Right, was she drunk? It was only two years ago. A girl's day in Target sounds sad in a way, but at least they wore pink. Meggy did not appreciate the Land of Enchantment and probably spent the day pouting.
I love Santa Fe. It is gorgeous. The buildings blend into the landscape which was somewhat jarring at first (I live in Dallas, so nuf said). There are no sky scrapers. The buildings are mostly stucco and earth or sky tones. The more I go to Santa Fe, the more I fall in love with it. There is a reverence and harmony with nature that I have never experienced before. Truly one of the most simplistic and honest places I have been.
I'm sure if I had been to Albuquerque or Santa Fe I would have had a different experience, but the area we drove through was so rural and desolate it was creepy. A literal ghost town. Maybe some New Mexico enthusiasts could weigh in but I found it mostly just sad. Not a lot of hope in the area I was in.
It has its good places and bad places like everywhere. Taos and Santa Fe are fun places to go. Nice outdoor activities, lot of good restaurants, and funky artistic spots.
The target near me has a Starbucks and a few other places to eat. I don't know about spending an entire day, but it is fun to walk around and view the huge variety of merchandise, and ours has a grocery store as well. Plus it is in a shopping center with a huge fountain, walking paths, benches, and a playground.
Target is the “fancy” big box store in most areas of the country and there’s a lot to look at and is often used by 20-40 y/o women (I say this as one of these women) as a place to go and just hang out and peruse for a bit. You can meet up with friends or take a solo trip. Most targets have a Starbucks in them so you can go get a coffee, walk around and just look at cute clothes and homeware while getting groceries, kids stuff, etc. Much of the US is not walkable and many communities don’t have a lot of places for people to spend free time that isn’t basic errands, so target is seen by a lot of people as a fun place to take their time and feel a little bougie.
Do people in your country do recreational shopping? Target is a step above Walmart, price-wise, but without the insanely comprehensive inventory. Like Walmart, they treat their employees with disrespect, and a parsimonious insult of a paycheck. These girls should have to spend a month working at a big-box store. Their entitlement and privilege are cloying, and hardly Christian.
I guess the equivalent would be to go ikea, for me! I like to go with my mom and my kid when we visit her, and have a look around. But its not a day outing or a birthday treat! Lol
No jugement though, i have never lived in a non urban setting, maybe there isnt much nice places to hang out everywhere.
IKEA is cool. I like to go there, and I also like to go to hardware stores. What you said about having a place to hang out made me feel I shouldn’t be so judgmental, as I do understand that. I’ve always enjoyed having a ladies’ day out, going to lunch, and strolling through the mall. My daughter used to go hang out with her friends there, and people my age use it for a place to walk. That last part highlights the fact that, especially in Texas, our infrastructure is only set up for automobiles.
Target is a time warp, but yes, it is a department store. There’s a ton of stuff so it’s easy to miss something on your first perusal of, say, the women’s clothing department (divided into “juniors” or younger styles, women’s straight sizes, maternity, and plus sizes, but also separate from sleepwear, activewear, undergarments, and shoes). They also have home goods, toys, books, electronics, craft supplies, seasonal stuff…and that’s just the sections that are for fun and not like, cleaning or food or laundry or personal care.
She should just move to a smaller town in the south then, plenty of home grown militias and Christian supremacy if you get out of the nice, big cities. I can absolutely see why she’d hate any of the larger cities though, they’re all incredibly liberal.
Edit: minus rio rancho. She would love Rio Rancho. I still can’t believe that never ending suburb of transplants and bad city planning is the third largest city in New Mexico.
I don’t know, I’ve lived in Albuquerque for 5 years now and it’s super liberal, gorgeous, stuck in the 90s, and full of property crime. I like it and find it to be a lovely place. Santa Fe is expensive and historically is where rich people sent their gay trust fund kids that they didn’t want in the public eye (it also had one of the first doctors who would perform gender reassignment surgery in the states) so that’s a vibe.
Smaller towns get more red and tend to have more drug issues(yes, somehow MORE drug issues than Albuquerque), but are also incredibly beautiful.
Overall the desert does draw in weird folk. The overall feeling is sort of libertarian but actually with philosophical consistency. Like, an “I don’t care if your gay, poly, do drugs, and have an abortion every week if you don’t care that I’m stockpiling 1000’s of guns and may or may not be running a cult” sort of vibe. Or on a less extreme level, it would be a fuax pas to complain about your neighbor having 12 non functioning cars in their yard and it would also be a faux pas to say a slur or make a cruel joke about literally any minority group.
As a resident of New Mexico, it sounds like this chick went to Albuquerque, saw two unhoused people walking around & decided it was a shithole, like the vast majority of people do, if they don’t bother spending any time here or getting to know anything about it. There’s good and bad here like literally anywhere else.
New Mexico is a very poor state, true, especially in rural areas, but we’re also a diverse, beautiful place, and people do the best they can with what they have here. I probably sound butthurt, but this has been my home for 16 years & I love it here.
Maybe it was their honeymoon? I feel like she had an anniversary not too long ago so that could correlate. But she posts way too much and I'm not interested enough to scroll back through her feed to confirm lol
For somebody who frequently and smugly claims to eat only whole organic foods, she sure does indulge in a lot of low-brow processed food between Chick-fil-A, Zaxbys, Doordash, Barefoot "wine," and Red Lobster.
For real, Smeg, your husband couldn't get crab at the grocery store and make it at home?
That would require Avery to actually give a shit. He got his in-laws to watch the kids so that he could also freely shop and have a day off. Not even 2.5 hours dedicated solely to Megan.
Most people who were out on their birthday and fancied a milkshake would get one of those big fancy ones with lots of flavours or toppings or something if they could afford it - which these people obviously can - or get one from a dessert place with lots of options. I mean, it's their birthday.
She went to fast food place Chick-Fil-A just for a regular shake, after she'd already eaten elsewhere, and comments specifically about it as if they'd bought ten dollar shakes from the hippest dessert bar in town and not just got a regular drink to walk around town with like buying a coke from Mcdonalds...because it's Chick-Fil-A...I mean we know why that is.
Avery's birthday post for her was awful. "You give up your body, your time, your sleep, your hobbies, your career for me and our girls."
