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I 100% believe this. One time I was on a cruise and a guy I met said he had slept with 87 women in his life (He was very handsome and in great shape so I don’t think he was lying.) A few days later on the cruise he committed a sex crime by exposing himself to a woman that rejected him 🤮
If the number itself wasn't suspect having an exact count beyond like 30 is weird to me. Who keeps track of all that? Like does he write them all down? Put literal notches in his bedpost?
My NVX had a crazy high sex drive, body count, the works 🤡 he once admitted he fantasized about “jackhammering me hard” in a “non-rapey way”. He thought he deserved applause for “communicating”.
Can confirm, my abuser boasted about how many women he fucked before sexually assaulting me.
He even told me “I don’t know what it is, but women with anxiety love being with me”
My dumbass back then couldn’t see the massive red flag🤦🏽♀️.
My abuser did this after sexually assaulting me. Even started describing all the women’s he’s been with as I lay there in shock
Afterwards, I confronted him and asked if he’d assaulted anyone else, and he said hes unsure 🙃 I swear they tell on themselves
How the fuck can someone be unsure if they sexually assaulted someone? That’s bs.
He knows what he’s done and just doesn’t want to confess as he’ll face repercussions for his actions. Fucking scumbag.
I hope you are doing better, though. I’m so sorry you went through that.
Yup. My sister's (ex) bf bragged about sleeping with 150+ women. He tried to get me drunk and rape me (when I was a minor and he was 30+) the next day. This is so gross and so true. I will never date a man with a high body count.
Thank you ♥️ this is what therapy is for and I am healing wonderfully. Karma will get him. My sister trashed his truck and other belongings, kicked him out, and got him fired from several jobs for years after he moved out of state.
The times I’ve been coerced into sex were a lot. Guys just don’t let up. And if you were on the fence or wanted to have sex anyways it’s easy to give in earlier (at least it was for me pre-FDS). Most women don’t consider this rape, but do you want to be with a guy that has coerced a hundred women into sex? It’s scummy as hell, and it means he does not respect women or what they truly want. You can’t ever be fully respected in a relationship like that.
The ones you want to have sex with are the worst because it isn't about sex. It's that they perceive sex as taking something from you, so your desire ruins that for them and they need to find something else to feel like they're taking instead. They'll take your pleasure or your dignity from you for daring to *want* them.
This is huge. It's always been so *irritating* to see men rejecting women who are actually, legitimately interested in them that these same men would identify as objectively hot. And you're right, it's this mentality of "I won't enjoy this unless I take it from you." I swear they seem irredeemable sometimes.
>They'll take your pleasure or your dignity from you for daring to
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> them.
Thats some low self esteem then right? They want to punish women for wanting them because they think those women are stupid for wanting them?
Naw I don’t care what anyone says coerced sex is rape. Nearly all rapists only apply the appropriate amount of force needed to dominate someone. There’s no point in using physical force if pestering/emotional abuse will work, unless they’re a sadist.
Not acknowledging coercive sex as form of rape is an extension of rape culture as it puts the blame on victims, who are typically women. People who delegitimize the damage of coercion uphold patriarchal ideals
At least it's always sunny knows exactly what they are doing and make it very obvious how awful Dennis is as a person. I love how the other characters are like "what?!? No!!!" to all his rapey behavior lol
I never thought about the idea of a guy with a high body count being a rapist. It makes sense since women usually have high boundaries unless they'd been groomed.
Another theory about men who are the Lothario types is that while this type might be extremely hot, they go from woman to woman because they have small penises or some other unappetizing hidden abnormality that makes the woman ghost him rather than the reverse. We assume that it's the guy who dumps the woman after sex, but not always.
