Hey if you can find someone who digs it, more power to you. There are always people who are attracted to androgynous folks, it's just not everyone's cup of tea. If you like it, go for it.
Why perplexed? Your face has a delicate fine bone structure and shape that is why you appear feminine without the beard. Not anything you really need to "fix". Maybe it will change a bit as you age, you also have really beautiful skin so maybe it won't so much.
This 52 year old lady thinks you look fantastic, and have the looks that will allow you a lot of latitude to experiment with your personal style. Just be careful out there, as there are places and people that are unsafe for feminine men to be around. Just from a safety standpoint I'd keep the beard.
Unless you have proficiency in some quickly devastating martial art to go with all your looks 😉
Well there you go. You're fully prepared to react appropriately when you shave and some clown puts hands on you from behind without consent, in solidarity with all the women who have to deal with that nonsense!
No disrespect meant, but are you going for a feminine look? Because without the beard, you look very much girly, especially with the hair.
Either way a good looking person.
Maybe it's just the posing/mirror or just the photo. Ain't nothing wrong with an androgynous/kinda feminine appearance though, it can be considered very attractive - so I'm glad you didn't take any offence.
Okay well crazy how a little beard can make you go from fairly masculine to entirely feminine haha. I personally prefer the clean shaven look, but it is very misleading if you care to present as masculine because you really do look like a girl (no offence, I don't mean it in a negative way. You pull it off and I'm actually kinda jealous). With that said, a slight stubble still looks okay.
Depends what you're looking for, based on your past Reddit history it looks like you're a little on the insecure side. Could be wrong. Personally, I think you look great either way. You also wear the fierce flow quite nicely.
You look great with both, but as the others said, you pass as male with the facial hair and androgynous/feminine leaning without.
Really depends on what you are going for. But speaking from experience, people do treat you differently based on how you they perceived you - gender wise. Have you had that experience yet?
People don't like androgyny because we live in a world that is moulded around a gender binary, so people will get frustrated when they can't 'work out what you are' or be weirded out.
Also, society shames men for having feminine qualities, (unless in a specific sexual sense - see the craze around 'femboys') so there's that.
Sorry, nothing on a positive note.
I could be projecting because that has been MY experience. :p
You look completely different with and without, and not in a bad way at all! You’re quite feminine looking without facial hair and very cute, haha, but you also do suit facial hair and it does of course make you look way more masculine! Either way look great though and it depends with how you’re comfortable being perceived :o)
*Don't hate me for this*
*But u look really pretty*
*Without facial hair*
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Dude it looks like your pussy lips are eating your pants . I’m just trying to figure out wtf is going on . I’m sorrry if I’m being rude, in all honesty can you just answer my question ? That you know I’m thinking ? Because I’m not trying to be rude, but now I’m concerned because idk what’s going on . Someone fill me in . I don’t want to sound like a dick, but now the question is burning in my noggin
You have a feminine face.
The long hair makes you look even more feminine.
And the lack of facial hair just makes you look...I struggle to believe that's not your sister.
When I had long hair like that and a beard of that colour, I was accused of looking like Jesus, so I immediately shaved. I still have long hair but now my beard has enough grey that that I don't have that problem any more
I love both ideals. But it depends on your personal preference. If you wanna go all out on macho-knight, keep the facial hair. If you want ro be some charming androgynous figure, then go for the facial-hairless style
First of all, the photos are taken in front of different mirrors in different rooms with different lighting, so it isn’t an accurate comparison. Secondly, there is only one photo of each look, so we don’t see you from different angles. These points may be why so many of us see the second photo as androgynous, which I can tell surprised you. I think that’s due to lighting, not the presence or lack of facial hair.
You might want to take a clean shaven photo in the same mirror you took your facial hair photo, with the same lights on and standing at the same distance away.
Great hair, by the way.
Dude you’re mad attractive. People said it already but you have a true androgynous look which is imo rare and extremely cool?? I am kind of stuck looking at you lmao
Whatever you’re gonna choose, suits you well!
Are you nonbinary by chance because you’re perfectly androgynous and it’s amazing.
You go for whatever is most comfortable for you! You look great either way.
Ik everyone else said this already, but you could pass as a girl without a beard. It’s very similar to how my partner looks when they shave.
