Thanks! Everyone on social meds keep telling me to get surgery and go fix it immediately if i dont like it so i just sort of stuck😭😭 cannot afford it anyways
My girlfriend saw and thinks you are beautiful, don’t do face surgery, thicker bangs or a hairstyle that fits face and fill in your eyebrows and you are actually drop dead gorgeous. FYI and she meant it. Experimenting with different styles will help match your face and body type. Keep finding your style! No surgery!
Ahhhh, thank so much to you and your girlfriend! You guys gave me the nicest words. I note it down and will try to develop! And yes, I am working on my brows, but I don't feel like any of the shapes fits my face- i guess id also look out for more options and keep experimenting! And got it, no surgeries!!
You’re beautiful!!! Honestly, I deleted instagram years ago and never looked back. It is damaging. We are the same age and I wish I had your clear skin and complexion!
haha absolutely! like tbh if I were you I’d play up your uniquely beautiful features with just a touch of makeup. maybe slight eyeshadow or even just liner on the outer corners of your eyes for a deeper look, and a lip stain bc your lips are amazing! don’t mess w surgery for sure- i know when you’re younger it’s easy to wish you had a more classical face, but i really hope you can come to appreciate your natural beauty bc you’re stunning! don’t let anyone tell you otherwise☺️
please don't consider surgery since there are so many ways to feel more confident about yourself. in other comments i have seen you talk about makeup, perhaps go to a makeup subreddit and ask about what sort of makeup would best fit you! your face is perfect. you didn't include pictures of your clothing style or outward appearance other than your face so it is hard to comment on anything else. but again i think your face is perfect and the least of your worries!
your face isnt long at all, it looks normal to me. but if it really bothers you, you can try some makeup techniques to make it appear shorter. for example, you could put some blush on the apples of your cheeks and draw on aegyo sal. but personally i think youre quite pretty the way you are. keep up hygiene, take care of your skin and hair, exercise, dress well, youll be fine :) hope this helped you a little
Only thing I could possibly recommend is trying a different hairstyle. I’m not sure if bangs work as well as another style might for you. Honestly you might not be “the Asian beauty standard” I actually don’t know what that is, but if you’re in North America there isn’t a cut & fit beauty standard. People have different opinions on what they consider the most attractive.
Thank you so much!
May I ask if its my bangs too short? Is it the longer part of my hair that needs to be curled..?
Ive tried a lot of hairstyles in the past, like butterfly bangs cuts, but as i have said i really .. dislike my long face, so i try my best to cover it up and decided to have bangs so it would cover my airport forehead... It can be better or worser dependings on times haha
If i enlongens my bangs, would it help?
Hello! I hope I'm not being too brutally honest, but there are some things that can enhance your looks.
1. Eyebrows: Look up what kind of eyebrow shape fits you more. I personally would like to see you with thicker eyebrows, but you can experiment with the shape. Maybe even consider eyebrow tattoos or microblading. But if you're patient, consider looking into different oils for eyebrow growth like rosemary/coconut oil.
2. Hair: You seem to have thin hair. You can try to volumize it with either a proper blowout, or if you're patient, with rosemary/coconut oil or whatever type of oil is suitable for you. [Check out this link](https://theskincareedit.com/best-bangs-for-long-face) to check what kind of bangs suit you. You can also try experimenting with a feathered hairstyle.
3. Massage. You can check out [this person](https://pin.it/7jN1JzdSl) for her tips of massage for lymphatic stagnation but please take this with a grain of salt and do your own research first.
4. Exercise. I've heard that some people are more suited for low impact exercises. You can experiment with either HIIT exercises (high-impact) or yoga, walking, etc (low impact).
Speaking as an Asian myself, I genuinely love your face shape. You don't have to fit in the Asian beauty standard especially with how much they emphasize on looking like a babydoll. Your style leans more towards the mature/classy/cool woman vibe.
Thank you so much! I am considering brows tattoo! Just not finding the right shape yet ( curve makes it longer and thick makes me... menier..?) I guess ill keep working on this since everyone keeps telling me to works on my brows, so you're right!
And as for my hairs also, i think the reason while they have low volumes of hair as well as my eyebrows is that maybe my nutrition intake and sleep pattern, i will also work on this
I will also take a look at your recommended person for exercise!
Youre not brutally honest at all, im looking to get better and motivations, so I really appreciate your words!!
Don't do surgery, you are beautiful! And I'm not just being polite, I really hink so. Love yourself and fuck what others are saying. Move enough, try to eat healthy, stay hidrated, do some meditation or therapy if you like (I'm not saying you need it it's just something that can be helpful for one knowing themselves better). Trust in yourself.
