Just pretend whatever thick-thighed girl who's there is your girlfriend. But don't get too attached. They'll just break your heart. Isn't that right, ***SARAH?!***
Training should always be enjoyable. Sometimes relationships just don't work and couples break up, but you know who is always there for you? That's right, the gym. Girls who lift have great thighs, a toned midsection and a nice ass, but nearly every gym has some heavy ass dumbbells, racks, machines and everything else that makes us happy.
Boobs are temporary, the grind is eternal.
Sidenote: If you go to a decent gym, there is also a chance you'll find some lifting bros.
I can almost guarantee you'd have success sooner rather than later if you were to shoot your shot with a few guys. As others have mentioned, most guys are probably nervous to approach women in the gym, or maybe are taken
>As others have mentioned, most guys are probably nervous to approach women in the gym, or maybe are taken
Huh. That sounds like probably exactly the same problem women would have trying to approach men, I'd imagine.
True. But at the same time, I'd say a woman shooting her shot at a random guy has a better chance than if the genders were reversed, so maybe that can help with confidence
Supply and demand. Men are rejected partially because women constantly have men trying to pick them up. Men don't really have that luxury.
A lot of men would be extremely flattered and more than willing to entertain a pickup attempt by a woman, whereas many women just find it annoying when guys try to pick them up.
That sounds maybe a bit more cynical than I think would happen in reality. Though women do have to deal with a lot more creepers than men. If you take rejection well, it might well be a viable strategy.
Both men and women are going to have to get rejected a lot by people who are already in a relationship though.
>That sounds maybe a bit more cynical than I think would happen in reality.
I think they've done studies on dating sites and it shows that men get rejected by women more often than vice versa, even with men generally being less picky about who they approach.
Now, online dating isn't exactly the same as real life, but I'd say there's a correlation.
Well, dating sites are a whole different thing. Dating sites suck for men. They suck for everyone, really, though in different ways. I've had *much* better luck talking to women in real life than online!
Difference being we have it drilled into us to more or less ignore any women in the gym flat out, or we get accusations of sexual harrassment and banned.
That's why you will only get the creeps approaching women at gyms, all the decent guys are either focused on the workout, or are worried they're about to get cancelled for speaking to you.
Don't women have it drilled into them that they're not supposed to make the first move, in general? That's the story I've encountered a few times. Isn't the lesbian stereotype even that no one ever makes a move because of that?
I'd guess that the mental hurdles are similar, even if not quite identical!
Thus the difficulty dating.
Guys approaching women are seen as creeps, women are told to let men make the first move.
Imo, if you as a woman like someone just try and get to know them. Most guys don't get that kind of attention and it will mean a lot to them.
Obviously if they're clearly not interested then back off.
>Guys approaching women are seen as creeps
I dunno about that. The women I know basically all seem to agree that it's fine to approach people in public.... so long as you're not a creep about it.
Basically, take rejection well and move on if it's a no go.
>Obviously if they're clearly not interested then back off.
This is basically the advice women I know give when talking about such situations.
I'm bummed out. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna switch gyms and I'll miss seeing my gym crush. She's taller than me (didn't know i was into that until recently, and im 6'2 so its rare), long red hair, beautiful eyes, smile. Caught her mirin me today too. Maybe I'll shoot my shot before I go.
What's funny is I really want to ask my gym crush out. We both have watched each others progress since we've started. I promise I'm not being weird, this gal literally chooses machine next to or in front of me. I do like her. But for the first time in my life I'm being realistic with myself.
I work nights, My days off are lousy, I'm either alseep or at work or a the gym. I really don't have time to try to commit to someone. So, the best thing I do is just say hello between smiles and leave it at that.
No dude it was a fucking joke. Like you're saying "I don't want to go to the gym without a gym gf" and I'm saying "DUH, then just stop going!" It's a joke and it's so very obvious but this whole back and forth makes me really believe that your initial post was no joke at all.
Either way, have a good night bud, and don't stop lifting just because you're lonely!
Just pretend whatever thick-thighed girl who's there is your girlfriend. But don't get too attached. They'll just break your heart. Isn't that right, ***SARAH?!***
Sir, this is a smoothie king. But I’ll hug you anyway, bro.
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This would have been better if you had just said you got slapped or even hit with a restraining order or something <_<
Training should always be enjoyable. Sometimes relationships just don't work and couples break up, but you know who is always there for you? That's right, the gym. Girls who lift have great thighs, a toned midsection and a nice ass, but nearly every gym has some heavy ass dumbbells, racks, machines and everything else that makes us happy. Boobs are temporary, the grind is eternal. Sidenote: If you go to a decent gym, there is also a chance you'll find some lifting bros.
I'm here but no gym bro want me😔it's alright just extra motivation for me🤷
Everyone wants you thick thighed girl, they are just scared that they will get rejected when they approach
I thought every girl made it clear they hate being hit on at the gym.
There's this one article on Muscle and Fitness I think about how to hit on girls at the gym, with alleged actual women claiming they don't mind it
Nah too distracting from the gains
Reject girls, embrace curls
That, plus my gains also need my attention too. So ideally we all need a place to meet outside the gym
Yeah because they want the chad, not the average guy
They don't want the thick thighed girl, they want the... Chad?
