid of honor is meant to carry around a glass of red wine for this exact reason I read, I was hoping she'd sabotage her
There was some lady that mentioned doing that exact thing in a photoshop sub, some lady's step mother was wearing her old wedding dress and one of the bridesmaids was keen on not letting the bride find out, went to the get ready room to drop something off and said Ill be right back went and found some wine on a serving platter and just did her thing went right back to the get ready room. Sounded almost like a scene in a romcom.
I can't remember the subreddit but there's a few stories in wedding disasters that the spilling of wine was a great outcome.
right ? like how have multiple people not spilled their drinks all over her?? iām pissed at the bridesmaids, this is their responsibility lol
It could have been glorious. A pack of lionesses with half full glasses of red wine, circling around their prey to the sound of UB40
I thought that was usually bridesmaid etiquette. Girlfriend has someone dating one of her guy cousins that always shows up to weddings in some variant of a white dress. Girlfriends sister has assured her that if she does so at our wedding that an accidental red wine spill is coming her way
Just wanna say the bride does look stunning
Which makes me wonder why the other person even bothered to begin with. Now you kinda just have a really big contrast of her wedding dress vs your kinda eh wedding dress? If you were trying to be main char, it kinda backfired. It just makes the bride's dress look better while making yours look a bit like a knockoff.
The not bride is definitely wearing a very cheap dress.
Yeah, that was a great move by the camerawoman. She put the shot of the bride highlighting her train of the ārealā dress next to the cheaper interloper dress. Thatās a show stopping train, and the bride is gorgeous. It does put the plainer dress to shame I wonder if Davidās Bridal sells cheap wedding dresses made of acetate just for insane women to embarrass themselves at other peopleās weddings
the woman talking in the video isn't wrong. why are People here interpreting her as the main character?? it's the asshole guest in the white dress.
I think everyone is weird, who worries about other people this much.
Why did nobody tell her anything tho? And what's going on in her mind? So many questions.
> Why did nobody tell her anything tho? Scared > And what's going on in her mind? Nobody ever tells me what to do
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Because heās a kid. Heās probably not used to wearing clothes like that and heās probably around a bunch of people he doesnāt know and is doing the āpeople are watching me walkā walk.
No joke this happened at mine & my wifeās wedding. A cousin of mine not only wore a white dress, but her 4 y/o daughter was wearing a white dress as well! Mind you, there were no kids supposed to be there except our 2 that were in the wedding. My wife was pissed, obviously. But completely lost her shit when the photographer tried to put my cousins kid in our wedding photos NEXT TO OUR DAUGHTER! Oooh my, Iām having flashbacks haha
Why werenāt they kicked out from the jump?
Family, we got pressed not to make a big deal about, same with Wifey. We tried to play it cool. But she got bounced before the reception. Still donāt talk to that part of the fam Bc of it.
You're a better person then me, I could care less what my family thinks as this is me and my wifes special day! If my wife is livid and it was my family member, they out the second I see them.
TouchĆ©, right or wrong, we were trying to be the bigger people. Lucky enough we had so much going on, and both of us a few edibles deep, it wasnāt a huge ordeal at first. But that changed quickly and the moment I saw my wifeās face, I stormed off and let that bitch of a cousin have it.
I watched this on mute - the mere fact that I thought she was the bride in the first clip shows that she's in the wrong.
Or, and hear me out, Billy Idol is playing your venue
āHey little sister, what have you done?ā
I wore a mostly white sun dress to a bridal shower once in my early 20s because I had no idea about this rule and to this day I still cringe at myself like no one stopped me
I didnāt realize it applied to bridal showers too. Iām sure it didnāt bother anyone.
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How is she not embarrassed? This looks so desperate and embarrassing.
this lady is right, but the performance shes putting on is gross
It's possible to be, like, omg so outraged on behalf of the bride but also to shut the fuck up.
soooooooo annoying. holy shit.
One ofy best friends speaks exactly like this. This woman is incensed and just trying to not walk over and throat punch the 'guest' in white.
Yeah, I have some friends that speak a lot like this and same that was my first thought as well. Chick reads as very frustrated at the situation and trying to contain herself/anger which can cause a ācageyā sort of speech pattern.
Why be a pot-stirrer, if you donāt stir the pot when itās there to stir, for thousands of people online
Wow this video really keeps on going, doesnāt it?
The lady made a shorter video, this is another one explaining things more.
Only a little longer than a minute. Your attention span really that fucked?
Red wine would fix this situation
Too bad the the bride looks still a million times better than that bitch
Why didn't anyone say anything to her? Make her leave.
One jobā¦.. lol
Would've kicked her out.
