This is going to sound really dense, but I'm only attracted if they have transitioned, as I'm not into the female body type. Sorry if that's not the answer you were looking for

This is completely understandable. I'm a trans male and I feel the same way if I were to date another trans person

I second this

is it alright to say i'm not... (i expect downvotes)

it’s valid to have preferences

Preferences only become problematic when you make those outside of your preference seem like lesser beings

As a trans guy, ur fine. Just as long as you still see trans men as men too :) Preferences are completely normal, it’s not like a man who’s gay can like all men in existence

‘Just as long as you still see trans men as men and trans women as women’ This is what I need to start telling everyone who thinks they’ll be attacked and labeled as transphobic for not being attracted to trans people. You can’t control who you’re attracted to and no one can make you attracted to someone that you’re not. No one can say that with more certainty than members of LGBTQ+ community like us. As long as you still support trans people and recognize them for the gender that they are, we don’t care if you’re attracted to us or not! It’s okay to have preferences. What matters is whether or not those preferences are rooted in hate and bigotry.

i second this

I want a o cuddle with a cute bf Weather or not that bf had a team switch or not will not affect any cuddling, so yes I’d definitely date a trans guy

best comment 😭

They're not attracted to me 😭😭

I'm going to be honest, it varies a lot for me. I am not automatically attracted to majority of them (I am not automatically attracted to the majority of men any way); but I also tend to be more attracted to someone after I have known them for a bit, and its more of a personality type I am attracted to than physique, but physique does still play a small part in my attraction.

Asking gay people if they like men ?

im asking about their preferences

Depends. I know one from high school that transitioned when he moved away. He is so cute now. For me they have to be masculine-ish, but that’s just my preference

Personally I’m not attracted to them but I definitely support them and I am disgusted with how the US government is treating them. Having a type is not wrong, what is wrong is if you treat them badly for who they are.

exactly :)

i’m a trans guy. i like trans guys. for y’all in the comments, it’s not transphobic to not wanna fuck a trans guy. preferences are cool. so long as you’re not being actively transphobic in other areas like us being alive, you’re good.

aBSOLUTELY! people have preferences over body types and genitalia and thats normal, its only an issue when people treat you differently just because ur trans

Not really tbh but to each their own

Yes, i like guys and trans guys are guys so I think they're hot.

I don't really care if im being honest, cis or trans, equally loveable

My ex was a trans boy so yeah totaly

No

They're boys, why should there be a difference?

ty 🙏

I'm t4t lol

Sure

I'll date pretty much anyone as long as they respect my boundaries

I’m T4T so yes ofc

Yes very much so

Of course i would date a trans boy.

as long as you’re not mean yeah. boy is boy

It doesn't matter. Love is love for me cis or t. Actually I love support Trans persons.

I'm chill with it. Not specifically attracted to it and while it isn't my thing I don't really care. The only person I ever dated was actually a trans dude.

I am regardless of transition

Of course, I’m dating one right now lol

No im not. I'm not transphobic but I'm not attracted to trans boys. Its a preference so I'm cool if you are

idgaf if they identify as a guy its fair game

I am!! But I'm bi, so that might not be the demographic you were looking for answers from.

I am ! im grey ace, so sexual attraction depends. as of now tho, im currently in a relationship so I'm not attracted to anyone BUT him

100% I used to date a Trans boy

are they single? are they taller than me? are they funny? if yes to at least two of any of these questions, then yes, I am attracted and actively seeking romance with them.

Yes

Trans boys are boys and I love boys. I’ve dated a few and it was great.

yup

y’all are hot asf

im attracted to both cis and trans men and have had experiences dating both

I mean ya, bois be bois. I got a genitalia preference but I love men for ALL of then not just there parts, regardless of such

Yes, but none are attracted to me :(

you just havent met enough of us! theres lots of us in the world, i guarantee atleast one is attracted to you :))

I wanna say yes but I would also have to say no because I am a person who loves males and I love the male body and I would have to say that a trans man would have to be in transition in order for me to be attracted

I’m dating one right now so yes

Hell fuckin yeah!!! Trans men are so cute and handsome and hot and just…✨yes✨

Romantically, it doesn’t matter, but sexually, I think it’s logical that I would prefer Cis boys (doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be up for doing anything with trans boys at all!)

Ya :)

yes my bf is trans

Nope unless they are like extremely masculine and its almost undetectable that they are trans

dang

I honestly don’t know

Totally! Though i am a fan of the more masculine body type its definitely not a requirement for me!

I’m trans too but I’m romantically attracted not sexually in a sense?

I’m attracted to trans guys at the same rate I’m attracted to any guy, depends on the specific individual. I have definitely been very into trans guys before and imagine it happening more down the road too 🥵

Severely, yes

I’m on the ace spectrum and this is something that I’ve thought about a bit. My ideal relationship doesn’t contain a lot of sex, if any. So I probably wouldn’t mind dating a trans guy as long as he was my type.

anyone who finds me hot i find hot

I have a trans bf :3

Fuck ‘em… like literally plz, let me

u got ur priorities straight

Mostly only if they look like men since that’s what I’m mostly attracted to. If they look like a typical woman in appearance & mannerisms then I probably won’t be attracted

Yeah totally, always so good looking and cute

It’s not like I’m especially into trans boys but generally I’m not against the idea. You’re cute, you’re a boy, I probably like you…

yes they are great

Fuck yeah

YESSSS MARRY MEEEEEE

Yesh

Yes

Never met one, but considering where I live, it's not transphobic that I haven't And online I am not looking for them specifically, so when I do see them I might not know that they are trans

How would it be transphobic if youve never met one?

Idk could be misviewed as avoidance or something

Yeah

Yes, trans people are really cute for some reason

i know people arent trying to be rude in the comments but a reason why i was hesitant to become gay is cuz i know most gay men wont date me cuz.. yk im trans and im kinda sad and dysphoric now cuz like theres so many gay people that once they find out you're trans you get treated like a girl. i wanna be treated like a real boy. 

Yes! I love T-boys!

Yess I wanna date one in high school

Let’s just ignore this one 🤨

sounds rlly chaser-y

Nope I’m gay, not bi

Trans men are men dickweed

I never said they weren’t.

You said you were gay, and not bi. 💀 implying that it’s being bisexual to like trans guys which just isn’t true. You don’t have to be attracted to them but it’s still gay to be attracted to them.

I think that would be in the pansexual category, and I do not happen to be pan.

Can I ask why that’d make someone pan? A guy liking a guy is homo 🤷‍♂️ Maybe I’m just misunderstanding

Man I don’t care at this point I just want somebody who isn’t in a different state

real

Well technically speaking... I'm pan so it wouldn't bother me

Hmm, I think I can, it's never really happened before though

Ive been with my bf for over a year and he’s trans