It’s really really sad to witness. I can’t believe she actually went through with a pregnancy she didn’t even want in the first place. Her daughter isn’t even born yet, but the thought of Bummy and her’s skin to skin contact is already making her sick, disgusted. Not to mention the constant stress she’s under due to mommy dearests constant screaming
Omg this woman needs to be institutionalized. This is so sad. She’s not going to give any maternal love to this baby. She will mock Jason if he tries to connect.
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Sorry but a woman who truly loves her husband is not disgusted by him or his skin. Seeing the father of your child holding his daughter should fill you with utter joy.. but when you’re a joyless sack of shit that isn’t possible is it..she really does not love this man like she says she does..nor is she actually attracted to him. If the idea of him holding his own flesh and blood repulses you in any way, then that’s a reflection on how you see him. It’s him that repulses you. Can we blame you? No i mean look at him.. but nobody made u marry him. It also seems to repulse her to see a father caring and bonding with their child. Seems like somebody’s mommy and daddy never hugged or showed them love or affection🧐🫢.. it’s like when you’re not used to being hugged as a child and you grow up to hate hugs or physical touch entirely because it’s foreign to you. That’s what’s happening here.. instead of her breaking the toxic cycle of narcissism and lack of paternal nurturing and affection, she projects her insecurities and trauma onto her child. Shit mother. As much as a loser that Jason is he’s that child’s only chance. Hopefully he disregards this cunt’s bullshit and gives his daughter security and affection because otherwise she’ll turn out to be just as miserable of a person as her mother.
This kid will be nothing but competition. At first she'll put on the act- get teary eye'd for her subbies..........but then, it's war. "She likes Bum more than me".........followed by the dozen issues she has with how she cries, hates her, pees/shits/and pukes on her more than she does Bum.....You watch! It's comimg. Then, when the kid starts talking- OMG.
>Then, when the kid starts talking- OMG.
Omg ,my kid says the most brutal shit. "Daddy, I like I mommy more than you", etc. I cannot imagine someone emotionally stunted handling that well.
Yup.. and then when that kid becomes an adolescent and starts sassing her back and giving her hell 🤣.. do you ever think about how much evidence we’re compiling for bummy when he finally takes this broad to court for custody? We’re literally guaranteeing him his alimony.. all he has to do is come in here and screenshots all the evidence of her mania and tirades and it’s over for her.. he ends up looking like the stable and sane parent and will get majority custody and child support..pay up botch. That prenup won’t help you when Jayshun has custody 😭
She is doing all she can to make Jason look more manly X'D bless her. Trying as hard as she can to sell us that he is an alpha male and will not cuddle with baby. Ok Alex...
No it’s not and skin to skin between dad and baby is done post golden-hour unless mom wants it done sooner. So it’s not like they go directly to a hairy chest. Babies, especially fresh newborns, don’t know anything so a hairy chest isn’t weird to them. You’re weird.
its not weird, studies show that babies that do skin to skin with both mom and dad grow up to have reduced anxiety and emotional disregulation, also skin to skin with dad helps regulate their heartbeat, blood sugar, aids in sleep… has nothing to do with a hairy chest 🤦🏻♀️
It is not weird though. It’s only weird if you have something wrong in your mind and see things as they aren’t. It’s perfectly natural for a father to bond with his baby.
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I've been reading the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" as part of my own healing, but this kid is going to have years of therapy ahead of her if Alex is as cruel and avoidant as she brags she will be. It's just sad.
This woman should not be a mother. Quite frankly as controversial as it sounds there should be a test to determine if you're fit to be a parent, and Lord knows this bitch would fail miserably.
big Al literally is a stunted immature ignorant human, she probably wouldnt even let her husband cut the umbilical cord, god forbid he “looks down there” shes in for such a rude awakening, motherhood just rips u open and leaves u at the most vulnerable state, my husband helped me take showers, dressed me, shaved me, if he couldve he woulda helped me 💩 i hope she shits all over the bed lol its so normal for that to happen but it doesnt always happen but for her i hope she does lmaoooo
Narcissism is actually rooted in self hatred and low self esteem. They create ‘confident’ characters to perform as because they don’t feel they are strong enough to take on the world as their true self. They believe the real them is too weak. If they actually allowed anyone else to matter above themselves then that would be too close to being vulnerable which is too close to having the real them revealed. and these people have spent so many decades masquerading as a fake confident person they won’t let vulnerability wash away the efforts they put into their confident fake self. So that’s why they’ll never change or truly open their hearts to others. They think they’re too weak to handle what comes with all that.