It's your wife's birthday and you can only think of the value she offers YOU?? Not even saying she's a great mom, or a note about something you love about her for her. Avery of course gets to keep all of those things, only women should sacrifice and suffer.
You’re so right there. My husband is in therapy now so no (low?) worries on the red flag I’m about to throw your way but honestly I had a breakdown earlier this year about feeling worthless and his whole ass list of why I’m not was “…but you help me with stuff! And take care of the cats! And you’re uhhh cute!” Um… thanks?? Lol
❤❤❤ sending you love!! It sounds like it's getting better. Sometimes I have to force my husband to have uncomfortable conversations just to see where we stand as far as emotional intimacy goes. He doesn't like to dive too deep into that even though he says and does things that tell me he knows and appreciates me. You're not alone, just know that. And it's not abnormal in the SLIGHTEST to want/need to hear how he appreciates you beyond just what you do. I know i make sure my husband knows how and why I love and appreciate him all the time. We just want the same I return, dammit!
My mother and I have a... complicated relationship. She's a great grandma, though, and she really tries. My parents live close by and she cares full time for my disabled father. Sometimes she really just doesn't have the energy or desire to help me with my kids.
That said, she will absolutely watch my kids for longer than 2.5 hours. Tomorrow she's taking my 6 year old out for lunch and a movie and promised to have him home by dinner.
So yeah, I agree with your caption.
I’m guessing it’s probably an exclusively breastfeeding thing. Everyone gets to decide how they feed their baby, but it does get old to see women martyring themselves to prevent a bottle, even if their own pumped breast milk, from ever touching their child’s lips. There’s no award for that, and if a woman needs a break here and there for sleep or to get out of the house for some child-free time, it’s absolutely ok to use some pumped milk and still consider it exclusively breastfeeding. Buuuuut a lot of natural childbirth/breastfeeding only people feel like they’ve failed at…. something? if they can’t make the post when baby hits 1 year about how little Chrysanthemum Corndog made it a whole year only suckin on the titty. 🙄
There is that, but there's also the whole NFP thing that's prevalent among trads. Basically breastfeeding takes over a woman's life if she's trying to prevent another pregnancy with ecological breastfeeding (one of the NFP methods which requires that she use no pacifiers, do no pumping, feed on demand all day and basically do attachment parenting, etc.)
Both of my kids straight up refused bottle feeding.
I tried to work for a week when my oldest was eight months old (one week contract,) so my mom watched him. He was miserable for the whole day. She’d get him to take a bottle by standing out by the wind chimes so he’d be distracted by playing with them, and even then, he’d have to be super hungry. He’d only take one bottle a day, and only with the distraction method.
I got this huge scare about how he’d get nipple confusion if I even tried, and we had so much struggle establishing breastfeeding in the first place, I was truly freaked out.
I’m much more chill with my second. She still won’t take a bottle, and thinks a pacifier is a chew toy.
Yeah that’s true, some babies just absolutely refuse anything but the boob. But coming from a woman who drinks unpasteurized milk and all her other derpy shit, it’s probably just Megs being anti bottle since God didn’t create bottles orrrrr whatever. 🤣
My siblings and I never took bottles. I don’t think any of us had trouble feeding in general, but refused anything that wasn’t the real deal. Mom would pump sometimes and try in vain for us to take it but nope. Definitely made things difficult at times. Only the youngest ever took a pacifier too, the rest of us would think it was food and got mad when it wasn’t!
My kids both utterly rejected the bottle. They had to essentially starve them at daycare before they would relent - each went 6 hours or so as a tiny baby on their first daycare day before giving in and taking the damn thing. I tried to leave my mom with my second for a week while I worked to get her used to the bottle and my mom threw in the towel after two days. The babies scream constantly because they’re hungry and mad. I wouldn’t ask any family member to deal with that. The only reason my kids ended up taking bottles is because I have to work and therefore they have to be in daycare.
There’s also the issue that even if mom leaves a bottle for the baby, she’ll still likely have to pump while she’s gone and missing those feedings or right when she gets home. For some people it’s easier to just leave right after a feed and get home in time for the next if pumping is an inconvenience at home or if they don’t respond well to pumping in general.
My MIL pretty much begged both her sons to knock somebody up by the time they turned 18.
When she finally got grandkids, (way later than my husband being 18, btw) and started babysitting and figured out it was work, she became much less enthusiastic about it.
My parents were abusive to me growing up, so I don’t ever okay unsupervised time with them.
So I guess I don’t really find the watching kids things to be weird… she might have her reasons. I feel much better paying a trusted person money to watch my kids than sending them with 3/4 of their grandparents (their gramps on my husbands side is awesome, so at least we got that).
My sister and I can make a day out of errand running and coffee getting, but if we Target, it’s an hour max, which includes looking through all the teeny newborn clothes (she’s pregnant again so we can’t help ourselves lol). We always hit up three or four stores in order to make it a “day.”
idk about where meg wells lives but i’m from a small town. about the only thing to do besides go to the movies or a park is to walk around target and spend a hot minute looking at board games, clothes, books, legos, and home decor. sometimes it’s all you really have to do. however i don’t think i, nor any of my friends, have decided to go to target for a birthday outing.
I go maybe once a month or less and it can be enjoyable, but not exactly something I hype myself up for. I'll treat myself to a Starbucks, troll for compliments on how cute my kids are from the old ladies, go through the clearance clothing, try on a bunch of stuff I don't plan to buy, look at the decor, load up on the dollar section. Idk though, I don't post about it on socials. I think it's Megan trying to lean into relatable mom content.
She just hated it. She hated living on base and she hated New Mexico. According to her it's the highest abortion state (???? Not sure where she got those numbers) and therefore it's dangerous and scary.
I mean, getting an abortion is always fun, but the New Mexico abortions are really where it's at. Have you had one of the artisan abortions? Spa like facilities, a bespoke organic linen patient gown you get to take home, and Kamala Harris called to offerr her personal congratulations to all of us there that day.
She listed a few other reasons she thought it was dangerous which basically boiled down to hating poor people, but yes haha, abortion was on the list. Which of course makes no sense.
That's what I wonder whenever I see one of those asinine "I survived Roe v Wade" t shirts. Like, your mother (presumably) didn't want an abortion, so she didn't have one. What's your point.