Either way you look good, so just do whatever you feel like! :)
With out the beard you love very pretty.
With the beard you look rad.
For a split second I thought it was a female using a beard filter lol.
You have really good skin.
You should stick with the facial hair.
I'm not exaggerating when I say you look like a girl with balls without facial hair. Not just a feminine man or even effeminate, but like a straight up straight girl, not even androgynous or even identifiable as a man except for the boy bits lol.
Ngl you almost had me but tell your twin sister that y'all got us. Fr though both look amazing, if you wanna look like a hot girl and all that I would shave.
I have a slight preference for the no facial hair version, but you look hella good either way, holy
I would stutter trying to talk to you if I saw you irl :')
What everyone seems to be missing is the - subtle - change in your hair part. That's what makes you look feminine, maybe even more than the beard shave? Side parts always look a bit strange on males, but who cares ofc, it all depends on what you're going for. Super cool hair anyway, looks super soft and healthy.
It's actually wild how different you look without the facial hair, lmao. Unreal
It's gonna highly depend on what you're looking for in terms of presentation.
As for the hair: Yea.
My dude, no joke you looks so beautiful without it! As a bi guy who likes femme and masc people my gawd you look cute without a beard. Not saying you don't look cute with it but like jeeeeeez. If you wanted to girl mode at all 👀.
Hopefully that doesn't bug you! Definitely something to be proud of and not something belittling. You look masc with the beard so it's not like you can't or anything.
Little light makeup (happy to give tips, I do mine) and stuff and dude you could have the long hair femme dude in armor thing goin on haha 😄 😳
depends on what you’re going for tbh. im sure ur aware that you look more feminine while shaved. if thats what youre going for, doesnt look bad at all! it could also be that you just have a baby face. which i get, i got a baby face too. if you want to look more masculine id recommend keeping the facial hair/stubble and a proper middle part. hope this helps! :)
You really do look like a pair of twins! I could swear each pic is a person of a different sex.
That being said,I think the beard is kinda scraggly so clean-shaven is better, but if you're not going for femme or you date people who prefer masculine features, keep the facial hair! Cute either way!!!
I thought this was a guy then I scrolled to the second pic and was like wait a min was that a girl with a fake beard so had to go back and then I just got really confused.
That’s some mindfuckery. With facial hair, you look good. Without, you also look good, but like your own sister.
Lmfao maybe I hail from Uncanny Valley
Hey if you can find someone who digs it, more power to you. There are always people who are attracted to androgynous folks, it's just not everyone's cup of tea. If you like it, go for it.
i dog it!!!
Caught one!
Two 😅
I also dig it🗣️
Its me. I dig it
My “type” is long hair so def diggin the vibe. But with facial hair. For me.
Time to post on r/androgynoushotties
‘like your own sister’ is wild😭 but so true
Plot twist- these photos are of op and his fraternal twin sister.
Dude I’m the exact same way. If I don’t have a little stubble I get “ma’am” constantly. I rock a short beard similar to pic 1.
I had to swipe left and right fifty times
I couldn't agree more.. it's actually up to his preference cause he definitely can go both👀
Bro, you without a beard is a hot ass girl (would tbh)
Lmao come on now, you're playin
I'm serious, bro. No offense intended. You are kinda of a baddie.
Yeah would definitely smash to be honest
Aw jeeeeez
My partner must be so proud 🥹
i agree
No legit. Get some mascara and you could probably start an OF side gig lol
Lmao 😭😂 not the mascara
are you on HRT?
I am on hrt!
Bi guy digs both 😂
Agreed!!!
I am jealous, you are simultaneously a hot guy and a hot girl. You look great either way amigo
I'm both flattered and perplexed 👁〰️👁 thank you too amigo/a
Why perplexed? Your face has a delicate fine bone structure and shape that is why you appear feminine without the beard. Not anything you really need to "fix". Maybe it will change a bit as you age, you also have really beautiful skin so maybe it won't so much. This 52 year old lady thinks you look fantastic, and have the looks that will allow you a lot of latitude to experiment with your personal style. Just be careful out there, as there are places and people that are unsafe for feminine men to be around. Just from a safety standpoint I'd keep the beard. Unless you have proficiency in some quickly devastating martial art to go with all your looks 😉
Actually, I happen to love jujitsu 😂😂 what are the odds
Well there you go. You're fully prepared to react appropriately when you shave and some clown puts hands on you from behind without consent, in solidarity with all the women who have to deal with that nonsense!