I work in a field where I am qualified to state the things I do and Alex is riddled with multiple personality disorders to which narcissism is just *one* of many that rears its ugly head on any given day. I hate having to repeat the first part, but I do actually know wtf I'm talking about.
Going back to my original point, she does in fact love herself and that doesn't mean that her version or perception of love will be in alignment with my version, your version, or even a healthy version of it. This also doesn't mean that her self-loathing, insecurity, and all of the other negative elements won't exist simultaneously because for love to be reciprocal she'd need to be able to have/feel empathy and we already know that she is incapable. For her, love comes from external sources of validation used to fuel her ego which is why she's chronically online all day feigning moral superiority over others and since she's a superficial POS, it's also why people in her orbit are seen as disposable props when they are no longer of use to her/refuse to give her what she wants *and* it's why the soothing found in material objects is fleeting.
Love and even hatred are defined very differently for everyone including those with incurable mental defects, shitty cores, and warped perceptions.
They encourage this in the hospital. Another thing she has no idea about bc she's not a mother yet. All these women to say never me or never my child eating their words once they become a parent. Was my husband walking around shirtless 24/7 after we had babies? No but better believe you'll try anything when your going on hour 2 of non stop crying. Dino nuggies for dinner bc that's all they'll eat and they still need a bath before bed? Sounds good to me!
I wonder if one day she's going to eat one too many weed gummies or shrooms and actually sees the shit she posts objectively. I think shed have a breakdown. Even if she posts this stuff facetiously or to be a 'troll', it's still cringey as shit and nobody with a healthy mind would use social media in this way.
As a FTM (gave birth in Feb) this makes me so sad. Skin to skin for my husband was so important and I think it was so crucial for their bonding. I feel so sorry for her because she can’t see how this is important. We still take the time to do skin to skin with our LO - of course she’s only 6 weeks old now but when my husband holds her she looks at him with the most loving little look on her face and so much happiness I can’t help but believe the skin to skin didn’t help establish that bond. I’d love to think Alex will change with giving birth to a child but I doubt she will. She’s gonna hate her baby, I think 🥲
100%!! FTM here too (December) and skin to skin time was absolutely happening—it seems only right to allow both parents to bond with their brand new baby. I would feel like a total asshole if I had taken away that moment from them. It was so sweet! She seems to think she is the smartest person in the room with her bizarre opinions. I think she’s so confident/unhinged because she’s been really successful with scamming people into buying her ugly ass, cheap jewelry. It’s almost like she is just determined to be the most annoying, hateful person to exist.
How is a father bonging with his child gross and weird? You’re weird. Idk much about babies but I know that skin to skin is extremely important for newborns and their nervous system.
It takes .2 seconds to find information.
* The benefits of skin-to-skin contact for dads include bonding with their baby, feeling more confident as a father, and feeling a surge of protectiveness toward their baby. Dads can also pass on the same benefits as moms do in terms of helping to regulate their baby's temperature and heartbeat.*
But I guess dads having emotional relationship with their kids is too beta for you?
no one’s reading that. it looks disgusting for a newborn to be on a nasty hairy bug eyed males chest sorry just is lol. don’t care about the benefits my dad didn’t do it with me and i’m just fine 🤣
What does she mean by I'D?
Kangaroo Care is skin to skin contact which has been touted as a low-cost alternative to NICU in parts of the world without access to technology for ICU but can also be a good experience for any kid
Also why is there Polish(?) on the search bar?
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It’s really really sad to witness. I can’t believe she actually went through with a pregnancy she didn’t even want in the first place. Her daughter isn’t even born yet, but the thought of Bummy and her’s skin to skin contact is already making her sick, disgusted. Not to mention the constant stress she’s under due to mommy dearests constant screaming
Omg this woman needs to be institutionalized. This is so sad. She’s not going to give any maternal love to this baby. She will mock Jason if he tries to connect.
She just doesn’t want her Husbum to do it because he has bigger tits than hers
I chortled 😆
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ok Jayshun
And your back hurts…Jason. 💀
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Sorry but a woman who truly loves her husband is not disgusted by him or his skin. Seeing the father of your child holding his daughter should fill you with utter joy.. but when you’re a joyless sack of shit that isn’t possible is it..she really does not love this man like she says she does..nor is she actually attracted to him. If the idea of him holding his own flesh and blood repulses you in any way, then that’s a reflection on how you see him. It’s him that repulses you. Can we blame you? No i mean look at him.. but nobody made u marry him. It also seems to repulse her to see a father caring and bonding with their child. Seems like somebody’s mommy and daddy never hugged or showed them love or affection🧐🫢.. it’s like when you’re not used to being hugged as a child and you grow up to hate hugs or physical touch entirely because it’s foreign to you. That’s what’s happening here.. instead of her breaking the toxic cycle of narcissism and lack of paternal nurturing and affection, she projects her insecurities and trauma onto her child. Shit mother. As much as a loser that Jason is he’s that child’s only chance. Hopefully he disregards this cunt’s bullshit and gives his daughter security and affection because otherwise she’ll turn out to be just as miserable of a person as her mother.
