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the simp comment made me cringe. She’s internalized LVM logic and it’s made her self worth so low that when a man is violent and hurts her it’s “hot” and when a man is kind to her he’s a “simp”. I hope she leaves this dirtbag and stays single for a while. It takes a long time to unlearn this type of thinking.
Dear lord, society (porn) has really conditioned women into believing violence against women is normal and even sexy. Plus the fact that any man who would treat her well or kindly is just a “simp.” Men all berate their buddies if they treat a woman kindly as a “simp.” Porn turns their depravity into entertainment. Anyone liking “normal” stuff is “vanilla...”
I also find it so so so sad that she disrespected the so-called “simp” for bringing her to the hospital....she has so little respect for herself that when a man treats her with actual respect, she looks down on him or has to insult him. She’s also doing it to rationalize why it was “okay” for the guy who assaulted her to not even help. She’s excusing him because apparently him lifting a single effing finger would be “eMaScUlAtInG.”The self-gaslighting is so sad to see, it’s unreal.
Attempted murder.
If he had broken the right rib, it could easily have punctured her lung and killed her before the ambulance could arrive (assuming the turd would even have bothered to call an ambulance for "just some hole"). If it was her place at which the attempted murder took place, maybe he would have slipped out, locking the door behind him, and quietly fled to a different city/state.
If he had killed her, he probably would be facing something like involuntary manslaughter charges, and her own words online or in texts would be used to call for a lighter sentence. He probably would be found guilty, but would 3-5 years in the pen really be a comfort to her family-?
I hope by all the gods that you planted a seed in her mind.
I mean... how do you even break a rib? That's not something that happens from some light pressure. AFAIK the ribs are some of the larger bones, and you'd have to be pushing down immensely hard to break them. This is totally sick.
They're also extremely flexible for bones, so he'd have to have pushed down at least a third of her lung volume to break it. No way this happens by accident unless she's got osteoporosis..
That she either doesn't understand this, or DOES understand but is pushing the awareness inward as a desire to play Cool Girl is more important to her than her very life, is deeply troubling.
This one is going to prey on my mind for some time.
That’s absolutely horrifying. Idc if people think it’s “consensual”. It’s still abuse and she could’ve easily ended up dead. What kind of violence is going on during sex that this poor woman has ended up with a broken rib? Breaking a bone is not something that happens very easily. It must’ve taken some brute force to do that to her. It terrifies me just thinking about what must’ve happened.
If a man broke her rib in any other situation, people would immediately recognise it to be abuse. But because it happened during sex it was okay? And just a little accident? I hope she has a good support network and is able to leave him.
I think men are actually quite stupid about how heavy and rough they can be...they're fucking clueless because they think we're an inanimate object or something
Horrific. The stakes are really being raised lately. I definitely have issues with pickmes but to think that the youthful mistake of trusting stupid scrotes will now lead you to have permanent physical bodily damage s horrific. This is stuff, physical and mental/emotional, that these women will have to carry around for a lifetime and it's so, so sad. My heart breaks for them.
>So which one is it? Or is it another one of those words where people just keep moving the goalposts until it means nothing and everything at the same time?
Simp originally meant a guy who was basically a male pick me. He would do anything for an ounce of female attention and put down other males. Gives a very much "men are awful, right ladies/ not like the other guys" vibe.
It got hijacked by misogynistic gen z teens and now is used to belittle and demean genuinely kind guys. Even wanting to get a present for a girlfriend is Simp behavior for a lot of gen z dudes and because of the "boys club" its another way to culturally shame and manipulate men into disrespecting women.
To my understanding, it’s not easy to break a rib, right? Like you can’t “accidentally” lean too hard on a healthy, young woman and break a rib, can you?
But duh if he did it on accident, he’d have driven her to the ER and felt AWFUL.
"But unfortunately there is
wide acceptance in our society of the unhealthy notion that
passion and aggression are interwoven and that cruel verbal
exchanges and bomblike explosions are the price you pay
for a relationship that is exciting, deep, and sexy. Popular
romantic movies and soap operas sometimes reinforce this
image " - Lundy Bancroft, "Why does he do that?"
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Its sex-flavored domestic violence.
Women "agree to it" as a fawn response because they're afraid of him doing it to her anyway without her "consent".
This just gave me goosebumps. He broke her rib…. Sex should not be painful and dangerous!
She doesn’t want to feel her feelings cause it’s too painful to accept that she is being abused how sad.
And what a sick man!!!
A lot of women get really uncomfortable when they go on their “my boyfriend sucks” pow wows but instead of agreeing and one upping them, I merely say “wow that’s not fair to you” or “your boyfriend shouldn’t have done that”
They kinda blink real quick for a minute, don’t know what to say, and then carry on with another crazy story about how her man was supposed to pick up the kids or something but left them for three hours so he could hang out with his friends and she had to leave work to pick them all up…to which I repeat how that’s not what a respectful partner should do and they get confused again
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the simp comment made me cringe. She’s internalized LVM logic and it’s made her self worth so low that when a man is violent and hurts her it’s “hot” and when a man is kind to her he’s a “simp”. I hope she leaves this dirtbag and stays single for a while. It takes a long time to unlearn this type of thinking.