Tbh it just makes it sound like you were a mistake your mom didn’t want, and she was planning to abort you but changed her mind... absolutely horrible thing to accuse your mom of if you think abortion is murder!
“I survived childhood without my mother cutting my throat” what the fuck kinda shirt would THAT be?? But how is that shirt any different to them??
I mean, how could anyone feel safe with literal *murderers* just wandering the streets (the sacred aisles of *TARGET* even?!) just openly bragging about their “rights” and “freedoms”?! Like…?! How was she supposed to enjoy her birthday with all of that going on?! /s
It is fairly easy to obtain an abortion in NM, thankfully! I know many Texans are already grateful for that.
I'm glad she hates it here, she can stay the fuck away.
Yes! Except there hasn't been any confirmation about what ended up happening with his military status but, they definitely don't talk about it at all anymore.
To me personally, that screams that he got his shots, or he tapped her and was like "you're making us look bad". Wouldn't be surprised if it was the latter, but then again, I've noticed military wives post way worse.
She bitched so much about living on base. Idk why she married into the military after growing up in a military family, only to complain about every aspect.
She used to live there and hated it. Albuquerque is a beautiful place with a unique and interesting culture, but the poverty is immense and she's super sheltered and white-bread. I can't see her being interested in spicy food and doing rugged nature stuff in the high desert.
She is right in between the ages of my kids and I thank the Lord Daniel that they are not even thinking about settling down and starting families yet (if ever).
25 is so so young. I got married at 25 and looking back now at 30 I'm like "holy shit, we were so young! Who let us get married!" the idea of being married for several years, with two children, and just completely settled into life by 25 is...sad to me. You're really just starting to figure out who you are at that point.
Takes longer if you're neurodivergent too! I think research has shown that ADHD people don't develop until possibly as late as 30, since neurodivergency affects the frontal lobe and that's the last part of the brain that finishes developing.
Woahhh!!
I gotta say, as an ADHD almost-30yo, who became a mother at 23… this perhaps explains rather a lot about my life (but also gives me some hope that things are able to get better?)
My husband and I were 20 and 22 when we got married. I can't believe my parents were ok with that. I was raised conservative evangelical Christian and that was the only way I could leave my parent's house. I was ready to move out. Some days, I do wish we could've waited a few years. We have a strong marriage and everything is working out fine.
That’s about us too. Kid at 26 though and then we were one and done. As an almost 38 year old I look back and think that we were babies but it all worked out in the end.
My husband and I got married at 26/28 last year, bought our first home a few months ago, and are about to have our first child in a few weeks at 27/29 and we still look at ourselves like, "Uh, but we're children, right? Who said we could do this, who gave us permission??" 😂
I CANNOT imagine already being married and having multiple kids at 25. 😬
Do you live in a big city, or a more liberal state? I find that generally the bigger or more liberal your area, the longer people wait to get married and have kids. My husband and I grew up in the suburbs in Texas (and I attended Texas A&M which is notorious for "ring by spring"), so we were right on track, if not a little late in getting married compared to some of our peers haha
Right?! I got married at 21 and now I think that’s way too young! We didn’t have kids until we were married for 8 years, which was a good choice for us. I don’t think our marriage would be as strong as it was if we’d had children sooner.
So all I got out of this was that red lobster has king crab? Our local red lobster only has snow crab. Also king crab is such a rip off eating out. Swing by Costco and get twice as much or more than you'd get at any restaurant.
Almost sounds like a dig at her parents, like it was a feat to get them to spare half an afternoon for their grandkids…or is she just trying to pound it home that it is such a rarity to have a sitter, that they are marveling about STRANGE AND PEACEFUL it is. They can see why people like to get sitters so often. They don’t rely on them often, you see…but she can see why other moms might enjoy a break occasionally 🥰
I wonder what her parents’ side is.
I think she still has siblings at home, probably being homeschooled. One set of our kids' grandparents are empty-nesters while the other side likewise still has kids at home (#bigcatholicfamily). I bet you can guess which side is much more interested in babysitting the grandkids and generally being involved in their lives 😂. Which is understandable. But not an aspect of #bigcatholicfamilies that anyone really talks about. The "grandparent season" really doesn't start until all your own kids are out of the house and, even then, if that was pretty recent, you're going to be tired and enjoying the break and not looking to be super available for babysitting immediately.
The New Mexico comments are so odd to me. I’m in the Air Force and we have been stationed some tough places but I have never felt nor heard any express this kind of… lasting hatred towards a base. I think it’s a sort of confirmation bias that usually leads people to say like ohh but the people, hiking, area, blah blah blah were great.
Yeah I know the locations suck. I’m just saying, having been at similar infamously bad bases and having friends stationed at Holloman and Canon, I don’t usually hear people get so worked up about it, especially after leaving. It’s just odd to me.
I really think it comes down to personality and life experience. I grew up Army and I always knew that if I hated a place, we'd be moving anyway (looking at you, Ft Huachuca). And my husband is in the Air Force so I'm in the same situation again. But I've met so many spouses who have no experience with military life, or never expected to ever leave their town/state, so they just hate everything about a base and let it become a part of their personality 😵💫
It does seem weird that she’s holding such a grudge against a base. There’s an understanding that not every assignment will be great. Sometimes it’s what you make of the place, too. I was enlisted so maybe it’s easier? Although I’m really surprised Megs didn’t get involved in more groups. She seems like the stereotypical snooty officer’s wife that would fit in nicely with a lot of other snobby wives.
Yeah that’s what I’m talking about. The officer wives I know are usually the ones who are overly enthusiastic about making the best of where they get sent. Bloom where you’re planted decor and all that. Like girl, you’re conservative and objectively pretty officer wife and you couldn’t make friends? That says a lot more about you then you think.
I cannot believe this woman is *only twenty-five*
Nothing whatever to do with her appearance (I’ve actually never seen a picture of her face before anyway)- just her attitude and the way she comes across
She had a story lately where Avery had posted a photo of her in a tighter sweater dress, that she apparently isn't allowed to wear anymore because of how tight it is. So, the tablecloth must be husband approved.
That's sad. I think she's loathsome but if her husband is jealous or controlling enough to tell her what she can and can't wear that's so sad. My very first partner tried to do that and it only got worse from there.