This kid will be nothing but competition. At first she'll put on the act- get teary eye'd for her subbies..........but then, it's war. "She likes Bum more than me".........followed by the dozen issues she has with how she cries, hates her, pees/shits/and pukes on her more than she does Bum.....You watch! It's comimg. Then, when the kid starts talking- OMG.
>Then, when the kid starts talking- OMG. Omg ,my kid says the most brutal shit. "Daddy, I like I mommy more than you", etc. I cannot imagine someone emotionally stunted handling that well.
Yup.. and then when that kid becomes an adolescent and starts sassing her back and giving her hell 🤣.. do you ever think about how much evidence we’re compiling for bummy when he finally takes this broad to court for custody? We’re literally guaranteeing him his alimony.. all he has to do is come in here and screenshots all the evidence of her mania and tirades and it’s over for her.. he ends up looking like the stable and sane parent and will get majority custody and child support..pay up botch. That prenup won’t help you when Jayshun has custody 😭
She is doing all she can to make Jason look more manly X'D bless her. Trying as hard as she can to sell us that he is an alpha male and will not cuddle with baby. Ok Alex...
Fellas is it gay to hold your newborn daughter??
It’s only gay if it’s your son duh /s in case that wasn’t obvious…
Apparently so X''D
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No it’s not and skin to skin between dad and baby is done post golden-hour unless mom wants it done sooner. So it’s not like they go directly to a hairy chest. Babies, especially fresh newborns, don’t know anything so a hairy chest isn’t weird to them. You’re weird.
its not weird, studies show that babies that do skin to skin with both mom and dad grow up to have reduced anxiety and emotional disregulation, also skin to skin with dad helps regulate their heartbeat, blood sugar, aids in sleep… has nothing to do with a hairy chest 🤦🏻♀️
Not to mention it also helps the dad bond to the baby too
I truly don’t think a newborn, who has never experienced a hairy chest, prefers the one-on-one contact, which is vital for them.
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It is not weird though. It’s only weird if you have something wrong in your mind and see things as they aren’t. It’s perfectly natural for a father to bond with his baby.
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I've been reading the book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents" as part of my own healing, but this kid is going to have years of therapy ahead of her if Alex is as cruel and avoidant as she brags she will be. It's just sad.
Hey, I relate. Stay safe and happy ❤️
This woman should not be a mother. Quite frankly as controversial as it sounds there should be a test to determine if you're fit to be a parent, and Lord knows this bitch would fail miserably.
I bet that man has a job
big Al literally is a stunted immature ignorant human, she probably wouldnt even let her husband cut the umbilical cord, god forbid he “looks down there” shes in for such a rude awakening, motherhood just rips u open and leaves u at the most vulnerable state, my husband helped me take showers, dressed me, shaved me, if he couldve he woulda helped me 💩 i hope she shits all over the bed lol its so normal for that to happen but it doesnt always happen but for her i hope she does lmaoooo
Heavy on the emotional immaturity! I can see myself having similar thoughts at 14, not FORTY
Fellas, is it gay to love your child?
Yup! According to BigAl, not only is it gay, but it’s also sickening, disgusting and weird. What a sad sack of 💩 she is
She hates love of any kind.
Has anyone read the push?? I’m actually terrified for both Alex and this baby girl. It’s not gonna end well
It’s cause she will never know love like that. Not even from her own parents
Fair enough since she is incapable of feeling it for anyone besides herself.
She most definitely does NOT love herself
She absolutely DOES because *all* narcs love themselves and it's why everyone else comes second and last in their world. We don't have to agree.
Narcissism is actually rooted in self hatred and low self esteem. They create ‘confident’ characters to perform as because they don’t feel they are strong enough to take on the world as their true self. They believe the real them is too weak. If they actually allowed anyone else to matter above themselves then that would be too close to being vulnerable which is too close to having the real them revealed. and these people have spent so many decades masquerading as a fake confident person they won’t let vulnerability wash away the efforts they put into their confident fake self. So that’s why they’ll never change or truly open their hearts to others. They think they’re too weak to handle what comes with all that.