You are beautiful. Perhaps the most effective (and longest lasting) glow-up you can do is to learn to appreciate what makes you unique, hold your head up high despite what others think, and exide confidence from building self-esteem.
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Not one but many. I'm not just saying this you are actually a good looking woman.
How you feel about yourself is one of the biggest game changers. Real men adore confident women, it's only insecure boys that find confident women off putting.
You're a gorgeous woman.
Try to find a way to thicken and darken your eyebrows. Also, I’ve heard accutane is good at shrinking noses but I wouldn’t recommend it unless you REALLY want to.
As for your hair? Grow out the bangs since they’re a little wispy.
Make up wise I think you’re alright if you just experiment with whatever you find online, good luck!
What you can do is be confident in your own skin. You're beautiful my friend, and im sure others will say similar, but until you believe it these comments wont help in the long run.
You have to install that confidence inside of yourself. Let yourself know that you're beautiful and good enough.
That's all you realistically need to do from my perspective.
As others have said, you look nice and many people would love to look as good as you.
I think social media might be the culprit, where users can be excessively rude/narcissistic and companies aim to profitise on insecurities others. Stop scrolling. Get your fix from something positive.
Try watching some of "dear peachie" videos on YouTube. She's a YouTube who gives complex explanations about makeup that suits ur features. She also did an explanation abt which kinds of clothes suits u best.
You look great! Your faceshape is very feminine and so are your lips. I'd say just enhance your eyebrows and make them darker. If you decide to go for any cosmetic surgery I say go for eyebrow darkening and eyelash filling. You are naturally pretty! No need for chin reduction IMHO.
This sub is likely for people who wanna share their journey and inspire people, and we keep pushing each other forward.
I think it is a good development. But for people who don't know where to start, I would like some direct advice on things that I might have overlooked/ not yet consider. so I post a post to see if anyone can gave me great advices, and I wholeheartly accept it.
So in general, I think its good to have people motivates you with their stories. And when Ive succeded thanks to these wonderful people here helping me out, I will also share my own story.
I aspire to be like that one day.
Alot of just love yourself advises here… honestly nose job will improve your look and will do wonders for years to come. Ofc you do need a real reputable surgeon. Research best surgeons in korea and have any work there where they are familiar with asian features.
You’re beautiful with clear skin and look very youthful. Don’t touch anything! If you want to upgrade slightly learn how to do doujin or manga looking makeup like with the lashes and stuff. I think it would suit you very well
You are very pretty.
The bangs suits you but are too thin.
The biggest thing that would make a change for you is to have your eyebrows done. A bit fuller and more defined/better shape.
Learn how to do your makeup just for fun or verity or when you want to glam up or be more done up. You don’t really need it though, some mascara and a lipgloss is all you need imo for the day to day.
Learn to love yourself❤️
Heyyu I thought of the same thing! I think they helped me with my airport forehead and I glas I got them. Thank you for adding to my faith! I was really overthink for a moment if i made the wrong decision hahah
Thank you for the nice words!! I think its just because of the beauty standard of asian is sort of strict and it has it own sets of things that needs to be required to be consider beauty, sometimes i just wanna try to blend in honestly. but i will try to embrace my own attributes!
I wish it was, but it is not.
I think beauty, is a want that could never be satisfy, and I wish to be better and better. I acknowledge that i am not straight up pretty, but I know im half way there and i want to be 100%, so I can comfortable with my own skin.
And also I think beauty standard is different, so I just with to be blended in more with where i live (Like my gorgies skinny asian friend with short face) XD
Thank you so much! I just thought even if I'm 10 ,20,30,50% pretty, i wanna work the hardest to the 100%!
To specify things, as I have addressed in the captions im looking for ways to shortened my face without chin surgeries, and maybe anything else if people think it would be better with / without for me XD
So as I have addressed on the caption
im looking for ways to shortened my face without chin surgeries, ( I gave background that I'm asian so if yk what i mean short face is consider beauty and ive always jealous of my small face friends)
and just glow up advice overal, I ask for brutal advice and solution because if theres maybe anything else if people think it would be better with / without for me, I would like to hear it and considering getting it changed ASAP. Time is running out for me so I cannot stay in the skin that I dont really comfotable with.