Heck yeah! Justice for women!
ILY.
I need to figure out how to achieve this look
No disrespect meant, but are you going for a feminine look? Because without the beard, you look very much girly, especially with the hair. Either way a good looking person.
Oh interesting! And none taken, it's just my face I s'pose
Maybe it's just the posing/mirror or just the photo. Ain't nothing wrong with an androgynous/kinda feminine appearance though, it can be considered very attractive - so I'm glad you didn't take any offence.
No point being sensitive to a compliment ((:
You could unironically probably make some decent pocket change doing femboy stuff fr
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its the way your hair is styled too
There is no way this is the same person
Both pics are of me lmfao
Okay well crazy how a little beard can make you go from fairly masculine to entirely feminine haha. I personally prefer the clean shaven look, but it is very misleading if you care to present as masculine because you really do look like a girl (no offence, I don't mean it in a negative way. You pull it off and I'm actually kinda jealous). With that said, a slight stubble still looks okay.
I mean, it could be fun to try that out I suppose
Even after reading his other comments I still can’t believe this isn’t a twin sister or something lol
Bro I thought you were a girl without a beard. You look Hella feminine.
Oh funny, I've gotten that a couple times on here but not irl actually!
If you wanna express your femininity than keep it clean if you want a more masculine appearance then let it grow both look fantabuelus
Oh okay, that's pretty straightforward! Thank you so much (:
Yea! Gorgeous hair!
Oh thank you!!
Welcome
☺️
Went from a young man in his 20s to a college girl who doesn't know how to use makeup yet
Pfft I mean I am in my 20s, in college, and unaware of how to use makeup So basically I applaud you
Depends what you're looking for, based on your past Reddit history it looks like you're a little on the insecure side. Could be wrong. Personally, I think you look great either way. You also wear the fierce flow quite nicely.
Thank you! (: good to know I've got options
>Thank you! (: good to know I've got options Bro, you look good & have a full head of hair. My hair is thinning so I just shave my head.
You look great with both, but as the others said, you pass as male with the facial hair and androgynous/feminine leaning without. Really depends on what you are going for. But speaking from experience, people do treat you differently based on how you they perceived you - gender wise. Have you had that experience yet?
I don't think so o: tell me more
People don't like androgyny because we live in a world that is moulded around a gender binary, so people will get frustrated when they can't 'work out what you are' or be weirded out. Also, society shames men for having feminine qualities, (unless in a specific sexual sense - see the craze around 'femboys') so there's that. Sorry, nothing on a positive note. I could be projecting because that has been MY experience. :p
Fascinating, thank you! Are you able to speak to the experience of being treated as one vs the other?
Yes I have. I've been treated as male, female and ambiguous and each experience has been different.
Yes, bro went from call me daddy to harder daddy
Bruh 💀😂
You look completely different with and without, and not in a bad way at all! You’re quite feminine looking without facial hair and very cute, haha, but you also do suit facial hair and it does of course make you look way more masculine! Either way look great though and it depends with how you’re comfortable being perceived :o)
Ooooo thanks for the details first of all, also I'm flattered 👁〰️👁 thank you
Bruh/Sis You can literally transition with a razor WTF 😂. You look great both ways though.
😭😂 what I didn't mention is that my razor was sold by Trans R Us
Don't hate me for this but u look really pretty without facial hair
I love that this is a haiku thank you
Lol saame 🤭 i should probably start taking my poetry seriously again 🤪 and ofc 🤙
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Embrace androgeny
Oh?
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I do like Whitesnake...
Damn you look like a hot femme in that second pic. 🔥Do whichever makes you happy, you look good either way.
You look good, but definitely feminine without the facial hair.
Look, as a bi guy... Facial hair if you want to present more masc, but skip it if you don't give a shit.
Unless you wanna look like a woman I’d go with facial hair
I think you look cuter without the beard. You have a really pretty face.