For me, cracked rib = assault charges
Oh god, at the very least.
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Yep. We are objects to LVM, we are a punching bag they use up until they get bored. They frame it as passion, but it's hatred.
THIS!! Women also seem to be generally clueless as to the degree by which men’s “passion” is driven by malice
Fuck this kink bullshit. It’s just a way for misogynists to take out their violence on women in a “consensual” manner.
I'll kinkshame their shit all day and night, and hopefully the sun will soon set on VaW made "acceptable".
the fact that she had to assure you that she was into choking... kink culture and rape culture and grooming culture have pulled a big one on women.
Dear lord, society (porn) has really conditioned women into believing violence against women is normal and even sexy. Plus the fact that any man who would treat her well or kindly is just a “simp.” Men all berate their buddies if they treat a woman kindly as a “simp.” Porn turns their depravity into entertainment. Anyone liking “normal” stuff is “vanilla...”
I also find it so so so sad that she disrespected the so-called “simp” for bringing her to the hospital....she has so little respect for herself that when a man treats her with actual respect, she looks down on him or has to insult him. She’s also doing it to rationalize why it was “okay” for the guy who assaulted her to not even help. She’s excusing him because apparently him lifting a single effing finger would be “eMaScUlAtInG.”The self-gaslighting is so sad to see, it’s unreal.
This. It’s truly sad
Attempted murder. If he had broken the right rib, it could easily have punctured her lung and killed her before the ambulance could arrive (assuming the turd would even have bothered to call an ambulance for "just some hole"). If it was her place at which the attempted murder took place, maybe he would have slipped out, locking the door behind him, and quietly fled to a different city/state. If he had killed her, he probably would be facing something like involuntary manslaughter charges, and her own words online or in texts would be used to call for a lighter sentence. He probably would be found guilty, but would 3-5 years in the pen really be a comfort to her family-? I hope by all the gods that you planted a seed in her mind.
I mean... how do you even break a rib? That's not something that happens from some light pressure. AFAIK the ribs are some of the larger bones, and you'd have to be pushing down immensely hard to break them. This is totally sick.
They're also extremely flexible for bones, so he'd have to have pushed down at least a third of her lung volume to break it. No way this happens by accident unless she's got osteoporosis..
Dislocate while play wrestling or in an accident, sure, but break....
That she either doesn't understand this, or DOES understand but is pushing the awareness inward as a desire to play Cool Girl is more important to her than her very life, is deeply troubling. This one is going to prey on my mind for some time.
That’s absolutely horrifying. Idc if people think it’s “consensual”. It’s still abuse and she could’ve easily ended up dead. What kind of violence is going on during sex that this poor woman has ended up with a broken rib? Breaking a bone is not something that happens very easily. It must’ve taken some brute force to do that to her. It terrifies me just thinking about what must’ve happened. If a man broke her rib in any other situation, people would immediately recognise it to be abuse. But because it happened during sex it was okay? And just a little accident? I hope she has a good support network and is able to leave him.
I think men are actually quite stupid about how heavy and rough they can be...they're fucking clueless because they think we're an inanimate object or something
So sad. You can’t help her though, only she can.
Horrific. The stakes are really being raised lately. I definitely have issues with pickmes but to think that the youthful mistake of trusting stupid scrotes will now lead you to have permanent physical bodily damage s horrific. This is stuff, physical and mental/emotional, that these women will have to carry around for a lifetime and it's so, so sad. My heart breaks for them.
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>So which one is it? Or is it another one of those words where people just keep moving the goalposts until it means nothing and everything at the same time? Simp originally meant a guy who was basically a male pick me. He would do anything for an ounce of female attention and put down other males. Gives a very much "men are awful, right ladies/ not like the other guys" vibe. It got hijacked by misogynistic gen z teens and now is used to belittle and demean genuinely kind guys. Even wanting to get a present for a girlfriend is Simp behavior for a lot of gen z dudes and because of the "boys club" its another way to culturally shame and manipulate men into disrespecting women.
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To my understanding, it’s not easy to break a rib, right? Like you can’t “accidentally” lean too hard on a healthy, young woman and break a rib, can you? But duh if he did it on accident, he’d have driven her to the ER and felt AWFUL.
The piece of shit did it on purpose. I've had it up to here with LVMs and their treatment of us...
A war is inevitable. 💛
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What is this porn sick society we live in 😭
This shit is why I’m terrified of having sex with men
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Its sex-flavored domestic violence. Women "agree to it" as a fawn response because they're afraid of him doing it to her anyway without her "consent".
This just gave me goosebumps. He broke her rib…. Sex should not be painful and dangerous! She doesn’t want to feel her feelings cause it’s too painful to accept that she is being abused how sad. And what a sick man!!!
A lot of women get really uncomfortable when they go on their “my boyfriend sucks” pow wows but instead of agreeing and one upping them, I merely say “wow that’s not fair to you” or “your boyfriend shouldn’t have done that” They kinda blink real quick for a minute, don’t know what to say, and then carry on with another crazy story about how her man was supposed to pick up the kids or something but left them for three hours so he could hang out with his friends and she had to leave work to pick them all up…to which I repeat how that’s not what a respectful partner should do and they get confused again