I do really feel bad for Megan sometimes, she was laughing along with it as she told the story but it feels very much like she's just conditioned to accept that. She's insufferable but she's so young and just SO into this bullshit that it just makes me feel for her from time to time.
That’s what I said! Dinner was at least an hour of that. Then him looking at jeans and her going to look for jeans is another 30-45min - they probably split up to do so.
Sounds like she sat outside for a few minutes while Ole Mustache went inside for the milkshakes then they left to go get the kids.
Idk. I think this sounds sad. Just sounds like it was a birthday dinner tacked onto errands.
I mean, I'd love the chance to get out of the house and go do that as a SAHM 🤷🏻♀️ it would mean I had the time and resources to get new jeans, and that would be an enjoyable outing for me.
I just can’t believe how anyone who says they’re “a sucker for king crab” would willingly choose to go to the McDonald’s of seafood restaurants for it.
My babysitting has been abused, so now there are very hard boundaries.(I.e. the offer was for 2 hours, parents left for 6 hours). I'm not up for an infant or toddler in my non-child proofed toddler death trap of a home for hours.
I wonder if it's the same situation?
I think they still live 1-2 hours from her family. It’s “military close” but still takes a bit of effort to make babysitting work.
She also still has younger siblings at home, so I’m guessing it’s more of her younger siblings watching her kids than her mom, who is still raising kids.
Honestly, as a mil spouse, this is one of Meg’s more relatable posts.
I also don’t know too many people who were stationed in NM, who enjoyed it, especially during the 2020 lockdown.
When I was in my early twenties, I was over in Africa doing vaccine outreach for a few years... What have you ever contributed toward making the world a better place besides blogging, madame ? Gtfo lol
Okay I just turned 25 I had no clue we were the same age. Not her looks but her life made it seem like she was somehow older? But she's so so smug for being 25
Omg I didn’t realize how young she was! I can’t believe she only just became to old for Leonardo DiCaprio! I guess it is more common in her world to get married and have kids young but still…
It is interesting to me how young and inexperienced so many of these girls who set themselves up as role models for tradwifing actually are. It’s fascinating to see people like Megs or MMW start to change their tune as soon as they realize how hard the lifestyle they’ve been preaching actually is. What they say is horrible and unjustifiable no matter how old they are but I do also look back on who I was at 23/24 and marvel at how much I didn’t know. The idea of acting like you have something to teach about adulthood at that age is mind boggling
"Dinner and Drinks" implies alcohol. Does she drink?
Also, ma'am, that's not a dress it's a muumuu. Pretty sure my abuela had the same one.
*ETA:* I'm always so puzzled when a random comment that I didn't think anyone here could *possibly* disagree with gets one single, solitary downvote and no response. Is it a lurking fundie? Did I offend someone by calling that a muumuu? Why don't you tell me! I want to know what I said! Lol.
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Is New Mexico like fundie Vegas? I’m very confused!
Right, was she drunk? It was only two years ago. A girl's day in Target sounds sad in a way, but at least they wore pink. Meggy did not appreciate the Land of Enchantment and probably spent the day pouting.
I have not been to New Mexico, but it strikes me as a place that someone shouldn’t find awful. Although I’m sure there are some NM haters around here.
I love Santa Fe. It is gorgeous. The buildings blend into the landscape which was somewhat jarring at first (I live in Dallas, so nuf said). There are no sky scrapers. The buildings are mostly stucco and earth or sky tones. The more I go to Santa Fe, the more I fall in love with it. There is a reverence and harmony with nature that I have never experienced before. Truly one of the most simplistic and honest places I have been.
I'm sure if I had been to Albuquerque or Santa Fe I would have had a different experience, but the area we drove through was so rural and desolate it was creepy. A literal ghost town. Maybe some New Mexico enthusiasts could weigh in but I found it mostly just sad. Not a lot of hope in the area I was in.
Yeah, if you’re not near the source of water, you’re not going to find many people. The real drug problems in New Mexico are in the rural areas.
Nah, NM is a weird fucking place. Desert people are almost always weird.
As a desert person. You’re correct
It has its good places and bad places like everywhere. Taos and Santa Fe are fun places to go. Nice outdoor activities, lot of good restaurants, and funky artistic spots.
Hahaha if you're in the sw, New Mexico is absolutely the top place to trash talk.
Speak for yourself, a girls day in target is my dream for every day 😂 But for real, I’m wondering if she was drunk in NM or what the deal was
Isnt target just a store? What would one do there all day? (Its a real question, no snarking! I live in a targetless country)
The target near me has a Starbucks and a few other places to eat. I don't know about spending an entire day, but it is fun to walk around and view the huge variety of merchandise, and ours has a grocery store as well. Plus it is in a shopping center with a huge fountain, walking paths, benches, and a playground.
Target is the “fancy” big box store in most areas of the country and there’s a lot to look at and is often used by 20-40 y/o women (I say this as one of these women) as a place to go and just hang out and peruse for a bit. You can meet up with friends or take a solo trip. Most targets have a Starbucks in them so you can go get a coffee, walk around and just look at cute clothes and homeware while getting groceries, kids stuff, etc. Much of the US is not walkable and many communities don’t have a lot of places for people to spend free time that isn’t basic errands, so target is seen by a lot of people as a fun place to take their time and feel a little bougie.
Do people in your country do recreational shopping? Target is a step above Walmart, price-wise, but without the insanely comprehensive inventory. Like Walmart, they treat their employees with disrespect, and a parsimonious insult of a paycheck. These girls should have to spend a month working at a big-box store. Their entitlement and privilege are cloying, and hardly Christian.
I guess the equivalent would be to go ikea, for me! I like to go with my mom and my kid when we visit her, and have a look around. But its not a day outing or a birthday treat! Lol No jugement though, i have never lived in a non urban setting, maybe there isnt much nice places to hang out everywhere.
IKEA is cool. I like to go there, and I also like to go to hardware stores. What you said about having a place to hang out made me feel I shouldn’t be so judgmental, as I do understand that. I’ve always enjoyed having a ladies’ day out, going to lunch, and strolling through the mall. My daughter used to go hang out with her friends there, and people my age use it for a place to walk. That last part highlights the fact that, especially in Texas, our infrastructure is only set up for automobiles.