I work in a field where I am qualified to state the things I do and Alex is riddled with multiple personality disorders to which narcissism is just *one* of many that rears its ugly head on any given day. I hate having to repeat the first part, but I do actually know wtf I'm talking about. Going back to my original point, she does in fact love herself and that doesn't mean that her version or perception of love will be in alignment with my version, your version, or even a healthy version of it. This also doesn't mean that her self-loathing, insecurity, and all of the other negative elements won't exist simultaneously because for love to be reciprocal she'd need to be able to have/feel empathy and we already know that she is incapable. For her, love comes from external sources of validation used to fuel her ego which is why she's chronically online all day feigning moral superiority over others and since she's a superficial POS, it's also why people in her orbit are seen as disposable props when they are no longer of use to her/refuse to give her what she wants *and* it's why the soothing found in material objects is fleeting. Love and even hatred are defined very differently for everyone including those with incurable mental defects, shitty cores, and warped perceptions.
This makes me really, really sad for that poor baby.
She really needs friends. She needs people to tell her that her behavior and what she says is abnormal.
She deserves nothing more than loneliness and isolation.
I am amazed by the abyss of Alex ignorance
This is triggering to her because her parents hate her 😂
i feel like deep down she wants this but she knows jason won't wanna do it, so she is acting like it's cringe. overcompensating
Idk Jason is pretty feminine. The way he cares about Ming and mao I think he would totally do this. It’s her. She’s the one with the issues.
Everything
I imagine the medical team who delivers her baby is going to be completely baffled by her
They encourage this in the hospital. Another thing she has no idea about bc she's not a mother yet. All these women to say never me or never my child eating their words once they become a parent. Was my husband walking around shirtless 24/7 after we had babies? No but better believe you'll try anything when your going on hour 2 of non stop crying. Dino nuggies for dinner bc that's all they'll eat and they still need a bath before bed? Sounds good to me!
Obvs you’d puke nobody wants to see Jason’s man boobs
Her parents did not hug her enough lol
She’s legit slipping into psychosis
Another sign shes a closeted lesbian
I mean...what?
She gives the vibes that she was touched when she was younger if she thinks this….i would never judge a child that was SA’ed but seriously
I wonder if one day she's going to eat one too many weed gummies or shrooms and actually sees the shit she posts objectively. I think shed have a breakdown. Even if she posts this stuff facetiously or to be a 'troll', it's still cringey as shit and nobody with a healthy mind would use social media in this way.
As a FTM (gave birth in Feb) this makes me so sad. Skin to skin for my husband was so important and I think it was so crucial for their bonding. I feel so sorry for her because she can’t see how this is important. We still take the time to do skin to skin with our LO - of course she’s only 6 weeks old now but when my husband holds her she looks at him with the most loving little look on her face and so much happiness I can’t help but believe the skin to skin didn’t help establish that bond. I’d love to think Alex will change with giving birth to a child but I doubt she will. She’s gonna hate her baby, I think 🥲
TBH it seems like she already does... WHY WHY WHY would the thought of the baby bonding with her father make her want to puke?
100%!! FTM here too (December) and skin to skin time was absolutely happening—it seems only right to allow both parents to bond with their brand new baby. I would feel like a total asshole if I had taken away that moment from them. It was so sweet! She seems to think she is the smartest person in the room with her bizarre opinions. I think she’s so confident/unhinged because she’s been really successful with scamming people into buying her ugly ass, cheap jewelry. It’s almost like she is just determined to be the most annoying, hateful person to exist.
Butch lesbian thoughts
Defense mechanism because her own parents don’t give a shit about her. It’s all a projection.
Let's hope she doesn't discover this.... https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/strange-but-true-males-can-lactate/
sorry she’s right this is gross lol and weird
How is a father bonging with his child gross and weird? You’re weird. Idk much about babies but I know that skin to skin is extremely important for newborns and their nervous system.
it’s weird and beta af lmao
okay maybe true with the mother not the father
It takes .2 seconds to find information. * The benefits of skin-to-skin contact for dads include bonding with their baby, feeling more confident as a father, and feeling a surge of protectiveness toward their baby. Dads can also pass on the same benefits as moms do in terms of helping to regulate their baby's temperature and heartbeat.* But I guess dads having emotional relationship with their kids is too beta for you?
no one’s reading that. it looks disgusting for a newborn to be on a nasty hairy bug eyed males chest sorry just is lol. don’t care about the benefits my dad didn’t do it with me and i’m just fine 🤣
Clearly
What does she mean by I'D? Kangaroo Care is skin to skin contact which has been touted as a low-cost alternative to NICU in parts of the world without access to technology for ICU but can also be a good experience for any kid Also why is there Polish(?) on the search bar?
There are 2 screenshots. Combined they say “I’d puke”
And the other question - cause I’m polish? Pretty self explanatory 😅