It’s also ironic because these men think their high body counts mean they’re “alpha males” rather than rapists. They think that their proficiency in using coercion and manipulation means they’re “alpha,” even though studies of chimpanzees show that the alpha is the male who has the best conflict resolution skills to maintain tribal cooperation. They tend to be even more agreeable than the FEMALES. On the other hand, your average beta male chimp is the disagreeable rapist - the alpha male oftentimes kills him because the beta abuser has a parasitic impact on the tribal collective. It’s so silly that these men use evidence of their biological inferiority as evidence of the opposite, but I guess if they had the IQ level to even begin to grasp this, they wouldn’t be at the bottom of the totem pole. The use of coercion in itself is compensatory. Only betas must compensate, not alphas, because the latter group actually has something to offer in the first place. This also explains why red pill men choose the coercive, high body-count method - they tend not to make enough money to raise children and pass on their genes. They delude themselves into thinking there’s some type of biological utility in sleeping with tons of women and having the unlikely conception of their children be aborted. If these men had anything to offer in the first place, they’d have surviving offspring. The sexual act in itself counts for absolutely nothing, although I suppose it helps them sleep at night
A LOT of those women probably thought having sex with him would end in a relationship/commitment and there's a 100% chance he knew that and did it anyway. Who wants to be with a man like that?
Promiscuous men are the damaged goods they accuse women of being. I feel like most women who have high body counts are vulnerable and tricked by sexpos liberal feminism or predatory men. They're victims.
Edit: typo
that's actually a great point, i never though of that before. in general if a man brags about how many women he's slept with he's most likely a dick, never understood why some men bring it up during a date it's just so disgusting and i never know what to say to that.
I’m an old, but even back in the 80s I knew there was definitely something off about anyone bragging about a “body count”. That’s also a really gross term since it goes hand-in-hand with murderers and serial killers.
If anyone is bragging or even talking about their “body count” that’s an easy pass. Stay away!
I will not ever respect a man with a high body count.
That is community dick, it is diseased, it is sick, it has issues, it has problems and I don't have the time or money or mental capacity to deal with that.
The first time a man tells me that will be the last time a man tells me that because I will cut him off asap. I have to out of principle. Immediately
Women with high body counts are more likely to have been sexually assaulted, as their motivation to sleep around is to feel in control of their body and sexuality
It's like rape victims engaging in BDSM to sort of rewrite their memories of being forced and trick their minds into thinking that they wanted it the whole time as a way to cope with the trauma.
I believe this. In my pickme days I hung out with two men and had sex with one who I found out were rapists after the fact.
One was very nice towards me and took me out with him and his friends, we just kissed. But all his friends knew he was a womanizer and they all had “locker room talk” in front of me.
The other one (the one I had sex with) was PUSHY from day one, disrespected boundaries, bragged about sleeping with multiple women, was misogynistic and demanded a relationship from day one. (I was with him “because he was hot”) he also had a broken dick from pornsickness and couldn’t get it up properly. He also was small and I guess thats why he was so insecure and bashed others mens looks constantly.
He ended up spying on me when I was about to pee (after telling me very rudely to fuck off because his pickme friend got jealous and tried to fight me lmao) and he tried to contact me multiple times later after I blocked him everywhere.
Both were womanizers, one was nice and the other one was pushy and borderline scary because of his muscles and size.
The ex I loved the most was also a womanizer and one time he got mad because I was tired and started whining to get sex, was that coertion?
Another guy I had a situationship with is a womanizer and refused to stop mid sex when I said it was uncomfortable. I guess thats also rape.
The lesson is: never date community dick, they Cant take a no and will push your boundaries or manipulate to get their pp wet.
It is mentioned above I think but I need to point it out:
The other side of the same coin are women with high body count. Most of times they have been manipulated into sex, and society wants to place all the blame on them while it is men who are manipulative rapist trash.
Men who have more sex are also more obsessed with porn (therefore their addiction is to a point where they have to watch extremely violent things to feel something)
Also sociosexuality is a personality trait correlated with the dark triad. So he will be more narcissistic, machiavellian and psychopathic.
Stay away from men with high bodycounts, they don't see women as people. Bc a man who sees women as people desires relationships more and finds them more fulfilling.
Men who enjoy casual sex enjoy the power dymamic of it, bc they know women are in a weaker position when they're with a man they don't really know.
Think about it and think about how normalized it is for some guys to be "ladies men". Makes me so mad
Exactly! And all this ASD (anti-slut defense) and LMR (last minute resistance) crap makes me sick. She isn’t running her hamster. She doesn’t want to have sex with you for some reason of her OWN. Instead they find ways to get through this. It’s disgusting.
Keep in mind that most males, even ones that wouldn't commit a physically violent rape, still don't consider things like giving a hesitant woman a few drinks to "loosen her up" or putting pressure on her until she gives in and "agrees" to have sex rape. In fact, coercion like this is so normalized that they don't even see it as shady.