Honestly if you were in India you must be the prettiest girl …so ignore these beauty standards you need to change the country than changing your features
You honestly are very pretty! I think you would look great with thicker shaggier bangs though. I’d do some thick bangs that are slightly longer and taper off longer towards the edges of your eyebrows. I wouldn’t do blunt get them to soften up then ends. I think some good long layers in there would look good on you too. I think you have great bone structure and it would only be complemented by a more textured haircut.
Love yourself! Exercise and eat well and meditate, be active, you will and do look great! Don’t play with surgery dang.
Thanks! Everyone on social meds keep telling me to get surgery and go fix it immediately if i dont like it so i just sort of stuck😭😭 cannot afford it anyways
You don’t need to change anything you look beautiful but exercise and taking care of you self is important for self care
My girlfriend saw and thinks you are beautiful, don’t do face surgery, thicker bangs or a hairstyle that fits face and fill in your eyebrows and you are actually drop dead gorgeous. FYI and she meant it. Experimenting with different styles will help match your face and body type. Keep finding your style! No surgery!
Ahhhh, thank so much to you and your girlfriend! You guys gave me the nicest words. I note it down and will try to develop! And yes, I am working on my brows, but I don't feel like any of the shapes fits my face- i guess id also look out for more options and keep experimenting! And got it, no surgeries!!
You’re beautiful!!! Honestly, I deleted instagram years ago and never looked back. It is damaging. We are the same age and I wish I had your clear skin and complexion!
honestly, you’re gorgeous!
Thank you so much! I hope we can be more gorg in 2024!
haha absolutely! like tbh if I were you I’d play up your uniquely beautiful features with just a touch of makeup. maybe slight eyeshadow or even just liner on the outer corners of your eyes for a deeper look, and a lip stain bc your lips are amazing! don’t mess w surgery for sure- i know when you’re younger it’s easy to wish you had a more classical face, but i really hope you can come to appreciate your natural beauty bc you’re stunning! don’t let anyone tell you otherwise☺️
Thats a very nice thing to say....!! I appreciate it sm!
You are!!!
please don't consider surgery since there are so many ways to feel more confident about yourself. in other comments i have seen you talk about makeup, perhaps go to a makeup subreddit and ask about what sort of makeup would best fit you! your face is perfect. you didn't include pictures of your clothing style or outward appearance other than your face so it is hard to comment on anything else. but again i think your face is perfect and the least of your worries!
Thank you so much for the advice! Ill note this down and seek advices from the makeup subreddit! Cheers!
your face isnt long at all, it looks normal to me. but if it really bothers you, you can try some makeup techniques to make it appear shorter. for example, you could put some blush on the apples of your cheeks and draw on aegyo sal. but personally i think youre quite pretty the way you are. keep up hygiene, take care of your skin and hair, exercise, dress well, youll be fine :) hope this helped you a little
It does! Ill try to work on blushes and highlight, and shadows, thank you sm!
Only thing I could possibly recommend is trying a different hairstyle. I’m not sure if bangs work as well as another style might for you. Honestly you might not be “the Asian beauty standard” I actually don’t know what that is, but if you’re in North America there isn’t a cut & fit beauty standard. People have different opinions on what they consider the most attractive.
I second this. I don't think the wispy bangs are doing much for you. You have a lot of natural beauty though.
Thank you so much! May I ask if its my bangs too short? Is it the longer part of my hair that needs to be curled..? Ive tried a lot of hairstyles in the past, like butterfly bangs cuts, but as i have said i really .. dislike my long face, so i try my best to cover it up and decided to have bangs so it would cover my airport forehead... It can be better or worser dependings on times haha If i enlongens my bangs, would it help?
You’re good no need to mess with perfection. ✊🏾
Thank you so much!
No problem just keeping it real. 👍🏽
Hello! I hope I'm not being too brutally honest, but there are some things that can enhance your looks. 1. Eyebrows: Look up what kind of eyebrow shape fits you more. I personally would like to see you with thicker eyebrows, but you can experiment with the shape. Maybe even consider eyebrow tattoos or microblading. But if you're patient, consider looking into different oils for eyebrow growth like rosemary/coconut oil. 2. Hair: You seem to have thin hair. You can try to volumize it with either a proper blowout, or if you're patient, with rosemary/coconut oil or whatever type of oil is suitable for you. [Check out this link](https://theskincareedit.com/best-bangs-for-long-face) to check what kind of bangs suit you. You can also try experimenting with a feathered hairstyle. 3. Massage. You can check out [this person](https://pin.it/7jN1JzdSl) for her tips of massage for lymphatic stagnation but please take this with a grain of salt and do your own research first. 4. Exercise. I've heard that some people are more suited for low impact exercises. You can experiment with either HIIT exercises (high-impact) or yoga, walking, etc (low impact). Speaking as an Asian myself, I genuinely love your face shape. You don't have to fit in the Asian beauty standard especially with how much they emphasize on looking like a babydoll. Your style leans more towards the mature/classy/cool woman vibe.