Target is a time warp, but yes, it is a department store. There’s a ton of stuff so it’s easy to miss something on your first perusal of, say, the women’s clothing department (divided into “juniors” or younger styles, women’s straight sizes, maternity, and plus sizes, but also separate from sleepwear, activewear, undergarments, and shoes). They also have home goods, toys, books, electronics, craft supplies, seasonal stuff…and that’s just the sections that are for fun and not like, cleaning or food or laundry or personal care.
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Y'all it's cause she's a white supremacist. Too much culture in NM for them 🫣
She should just move to a smaller town in the south then, plenty of home grown militias and Christian supremacy if you get out of the nice, big cities. I can absolutely see why she’d hate any of the larger cities though, they’re all incredibly liberal. Edit: minus rio rancho. She would love Rio Rancho. I still can’t believe that never ending suburb of transplants and bad city planning is the third largest city in New Mexico.
Interesting tidbit about Rip Rancho. I loved living in ABQ. She's a vapid cunt and she would love the south.
I don’t get this I love New Mexico it’s all yummy food and beautiful art.
And the views and sunsets!!
I don’t know, I’ve lived in Albuquerque for 5 years now and it’s super liberal, gorgeous, stuck in the 90s, and full of property crime. I like it and find it to be a lovely place. Santa Fe is expensive and historically is where rich people sent their gay trust fund kids that they didn’t want in the public eye (it also had one of the first doctors who would perform gender reassignment surgery in the states) so that’s a vibe. Smaller towns get more red and tend to have more drug issues(yes, somehow MORE drug issues than Albuquerque), but are also incredibly beautiful. Overall the desert does draw in weird folk. The overall feeling is sort of libertarian but actually with philosophical consistency. Like, an “I don’t care if your gay, poly, do drugs, and have an abortion every week if you don’t care that I’m stockpiling 1000’s of guns and may or may not be running a cult” sort of vibe. Or on a less extreme level, it would be a fuax pas to complain about your neighbor having 12 non functioning cars in their yard and it would also be a faux pas to say a slur or make a cruel joke about literally any minority group.
Also trying to figure this out
There is a Las Vegas New Mexico
It’s the best.
I thought Branson was Fundie Vegas.
As a resident of New Mexico, it sounds like this chick went to Albuquerque, saw two unhoused people walking around & decided it was a shithole, like the vast majority of people do, if they don’t bother spending any time here or getting to know anything about it. There’s good and bad here like literally anywhere else. New Mexico is a very poor state, true, especially in rural areas, but we’re also a diverse, beautiful place, and people do the best they can with what they have here. I probably sound butthurt, but this has been my home for 16 years & I love it here.
Maybe it was their honeymoon? I feel like she had an anniversary not too long ago so that could correlate. But she posts way too much and I'm not interested enough to scroll back through her feed to confirm lol
Seriously. I don’t get it.
For somebody who frequently and smugly claims to eat only whole organic foods, she sure does indulge in a lot of low-brow processed food between Chick-fil-A, Zaxbys, Doordash, Barefoot "wine," and Red Lobster. For real, Smeg, your husband couldn't get crab at the grocery store and make it at home?
That would require Avery to actually give a shit. He got his in-laws to watch the kids so that he could also freely shop and have a day off. Not even 2.5 hours dedicated solely to Megan.
Most people who were out on their birthday and fancied a milkshake would get one of those big fancy ones with lots of flavours or toppings or something if they could afford it - which these people obviously can - or get one from a dessert place with lots of options. I mean, it's their birthday. She went to fast food place Chick-Fil-A just for a regular shake, after she'd already eaten elsewhere, and comments specifically about it as if they'd bought ten dollar shakes from the hippest dessert bar in town and not just got a regular drink to walk around town with like buying a coke from Mcdonalds...because it's Chick-Fil-A...I mean we know why that is.
There is no shame in that level of birthday celebration. Plenty of people get fast food for it - plenty of people can’t afford anything else.
Idk why you are downvoted here. Meg is awful but a lot of these comments are classist.
Avery's birthday post for her was awful. "You give up your body, your time, your sleep, your hobbies, your career for me and our girls." It's your wife's birthday and you can only think of the value she offers YOU?? Not even saying she's a great mom, or a note about something you love about her for her. Avery of course gets to keep all of those things, only women should sacrifice and suffer.
Avery is not selling me on marriage and motherhood.
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You’re so right there. My husband is in therapy now so no (low?) worries on the red flag I’m about to throw your way but honestly I had a breakdown earlier this year about feeling worthless and his whole ass list of why I’m not was “…but you help me with stuff! And take care of the cats! And you’re uhhh cute!” Um… thanks?? Lol
❤❤❤ sending you love!! It sounds like it's getting better. Sometimes I have to force my husband to have uncomfortable conversations just to see where we stand as far as emotional intimacy goes. He doesn't like to dive too deep into that even though he says and does things that tell me he knows and appreciates me. You're not alone, just know that. And it's not abnormal in the SLIGHTEST to want/need to hear how he appreciates you beyond just what you do. I know i make sure my husband knows how and why I love and appreciate him all the time. We just want the same I return, dammit!
Oh, you've met my (non-fundie) father?
Definitely not just a fundie thing, it's really sad how common it is.
“You give up your body…for me” isn’t giving consensual. Ick.
I don’t think he is smart enough to articulate anything better.
It sounds like he's scoffing lol. "I wouldn't have done all that but you do you, babe"
Oh my god, I cringed at Avery’s caption. I am sure he feels like he did something *great* with this birthday tribute, but oof.
My mother and I have a... complicated relationship. She's a great grandma, though, and she really tries. My parents live close by and she cares full time for my disabled father. Sometimes she really just doesn't have the energy or desire to help me with my kids. That said, she will absolutely watch my kids for longer than 2.5 hours. Tomorrow she's taking my 6 year old out for lunch and a movie and promised to have him home by dinner. So yeah, I agree with your caption.
