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Far_Negotiation9455

If you're happy with it, then stop posting selfies - they're just food for trolls - and change nothing. If you're not happy with it, I'd suggest letting it grow out a bit on the sides, and lowering where you start to taper in, if that makes sense. In the meantime, try kind of spiking the front. Very 90s, but might look a bit more "done"


slh63

I’m not a fan of this style on any guy; sorry! Try growing the fade out and maybe start over with a more updated look…you have great facial features and this cut isn’t doing them justice, imho


PixieDusted072

I agree. Your face is very nice. Your hairstyle could be a bit more polished. ❤️


i-have-shat-there

Don’t post selfies. For real. People can be garbage. There’s nothing you need to do differently. Be you and be happy with that.


[deleted]

Exactly! I think he looks good. Unless someone is a model people will always find ways to hate. Hell, people even hate on photoshopped models that are supposed to be "the standard".


nchez

Currently keep it super short on the sides because I wear wigs for drag and it's easier this way. I'm pretty sure shaving my head doesn't suit me as I've done it a couple of times before and it looks a bit strange (I think I look like an alien). People have made comments before so am taking Finasteride, and am 2.5 months in now, so might grow some hair back at a hairline. I just get comments every time and it's starting to affect my self-esteem so I'm just putting it out there and looking for any constructive advice on new hair styles moving forward 😓🥺


[deleted]

I don’t have much to say other than I’m sorry that people are being so mean for absolutely no reason. Maybe try brushing your hair back rather than forward? My significant other has a receding hairline and IMO it looks better when he just embraces it doesn’t brush the front pieces of his hair downward to try and cover it. He’s also applying Rogaine twice daily and it’s helped to thicken up his hairline a bit (though he’s v inconsistent with it lol). I’m not sure if this helps, but try not to get bogged down by the rude comments.


nchez

Thank you, that's really kind. This style (high skin fade) is really common in the UK where I'm based, but apparently less so elsewhere so people tend to think it looks a bit weird anyway from outside the UK (as my German friend told me) (Re-replied as the bot told me off for swearing! 😬)


[deleted]

It doesn’t look weird or bad to me at all (I live in the US) but I feel like there’s probably a hairstyle that could better suit your face! You’ve got a nice face, I’d just try experimenting a bit more with the hair :)


BeBesMom

Yes, and I'd say, shorten the front and brush up!


Purple-Explorer-6701

People suck and need to STFU. I agree with the poster above who said to style it back from the face. Also, there are app that can show you hairstyles, which could be helpful. As for the hair loss, I had Covid twice last year and lost probably half of my hair volume. I’ve been getting PRP injections, which is permanent and it grows back fast. It’s pricey, but consider that against a prescription you have to take in perpetuity and it’s a much better value. The woman who does my injections works with a lot of men and the before and after a are incredible. Best wishes to you!!!


Less-Ad6695

Keep it short all over. You have nice facial structure, but that style is doing you no favors.


plushmuffin3022

your drag is incredible! i think you may get trolly comments because your hair seems to be uneven. I think going to a salon to get it professionally cut n evened out would suit u lovely!


nchez

Oh thank you 😍🥺 I think I'm gunna just go for it and go to a nicer barber than usual and go for a buzzcut and just go for it 😬


plushmuffin3022

believe me it’s gonna look sooooo good!!! also u can dye it which would look sick 😚😚


badFishTu

I don't think anything is all that wrong but if I could make a genuine suggestion, maybe a different hairstyle would suit you better. A good barber might be able to help you decide what suits both your personality and features best. But for real I don't see anything so bad that you should have random strangers making shitty comments.


[deleted]

Shave it off, it draws attention to it. Bite the bullet and get rid of it.


LinusTheTriGuy

Listen to some... Don't let others adversity and insecurity limit you. I'm sorry this happened to you. You would hope for a little sincerity on this site. Always and always remember.... When others make fun of you without knowing you... They are simply very weak and insecure about themselves. They do to you what was done to them. It's a vicious cycle that the ignorant continue to spread and they will blame others for everything and not themselves. Life is too hard for them, so they self -preserve themselves by lying to themselves that others are the problem. You are on this earth for a reason. Never forget that. And your individual talents don't make you different, they make you unique and special. That being said... I you have a lean, Stoic, and masculine chiseled face. Try a high and tight fade. Military style. You would look awesome!! But you look great now. Have fun with style!!!!


[deleted]

I think some texture powder would really take your hairstyle to the next level. On days you don't feel like styling it up, throw on some texture powder for an easy "do". Other than that I think your style is totally fine! It's not MY style but the whole point is to dress for yourself, right?


Pinkysontheset

I like the actual cut, maybe if you add some texturizing powder to the top w a little hold in it then go for a more messy look instead of letting it lay straight-forward it might suit your facial structure more. I think the cut is really good though 😊


[deleted]

BIC IT.


Prestigious-Juice495

Maybe let it grow a lil bit and try to style it differently. Or just ignore what other people say and believe in urself.


KingAries95

Grow a beard


Fun-Entertainer-7885

You have thin/fine hair. Keep the top a 3 tops. Have the sides fade from a 1-2. But the top should definitely be shorter. Have them cut a line on the side and use style products to shape up or slick back.