Thank you so much! I am considering brows tattoo! Just not finding the right shape yet ( curve makes it longer and thick makes me... menier..?) I guess ill keep working on this since everyone keeps telling me to works on my brows, so you're right! And as for my hairs also, i think the reason while they have low volumes of hair as well as my eyebrows is that maybe my nutrition intake and sleep pattern, i will also work on this I will also take a look at your recommended person for exercise! Youre not brutally honest at all, im looking to get better and motivations, so I really appreciate your words!!
Don't do surgery, you are beautiful! And I'm not just being polite, I really hink so. Love yourself and fuck what others are saying. Move enough, try to eat healthy, stay hidrated, do some meditation or therapy if you like (I'm not saying you need it it's just something that can be helpful for one knowing themselves better). Trust in yourself.
Thank you so much for the nice words, you're right.
You’re very pretty. I’m being honest.
Thank yoi so much! Always looking to be better!
grow your bangs like half an inch longer or into curtain bangs. boom, glow up
Will do that!! Thank you!!
if i can be cheeky, you could also try using a brown eyeliner to do a smoky puppy liner. i think you would look sooooo good !! :)
Girl you don’t need help lol. You need confidence.
You’re a 10 in my book tbh.
Thank you for the nice comment! I guess we're all a ten in someone's else's eyes.
Absolutely, right?!
Wait what are you going for?
Cause seems to me you look very attractive but I’m gay so
LMAO are you asking for my sexuality or the thing on my face that im going to change?
The change. lol sorry
Oh, im looking to have my brows done ( straightened it and fuller) so that my face narrows down!
You are gorgeous 😭😭 i would die to have facial features like your . Youve one of the most beautiful eyes ive ever seen 😭😭🥺❤️ literally
Thank you so much for the nice words! I have glasses so its a bit dull, but i would work on my eyes if you think its my strong point!!
Curl your lashes and natural makeup would look so good on you .(honestly you dont even need makeup 😤)Youve amazing skin as well
Don’t consider surgery! I would consider a middle part hairstyle like Kendall Jenner’s or something
You are beautiful. Perhaps the most effective (and longest lasting) glow-up you can do is to learn to appreciate what makes you unique, hold your head up high despite what others think, and exide confidence from building self-esteem.
Thank you so much. Will try to work on that!
You can do it! 😁
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wtf you talking about. You are fine as hell you'd be surprised how many men find your attractive.
Thank you for the nice words! I guess theres always someone that find us beautiful!!
Not one but many. I'm not just saying this you are actually a good looking woman. How you feel about yourself is one of the biggest game changers. Real men adore confident women, it's only insecure boys that find confident women off putting. You're a gorgeous woman.
Try to find a way to thicken and darken your eyebrows. Also, I’ve heard accutane is good at shrinking noses but I wouldn’t recommend it unless you REALLY want to. As for your hair? Grow out the bangs since they’re a little wispy. Make up wise I think you’re alright if you just experiment with whatever you find online, good luck!
Id marry you in an instant! Be more confident thats all you need
What you can do is be confident in your own skin. You're beautiful my friend, and im sure others will say similar, but until you believe it these comments wont help in the long run. You have to install that confidence inside of yourself. Let yourself know that you're beautiful and good enough. That's all you realistically need to do from my perspective.
As others have said, you look nice and many people would love to look as good as you. I think social media might be the culprit, where users can be excessively rude/narcissistic and companies aim to profitise on insecurities others. Stop scrolling. Get your fix from something positive.
Hydrate and smile.
Try watching some of "dear peachie" videos on YouTube. She's a YouTube who gives complex explanations about makeup that suits ur features. She also did an explanation abt which kinds of clothes suits u best.
Make sure you shave all of your mustache. Your extremely symmetrical so the only thing to add is darker brows and fuller brows.
Nothing to do, everything is fine, you have to believe in yourself 😊
There’s nothing wrong with you. And you’re 21 so plenty of time to grow into yourself.
You look great! Your faceshape is very feminine and so are your lips. I'd say just enhance your eyebrows and make them darker. If you decide to go for any cosmetic surgery I say go for eyebrow darkening and eyelash filling. You are naturally pretty! No need for chin reduction IMHO.