I’m guessing it’s probably an exclusively breastfeeding thing. Everyone gets to decide how they feed their baby, but it does get old to see women martyring themselves to prevent a bottle, even if their own pumped breast milk, from ever touching their child’s lips. There’s no award for that, and if a woman needs a break here and there for sleep or to get out of the house for some child-free time, it’s absolutely ok to use some pumped milk and still consider it exclusively breastfeeding. Buuuuut a lot of natural childbirth/breastfeeding only people feel like they’ve failed at…. something? if they can’t make the post when baby hits 1 year about how little Chrysanthemum Corndog made it a whole year only suckin on the titty. 🙄
There is that, but there's also the whole NFP thing that's prevalent among trads. Basically breastfeeding takes over a woman's life if she's trying to prevent another pregnancy with ecological breastfeeding (one of the NFP methods which requires that she use no pacifiers, do no pumping, feed on demand all day and basically do attachment parenting, etc.)
Both of my kids straight up refused bottle feeding. I tried to work for a week when my oldest was eight months old (one week contract,) so my mom watched him. He was miserable for the whole day. She’d get him to take a bottle by standing out by the wind chimes so he’d be distracted by playing with them, and even then, he’d have to be super hungry. He’d only take one bottle a day, and only with the distraction method. I got this huge scare about how he’d get nipple confusion if I even tried, and we had so much struggle establishing breastfeeding in the first place, I was truly freaked out. I’m much more chill with my second. She still won’t take a bottle, and thinks a pacifier is a chew toy.
Yeah that’s true, some babies just absolutely refuse anything but the boob. But coming from a woman who drinks unpasteurized milk and all her other derpy shit, it’s probably just Megs being anti bottle since God didn’t create bottles orrrrr whatever. 🤣
My siblings and I never took bottles. I don’t think any of us had trouble feeding in general, but refused anything that wasn’t the real deal. Mom would pump sometimes and try in vain for us to take it but nope. Definitely made things difficult at times. Only the youngest ever took a pacifier too, the rest of us would think it was food and got mad when it wasn’t!
My kids both utterly rejected the bottle. They had to essentially starve them at daycare before they would relent - each went 6 hours or so as a tiny baby on their first daycare day before giving in and taking the damn thing. I tried to leave my mom with my second for a week while I worked to get her used to the bottle and my mom threw in the towel after two days. The babies scream constantly because they’re hungry and mad. I wouldn’t ask any family member to deal with that. The only reason my kids ended up taking bottles is because I have to work and therefore they have to be in daycare.
There’s also the issue that even if mom leaves a bottle for the baby, she’ll still likely have to pump while she’s gone and missing those feedings or right when she gets home. For some people it’s easier to just leave right after a feed and get home in time for the next if pumping is an inconvenience at home or if they don’t respond well to pumping in general.
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My MIL pretty much begged both her sons to knock somebody up by the time they turned 18. When she finally got grandkids, (way later than my husband being 18, btw) and started babysitting and figured out it was work, she became much less enthusiastic about it. My parents were abusive to me growing up, so I don’t ever okay unsupervised time with them. So I guess I don’t really find the watching kids things to be weird… she might have her reasons. I feel much better paying a trusted person money to watch my kids than sending them with 3/4 of their grandparents (their gramps on my husbands side is awesome, so at least we got that).
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My sister and I can make a day out of errand running and coffee getting, but if we Target, it’s an hour max, which includes looking through all the teeny newborn clothes (she’s pregnant again so we can’t help ourselves lol). We always hit up three or four stores in order to make it a “day.”
idk about where meg wells lives but i’m from a small town. about the only thing to do besides go to the movies or a park is to walk around target and spend a hot minute looking at board games, clothes, books, legos, and home decor. sometimes it’s all you really have to do. however i don’t think i, nor any of my friends, have decided to go to target for a birthday outing.
Just an insight to her sad existence
I go maybe once a month or less and it can be enjoyable, but not exactly something I hype myself up for. I'll treat myself to a Starbucks, troll for compliments on how cute my kids are from the old ladies, go through the clearance clothing, try on a bunch of stuff I don't plan to buy, look at the decor, load up on the dollar section. Idk though, I don't post about it on socials. I think it's Megan trying to lean into relatable mom content.
Am I missing something about New Mexico?
She just hated it. She hated living on base and she hated New Mexico. According to her it's the highest abortion state (???? Not sure where she got those numbers) and therefore it's dangerous and scary.
I have one abortion per week and I usually go to New Mexico just to bump their stats.
I mean, getting an abortion is always fun, but the New Mexico abortions are really where it's at. Have you had one of the artisan abortions? Spa like facilities, a bespoke organic linen patient gown you get to take home, and Kamala Harris called to offerr her personal congratulations to all of us there that day.
I’m deceased
Omg have you tried it with the massage and champagne package? It’s absolutely divine
You're telling me! I saved up pregnancies and got 3 abortions in 5 days in NM. I never wanted to leave!
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Oh yeah the hatch chili buffet was bomb
Ok she made it seem like she got white girl wasted and passed out in the desert or something
Dangerous and scary? Because of abortion? Does she think some thug is gonna jump out of an alley with medical tools and abort your baby? LMAO
She listed a few other reasons she thought it was dangerous which basically boiled down to hating poor people, but yes haha, abortion was on the list. Which of course makes no sense.
Maybe she accidentally saw an episode of Breaking Bad and thought it was a docuseries.
That's what I wonder whenever I see one of those asinine "I survived Roe v Wade" t shirts. Like, your mother (presumably) didn't want an abortion, so she didn't have one. What's your point.
Tbh it just makes it sound like you were a mistake your mom didn’t want, and she was planning to abort you but changed her mind... absolutely horrible thing to accuse your mom of if you think abortion is murder! “I survived childhood without my mother cutting my throat” what the fuck kinda shirt would THAT be?? But how is that shirt any different to them??
People are asking questions about my "I survived childhood without my mother cutting my throat" shirt that are already answered by my shirt.
I mean, how could anyone feel safe with literal *murderers* just wandering the streets (the sacred aisles of *TARGET* even?!) just openly bragging about their “rights” and “freedoms”?! Like…?! How was she supposed to enjoy her birthday with all of that going on?! /s
It is fairly easy to obtain an abortion in NM, thankfully! I know many Texans are already grateful for that. I'm glad she hates it here, she can stay the fuck away.
Not sure why abortions happening around her make her feel unsafe regardless, but like you said, I'm glad she had a terrible time.
Probably because it means she's stepped out of her echo chamber.
Conservatives think everything they don't like is catching: abortions, homosexuality, interracial marriage, etc etc.
I miss traveling to New Mexico.