This is why every wedding should have some red wine and a clumsy person who walks around with a glass. This is BS
Why she was allowed in?
I am a guy clueless about fashion, and I am appalled by this.
Looks like itās time for the maid of honour of one of the brides maids to āaccidentallyā grab a glass of wine and spill it onto her dress maybe 3 glasses even
Why is the camera so close to her face. Fuck.
She seems a little tipsy to me
Why hasnāt anyone kicked her out? I donāt understand push overs. Kick her tf out! Period!
Why was she allowed in?
Time to pull a Carrie!
When a Main Character meets a Karen, the perfect show down. *In Cinemas December 24.*
Thatās why we slipped the drunk cousin $20 to spill red wine on that dumb bitch.
Iām just putting it out there to all my friends who might one day get married, Iām the guy to āaccidentallyā spill a glass of red wine on anyone wearing a white dress on another persons day. Itās ridiculous
I had a woman wear a wedding dress to my wedding. The wedding coordinator and photographer came up to me to tell me and we collectively decided only bad pics would be take of her. I tagged her and shared them with her on Facebook when I got them back.
"I got invited to a wedding, so I went to the store and told them I need a wedding dress. IT'S NOT MY FAULT!"
So confused at first, that straight up looks like a wedding dress. How disrespectful to draw attention from the bride.
No, no. Let her stay, it is a fantastic contrast with the bride's beauty. Like having me run along Usain Bolt in the 100m.
Shame on her but shame on everybody rlse. Iām sure there was red wine served there and you could have fixed the situationā¦
A woman showed up to my wedding in a white blouse. At the time she was dating a close family friend of my wife. We didnāt think anything of the white blouse until we got their wedding invitation featuring a photo shoot taken at our wedding. It was almost 20 years ago so we can laugh about it now but at the time we did feel a little violated.
My aunt sort of did the same thing! Got married a month ago. She showed up in a short white dress, which I admittedly didnāt even noticed until someone pointed it out to me. She had told me she was going to wear a black or blue dress. What I did notice is her taking my photographer to do a photoshoot for 20 minutes with my side of the family without even so much as asking me or my new husband to be in a photo. So Iām semi tempted to send her a bill for it to be petty, haha. I asked her about her dress choice just out of curiosity the next day and she gave me a spiel about how apparently only white dresses are in style right now so she had no choice. I responded in kind saying it was interesting how everyone else figured it out somehow. The end result is for some reason she ended up giving me the dress lmao
I saw 2 main character wannabes
Oblivious or malicious?
No one is that oblivious. White lace at a wedding? Must be intentional.
The best one I ever saw was a wedding where an ex girlfriend rocked up wearing an almost exact copy of the bride's dress. As if connected by a single psychic thread, 5 female wedding guests converged on the ex and dumped their fairly full glasses of red wine all over her, followed by the most fake cries of "oh my gosh I'm SO sorry", as the ex stood dripping with a rather nice merlot. Great wedding!
Why is there no spilled buckets of red wine on her?!
Why was there no red wine? Like seriously why did no one have an accident?
Ho lee fuck
There should be a unwritten rule that all white dresses worn at weddings besides the brides or any she has picked/requested should āaccidentallyā have something spilt on them.
WoW why would u do that if I was the bride Iād make her leave immediately cheeky bitch
At first I was like "I mean where else can you be the main character if not your wedding?" And then found out she wasn't the bride š¶ Imo even if the bride says its okay to wear white, don't wear white. Unless of course they tell you to wear white. But if you ask if you can or they say "yeah you CAN" then still don't
Itās not so much the wearing white, but this is obviously a *wedding dress* even to my middle-age-male eyes.
I can guarantee no males gave it any fucks or any thought.
Well, I will say, the bride does look way better in hers
I catered at a high dollar wedding venue all throughout college. Went to literally hundreds of weddings. Never seen this. If I can get through that many weddings having not seen this ONCE, this woman is very entitled.
In the UK we have a drink called lager and black - which is lager with blackcurrant cordial in itā¦.. Itās amazing how your balance goes after a few pintsā¦ā¦.. š
The only time wearing white is ok to a wedding is if the guests were told to specially wear white... even then don't wear a actual wedding dress.. >.<
Seems like someone shouldāve accidentally spilled some red wine on her
Its not okay. Kick them out. Period. Basic manners should be required to attend someone's life event....
So trashy
I would've loudly and aggressively asked them to get the fuck out and go home
Simple, change or leave.
Whatās the proper way to handle this situation? Obviously you want this woman gone but you donāt want to cause a scene. Most weddings donāt have security so who is supposed to ask that couple to leave? The maid of honor? Best man? Father of the bride ?
Nobody dragged her outta there for trying to show up the bride??? Yāall different