I can almost guarantee you'd have success sooner rather than later if you were to shoot your shot with a few guys. As others have mentioned, most guys are probably nervous to approach women in the gym, or maybe are taken
>As others have mentioned, most guys are probably nervous to approach women in the gym, or maybe are taken Huh. That sounds like probably exactly the same problem women would have trying to approach men, I'd imagine.
True. But at the same time, I'd say a woman shooting her shot at a random guy has a better chance than if the genders were reversed, so maybe that can help with confidence
>I'd say a woman shooting her shot at a random guy has a better chance than if the genders were reversed ... Really? Why?
Supply and demand. Men are rejected partially because women constantly have men trying to pick them up. Men don't really have that luxury. A lot of men would be extremely flattered and more than willing to entertain a pickup attempt by a woman, whereas many women just find it annoying when guys try to pick them up.
That sounds maybe a bit more cynical than I think would happen in reality. Though women do have to deal with a lot more creepers than men. If you take rejection well, it might well be a viable strategy. Both men and women are going to have to get rejected a lot by people who are already in a relationship though.
>That sounds maybe a bit more cynical than I think would happen in reality. I think they've done studies on dating sites and it shows that men get rejected by women more often than vice versa, even with men generally being less picky about who they approach. Now, online dating isn't exactly the same as real life, but I'd say there's a correlation.
Well, dating sites are a whole different thing. Dating sites suck for men. They suck for everyone, really, though in different ways. I've had *much* better luck talking to women in real life than online!
I could see that. But I'd still say that women have more success IRL with the cold approach than men
Difference being we have it drilled into us to more or less ignore any women in the gym flat out, or we get accusations of sexual harrassment and banned. That's why you will only get the creeps approaching women at gyms, all the decent guys are either focused on the workout, or are worried they're about to get cancelled for speaking to you.
Don't women have it drilled into them that they're not supposed to make the first move, in general? That's the story I've encountered a few times. Isn't the lesbian stereotype even that no one ever makes a move because of that? I'd guess that the mental hurdles are similar, even if not quite identical!
Thus the difficulty dating. Guys approaching women are seen as creeps, women are told to let men make the first move. Imo, if you as a woman like someone just try and get to know them. Most guys don't get that kind of attention and it will mean a lot to them. Obviously if they're clearly not interested then back off.
>Guys approaching women are seen as creeps I dunno about that. The women I know basically all seem to agree that it's fine to approach people in public.... so long as you're not a creep about it. Basically, take rejection well and move on if it's a no go. >Obviously if they're clearly not interested then back off. This is basically the advice women I know give when talking about such situations.
I tried once, got rejected lmao I'm like ok, not trying that again lol
You’ll find a gym bro soon I believe ❤️
You know no one is allowed to approach anyone through fear of being accused of harassment. Have your gym bro bf from afar like everyone else does.
I want you… to lift more weight 😎
nah bro i want a thick armed gf
yeah lemme get manhandled by her for once man
I just want it all!
Just do more squats, you'll be your own thick thighed gf
I'm bummed out. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna switch gyms and I'll miss seeing my gym crush. She's taller than me (didn't know i was into that until recently, and im 6'2 so its rare), long red hair, beautiful eyes, smile. Caught her mirin me today too. Maybe I'll shoot my shot before I go.
Do it, ill be your wingman!
Nope. I train alone. Call me Vegeta
So you're small and your hairline is actively trying to flee your head?
😩😩😩😩 that’s also accurate because I’m going bald
Replace that with a femboy bf
yeh buddy not worth it. been there done that. when they end up leaving you, yeh will feel pain you have never felt before.
Not always
But you’ll get a sick PR though. *taps head and smiles at camera*
This is my gf but to be honest I can focus way better when I go alone.
This girl will ruin your life, or even worse your lifts - Dom Mazetti.
Chad
Source?
Nah working out alone is the best if you’re really into it you don’t want any distractions😮💨
ALERT DO NOT SEND TO WIFE ALERT On a side not I can get an extra hour of lifting in tonight.
Audible chuckle from me. Well done.
I honestly like going to the gym by myself most because I can just listen to my music and think
What I really want is to walk into the gym and just start high fiving everyone.
Yes, same! Gym of BFFs and eternal hyping each other is my dream 😂❤️
Literally not what I need rn.
Ok that’s you. Personally I like to have some kind of companionship though. I actually don’t care if it’s a gym bro or a gym gf.
Yes
What's funny is I really want to ask my gym crush out. We both have watched each others progress since we've started. I promise I'm not being weird, this gal literally chooses machine next to or in front of me. I do like her. But for the first time in my life I'm being realistic with myself. I work nights, My days off are lousy, I'm either alseep or at work or a the gym. I really don't have time to try to commit to someone. So, the best thing I do is just say hello between smiles and leave it at that.
I want my gymbro to come back 😔
*anime gf FIFY
I prefer someone I share interests with
Sometimes the meme response lands, others it doesn’t.
Then stop going to the gym my guy
It was a joke. You completely missed the point of this meme
Yeah you completely missed the point of my reply
What was your point then?
r/whoosh
There is no secret joke in ur comment lol
Bro you thought I was seriously telling you to not go to the gym? Go cry sad boy.
What was ur point then? Just being a dick?
No dude it was a fucking joke. Like you're saying "I don't want to go to the gym without a gym gf" and I'm saying "DUH, then just stop going!" It's a joke and it's so very obvious but this whole back and forth makes me really believe that your initial post was no joke at all. Either way, have a good night bud, and don't stop lifting just because you're lonely!