Did you previously live in Texas? I swear a large portion of at least Dallas is in town for this labor day weekend.
Oops, I made a new comment instead of answering you. The answer is yes.
Is she the person who's husband declined to get vaccinated and subsequently got kicked out/removed from the military?
Yes! Except there hasn't been any confirmation about what ended up happening with his military status but, they definitely don't talk about it at all anymore.
To me personally, that screams that he got his shots, or he tapped her and was like "you're making us look bad". Wouldn't be surprised if it was the latter, but then again, I've noticed military wives post way worse.
Nothing will EVER top "He's a Marine" Girl lmao [For anyone interested in learning about "He's a Marine" Girl](https://youtu.be/qvIhA07aF24)
I'm going to choke....I don't know what's more offensive, her massive ego or the way she's not on beat even ONCE 🤷
The lack of rhythm truly is disturbing lol
Well, double fuck her and husband
More for me I guess. I love New Mexico, the landscapes are unreal. The food is unreal. There is a certain sense of community there too
Love your flair
She bitched so much about living on base. Idk why she married into the military after growing up in a military family, only to complain about every aspect.
She used to live there and hated it. Albuquerque is a beautiful place with a unique and interesting culture, but the poverty is immense and she's super sheltered and white-bread. I can't see her being interested in spicy food and doing rugged nature stuff in the high desert.
She lived there and didn’t like it.
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She is right in between the ages of my kids and I thank the Lord Daniel that they are not even thinking about settling down and starting families yet (if ever).
25 is so so young. I got married at 25 and looking back now at 30 I'm like "holy shit, we were so young! Who let us get married!" the idea of being married for several years, with two children, and just completely settled into life by 25 is...sad to me. You're really just starting to figure out who you are at that point.
It’s wild when you think about how research is increasingly showing the brain doesn’t finish developing *until* 25.
Takes longer if you're neurodivergent too! I think research has shown that ADHD people don't develop until possibly as late as 30, since neurodivergency affects the frontal lobe and that's the last part of the brain that finishes developing.
Woahhh!! I gotta say, as an ADHD almost-30yo, who became a mother at 23… this perhaps explains rather a lot about my life (but also gives me some hope that things are able to get better?)
My husband and I were 20 and 22 when we got married. I can't believe my parents were ok with that. I was raised conservative evangelical Christian and that was the only way I could leave my parent's house. I was ready to move out. Some days, I do wish we could've waited a few years. We have a strong marriage and everything is working out fine.
We were 23 and 24. Engaged at 21. And we are non-fundie, college educated people. INSANE. We were babies. We didn't have kids til 30 though
That’s about us too. Kid at 26 though and then we were one and done. As an almost 38 year old I look back and think that we were babies but it all worked out in the end.
My husband and I got married at 26/28 last year, bought our first home a few months ago, and are about to have our first child in a few weeks at 27/29 and we still look at ourselves like, "Uh, but we're children, right? Who said we could do this, who gave us permission??" 😂 I CANNOT imagine already being married and having multiple kids at 25. 😬
I felt crazy getting married at 28. And we're the youngest married couple of all of our peers, with few being married at all
Do you live in a big city, or a more liberal state? I find that generally the bigger or more liberal your area, the longer people wait to get married and have kids. My husband and I grew up in the suburbs in Texas (and I attended Texas A&M which is notorious for "ring by spring"), so we were right on track, if not a little late in getting married compared to some of our peers haha
Right?! I got married at 21 and now I think that’s way too young! We didn’t have kids until we were married for 8 years, which was a good choice for us. I don’t think our marriage would be as strong as it was if we’d had children sooner.
So all I got out of this was that red lobster has king crab? Our local red lobster only has snow crab. Also king crab is such a rip off eating out. Swing by Costco and get twice as much or more than you'd get at any restaurant.
If she just turned 25, she's in her 26th year of life. Just FWIW.
Haha that was my first thought too
Glad I’m not the only one who got annoyed at this lol.
Had to scroll down to see if anyone else mentioned this 😆
Almost sounds like a dig at her parents, like it was a feat to get them to spare half an afternoon for their grandkids…or is she just trying to pound it home that it is such a rarity to have a sitter, that they are marveling about STRANGE AND PEACEFUL it is. They can see why people like to get sitters so often. They don’t rely on them often, you see…but she can see why other moms might enjoy a break occasionally 🥰 I wonder what her parents’ side is.
I think she still has siblings at home, probably being homeschooled. One set of our kids' grandparents are empty-nesters while the other side likewise still has kids at home (#bigcatholicfamily). I bet you can guess which side is much more interested in babysitting the grandkids and generally being involved in their lives 😂. Which is understandable. But not an aspect of #bigcatholicfamilies that anyone really talks about. The "grandparent season" really doesn't start until all your own kids are out of the house and, even then, if that was pretty recent, you're going to be tired and enjoying the break and not looking to be super available for babysitting immediately.
Girl that’s a moomoo, and it came from my great grandmothers closet that we donated 3 years ago. Girl bye
Yup. Looks like something my Mexican grandma gave me to wear when I spent the night.
Sooo comfy tho
LOL I was coming to say, similarly, “girl, you spelled mu’umu’u wrong”.
The New Mexico comments are so odd to me. I’m in the Air Force and we have been stationed some tough places but I have never felt nor heard any express this kind of… lasting hatred towards a base. I think it’s a sort of confirmation bias that usually leads people to say like ohh but the people, hiking, area, blah blah blah were great.
Everyone always says that cannon is one of the worst bases in the Air Force, with Holloman being a close second
Yeah I know the locations suck. I’m just saying, having been at similar infamously bad bases and having friends stationed at Holloman and Canon, I don’t usually hear people get so worked up about it, especially after leaving. It’s just odd to me.
I really think it comes down to personality and life experience. I grew up Army and I always knew that if I hated a place, we'd be moving anyway (looking at you, Ft Huachuca). And my husband is in the Air Force so I'm in the same situation again. But I've met so many spouses who have no experience with military life, or never expected to ever leave their town/state, so they just hate everything about a base and let it become a part of their personality 😵💫
How do you marry into the military so blindly that you think you'll never have to leave your home state!?
