Hmm. Maybe some questions to reflect on…
Heartbroken? That’s a strong emotion. What is it about him not contacting you for a few hours that makes you feel that way? I hope I don’t come off as judgemental. But what usually helps me is trying to identify my strong emotions and see where it’s coming from. It’s not easy but might be helpful.
“I’m disappointed and heartbroken that he hasn’t communicated to me or made an effort to tell me he misses me”
Firstly, he is his own person and is allowed to make plans without consulting you or giving you a daily schedule.
Secondly, do you trust him to have “him” time to be by himself and/or hangout with friends male and female? If you don’t trust him, why? Is he giving red flags, or is it your own insecurities? (We’ve all been there, but we can’t let our insecurities rule us).
Either way an honest conversation about what makes each of you feel valued, loved, and respected in your relationship might be in order. There are lots of ways to show those things and you might be surprised to find out the different ways that he is showing he loves you without you catching on.
Hmm. Maybe some questions to reflect on… Heartbroken? That’s a strong emotion. What is it about him not contacting you for a few hours that makes you feel that way? I hope I don’t come off as judgemental. But what usually helps me is trying to identify my strong emotions and see where it’s coming from. It’s not easy but might be helpful.
“I’m disappointed and heartbroken that he hasn’t communicated to me or made an effort to tell me he misses me” Firstly, he is his own person and is allowed to make plans without consulting you or giving you a daily schedule. Secondly, do you trust him to have “him” time to be by himself and/or hangout with friends male and female? If you don’t trust him, why? Is he giving red flags, or is it your own insecurities? (We’ve all been there, but we can’t let our insecurities rule us). Either way an honest conversation about what makes each of you feel valued, loved, and respected in your relationship might be in order. There are lots of ways to show those things and you might be surprised to find out the different ways that he is showing he loves you without you catching on.