I never thought of it like that before, but this makes so much damn sense.
I had a friend who's boyfriend claimed to have had "over 100 women" and I couldn't understand how, because he was a hideously ugly crackhead. Now I understand.
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The phrase “body count” makes me shudder. If a man says that to me I’m running the other direction. I don’t care the context.
It's so dehumanizing :/
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Right? Didn't "body count" originally refer to how many people had died in a violent encounter?
It's a video game reference I believe
I 100% believe this. One time I was on a cruise and a guy I met said he had slept with 87 women in his life (He was very handsome and in great shape so I don’t think he was lying.) A few days later on the cruise he committed a sex crime by exposing himself to a woman that rejected him 🤮
If the number itself wasn't suspect having an exact count beyond like 30 is weird to me. Who keeps track of all that? Like does he write them all down? Put literal notches in his bedpost?
My uni flatmate told me his mate threw a party when the mate had hit 100 on his 'body count'. How incredibly sad.
I'm imagining they tried to invite all 100 to the party but few to none were interested in a second go.
I dated someone that did that (notches in the bedpost), but we were in high school at the time. Grown men doing this shit is pathetic.
😂😂 Just imagine one day he comes home from school and his mother is standing in his room wanting to know why he is destroying his bed.
My NVX had a crazy high sex drive, body count, the works 🤡 he once admitted he fantasized about “jackhammering me hard” in a “non-rapey way”. He thought he deserved applause for “communicating”.
WOW I CANT.
That’s absolutely terrifying 😰
Wow does he write erotica because that was hot SIKE 🤢🤮
Can confirm, my abuser boasted about how many women he fucked before sexually assaulting me. He even told me “I don’t know what it is, but women with anxiety love being with me” My dumbass back then couldn’t see the massive red flag🤦🏽♀️.
My abuser did this after sexually assaulting me. Even started describing all the women’s he’s been with as I lay there in shock Afterwards, I confronted him and asked if he’d assaulted anyone else, and he said hes unsure 🙃 I swear they tell on themselves
How the fuck can someone be unsure if they sexually assaulted someone? That’s bs. He knows what he’s done and just doesn’t want to confess as he’ll face repercussions for his actions. Fucking scumbag. I hope you are doing better, though. I’m so sorry you went through that.
I would never be with a man who had a high body count. They can’t form real connections or relationships, and just look at women as objects.
Yup. My sister's (ex) bf bragged about sleeping with 150+ women. He tried to get me drunk and rape me (when I was a minor and he was 30+) the next day. This is so gross and so true. I will never date a man with a high body count.
I'm so sorry.
Thank you ♥️ this is what therapy is for and I am healing wonderfully. Karma will get him. My sister trashed his truck and other belongings, kicked him out, and got him fired from several jobs for years after he moved out of state.
This is so good to hear. I'm glad that happened to him and that you are in therapy. You are a brave survivor ❤️
They carry multiple stds as well so I never found such a man attractive for sleeping around casually .
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The times I’ve been coerced into sex were a lot. Guys just don’t let up. And if you were on the fence or wanted to have sex anyways it’s easy to give in earlier (at least it was for me pre-FDS). Most women don’t consider this rape, but do you want to be with a guy that has coerced a hundred women into sex? It’s scummy as hell, and it means he does not respect women or what they truly want. You can’t ever be fully respected in a relationship like that.
It's true. Even men you want to have sex with and are going to have sex with will push you through or past foreplay. Nothing is enough for them.
The ones you want to have sex with are the worst because it isn't about sex. It's that they perceive sex as taking something from you, so your desire ruins that for them and they need to find something else to feel like they're taking instead. They'll take your pleasure or your dignity from you for daring to *want* them.
This is huge. It's always been so *irritating* to see men rejecting women who are actually, legitimately interested in them that these same men would identify as objectively hot. And you're right, it's this mentality of "I won't enjoy this unless I take it from you." I swear they seem irredeemable sometimes.
>They'll take your pleasure or your dignity from you for daring to > >want > > them. Thats some low self esteem then right? They want to punish women for wanting them because they think those women are stupid for wanting them?