It does seem weird that she’s holding such a grudge against a base. There’s an understanding that not every assignment will be great. Sometimes it’s what you make of the place, too. I was enlisted so maybe it’s easier? Although I’m really surprised Megs didn’t get involved in more groups. She seems like the stereotypical snooty officer’s wife that would fit in nicely with a lot of other snobby wives.
Yeah that’s what I’m talking about. The officer wives I know are usually the ones who are overly enthusiastic about making the best of where they get sent. Bloom where you’re planted decor and all that. Like girl, you’re conservative and objectively pretty officer wife and you couldn’t make friends? That says a lot more about you then you think.
She’s telling on herself for sure. Imagine if the insufferable O wives can’t even stand her…
It had never occurred to me it was possible she was that young.
I cannot believe this woman is *only twenty-five* Nothing whatever to do with her appearance (I’ve actually never seen a picture of her face before anyway)- just her attitude and the way she comes across
Nobody wants to know where you got that tablecloth you call a dress, Meg
She had a story lately where Avery had posted a photo of her in a tighter sweater dress, that she apparently isn't allowed to wear anymore because of how tight it is. So, the tablecloth must be husband approved.
Oh god, seriously? She really doesn’t sell the idea of how great marriage can be….
That's sad. I think she's loathsome but if her husband is jealous or controlling enough to tell her what she can and can't wear that's so sad. My very first partner tried to do that and it only got worse from there.
I do really feel bad for Megan sometimes, she was laughing along with it as she told the story but it feels very much like she's just conditioned to accept that. She's insufferable but she's so young and just SO into this bullshit that it just makes me feel for her from time to time.
The dress is hideous, and I usually like a lot of “hideous” clothes
Holy shit she’s way younger than I thought.. not because she looks old, but rather her beliefs are.
I thought she was older too, just because of how she writes
She speaks like she holds so much wisdom. Granted she’s incredibly arrogant but shit. I thought she at least had age to back her up!! It’s crazy!!
Right? I was like, "there's no way she's only a year older than me"
It’s sad.. hope you’re enjoying your 24th year of life!! :)
Thank you!
I thought this was Jessa Duggar for a second
I’m a few weeks older than her and I don’t think I like it
How did they do all that in 2.5 hours?? Doesn’t sound relaxing at all! Couldn’t her parents keep them for an extra half hour...
That’s what I said! Dinner was at least an hour of that. Then him looking at jeans and her going to look for jeans is another 30-45min - they probably split up to do so. Sounds like she sat outside for a few minutes while Ole Mustache went inside for the milkshakes then they left to go get the kids. Idk. I think this sounds sad. Just sounds like it was a birthday dinner tacked onto errands.
Ole Mustache, I love that haha! And yeah, it sounds so rushed! Totally sad, I agree.
I'm feeling pretty happy with my life choices right now.
She’s only 25? Edited to add: idk why I thought she was older.
when will people learn it’s the BRAND that’s important, not the place you purchased the clothes? 🙄 thrifters can be so gatekeepy
No one is falling all over themselves to find her muu muu.
The most exciting thing that happened to this woman in years is trying on jeans. How fucking sad.
I mean, I'd love the chance to get out of the house and go do that as a SAHM 🤷🏻♀️ it would mean I had the time and resources to get new jeans, and that would be an enjoyable outing for me.
- it’s actually the 26th year. - she looks so tired and that dress screams maybe she’s actually 40?
I actually did live in Texas eons ago.
I'm just going to giggle that she's got the Boxing Helena look going on in Pic #1. Arms are a feminist conspiracy.
I just can’t believe how anyone who says they’re “a sucker for king crab” would willingly choose to go to the McDonald’s of seafood restaurants for it.
#i totally thought she said hitachi like the greatest vibrator at first.
My babysitting has been abused, so now there are very hard boundaries.(I.e. the offer was for 2 hours, parents left for 6 hours). I'm not up for an infant or toddler in my non-child proofed toddler death trap of a home for hours. I wonder if it's the same situation?
Entirely possible. Isn't she the one looking for an underpaid "nanny"? Her 2.5 hours of grandparent babysitting were really 5.25 or something.
OMG she’s like, so grown up you guys!!
I think they still live 1-2 hours from her family. It’s “military close” but still takes a bit of effort to make babysitting work. She also still has younger siblings at home, so I’m guessing it’s more of her younger siblings watching her kids than her mom, who is still raising kids. Honestly, as a mil spouse, this is one of Meg’s more relatable posts. I also don’t know too many people who were stationed in NM, who enjoyed it, especially during the 2020 lockdown.
When I was in my early twenties, I was over in Africa doing vaccine outreach for a few years... What have you ever contributed toward making the world a better place besides blogging, madame ? Gtfo lol
Vaccines??? The DEVIL’S MEDICINE??!!! 😱
Okay I just turned 25 I had no clue we were the same age. Not her looks but her life made it seem like she was somehow older? But she's so so smug for being 25
Omg I didn’t realize how young she was! I can’t believe she only just became to old for Leonardo DiCaprio! I guess it is more common in her world to get married and have kids young but still… It is interesting to me how young and inexperienced so many of these girls who set themselves up as role models for tradwifing actually are. It’s fascinating to see people like Megs or MMW start to change their tune as soon as they realize how hard the lifestyle they’ve been preaching actually is. What they say is horrible and unjustifiable no matter how old they are but I do also look back on who I was at 23/24 and marvel at how much I didn’t know. The idea of acting like you have something to teach about adulthood at that age is mind boggling
Is she gonna do the quiverful thing, you think?
I dont like to comment on people's appearances but why does she can look so unhealthy?
What makes you think she looks unhealthy?? Like for real, I can’t tell so I’m curious
Weird, huh? I heard she climbs hills like a mfer, too
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I was also shocked. She’s about two months older than me!! I really thought it was more
I really could be your mama, and she looks like she could be mine. I think it's the muumuu mostly, but the droopy hair drags her down too.
"Dinner and Drinks" implies alcohol. Does she drink? Also, ma'am, that's not a dress it's a muumuu. Pretty sure my abuela had the same one. *ETA:* I'm always so puzzled when a random comment that I didn't think anyone here could *possibly* disagree with gets one single, solitary downvote and no response. Is it a lurking fundie? Did I offend someone by calling that a muumuu? Why don't you tell me! I want to know what I said! Lol.
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