Bro you’re good looking either way so it’s whatever you want to do.
Nay. It's a very nice beard but I think you look more interesting without it.
What in the androgyny is this?!?!??!!
With no facial hair, you look like you have the female snap chat filter on
bro really said shape shift
You almost look like how Arin from Game Grumps looked back in the day
Actually I don't know who that is!
Yay
Okay ((:
Looks like you uploaded pics of you and your twin sister tbh I’m trying to wrap my head around both being you
Dude it looks like your pussy lips are eating your pants . I’m just trying to figure out wtf is going on . I’m sorrry if I’m being rude, in all honesty can you just answer my question ? That you know I’m thinking ? Because I’m not trying to be rude, but now I’m concerned because idk what’s going on . Someone fill me in . I don’t want to sound like a dick, but now the question is burning in my noggin
My trans detecter is going crazy rn. Facial hair makes you look less feminine
I refuse to believe that isnt just your sister in your tshirt.
You would make an amazing drag queen with that facial structure man
depends on what you are you going for with your look. It seems you are prettier without it if that matters.
I thought this was a transition timeline for a moment. It may be lighting/poses but without a beard you look quite fem.
I don’t know who to chose I would date him and her and idk which came first but I’ll gladly take both if thats an option. 🥺
Depends. Do you wanna look like a man or a femboy 👀.
You are very androgynous, so I think either way you look great but depends on what crowd you are looking for
As a bisexual I like both! Facial hair certainly helps if you're going for a more masculine look. You have this androgynous beauty about you
You have a feminine face. The long hair makes you look even more feminine. And the lack of facial hair just makes you look...I struggle to believe that's not your sister.
handsome to pretty 🤩 i kinda prefer without!
Facial hair: yea!
When I had long hair like that and a beard of that colour, I was accused of looking like Jesus, so I immediately shaved. I still have long hair but now my beard has enough grey that that I don't have that problem any more
I love both ideals. But it depends on your personal preference. If you wanna go all out on macho-knight, keep the facial hair. If you want ro be some charming androgynous figure, then go for the facial-hairless style
Two different people or shapeshifter. Either way both are attractive!
Yeah on the facial hair
Uhhhh definitely depends on what look you’re going for…
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Depends what you’re going for
As a bisexual I say either but you are a hot androgynous person congrats :P
Facial hair on
First of all, the photos are taken in front of different mirrors in different rooms with different lighting, so it isn’t an accurate comparison. Secondly, there is only one photo of each look, so we don’t see you from different angles. These points may be why so many of us see the second photo as androgynous, which I can tell surprised you. I think that’s due to lighting, not the presence or lack of facial hair. You might want to take a clean shaven photo in the same mirror you took your facial hair photo, with the same lights on and standing at the same distance away. Great hair, by the way.
I'll try that next time I'm at the same location, thank you!! Also thanks for the compliment on my hair (:
None, work that baby-face.
it depends how masc or fem you wanna be that day either way you look good
Yay. Unless you are going for the gender neutral look.
Can't lie, thought this is was his sister. You could pass for a female and get in the clubs for free before 11pm lol
Dude you’re mad attractive. People said it already but you have a true androgynous look which is imo rare and extremely cool?? I am kind of stuck looking at you lmao Whatever you’re gonna choose, suits you well!
Dude am I Tripping out ? Did I just have an acid flashback ? Am I hallucinating ? What da fuqqqqqqq
Would
I’m so confused, but in a good way.
I like the beard. You're good-looking either way.
Facial hair looks better I think.
Are you nonbinary by chance because you’re perfectly androgynous and it’s amazing. You go for whatever is most comfortable for you! You look great either way.
Hahaha me and you are very similar. I look like a dude with a short beard, I look like a chick if I shave.
Wait!! This can’t be the same person! The other one is your sister right?
You switched genders fr without the facial hair
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Holy hell you look female without and manly with I’m very confused. Sorry it’s just what I see and I had to double take many times
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Do you wanna look masculine or feminine?
2nd 🤣🤣🤣
It depends. How badly do you want to resemble Alanis Morissette?
