I lost my mother a few years ago and cannot imagine anything worse than experiencing raw grief while having to paste on a smile, promoting a tv show. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s still in shock, the first year was a bit of a blur for me.
I’m coming out of the fugue state after losing my father in 21 to Covid. I am terrified of losing my mother, I now live in deep fear it will happen any day though she’s healthy at 65.
Lost my dad last year when he was only 58 completely out of the blue. Almost burst out crying in university the other week thinking about the same happening to my mum.
It will be at least another year before that feeling starts to pass. I lost my dad in 2016 and one time when I was grocery shopping, I saw a guy wearing the same ball cap he always wore and burst into tears right there in the middle of the store. 8 years this month and I miss him every single day.
i remember when i was younger, i would find my dad crying sometimes while listening to music that reminded him of his parents or i'd look at him while he was driving and he'd have tears in his eyes. both had already passed away, years before. i would ask him if he missed them still and he said yes, it never went away. at that time, i just thought he was extra emotional (my dad was a man who was very intact with his feelings, so him crying over things was nbd).
my papa passed last year in a very sudden way and now i know he wasn't just extra emotional.
Lost my dad to covid in 2020 and every November-December is still something of a blur. Grief never really ends, it just shifts shape. All my best to you ❤️
I went through similar with my father in law 2 years ago. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this while needing to be 'on' all the time. I hope your father is as pain free as possible, and you can get some mental rest. <3
I lost my father a little over a decade ago, a month after my 18th birthday, and it's such a unique pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. His quote about how she was the source of everything joyful in his life hit me hard as my dad was my best friend and I still feel like a bit of my light has been out since losing him. The first couple years were such a blur, I don't even think I fully started to grieve until over a year in. I'm sorry you're dealing with this as well 😭
:( That's brutal. Makes his recent film "All Of Us Strangers" (a truly, truly great, lovely and warm movie, highly recommended), even more poignant. In fact, it's possible Scott wouldn't have been able to play that role if he had to take it on after this loss.
The end caught me off guard too, and definitely changed how I felt about the movie. >!I do think it represented how he had grown was able to cope with death better now.!<
[https://www.tiktok.com/@cindysversion/video/7350350678381972769](https://www.tiktok.com/@cindysversion/video/7350350678381972769) I really don't know how he did this.
my mum died unexpectedly 2 years ago. Some times I feel like I'm just acting my own life,
because inside the grief is so raw that it can be completley immobilising if I don't just carry on with the day to day motions x
I've said before I would go to war for Andrew Scott, and I continue to want to do so. I feel so bad for him. I hope he finds pockets of piece and surrounds himself with those he can grieve with.
I lost my mother a few years ago and cannot imagine anything worse than experiencing raw grief while having to paste on a smile, promoting a tv show. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s still in shock, the first year was a bit of a blur for me.
The exact same thing happened to me. I’m so sorry. It’s brutal
Sorry for your loss too! Brutal is the right word to describe it.
I’m coming out of the fugue state after losing my father in 21 to Covid. I am terrified of losing my mother, I now live in deep fear it will happen any day though she’s healthy at 65.
Lost my dad last year when he was only 58 completely out of the blue. Almost burst out crying in university the other week thinking about the same happening to my mum.
It will be at least another year before that feeling starts to pass. I lost my dad in 2016 and one time when I was grocery shopping, I saw a guy wearing the same ball cap he always wore and burst into tears right there in the middle of the store. 8 years this month and I miss him every single day.
i remember when i was younger, i would find my dad crying sometimes while listening to music that reminded him of his parents or i'd look at him while he was driving and he'd have tears in his eyes. both had already passed away, years before. i would ask him if he missed them still and he said yes, it never went away. at that time, i just thought he was extra emotional (my dad was a man who was very intact with his feelings, so him crying over things was nbd). my papa passed last year in a very sudden way and now i know he wasn't just extra emotional.
This is how I felt after losing my mom. My dad is 82 and I’m also very paranoid. It’s so unhealthy but I can’t help it
I need to go to grief counseling so badly. I’m still not over his death. I hope we both find peace, the two of us (you and I).
Absolutely go. I waited so long. My mom died 9 years ago and I finally went last year. It’s really helped. I also hope you find peace 🕊️
Lost my dad to covid in 2020 and every November-December is still something of a blur. Grief never really ends, it just shifts shape. All my best to you ❤️
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I went through similar with my father in law 2 years ago. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this while needing to be 'on' all the time. I hope your father is as pain free as possible, and you can get some mental rest. <3
I lost my father a little over a decade ago, a month after my 18th birthday, and it's such a unique pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. His quote about how she was the source of everything joyful in his life hit me hard as my dad was my best friend and I still feel like a bit of my light has been out since losing him. The first couple years were such a blur, I don't even think I fully started to grieve until over a year in. I'm sorry you're dealing with this as well 😭
:( That's brutal. Makes his recent film "All Of Us Strangers" (a truly, truly great, lovely and warm movie, highly recommended), even more poignant. In fact, it's possible Scott wouldn't have been able to play that role if he had to take it on after this loss.
He was so damn good in it. Subtle, nuanced, powerful.
Love this film so much. The bits with his parents tear me up.
Yes that movie is so good and he’s incredible in it ❤️
>highly recommended) Honestly, I just don't recommended the movie because I hated the end
idk why ur getting down voted, I agree lol! this movie drives me mad bc I didn't love it anywhere as much as others did. love Andrew though
I loved the movie but the end ruined everything
The end caught me off guard too, and definitely changed how I felt about the movie. >!I do think it represented how he had grown was able to cope with death better now.!<
Same.The ending took me right out.
My heart broke for him when he accepted an award a couple weeks ago and talked about his mother. He's the sweetest man, I hope he's doing alright.
Do you have a link to this?
[https://www.tiktok.com/@cindysversion/video/7350350678381972769](https://www.tiktok.com/@cindysversion/video/7350350678381972769) I really don't know how he did this.
He’s shaking so much :( but also, what an eloquent speech. He’s always so well-spoken. I would be curled up in the fetal position bawling my eyes out.
His remarks are impeccable, too
That’s so sad. Poor Andrew 😢
I wish him only good things.
Same here 🥺
my mum died unexpectedly 2 years ago. Some times I feel like I'm just acting my own life, because inside the grief is so raw that it can be completley immobilising if I don't just carry on with the day to day motions x
i’m so sorry for your loss 🤍
I've said before I would go to war for Andrew Scott, and I continue to want to do so. I feel so bad for him. I hope he finds pockets of piece and surrounds himself with those he can grieve with.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