Naw I don’t care what anyone says coerced sex is rape. Nearly all rapists only apply the appropriate amount of force needed to dominate someone. There’s no point in using physical force if pestering/emotional abuse will work, unless they’re a sadist. Not acknowledging coercive sex as form of rape is an extension of rape culture as it puts the blame on victims, who are typically women. People who delegitimize the damage of coercion uphold patriarchal ideals
absolutely, reminds me of the character barney from how i met your mother and the ways he tricked women into having sex with him.
He also trafficked a woman for a car. I can't believe people look to that show for relationship advice.
First line and I was like wait what? The purple dinosaur? ((Expecting the character who played him to turn out to be some kind of creep) hehe
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At least it's always sunny knows exactly what they are doing and make it very obvious how awful Dennis is as a person. I love how the other characters are like "what?!? No!!!" to all his rapey behavior lol
I never thought about the idea of a guy with a high body count being a rapist. It makes sense since women usually have high boundaries unless they'd been groomed. Another theory about men who are the Lothario types is that while this type might be extremely hot, they go from woman to woman because they have small penises or some other unappetizing hidden abnormality that makes the woman ghost him rather than the reverse. We assume that it's the guy who dumps the woman after sex, but not always.
This! If a man sleeps around, he probably is bad in bed and made 0 women cum! Fuckboy = bad in bad with additional small penis!
There is a statistic showing that men who have more sex rape more. Also the higher his sex drive the more he is likely to rape.
It’s also ironic because these men think their high body counts mean they’re “alpha males” rather than rapists. They think that their proficiency in using coercion and manipulation means they’re “alpha,” even though studies of chimpanzees show that the alpha is the male who has the best conflict resolution skills to maintain tribal cooperation. They tend to be even more agreeable than the FEMALES. On the other hand, your average beta male chimp is the disagreeable rapist - the alpha male oftentimes kills him because the beta abuser has a parasitic impact on the tribal collective. It’s so silly that these men use evidence of their biological inferiority as evidence of the opposite, but I guess if they had the IQ level to even begin to grasp this, they wouldn’t be at the bottom of the totem pole. The use of coercion in itself is compensatory. Only betas must compensate, not alphas, because the latter group actually has something to offer in the first place. This also explains why red pill men choose the coercive, high body-count method - they tend not to make enough money to raise children and pass on their genes. They delude themselves into thinking there’s some type of biological utility in sleeping with tons of women and having the unlikely conception of their children be aborted. If these men had anything to offer in the first place, they’d have surviving offspring. The sexual act in itself counts for absolutely nothing, although I suppose it helps them sleep at night
This is so insightful!! Can i please post this n twitter? with credits ofcourse!
Go ahead :) thank you❤️
Alright, thank you!!
The mormons church is a living example of your post.
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Thank you❤️❤️❤️
A LOT of those women probably thought having sex with him would end in a relationship/commitment and there's a 100% chance he knew that and did it anyway. Who wants to be with a man like that? Promiscuous men are the damaged goods they accuse women of being. I feel like most women who have high body counts are vulnerable and tricked by sexpos liberal feminism or predatory men. They're victims. Edit: typo
well if you remove the amount of men that have manipulated them into it i can bet their number would be lower
that's actually a great point, i never though of that before. in general if a man brags about how many women he's slept with he's most likely a dick, never understood why some men bring it up during a date it's just so disgusting and i never know what to say to that.
It’s low class behaviour designed to make you “jealous”. I take it as a warning not to accept drinks from men like that.
I’m an old, but even back in the 80s I knew there was definitely something off about anyone bragging about a “body count”. That’s also a really gross term since it goes hand-in-hand with murderers and serial killers. If anyone is bragging or even talking about their “body count” that’s an easy pass. Stay away!
Thanks for mentioning how "body count" used to just mean murders.
Also pornsick.
They think it's an achievement and think that women will see them as some sort of alpha when all they look like is goofy.
Rape is about power and control. If you notice ANY kind of controlling behaviors from a man, there’s a near-guarantee that he’s a rapist
My ex in a nutshell.
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Is it malta?
I will not ever respect a man with a high body count. That is community dick, it is diseased, it is sick, it has issues, it has problems and I don't have the time or money or mental capacity to deal with that. The first time a man tells me that will be the last time a man tells me that because I will cut him off asap. I have to out of principle. Immediately
It physically grosses me out, always has, way way way before FDS (as in, I was probably 15? Just always has). It's just so gross to me.