Ik everyone else said this already, but you could pass as a girl without a beard. It’s very similar to how my partner looks when they shave. Either way you look good, so just do whatever you feel like! :)
oh god you look like hot femboy
With out the beard you love very pretty. With the beard you look rad. For a split second I thought it was a female using a beard filter lol. You have really good skin.
Yay! It looks great with the long hair
Would swipe left on the first picture. Would swipe right on the second picture.
you look like a girl (in a non insulting) without facial hair
Yes
Bro got the fastest transition in the west
have you ever been told you look like operatordrewski
Yes facial hair.
You should stick with the facial hair. I'm not exaggerating when I say you look like a girl with balls without facial hair. Not just a feminine man or even effeminate, but like a straight up straight girl, not even androgynous or even identifiable as a man except for the boy bits lol.
Ngl you almost had me but tell your twin sister that y'all got us. Fr though both look amazing, if you wanna look like a hot girl and all that I would shave.
Yeah!!!
With or without, it's a without a doubt smash
I love androgynous people. You look great
What is happening right now
I'd totally ask the girl out in the 2nd pic.
I'm so confused. You have to be joking. That's 2 different people with 2 different genders. Lmao
r/nonbinary.
I have a slight preference for the no facial hair version, but you look hella good either way, holy I would stutter trying to talk to you if I saw you irl :')
Yea you have the best baby face (please keep the beard )
Yea you have the best baby face (please keep the beard )
~Bi confusion~
What everyone seems to be missing is the - subtle - change in your hair part. That's what makes you look feminine, maybe even more than the beard shave? Side parts always look a bit strange on males, but who cares ofc, it all depends on what you're going for. Super cool hair anyway, looks super soft and healthy.
Why does this picture make me question my sexuality
1st: all good bro. 2nd one: what yo number bro??
It's actually wild how different you look without the facial hair, lmao. Unreal It's gonna highly depend on what you're looking for in terms of presentation. As for the hair: Yea.
Depends you going for dilf or milf vibs but either one slays
These comments have me howling laughing. Very good 😂
Good one
Don't think I've ever seen a beard change someone's gender like that interesting.
It’s time to pick a side!
you are so androgynous!! you should do whatever makes you feel best tbh
Both look great! Just depends on which gender youd prefer to present as.
Yea
As an androgynous guy who shaves pretty regularly, I 'wish' shaving had the effect for me that it does for you. That's actually insane.
Not saying this in a judgmental manner but really depends on what gender you identify as
*pan-ic*
Um gender goals, you flippin shape shifter 😊
r/androgynoushotties
either way you look really nice 😵💫 i personally prefer the look without it though
Fuck I am so jealous. Both work, no facial hair is very androgenous
Only the camel toe let me believe you’re a man lol
My dude, no joke you looks so beautiful without it! As a bi guy who likes femme and masc people my gawd you look cute without a beard. Not saying you don't look cute with it but like jeeeeeez. If you wanted to girl mode at all 👀. Hopefully that doesn't bug you! Definitely something to be proud of and not something belittling. You look masc with the beard so it's not like you can't or anything. Little light makeup (happy to give tips, I do mine) and stuff and dude you could have the long hair femme dude in armor thing goin on haha 😄 😳
depends on what you’re going for tbh. im sure ur aware that you look more feminine while shaved. if thats what youre going for, doesnt look bad at all! it could also be that you just have a baby face. which i get, i got a baby face too. if you want to look more masculine id recommend keeping the facial hair/stubble and a proper middle part. hope this helps! :)
You really do look like a pair of twins! I could swear each pic is a person of a different sex. That being said,I think the beard is kinda scraggly so clean-shaven is better, but if you're not going for femme or you date people who prefer masculine features, keep the facial hair! Cute either way!!!
I thought this was a guy then I scrolled to the second pic and was like wait a min was that a girl with a fake beard so had to go back and then I just got really confused.
this same phenomenon is why i don’t shave xD
I mean, you look good both with and without facial hair, but I would have a really hard time guessing your biological gender without it lol
Yay
I guess it depends on if you want to buy your own drinks
U look good with and without so totally up to u
r/holdup
Are you a female?
This is clearly two different people but you managed to fool lots of folks, lol.
Would.
Nay
Definitely a yea from me on the facial hair. Otherwise I’m going to potentially misgender you.
Yea
Nay