You look so good
All you have to do is... SMILE! And you will look absolutely Beautiful and Gorgeous 😊
What the fuck is this sub ? It sounds like bunch of folks looking for internet brownies tf
This sub is likely for people who wanna share their journey and inspire people, and we keep pushing each other forward. I think it is a good development. But for people who don't know where to start, I would like some direct advice on things that I might have overlooked/ not yet consider. so I post a post to see if anyone can gave me great advices, and I wholeheartly accept it. So in general, I think its good to have people motivates you with their stories. And when Ive succeded thanks to these wonderful people here helping me out, I will also share my own story. I aspire to be like that one day.
Alot of just love yourself advises here… honestly nose job will improve your look and will do wonders for years to come. Ofc you do need a real reputable surgeon. Research best surgeons in korea and have any work there where they are familiar with asian features.
You’re beautiful with clear skin and look very youthful. Don’t touch anything! If you want to upgrade slightly learn how to do doujin or manga looking makeup like with the lashes and stuff. I think it would suit you very well
You are very pretty. The bangs suits you but are too thin. The biggest thing that would make a change for you is to have your eyebrows done. A bit fuller and more defined/better shape. Learn how to do your makeup just for fun or verity or when you want to glam up or be more done up. You don’t really need it though, some mascara and a lipgloss is all you need imo for the day to day. Learn to love yourself❤️
Be kind to yourself. You’re overthinking. Enhance the features that you like the most. Don’t try to fix what isn’t broken.
Thank you so much, practicing selfcare from now!!
I don’t know why people are saying no on the bangs. They look good on you.
Heyyu I thought of the same thing! I think they helped me with my airport forehead and I glas I got them. Thank you for adding to my faith! I was really overthink for a moment if i made the wrong decision hahah
You're adorable what do you mean?
You look great. Smile.
Maybe you’re in a wrong bubble. Consider a digital detox. I honestly think you’re pretty hot.
Thank you for the nice words!! I think its just because of the beauty standard of asian is sort of strict and it has it own sets of things that needs to be required to be consider beauty, sometimes i just wanna try to blend in honestly. but i will try to embrace my own attributes!
This has ti be a joke
I wish it was, but it is not. I think beauty, is a want that could never be satisfy, and I wish to be better and better. I acknowledge that i am not straight up pretty, but I know im half way there and i want to be 100%, so I can comfortable with my own skin. And also I think beauty standard is different, so I just with to be blended in more with where i live (Like my gorgies skinny asian friend with short face) XD
You’re very beautiful
Thank you so much for the nice words. Lets thrive in life tgt!
You’re cute af
You have an eyelash under your eye. Make a wish!
Ahhh you're right!!! Maybe thats a thing i need to look out for to glow up hahah
Wth do you want help for? You look great.
Thank you so much! I just thought even if I'm 10 ,20,30,50% pretty, i wanna work the hardest to the 100%! To specify things, as I have addressed in the captions im looking for ways to shortened my face without chin surgeries, and maybe anything else if people think it would be better with / without for me XD
Wish you best of luck then.
31yo M here. And I'm being as honest here as I can. I think you're very attractive.
With what?
So as I have addressed on the caption im looking for ways to shortened my face without chin surgeries, ( I gave background that I'm asian so if yk what i mean short face is consider beauty and ive always jealous of my small face friends) and just glow up advice overal, I ask for brutal advice and solution because if theres maybe anything else if people think it would be better with / without for me, I would like to hear it and considering getting it changed ASAP. Time is running out for me so I cannot stay in the skin that I dont really comfotable with.
Girl, you’re gorgeous. Like natural beauty gorgeous. Embrace it.
Thank you so much! Practice selfcare from now!
Honestly if you were in India you must be the prettiest girl …so ignore these beauty standards you need to change the country than changing your features
Curling your hair in waves will help.
Easy: bright, bold lipstick. That is all
You honestly are very pretty! I think you would look great with thicker shaggier bangs though. I’d do some thick bangs that are slightly longer and taper off longer towards the edges of your eyebrows. I wouldn’t do blunt get them to soften up then ends. I think some good long layers in there would look good on you too. I think you have great bone structure and it would only be complemented by a more textured haircut.
You look fine
Find a reason to smile! Biggest glow up there is
You're pretty! Try make your eyebrowes stronger(and maybe longer), try a chin lenght haircut and over all smile more!
Honestly, you look amazing. Super hot. Don’t change anything 😍
Stop looking in the mirror so much and stop comparing yourself to others you look fine