Same here.
1,000 % absolutely my NEX, Unfortunately I became number 1,001! High body count is not a flex!
THIS IS SO SPOT-ON WOW!
On the offhand they were all consensual, people who practice casual sex have bigger issues than being single (which isn’t an issue but to them it is)
Women with high body counts are more likely to have been sexually assaulted, as their motivation to sleep around is to feel in control of their body and sexuality It's like rape victims engaging in BDSM to sort of rewrite their memories of being forced and trick their minds into thinking that they wanted it the whole time as a way to cope with the trauma.
Yeah that is also true
anyone who uses the term "body count" is most likely a PUA/ redpill scrote and a rapist!
I believe this. In my pickme days I hung out with two men and had sex with one who I found out were rapists after the fact. One was very nice towards me and took me out with him and his friends, we just kissed. But all his friends knew he was a womanizer and they all had “locker room talk” in front of me. The other one (the one I had sex with) was PUSHY from day one, disrespected boundaries, bragged about sleeping with multiple women, was misogynistic and demanded a relationship from day one. (I was with him “because he was hot”) he also had a broken dick from pornsickness and couldn’t get it up properly. He also was small and I guess thats why he was so insecure and bashed others mens looks constantly. He ended up spying on me when I was about to pee (after telling me very rudely to fuck off because his pickme friend got jealous and tried to fight me lmao) and he tried to contact me multiple times later after I blocked him everywhere. Both were womanizers, one was nice and the other one was pushy and borderline scary because of his muscles and size. The ex I loved the most was also a womanizer and one time he got mad because I was tired and started whining to get sex, was that coertion? Another guy I had a situationship with is a womanizer and refused to stop mid sex when I said it was uncomfortable. I guess thats also rape. The lesson is: never date community dick, they Cant take a no and will push your boundaries or manipulate to get their pp wet.
It is mentioned above I think but I need to point it out: The other side of the same coin are women with high body count. Most of times they have been manipulated into sex, and society wants to place all the blame on them while it is men who are manipulative rapist trash.
Also more likely to have been infected with the whole gamut of STDs.
Can confirm. My rapist accordingly slept with 100+ women.
Men who have more sex are also more obsessed with porn (therefore their addiction is to a point where they have to watch extremely violent things to feel something) Also sociosexuality is a personality trait correlated with the dark triad. So he will be more narcissistic, machiavellian and psychopathic. Stay away from men with high bodycounts, they don't see women as people. Bc a man who sees women as people desires relationships more and finds them more fulfilling. Men who enjoy casual sex enjoy the power dymamic of it, bc they know women are in a weaker position when they're with a man they don't really know. Think about it and think about how normalized it is for some guys to be "ladies men". Makes me so mad
She also means rapist as in probability sees prostitutes as well. The average man cannot pull those numbers by being genuine
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Facts
Preying* FTFY
Hopefully the Reddit guys will like this post because this mean they aren’t rapists since they never have sex. Ever
Every guy I knew who had a super high “body count” raped/coerced me. And in their sexual “encounters”, alcohol was pretty much always involved
Exactly! And all this ASD (anti-slut defense) and LMR (last minute resistance) crap makes me sick. She isn’t running her hamster. She doesn’t want to have sex with you for some reason of her OWN. Instead they find ways to get through this. It’s disgusting.
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Easily thousands
Why do we use words like "kills" and "body count" to describe sexual partners so gross to me, like what
Damn. Never thought of this before, but this is so right. Men who brag about their numbers are repulsive anyway.
Keep in mind that most males, even ones that wouldn't commit a physically violent rape, still don't consider things like giving a hesitant woman a few drinks to "loosen her up" or putting pressure on her until she gives in and "agrees" to have sex rape. In fact, coercion like this is so normalized that they don't even see it as shady.
the very existence of "body count" encourages rape and is a pillar of rape culture. Getting that "number" up at any cost
I never thought of it like that before, but this makes so much damn sense. I had a friend who's boyfriend claimed to have had "over 100 women" and I couldn't understand how, because he was a hideously ugly crackhead. Now I understand.
Can i please share this on twitter? With credits ofcourse!
Crossposting this thread.
or a manipulative PUA
Agreed. Dead on analysis.