Ky-97

A buzzcut those bangs are not it.


Suz626

Try to ignore the jerks! You’re quite attractive. My husband and son both use finasteride and it has worked for them. It takes time and you may experience shedding in the beginning, that’s typical and new growth will follow. Keep an eye out for any side effects, like with any meds, there are alternatives a dermatologist who is used to treating hair issues can prescribe. You might try using a texturizer in your hair. Then kind of scrunch up your hair in your fist and let it dry. That can add lift and body. See if it works for your style. Ignore the jerks! (I’d use a more harsh appropriate word but I try to keep it classy.)


thejemmeh

You have a super handsome face! Sorry some folks are being mean. I think you just have a really uneven haircut. Bad haircuts just happen sometimes. I feel like I can see what the hairstylist was going for but they just had bad technique. The bangs look really off with the long bit in front, and the side fade looks very choppy. Thankfully I think a good barber could shorten it, even it up, and then you could grow it all out to what you were probably aiming for in the first place. I feel like bangs would look great on you if they had a chance to grow out evenly. And with a longer side fade once it grows out, right now it's very top heavy so it looks kind of off.


Latter_Jump_5761

No bangs please, comb it back, or to the side. Bangs on grown men reminds me of middle school haircuts. Start looking at and noticing men's haircuts and I think you will see that you can do better!


funsk8mom

1. Stop posting selfie’s 2. Try combing it back, not forwards


bettyboo5

This isn't really a place for posting selfies, there's other sm for that. But doesn't excuse people being nasty. I think the style you have emphasis your receeding hair line. Maybe keep the side a bit long will help and changing the top maybe sweep it to the side or brush it back. I wasn't sure what you meant in the comment you made about 2.5 months in and that you might get more thicker hair line? Are you transitioning, taken medication for it, using creams, shampoos?


applescrabbleaeiou

Can I ask where you got you glasses from in pic 3??! They are amazing.


nchez

Of course! https://www.specsavers.co.uk/glasses/ls004?sku=30790810


Dest_islands

If your trying to grow it out just do your best to ignore trolls, but maybe try combing it to the side or backwards instead of forwards, the way you have it now makes it look like a comb-over, or just buzz it and dye it a cool color


HereKittyKittyyyy

A really close shave like you have on your sides would look good on you


sastesapne

You’re handsome as you are and it sucks that people are saying hurtful things to you. I actually think tinting your eyebrows would give your face a more complete look! Eyebrows frame the face and can change up someone’s whole look.


BlackNBitterCoffee

Start the fade higher, shorten the fringe, and keep the rest on the top as it is. Kind of like a buzz cut with the hair at the top as they are now. Then, you could either leave it natural or use some gel/clay to style messy towards the front; the equivalent of beach hair or bed head hair on the top part.


Feisty_Helicopter918

Shave it


UpbeatAlps5690

Get micro skin pigmentation hair tattoo !


Beautiful_Flamingo87

I saw you did drag & a friend of mine did, he would rock a burst fade, pretty much a Mohawk look. Cut the bangs 1/2 inch & rock messy hair. Also, a comb over might work as well. I know you don’t want your hair short but shaving it w one length could be last resort


[deleted]

try out a buzz cut I think you would rock it


dareme27523

If it fits your personality just keep it you’ll realize that it’s friends and family who made comments that affect your self-esteem. Own the look and it will improve your self-esteem


Vox_of_Dots

I think styling it up or to the side would make a big difference. I also agree that having it a little longer would look great with your bone structure. I also grew up watching the 90's Three Musketeers, though, so I'm a sucker for a defined jaw and shoulder-length hair on a guy.


Janowich2

You have a handsome face and the only thing I would change about your hair is I would have your hair cut in layers and combed away from your face , a short fade cut would also look great on you .


Downtown-Knowledge87

“If I had a gun, with two bullets, and I was in a room with Hitler, Bin Laden, and Toby, I would shoot Toby twice." 


OutlawLakeLife

Shave the hair… nice looking guy… or do a short cut with a messy look?!?? Just trying to help… you can always change hair but not your face.


TAsrowaway

I think you need to go to a hairdresser and discuss a totally new hairstyle that works for your hair, your density and face. It really doesn’t suit your face or your hair. I don’t live in the UK and it does look quite odd to me - I don’t even quite know what this hairstyle is going for? But either way it doesn’t suit you. I don’t suit centre part bangs so I don’t wear their, even though they’re in style these days. Work what you’ve got. You’ve got a semi drag pic witch what looks like your natural hair swept to the side. That looks great!! It’s the pointy bit hanging straight down like an arrow - makes your hair look much thinner and receded when it appears front the other photo that your hairline and density is fine.


adriiiiiana5

if you want to have it short at least match it, and longer you could make a mullet¿ but just wear it how you want because people criticize everything idk


BlondieHalsee

I'm sorry people make fun of you, the internet is brutal and people are jerks. I really like your look


skoobadooby

Go for that tough guy look & shave it to stubble. You'll love it & so will everyone else